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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You've never had sex with somebody you hate? No, you hate?
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Have you No? Then what does this number surprise you? Well,
maybe you fall into this category of somebody who didn't.
A third of adults report having sexual fantasies about someone
they hate.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I don't think so either.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
I don't think I do. I don't think I do.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
So what is what's the motivation here?
Speaker 1 (00:30):
What do you mean?
Speaker 4 (00:32):
Like?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Why and you said it's not makeups?
Speaker 1 (00:36):
No, it's not sex, it's not Oh, hold on, I
can tell you this. I can tell you this.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Hate sex doesn't aim to heal, because somebody did bring
up in this thing that I was reading about makeup sex.
Hate sex does not aim to heal. It preserves emotional wounds.
It tends to be selfish. It tends to be aggressive,
(01:02):
which makes sense because you don't care about how the
other person is feeling or what their emotions are during
the whole thing.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Is it like a power trip on the minute for yourself?
Maybe maybe there is some of that.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Or is it to hurt someone else like I have
no interest in this person, in fact, I dislike them greatly,
but it will get back or exact revenge on some
other situation.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
But then aren't you doing it because you hate that
third person.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
I'm just trying to come up for reasons why people
would do this.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
So is it like I hate that guy, therefore I
hate the whole family, so I'm gonna have sex with
his brother?
Speaker 1 (01:46):
No, I don't know, but you have to hate two
people at that point.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Like I've certainly heard the term hate f so as Francesco.
But like when you do and think about it, to me,
it doesn't make sense.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
I don't know that I ever have, like if and
if I have, it doesn't come to mind. It's not
memorable and it can't and it's not and it's not
like I banged the laundry list of people.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
But they can't be like you said, revisionist history.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
No, no, or like like like what was her name
Antonio said? Or whatever, Victoria.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
I hate them now, I get that, but not at
the time, but not at that No, I love them
at the time.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Remember, I'll tell you I love you mid thrust right
on the first push hum. But I can't think of
hating them in the moment. I wonder if I'd even
be able to do it. I would I would?
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Or does somebody say it's a coworker that drives you
nuts in the office. So you're saying, God, I hate
them when it comes to business. But we were out
at a happy hour and we went home together. Like,
is that but the same thing?
Speaker 2 (03:01):
But is that one of those I hate him as
a coworker love him as a person.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
No, but you've just hated them forever and it's your
first time going out and you had fun. Yeah, And
then you're like, God, I had sex with someone who
I hate and will hate again back at the office
probably tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
That's a good one. That's a good one. I can
I can wrap my arms around that.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
It'd be like it would be it would be like
it would be like.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
One of the girls in the pit, like having sex
with Josh. Okay, No, I don't know that, Dan, I'm
just I'm just using that as an example.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Now, they may like him, They may like him.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Isn't everybody partnered up?
Speaker 1 (03:38):
What do you mean, Oh, Casey's not with somebody?
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Oh, I guess. But I also don't know if she
hates Josh actively in the pit. So that's why I
didn't think of her.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
So I don't. I don't.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
But but she may love Josh. That may not be
hate sex. I would have said jan because she's not
coupled up. She also doesn't have hair on her buttthole.
But she and Josh are very friendly, very friendly, so
that would be friend sex, not hate sex.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
I'm just trying to go through the reasons you hate
people and then trying to transfer that over to this.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Then I have sex moment of intimacy. Yeah, like that's
weird to me, you know what? I think?
Speaker 2 (04:14):
The other problem is now now I'm going through a
rolodex in my head of people I hate. I don't know,
if I don't, I don't know. Women come to mind. Now,
are there any women that I hate?
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Yes, oh yeah, oh I could never have sex with her.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Oh I wouldn't even want her to touch it.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Wait to Diane point somewhere.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
No, no, but she figured it out.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Yeah, I wouldn't even want her to touch it, touch it,
oral it, none of them.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Huh huh.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
I'm standing ground the no.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
You know what I'd rather, I'd rather be abstinate. Is
that true?
Speaker 4 (04:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:54):
I couldn't even do it, just to say like, yeah,
I did it.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
I couldn't because what are you getting out of that?
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Diane's right, though, that little bit of like, yeah, I
just I did er.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Oh yeah, whats so gross? It's hate sex, bro, it's selfish. No,
it's very selfish. They said hate sex is self elsish.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Yeah, sometimes I just.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Need to get a little excuse me, although that's not
really hate sex. That was just warning and been a
dry spell.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
I guess at the end of the day, you can
hate hot people, right, Yeah, we're trying to make all
these stories.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
No, just because you hate them doesn't mean they're a troll.
You can hate somebody that's gorgeous. Give me time, I'll
think of somebody I hate that's good looking. Listen, is
Michael Phelps? Do I hate him?
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Yeah? He's he's not an ugly man, he's a dick.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
So you are having sex with him? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:54):
I don't think i'd have sex with Michael Phelps. No,
I don't even think i'd let him moral it. Where
am I going?
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Line three? Hi, Elliott in the morning? Is this man?
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Yeah? Hi?
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Who's this?
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Robert and Richmond?
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Have you had Have you had hate sex?
Speaker 5 (06:12):
I mean absolutely?
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Uh.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
But there's also there's this weird thing of the romance
of actually hating somebody is.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
More what do you.
Speaker 5 (06:25):
It's it's the same thing as a friendship. Like an enemy.
You hold onto enemies more.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
Than you home on the friends.
Speaker 5 (06:33):
And so there's like this little weird sexual tension there
and those are and that's an interesting bird.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
I'm trying to I'm trying to wrap my head around
the you hold onto enemies more than friends. I love
my friends like I love my friends.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Without a doubt, but there's more energy, Like it takes
so much more energy to hate.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
No no, no, no, But isn't that old, Like you
keep your enery enemies closer.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
I trust my friends. I don't trust my enemies.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
But it's strategically in your favor to keep the enemies
closer to you.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
So I can have sex with them.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
No, oh, we're just talking about the saying.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
They don't need to be about that.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
That far.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Who did you have sex with?
Speaker 5 (07:17):
I don't know who the.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Who was the person you had sex with that you hate.
Speaker 5 (07:22):
Someone that Oh god, this okay, I should have thought
about this for gone. It's someone that called me out
for something that I shouldn't have done.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
And you hate them for doing that.
Speaker 5 (07:39):
It's like, well, we've always not been friends. We've always
been kind of like enemies and not prenemies by any means.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
But that's there.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
But how did you cross that line to have sex then?
Speaker 5 (07:56):
Because she was talking crap and then all of a sudden,
it's just like you realize that there's that opening there,
and just like you're both just bad people.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
I don't know, you know what though, No, you're not
a bad person. You're not a bad person. Don't say
that about yourself? Is the and I know, but what
is that thing you shouldn't have done?
Speaker 4 (08:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (08:14):
No, no, okay, that's neither here nor there. No, I'm
not touching that, thank you, sir.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
I think that's the problem. I can't even imagine the.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
I can't imagine the let's take our clothes off, like
I'm like, all of a sudden, we're disrobing.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
But I hate you even if you are hot.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
But at that point, are you forgetting that you hate
the person like you're so overwheling or do you maintain
that position the entire night?
