October 28, 2025 • 7 mins
Amanda thinks her boyfriend is cheating on her. He disappeared one weekend, saying he was at his grandmother's funeral. Amanda thinks he was with another woman. Find out if he was cheating.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Okay, we're going to go to Cromwell. War of the Roses.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Amanda is on the line having a problem with her boyfriend.
She wants to know if he's cheating, so she wants
to be on War of the Roses. Good morning, Amanda,
Good morning, Well, welcome to the show. Welcome to War
of the Roses. I know that your boyfriend's name is Cole.
Is that correct?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Cole?
Speaker 3 (00:17):
That's correct?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Okay, So how can we help you? Why do you
think Cole is cheating?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Okay, so a few reasons. But Cole and I have
been together for like a few months, okay, and we've
literally like we've talked about living together.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
So it's cerious, Okay.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
A couple of weeks ago, I kind of felt like
he was acting distant, you know, just like when you
can kind of tell that a guy is like not
into it anymore, yep, just like not texting in the
morning saying good morning, kind of like we try to
call at night before bed, and he's been skipping that.
So I was like, oh, and then he just completely
goes dark for like the entire weekend. I hear nothing
(00:55):
from him. He doesn't like send me any memes on Instagram,
like I just I hear nothing, okay. And then when
he finally like reconnects Monday afternoon, he's like, oh, well
my grandmother died and so I had you out of town.
And I was like, oh, okay, yeah of course. But
then that night, I like have a night with my girls,
(01:16):
and we go through his Instagram okay, and we find
his grandma and she's alive and well they like went
out as a family this weekend and got like Italian
food or something. They were like, fully, fine, she's in
perfect health.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Okay, So she's alive. She's alive, not down O. Wait,
he lied. He lied about a dead grandmother.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
He literally lied about his grandmother died.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
Well, maybe he's got like a bunch of grandma's.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Well that's where he could have too, that's actually a bunch.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Yeah, have a bunch of grandma's.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Well, sir, I'm just feeling kind of confused and like,
maybe he does have a bunch of grandma's, but like
the signs are pointing to no.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
You know what, Amanda, It's sketchy to me.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
It's sketchy when a guy all of a sudden stops
calling at night or you're usually getting a tech message
good morning, beautiful, and all of a sudden that stops
and then he goes missing.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
It's a little sketchy.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Yeah, I agree.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
All right, So.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
That's all I need to know, Amanda. We're gonna call
up Cole. We're gonna offer him roses. You're gonna be
listening in the entire time at any point if you
want to confront Coal, you can. If you don't feel comfortable,
you don't have to. Okay, but you're gonna be listening
in Okay, let's do it.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
This is just a weird one.
Speaker 5 (02:24):
Yeah, I'm like, this is if he did live about
the grandmother being dead.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
That's so messed up. Can't make that stuff. You're like
a serial killer who does that.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
This may or may not be the right number. I'm
not gonna lie.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Fabulous. Hi is this Coal?
Speaker 6 (02:46):
Yes, it is Hey Cole.
Speaker 5 (02:47):
This is Alyssa over at Flowers Express in Cromwell.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
How's it going this morning?
Speaker 5 (02:52):
Ah?
Speaker 6 (02:52):
Good? Good? That can help you.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Good.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
I'm so glad that you're doing well.
Speaker 5 (02:56):
I'm just calling to let you know that you are
the winner of our online weekly contest.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Congrats to you.
Speaker 6 (03:01):
Oh oh cool, thank you.
Speaker 5 (03:04):
Yeah, so you've just won a dozen long stem roses.
They are absolutely gorgeous. So if you're willing to accept
the roses, we can go ahead and get the whole
bruss started.
Speaker 6 (03:14):
Yeah, I would love that. Can I send them to
someone or pick them?
Speaker 4 (03:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (03:19):
I mean absolutely, we'd be more than happy to accommodate
that for you. I actually have a card in front
of me. It's a really cute card. I can take
down a message if you would like.
Speaker 6 (03:30):
Sure, Can it say to the most beautiful.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
Girl in the world, to the most beautiful girl in
the world. Oh, that's so sweet.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Oh I didn't think.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
I don't think I grabbed a name for the most
beautiful girl in the world.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Who can I address the card to?
Speaker 6 (03:47):
Can you can send it to you? Can you could
address it to Morgan?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
To Morgan?
Speaker 5 (03:51):
You said, Oh, so is Morgan like a girlfriend?
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Is she a wife? Maybe a mom?
Speaker 4 (04:00):
No?
Speaker 6 (04:00):
No, no, she's my girlfriend Ohnice.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
How long have you guys been together?
Speaker 6 (04:06):
Well, we meet on hite like a month ago, and oh,
so it's I think she's I think she's really the one,
really special. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (04:15):
Oh wow, so it's fairly new and you already know
that she's the one. That's that's that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (04:21):
I mean I think after you've been through so many people,
like you've you know, been around and you know, tried
different things, and you just start to know what you
want and you think, like this person is exactly kind
of the person I'm looking for.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
So if you know why Cole, you know what you want?
Speaker 4 (04:37):
Now?
