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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Sixteen years ago. This is the guy who's writing this.
Sixteen years ago, my daughter and my nephew were both
nine years old and were being looked after by my sister,
my nephew's mom. My nephew decided to let my daughter's
cat out just to see her reaction and only confess
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to it a day later. He found it very humorous,
even while she was devastated after we weren't able to
find her cat after days of searching. Is everybody following?
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Yeah, yeah, right, dick move obvious?
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Of course, My sister was very apologetic and did her
best to discipline my nephew for it, but for reasons
understandable to everyone, my immediate family never saw my nephew again.
He was forced to apologize by his parents, which he
made very effort to do as sarcastically as possible, and
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even after growing up he minded sixteen years later, never
realized what he did was anything other than just quote
a funny prank. From what I know of him, he's
barely changed as an adult. Everybody's still following yeah okay.
In spite of it, we didn't really blame my sister.
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She never defended his actions and tried to get him
treatment as an adolescent as well. I don't think she
was a bad mother. She has two other kids that
turned out just fine. My daughter especially grew close to
my sister when my sister moved to the same city
where my daughter was in college. Both of them and
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my nephew, the piece of garbage now all live and
work in that same city.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
All right, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Just last week, my sister asked my daughter if she
could move in with her for a few weeks or
possibly months. My daughter agreed to it, but has now
rescinded the invitation. Does it say why yes? So the
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mother wants to move in with the with the niece,
with the niece an Yeah, the aunt wants to move
in with the niece because the nephew, the one who
let the cat out, and his wife and their kids
don't have a place to live. So the mother is saying,
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the ant is saying, I'll move out of the house
so you guys can have the house. I'll go live
with the niece.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
The aunt says, if I don't give them a place
to live, they're gonna end up being homeless, like they're
done some hard times. And I know that they're not
going to live with you, So I'm going to live
with you and let them live in my house and
this will all be for a couple of weeks and
we're gone.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Well you said months, maybe a.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Couple of months right now. Initially when the aunt said
can I move in with you? She was like, yeah, absolutely,
and then she found out the reason why.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
Okay, and she said no because I.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Am not doing that because ultimately it helps him, the
same guy that sixteen years ago let my cat out
and ran away as a child, as a child, as
a nine year old. Both of them called me, this
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is back to the guy. Both of them called me
after that, my sister to ask me to tell my
daughter to give up her very old g rudge and
think about the other kids. And my daughter called asking
whether she made the right choice. Okay, I sided with
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my daughter. Really, Oh that shocked you.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
I mean, they do say that the kid is still
a jackass.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Okay, that's fine, right, but it's also been sixteen years, right,
so we all.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Are not willing to accept that it was just a prank.
Gon A Rye, I said the kid, I am what
was there any intent to have the cat right away?
Speaker 1 (04:47):
I mean, without asking, I would say, I don't know,
but I would bet you read what you read. No, No,
I don't think so. I think he did it just
to be a dick at the time. I'm nine years old.
I know you love that cat. Watch this, and he
opened the door and the cat ran out right. Yeah,
I bet that that was an I don't want to
say an innocent prank. It's a dickish prank. I'll give
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you that. Even at nine, I think you know that.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
SO is the mother of the jackass gonna just stay
in her house?
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Then well, I don't know, Like, I don't know what happened.
She was like, if I have to go back, I
don't know what happens now. I mean, the original story
is kind of convoluted, but it basically is, as a child,
if you feel wronged or a family member or close
friend does something to you, right, that leads to when
you're nine, that leads to some sort of if you
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will use the word grudge, do you shed that when
you become adults. That's basically the question. Uh, yeah, I
guess in a nutshell. Yeah, I mean, now you're an adult.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
You're not nine years old anymore, right, but you're not
making your pants anymore.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Trying to think if there were family members that did anything.
Certainly not as bad as having a pet run away, right,
but examples that may be similar where just time healed
the wound. Yes, of course you sort of forget about stuff,
well not even forget about it, but it's not as bad.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
But the answer is yes, I don't have anything specific,
but time definitely heals will that you can understand. I
went years without talking to my dad.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
A family pet, right that that may stay deep for
a while.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Yes, even if it is a cat.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
You like cats?
Speaker 1 (06:31):
I do, no, No, But I'm saying like that's but some.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
People it doesn't matter if it's a cat versus a dog.
It's still your pet.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
If it were a rabbit, a bird, pet, a fish,
I threw it in the lake. Get over that. You
might be pissed, but fifteen years later you're getting over that.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
I mean, it's sad because Nie and aunt.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Have a great relationship, right, great relationship? Right? What are
your tea relentlessly? Are you allowed as an adult to
still hate that child? Yeah? Yeah, So this is to me,
what do you get over that? I bet in many
people's cases they don't.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
So my cousin tease me relentlessly when we were eight,
and now that I'm I'm thirty, I'm still holding that grudge.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
Where you don't want to see them functions. I get that.
Oh you're the one who is team grudge. Yeah. Did
you ever encourage your kids while they were growing up
to really, uh extend sort of a problem with somebody.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Would like keep something, keep something going.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
Like to keep it going, discourage or like did you
were you when it came to your children asking them
to maybe de escalate situations or were you all in
if they said I don't ever want to see that
person again? Did you say, yeah, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
That's that's good, that's the stuff.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
I don't know that I said it as excitedly, but
I definitely was all in on Yeah, I don't blame you. Yeah,
I wouldn't talk to him either. As a matter of fact,
I'm going to I'm gonna grudge also with you.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Because Diane is the first one to tell you, oh,
turn the other cheek. No, that if if it's eating
at you, it's doing you more damage than it is.