Speaker 1 (08:50):
I think you maintain it.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
It says thirty one a third of people have sexual
fantasies about someone they hate.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
I just can't get there.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
I can't either, but I want to. I want to.
Everybody on hold does hi Ellie in the morning? I
envy it? What I think? I envy it?
Speaker 4 (09:12):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (09:12):
I mate, it seems satisfying.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Hello hello, yeah, hi, you've had hate sex?
Speaker 5 (09:22):
I have multiple times?
Speaker 1 (09:23):
What?
Speaker 6 (09:25):
What the same person?
Speaker 4 (09:27):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Wow? Wait, so do you secretly love them?
Speaker 6 (09:31):
No?
Speaker 1 (09:31):
I would love to kill them? Oh okay, all right,
all right.
Speaker 5 (09:36):
It was a means to an end.
Speaker 4 (09:40):
While we were still living together.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Means to an end meaning that you had an inch
to scratch and he scratched it.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Exactly. I'm sorry, I'm eating shit file at No, get good. Wait.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
So, so you guys were living together, you broke up,
you hate each other.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
You weren't trying to have makeup sex.
Speaker 6 (10:04):
No, I just needed my needs mess.
Speaker 5 (10:06):
I didn't care if he met his right so, which
he did not.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Completely.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
So you were completely and I don't mean this in
a bad way, you were completely.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Selfish about it.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Oh hell yeah?
Speaker 1 (10:16):
Did you feel Did you feel dirty at all afterwards?
Speaker 4 (10:18):
No?
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Why would you feel dirty? There was nothing emotional about it.
It was all just scratch my itch exactly. Wow. Was
it satisfying.
Speaker 5 (10:31):
Once the rest of the time? No, And I was
hammered when it was satisfying.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
Okay, I was going to say, there's got to be
something else at play, because there are that you could
be with to scratch an itch.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (10:47):
It was more of a convenience thing, right, that's okay.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
Those are the things that are at play.
Speaker 5 (10:52):
That waking up in the middle of the night, just
meeting something and then going back to bed.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
I gotcha. No, I understand that. I understand that, Thank you.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
What.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
No, she woke up in the middle of the night,
she was horny, she wanted some sex, She got sex
from him.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
And then went right back to bed.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
The person was there, she was living with them.
Speaker 7 (11:13):
Yeah, we were living together.
Speaker 8 (11:15):
Yeah, no, we we ended up switched.
Speaker 5 (11:18):
Like separating bedrooms after we broke up.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
So you walked that bagoon into the other room, got
a little pokey pokey, and then.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Walked that bagoon right back.
Speaker 6 (11:28):
I sure did.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
I had a girl. Good for you, good for him.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
You put my panties back on, all right, very good,
very good, Thank you, ma'am, thank you.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
But that's not true.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
That it's that you could just go out and find
somebody else to satisfy that.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
But when other things are assisting and facilitating, you better
understand why it has to be that person. Yeah, no,
I'll give you that from Brian. This happened at my
just happened to my buddy at work. He hated this
girl at the office, found her voice annoying, and she
always yelled at him. But they ended up hooking up.
When they got back to work, nothing changed.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
So you had sex with somebody at work and then
still ended up hating them.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Yep, Can I ask that? Is that from an internal employee?
Speaker 3 (12:10):
It is not?
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Oh okay, it's not line eight. Hi, elliot in the morning.
Speaker 8 (12:18):
Hey, how'll we go them?
Speaker 6 (12:19):
Guys?
Speaker 1 (12:19):
Hey? Good, who's this you had? Hay, real quick, let's
not cut. Let's not cut my bad.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Yeah no, that's okay. But you said it was some
of the best ats you've ever had.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
Yes, what was the story?
Speaker 7 (12:33):
Yeah, so I had a girl that made mine in
my ex girlfriend's life pretty miserable. She hated my ex
girlfriend in particular, she nearly broke up and sorry, I'm
just getting out of work here, and a couple months
later she end up both at my house because she's
friends with my roommates, and one thing led to another
(12:55):
and it was one of the best times of their life.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
And did you do you still hate her after words.
Speaker 7 (13:02):
I mean, I guess kind now but not so much anymore.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
But not enough.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
But but but at the at the time you were
having sex, you weren't looking to heal that relationship.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
You were just looking to pump and dump.
Speaker 8 (13:18):
Yeah, yeah, exactly, yes.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
Right on?
Speaker 2 (13:23):
Interesting, all right, very good, very good, thank you? Why
is it I can't I don't see myself in that situation.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Even with all these people sending in photos of Jewel
and Judith Light, it doesn't get your mind going.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Okay, but no, that's great because those are two women
I hate.
Speaker 3 (13:42):
Okay, Well, you were having a hard time finding I was.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
I was, and now now they're pouring in Hi Elliot
at the morning. I hate I hate Jewel more than
Judith Light. I hate them both, but I hate Jewel
Moore Hi Elliot in the morning. Ever, definitely wouldn't let
her orally, not with dumb teeth. I'm sorry, Yes, hi,
who's this?
Speaker 3 (14:05):
This is me?
Speaker 1 (14:06):
Yes, ma'am oh Hi, I'm Jen from Baltimore. Uh yeah,
what can I do for you?
Speaker 8 (14:13):
Hey?
Speaker 9 (14:13):
So, I think there's a thin line between love and hate.
I don't know if unless somebody's enabled somehow.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
Like they're drawn ki, whatever the case may be.
Speaker 9 (14:22):
I think if you hate somebody, you you know there
is this poll, this attraction to them. So I don't
I don't know if I believe with this scenario.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
Wait that you don't.
Speaker 2 (14:33):
You don't know if you believe the scenario that you
can have sex with somebody you hate.
Speaker 9 (14:38):
Yeah, unless it's literally like unless they're drunk or something.
I don't know if I could just hate somebody and
believe me, I could hate somebody and then want to
have sex with them. I just don't think that.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
So I'll tell you this the thing that I was reading.
And no, that's okay. In your mind, you can't get there,
that's okay, says. While it may seem contradictory, it is.
It's possible to hate someone, especially after feelings of betrayal
or deep hurt.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
Hate.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Sex is a real phenomenon. So and so it could
be it could be somebody. Well, I mean, the reason
you hate them is they crossed you. So it's not
it's not anonymous, it's not random. And it could be
somebody you even liked at one point but now hate.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
But they're aware of the betrayaler, the deep hurt.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
Yes, of course, it's not like this is news to me. No,
Jewel just wouldn't know that you hate her. Uh. Yeah, no,
she wouldn't know that I hate her. She started it.
Speaker 3 (15:37):
Oh my god, she did. What about you?
Speaker 10 (15:42):
No?
