December 18, 2025 • 7 mins
Kayla from Hartford is being ghosted after a first date. She wants to find out why her date isn't returning her texts.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You guys ready for a little second date update. Yes,
I want to make a I want to make a
love connection. We're going to Hartford this morning. Second date update.
Get ghosted after a first date? Call us and we'll
get some answers. Kayla's on the line. Good morning, Kayla.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Hi, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Welcome to the show. Listen, we need to know about
this first date. Producer says, you went out with a
guy named Andrew.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Yeah, okay, Andrew, all.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Right, So how was the day?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
How was it? It was good. We met for brunch.
It was actually like better than good. We had a blast.
I felt that you know when you just feel a connection.
There was a lot of flirting. Okay, I just felt
a real connection and we have fun. So after our date,
I sent him a few texts, like just thanking him
(00:47):
and letting him know that I wanted to see him again. Okay,
but you never text him back. So I'm being hoasted
and I don't know why because I had so much fun.
So I'm a little confused.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Okay, Courtney went to brun Shot a couple of weekends ago.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
How many bloody Marys did you suck down? As many as?
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Courtney?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Stop?
Speaker 2 (01:10):
No, I did not. I think I had one cocktail
and it wasn't a blood Mary.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Okay, same, I had one bloody Mary, Jeff really.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Whatever? Whatever? So, Kayla, you felt to connection.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
There was a lot of flirting, and you've reached out
to him and he has not even responded to your
text messages.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Nothing, not even like a heart, you know, nothing.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
All right, Well, listen, I feel like we should just
give them a call. Let's just get to business.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Guys. All right, I'm gonna put you on hold.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Kayla.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
We're gonna call up Andrew and I'm gonna ask him
to be honest. If you're ready for answers, we're gonna
get him for you.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
I'm ready. I'm definitely ready.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
All Right, we're gonna call Kayla's date Andrew. We'll do
that next.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
All Right, we're back. We're in Hartford. Second date update.
Kayla's on the line.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
We're moments away from calling her date, Andrew getting ghosted
after a great first date. Basically, Kayla, you guys went
to you said you felt a real connection with Andrew,
and there was flirting.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Like you know when you just feel it, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
I do.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
And so you reached out to him and you're getting ghosted.
We're gonna call him. You're gonna be listening in. Feel
free to jump on and talk to him at any point. Okay, okay,
hold on. She sounds like a sweetie.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
I go to brunch with Kaylin. I know she really does.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
I'm like, all right, she seems normal, Like yeah, interesting,
I like plunch girl, me too. I love sure.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello, is Andrew there?
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Yeah, so Andrew is here.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Hey Andrew, it's Courtney, Andy, It's Walmart, Jeff.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Hey, what's up.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
It's Savannah and we're calling you from KS ninety five
to seven.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
And you are on the radio this morning, Andrew.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
Oh, lucky in the morning.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Lucky you, Andrew. Listen, Andrew. You're on second date update.
Hopefully you're familiar with it. If you're not, uh, if
you go on a first date and you get ghosted,
call us and we get answered and we're trying to
get answers before, well for you, I will refresh your memory.
Kayla called us. She said, you guys went on a
great first date. You went for brunch, which Savannah and
(03:11):
I solid ten on a brunch date.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
We love brunch.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Yeah, she said there was a lot of flirting and
she felt a real connection with you and you're a
great guy. She's reached out to you, she texted you
a couple of times, and you haven't even responded.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Ah oh yeah, okay.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
So first off, that date was super super wonderful, had
an awesome time. Brunch was delicious, Okay, honestly, like, we
had like good time.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
The only downside was, okay, when we started talking about,
you know, our hobbies and our jobs. I you know,
I corporate, so it's a little boring, okay, but hers
is a little bit on the more centric side. And
she told me that she worked at a strip club and.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Personally for me, Wait, andrews, she's an exotic dancer.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
No wait, can I just say something that's not accurate?