Holding this scrudge.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Living well is the best revenge. I still like grudges.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
That's that's not living well, holding rent free in your head. Yeah, good, Yeah,
you are rent free in my head. No, it's not
know what I'm doing, blotting how bad it's going to be.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
It's a it's a passing negative thought that maybe pops
into my mind every once in a while.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
That's not rent free.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Daily daily absolutely.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Is the past. The past. Hm hmm.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
But isn't that that blanket may be a little too
wah's And it's case by case everything's differ.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
Yes, Yeah, Like if somebody kid seems like a jerk.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
You don't know anything about him.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
That was from what I know over the years, even
though I haven't seen him.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
Right, It's it's like.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
That's still the same grudge family, still the same person
grudge family. Just just stay in the house with your
with your kid and his family. I don't understand why
there's such a need to move out.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Okay, well maybe well obviously there's a reason, or she
wouldn't do it right.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
You know, I was looking at it from the perspective
of you hold him the grudge. But when you were younger, Elliott,
did you ever do anything that would have set a
family member of friend or did you get someone in
trouble because of your actions. Oh doubt, Wait because of
my actions?
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Yeah, does telling secrets count?
Speaker 2 (09:49):
You're gonna tell us one right now?
Speaker 1 (09:51):
No?
Speaker 2 (09:51):
No, no, no, Like somebody had confided something in me
and I totally forgot they confided something in me and
I let it out during a family dinner. And how
does that person's relationship today seem affected by that reveal?
Speaker 1 (10:05):
I have not talked to them since. Oh my god,
we weren't that close. We weren't that close. So it's
not like she would It's a girl. It's not like
she would occasionally like reach out to me anyway. But
I would see her at like family things, and so
like the rest of the family jokes about it.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
Now, she must love that. The say again that the yeah.
Like to the rest of the family, they're like, all right,
big deal.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Just don't believe he didn't know.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
Because it doesn't sound like she believes that.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Oh she had, definitely, But again, I would only see
her at family functions. So I remember her telling a
group of us she went to brand Ice and so
down the no no, But I remember her being back
from brand Ice and telling all of us something. I
was young, younger, and so and I remember all of
us being there and she was like, hey, I can't
tell my parents this, I can't really tell any adult this,
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and then told us what it was, and it's nothing bad.
She didn't murder anybody. But then you let it slip
a year later, a year later, no, because I didn't remember, okay,
and so a year later, we're all sitting there and
I was like, oh, it's when so and so.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
She was still hoping it would have been kept a
secret of it.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
She probably thought everybody forty a year but Diane, I
told you I don't live up here in the trap
and so yeah, so something came up and I was like, oh,
that's like when huh I did and everybody was like what.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
And she went there, yes, Oh.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
My god, yeah she was there. I was there, and
the three other people that she confided in were there,
and they all looked at me like you're an a hole,
and I was like no, no, no, I caught it
as soon as I got the glares, and I was like,
oh my god, yeah, so I highlighted it instead of
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just trying to gloss by it. I was like, oh,
like and then the and then her family was like
oh uh I don't know that story, and I was like, well,
neither do I. Well, look at that any turkey run
through anybody else I gotta go. Yeah, No, it was
bad and it was bad. Haven't talked to her since
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I've seen her. I haven't talked to her since I've
talked to the rest of the family, even her parents.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
You're at the cousin.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
Yeah, but I think if I if there was, I mean,
I'm much older now, like that goes back twenty five years.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
This was sixteen. Yeah, I bet she'd be cool with
it now. It doesn't sound like she's.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
I don't know that I'll have the opportunity.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
To know of brands at any point.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
Yeah. Well she never called me before. Like I said,
we'd only see each other when we would see each other.
I mean, there's part of me wants to go get
over it, like you didn't do it? What by the way,
it was nothing that big?
Speaker 2 (12:50):
It was to her, Oh yes.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
Oh yeah it was. It was. She's like, please you
guys don't say anything like.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Yep, gotcha, thanks hell.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
But then I got all wrapped up stories telling the
next year and out of case.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
Wow, hi Elliott, the morning, All.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Right, classus is sham from an asses. How y'all doing today,
I'll do it great. What can I do for you, sir?
Speaker 5 (13:14):
I'm just calling about the nine year old. I agree
with it because I had a cat when I was
younger and my father left him at the house we
moved away from. And I still don't liked the fact
and we left behind the spot. He was a really
cool cat and I think about that cat every once
in a while.
Speaker 2 (13:29):
So it's not really a grudge, but I kind of
resent my.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
Dad for it. Wait a minute, you guys moved and
his dad just left the cat. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
Was dad going through something at the time.
Speaker 5 (13:46):
We were moving from one house to another at the time, Well,
he was moving from.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
One place to another. I ended up going back to
my mother's house.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Did you go back to your mom because you were
so angry at your dad?
Speaker 5 (13:58):
I wish no. It was just a situation that we
were living at the time.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
I gotcha, I got you, So it was a custody
type thing. The Yeah, so you you don't hold a grudge.
So do you do? You have a relationship with your
dad now? No, I don't.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
There's a lot of things that happened in my life
between me and.
Speaker 5 (14:17):
My father that I do not talk with him, and
I give a result to the fact that I'm not
gonna let him meet my son because I feel it
was that bad of an experience in my life between.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
Me and him.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
Wow, dude, i'd high five you and give you a
hug like that's a grudge, Like I applaud that.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
All right, very good, very good, thank you? Yes Kyler
From Scott Athan Elliott. The idea that people should just
get over something that happened to them when they were
kids simply because their adults now is asinine. You don't
get to wipe the slate clean because we're all grown ups. Okay,
I do agree with that, but I would just just
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hold your family member to get over it. But I
was gonna say at some point, though, can't you go
You're not the same person when you're twenty five that
you are when you're when you're ten. Right, Well, others
were wondering, did you ever apologize to this family member at.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
That dinner you said when everybody was like, oh my god,
and her parents were like, well, I said it was
a girl, where like, oh, we didn't know the girl. Yeah,
And I was like, oh my god. I am so sorry.