Speaker 2 (15:43):
No, you know why because just like h just like
a princess, she just walked out of there to leave
me languishing in debt.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
With all of her money.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
Yeah, bitch, Jewel, let that go. I can't.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
Jewel started it. So for the I would have sex
with Jewel just to then go on and go I did.
That would be hate sex for the phenomenon, which I
guess means I would also have sex with either of
the Madden brothers them two.
Speaker 3 (16:13):
This sounds like you took a very psychological look at
it hate sex, or at least a writer did. Yes,
does it have to be mutual for it to be
true hates sex?
Speaker 1 (16:27):
I'm gonna say no, it can be yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
And the other person has no idea.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
Like go to just go back to the work.
Speaker 2 (16:33):
Example right where that guy was like, I hated this
chick at work. We were out at some company thing,
went back, hooked up and back next.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
Day at worked.
Speaker 2 (16:43):
Still hated her. Right, she may not hate him she
may not even know he hates her.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
Doesn't sound like she did. I was just wondering if
maybe that person wasn't describing by its definition, that you've
come to learn hate sex.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
No, no, I do believe the other person doesn't have
have to know. Okay, they may know. That may be
two of you having hate sex together.
Speaker 3 (17:08):
Again. I just can't imagine that.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
I can't either. No, I can't.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Mentally, I can't get there. But like the work thing
is a perfect example. The guy who called him was like,
this chick was a bitch, broke up, broke up me
and my girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
She ends up at the house. We had sex.
Speaker 2 (17:28):
And listen, keep in mind, whether or not you go
through with it, a third of people will say I
have sexual fantasies about people I hate.
Speaker 4 (17:39):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
Line five, Hi, Elliot in the morning, Elliott morning, sir, Hey,
who's this.
Speaker 4 (17:50):
Let's just not do a name today. Okay, no problem,
but yes, absolutely have done it. And it was a
fantastic experience. It was a one and it was done
and it was interesting.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
What was this scenario in which you hated this person?
Speaker 4 (18:07):
So worked with dead person for a while, asked said
person out. We went out I was a perfect gentleman.
Blah blah blah. She said I was too nice, so
she was talking crap. For a couple of years. We
had an argument. Something happened. I told her to shut
her mouth. We got mad. We were in a walking
freezer bing bang, boom, off we went done.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
You're at work. Awesome. I wasn't expecting that.
Speaker 4 (18:34):
Yeah, on a stack of patties.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
Buddy, there you go.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
But you but but you loved it, Like the sex
was great.
Speaker 4 (18:42):
I you know, it was short, it was mad, it
was angry. But I don't know about great. But it
was a cool experience. It's something I can say I've done,
and it taught me what I was looking for.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
And by the way, let me let me say this.
And I think this may be. This may be where
where you two lose this. You equate right or wrong.
You equate.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
Sex with feelings of love right, which is I'm not
saying that's wrong.
Speaker 3 (19:16):
Makes me feel so fine.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
The this is just sex for oh no, I but
there's got to be feeling in there.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
There there is because you hate them. But this is
just this is a backflip after hitting a home run. Bam,
what God? Done.
Speaker 3 (19:32):
It's not that he said, it doesn't aim to heal. No, no, no,
So it's weird because he's said no, but no, but
it's very selfish. It's very selfish. I got mine, I
got me a slice of man. It's quite complex, No,
it is. It's just like if his story it was selfish.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
But he but that's okay.
Speaker 3 (20:00):
Hey, he did sound like there was some resolution.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
It sounded I think the resolution that you heard was
him learning learning. So he said, I got what I wanted. No, no,
not healing. I got what I wanted, and I learned.
I don't want that.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
That's okay. And he still got a little slice of man, right,
and we got the bottom right out of it on
the patties. Hi, elliot in the morning, just me, who'd
you get.
Speaker 4 (20:35):
Sir?
Speaker 1 (20:36):
You there? Yeah?
Speaker 8 (20:40):
Hey, so this was my senior year in high school.
Does date me back a little bit ahead? My ex's
best friend, total pain in the butt. I had nothing
but bad things to say about me and all this stuff.
Ended up going to a senior party and she was there,
(21:02):
ended up just grabbing her hand, went to a closet. Yeah,
it was mutually. We both hated each other. It was
absolutely insane best time ever.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
Now, the only thing that I was gonna ask is
the reason that I jumped in when you're when you're
thank you, sir, love the story.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
When you're a senior in high school, do you really
hate people?
Speaker 4 (21:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (21:29):
Yeah you can't. Yeah, okay, all right, all right. I
just feel like hate is a more mature than an adult.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
Yeah, it's probably the opposite.
Speaker 1 (21:36):
No, you think you hate somebody.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
You throw that term around maybe very yeah, exactly exactly
where you may not really hate them.
Speaker 1 (21:46):
As an adult you hate them.
Speaker 3 (21:48):
You almost think it's more like a teasing, like an
elementary school.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
Like I'm tugging the pigtails thing.
Speaker 2 (21:54):
Yeah, maybe maybe, But then I'm sure there are cases
where like you do genuinely hate them.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
It is a strong word, though, You're right. Kristin always
says that rubbed off on me, me, I'll hate people.
But she whenever that word comes, oh she doesn't like
that work. He does remind you that she maybe wouldn't
say that for people that I think Kristen hates.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
Right, No, no, but that's true, that's true.
Speaker 6 (22:23):
It is.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
It is the same.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
We love is a strong word, what so poetic?
Speaker 1 (22:28):
Thank you?
Speaker 3 (22:29):
It wasn't a compliment.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
Oh can I go to line three?
Speaker 1 (22:35):
I'm gonna fantasize.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
About Jewel and Judith Like tonight, we're gonna have a threesome.
Speaker 1 (22:39):
Hi Elly in the morning. Yes, Hi, who's this?
Speaker 4 (22:44):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (22:45):
My name is Jasin.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
Yes, what can I do for you?
Speaker 10 (22:49):
So?
Speaker 6 (22:49):
I had hate sex with my ex husband's coworkers.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
Why did you? Now?
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Did you hate your ex husband so you banged a
coworker or did you hate that co work girl?
Speaker 6 (23:00):
I hate the coworker. Why because the first time I
met him, I was pregnant and he told me I
was sat Oh boy, but he's just that guy that
everybody dislikes that work, right, and then and then after
I divorced.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
Well yeah, yeah, how did you end up having sex
with him?
Speaker 6 (23:22):
Because we all work together? Now?
Speaker 1 (23:26):
Oh damn?
Speaker 4 (23:27):
All right, right through that break?
Speaker 1 (23:29):
Oh my god?
Speaker 2 (23:30):
So wait, so so how did you so you're you're
working there? Did you does he know that you hate him?
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Yes?
Speaker 6 (23:38):
We like it was a mutual thing, like we hating
each other.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
Who initiated it?
Speaker 4 (23:45):
Me?
Speaker 1 (23:47):
What did you do to initiate it? Did you like
grab his ween?
Speaker 4 (23:57):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (23:58):
Please don't cut out, Please don't cut out.
