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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Tantric sex Sting. Okay, that's exactly what I knew you
would attribute it to. I knew that. I knew that.
So you've heard of it before.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Yeah, it's Sting was very famous, very famous for tantric sex. Now, Diane,
is that one of those things.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
That got out of hand? Though?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
What do you mean?
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Like, did Sting mention it once and then people just
for the rest of time thought that's all Sting was about? Probably?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Now I don't like I remember I remember the story
because wasn't he married to Iman?
Speaker 4 (00:32):
No?
Speaker 1 (00:32):
No, that's David Bowie, that Steyler.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Hold on, I want to hear this story that Elliott remembers.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
No, I just have the wrong wife. I have the
wrong wife.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
But was it the Sting story that he and and
Trudy had like a seven hour sex session?
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Yeah, it says right here. It stems from a nineteen
ninety interview where he jokingly implied that he had a
seven hour long accession with his wife Trudy, Right, but.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
He implied, he implied later said it was a total joke,
so it wasn't even true.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
So the rumor persists.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
But that got But that guy is just like Richard
Gear but that God that took off, right, and that's
all that's all you think of. Yes, but Diane, will
you do me a favor for everybody listening?
Speaker 1 (01:22):
And I'm gonna be completely honest. I don't know what
it is. What is tantric sex?
Speaker 5 (01:30):
I really don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
It.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
Doesn't it have some sort of like meditative spiritual aspect
to it. If he's doing something for seven hours.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Well he's not, Diane. It was a joke, right, it
was a joke.
Speaker 5 (01:43):
But even even if it's a much shorter time, I
bought six hours.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
No.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I mean, so you think tantric sex is just meditative sex?
Speaker 5 (01:53):
You somehow slow down you're breathing.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
I don't know somehow.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
So at the end of the day, do you think
you practice tantric sex?
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Now?
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Do you know anybody that does? No, but you don't
even know what it is? No, does anybody know what tantrick?
I'm setting up two columns on my piece of paper.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Column one? Does anybody know what exactly tantric sex is?
Speaker 2 (02:29):
And I don't need some Webster's Dictionary definition?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
But like, talk to me like I'm a student.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
I bet some people think it's sting. You know, it's
tied to like the Kamma Sutra. But it's not right.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
No, the Kammas, Well, it's not weird. It is just
a book of positions. Who is it that we knew
that bought the Kamma Sutra and was trying to go
through every position?
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Stop? No, I'm I swear to God.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Someone that worked, Yes, somebody we knew that worked here
bought the Commas Sutra and was like, I'm going to
do every position in the commed Comma. Yes, I think
they said it on the ra Well, what's wrong with that?
What's wrong with that? Well, I'm just gonna do missionary more.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Right now, you're saying they said it on the air,
so they were brought in to discuss it, I think so.
I think so you remember this, but not the pit
My Ride promotion.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
That that I don't remember unless I have unless it
was Hennessy in both of them. Christian, will you find
me somebody who either a knows what tantric sex is
b practices tantric sex. See if you are a member
of column two, how do.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
You learn that?
Speaker 2 (03:47):
How do you learn to practice tantric sex? Do you
have to go away for it?
Speaker 5 (03:58):
Like to an institute?
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Not to an institute, But is it like one of
those like remember like Aaron Rodgers went away for like
his ayahuasca retreat where you go and like you vomit
in a bowl and you well, you don't eat for
a month.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Crap yourself or whatever?
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Do the darkness one?
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Yeah, yeah, he's done, Like he's done.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
He's bizarre.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Is do you learn tantric sex by going away to
like a retreat in Costa Rica and learning how to
do tantric sex?
Speaker 3 (04:31):
I'm sure you can learn it stateside?
Speaker 1 (04:34):
So but where well?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
I don't have an answer. But come on, So.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
If I go to a sex therapist, they could teach me.
If I called.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Doctor Judy, I bet that she's specialists. Doctor Judy could
teach me.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Maybe not her, no, but I bet there's there's some
people who who claim to be a specialist in that.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
What is it?
Speaker 3 (04:56):
But do you are you saying you don't think this
level of spirituality can be a cheat unless you're at
like a retreat.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
I think you have to learn it.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
I don't even know what it is. I knew what
I thought Sting did.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Is Diane onto something?
Speaker 6 (05:14):
Though?
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Is breathing the focal point?
Speaker 2 (05:17):
I breathed during sex. Everybody in this room does. Sorry, Jackie,
and I aren't into choking a lot.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Did you look it up, Diana.
Speaker 5 (05:29):
It emphasizes slowing down, being present with sensations, and exploring
the connection with oneself and your partner, which leads to
deeper intimacy and possibly spiritual enlightenment.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
So there's the dictionary definition, which Ali didn't want. Now
we need someone to put it in Layman, right.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Yeah, it's like when you say being present with yourself
and your partner. Is that like masturbating, Like you and
your partner just laying bed and masturbate together.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (06:01):
Slow meditative form where the end goal is not The
end goal is not orgasm, but enjoying the journey and
the sensations.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
So it's edgy.
Speaker 5 (06:14):
It aims to move energy throughout the body for healing,
transformation and enlightenment.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Sings like a lightning rod.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Is what is that massage technique that's all about the
transfer of energy?
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Ritchiereaky, Yes, that's it rek Reiki.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah, not Richie.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
That's like where you'd like you lay on a massage
table and.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Nobody touches you.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
I'm not paying for that.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
My shoulder hurts, no problem, my hand is eight feet
above it.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Shoulder still hurts.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
I don't I don't believe in.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Reichy, Reiki, Richie whatever.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
I did not know that about tantric sex that it is.
Aren't you supposed to void of orgasm?
Speaker 5 (06:59):
I thought, maybe the goal is not Yeah, I mean,
obviously probably what happened, But.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
The end okay, the end goal.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
Is to have sex. And by the way, I orgasm
it can be a part.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
It's not the primary, it's not the primary focus.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
But are you supposed to be able to last a
long time? You'd have to if you're not allowed to,
Or do you just kind of rest well, you're allowed to,
but that's not the goal.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Or are you allowed to kind of restart the car?