So I apologized in the moment.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
You did so publicly. Did you then write a note
or do something privately? Write a note? Well, I'm gather
an adult. You thought not writing a note? No, you
were a child?
Speaker 3 (15:43):
Or make a phone call?
Speaker 1 (15:44):
Yeah, no, but I was. I was still I was
over eighteen. Oh I thought you were young here?
Speaker 3 (15:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (15:49):
No, No, she was in college, so you were an adult.
Speaker 4 (15:53):
Yeah, I was a young adult eighteen, I said he
was over.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Yeah, I was over. I could probably do the math
real quick.
Speaker 3 (16:02):
So she's only a couple years older than you.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
Yeah, I was probably like twenty one. You were like
a dumb yeah twelve, some dumb twenty year old.
Speaker 4 (16:12):
Yeah, Elliott, Oh, my frontal cortex was not.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
Developed, by the way you use that garbage all the time.
Speaker 4 (16:19):
No, no, but yes, when I talk about stupid decisions
that people make, I'm.
Speaker 1 (16:23):
A different person now than I was when I was younger. Well,
now this makes you seem even worse. It wasn't intentional.
I got wrapped up in storytelling. Not my fault now
used as the excuse twice. But yes, I mean, and yes,
I'm not saying that everybody has to get over it.
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But I am saying you do change as a person.
I'm not the same person I am now that I
was in middle school, thank god.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
Yeah. But in the original story of the person was nine,
you were in your twenties.
Speaker 1 (16:55):
I was in my early twenties.
Speaker 2 (16:56):
You're the age of this person now sixteen.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
Years later, right, And we make mistakes. It wasn't intentional.
I didn't let their cat out. I let the cat
out of the bag, so to speak.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Hi Elliott in the morning, Is this me?
Speaker 1 (17:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (17:16):
Who's this?
Speaker 6 (17:19):
Hi? So when I was a teenager, my stepmother used
to refer to me as an it right in front
of my father constantly and in public.
Speaker 7 (17:35):
It was.
Speaker 6 (17:37):
We didn't get along at all. She yeah, it was when.
Speaker 1 (17:43):
You were a kids. She wouldn't refer to you as
like her daughter or or something like, you know, lovingly,
like a nickname or something.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
It was you were it, I was it.
Speaker 6 (17:58):
She would refer to me as it would need your attention.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
Wow, and that like predates like like pronouns and all
that other stuff. So like I get that. Now, let
me ask you this. Are you close with your mom now?
Speaker 6 (18:13):
No, my stepmother and not really no, no, like we're copathetic.
We deal with each other because my dad is still
married to her.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
But we don't.
Speaker 6 (18:25):
We don't get alonge, not really like we deal with
each other.
Speaker 1 (18:29):
Wow, and do how is your dad with her?
Speaker 6 (18:33):
They? I don't understand why he's still with her.
Speaker 1 (18:37):
See, that would be a tough one. That would be
a tough one, like if I were remarried, thank you.
If I were remarried and somebody was crap to my kids,
I don't think I could stay married to them. No,
I don't think so.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
It'd be pretty difficult. Yes, it'd be really hard, as
you have a family you're bringing in, said Blend, even if.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
They don't have a family. But I wouldn't be mean
to somebody else's kids, like I've always said, if I
if I got together with Maren Morris, I would teach
Hayes how to play hockey.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
But Hayes don't tell me any secret from John. So
let me get this straight. Elliott, who loves a grudge,
says that if someone is carrying a grudge, they should
just get over it. No, I didn't.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
Not in all cases.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
Not, in all cases, it affects you as an individual.
People are just trying to wrap their heads around this story,
which to me, is better than the original catale.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
No, because in my case, it wasn't that bad. What
I said wasn't that bad. Rachel says it was in
the moment at least. Elliott didn't do it to be mean.
That is true, he just forgot I was I got
wrapped up in storytelling.
Speaker 2 (19:52):
No, no, no, I was not.
Speaker 1 (19:53):
That's that is a fair That is a fair assessment.
I wasn't doing it to be mean. I wasn't doing
it to bully somebody. I wasn't doing it to like
to even pull it there. It was totally accidental.
Speaker 2 (20:07):
Well it's look, we're getting stories here, and again, thank
you for feeling so comfortable to open up about it.
But there are people talking about abusive situations like, oh,
I would never know one, I would never forget saying.
And if you're able to go to law enforcement, if
it's not been so far removed and you're able to
still go after somebody, that is not something that should
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be moved on from or oh I agree gotten over.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Oh no, no, no, no, not at all, not at all.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Started with a bad prank and we we got to
a bad memory Elliott a family dinner reveal. But it
even became a running bit. Oh don't tell Elliott.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
You guys know I am bad with secrets. I am
bad with.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
Has carried over into your professional.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
Absolutely, Hi Elliott in the Morning, because I love gossip.
I love gossip and grudges. Do you can't get me gossip?
And that asked me not to say it. Well, you can.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
I just don't know that I'll be able to live
by it. Hi, Ellie of the Morning, One, two three?
Speaker 1 (21:14):
I got you?
Speaker 2 (21:15):
Who is this?
Speaker 1 (21:18):
Hello?
Speaker 5 (21:20):
Hello?
Speaker 7 (21:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (21:21):
I got you. Who's this Jack?
Speaker 7 (21:23):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (21:24):
Jack?
Speaker 1 (21:24):
What can I do for you?
