November 19, 2024 • 7 mins
Andrea thinks her husband is cheating on her. He's been spending a lot of time on his computer late at night and money is missing from their joint bank account. She wants to know if he's cheating.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Chess in Connecticut Sea recording and Kiss in the Mornings,
War of the Roses and Kiss.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Ninety five to seven.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Why are you guys at this time for War of
the Roses this morning? Oh, we're going to West Hartford.
Andrea is on the line having a problem with her husband.
Good morning, Andrea, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Hey.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I'm hearing that you and your husband, Sean are going
through a rough patch. Want to tell me about it?
What's happening?
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Yeah, I don't know what is happening. He is on
the computer late at night, and I have this gut
feeling and he's so secretive. Every time I ask him,
he gets defensive and I say, hey, what's going on?
Why are you up so late? Or are you talking
to and he just shuts me down. And so now
(00:46):
I feel like I'm crazy because I'm looking at everything
and I've started to see that he is withdrawing money
from our bank account.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Oh that is never good, and you don't know what
it's for. It's not like he's withdraw money and paying bills.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
No, because I've asked. It started with weird withdrawals of
like thirty dollars, fifty dollars, and now it started to
be excessive in the hundreds.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Sorry to jump in.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Do you have like a birthday or like an anniversary
coming up? Maybe he's like saving money to get you something.
I mean the holidays now.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
I mean I shop for the kids, I do everything.
Can it comes to that?
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Can I say something?
Speaker 1 (01:31):
No?
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Okay? Sometimes, and this actually happened recently, my wife noticed
that there was money missing out of our family account
and I totally got caught for this. Sometimes at night,
when my wife is sleeping, what I like to do
is hop on the old casino apps ridiculous and play
a little blackjack. I mean, I guess, and I've taken
money out of our family account and forgot to put
(01:53):
it back in there before she even noticed.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
But there's no apps on his phone of computer. MU.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
When he's on his computer late at night, maybe he's gambling.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
I would prefer gambling, but he is terrible. When we
go to the casino, he says we're wasting money, like
that's the thing.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
So I just so you're thinking, gives for another woman.
Something's going on. This is what we're gonna do, Andrea,
We're gonna have be you on hold. We're gonna call
up Sean you can confront your husband if you want. Okay,
hold on, hold on, this is making me nervous. Maybe
you guys were onto something with like a secret gambling
addict or something takes one true.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
He Hi, good morning, is Sean there? This is he
Hey Sean, this is Brett from Flowers Express over in Hartford.
How are you this morning?
Speaker 4 (02:44):
I'm good.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
That's great. Hey, I was just shooting you call to
let you know that you actually won a dozen roses
in our online weekly contest. Congratulations. Now here's the deal.
We're not gonna send the flowers, do you. We'll send
them to so on on your Behalf. Congratulations.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
Oh well thanks, I guess.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Yeah. This is a great pay forward, absolutely one hundred
percent free. And like I said, we're just gonna send
the flowers to selling on your Behalf the brighton their day,
and then you look like the hero. Okay, So it
sounds like you're down with the promotion. You're good, good
to go?
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Yeah, yeah, yeah sure not okay cool.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
So I have a card here in front of me.
I could write a message on the card if you'd like.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Yeah, yeah, can you put a sending you love halfway
across the world? Is this domestic or can you ship
them internationally.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Like Maine International or like Canada or.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
No, main Maine is for the US.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Well, oh that's true. Yeah, good point.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
On that one.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
No, no, like the Philippines.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
The Philippines. Yeah, uh yeah, we could do the Philippines.
You got a special love one over there in the Philippines.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Yeah. My soulmate lives out the Philippines.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
You know, my sistern law is actually from the Philippines.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
How crazy is that? That's cool?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
I haven't Sean, Sean, did you just say your soulmate?
Speaker 4 (04:17):
What?
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Like, can I just jump in Sean?
Speaker 1 (04:21):
You're white?
Speaker 3 (04:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Correct, You're What are you.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
Doing on the other all right? What are you doing
on the phone?
Speaker 1 (04:29):
What am I doing on the phone? What are you doing?
Speaker 4 (04:34):
A company?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Okay, it's not a Rose company. I'm Courtney savannahs here.