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Which I thought maybe you were doing throughout these hours
long sessions.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
I did too, I thought, but mooie sense of TiVo.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
What does Hobie always say? Actually, I don't think I
can say that. It's the thing about the hole in
the poll?
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Where am I? Where am I going? Line four? Hi
Elliott in the morning, Yeah, Hi, who's yes?
Speaker 4 (08:04):
Hey Toby?
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Yes, Toby. I hope you come back to work eventually.
What can I do for you, sir.
Speaker 4 (08:12):
Yes, uh, the tetric sex.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
My wife and I we do it quite often.
Speaker 6 (08:16):
It's you know.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
You don't do that.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Yes, I do. I've been made for five years and
I deal with my wife quite often.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Wait, you've been what for five years? Married?
Speaker 5 (08:28):
Well?
Speaker 4 (08:30):
Did you did you have made for five years?
Speaker 5 (08:32):
Did you have formal training?
Speaker 4 (08:37):
I'm sorry you cut off.
Speaker 5 (08:38):
Did you have like formal training? Did you go to
Costa Rica to learn how to do it?
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (08:45):
No, I had no training, but you know, we we
looked it up what it was, and we practiced and
we got in you know, much more experience with it.
So what do you want to do?
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Is?
Speaker 1 (08:54):
What do you do?
Speaker 4 (08:56):
We dimmed the lights down and we lit a whole
bunch of candles around there, and we have we have
a set of toys that we both each use on
each other, like what we have a flogger. We we
don't spank it. We just you know, rub it gently
against our body. We have other uh, dildos and other
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little spanking things we use, but we don't.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Like at you like a cattle like like.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
Yes, correct, but we don't use it actually, you know,
spank or anything. We're just easy to like just rub
against our bodies and everything, our hands gently rubb our hands.
We use massage olds as well, and it's very slow
and very intimate. But sex sorry, yes, but the actual
sex part doesn't really We didn't really get to that
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until like towards the end.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
When you say towards the end, like how long?
Speaker 1 (09:53):
How long? How long are you guys diddling around there?
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Even forty five minutes? For one hour?
Speaker 1 (09:58):
Forty five minutes?
Speaker 4 (10:01):
Yes, got this, buddy, So.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
You do that for forty five minutes before you even
think about like like like penetrative sex.
Speaker 4 (10:12):
Absolutely, yeah, we're just you know, arging on each other
and before that actually having compenitate each other.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
But do you can I can I ask you this,
like are you horned up for those forty five minutes?
Speaker 1 (10:25):
Yes? I am?
Speaker 3 (10:26):
Yeah, you thought the answer was me.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
No, I didn't know, like you got a boner for
forty five minutes?
Speaker 4 (10:34):
Uh most of the time? Yes, right on II five
Yeah most of the time.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Good for you. Do you ever? But it can?
Speaker 2 (10:43):
I can I ask you this and be honest, be
honest with me? Do you ever like sometimes do you
ever go like let's see, yeah, all the time. But
I thought you weren't supposed to orgasm.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
It just happens, you know, three men and then just happens.
You can't really, can't really control.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
It just happens, and then you just keep going.
Speaker 4 (11:06):
Correct.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
A couple of people have mentioned the yabyum. What does
that mean?
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Sir?
Speaker 1 (11:13):
What's the yab yum?
Speaker 4 (11:16):
I do not know what that is, to be honest,
I don't know what that is, all right, Google.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
Here's the reason. Here's the reason I keep asking about
Costa Rica is I was reading about a couple and
I thought this is where I was going to learn
what it was. But I read about a couple who
were like in their thirties and they went down to
Costa Rica to a it was a it was a
you could either do a one week or a two
week like class or or or or or what what.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Would you call that?
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Yeah, class seminar, seminar where you learn all about tantric sex.
And she stopped after like they got there and on
the first day, like they said, it is remote, and
they said, on the first day, we're going to steer
into each other's eyes for five minutes.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
And that was it. That was all they did.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
I was like, well, that's a waste of a day,
like I'm not seeing nothing.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
But it was. And then they went and had dinner.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
But she didn't say like what came after that, other
than it starts with almost a flashback, and it was
like I went and learned all about tantric sex.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
And that's why I didn't know.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
Is that like one of those like ayahuasca things where
you have to go off to learn about it and
then you bring it back home.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
But you're saying, no, but you don't even know what
my yab yam is.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
I do not know.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
That's all right? Hey, how often? How often do you
guys tantrick?
Speaker 4 (12:42):
We do about three times a week?
Speaker 2 (12:43):
Three times a week? Yeah, hey, do you is it
possible for you if let's say it's Friday night, right,
you guys get home, you were at dinner, you had
a great meal, it's late. Do you guys ever have
like a quick session or can you only have tantric sex.
Speaker 4 (13:02):
No, we do have quick sessions a lot of times
with the tantric grunt. We do spoke a little marijuana
as the world in the edge a little bit, and
that makes the sensation much more better.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
Right, is what is is tantric sex, just long sex, you.
Speaker 4 (13:20):
Could say that longest long central slow sex.
Speaker 3 (13:25):
We also talked about the transfer of energy, Oh, the
transfer do you transfer your energy to her?
Speaker 4 (13:32):
Most definitely?
Speaker 1 (13:33):
Okay, now you're just now you're just screwing with me.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
No, no, I don't think so.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
No, No I'm not.
Speaker 4 (13:38):
No, no, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
I'm I'm not.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
When is when is there a like when when you
guys after forty five minutes, when you guys finally, how
do you finally decide like it's it's it's it's poker time.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
You just had this.
Speaker 4 (13:53):
You know, they don't release and most of the time
she's she's in control in most of the time throughout
the session.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
How do you and what what position like is there
is there a tantric like a recommended tantric position?
