EITM: Workaholliot 9/26/25

When do you make amends?

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
If I work harder, will you love me? Is the
is what it is.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
And so a lot of people are like, well, if
I work and I'm very very successful and I push
and I push, will that make you? Is the perception that, oh,
well he's successful, people will like him, people will love him,
people will look up to him, or you know, whatever
it is. Whatever it is, maybe you earn more money. Yeah,

(00:25):
So that there is this push of I got to push,
I got to push, I gotta push. But then if
all you're doing is working, then you don't get to
enjoy any of that.

Speaker 1 (00:34):
Right. So here's can I read the scenario that pissed
me off?

Speaker 3 (00:38):
Please?

Speaker 1 (00:39):
So here's where they were talking about.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
So the doctor that was doing this said, when I
talk to people trying to figure out a are they workaholics?
B Are you okay being that? And let's look at
some of the downsides. Here's what they say. Compare the scenario.

(01:02):
Compare these scenarios. Number one, you're driving to a fancy
restaurant in your new Ferrari where you will eat alone
because you have no friends or family. Or you're driving
to a Denny's in a nineteen ninety nine Corolla to
hang out with people who truly love you.

Speaker 4 (01:20):
What are you saying that it's too extreme?

Speaker 2 (01:23):
Yes, they're too like, they're way too diab metrically opposed.

Speaker 1 (01:28):
Did I get that right?

Speaker 3 (01:30):
I really don't think that for that first part, you don't.

Speaker 2 (01:33):
Think you don't think workaholics have any friends, You don't
think they have any family that loves them.

Speaker 3 (01:39):
I think there are issues there, so it seeks it's
not true.

Speaker 1 (01:45):
I think, I'm sure, But I bet there are a
lot of people who are workaholics who are married and
have families.

Speaker 3 (01:51):
Yes, you may have a family, but they see on
the weekend's the best relationship. Okay, the friends thing, I
totally buy. No, No, I've seen it in my own life.
You have friends, we've definitely been over this and it
an impacts.

Speaker 1 (02:10):
But you have people like you watch wrestling with.

Speaker 3 (02:13):
It impacts though. I'm talking about so relationships fading away, right,
People still are able to every once in a while
get together from college and they take off days and
they're able to add on to vacations or whatever it

(02:33):
is to make that happen. With workaholics, you don't have
that flexibility.

Speaker 1 (02:39):
Yeah, but not Also, certain jobs don't allow for that flexibility.

Speaker 3 (02:44):
A lot of jobs allow for more flexibility than this.

Speaker 2 (02:48):
Yeah, okay, but like you can't ask Josh. You can't
just show up late, although I guess you can. He
didn't get in trouble.

Speaker 3 (02:57):
So I do think that it certainly it may not.
It doesn't maybe make people turn on you, like they they.

Speaker 1 (03:05):
Feel you're just out of sight, out of mind.

Speaker 3 (03:07):
Yeah, they just feel like you're should.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Anywhere. Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 3 (03:13):
Like all my friends are going down to Chapel Hill
to see Georgetown basketball this season. Who has an away
game there? That's awesome until you realize the game is
on a Sunday.

Speaker 1 (03:25):
Oh can't go on a Sunday? Can they play on
a Saturday?

Speaker 3 (03:28):
I was I was like really excited. Oh my god,
I can probably do something. You guys aren't trying to
tie it to having to take a Friday off. This
is perfect. I can go to and.

Speaker 1 (03:37):
We'll go down see them doing before the game. Just
don't go to the game.

Speaker 3 (03:41):
Elliott. That that's the whole point, though, is like, Well, the.

Speaker 1 (03:45):
Whole point is seeing your friends. The game is what's
bringing everybody together.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
All right, It's Sunday morning, see you.

Speaker 2 (03:50):
Yep, that's what I'm doing with my kid, Have a bagel,
see you later.

Speaker 3 (03:56):
Yeah, so I think bagel and deli it definitely. It
doesn't mean you have no friends. It just means that
those bonds have weakened.

Speaker 1 (04:05):
Okay, but that's why I hate that scenario.

Speaker 3 (04:07):
But I don't like how it also characterizes it as
someone's a workaholic for material gain.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
I think the point I agree, But that whole point
is I can come with you.

Speaker 1 (04:17):
You've worked so hard.

Speaker 2 (04:18):
You've worked so hard that now you can afford to
get something like that, or you can afford to go
to the fancy restaurant. Just because you're not a workaholic.
Doesn't mean that you're driving a nineteen ninety nine Corolla either. No,
Like that's part of the whole painting of it.

Speaker 3 (04:33):
Yeah, it's a simplistic view of it, which.

Speaker 1 (04:35):
Is why I don't like it.