Speaker 5 (24:00):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (24:00):
Please don't if I do a call back.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
Oh yes you will, ye say that part again. Wait,
so what happened? So how did you initiate it?
Speaker 6 (24:08):
So basically, I was just like, you know, I haven't
had it in a while, and we were talking and
I was like, I said a specific thing and wanted
that done. And he was like, all.
Speaker 4 (24:20):
Right, can I ask you what?
Speaker 1 (24:23):
But I what did you say to him?
Speaker 2 (24:24):
Like like when you were like, I get that the
factory had been shut down for a little bit, you
were horny. I get all of that. What did you
What did you say to him though? Because you because
you said he hates you too.
Speaker 6 (24:37):
Yeah, but it was it almost turned into like this
like hate passion thing.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
So what did you say to him?
Speaker 2 (24:48):
I can't.
Speaker 6 (24:48):
I don't want to say exactly what I said.
Speaker 1 (24:50):
Why I'll dump it if I have to.
Speaker 11 (24:54):
It was a certain act that I wanted done. And
and you know, you drinking and you just start talking
about all kinds of things and we just kind of
got to that.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
So you looked at him and you said, I want
you to do this to me.
Speaker 6 (25:10):
I said, I want that done. He said, okay, I
will do that.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
Where'd you guys go?
Speaker 6 (25:16):
His place.
Speaker 1 (25:17):
So you went back to his house? Yep, he had,
he had some dessert.
Speaker 6 (25:23):
Yes, I'm getting ready to walk into.
Speaker 5 (25:25):
Work right now, are you Harny?
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Are you Harney right now?
Speaker 3 (25:32):
Was she till Christen?
Speaker 1 (25:33):
I know exactly what she said.
Speaker 3 (25:34):
I'd like to see Kristen's face when she hears it.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
Hey, will you tell? Will you tell Kristin exactly what
you said?
Speaker 8 (25:40):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (25:40):
All right, hold on one.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
Second, but talk fast, talk fast like you did that guy.
Hold on one second. Hold on, hey, pick up line
three and then write it down. You know what she said.
Speaker 3 (25:50):
I want to see her reaction though, as she found out.
Yet how long is the request?
Speaker 1 (25:57):
Oh? She just found out.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
Look at her face.
Speaker 1 (26:01):
I think Chris may go home with her back on. Hold,
here we go. Hey, did christ it sound like? Did
it sound like christ? And got really horning totally? And
you told her exactly what you said I did. Oh
my god, that's not what I thought it was gonna be.
(26:22):
Damn girl, damn girl, turn around? Turn around?
Speaker 8 (26:30):
Oh my god, Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (26:32):
Hey, So now, did you guys only do it once?
Speaker 6 (26:37):
No, it went on for a while.
Speaker 1 (26:41):
But do you do you guys still work together? Yep? Hey,
keep me on the phone. Let's walk into the office and.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
Just walk by, just walk by him and just go
hey man, hey man. And then he'll say, hey, who cares,
get off on the different floor of the elevator.
Speaker 1 (26:57):
I don't care.
Speaker 6 (27:00):
You're killing me.
Speaker 1 (27:02):
I just want to hear his voice in the background.
Speaker 3 (27:03):
When's the last time they were together?
Speaker 1 (27:05):
Good question?
Speaker 2 (27:06):
Good question? When was the last When was the last time?
When was the last time that you guys were together.
Speaker 6 (27:12):
Physically? About two years?
Speaker 4 (27:15):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (27:15):
Really? Yeah? Do you ever think about do you ever
think about doing that again?
Speaker 6 (27:21):
I have, but it's turned into more of a do
you like any kind of things?
Speaker 4 (27:28):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (27:28):
So he's over his hatred?
Speaker 2 (27:30):
Yeah, so he started, he started, he started getting feelings.
Speaker 1 (27:35):
He got the feel right, eh, no, good now he's
on clam rose.
Speaker 3 (27:41):
Not your act, just the feeling.
Speaker 2 (27:43):
Hey, can I ask you this? Did you ever the
thing that that you requested? Did you ever did you
ever do that to him?
Speaker 4 (27:51):
No?
Speaker 10 (27:52):
Damn right, but happened to me multiple So he did
that to you multiple time?
Speaker 4 (28:03):
Is that?
Speaker 1 (28:04):
Can I ask you this? Can I ask you this?
Is that one of like not not with just people?
Speaker 11 (28:08):
You have.
Speaker 4 (28:10):
Had it before?
Speaker 1 (28:11):
Did you like it?
Speaker 5 (28:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (28:14):
Is that it?
Speaker 1 (28:15):
Now is that like a regular request for you? Even
with guys you like?
Speaker 10 (28:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (28:20):
What made you? Can I ask you this?
Speaker 2 (28:22):
You had never done that before you asked him to
do it? Was there and you hated him? Was there
something about this feeling of not even horniness, but power
of like, watch what I'm going to have this guy do?
Speaker 6 (28:38):
Kinda after after a divorce, I felt like I had
a lot more power in that department.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
Right, Yeah, good for you.
Speaker 11 (28:48):
Thanks?
Speaker 1 (28:48):
You're really hot, aren't you?
Speaker 6 (28:52):
I mean I would I wouldn't call myself that, but
I think the decent.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
Let's go ask that guy here. Let's walk into the office.
Speaker 6 (29:06):
I don't think I think he's not at work today.
Speaker 1 (29:09):
But yeah, you'll find out. You'll let me know.
Speaker 2 (29:11):
All right, Hey, let me get you a shirt. Hold
on one second? Hold on absolutely where where?
Speaker 1 (29:17):
Whenever you you're asking for that? Hold on one second?
Speaker 4 (29:20):
Everything?
Speaker 1 (29:21):
All right? Very good? Hold on one second? Hold on
one second? Wow, that was hot.
Speaker 3 (29:27):
People are guessing, has anybody gotten it?
Speaker 2 (29:30):
Right?
Speaker 3 (29:30):
Someone has?
Speaker 1 (29:34):
Can I ask you this? Did you think that's what
it was going to be? No?
Speaker 3 (29:38):
But now I didn't think it was going to be
what you thought it was going to be.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
What did you think it was.
Speaker 3 (29:42):
To me, she clearly is comfortable with the show. That
was too obvious. So I thought it was what.
Speaker 1 (29:47):
She went with was too obvious. What you thought I
was going?
Speaker 4 (29:50):
Right?
Speaker 3 (29:51):
Oh okay at this point children talk about it. So
it to me that wasn't.
Speaker 1 (29:56):
That's true, that's true, what choking.
Speaker 3 (29:58):
It was going to be. But it surprised me what
with what she went with?
Speaker 1 (30:04):
Certainly, how great is that?
Speaker 3 (30:08):
It's a dynamic.
Speaker 2 (30:10):
I think you know that it's a power thing, a
power thing?
Speaker 1 (30:13):
Doane?
Speaker 2 (30:14):
Can I ask you this? And I just yes, no question.
Has that sentence ever come out of your mouth?
Speaker 3 (30:22):
Now?