The florist is actually Walmart Jeff. It is Kiss ninety
five seven. You're on the radio. Andrea thinks you're cheating
on her. Go ahead, Andrea, are you doing?
Speaker 1 (04:48):
Who is Sean? Who is?
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Forget it?
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Forget it? No, you're caught. You're you literally just said
you to somebody in the Philippines. Whom you just said
it's your soulmate. Yes, do you want to tell your
kids not? Or should I calm down with your soulmates?
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Listen, I met this person online and you know she
you met them online?
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Oh, you're kidding, right he Have you ever seen this person?
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Sean? Is this where the money is going? Where is
the money going? You're taking out of your joint account.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
It's somebody that needs it more than we do at
the moment, and no more.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Than we do. Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't realize the
two kids that we have who will eventually go to college,
and you know your soulmate needs it in the Philippines.
What are you doing first of all on Facebook? Are
you kidding me?
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Okay, then I guess I should meet my Nigerian prince. Yes, no,
don't call me, honey. Do not call me, honey. You
are sending money to someone who you don't even know.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
He's getting scammed. Wait, wait, hold on a minute, Sean,
have you even spoken to this woman at all, like
on the phone or on FaceTime? Like do we know
she's real?
Speaker 4 (06:18):
No? I haven't, I haven't. I haven't spoken. That's what
I'm saying. I'm not cheatium.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
You have been spoken. Oh you haven't spoken to your soulmate, Sean.
Are you doing drugs? What is going on with you?
Speaker 4 (06:31):
Let's just talk about this when I get home. I
don't think that when you get home.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
No, no, you're gonna go to your brother's house tonight.
You're not coming in this house. You are not coming
in this house.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
This is what I want to do. I know, Andrea,
I know. To take a deep breath. I'm gonna put
you on hold. I'm going to talk to you guys
off the air. We do offer couples counseling, so if
you would like to go together as a couple and
work this out or figure out what is really going on.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
I have your soulmate too.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Wow, yeah, that'd be awesome as well.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
We can actually meet her on the WhatsApp.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
I'm going to put you on hold. I really want
to talk to you and I want to get you
all the resources you need going forward with your family.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Okay, thank you,
Chess in Connecticut Sea recording and Kiss in the Mornings,
War of the Roses and Kiss.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Ninety five to seven.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Why are you guys at this time for War of
the Roses this morning? Oh, we're going to West Hartford.
Andrea is on the line having a problem with her husband.
Good morning, Andrea, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Hey.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I'm hearing that you and your husband, Sean are going
through a rough patch. Want to tell me about it?
What's happening?
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Yeah, I don't know what is happening. He is on
the computer late at night, and I have this gut
feeling and he's so secretive. Every time I ask him,
he gets defensive and I say, hey, what's going on?
Why are you up so late? Or are you talking
to and he just shuts me down. And so now
(00:46):
I feel like I'm crazy because I'm looking at everything
and I've started to see that he is withdrawing money
from our bank account.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Oh that is never good, and you don't know what
it's for. It's not like he's withdraw money and paying bills.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
No, because I've asked. It started with weird withdrawals of
like thirty dollars, fifty dollars, and now it started to
be excessive in the hundreds.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Sorry to jump in.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Do you have like a birthday or like an anniversary
coming up? Maybe he's like saving money to get you something.
I mean the holidays now.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
I mean I shop for the kids, I do everything.
Can it comes to that?
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Can I say something?
Speaker 1 (01:31):
No?
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Okay? Sometimes, and this actually happened recently, my wife noticed
that there was money missing out of our family account
and I totally got caught for this. Sometimes at night,
when my wife is sleeping, what I like to do
is hop on the old casino apps ridiculous and play
a little blackjack. I mean, I guess, and I've taken
money out of our family account and forgot to put
(01:53):
it back in there before she even noticed.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
But there's no apps on his phone of computer. MU.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
When he's on his computer late at night, maybe he's gambling.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
I would prefer gambling, but he is terrible. When we
go to the casino, he says we're wasting money, like
that's the thing.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
So I just so you're thinking, gives for another woman.