Speaker 5 (21:26):
I got a quick little story for you. When I
was probably in first grade, we lived in New Jersey.
We lived in New Jersey, and my parents got my
sister a bunch of chickens at estate fair. Then they
in little Chinese box. But anyway, it was my job
to feed them. One night and I said them we
had a little chicken wire, closed them up. And the
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next day she was taking a few of them in
for show and tell in second or third grade, and
they got massacred by a bunch of raccoons that night
in their backyard. There was just blood and feathers everywhere.
I did not confess to the fact that I was
in charge of closing up the chickens to that coop
A one for probably twenty five years. Oh, she was
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taken in the first grade, Show and tell she missed
school that day. There was blood and feathers everywhere.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
How did she how did she react when you came clean?
Speaker 2 (22:21):
Wait, he needs to tell us again what the scene
looked like. I know what it looked like.
Speaker 5 (22:26):
What was the kind of burnch into my head?
Speaker 1 (22:29):
What was there? What was her reaction when you came clean?
Speaker 5 (22:33):
Uh, she didn't really, It just shocked, just daw open.
But the nice part of the stories, my dad told
me not to worry about it. This might be a lie.
He told me not to worry about it because he
knew I was a little kid, so he would go
at night and secure the wire so the raccoons got
in there.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
He took the hit. He took the hit.
Speaker 5 (22:53):
That but I was like thirty five years old and
the old man stepped in front of me.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
I took the bullet. You know what. That's a good man.
That's a good man. All right, very good, Thank you, sir.
And where am I going?
Speaker 2 (23:03):
Line four?
Speaker 1 (23:05):
Hi Ellie at the morning?
Speaker 7 (23:08):
Hi is this me?
Speaker 2 (23:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (23:12):
All right, So well, my sisters pretty much killed my
pet lizard. And that's why I hold a grudg against
them because so I was at my dad. Apparently they
over fed it, and so I came back and it
was dead.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
Right, And so right now, how much did it cost you?
Speaker 6 (23:41):
Uh?
Speaker 7 (23:42):
Tank and everything cost me about two hundred bucks?
Speaker 1 (23:48):
Jesus, Hey, what do you I don't blame you. How
long ago was this?
Speaker 7 (23:54):
This is about three years ago? Four years ago?
Speaker 1 (23:59):
And are you you still not talking to your sister?
Speaker 7 (24:03):
I mean I talked to her, but like I'm always
I was thinking about them, like you kill Mullisen, I'm
mad at you.
Speaker 2 (24:12):
You mean we talked to a therapist?
Speaker 6 (24:15):
Yea, he is?
Speaker 2 (24:19):
Did they Did they.
Speaker 3 (24:22):
Give you an apology?
Speaker 1 (24:24):
They it's his sister.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
Was it an accident?
Speaker 4 (24:27):
Yea?
Speaker 2 (24:28):
They intended to hurt your pet.
Speaker 7 (24:32):
I mean they've they've like wasted the food before, but
like this time, I guess they like killed it. I
don't know if it was intentional, but they still come
unlessard that like.
Speaker 6 (24:44):
A lot of.
Speaker 7 (24:44):
Allowance for her.
Speaker 3 (24:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
The Hey, let me ask you this. Did your parents
get mad at her?
Speaker 7 (24:50):
Nope?
Speaker 1 (24:51):
What do you mean?
Speaker 7 (24:52):
No, they didn't care. I wasn't defended in any way,
So like, that's why I'm so mad.
Speaker 1 (25:00):
Did they reimburse you?
Speaker 2 (25:03):
No?
Speaker 1 (25:03):
Do you know what that means?
Speaker 7 (25:07):
Probably not?
Speaker 1 (25:09):
Yeah, did they pay you back? Like, did you get
your two hundred dollars back?
Speaker 2 (25:13):
No?
Speaker 7 (25:13):
I thought nothing back.
Speaker 3 (25:14):
Offered to buy you a new lizard?
Speaker 1 (25:16):
Okay, you don't just replace that, I mean money.
Speaker 7 (25:20):
That's what made me that is that I didn't get
anything back.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
Nothing, Chary, I'll give you the two hundred bucks.
Speaker 7 (25:28):
Oh really?
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Oh I wasn't expecting that. Do you expect to give
you No?
Speaker 3 (25:34):
No, No, it's fine.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
I felt like it was the right thing to do
in the moment. No, So let me get this straight.
The therapist is paying the patient. So that's how I work.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
All right, I'll get you. I'll give you the two
hundred dollars. What the well the station? Yeah, I'll give
you the two hundred bucks in Kristen, Yeah my legit?
Speaker 2 (26:03):
Hell yeah bro.
Speaker 3 (26:07):
Excited?
Speaker 2 (26:08):
Yeah, No, that's awesome.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
That's awesome. All right, but what do we do at home?
Speaker 3 (26:15):
Like, what do you mean, well, this isn't going to
change your feeling.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
No, I'm not giving you the money and asking you
to and that grudge if anything, hold on to it.
The goddamn disc jock sorry, gosh, dar dis jockey gave
me the money. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, all right, all right,
very good, all right?
Speaker 7 (26:33):
Wait, can I say one thing? We have to go?
Speaker 2 (26:36):
Oh it's butthole. I am going, but yeah, go ahead.
I love this kid. Yeah, there you go, there you go.
Speaker 6 (26:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
I thought of your sister when you said it. Hey,
do me a favor. Hold on one second, Christian, will
you get some info?
Speaker 2 (26:50):
Yeah, and.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
I'll talk. I'll talk to Aaron.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
And cancel the second hundred today and that first one
from Monday.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
All right, my man inks capital.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
Hold tip one second, Hold on one second
Sixteen years ago. This is the guy who's writing this.