Speaker 1 (30:29):
It's so party
You've never had sex with somebody you hate? No, you hate?
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Have you No? Then what does this number surprise you? Well,
maybe you fall into this category of somebody who didn't.
A third of adults report having sexual fantasies about someone
they hate.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I don't think so either.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
I don't think I do. I don't think I do.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
So what is what's the motivation here?
Speaker 1 (00:30):
What do you mean?
Speaker 4 (00:32):
Like?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Why and you said it's not makeups?
Speaker 1 (00:36):
No, it's not sex, it's not Oh, hold on, I
can tell you this. I can tell you this.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Hate sex doesn't aim to heal, because somebody did bring
up in this thing that I was reading about makeup sex.
Hate sex does not aim to heal. It preserves emotional wounds.
It tends to be selfish. It tends to be aggressive,
(01:02):
which makes sense because you don't care about how the
other person is feeling or what their emotions are during
the whole thing.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Is it like a power trip on the minute for yourself?
Maybe maybe there is some of that.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Or is it to hurt someone else like I have
no interest in this person, in fact, I dislike them greatly,
but it will get back or exact revenge on some
other situation.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
But then aren't you doing it because you hate that
third person.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
I'm just trying to come up for reasons why people
would do this.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
So is it like I hate that guy, therefore I
hate the whole family, so I'm gonna have sex with
his brother?
Speaker 1 (01:46):
No, I don't know, but you have to hate two
people at that point.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Like I've certainly heard the term hate f so as Francesco.
But like when you do and think about it, to me,
it doesn't make sense.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
I don't know that I ever have, like if and
if I have, it doesn't come to mind. It's not
memorable and it can't and it's not and it's not
like I banged the laundry list of people.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
But they can't be like you said, revisionist history.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
No, no, or like like like what was her name
Antonio said? Or whatever, Victoria.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
I hate them now, I get that, but not at
the time, but not at that No, I love them
at the time.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Remember, I'll tell you I love you mid thrust right
on the first push hum. But I can't think of
hating them in the moment. I wonder if I'd even
be able to do it. I would I would?
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Or does somebody say it's a coworker that drives you
nuts in the office. So you're saying, God, I hate
them when it comes to business. But we were out
at a happy hour and we went home together. Like,
is that but the same thing?
Speaker 2 (03:01):
But is that one of those I hate him as
a coworker love him as a person.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
No, but you've just hated them forever and it's your
first time going out and you had fun. Yeah, And
then you're like, God, I had sex with someone who
I hate and will hate again back at the office
probably tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
That's a good one. That's a good one. I can
I can wrap my arms around that.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
It'd be like it would be it would be like
it would be like.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
One of the girls in the pit, like having sex
with Josh. Okay, No, I don't know that, Dan, I'm
just I'm just using that as an example.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Now, they may like him, They may like him.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Isn't everybody partnered up?
Speaker 1 (03:38):
What do you mean, Oh, Casey's not with somebody?
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Oh, I guess. But I also don't know if she
hates Josh actively in the pit. So that's why I
didn't think of her.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
So I don't. I don't.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
But but she may love Josh. That may not be
hate sex. I would have said jan because she's not
coupled up. She also doesn't have hair on her buttthole.
But she and Josh are very friendly, very friendly, so
that would be friend sex, not hate sex.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
I'm just trying to go through the reasons you hate
people and then trying to transfer that over to this.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Then I have sex moment of intimacy. Yeah, like that's
weird to me, you know what? I think?
Speaker 2 (04:14):
The other problem is now now I'm going through a
rolodex in my head of people I hate. I don't know,
if I don't, I don't know. Women come to mind. Now,
are there any women that I hate?
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Yes, oh yeah, oh I could never have sex with her.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Oh I wouldn't even want her to touch it.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Wait to Diane point somewhere.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
No, no, but she figured it out.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Yeah, I wouldn't even want her to touch it, touch it,
oral it, none of them.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Huh huh.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
I'm standing ground the no.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
You know what I'd rather, I'd rather be abstinate. Is
that true?
Speaker 4 (04:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:54):
I couldn't even do it, just to say like, yeah,
I did it.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
I couldn't because what are you getting out of that?
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Diane's right, though, that little bit of like, yeah, I
just I did er.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Oh yeah, whats so gross? It's hate sex, bro, it's selfish. No,
it's very selfish. They said hate sex is self elsish.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Yeah, sometimes I just.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Need to get a little excuse me, although that's not
really hate sex. That was just warning and been a
dry spell.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
I guess at the end of the day, you can
hate hot people, right, Yeah, we're trying to make all
these stories.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
No, just because you hate them doesn't mean they're a troll.
You can hate somebody that's gorgeous. Give me time, I'll
think of somebody I hate that's good looking. Listen, is
Michael Phelps? Do I hate him?
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Yeah? He's he's not an ugly man, he's a dick.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
So you are having sex with him? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:54):
I don't think i'd have sex with Michael Phelps. No,
I don't even think i'd let him moral it. Where
am I going?
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Line three? Hi, Elliott in the morning? Is this man?
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Yeah? Hi?
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Who's this?
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Robert and Richmond?
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Have you had Have you had hate sex?
Speaker 5 (06:12):
I mean absolutely?
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Uh.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
But there's also there's this weird thing of the romance
of actually hating somebody is.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
More what do you.
Speaker 5 (06:25):
It's it's the same thing as a friendship. Like an enemy.
You hold onto enemies more.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
Than you home on the friends.
Speaker 5 (06:33):
And so there's like this little weird sexual tension there
and those are and that's an interesting bird.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
I'm trying to I'm trying to wrap my head around
the you hold onto enemies more than friends. I love
my friends like I love my friends.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Without a doubt, but there's more energy, Like it takes
so much more energy to hate.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
No no, no, no, But isn't that old, Like you
keep your enery enemies closer.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
I trust my friends. I don't trust my enemies.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
But it's strategically in your favor to keep the enemies
closer to you.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
So I can have sex with them.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
No, oh, we're just talking about the saying.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
They don't need to be about that.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
That far.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Who did you have sex with?
Speaker 5 (07:17):
I don't know who the.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Who was the person you had sex with that you hate.
Speaker 5 (07:22):
Someone that Oh god, this okay, I should have thought
about this for gone. It's someone that called me out
for something that I shouldn't have done.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
And you hate them for doing that.
Speaker 5 (07:39):
It's like, well, we've always not been friends. We've always
been kind of like enemies and not prenemies by any means.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
But that's there.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
But how did you cross that line to have sex then?
Speaker 5 (07:56):
Because she was talking crap and then all of a sudden,
it's just like you realize that there's that opening there,
and just like you're both just bad people.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
I don't know, you know what though, No, you're not
a bad person. You're not a bad person. Don't say
that about yourself? Is the and I know, but what
is that thing you shouldn't have done?
Speaker 4 (08:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (08:14):
No, no, okay, that's neither here nor there. No, I'm
not touching that, thank you, sir.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
I think that's the problem. I can't even imagine the.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
I can't imagine the let's take our clothes off, like
I'm like, all of a sudden, we're disrobing.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
But I hate you even if you are hot.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
But at that point, are you forgetting that you hate
the person like you're so overwheling or do you maintain
that position the entire night?