Speaker 4 (14:10):
I'm usually I'm usually just laying on my back on
the badge of arms, wide of arms and lakes woke
in and a lot of times, uh, I'm also on
my hands and knees. Let's just just say that.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
Nice, all right, very very good, thank you, sir, thank you.
Speaker 4 (14:32):
Yes, yeah, I'm very comfortable with my wife, and you know,
we have been very comfortable each other.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
No, that's right, you should be yes, and you're very
comfortable with us.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
Hey, next, think of me, maration. I mean you got
forty five minutes.
Speaker 4 (14:43):
Think of me, of course, so the Elliot.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
One more thing, Yes, sir, I eat.
Speaker 4 (14:49):
Hot dogs, two hot dogs twice every single day. Love dogs.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
Right on, thank you?
Speaker 2 (14:56):
I just I just bought hot dogs online from hippies.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
All right, man?
Speaker 4 (15:02):
What what?
Speaker 6 (15:02):
What?
Speaker 2 (15:02):
What?
Speaker 4 (15:02):
What?
Speaker 2 (15:03):
What?
Speaker 3 (15:03):
What?
Speaker 6 (15:03):
What?
Speaker 2 (15:03):
What?
Speaker 4 (15:04):
Hey?
Speaker 1 (15:06):
Toby? What are you doing on Friday?
Speaker 2 (15:09):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (15:11):
Having time with my wife?
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (15:13):
You want to come bangt Diane. It's not about banging,
it's about energy. Hey you want to come to six Flags.
Speaker 4 (15:22):
Six Flags on Friday? Well, I would love to come
to six Flags on Friday.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
Yeah, we'll have a hot dog together. I can't ride
rides because of vertigo two. Yeah, oh that's true. All right,
hold on wait hey, bring your old lady. Hey, hold
on one second, let me get you a four pack
of passes. I'll see on Friday at six Flags. All right,
all right, all right, very good. I'll know who you are.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
You have big lump in your pants?
Speaker 2 (15:43):
All right, hold on one second, Hold on one second,
hold on one second, and Toby, there.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
We've been told that the yabbi it leans on the
energetic gender polarity of men and women. The partner sits
cross legged on the better floor with the opposing partner
on top.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
That's a but that isn't that a sex position?
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Clearly it is?
Speaker 2 (16:16):
Yeah, okay, so I'm sitting. I'm sitting like criss cross
apple sauce, and then she's sitting on my lap. Fac
and I got this going on. I also got a
face full of booby.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
As a position for love making, yes, exemplifies the principles
of tantric sexual practice.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
What does that mean? What does that mean?
Speaker 2 (16:43):
Like that's supposed to be the like the calming energy transfer.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
It combines verticality with a profound sense of intimacy, interweaving
the transcendent with the.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Imminent, and motor boats.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Both partners upright, sitting as if in meditation. Oh, I
get that now, allowing for the optimum flow of energy
up their central channels toward their upper chakras.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Can I can I? Oh hi, it's chakra. Can I
ask you a question, Diane? Have you and Scott done
the yab yam?
Speaker 6 (17:19):
No?
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Oh, okay, all right, I just write that down.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
The yab yam was the pre Well, no, because it's
a different position. But that's like the hawk tua okay,
Oh yes, Tyler.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
No, I threw my hands up because we're trying to
have a serious decison. I am having a serious conversation.
I just talked to Toby about the lump in his
pants and his flogger. You brought up the lump. He
was educating us.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
So can I ask you this? Going back to Toby
for a second, yes, is he is like during the
forty five minutes, it sounds like he's orgasming several times?
Speaker 3 (17:53):
No, yes, he said there's he said it happened occasionally
there's a whoopsie. Is that the word you used?
Speaker 4 (18:01):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (18:03):
But no he talked about when it becomes penetrative.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
After forty five would I would have nothing left? Nothing?
Speaker 3 (18:11):
The man might find it helpful to sit on a
pillow or place cushions under his knees for help supporting
the partner.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
Hold on, Jackie, I gotta go get the couch pillows.
Oh no, my thighs asleep.
Speaker 3 (18:26):
If you have trouble maintaining a cross legged posture or erection,
you can sit with your legs out stretch.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
That's even worse because then I got a lean.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
You can't just sit on the ground with your legs outstretched.
Speaker 3 (18:40):
Make sure, Oh this goes back to what you said
about that retreat in Costa Rica. Experiment with eye gazing,
keeping the eyes closed to merge into each other, feeling
how together you create one complete energetic circuit.
Speaker 1 (18:55):
I sit there like the parents and weapons.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
It's an ideal position for discovering the most profound meaning
of intimacy.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
So they say this is the most What is it
the most? What position?
Speaker 3 (19:09):
Profound meaning of intimacy?
Speaker 2 (19:11):
The dissolution When you were growing up and you were
thinking of like all the positions, did you ever go
I gotta do yabyum?
Speaker 1 (19:20):
That is the most I.
Speaker 5 (19:21):
Don't think I've ever heard yabyam before.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
No, you think like dog.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
The dissolution of the individual into cosmic principles and can
you read into the absolute? That's a capital a beyond
name and form. And maybe I'm not pronouncing it right
hy ab hyu m yabyum. Yeah. So what it looks like.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
Line six or do you have to say it like
Jim jab Hi Elliott the morning?
Speaker 6 (19:53):
Hello?
Speaker 1 (19:54):
Yeah, Hi, who's this Hi?
Speaker 6 (19:56):
My name is Angela Dawn and I am a hunter
e sex coach.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
Okay, so first of all, where are you from that
you're all fancy con trick.
Speaker 6 (20:07):
I am from Annapolis, Maryland. I'm actually I'm actually out
for a walk in Annapolis right now. My cousin called
me and said, Hey, they're talking about strict sex on
Elliott in the morning. You gotta check it out.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
Hey, So where am so you are? You are a
tantric sex coach.
Speaker 6 (20:27):
Yes, that's what I do. That's my occupation full time.
Speaker 1 (20:30):
Now what is the can I ask you this? Are
you busy?