Sixteen years ago, my daughter and my nephew were both
nine years old and were being looked after by my sister,
my nephew's mom. My nephew decided to let my daughter's
cat out just to see her reaction and only confess
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to it a day later. He found it very humorous,
even while she was devastated after we weren't able to
find her cat after days of searching. Is everybody following?
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Yeah, yeah, right, dick move obvious?
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Of course, My sister was very apologetic and did her
best to discipline my nephew for it, but for reasons
understandable to everyone, my immediate family never saw my nephew again.
He was forced to apologize by his parents, which he
made very effort to do as sarcastically as possible, and
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even after growing up he minded sixteen years later, never
realized what he did was anything other than just quote
a funny prank. From what I know of him, he's
barely changed as an adult. Everybody's still following yeah okay.
In spite of it, we didn't really blame my sister.
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She never defended his actions and tried to get him
treatment as an adolescent as well. I don't think she
was a bad mother. She has two other kids that
turned out just fine. My daughter especially grew close to
my sister when my sister moved to the same city
where my daughter was in college. Both of them and
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my nephew, the piece of garbage now all live and
work in that same city.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
All right, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Just last week, my sister asked my daughter if she
could move in with her for a few weeks or
possibly months. My daughter agreed to it, but has now
rescinded the invitation. Does it say why yes? So the
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mother wants to move in with the with the niece,
with the niece an Yeah, the aunt wants to move
in with the niece because the nephew, the one who
let the cat out, and his wife and their kids
don't have a place to live. So the mother is saying,
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the ant is saying, I'll move out of the house
so you guys can have the house. I'll go live
with the niece.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
The aunt says, if I don't give them a place
to live, they're gonna end up being homeless, like they're
done some hard times. And I know that they're not
going to live with you, So I'm going to live
with you and let them live in my house and
this will all be for a couple of weeks and
we're gone.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Well you said months, maybe a.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Couple of months right now. Initially when the aunt said
can I move in with you? She was like, yeah, absolutely,
and then she found out the reason why.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
Okay, and she said no because I.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Am not doing that because ultimately it helps him, the
same guy that sixteen years ago let my cat out
and ran away as a child, as a child, as
a nine year old. Both of them called me, this
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is back to the guy. Both of them called me
after that, my sister to ask me to tell my
daughter to give up her very old g rudge and
think about the other kids. And my daughter called asking
whether she made the right choice. Okay, I sided with
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my daughter. Really, Oh that shocked you.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
I mean, they do say that the kid is still
a jackass.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Okay, that's fine, right, but it's also been sixteen years, right,
so we all.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Are not willing to accept that it was just a prank.
Gon A Rye, I said the kid, I am what
was there any intent to have the cat right away?
Speaker 1 (04:47):
I mean, without asking, I would say, I don't know,
but I would bet you read what you read. No, No,
I don't think so. I think he did it just
to be a dick at the time. I'm nine years old.
I know you love that cat. Watch this, and he
opened the door and the cat ran out right. Yeah,
I bet that that was an I don't want to
say an innocent prank. It's a dickish prank. I'll give
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you that. Even at nine, I think you know that.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
SO is the mother of the jackass gonna just stay
in her house?
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Then well, I don't know, Like, I don't know what happened.
She was like, if I have to go back, I
don't know what happens now. I mean, the original story
is kind of convoluted, but it basically is, as a child,
if you feel wronged or a family member or close
friend does something to you, right, that leads to when
you're nine, that leads to some sort of if you
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will use the word grudge, do you shed that when
you become adults. That's basically the question. Uh, yeah, I
guess in a nutshell. Yeah, I mean, now you're an adult.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
You're not nine years old anymore, right, but you're not
making your pants anymore.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Trying to think if there were family members that did anything.
Certainly not as bad as having a pet run away, right,
but examples that may be similar where just time healed
the wound. Yes, of course you sort of forget about stuff,
well not even forget about it, but it's not as bad.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
But the answer is yes, I don't have anything specific,
but time definitely heals will that you can understand. I
went years without talking to my dad.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
A family pet, right that that may stay deep for
a while.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Yes, even if it is a cat.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
You like cats?
Speaker 1 (06:31):
I do, no, No, But I'm saying like that's but some.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
People it doesn't matter if it's a cat versus a dog.
It's still your pet.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
If it were a rabbit, a bird, pet, a fish,
I threw it in the lake. Get over that. You
might be pissed, but fifteen years later you're getting over that.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
I mean, it's sad because Nie and aunt.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Have a great relationship, right, great relationship? Right? What are
your tea relentlessly? Are you allowed as an adult to
still hate that child? Yeah? Yeah, So this is to me,
what do you get over that? I bet in many
people's cases they don't.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
So my cousin tease me relentlessly when we were eight,
and now that I'm I'm thirty, I'm still holding that grudge.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
Where you don't want to see them functions. I get that.
Oh you're the one who is team grudge. Yeah. Did
you ever encourage your kids while they were growing up
to really, uh extend sort of a problem with somebody.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Would like keep something, keep something going.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
Like to keep it going, discourage or like did you
were you when it came to your children asking them
to maybe de escalate situations or were you all in
if they said I don't ever want to see that
person again? Did you say, yeah, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
That's that's good, that's the stuff.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
I don't know that I said it as excitedly, but
I definitely was all in on Yeah, I don't blame you. Yeah,
I wouldn't talk to him either. As a matter of fact,
I'm going to I'm gonna grudge also with you.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Because Diane is the first one to tell you, oh,
turn the other cheek. No, that if if it's eating
at you, it's doing you more damage than it is.
