The Word Couples Use more Than "I Love You"

It's a true test to your relationship.

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
One of sixty seven LIGHTFM with Cubby Christine producer Christen
What what so? That apparently comes up a lot in
relationships what or huh?

Speaker 2 (00:11):
A lot? So this study is saying, Kubby that older couples,
you decide who's older, they tend to say what more
than they do I love you.

Speaker 1 (00:21):
Now. A lot of people in a relationship don't like
hearing what exactly because it sounds like we're not paying attention.

Speaker 2 (00:27):
That is the issue. There's a lot of frustrated partners
out there who were feeling that, I'll say, you in
general are not paying attention to what we are saying.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
And you know what, there are times I'll look, I'll
take it. I'm a man, I wasn't tuned in and
I really said what because I didn't hear what you said? Yeah,
but legit, I can't sometimes hear things too. My ears
aren't the best. I've had headphones on for over thirty
years in radio. I'm sure I got some ear damage
and there are times I just don't hear and I'm
legit just huh because I just didn't catch it.

Speaker 2 (01:02):
But does it does it lead to uh? Some issues
at times?

Speaker 3 (01:06):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:06):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know it's disrespectful, you know, to
Coco because she just spent two minutes to tell me something.
Oh yes, I didn't get at all. But again, there
are times where I legit was zoning out, but sometimes
I just can't hear.

Speaker 3 (01:22):
I really hope you don't say it like that.

Speaker 2 (01:25):
I know what I felt.

Speaker 1 (01:27):
Well, Kristen, you know, come on, how about Ryan your
hubby is he kind of the same as I am.

Speaker 3 (01:33):
Uh, we were kind of mutual on this, so you know,
we got a lot going on and we have kids
talking over us, so you know, we talked to each other,
we go uh huh uh huh uh huh, and then
a couple hours later, I'll be like, oh, Ryan, did
you know you know X, Y and Z And he goes,
I already told you that two hours ago. So that's
kind of where we're at in my household.

Speaker 2 (01:53):
Yeah, it's just it's what Kuvey mentioned where he said
Coco took two minutes to tell a story and like
none of it, none of it got through. That can
be a little frustrating.

Speaker 1 (02:04):
Yeah, it's wasted breath on your part.

Speaker 2 (02:05):
Yea time and energy, and it's like, oh God, I
gotta go through this again. But I will give you, you know,
because like you, Cubby Eric is in music and he's
a musician, and he'll say to me, he goes, legit,
can't hear you. I'm so sorry. Like I'm trying, I'm
paying attention.

Speaker 1 (02:22):
That's usually when I'm down on my knees and I
have like I'm doing the prayer. I'm like, no, I
really did not hear you. That was legit, just my hearing.
I'm trying to paint the picture. I really just didn't.
That was no, No, you're not You're good. We love
you guys. All right, we'll come right back with well
I have the Tiger crank that up for your ears.
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