Speaker 5 (20:33):
Do you do?
Speaker 2 (20:34):
You do you counsel a lot of Is it couples
or can you do like one person?
Speaker 6 (20:39):
Yeah, I work with both couples and individuals, and I
basically work with any kind of goal or anything that
people want to learn in the realm of sex, love
or relationships.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
So what is If I came to you and I
was like, hey, I want to learn about tantric sex,
what is what is the like?
Speaker 1 (21:00):
What is like? What is the outline of the course?
Speaker 6 (21:04):
Okay, So it depends on your you know, sexual orientation,
and whether you have a partner or not. I'm married,
so if yeah, So folks are partnered and both people
want to learn. I would say, do a free call
with me, and we.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
Like like what am I doing? What am I doing?
Speaker 6 (21:25):
Oh? What are you physically doing? Yeah? So when people
work with me one on one or come to my
workshops in Annapolis, basically what they're doing is I'm guiding
them to be vulnerable with each other, to really communicate
in a deeper and different way than they normally do
in everyday life. And through that vulnerability and that communication
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kind of cracks their heart open and gets them to
a different level. And then when they're on that more
open level, then we're connecting the non verbally through the eyes.
Then we're connecting through the chakras, through energy and breasts
and movement, and I'm gutting all of that.
Speaker 2 (22:08):
Are you gonna have Jackie and I do the yabyum
right in front of you?
Speaker 6 (22:14):
Yeah? Absolutely?
Speaker 2 (22:15):
Yeah's your sex in front of you?
Speaker 6 (22:19):
Well, yes you could.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
But most of my clients, I'm a tantric therapist, I'm
a therapists.
Speaker 6 (22:27):
Guys have their clothes on. Most of my clients have
their clothes on. So, like, if you come to one
of my workshops, I would say most of my workshops.
You're going to keep your clothes on, and I'm going
to guide you through practices with your clothes on, and
then you're going to go home and you can try
it without your clothes on.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
Do you recommend Like I talked to Toby and he's
going to six Flags on Friday, but he he was
saying that he and his wife will have like forty
five minutes of like tantric play.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
That's what I'm calling it. He didn't call it that.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Where they will they'll they'll rub, not they don't, they
don't use, they don't flog each other, but they'll rub
each other with a flogger or with dildos.
Speaker 6 (23:04):
Will play yeah, absolutely, yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:06):
Right and then sometimes five many times or Angela sometimes
he ownngula, sometimes he has a whoopsie, but they still
keep going, Yes, yes, beautiful.
Speaker 6 (23:19):
And what I would also tell you is that I
work with individual men, and men can train to be
multi orgasmic just like women are and not ejaculate with
their orgasms. So it's possible to have multiple orgasms as
a man. It just takes direction and training.
Speaker 4 (23:34):
With a coach.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
Wait say that again, I can have multi orgasms without
the UPSI.
Speaker 4 (23:40):
Yep.
Speaker 6 (23:41):
You sure can. You sure can, yep, with a proper
training and practice. Absolutely, yes, right, And you can train
to learn to have that energy circulate through your body,
which feels amazing.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
And you can teach me that.
Speaker 6 (23:57):
I can teach you that if you're willing to do
the homework.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
What is like? What is my homework for that?
Speaker 6 (24:03):
The homework practices vary depending on the client's goals. But
some of the things I might be asking you to
do would be to learn to meditate, because you have to.
Speaker 1 (24:16):
Maam, ma'am, ma'am eight angela, angela.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
Just moving forward.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
That that caught me off guard. That caught me off guard.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
I'm not gonna lie to you. Can we refer to
the male genitalia as the penis?
Speaker 6 (24:32):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (24:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Like not even you went c not even d.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
Let's just go with penis.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
Go with penis SI.
Speaker 6 (24:45):
You know what that is. That's what most men prefer
it called. In my experience, I go with the words
that are most successible to people. I don't I don't
keep the lingo necessarily. You know, if people people can
come to me and they can be whatever religion, and
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I'm going to show them how to have sex in
this really connected way do you get your partners.
Speaker 2 (25:12):
Like we learned, we learned about the yabyum, but is
there is there is there a position that you think
is better for like like feeling each other's breathing and
looking in each other's eyes and feeling my chakras. What
is your favorite? What is your recommended position?
Speaker 6 (25:33):
So, to be honest with you, I'm a big fan
of missionary and that sounds very boring, but when you're
in the missionary position, your chakras are lined up, your
chests are against each other right, so that position can
become very exciting if you're moving energy with it. Yabyam
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is really good if you're doing practices that are trying
to like bring the energy up to your crown chakra
because you have that upward orientation in the yabyam position.
It's also really good for eye gazing. It's good for
breathing together and being able to feel each other's breath.
So you might be doing an exercise where you're synchronizing
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your breath and being in that yabyam position is going
to promote being able to feel that.
Speaker 1 (26:25):
Hey, what are you doing on Friday six flags?
Speaker 6 (26:28):
I don't know, are you coming in for assession. Maybe
we can have a consult you know.
Speaker 2 (26:32):
No, no, what you want to come to six Flags
on Friday?
Speaker 6 (26:37):
Maybe are you paying me?
Speaker 4 (26:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (26:39):
No, no, I'm not paying you, but Toby'll be there.
Speaker 6 (26:41):
All right.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
Let me give you, Let me give you a four
pack of passes. I like you don or all.
Speaker 6 (26:47):
Right, handli dont dot com. You got that?
Speaker 4 (26:51):
All right?
Speaker 1 (26:51):
Very good? Very good? Hold on one second second?
Speaker 2 (26:54):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (26:55):
How about that? Yob y'all?
Speaker 3 (26:59):
Just like that, it's turned into a meet and greet
Angela and Toby.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
All right, very good.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
That's a good time to break as my parents are
leaving town today, and I did notice the blink cameras
just go off, which means they're making their way to
the car.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
But we were listening in song with the kids. Oh yeah,
Tantric sex Sting. Okay, that's exactly what I knew you
would attribute it to. I knew that. I knew that.