Speaker 3 (04:37):
I don't like it, and it's extremes. Yeah, because also
I guess material gain though, like I've said it before,
like the only reason I work hard is for my
family to benefit when I'm dead. No, I'm kidding, although
this job is killing me. No, it's so if they

(04:59):
want to go to colleg as, they can go to
the college that they're accepted to. Like, so, I guess
you could argue that's material gain. Yes, it's just not
the fancy car and the fancy restaurant.

Speaker 2 (05:09):
No, but it's the ability to listen. Putting kids through
school is very expensive, very expensive. We started saving day one.
I hit Jackie's bra behind the bed. She gave me
a key chain, and then we started putting money aside.

Speaker 4 (05:29):
Is there another scenario that.

Speaker 1 (05:30):
Know, that's the no, No, that's the mame. But but
then they say, is it is it?

Speaker 5 (05:35):
So?

Speaker 3 (05:35):
In?

Speaker 1 (05:35):
What are you?

Speaker 2 (05:37):
Are you driven by that? Where it is you want
things we do? People just equate workaholics with success. Now
they will go in and go most people that will
get held up and go, oh look they're very very successful.

Speaker 1 (05:54):
Did tend to be workaholics?

Speaker 2 (05:56):
Or is it passed down like you're from your parents,
either modeling what they did.

Speaker 1 (06:03):
Or being pushed so hard.

Speaker 4 (06:06):
Yeah, but a lot of times the pushing them backfires
on you.

Speaker 1 (06:10):
Yeah, No it can.

Speaker 3 (06:12):
Yeah, sure it can.

Speaker 2 (06:13):
But are you pushed so hard that either a you're
afraid to let them down or it's like I'll show
you and and and then you get it. Whether it's
a parent that either was a workaholic that you're mimicking
or a.

Speaker 1 (06:27):
Parent that wasn't.

Speaker 2 (06:28):
But it's pushing you and you're like, yeah, watch this,
I'll be a thousand times better.

Speaker 4 (06:34):
And done with you.

Speaker 3 (06:34):
Yeah, it says there's likely a script in your head
now that tells you you're not inherently lovable as you are,
so you better win the spelling bee.

Speaker 1 (06:47):
Wait say that again.

Speaker 3 (06:48):
I disagree with that.

Speaker 1 (06:49):
Wait say again.

Speaker 3 (06:50):
You're not in two.

Speaker 2 (06:51):
Here's an event that somebody nobody cares if they win
the spelling bee.

Speaker 3 (06:53):
Little kids do.

Speaker 4 (06:55):
That's how it's but that's how you grow up.

Speaker 1 (06:57):
Little kids aren't workaholics.

Speaker 3 (06:59):
But a lot of kids is what you're talking about.
The rearing and the growing up.

Speaker 4 (07:02):
Yeah, like kids think his eyebrows, but he was looking
at me and you said rearing.

Speaker 1 (07:07):
Yes, no, But it's like very immature today.

Speaker 4 (07:10):
But there are plenty I'm sure that there are plenty
of little kids who are like, oh my god, I
have to get straight a's or my parents are going
to be hugely disappointed in me.

Speaker 1 (07:19):
Yeah, yeah, probably.

Speaker 4 (07:22):
Or you want to be if you are in a
group of siblings, you want to be the standout to
like you know, because you think that you're going to
be the star of the family.

Speaker 2 (07:31):
Or if I don't get a's, I don't get a reward,
right yeah, okay, but.

Speaker 3 (07:38):
I don't agree with their reward statement.

Speaker 1 (07:42):
Right?

Speaker 2 (07:43):
Wait?

Speaker 1 (07:43):
Which one about the spot? And you lost me at.

Speaker 3 (07:45):
Spelling b Say it again, You're not inherently lovable. I
get for some people that may be the case, but
that's not what driving me these days.

Speaker 1 (07:54):
I think I'm a workaholic.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
H Elliott, My god, I have friends, I have good
for I still do things.

Speaker 3 (08:02):
You're very limited in what you can do, yes, And
I don't just mean because of a long weekend. I
mean we can't do stuff during the week. That's why
you have to order so much. It's limiting, it's missing.
As my kids say it to me all the time.
As I sit at the computer all afternoon and evening
and I didn't even fire off my email to you
last night until like ten thirty, I'll say to them,

(08:24):
you tell Elliott that you didn't do your work. That's
what I say to him. And then they know that means, okay,
stop questioning Daddy's time.

Speaker 1 (08:31):
And you know, sometimes I go, God, why do the
Molnars hate me.

Speaker 3 (08:35):
Yeah, they're not huge fans, but I signed up for this.

Speaker 1 (08:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (08:43):
Did you see the second? He said?

Speaker 4 (08:45):
So now you still don't think you're a workaholic.