Speaker 1 (08:50):
I think you maintain it.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
It says thirty one a third of people have sexual
fantasies about someone they hate.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
I just can't get there.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
I can't either, but I want to. I want to.
Everybody on hold does hi Ellie in the morning? I
envy it? What I think? I envy it?
Speaker 4 (09:12):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (09:12):
I mate, it seems satisfying.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Hello hello, yeah, hi, you've had hate sex?
Speaker 5 (09:22):
I have multiple times?
Speaker 1 (09:23):
What?
Speaker 6 (09:25):
What the same person?
Speaker 4 (09:27):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Wow? Wait, so do you secretly love them?
Speaker 6 (09:31):
No?
Speaker 1 (09:31):
I would love to kill them? Oh okay, all right,
all right.
Speaker 5 (09:36):
It was a means to an end.
Speaker 4 (09:40):
While we were still living together.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Means to an end meaning that you had an inch
to scratch and he scratched it.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Exactly. I'm sorry, I'm eating shit file at No, get good. Wait.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
So, so you guys were living together, you broke up,
you hate each other.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
You weren't trying to have makeup sex.
Speaker 6 (10:04):
No, I just needed my needs mess.
Speaker 5 (10:06):
I didn't care if he met his right so, which
he did not.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Completely.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
So you were completely and I don't mean this in
a bad way, you were completely.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Selfish about it.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Oh hell yeah?
Speaker 1 (10:16):
Did you feel Did you feel dirty at all afterwards?
Speaker 4 (10:18):
No?
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Why would you feel dirty? There was nothing emotional about it.
It was all just scratch my itch exactly. Wow. Was
it satisfying.
Speaker 5 (10:31):
Once the rest of the time? No, And I was
hammered when it was satisfying.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
Okay, I was going to say, there's got to be
something else at play, because there are that you could
be with to scratch an itch.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (10:47):
It was more of a convenience thing, right, that's okay.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
Those are the things that are at play.
Speaker 5 (10:52):
That waking up in the middle of the night, just
meeting something and then going back to bed.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
I gotcha. No, I understand that. I understand that, Thank you.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
What.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
No, she woke up in the middle of the night,
she was horny, she wanted some sex, She got sex
from him.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
And then went right back to bed.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
The person was there, she was living with them.
Speaker 7 (11:13):
Yeah, we were living together.
Speaker 8 (11:15):
Yeah, no, we we ended up switched.
Speaker 5 (11:18):
Like separating bedrooms after we broke up.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
So you walked that bagoon into the other room, got
a little pokey pokey, and then.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Walked that bagoon right back.
Speaker 6 (11:28):
I sure did.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
I had a girl. Good for you, good for him.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
You put my panties back on, all right, very good,
very good, Thank you, ma'am, thank you.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
But that's not true.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
That it's that you could just go out and find
somebody else to satisfy that.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
But when other things are assisting and facilitating, you better
understand why it has to be that person. Yeah, no,
I'll give you that from Brian. This happened at my
just happened to my buddy at work. He hated this
girl at the office, found her voice annoying, and she
always yelled at him. But they ended up hooking up.
When they got back to work, nothing changed.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
So you had sex with somebody at work and then
still ended up hating them.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Yep, Can I ask that? Is that from an internal employee?
Speaker 3 (12:10):
It is not?
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Oh okay, it's not line eight. Hi, elliot in the morning.
Speaker 8 (12:18):
Hey, how'll we go them?
Speaker 6 (12:19):
Guys?
Speaker 1 (12:19):
Hey? Good, who's this you had? Hay, real quick, let's
not cut. Let's not cut my bad.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Yeah no, that's okay. But you said it was some
of the best ats you've ever had.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
Yes, what was the story?
Speaker 7 (12:33):
Yeah, so I had a girl that made mine in
my ex girlfriend's life pretty miserable. She hated my ex
girlfriend in particular, she nearly broke up and sorry, I'm
just getting out of work here, and a couple months
later she end up both at my house because she's
friends with my roommates, and one thing led to another
(12:55):
and it was one of the best times of their life.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
And did you do you still hate her after words.
Speaker 7 (13:02):
I mean, I guess kind now but not so much anymore.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
But not enough.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
But but but at the at the time you were
having sex, you weren't looking to heal that relationship.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
You were just looking to pump and dump.
Speaker 8 (13:18):
Yeah, yeah, exactly, yes.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
Right on?
Speaker 2 (13:23):
Interesting, all right, very good, very good, thank you? Why
is it I can't I don't see myself in that situation.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Even with all these people sending in photos of Jewel
and Judith Light, it doesn't get your mind going.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Okay, but no, that's great because those are two women
I hate.
Speaker 3 (13:42):
Okay, Well, you were having a hard time finding I was.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
I was, and now now they're pouring in Hi Elliot
at the morning. I hate I hate Jewel more than
Judith Light. I hate them both, but I hate Jewel
Moore Hi Elliot in the morning. Ever, definitely wouldn't let
her orally, not with dumb teeth. I'm sorry, Yes, hi,
who's this?
Speaker 3 (14:05):
This is me?
Speaker 1 (14:06):
Yes, ma'am oh Hi, I'm Jen from Baltimore. Uh yeah,
what can I do for you?
Speaker 8 (14:13):
Hey?
Speaker 9 (14:13):
So, I think there's a thin line between love and hate.
I don't know if unless somebody's enabled somehow.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
Like they're drawn ki, whatever the case may be.
Speaker 9 (14:22):
I think if you hate somebody, you you know there
is this poll, this attraction to them. So I don't
I don't know if I believe with this scenario.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
Wait that you don't.
Speaker 2 (14:33):
You don't know if you believe the scenario that you
can have sex with somebody you hate.
Speaker 9 (14:38):
Yeah, unless it's literally like unless they're drunk or something.
I don't know if I could just hate somebody and
believe me, I could hate somebody and then want to
have sex with them. I just don't think that.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
So I'll tell you this the thing that I was reading.
And no, that's okay. In your mind, you can't get there,
that's okay, says. While it may seem contradictory, it is.
It's possible to hate someone, especially after feelings of betrayal
or deep hurt.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
Hate.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Sex is a real phenomenon. So and so it could
be it could be somebody. Well, I mean, the reason
you hate them is they crossed you. So it's not
it's not anonymous, it's not random. And it could be
somebody you even liked at one point but now hate.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
But they're aware of the betrayaler, the deep hurt.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
Yes, of course, it's not like this is news to me. No,
Jewel just wouldn't know that you hate her. Uh. Yeah, no,
she wouldn't know that I hate her. She started it.
Speaker 3 (15:37):
Oh my god, she did. What about you?
Speaker 10 (15:42):
No?