So you've heard of it before.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Yeah, it's Sting was very famous, very famous for tantric sex. Now, Diane,
is that one of those things.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
That got out of hand? Though?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
What do you mean?
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Like, did Sting mention it once and then people just
for the rest of time thought that's all Sting was about? Probably?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Now I don't like I remember I remember the story
because wasn't he married to Iman?
Speaker 4 (00:32):
No?
Speaker 1 (00:32):
No, that's David Bowie, that Steyler.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Hold on, I want to hear this story that Elliott remembers.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
No, I just have the wrong wife. I have the
wrong wife.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
But was it the Sting story that he and and
Trudy had like a seven hour sex session?
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Yeah, it says right here. It stems from a nineteen
ninety interview where he jokingly implied that he had a
seven hour long accession with his wife Trudy, Right, but.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
He implied, he implied later said it was a total joke,
so it wasn't even true.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
So the rumor persists.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
But that got But that guy is just like Richard
Gear but that God that took off, right, and that's
all that's all you think of. Yes, but Diane, will
you do me a favor for everybody listening?
Speaker 1 (01:22):
And I'm gonna be completely honest. I don't know what
it is. What is tantric sex?
Speaker 5 (01:30):
I really don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
It.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
Doesn't it have some sort of like meditative spiritual aspect
to it. If he's doing something for seven hours.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Well he's not, Diane. It was a joke, right, it
was a joke.
Speaker 5 (01:43):
But even even if it's a much shorter time, I
bought six hours.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
No.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I mean, so you think tantric sex is just meditative sex?
Speaker 5 (01:53):
You somehow slow down you're breathing.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
I don't know somehow.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
So at the end of the day, do you think
you practice tantric sex?
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Now?
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Do you know anybody that does? No, but you don't
even know what it is? No, does anybody know what tantrick?
I'm setting up two columns on my piece of paper.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Column one? Does anybody know what exactly tantric sex is?
Speaker 2 (02:29):
And I don't need some Webster's Dictionary definition?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
But like, talk to me like I'm a student.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
I bet some people think it's sting. You know, it's
tied to like the Kamma Sutra. But it's not right.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
No, the Kammas, Well, it's not weird. It is just
a book of positions. Who is it that we knew
that bought the Kamma Sutra and was trying to go
through every position?
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Stop? No, I'm I swear to God.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Someone that worked, Yes, somebody we knew that worked here
bought the Commas Sutra and was like, I'm going to
do every position in the commed Comma. Yes, I think
they said it on the ra Well, what's wrong with that?
What's wrong with that? Well, I'm just gonna do missionary more.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Right now, you're saying they said it on the air,
so they were brought in to discuss it, I think so.
I think so you remember this, but not the pit
My Ride promotion.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
That that I don't remember unless I have unless it
was Hennessy in both of them. Christian, will you find
me somebody who either a knows what tantric sex is
b practices tantric sex. See if you are a member
of column two, how do.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
You learn that?
Speaker 2 (03:47):
How do you learn to practice tantric sex? Do you
have to go away for it?
Speaker 5 (03:58):
Like to an institute?
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Not to an institute, But is it like one of
those like remember like Aaron Rodgers went away for like
his ayahuasca retreat where you go and like you vomit
in a bowl and you well, you don't eat for
a month.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Crap yourself or whatever?
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Do the darkness one?
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Yeah, yeah, he's done, Like he's done.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
He's bizarre.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Is do you learn tantric sex by going away to
like a retreat in Costa Rica and learning how to
do tantric sex?
Speaker 3 (04:31):
I'm sure you can learn it stateside?
Speaker 1 (04:34):
So but where well?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
I don't have an answer. But come on, So.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
If I go to a sex therapist, they could teach me.
If I called.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Doctor Judy, I bet that she's specialists. Doctor Judy could
teach me.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Maybe not her, no, but I bet there's there's some
people who who claim to be a specialist in that.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
What is it?
Speaker 3 (04:56):
But do you are you saying you don't think this
level of spirituality can be a cheat unless you're at
like a retreat.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
I think you have to learn it.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
I don't even know what it is. I knew what
I thought Sting did.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Is Diane onto something?
Speaker 6 (05:14):
Though?
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Is breathing the focal point?
Speaker 2 (05:17):
I breathed during sex. Everybody in this room does. Sorry, Jackie,
and I aren't into choking a lot.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Did you look it up, Diana.
Speaker 5 (05:29):
It emphasizes slowing down, being present with sensations, and exploring
the connection with oneself and your partner, which leads to
deeper intimacy and possibly spiritual enlightenment.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
So there's the dictionary definition, which Ali didn't want. Now
we need someone to put it in Layman, right.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Yeah, it's like when you say being present with yourself
and your partner. Is that like masturbating, Like you and
your partner just laying bed and masturbate together.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (06:01):
Slow meditative form where the end goal is not The
end goal is not orgasm, but enjoying the journey and
the sensations.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
So it's edgy.
Speaker 5 (06:14):
It aims to move energy throughout the body for healing,
transformation and enlightenment.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Sings like a lightning rod.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Is what is that massage technique that's all about the
transfer of energy?
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Ritchiereaky, Yes, that's it rek Reiki.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah, not Richie.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
That's like where you'd like you lay on a massage
table and.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Nobody touches you.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
I'm not paying for that.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
My shoulder hurts, no problem, my hand is eight feet
above it.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Shoulder still hurts.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
I don't I don't believe in.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Reichy, Reiki, Richie whatever.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
I did not know that about tantric sex that it is.
Aren't you supposed to void of orgasm?
Speaker 5 (06:59):
I thought, maybe the goal is not Yeah, I mean,
obviously probably what happened, But.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
The end okay, the end goal.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
Is to have sex. And by the way, I orgasm
it can be a part.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
It's not the primary, it's not the primary focus.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
But are you supposed to be able to last a
long time? You'd have to if you're not allowed to,
Or do you just kind of rest well, you're allowed to,
but that's not the goal.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Or are you allowed to kind of restart the car?