Speaker 1 (08:47):
No, I don't. I still do stuff.

Speaker 3 (08:50):
Maybe that's I'm not to me. I'm not inherently lovable
to you. It's not my real parents. I gotta win
the spelling beef for Elliott. Did you see the second?

Speaker 1 (09:01):
What is the second step?

Speaker 3 (09:02):
So the first step was look at your origins and
face the truth. Second step, give what you receive. Benjamin
Franklin wrote, Great, Benjamin Franklin, if you would be loved,
love and be lovable. The profound truth behind this assertion
is that you should give what you want to receive.
So if you want more courtesies, start by being courteous
to others. I do that. And if you want true
love from your beloved, give them true love in the

(09:24):
intrinsic currency that satisfies our deeper needs. I do that.
That means giving yourself, not things.

Speaker 1 (09:33):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (09:34):
You're not trying to buy somebody.

Speaker 1 (09:36):
No, okay, let us see. I don't like that.

Speaker 4 (09:38):
I don't like That's essentially what he's saying.

Speaker 1 (09:40):
Yeah, but here, kids, I know you want shoes, but
here you go.

Speaker 3 (09:45):
Here's me, here's their example. Try this. Take a day
off from work.

Speaker 4 (09:50):
Oh my god, you almost like was that a mini stroke? Smile?

Speaker 3 (09:58):
Raise your hand when you're ready, I'll continue.

Speaker 1 (10:03):
Yeah, go ahead, go ahead.

Speaker 3 (10:04):
Take a day off from work, turn off your phone,
and give the person or people you love the attention
they need all day.

Speaker 4 (10:15):
That would never happen rather die, which you almost did.

Speaker 1 (10:19):
Yeah, take off a day of work. That's fine, But
I have to turn off my phone.

Speaker 4 (10:24):
Wanted to turn my phone off to spend quality time
with people I am, and also I'm texting those that can't.

Speaker 1 (10:29):
Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (10:34):
So the third step sounds like you may have trouble
getting to, which is make plans to change because one
day is not enough. Big changes in your habits don't
take place overnight.

Speaker 1 (10:46):
No, ten thousand hours.

Speaker 3 (10:49):
If you were dependent on alcohol, say, I wouldn't be
so naive as to imagine that not drinking for a
day would fix the problem.

Speaker 1 (10:55):
Okay, don't compare own up to your workaholism.

Speaker 3 (11:00):
Acknowledge the roots of the problem. I don't think I'm
gon work on and work with your loved ones to
make a long term plan. To live differently. That might
mean planning a career job change.

Speaker 4 (11:13):
Oh okay, well that's not happening, just to acknowledge you're
not going to change.

Speaker 1 (11:18):
No, maybe I get a career job change, but.

Speaker 3 (11:21):
You have to ask your family to hold you accountable
for making progress.

Speaker 4 (11:25):
When you slip back into old habits.

Speaker 1 (11:27):
I want al Cocin's job. I want al Cocin's job.
There's my career change. So get rid of al Cocin.

Speaker 2 (11:37):
When he talked to Andrew Crystal last night, I was like, man,
that's awesome.

Speaker 1 (11:39):
Good for him, that's great.

Speaker 3 (11:43):
So your takeaway is al Cocin.

Speaker 1 (11:46):
Get rid of al Cocin. Yeah, and everybody's family hates me.

Speaker 3 (11:49):
You can keep the same nickname.

Speaker 1 (11:50):
Scott hates me.

Speaker 3 (11:53):
It's smoking, can't quit. It goes with the job.

Speaker 1 (12:00):
Does Mike hate me yet? Now? Well he's also gone
a lot. Thank god. Well, Scott doesn't hate me. He
hates things about me.

Speaker 4 (12:10):
He acknowledges that it is a huge deal when I
have to ask for a day off to maybe take
him to like like like when I had to do
the colonoscopy. In fact, he had already made it is.

Speaker 1 (12:25):
A big deal. He had already is a big deal,
and I treated as such.

Speaker 4 (12:29):
But he had already made the appointment when he called
and said, you need to take this day off because
I need you to drive me. And I said, I
can't take that day off. You have to reschedule that, right, No,
and he right call. There was a lot of silence
that day in the house.

Speaker 1 (12:51):
But you still got that day off.

Speaker 4 (12:54):
Right, But in it being a bit of an uncomfortable
thing for him, that's he was nervous about it. No,
he was nervous about it. And then then me based yeah,
and then me just me just having to be like, well, sorry,
I can't do it that day. You got to call

(13:15):
him back.

Speaker 2 (13:15):
So I'll tell you what went through my head that day,
And obviously I was.

Speaker 1 (13:20):
I was very happy to give you the day we
were off.