Holding this scrudge.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Living well is the best revenge. I still like grudges.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
That's that's not living well, holding rent free in your head. Yeah, good, Yeah,
you are rent free in my head. No, it's not
know what I'm doing, blotting how bad it's going to be.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
It's a it's a passing negative thought that maybe pops
into my mind every once in a while.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
That's not rent free.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Daily daily absolutely.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Is the past. The past. Hm hmm.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
But isn't that that blanket may be a little too
wah's And it's case by case everything's differ.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
Yes, Yeah, Like if somebody kid seems like a jerk.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
You don't know anything about him.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
That was from what I know over the years, even
though I haven't seen him.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
Right, It's it's like.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
That's still the same grudge family, still the same person
grudge family. Just just stay in the house with your
with your kid and his family. I don't understand why
there's such a need to move out.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Okay, well maybe well obviously there's a reason, or she
wouldn't do it right.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
You know, I was looking at it from the perspective
of you hold him the grudge. But when you were younger, Elliott,
did you ever do anything that would have set a
family member of friend or did you get someone in
trouble because of your actions. Oh doubt, Wait because of
my actions?
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Yeah, does telling secrets count?
Speaker 2 (09:49):
You're gonna tell us one right now?
Speaker 1 (09:51):
No?
Speaker 2 (09:51):
No, no, no, Like somebody had confided something in me
and I totally forgot they confided something in me and
I let it out during a family dinner. And how
does that person's relationship today seem affected by that reveal?
Speaker 1 (10:05):
I have not talked to them since. Oh my god,
we weren't that close. We weren't that close. So it's
not like she would It's a girl. It's not like
she would occasionally like reach out to me anyway. But
I would see her at like family things, and so
like the rest of the family jokes about it.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
Now, she must love that. The say again that the yeah.
Like to the rest of the family, they're like, all right,
big deal.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Just don't believe he didn't know.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
Because it doesn't sound like she believes that.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Oh she had, definitely, But again, I would only see
her at family functions. So I remember her telling a
group of us she went to brand Ice and so
down the no no, But I remember her being back
from brand Ice and telling all of us something. I
was young, younger, and so and I remember all of
us being there and she was like, hey, I can't
tell my parents this, I can't really tell any adult this,
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and then told us what it was, and it's nothing bad.
She didn't murder anybody. But then you let it slip
a year later, a year later, no, because I didn't remember, okay,
and so a year later, we're all sitting there and
I was like, oh, it's when so and so.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
She was still hoping it would have been kept a
secret of it.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
She probably thought everybody forty a year but Diane, I
told you I don't live up here in the trap
and so yeah, so something came up and I was like, oh,
that's like when huh I did and everybody was like what.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
And she went there, yes, Oh.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
My god, yeah she was there. I was there, and
the three other people that she confided in were there,
and they all looked at me like you're an a hole,
and I was like no, no, no, I caught it
as soon as I got the glares, and I was like,
oh my god, yeah, so I highlighted it instead of
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just trying to gloss by it. I was like, oh,
like and then the and then her family was like
oh uh I don't know that story, and I was like, well,
neither do I. Well, look at that any turkey run
through anybody else I gotta go. Yeah, No, it was
bad and it was bad. Haven't talked to her since
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I've seen her. I haven't talked to her since I've
talked to the rest of the family, even her parents.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
You're at the cousin.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
Yeah, but I think if I if there was, I mean,
I'm much older now, like that goes back twenty five years.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
This was sixteen. Yeah, I bet she'd be cool with
it now. It doesn't sound like she's.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
I don't know that I'll have the opportunity.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
To know of brands at any point.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
Yeah. Well she never called me before. Like I said,
we'd only see each other when we would see each other.
I mean, there's part of me wants to go get
over it, like you didn't do it? What by the way,
it was nothing that big?
Speaker 2 (12:50):
It was to her, Oh yes.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
Oh yeah it was. It was. She's like, please you
guys don't say anything like.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Yep, gotcha, thanks hell.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
But then I got all wrapped up stories telling the
next year and out of case.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
Wow, hi Elliott, the morning, All.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Right, classus is sham from an asses. How y'all doing today,
I'll do it great. What can I do for you, sir?
Speaker 5 (13:14):
I'm just calling about the nine year old. I agree
with it because I had a cat when I was
younger and my father left him at the house we
moved away from. And I still don't liked the fact
and we left behind the spot. He was a really
cool cat and I think about that cat every once
in a while.
Speaker 2 (13:29):
So it's not really a grudge, but I kind of
resent my.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
Dad for it. Wait a minute, you guys moved and
his dad just left the cat. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
Was dad going through something at the time.
Speaker 5 (13:46):
We were moving from one house to another at the time, Well,
he was moving from.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
One place to another. I ended up going back to
my mother's house.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Did you go back to your mom because you were
so angry at your dad?
Speaker 5 (13:58):
I wish no. It was just a situation that we
were living at the time.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
I gotcha, I got you, So it was a custody
type thing. The Yeah, so you you don't hold a grudge.
So do you do? You have a relationship with your
dad now? No, I don't.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
There's a lot of things that happened in my life
between me and.
Speaker 5 (14:17):
My father that I do not talk with him, and
I give a result to the fact that I'm not
gonna let him meet my son because I feel it
was that bad of an experience in my life between.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
Me and him.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
Wow, dude, i'd high five you and give you a
hug like that's a grudge, Like I applaud that.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
All right, very good, very good, thank you? Yes Kyler
From Scott Athan Elliott. The idea that people should just
get over something that happened to them when they were
kids simply because their adults now is asinine. You don't
get to wipe the slate clean because we're all grown ups. Okay,
I do agree with that, but I would just just
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hold your family member to get over it. But I
was gonna say at some point, though, can't you go
You're not the same person when you're twenty five that
you are when you're when you're ten. Right, Well, others
were wondering, did you ever apologize to this family member at.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
That dinner you said when everybody was like, oh my god,
and her parents were like, well, I said it was
a girl, where like, oh, we didn't know the girl. Yeah,
And I was like, oh my god. I am so sorry.