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Is that what you're saying? Hi, this is Amanda Cole.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
I need to jump on the line, Cole.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
It is Courtney from Kiss in the Morning, savannahs the Flores, Walmart,
Jeff is in the studio too. You're on the radio,
and yes, that is your girlfriend, Amanda. Go ahead, Amanda.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Yeah, I mean you want to just tell us a
little about Morgan and what makes her just like the
most perfect fit for you. I'm just so curious, That's.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
What I was going to ask next.
Speaker 6 (05:04):
You know, I really rather do this off air.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
I'm sure. I'm sure.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
Him, Like, let's hear all about her. Did you do this?
Did you did you like call the station and have
them like call me pretending to be forced.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Yep, Yeah, that's that's that's.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
How it happened.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Hello, did you go out of town saying your grandmother
died but you were cheating.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
My grandma is really old and is sick, and I
thought she was going to die. I really wait, hold.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
On, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Speaker 5 (05:36):
When you say sick, do you mean she's gravely ill
or she had a cold.
Speaker 6 (05:43):
She's she's ill. She's not turnally ill, but she's she
has like chronic illness.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Yeah, she was.
Speaker 6 (05:49):
She was out.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
She is the picture of health. She looked more vibrant
than ever in this picture.
Speaker 6 (05:57):
I thought the picture.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
She's fine. You should be so embarrassed.
Speaker 6 (06:02):
Yeah, well, I was going to tell you, you know,
I was gonna.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
When when were you going to tell her about Morgan?
The girl of your dreams?
Speaker 4 (06:10):
The one?
Speaker 2 (06:10):
When were you going to tell your girlfriend about your girlfriend?
Speaker 6 (06:14):
When it became official?
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Wait?
Speaker 5 (06:16):
So you got to have a safe spot to land
before you break things off?
Speaker 1 (06:19):
What a coward.
Speaker 6 (06:21):
That's how it works.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
That is not how.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
It's not whatever. I'm done with you, Amanda. You got
your answers. Yes, he's cheating on you know. His grandmother
isn't dead, and he just sent roses to somebody else.
Speaker 6 (06:35):
I really did think she was dead. She she was
not doing well, but that's but she's not.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
I can't even take you seriously, I can't tell this
right now.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
What is going on?
Speaker 4 (06:50):
All right?
Speaker 1 (06:50):
I suggest you go and call your grandmother. Amanda.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
I want to put you on whole because we do
offer some counseling and things like that if you wanted
or you okay, Amanda.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
I I feel lighter than a feather. Thank you for
your help today, guys.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Amen. Amen, you dodged a bullet.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
You dodged a bullet, Amanda, hold on the line, okay,
and we could just hang up on Cole.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
I'm good.
Okay, we're going to go to Cromwell. War of the Roses.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Amanda is on the line having a problem with her boyfriend.
She wants to know if he's cheating, so she wants
to be on War of the Roses. Good morning, Amanda,
Good morning, Well, welcome to the show. Welcome to War
of the Roses. I know that your boyfriend's name is Cole.
Is that correct?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Cole?
Speaker 3 (00:17):
That's correct?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Okay, So how can we help you? Why do you
think Cole is cheating?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Okay, so a few reasons. But Cole and I have
been together for like a few months, okay, and we've
literally like we've talked about living together.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
So it's cerious, Okay.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
A couple of weeks ago, I kind of felt like
he was acting distant, you know, just like when you
can kind of tell that a guy is like not
into it anymore, yep, just like not texting in the
morning saying good morning, kind of like we try to
call at night before bed, and he's been skipping that.
So I was like, oh, and then he just completely
goes dark for like the entire weekend. I hear nothing
(00:55):
from him. He doesn't like send me any memes on Instagram,
like I just I hear nothing, okay. And then when
he finally like reconnects Monday afternoon, he's like, oh, well
my grandmother died and so I had you out of town.
And I was like, oh, okay, yeah of course. But
then that night, I like have a night with my girls,
(01:16):
and we go through his Instagram okay, and we find
his grandma and she's alive and well they like went
out as a family this weekend and got like Italian
food or something. They were like, fully, fine, she's in
perfect health.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Okay, So she's alive. She's alive, not down O. Wait,
he lied. He lied about a dead grandmother.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
He literally lied about his grandmother died.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
Well, maybe he's got like a bunch of grandma's.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Well that's where he could have too, that's actually a bunch.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Yeah, have a bunch of grandma's.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Well, sir, I'm just feeling kind of confused and like,
maybe he does have a bunch of grandma's, but like
the signs are pointing to no.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
You know what, Amanda, It's sketchy to me.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
It's sketchy when a guy all of a sudden stops
calling at night or you're usually getting a tech message
good morning, beautiful, and all of a sudden that stops
and then he goes missing.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
It's a little sketchy.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Yeah, I agree.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
All right, So.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
That's all I need to know, Amanda. We're gonna call
up Cole. We're gonna offer him roses. You're gonna be
listening in the entire time at any point if you
want to confront Coal, you can. If you don't feel comfortable,
you don't have to. Okay, but you're gonna be listening
in Okay, let's do it.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
This is just a weird one.