Speaker 2 (15:43):
No, you know why because just like h just like
a princess, she just walked out of there to leave
me languishing in debt.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
With all of her money.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
Yeah, bitch, Jewel, let that go. I can't.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
Jewel started it. So for the I would have sex
with Jewel just to then go on and go I did.
That would be hate sex for the phenomenon, which I
guess means I would also have sex with either of
the Madden brothers them two.
Speaker 3 (16:13):
This sounds like you took a very psychological look at
it hate sex, or at least a writer did. Yes,
does it have to be mutual for it to be
true hates sex?
Speaker 1 (16:27):
I'm gonna say no, it can be yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
And the other person has no idea.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
Like go to just go back to the work.
Speaker 2 (16:33):
Example right where that guy was like, I hated this
chick at work. We were out at some company thing,
went back, hooked up and back next.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
Day at worked.
Speaker 2 (16:43):
Still hated her. Right, she may not hate him she
may not even know he hates her.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
Doesn't sound like she did. I was just wondering if
maybe that person wasn't describing by its definition, that you've
come to learn hate sex.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
No, no, I do believe the other person doesn't have
have to know. Okay, they may know. That may be
two of you having hate sex together.
Speaker 3 (17:08):
Again. I just can't imagine that.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
I can't either. No, I can't.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Mentally, I can't get there. But like the work thing
is a perfect example. The guy who called him was like,
this chick was a bitch, broke up, broke up me
and my girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
She ends up at the house. We had sex.
Speaker 2 (17:28):
And listen, keep in mind, whether or not you go
through with it, a third of people will say I
have sexual fantasies about people I hate.
Speaker 4 (17:39):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
Line five, Hi, Elliot in the morning, Elliott morning, sir, Hey,
who's this.
Speaker 4 (17:50):
Let's just not do a name today. Okay, no problem,
but yes, absolutely have done it. And it was a
fantastic experience. It was a one and it was done
and it was interesting.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
What was this scenario in which you hated this person?
Speaker 4 (18:07):
So worked with dead person for a while, asked said
person out. We went out I was a perfect gentleman.
Blah blah blah. She said I was too nice, so
she was talking crap. For a couple of years. We
had an argument. Something happened. I told her to shut
her mouth. We got mad. We were in a walking
freezer bing bang, boom, off we went done.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
You're at work. Awesome. I wasn't expecting that.
Speaker 4 (18:34):
Yeah, on a stack of patties.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
Buddy, there you go.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
But you but but you loved it, Like the sex
was great.
Speaker 4 (18:42):
I you know, it was short, it was mad, it
was angry. But I don't know about great. But it
was a cool experience. It's something I can say I've done,
and it taught me what I was looking for.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
And by the way, let me let me say this.
And I think this may be. This may be where
where you two lose this. You equate right or wrong.
You equate.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
Sex with feelings of love right, which is I'm not
saying that's wrong.
Speaker 3 (19:16):
Makes me feel so fine.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
The this is just sex for oh no, I but
there's got to be feeling in there.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
There there is because you hate them. But this is
just this is a backflip after hitting a home run. Bam,
what God? Done.
Speaker 3 (19:32):
It's not that he said, it doesn't aim to heal. No, no, no,
So it's weird because he's said no, but no, but
it's very selfish. It's very selfish. I got mine, I
got me a slice of man. It's quite complex, No,
it is. It's just like if his story it was selfish.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
But he but that's okay.
Speaker 3 (20:00):
Hey, he did sound like there was some resolution.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
It sounded I think the resolution that you heard was
him learning learning. So he said, I got what I wanted. No, no,
not healing. I got what I wanted, and I learned.
I don't want that.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
That's okay. And he still got a little slice of man, right,
and we got the bottom right out of it on
the patties. Hi, elliot in the morning, just me, who'd
you get.
Speaker 4 (20:35):
Sir?
Speaker 1 (20:36):
You there? Yeah?
Speaker 8 (20:40):
Hey, so this was my senior year in high school.
Does date me back a little bit ahead? My ex's
best friend, total pain in the butt. I had nothing
but bad things to say about me and all this stuff.
Ended up going to a senior party and she was there,
(21:02):
ended up just grabbing her hand, went to a closet. Yeah,
it was mutually. We both hated each other. It was
absolutely insane best time ever.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
Now, the only thing that I was gonna ask is
the reason that I jumped in when you're when you're
thank you, sir, love the story.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
When you're a senior in high school, do you really
hate people?
Speaker 4 (21:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (21:29):
Yeah you can't. Yeah, okay, all right, all right. I
just feel like hate is a more mature than an adult.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
Yeah, it's probably the opposite.
Speaker 1 (21:36):
No, you think you hate somebody.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
You throw that term around maybe very yeah, exactly exactly
where you may not really hate them.
Speaker 1 (21:46):
As an adult you hate them.
Speaker 3 (21:48):
You almost think it's more like a teasing, like an
elementary school.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
Like I'm tugging the pigtails thing.
Speaker 2 (21:54):
Yeah, maybe maybe, But then I'm sure there are cases
where like you do genuinely hate them.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
It is a strong word, though, You're right. Kristin always
says that rubbed off on me, me, I'll hate people.
But she whenever that word comes, oh she doesn't like
that work. He does remind you that she maybe wouldn't
say that for people that I think Kristen hates.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
Right, No, no, but that's true, that's true.
Speaker 6 (22:23):
It is.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
It is the same.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
We love is a strong word, what so poetic?
Speaker 1 (22:28):
Thank you?
Speaker 3 (22:29):
It wasn't a compliment.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
Oh can I go to line three?
Speaker 1 (22:35):
I'm gonna fantasize.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
About Jewel and Judith Like tonight, we're gonna have a threesome.
Speaker 1 (22:39):
Hi Elly in the morning. Yes, Hi, who's this?
Speaker 4 (22:44):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (22:45):
My name is Jasin.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
Yes, what can I do for you?
Speaker 10 (22:49):
So?
Speaker 6 (22:49):
I had hate sex with my ex husband's coworkers.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
Why did you? Now?
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Did you hate your ex husband so you banged a
coworker or did you hate that co work girl?
Speaker 6 (23:00):
I hate the coworker. Why because the first time I
met him, I was pregnant and he told me I
was sat Oh boy, but he's just that guy that
everybody dislikes that work, right, and then and then after
I divorced.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
Well yeah, yeah, how did you end up having sex
with him?
Speaker 6 (23:22):
Because we all work together? Now?
Speaker 1 (23:26):
Oh damn?
Speaker 4 (23:27):
All right, right through that break?
Speaker 1 (23:29):
Oh my god?
Speaker 2 (23:30):
So wait, so so how did you so you're you're
working there? Did you does he know that you hate him?
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Yes?
Speaker 6 (23:38):
We like it was a mutual thing, like we hating
each other.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
Who initiated it?
Speaker 4 (23:45):
Me?
Speaker 1 (23:47):
What did you do to initiate it? Did you like
grab his ween?
Speaker 4 (23:57):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (23:58):
Please don't cut out, Please don't cut out.
Speaker 5 (24:00):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (24:00):
Please don't if I do a call back.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
Oh yes you will, ye say that part again. Wait,
so what happened? So how did you initiate it?