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Which I thought maybe you were doing throughout these hours
long sessions.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
I did too, I thought, but mooie sense of TiVo.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
What does Hobie always say? Actually, I don't think I
can say that. It's the thing about the hole in
the poll?
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Where am I? Where am I going? Line four? Hi
Elliott in the morning, Yeah, Hi, who's yes?
Speaker 4 (08:04):
Hey Toby?
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Yes, Toby. I hope you come back to work eventually.
What can I do for you, sir.
Speaker 4 (08:12):
Yes, uh, the tetric sex.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
My wife and I we do it quite often.
Speaker 6 (08:16):
It's you know.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
You don't do that.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Yes, I do. I've been made for five years and
I deal with my wife quite often.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Wait, you've been what for five years? Married?
Speaker 5 (08:28):
Well?
Speaker 4 (08:30):
Did you did you have made for five years?
Speaker 5 (08:32):
Did you have formal training?
Speaker 4 (08:37):
I'm sorry you cut off.
Speaker 5 (08:38):
Did you have like formal training? Did you go to
Costa Rica to learn how to do it?
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (08:45):
No, I had no training, but you know, we we
looked it up what it was, and we practiced and
we got in you know, much more experience with it.
So what do you want to do?
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Is?
Speaker 1 (08:54):
What do you do?
Speaker 4 (08:56):
We dimmed the lights down and we lit a whole
bunch of candles around there, and we have we have
a set of toys that we both each use on
each other, like what we have a flogger. We we
don't spank it. We just you know, rub it gently
against our body. We have other uh, dildos and other
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little spanking things we use, but we don't.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Like at you like a cattle like like.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
Yes, correct, but we don't use it actually, you know,
spank or anything. We're just easy to like just rub
against our bodies and everything, our hands gently rubb our hands.
We use massage olds as well, and it's very slow
and very intimate. But sex sorry, yes, but the actual
sex part doesn't really We didn't really get to that
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until like towards the end.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
When you say towards the end, like how long?
Speaker 1 (09:53):
How long? How long are you guys diddling around there?
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Even forty five minutes? For one hour?
Speaker 1 (09:58):
Forty five minutes?
Speaker 4 (10:01):
Yes, got this, buddy, So.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
You do that for forty five minutes before you even
think about like like like penetrative sex.
Speaker 4 (10:12):
Absolutely, yeah, we're just you know, arging on each other
and before that actually having compenitate each other.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
But do you can I can I ask you this,
like are you horned up for those forty five minutes?
Speaker 1 (10:25):
Yes? I am?
Speaker 3 (10:26):
Yeah, you thought the answer was me.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
No, I didn't know, like you got a boner for
forty five minutes?
Speaker 4 (10:34):
Uh most of the time? Yes, right on II five
Yeah most of the time.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Good for you. Do you ever? But it can?
Speaker 2 (10:43):
I can I ask you this and be honest, be
honest with me? Do you ever like sometimes do you
ever go like let's see, yeah, all the time. But
I thought you weren't supposed to orgasm.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
It just happens, you know, three men and then just happens.
You can't really, can't really control.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
It just happens, and then you just keep going.
Speaker 4 (11:06):
Correct.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
A couple of people have mentioned the yabyum. What does
that mean?
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Sir?
Speaker 1 (11:13):
What's the yab yum?
Speaker 4 (11:16):
I do not know what that is, to be honest,
I don't know what that is, all right, Google.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
Here's the reason. Here's the reason I keep asking about
Costa Rica is I was reading about a couple and
I thought this is where I was going to learn
what it was. But I read about a couple who
were like in their thirties and they went down to
Costa Rica to a it was a it was a
you could either do a one week or a two
week like class or or or or or what what.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Would you call that?
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Yeah, class seminar, seminar where you learn all about tantric sex.
And she stopped after like they got there and on
the first day, like they said, it is remote, and
they said, on the first day, we're going to steer
into each other's eyes for five minutes.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
And that was it. That was all they did.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
I was like, well, that's a waste of a day,
like I'm not seeing nothing.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
But it was. And then they went and had dinner.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
But she didn't say like what came after that, other
than it starts with almost a flashback, and it was
like I went and learned all about tantric sex.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
And that's why I didn't know.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
Is that like one of those like ayahuasca things where
you have to go off to learn about it and
then you bring it back home.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
But you're saying, no, but you don't even know what
my yab yam is.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
I do not know.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
That's all right? Hey, how often? How often do you
guys tantrick?
Speaker 4 (12:42):
We do about three times a week?
Speaker 2 (12:43):
Three times a week? Yeah, hey, do you is it
possible for you if let's say it's Friday night, right,
you guys get home, you were at dinner, you had
a great meal, it's late. Do you guys ever have
like a quick session or can you only have tantric sex.
Speaker 4 (13:02):
No, we do have quick sessions a lot of times
with the tantric grunt. We do spoke a little marijuana
as the world in the edge a little bit, and
that makes the sensation much more better.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
Right, is what is is tantric sex, just long sex, you.
Speaker 4 (13:20):
Could say that longest long central slow sex.
Speaker 3 (13:25):
We also talked about the transfer of energy, Oh, the
transfer do you transfer your energy to her?
Speaker 4 (13:32):
Most definitely?
Speaker 1 (13:33):
Okay, now you're just now you're just screwing with me.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
No, no, I don't think so.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
No, No I'm not.
Speaker 4 (13:38):
No, no, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
I'm I'm not.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
When is when is there a like when when you
guys after forty five minutes, when you guys finally, how
do you finally decide like it's it's it's it's poker time.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
You just had this.
Speaker 4 (13:53):
You know, they don't release and most of the time
she's she's in control in most of the time throughout
the session.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
How do you and what what position like is there
is there a tantric like a recommended tantric position?