So I apologized in the moment.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
You did so publicly. Did you then write a note
or do something privately? Write a note? Well, I'm gather
an adult. You thought not writing a note? No, you
were a child?
Speaker 3 (15:43):
Or make a phone call?
Speaker 1 (15:44):
Yeah, no, but I was. I was still I was
over eighteen. Oh I thought you were young here?
Speaker 3 (15:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (15:49):
No, No, she was in college, so you were an adult.
Speaker 4 (15:53):
Yeah, I was a young adult eighteen, I said he
was over.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Yeah, I was over. I could probably do the math
real quick.
Speaker 3 (16:02):
So she's only a couple years older than you.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
Yeah, I was probably like twenty one. You were like
a dumb yeah twelve, some dumb twenty year old.
Speaker 4 (16:12):
Yeah, Elliott, Oh, my frontal cortex was not.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
Developed, by the way you use that garbage all the time.
Speaker 4 (16:19):
No, no, but yes, when I talk about stupid decisions
that people make, I'm.
Speaker 1 (16:23):
A different person now than I was when I was younger. Well,
now this makes you seem even worse. It wasn't intentional.
I got wrapped up in storytelling. Not my fault now
used as the excuse twice. But yes, I mean, and yes,
I'm not saying that everybody has to get over it.
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But I am saying you do change as a person.
I'm not the same person I am now that I
was in middle school, thank god.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
Yeah. But in the original story of the person was nine,
you were in your twenties.
Speaker 1 (16:55):
I was in my early twenties.
Speaker 2 (16:56):
You're the age of this person now sixteen.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
Years later, right, And we make mistakes. It wasn't intentional.
I didn't let their cat out. I let the cat
out of the bag, so to speak.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Hi Elliott in the morning, Is this me?
Speaker 1 (17:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (17:16):
Who's this?
Speaker 6 (17:19):
Hi? So when I was a teenager, my stepmother used
to refer to me as an it right in front
of my father constantly and in public.
Speaker 7 (17:35):
It was.
Speaker 6 (17:37):
We didn't get along at all. She yeah, it was when.
Speaker 1 (17:43):
You were a kids. She wouldn't refer to you as
like her daughter or or something like, you know, lovingly,
like a nickname or something.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
It was you were it, I was it.
Speaker 6 (17:58):
She would refer to me as it would need your attention.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
Wow, and that like predates like like pronouns and all
that other stuff. So like I get that. Now, let
me ask you this. Are you close with your mom now?
Speaker 6 (18:13):
No, my stepmother and not really no, no, like we're copathetic.
We deal with each other because my dad is still
married to her.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
But we don't.
Speaker 6 (18:25):
We don't get alonge, not really like we deal with
each other.
Speaker 1 (18:29):
Wow, and do how is your dad with her?
Speaker 6 (18:33):
They? I don't understand why he's still with her.
Speaker 1 (18:37):
See, that would be a tough one. That would be
a tough one, like if I were remarried, thank you.
If I were remarried and somebody was crap to my kids,
I don't think I could stay married to them. No,
I don't think so.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
It'd be pretty difficult. Yes, it'd be really hard, as
you have a family you're bringing in, said Blend, even if.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
They don't have a family. But I wouldn't be mean
to somebody else's kids, like I've always said, if I
if I got together with Maren Morris, I would teach
Hayes how to play hockey.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
But Hayes don't tell me any secret from John. So
let me get this straight. Elliott, who loves a grudge,
says that if someone is carrying a grudge, they should
just get over it. No, I didn't.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
Not in all cases.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
Not, in all cases, it affects you as an individual.
People are just trying to wrap their heads around this story,
which to me, is better than the original catale.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
No, because in my case, it wasn't that bad. What
I said wasn't that bad. Rachel says it was in
the moment at least. Elliott didn't do it to be mean.
That is true, he just forgot I was I got
wrapped up in storytelling.
Speaker 2 (19:52):
No, no, no, I was not.
Speaker 1 (19:53):
That's that is a fair That is a fair assessment.
I wasn't doing it to be mean. I wasn't doing
it to bully somebody. I wasn't doing it to like
to even pull it there. It was totally accidental.
Speaker 2 (20:07):
Well it's look, we're getting stories here, and again, thank
you for feeling so comfortable to open up about it.
But there are people talking about abusive situations like, oh,
I would never know one, I would never forget saying.
And if you're able to go to law enforcement, if
it's not been so far removed and you're able to
still go after somebody, that is not something that should
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be moved on from or oh I agree gotten over.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Oh no, no, no, no, not at all, not at all.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Started with a bad prank and we we got to
a bad memory Elliott a family dinner reveal. But it
even became a running bit. Oh don't tell Elliott.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
You guys know I am bad with secrets. I am
bad with.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
Has carried over into your professional.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
Absolutely, Hi Elliott in the Morning, because I love gossip.
I love gossip and grudges. Do you can't get me gossip?
And that asked me not to say it. Well, you can.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
I just don't know that I'll be able to live
by it. Hi, Ellie of the Morning, One, two three?
Speaker 1 (21:14):
I got you?
Speaker 2 (21:15):
Who is this?
Speaker 1 (21:18):
Hello?
Speaker 5 (21:20):
Hello?
Speaker 7 (21:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (21:21):
I got you. Who's this Jack?
Speaker 7 (21:23):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (21:24):
Jack?
Speaker 1 (21:24):
What can I do for you?