Speaker 6 (24:08):
So basically, I was just like, you know, I haven't
had it in a while, and we were talking and
I was like, I said a specific thing and wanted
that done. And he was like, all.
Speaker 4 (24:20):
Right, can I ask you what?
Speaker 1 (24:23):
But I what did you say to him?
Speaker 2 (24:24):
Like like when you were like, I get that the
factory had been shut down for a little bit, you
were horny. I get all of that. What did you
What did you say to him though? Because you because
you said he hates you too.
Speaker 6 (24:37):
Yeah, but it was it almost turned into like this
like hate passion thing.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
So what did you say to him?
Speaker 2 (24:48):
I can't.
Speaker 6 (24:48):
I don't want to say exactly what I said.
Speaker 1 (24:50):
Why I'll dump it if I have to.
Speaker 11 (24:54):
It was a certain act that I wanted done. And
and you know, you drinking and you just start talking
about all kinds of things and we just kind of
got to that.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
So you looked at him and you said, I want
you to do this to me.
Speaker 6 (25:10):
I said, I want that done. He said, okay, I
will do that.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
Where'd you guys go?
Speaker 6 (25:16):
His place.
Speaker 1 (25:17):
So you went back to his house? Yep, he had,
he had some dessert.
Speaker 6 (25:23):
Yes, I'm getting ready to walk into.
Speaker 5 (25:25):
Work right now, are you Harny?
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Are you Harney right now?
Speaker 3 (25:32):
Was she till Christen?
Speaker 1 (25:33):
I know exactly what she said.
Speaker 3 (25:34):
I'd like to see Kristen's face when she hears it.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
Hey, will you tell? Will you tell Kristin exactly what
you said?
Speaker 8 (25:40):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (25:40):
All right, hold on one.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
Second, but talk fast, talk fast like you did that guy.
Hold on one second. Hold on, hey, pick up line
three and then write it down. You know what she said.
Speaker 3 (25:50):
I want to see her reaction though, as she found out.
Yet how long is the request?
Speaker 1 (25:57):
Oh? She just found out.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
Look at her face.
Speaker 1 (26:01):
I think Chris may go home with her back on. Hold,
here we go. Hey, did christ it sound like? Did
it sound like christ? And got really horning totally? And
you told her exactly what you said I did. Oh
my god, that's not what I thought it was gonna be.
(26:22):
Damn girl, damn girl, turn around? Turn around?
Speaker 8 (26:30):
Oh my god, Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (26:32):
Hey, So now, did you guys only do it once?
Speaker 6 (26:37):
No, it went on for a while.
Speaker 1 (26:41):
But do you do you guys still work together? Yep? Hey,
keep me on the phone. Let's walk into the office and.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
Just walk by, just walk by him and just go
hey man, hey man. And then he'll say, hey, who cares,
get off on the different floor of the elevator.
Speaker 1 (26:57):
I don't care.
Speaker 6 (27:00):
You're killing me.
Speaker 1 (27:02):
I just want to hear his voice in the background.
Speaker 3 (27:03):
When's the last time they were together?
Speaker 1 (27:05):
Good question?
Speaker 2 (27:06):
Good question? When was the last When was the last time?
When was the last time that you guys were together.
Speaker 6 (27:12):
Physically? About two years?
Speaker 4 (27:15):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (27:15):
Really? Yeah? Do you ever think about do you ever
think about doing that again?
Speaker 6 (27:21):
I have, but it's turned into more of a do
you like any kind of things?
Speaker 4 (27:28):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (27:28):
So he's over his hatred?
Speaker 2 (27:30):
Yeah, so he started, he started, he started getting feelings.
Speaker 1 (27:35):
He got the feel right, eh, no, good now he's
on clam rose.
Speaker 3 (27:41):
Not your act, just the feeling.
Speaker 2 (27:43):
Hey, can I ask you this? Did you ever the
thing that that you requested? Did you ever did you
ever do that to him?
Speaker 4 (27:51):
No?
Speaker 10 (27:52):
Damn right, but happened to me multiple So he did
that to you multiple time?
Speaker 4 (28:03):
Is that?
Speaker 1 (28:04):
Can I ask you this? Can I ask you this?
Is that one of like not not with just people?
Speaker 11 (28:08):
You have.
Speaker 4 (28:10):
Had it before?
Speaker 1 (28:11):
Did you like it?
Speaker 5 (28:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (28:14):
Is that it?
Speaker 1 (28:15):
Now is that like a regular request for you? Even
with guys you like?
Speaker 10 (28:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (28:20):
What made you? Can I ask you this?
Speaker 2 (28:22):
You had never done that before you asked him to
do it? Was there and you hated him? Was there
something about this feeling of not even horniness, but power
of like, watch what I'm going to have this guy do?
Speaker 6 (28:38):
Kinda after after a divorce, I felt like I had
a lot more power in that department.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
Right, Yeah, good for you.
Speaker 11 (28:48):
Thanks?
Speaker 1 (28:48):
You're really hot, aren't you?
Speaker 6 (28:52):
I mean I would I wouldn't call myself that, but
I think the decent.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
Let's go ask that guy here. Let's walk into the office.
Speaker 6 (29:06):
I don't think I think he's not at work today.
Speaker 1 (29:09):
But yeah, you'll find out. You'll let me know.
Speaker 2 (29:11):
All right, Hey, let me get you a shirt. Hold
on one second? Hold on absolutely where where?
Speaker 1 (29:17):
Whenever you you're asking for that? Hold on one second?
Speaker 4 (29:20):
Everything?
Speaker 1 (29:21):
All right? Very good? Hold on one second? Hold on
one second? Wow, that was hot.
Speaker 3 (29:27):
People are guessing, has anybody gotten it?
Speaker 2 (29:30):
Right?
Speaker 3 (29:30):
Someone has?
Speaker 1 (29:34):
Can I ask you this? Did you think that's what
it was going to be? No?
Speaker 3 (29:38):
But now I didn't think it was going to be
what you thought it was going to be.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
What did you think it was.
Speaker 3 (29:42):
To me, she clearly is comfortable with the show. That
was too obvious. So I thought it was what.
Speaker 1 (29:47):
She went with was too obvious. What you thought I
was going?
Speaker 4 (29:50):
Right?
Speaker 3 (29:51):
Oh okay at this point children talk about it. So
it to me that wasn't.
Speaker 1 (29:56):
That's true, that's true, what choking.
Speaker 3 (29:58):
It was going to be. But it surprised me what
with what she went with?
Speaker 1 (30:04):
Certainly, how great is that?
Speaker 3 (30:08):
It's a dynamic.
Speaker 2 (30:10):
I think you know that it's a power thing, a
power thing?
Speaker 1 (30:13):
Doane?
Speaker 2 (30:14):
Can I ask you this? And I just yes, no question.
Has that sentence ever come out of your mouth?
Speaker 3 (30:22):
Now?
Speaker 1 (30:29):
It's so party
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