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Okay, Kayla's here, Andrew, Kayla's on the line. Kayla, Andrew
says that you're an exotic dancer.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
I said that I was a bartender at a strip
club when I was in my twenties, and that was
like over five years ago.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
Okay, No, wait, wait, when you work at a strip club,
I know for sure the like any play, they take
those clothes off. Wait we say that's that's what I heard.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
We would absolutely not accurate. I'd never stripped before, and
not that I judge the strippers I worked with, because
they're lovely people that I only bartended, and I only
did it for a few months because I needed the
cash for school.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Okay, So, Andrew, I think you cut out there. Andrew.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Did you just say everybody knows that if you work
at a strip club, even if you're bartending, you're stripping.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Is that I think that's what you said. Okay, calm down.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
The people say that to me, yes, if you know, Okay,
hang on, hang on, because one that's just not true.
And two, why do you know millions of people that
have worked at a.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
Strip they know a lot more than me. I'm a
little bit.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
I'm telling you firsthand. Okay that I know for a
fact because I'm living proof. But I worked as a
bartender as a strip club to help me pay for school, Okay,
and I never took my clothes off.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
I feel like this is miscommunication. I feel like I
know you're like, I can't do it. Anybody who works
at a strip club, but she doesn't work at one.
It was years ago. She bartended for a little extra cash.
Would you will you would you do you, guys, because
I feel like there's a connection. I would like to
pay for another date. I'd like you guys to go
out again one more time and we'll pay for it.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
But it's up to you guys.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Yeah, sure, Like if it was just a miscommunication, I'd
totally down for another one, all right.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Kayla, I'm I am down to give it a try again, Okay,
But I'm hoping that it was just a miscommunication.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Okay, because I.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Obviously, like I said, I thought there was a connection,
but I didn't love this reaction. But I'm just hoping
that it was based on a miscommunication.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
I get that.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
And my advice to you, Andrew is like, take it
down a notch. You're a little high octane, and maybe
just listen, like, actually have a conversation and listen to
what Kayla's saying, because I feel like you just probably
didn't hear exactly what she was saying.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, maybe I just hut up the gun
on that. Yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
All right, Well listen, I'm gonna put you guys on hold.
We'll discuss it off the air. I certainly hope you
follow through if it's something you feel like. I mean,
if you're comfortable, I don't want you going. If you're
not comfortable, kayleb. But if you guys are both comfortable,
I'll let you talk off the air. We're going to
pay for another date. Okay, thank you, Okay, you guys,
hold on.
You guys ready for a little second date update. Yes,
I want to make a I want to make a
love connection. We're going to Hartford this morning. Second date update.
Get ghosted after a first date? Call us and we'll
get some answers. Kayla's on the line. Good morning, Kayla.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Hi, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Welcome to the show. Listen, we need to know about
this first date. Producer says, you went out with a
guy named Andrew.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Yeah, okay, Andrew, all.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Right, So how was the day?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
How was it? It was good. We met for brunch.
It was actually like better than good. We had a blast.
I felt that you know when you just feel a connection.
There was a lot of flirting. Okay, I just felt
a real connection and we have fun. So after our date,
I sent him a few texts, like just thanking him
(00:47):
and letting him know that I wanted to see him again. Okay,
but you never text him back. So I'm being hoasted
and I don't know why because I had so much fun.
So I'm a little confused.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Okay, Courtney went to brun Shot a couple of weekends ago.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
How many bloody Marys did you suck down? As many as?
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Courtney?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Stop?
Speaker 2 (01:10):
No, I did not. I think I had one cocktail
and it wasn't a blood Mary.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Okay, same, I had one bloody Mary, Jeff really.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Whatever? Whatever? So, Kayla, you felt to connection.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
There was a lot of flirting, and you've reached out
to him and he has not even responded to your
text messages.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Nothing, not even like a heart, you know, nothing.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
All right, Well, listen, I feel like we should just
give them a call. Let's just get to business.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Guys. All right, I'm gonna put you on hold.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Kayla.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
We're gonna call up Andrew and I'm gonna ask him
to be honest. If you're ready for answers, we're gonna
get him for you.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
I'm ready. I'm definitely ready.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
All Right, we're gonna call Kayla's date Andrew. We'll do
that next.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
All Right, we're back. We're in Hartford. Second date update.
Kayla's on the line.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
We're moments away from calling her date, Andrew getting ghosted
after a great first date. Basically, Kayla, you guys went
to you said you felt a real connection with Andrew,
and there was flirting.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Like you know when you just feel it, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
I do.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
And so you reached out to him and you're getting ghosted.