Something's going on. This is what we're gonna do, Andrea,
We're gonna have be you on hold. We're gonna call
up Sean you can confront your husband if you want. Okay,
hold on, hold on, this is making me nervous. Maybe
you guys were onto something with like a secret gambling
addict or something takes one true.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
He Hi, good morning, is Sean there? This is he
Hey Sean, this is Brett from Flowers Express over in Hartford.
How are you this morning?
Speaker 4 (02:44):
I'm good.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
That's great. Hey, I was just shooting you call to
let you know that you actually won a dozen roses
in our online weekly contest. Congratulations. Now here's the deal.
We're not gonna send the flowers, do you. We'll send
them to so on on your Behalf. Congratulations.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
Oh well thanks, I guess.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Yeah. This is a great pay forward, absolutely one hundred
percent free. And like I said, we're just gonna send
the flowers to selling on your Behalf the brighton their day,
and then you look like the hero. Okay, So it
sounds like you're down with the promotion. You're good, good
to go?
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Yeah, yeah, yeah sure not okay cool.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
So I have a card here in front of me.
I could write a message on the card if you'd like.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Yeah, yeah, can you put a sending you love halfway
across the world? Is this domestic or can you ship
them internationally.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Like Maine International or like Canada or.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
No, main Maine is for the US.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Well, oh that's true. Yeah, good point.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
On that one.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
No, no, like the Philippines.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
The Philippines. Yeah, uh yeah, we could do the Philippines.
You got a special love one over there in the Philippines.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Yeah. My soulmate lives out the Philippines.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
You know, my sistern law is actually from the Philippines.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
How crazy is that? That's cool?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
I haven't Sean, Sean, did you just say your soulmate?
Speaker 4 (04:17):
What?
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Like, can I just jump in Sean?
Speaker 1 (04:21):
You're white?
Speaker 3 (04:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Correct, You're What are you.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
Doing on the other all right? What are you doing
on the phone?
Speaker 1 (04:29):
What am I doing on the phone? What are you doing?
Speaker 4 (04:34):
A company?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Okay, it's not a Rose company. I'm Courtney savannahs here.
The florist is actually Walmart Jeff. It is Kiss ninety
five seven. You're on the radio. Andrea thinks you're cheating
on her. Go ahead, Andrea, are you doing?
Speaker 1 (04:48):
Who is Sean? Who is?
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Forget it?
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Forget it? No, you're caught. You're you literally just said
you to somebody in the Philippines. Whom you just said
it's your soulmate. Yes, do you want to tell your
kids not? Or should I calm down with your soulmates?
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Listen, I met this person online and you know she
you met them online?
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Oh, you're kidding, right he Have you ever seen this person?
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Sean? Is this where the money is going? Where is
the money going? You're taking out of your joint account.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
It's somebody that needs it more than we do at
the moment, and no more.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Than we do. Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't realize the
two kids that we have who will eventually go to college,
and you know your soulmate needs it in the Philippines.
What are you doing first of all on Facebook? Are
you kidding me?
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Okay, then I guess I should meet my Nigerian prince. Yes, no,
don't call me, honey. Do not call me, honey. You
are sending money to someone who you don't even know.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
He's getting scammed. Wait, wait, hold on a minute, Sean,
have you even spoken to this woman at all, like
on the phone or on FaceTime? Like do we know
she's real?
Speaker 4 (06:18):
No? I haven't, I haven't. I haven't spoken. That's what
I'm saying. I'm not cheatium.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
You have been spoken. Oh you haven't spoken to your soulmate, Sean.
Are you doing drugs? What is going on with you?
Speaker 4 (06:31):
Let's just talk about this when I get home. I
don't think that when you get home.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
No, no, you're gonna go to your brother's house tonight.
You're not coming in this house. You are not coming
in this house.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
This is what I want to do. I know, Andrea,
I know. To take a deep breath. I'm gonna put
you on hold. I'm going to talk to you guys
off the air. We do offer couples counseling, so if
you would like to go together as a couple and
work this out or figure out what is really going on.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
I have your soulmate too.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Wow, yeah, that'd be awesome as well.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
We can actually meet her on the WhatsApp.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
I'm going to put you on hold. I really want
to talk to you and I want to get you
all the resources you need going forward with your family.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Okay, thank you,
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