Speaker 5 (02:24):
Yeah, I'm like, this is if he did live about
the grandmother being dead.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
That's so messed up. Can't make that stuff. You're like
a serial killer who does that.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
This may or may not be the right number. I'm
not gonna lie.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Fabulous. Hi is this Coal?
Speaker 6 (02:46):
Yes, it is Hey Cole.
Speaker 5 (02:47):
This is Alyssa over at Flowers Express in Cromwell.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
How's it going this morning?
Speaker 5 (02:52):
Ah?
Speaker 6 (02:52):
Good? Good? That can help you.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Good.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
I'm so glad that you're doing well.
Speaker 5 (02:56):
I'm just calling to let you know that you are
the winner of our online weekly contest.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Congrats to you.
Speaker 6 (03:01):
Oh oh cool, thank you.
Speaker 5 (03:04):
Yeah, so you've just won a dozen long stem roses.
They are absolutely gorgeous. So if you're willing to accept
the roses, we can go ahead and get the whole
bruss started.
Speaker 6 (03:14):
Yeah, I would love that. Can I send them to
someone or pick them?
Speaker 4 (03:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (03:19):
I mean absolutely, we'd be more than happy to accommodate
that for you. I actually have a card in front
of me. It's a really cute card. I can take
down a message if you would like.
Speaker 6 (03:30):
Sure, Can it say to the most beautiful.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
Girl in the world, to the most beautiful girl in
the world. Oh, that's so sweet.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Oh I didn't think.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
I don't think I grabbed a name for the most
beautiful girl in the world.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Who can I address the card to?
Speaker 6 (03:47):
Can you can send it to you? Can you could
address it to Morgan?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
To Morgan?
Speaker 5 (03:51):
You said, Oh, so is Morgan like a girlfriend?
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Is she a wife? Maybe a mom?
Speaker 4 (04:00):
No?
Speaker 6 (04:00):
No, no, she's my girlfriend Ohnice.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
How long have you guys been together?
Speaker 6 (04:06):
Well, we meet on hite like a month ago, and oh,
so it's I think she's I think she's really the one,
really special. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (04:15):
Oh wow, so it's fairly new and you already know
that she's the one. That's that's that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (04:21):
I mean I think after you've been through so many people,
like you've you know, been around and you know, tried
different things, and you just start to know what you
want and you think, like this person is exactly kind
of the person I'm looking for.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
So if you know why Cole, you know what you want?
Speaker 4 (04:37):
Now?
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Is that what you're saying? Hi, this is Amanda Cole.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
I need to jump on the line, Cole.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
It is Courtney from Kiss in the Morning, savannahs the Flores, Walmart,
Jeff is in the studio too. You're on the radio,
and yes, that is your girlfriend, Amanda. Go ahead, Amanda.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Yeah, I mean you want to just tell us a
little about Morgan and what makes her just like the
most perfect fit for you. I'm just so curious, That's.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
What I was going to ask next.
Speaker 6 (05:04):
You know, I really rather do this off air.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
I'm sure. I'm sure.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
Him, Like, let's hear all about her. Did you do this?
Did you did you like call the station and have
them like call me pretending to be forced.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Yep, Yeah, that's that's that's.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
How it happened.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Hello, did you go out of town saying your grandmother
died but you were cheating.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
My grandma is really old and is sick, and I
thought she was going to die. I really wait, hold.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
On, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Speaker 5 (05:36):
When you say sick, do you mean she's gravely ill
or she had a cold.
Speaker 6 (05:43):
She's she's ill. She's not turnally ill, but she's she
has like chronic illness.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Yeah, she was.
Speaker 6 (05:49):
She was out.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
She is the picture of health. She looked more vibrant
than ever in this picture.
Speaker 6 (05:57):
I thought the picture.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
She's fine. You should be so embarrassed.
Speaker 6 (06:02):
Yeah, well, I was going to tell you, you know,
I was gonna.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
When when were you going to tell her about Morgan?
The girl of your dreams?
Speaker 4 (06:10):
The one?
Speaker 2 (06:10):
When were you going to tell your girlfriend about your girlfriend?
Speaker 6 (06:14):
When it became official?
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Wait?
Speaker 5 (06:16):
So you got to have a safe spot to land
before you break things off?
Speaker 1 (06:19):
What a coward.
Speaker 6 (06:21):
That's how it works.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
That is not how.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
It's not whatever. I'm done with you, Amanda. You got
your answers. Yes, he's cheating on you know. His grandmother
isn't dead, and he just sent roses to somebody else.
Speaker 6 (06:35):
I really did think she was dead. She she was
not doing well, but that's but she's not.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
I can't even take you seriously, I can't tell this
right now.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
What is going on?
Speaker 4 (06:50):
All right?
Speaker 1 (06:50):
I suggest you go and call your grandmother. Amanda.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
I want to put you on whole because we do
offer some counseling and things like that if you wanted
or you okay, Amanda.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
I I feel lighter than a feather. Thank you for
your help today, guys.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Amen. Amen, you dodged a bullet.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
You dodged a bullet, Amanda, hold on the line, okay,
and we could just hang up on Cole.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
I'm good.
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