Speaker 5 (21:26):
I got a quick little story for you. When I
was probably in first grade, we lived in New Jersey.
We lived in New Jersey, and my parents got my
sister a bunch of chickens at estate fair. Then they
in little Chinese box. But anyway, it was my job
to feed them. One night and I said them we
had a little chicken wire, closed them up. And the
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next day she was taking a few of them in
for show and tell in second or third grade, and
they got massacred by a bunch of raccoons that night
in their backyard. There was just blood and feathers everywhere.
I did not confess to the fact that I was
in charge of closing up the chickens to that coop
A one for probably twenty five years. Oh, she was
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taken in the first grade, Show and tell she missed
school that day. There was blood and feathers everywhere.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
How did she how did she react when you came clean?
Speaker 2 (22:21):
Wait, he needs to tell us again what the scene
looked like. I know what it looked like.
Speaker 5 (22:26):
What was the kind of burnch into my head?
Speaker 1 (22:29):
What was there? What was her reaction when you came clean?
Speaker 5 (22:33):
Uh, she didn't really, It just shocked, just daw open.
But the nice part of the stories, my dad told
me not to worry about it. This might be a lie.
He told me not to worry about it because he
knew I was a little kid, so he would go
at night and secure the wire so the raccoons got
in there.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
He took the hit. He took the hit.
Speaker 5 (22:53):
That but I was like thirty five years old and
the old man stepped in front of me.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
I took the bullet. You know what. That's a good man.
That's a good man. All right, very good, Thank you, sir.
And where am I going?
Speaker 2 (23:03):
Line four?
Speaker 1 (23:05):
Hi Ellie at the morning?
Speaker 7 (23:08):
Hi is this me?
Speaker 2 (23:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (23:12):
All right, So well, my sisters pretty much killed my
pet lizard. And that's why I hold a grudg against
them because so I was at my dad. Apparently they
over fed it, and so I came back and it
was dead.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
Right, And so right now, how much did it cost you?
Speaker 6 (23:41):
Uh?
Speaker 7 (23:42):
Tank and everything cost me about two hundred bucks?
Speaker 1 (23:48):
Jesus, Hey, what do you I don't blame you. How
long ago was this?
Speaker 7 (23:54):
This is about three years ago? Four years ago?
Speaker 1 (23:59):
And are you you still not talking to your sister?
Speaker 7 (24:03):
I mean I talked to her, but like I'm always
I was thinking about them, like you kill Mullisen, I'm
mad at you.
Speaker 2 (24:12):
You mean we talked to a therapist?
Speaker 6 (24:15):
Yea, he is?
Speaker 2 (24:19):
Did they Did they.
Speaker 3 (24:22):
Give you an apology?
Speaker 1 (24:24):
They it's his sister.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
Was it an accident?
Speaker 4 (24:27):
Yea?
Speaker 2 (24:28):
They intended to hurt your pet.
Speaker 7 (24:32):
I mean they've they've like wasted the food before, but
like this time, I guess they like killed it. I
don't know if it was intentional, but they still come
unlessard that like.
Speaker 6 (24:44):
A lot of.
Speaker 7 (24:44):
Allowance for her.
Speaker 3 (24:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
The Hey, let me ask you this. Did your parents
get mad at her?
Speaker 7 (24:50):
Nope?
Speaker 1 (24:51):
What do you mean?
Speaker 7 (24:52):
No, they didn't care. I wasn't defended in any way,
So like, that's why I'm so mad.
Speaker 1 (25:00):
Did they reimburse you?
Speaker 2 (25:03):
No?
Speaker 1 (25:03):
Do you know what that means?
Speaker 7 (25:07):
Probably not?
Speaker 1 (25:09):
Yeah, did they pay you back? Like, did you get
your two hundred dollars back?
Speaker 2 (25:13):
No?
Speaker 7 (25:13):
I thought nothing back.
Speaker 3 (25:14):
Offered to buy you a new lizard?
Speaker 1 (25:16):
Okay, you don't just replace that, I mean money.
Speaker 7 (25:20):
That's what made me that is that I didn't get
anything back.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
Nothing, Chary, I'll give you the two hundred bucks.
Speaker 7 (25:28):
Oh really?
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Oh I wasn't expecting that. Do you expect to give
you No?
Speaker 3 (25:34):
No, No, it's fine.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
I felt like it was the right thing to do
in the moment. No, So let me get this straight.
The therapist is paying the patient. So that's how I work.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
All right, I'll get you. I'll give you the two
hundred dollars. What the well the station? Yeah, I'll give
you the two hundred bucks in Kristen, Yeah my legit?
Speaker 2 (26:03):
Hell yeah bro.
Speaker 3 (26:07):
Excited?
Speaker 2 (26:08):
Yeah, No, that's awesome.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
That's awesome. All right, but what do we do at home?
Speaker 3 (26:15):
Like, what do you mean, well, this isn't going to
change your feeling.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
No, I'm not giving you the money and asking you
to and that grudge if anything, hold on to it.
The goddamn disc jock sorry, gosh, dar dis jockey gave
me the money. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, all right, all right,
very good, all right?
Speaker 7 (26:33):
Wait, can I say one thing? We have to go?
Speaker 2 (26:36):
Oh it's butthole. I am going, but yeah, go ahead.
I love this kid. Yeah, there you go, there you go.
Speaker 6 (26:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
I thought of your sister when you said it. Hey,
do me a favor. Hold on one second, Christian, will
you get some info?
Speaker 2 (26:50):
Yeah, and.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
I'll talk. I'll talk to Aaron.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
And cancel the second hundred today and that first one
from Monday.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
All right, my man inks capital.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
Hold tip one second, Hold on one second
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