EITM: Intimacy On Set 10/8/24

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey Elliott, my name is Devin. I've called before. I'm
actually an actor who has done intimate scenes. I've also
been an intimacy coach, So I just was very intrigued
by your conversation.

Speaker 2 (00:17):
You wait, so, Devin, what what what intimate? What intimate
scenes were did you do? Like, give me, give me
an example?

Speaker 1 (00:27):
So, so we did have Uh, I've been in two films.
These are like, you know, small budget independent films and yes, exactly,
and and both of them have had scenes where we are,
you know, imitating that we are having sex and me

(00:47):
with my my co star. And and as a result,
it kind of made me like, you know, like it's
it's it's a little intriguing thing when like when you're
an actor and like trying to get yourself like into
that mode and the kind of conversations you find yourself
having with the other actor. And that was kind of
when I did my intimate scenes. It was before they
really started the whole intimacy coach thing.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
Okay, so let me let me let me let me
hop in here real quick. Number one. What what were
you in in in in your in your intimacy scenes?
You're topless right, yes, Yeah, when what are you wearing?
Excuse me, what are you wearing on the bottom?

Speaker 1 (01:28):
So so you you know you pretty much, I'm wearing
like a like a song, you know, flush flush colored.
And it's interesting because like even the actor, like the
first the first time I was doing one of these scenes,
the director and and the actor himself were kind of like,

(01:50):
you know, oh, we can see it a little bit,
like you know, like what are you comfortable taking it
off your yeah? And the other actor like he like
had something that was basically a sock, and he's like,
I'll take mine off too if you want me to.
Oh my god, Oh my god, my god, who's got all.

Speaker 2 (02:16):
That seems wrong? Listen, I'm sorry. We didn't have a
thirty five million dollar budget. Hey, so I'm guessing. I'm guessing.
I'm guessing you kept your underpanties on.

Speaker 1 (02:27):
I did keep my underpanties on. And did you get
this suck? I was like, oh, you can keep it.
But you know, there's some interesting things that are said.
Like something that's that was stuck that stuck with me,
was he he said to me like, I'm sorry if
I get a boner, and I'm sorry if I don't
like that you know what.

Speaker 2 (02:48):
I like that. I like that. Don't be offended. No, No,
it's like, I'm sorry if I get a boner, because
I know, like we're actors, and I'm sorry if I don't,
because you know, you're you're really doing a great job
on the acting and you're you're you're an attractive like
I would get Devin, You're an attractive woman, aren't you.

Speaker 1 (03:05):
Well, I can send you a link, you can tell
me what you think.

Speaker 2 (03:08):
Please do the now the did the guy get a boner?

Speaker 1 (03:15):
You know he didn't, but a funny thing, he was
about to have one. There was something that we were doing.
They yelled cut I had. I had had to kind
of lift myself. I was on top of him at
that point, but the way I was sitting, I had
these really long heels on too, and I kind of
slipped and I felled and I sort of planted his

(03:38):
head kind of you know, I kind of motor boat
hit him. I kind of sell on him, and I
was like, I'm so sorry, So I myself back up.
I brought myself back up and he's like he's like, uh,
stay right there, don't move. He like closes his eyes.
He's like I need a minute.

Speaker 2 (03:59):
Oh my god, what is the greatest job? Is the
greatest job?

Speaker 1 (04:05):
Now?

Speaker 2 (04:05):
What was seen?

Speaker 1 (04:06):
To?

Speaker 2 (04:06):
What was the what was the second movie?

Speaker 1 (04:11):
The second movie? We're pretty much just like I'm topless
and there's a cover. It was like a similar situation,
different actor on top for both different actor.

Speaker 2 (04:25):
I don't feel like I don't feel like that first
actor that much.

Speaker 1 (04:31):
Oh no, I mean they're trust me, they're both very attractive,
right right, it's you know, I mean, I'll admit a
female boner. I mean like it's it's you get into it,
and that's what people.

Speaker 2 (04:46):
That's what I told Diane. That's what I told Diane,
and she said no, but she would.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
Yeah, I think you you find that you're surprised by
what your reaction is and you can't help it.

Speaker 2 (04:58):
That's your body. By the way, did this you can't
if the second guy get the boner?

Speaker 1 (05:05):
Definitely. But I also learned that I don't like doing
a grinding scene if I'm wearing a song, and this
particular one I I opted for a little patch because
I wanst up getting the worst, like when you're fake grinding,
like I I got like the worst, Like I don't
know what you would even call it it's my song,

(05:25):
like got all up in there and it was awful. Yeah,
but like not just the wedgie from behind, but the.

Speaker 2 (05:30):
Front fronte front butt weggie bad.

Speaker 1 (05:35):
It was really bad.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
Oh my god, this is amazing about that. Well, I
hope you get paid for streams because I'll be uh,
I'll be checking all those.

Speaker 1 (05:48):
Out absolutely.

Speaker 2 (05:55):
My info Diane dot com and I swear to God,
Diane if you delete it. Hey, what is the what
do you do now? As an intimacy coach?

Speaker 1 (06:08):
So as an intimacy coach, it's like it's kind of
neat because I've been in their position before. So this
last movie that I did this for basically, you know,
like I go into a private room with the two
stars and you know, we just kind of talk through
like comfort level. I usually tell them to like, don't

(06:29):
get offended if I do. Don't get offended if I don't. Right,
you know, look at each other in the eyes, tell
each other. And this is strangely comforting. But like, you know,
I promise you I Am not going to fall in
love with you.

Speaker 2 (06:46):
I swear to God.

Speaker 1 (06:48):
Then we do this thing called we do a thing
called body mapping and Uh, it is kind of like
an exercise you would see like with with like method acting,
but like you kind of of you never know what
might be triggering for someone else, like whatever whatever happened
in their lives, so you kind of do a thing
where yeah, like you you you would each have them

(07:10):
take a turn and they would put their hands, you know,
someplace like on the body, like the shoulders, you know,
the arms, like whatever like, and the other person is
saying whether it's okay or not.

Speaker 2 (07:24):
It's like actors playing chicken. Remember that, I'd put my
hand on your thigh and I would yes, Oh my god,
I'm such an eight year old. Hey, what is the
do do you warn the girls about the front but Wedgie, yes.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
You recommend like the strip, depending on how intimate. But
I think for this particular couple it was they didn't.
It was more making out, like they had their clothes on,
they didn't have to get naked together. But so those
those get obviously more ended up.

Speaker 2 (07:55):
All right, you're fantastic. I love you the y.

Speaker 1 (08:00):
Allie and Diana. You guys, I listen to you every morning.

Speaker 2 (08:03):
Tell Diane to I promise I won't love you. All right,
Very good, very good, all right, very good. You Hey,
send that link, send that link. Well all right, very good,
thank you, best caller of the day.