Speaker 4 (14:10):
I'm usually I'm usually just laying on my back on
the badge of arms, wide of arms and lakes woke
in and a lot of times, uh, I'm also on
my hands and knees. Let's just just say that.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
Nice, all right, very very good, thank you, sir, thank you.
Speaker 4 (14:32):
Yes, yeah, I'm very comfortable with my wife, and you know,
we have been very comfortable each other.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
No, that's right, you should be yes, and you're very
comfortable with us.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
Hey, next, think of me, maration. I mean you got
forty five minutes.
Speaker 4 (14:43):
Think of me, of course, so the Elliot.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
One more thing, Yes, sir, I eat.
Speaker 4 (14:49):
Hot dogs, two hot dogs twice every single day. Love dogs.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
Right on, thank you?
Speaker 2 (14:56):
I just I just bought hot dogs online from hippies.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
All right, man?
Speaker 4 (15:02):
What what?
Speaker 6 (15:02):
What?
Speaker 2 (15:02):
What?
Speaker 4 (15:02):
What?
Speaker 2 (15:03):
What?
Speaker 3 (15:03):
What?
Speaker 6 (15:03):
What?
Speaker 2 (15:03):
What?
Speaker 4 (15:04):
Hey?
Speaker 1 (15:06):
Toby? What are you doing on Friday?
Speaker 2 (15:09):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (15:11):
Having time with my wife?
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (15:13):
You want to come bangt Diane. It's not about banging,
it's about energy. Hey you want to come to six Flags.
Speaker 4 (15:22):
Six Flags on Friday? Well, I would love to come
to six Flags on Friday.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
Yeah, we'll have a hot dog together. I can't ride
rides because of vertigo two. Yeah, oh that's true. All right,
hold on wait hey, bring your old lady. Hey, hold
on one second, let me get you a four pack
of passes. I'll see on Friday at six Flags. All right,
all right, all right, very good. I'll know who you are.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
You have big lump in your pants?
Speaker 2 (15:43):
All right, hold on one second, Hold on one second,
hold on one second, and Toby, there.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
We've been told that the yabbi it leans on the
energetic gender polarity of men and women. The partner sits
cross legged on the better floor with the opposing partner
on top.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
That's a but that isn't that a sex position?
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Clearly it is?
Speaker 2 (16:16):
Yeah, okay, so I'm sitting. I'm sitting like criss cross
apple sauce, and then she's sitting on my lap. Fac
and I got this going on. I also got a
face full of booby.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
As a position for love making, yes, exemplifies the principles
of tantric sexual practice.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
What does that mean? What does that mean?
Speaker 2 (16:43):
Like that's supposed to be the like the calming energy transfer.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
It combines verticality with a profound sense of intimacy, interweaving
the transcendent with the.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Imminent, and motor boats.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Both partners upright, sitting as if in meditation. Oh, I
get that now, allowing for the optimum flow of energy
up their central channels toward their upper chakras.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Can I can I? Oh hi, it's chakra. Can I
ask you a question, Diane? Have you and Scott done
the yab yam?
Speaker 6 (17:19):
No?
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Oh, okay, all right, I just write that down.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
The yab yam was the pre Well, no, because it's
a different position. But that's like the hawk tua okay,
Oh yes, Tyler.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
No, I threw my hands up because we're trying to
have a serious decison. I am having a serious conversation.
I just talked to Toby about the lump in his
pants and his flogger. You brought up the lump. He
was educating us.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
So can I ask you this? Going back to Toby
for a second, yes, is he is like during the
forty five minutes, it sounds like he's orgasming several times?
Speaker 3 (17:53):
No, yes, he said there's he said it happened occasionally
there's a whoopsie. Is that the word you used?
Speaker 4 (18:01):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (18:03):
But no he talked about when it becomes penetrative.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
After forty five would I would have nothing left? Nothing?
Speaker 3 (18:11):
The man might find it helpful to sit on a
pillow or place cushions under his knees for help supporting
the partner.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
Hold on, Jackie, I gotta go get the couch pillows.
Oh no, my thighs asleep.
Speaker 3 (18:26):
If you have trouble maintaining a cross legged posture or erection,
you can sit with your legs out stretch.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
That's even worse because then I got a lean.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
You can't just sit on the ground with your legs outstretched.
Speaker 3 (18:40):
Make sure, Oh this goes back to what you said
about that retreat in Costa Rica. Experiment with eye gazing,
keeping the eyes closed to merge into each other, feeling
how together you create one complete energetic circuit.
Speaker 1 (18:55):
I sit there like the parents and weapons.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
It's an ideal position for discovering the most profound meaning
of intimacy.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
So they say this is the most What is it
the most? What position?
Speaker 3 (19:09):
Profound meaning of intimacy?
Speaker 2 (19:11):
The dissolution When you were growing up and you were
thinking of like all the positions, did you ever go
I gotta do yabyum?
Speaker 1 (19:20):
That is the most I.
Speaker 5 (19:21):
Don't think I've ever heard yabyam before.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
No, you think like dog.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
The dissolution of the individual into cosmic principles and can
you read into the absolute? That's a capital a beyond
name and form. And maybe I'm not pronouncing it right
hy ab hyu m yabyum. Yeah. So what it looks like.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
Line six or do you have to say it like
Jim jab Hi Elliott the morning?
Speaker 6 (19:53):
Hello?
Speaker 1 (19:54):
Yeah, Hi, who's this Hi?
Speaker 6 (19:56):
My name is Angela Dawn and I am a hunter
e sex coach.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
Okay, so first of all, where are you from that
you're all fancy con trick.
Speaker 6 (20:07):
I am from Annapolis, Maryland. I'm actually I'm actually out
for a walk in Annapolis right now. My cousin called
me and said, Hey, they're talking about strict sex on
Elliott in the morning. You gotta check it out.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
Hey, So where am so you are? You are a
tantric sex coach.
Speaker 6 (20:27):
Yes, that's what I do. That's my occupation full time.
Speaker 1 (20:30):
Now what is the can I ask you this? Are
you busy?