We're gonna call him. You're gonna be listening in. Feel
free to jump on and talk to him at any point. Okay, okay,
hold on. She sounds like a sweetie.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
I go to brunch with Kaylin. I know she really does.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
I'm like, all right, she seems normal, Like yeah, interesting,
I like plunch girl, me too. I love sure.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello, is Andrew there?
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Yeah, so Andrew is here.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Hey Andrew, it's Courtney, Andy, It's Walmart, Jeff.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Hey, what's up.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
It's Savannah and we're calling you from KS ninety five
to seven.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
And you are on the radio this morning, Andrew.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
Oh, lucky in the morning.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Lucky you, Andrew. Listen, Andrew. You're on second date update.
Hopefully you're familiar with it. If you're not, uh, if
you go on a first date and you get ghosted,
call us and we get answered and we're trying to
get answers before, well for you, I will refresh your memory.
Kayla called us. She said, you guys went on a
great first date. You went for brunch, which Savannah and
(03:11):
I solid ten on a brunch date.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
We love brunch.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Yeah, she said there was a lot of flirting and
she felt a real connection with you and you're a
great guy. She's reached out to you, she texted you
a couple of times, and you haven't even responded.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Ah oh yeah, okay.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
So first off, that date was super super wonderful, had
an awesome time. Brunch was delicious, Okay, honestly, like, we
had like good time.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
The only downside was, okay, when we started talking about,
you know, our hobbies and our jobs. I you know,
I corporate, so it's a little boring, okay, but hers
is a little bit on the more centric side. And
she told me that she worked at a strip club and.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Personally for me, Wait, andrews, she's an exotic dancer.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
No wait, can I just say something that's not accurate?
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Okay, Kayla's here, Andrew, Kayla's on the line. Kayla, Andrew
says that you're an exotic dancer.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
I said that I was a bartender at a strip
club when I was in my twenties, and that was
like over five years ago.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
Okay, No, wait, wait, when you work at a strip club,
I know for sure the like any play, they take
those clothes off. Wait we say that's that's what I heard.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
We would absolutely not accurate. I'd never stripped before, and
not that I judge the strippers I worked with, because
they're lovely people that I only bartended, and I only
did it for a few months because I needed the
cash for school.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Okay, So, Andrew, I think you cut out there. Andrew.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Did you just say everybody knows that if you work
at a strip club, even if you're bartending, you're stripping.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Is that I think that's what you said. Okay, calm down.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
The people say that to me, yes, if you know, Okay,
hang on, hang on, because one that's just not true.
And two, why do you know millions of people that
have worked at a.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
Strip they know a lot more than me. I'm a
little bit.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
I'm telling you firsthand. Okay that I know for a
fact because I'm living proof. But I worked as a
bartender as a strip club to help me pay for school, Okay,
and I never took my clothes off.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
I feel like this is miscommunication. I feel like I
know you're like, I can't do it. Anybody who works
at a strip club, but she doesn't work at one.
It was years ago. She bartended for a little extra cash.
Would you will you would you do you, guys, because
I feel like there's a connection. I would like to
pay for another date. I'd like you guys to go
out again one more time and we'll pay for it.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
But it's up to you guys.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Yeah, sure, Like if it was just a miscommunication, I'd
totally down for another one, all right.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Kayla, I'm I am down to give it a try again, Okay,
But I'm hoping that it was just a miscommunication.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Okay, because I.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Obviously, like I said, I thought there was a connection,
but I didn't love this reaction. But I'm just hoping
that it was based on a miscommunication.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
I get that.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
And my advice to you, Andrew is like, take it
down a notch. You're a little high octane, and maybe
just listen, like, actually have a conversation and listen to
what Kayla's saying, because I feel like you just probably
didn't hear exactly what she was saying.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, maybe I just hut up the gun
on that. Yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
All right, Well listen, I'm gonna put you guys on hold.
We'll discuss it off the air. I certainly hope you
follow through if it's something you feel like. I mean,
if you're comfortable, I don't want you going. If you're
not comfortable, kayleb. But if you guys are both comfortable,
I'll let you talk off the air. We're going to
pay for another date. Okay, thank you, Okay, you guys,
hold on.
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