Speaker 5 (20:33):
Do you do?
Speaker 2 (20:34):
You do you counsel a lot of Is it couples
or can you do like one person?
Speaker 6 (20:39):
Yeah, I work with both couples and individuals, and I
basically work with any kind of goal or anything that
people want to learn in the realm of sex, love
or relationships.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
So what is If I came to you and I
was like, hey, I want to learn about tantric sex,
what is what is the like?
Speaker 1 (21:00):
What is like? What is the outline of the course?
Speaker 6 (21:04):
Okay, So it depends on your you know, sexual orientation,
and whether you have a partner or not. I'm married,
so if yeah, So folks are partnered and both people
want to learn. I would say, do a free call
with me, and we.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
Like like what am I doing? What am I doing?
Speaker 6 (21:25):
Oh? What are you physically doing? Yeah? So when people
work with me one on one or come to my
workshops in Annapolis, basically what they're doing is I'm guiding
them to be vulnerable with each other, to really communicate
in a deeper and different way than they normally do
in everyday life. And through that vulnerability and that communication
(21:48):
kind of cracks their heart open and gets them to
a different level. And then when they're on that more
open level, then we're connecting the non verbally through the eyes.
Then we're connecting through the chakras, through energy and breasts
and movement, and I'm gutting all of that.
Speaker 2 (22:08):
Are you gonna have Jackie and I do the yabyum
right in front of you?
Speaker 6 (22:14):
Yeah? Absolutely?
Speaker 2 (22:15):
Yeah's your sex in front of you?
Speaker 6 (22:19):
Well, yes you could.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
But most of my clients, I'm a tantric therapist, I'm
a therapists.
Speaker 6 (22:27):
Guys have their clothes on. Most of my clients have
their clothes on. So, like, if you come to one
of my workshops, I would say most of my workshops.
You're going to keep your clothes on, and I'm going
to guide you through practices with your clothes on, and
then you're going to go home and you can try
it without your clothes on.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
Do you recommend Like I talked to Toby and he's
going to six Flags on Friday, but he he was
saying that he and his wife will have like forty
five minutes of like tantric play.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
That's what I'm calling it. He didn't call it that.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Where they will they'll they'll rub, not they don't, they
don't use, they don't flog each other, but they'll rub
each other with a flogger or with dildos.
Speaker 6 (23:04):
Will play yeah, absolutely, yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:06):
Right and then sometimes five many times or Angela sometimes
he ownngula, sometimes he has a whoopsie, but they still
keep going, Yes, yes, beautiful.
Speaker 6 (23:19):
And what I would also tell you is that I
work with individual men, and men can train to be
multi orgasmic just like women are and not ejaculate with
their orgasms. So it's possible to have multiple orgasms as
a man. It just takes direction and training.
Speaker 4 (23:34):
With a coach.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
Wait say that again, I can have multi orgasms without
the UPSI.
Speaker 4 (23:40):
Yep.
Speaker 6 (23:41):
You sure can. You sure can, yep, with a proper
training and practice. Absolutely, yes, right, And you can train
to learn to have that energy circulate through your body,
which feels amazing.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
And you can teach me that.
Speaker 6 (23:57):
I can teach you that if you're willing to do
the homework.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
What is like? What is my homework for that?
Speaker 6 (24:03):
The homework practices vary depending on the client's goals. But
some of the things I might be asking you to
do would be to learn to meditate, because you have to.
Speaker 1 (24:16):
Maam, ma'am, ma'am eight angela, angela.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
Just moving forward.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
That that caught me off guard. That caught me off guard.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
I'm not gonna lie to you. Can we refer to
the male genitalia as the penis?
Speaker 6 (24:32):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (24:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Like not even you went c not even d.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
Let's just go with penis.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
Go with penis SI.
Speaker 6 (24:45):
You know what that is. That's what most men prefer
it called. In my experience, I go with the words
that are most successible to people. I don't I don't
keep the lingo necessarily. You know, if people people can
come to me and they can be whatever religion, and
(25:07):
I'm going to show them how to have sex in
this really connected way do you get your partners.
Speaker 2 (25:12):
Like we learned, we learned about the yabyum, but is
there is there is there a position that you think
is better for like like feeling each other's breathing and
looking in each other's eyes and feeling my chakras. What
is your favorite? What is your recommended position?
Speaker 6 (25:33):
So, to be honest with you, I'm a big fan
of missionary and that sounds very boring, but when you're
in the missionary position, your chakras are lined up, your
chests are against each other right, so that position can
become very exciting if you're moving energy with it. Yabyam
(25:57):
is really good if you're doing practices that are trying
to like bring the energy up to your crown chakra
because you have that upward orientation in the yabyam position.
It's also really good for eye gazing. It's good for
breathing together and being able to feel each other's breath.
So you might be doing an exercise where you're synchronizing
(26:18):
your breath and being in that yabyam position is going
to promote being able to feel that.
Speaker 1 (26:25):
Hey, what are you doing on Friday six flags?
Speaker 6 (26:28):
I don't know, are you coming in for assession. Maybe
we can have a consult you know.
Speaker 2 (26:32):
No, no, what you want to come to six Flags
on Friday?
Speaker 6 (26:37):
Maybe are you paying me?
Speaker 4 (26:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (26:39):
No, no, I'm not paying you, but Toby'll be there.
Speaker 6 (26:41):
All right.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
Let me give you, Let me give you a four
pack of passes. I like you don or all.
Speaker 6 (26:47):
Right, handli dont dot com. You got that?
Speaker 4 (26:51):
All right?
Speaker 1 (26:51):
Very good? Very good? Hold on one second second?
Speaker 2 (26:54):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (26:55):
How about that? Yob y'all?
Speaker 3 (26:59):
Just like that, it's turned into a meet and greet
Angela and Toby.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
All right, very good.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
That's a good time to break as my parents are
leaving town today, and I did notice the blink cameras
just go off, which means they're making their way to
the car.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
But we were listening in song with the kids. Oh yeah,
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