Speaker 4 (13:22):
That day, all I heard was Diane's fault. Well that
is true, okay, but do you understand though sometimes she
walked because she lives near the hospital, the right, that's
not But then he could have ubered and then no,
they don't want you to do that home.

Speaker 1 (13:39):
You can uber there.

Speaker 2 (13:41):
They don't give it f how you get there, it's
how you get So he could have ubered.

Speaker 4 (13:45):
Okay, but god, I hope I was told face. I
was told, it's not like you drop him off and leave.
I needed to When I was there, I pull his
pants down. I had to stay there during the procedure.

Speaker 1 (13:58):
Nobody has to stay there.

Speaker 3 (14:00):
That's called what I was told.

Speaker 4 (14:01):
Really, yes, I had to stay there.

Speaker 1 (14:03):
Didn't you say that.

Speaker 4 (14:05):
Because I I honestly, I didn't know, because that's that's
where I got mine done. I didn't know that I
had to stay there until I got because the nurse
asked me to or told me to.

Speaker 1 (14:16):
Now, both adults in the stup home madically, But you did.
I didn't know that.

Speaker 4 (14:22):
I didn't know that until I got there. But when
would the uber driver have had to stay there? No, somebody,
That's why they say. That's why they said, you know,
you can't uber there. You need to have somebody or
I think there was an option for like a medical
transport company or something.

Speaker 1 (14:38):
Oh, tell me to go private like the Jews.

Speaker 4 (14:39):
If I would have said, sorry, got to use them.

Speaker 3 (14:42):
No, that's different because that is not the norm.

Speaker 4 (14:45):
No, it's not no, no, normally, I'm just telling you
you didn't.

Speaker 1 (14:49):
I didn't. You didn't know either.

Speaker 4 (14:50):
I didn't. I didn't know Scott until I got there.

Speaker 3 (14:54):
Uber, I'll pick you up because I was told when
I had my class.

Speaker 2 (14:56):
And who was one of the first ones to check
how the colonoscopy went.

Speaker 1 (15:00):
My motive may have been we're cool for tomorrow, but still.

Speaker 3 (15:04):
Because I remember they told me I could not do
a ride share home. They didn't care how I got
there exactly, but you had to have somebody walk in
and like not say get you out, but kind of
be a part of the discharging.

Speaker 1 (15:16):
Yeah, like I made.

Speaker 2 (15:18):
I made like when when Jackie got hers, she walked,
I picked her up and I waited in the front
and they pushed her out in a wheelchair and I
was like, I got it from here and went home.

Speaker 3 (15:28):
I'm trying to remember that.

Speaker 1 (15:29):
Sat down at my computer.

Speaker 3 (15:31):
Linda Lindsay took the kids to a museum or something.

Speaker 1 (15:34):
While you were getting your colonoscopy.

Speaker 3 (15:36):
In the area, so that when she got word that
I was out of the colonoscopy, she can yeah.

Speaker 4 (15:41):
Exactly, yeah, no, But I'm just saying.

Speaker 1 (15:45):
There's no reason he should have been upset with me,
and he.

Speaker 4 (15:49):
When when he said, oh, it's this day, and I said,
I can't do that day.

Speaker 2 (15:52):
He was pissed at you, not at me, because his
question should have been why can't you Did Elliot say
that we can't miss that day?

Speaker 4 (16:01):
No, Elliot percent we could not have missed that day.

Speaker 1 (16:06):
We did miss that day.

Speaker 4 (16:07):
No, we missed that after he had to call and reschedule.

Speaker 2 (16:10):
Oh we did reschedule. Yes, Oh, well I didn't know that.
Don't play that on me.

Speaker 1 (16:16):
Well, he can't be mad at me. I didn't even know.

Speaker 4 (16:18):
I'm just saying I would have rearranged everything one not
a chance.

Speaker 1 (16:23):
Did something go on that day? Yes? Why does Kristen know?

Speaker 3 (16:27):
Because I told her?

Speaker 1 (16:29):
Did she call you?

Speaker 4 (16:32):
I was like, remind me again, what do we have
on this day?

Speaker 3 (16:36):
Is that true?

Speaker 4 (16:36):
And she said yes, oh okay, yeah.

Speaker 2 (16:40):
She asked you three times that. That's typical. Dane is
a checker. That's what I love about her. I wish
he would have checked more closely about just the drop
off procedures.

Speaker 4 (16:52):
I told you, I didn't know it until I got
to the place.

Speaker 2 (16:54):
Right and and by the way, that's where ignorance is bliss.
He could have just ubered there and it'd have been like,
where's Diane, But like, didn't know.

Speaker 1 (17:02):
We had to be here. What are they going to do? Say, well,
got to reschedule, can't, can't. I already had to reschedule once.
It's like when you get called for jury duty. I
can't do it that day, Diane.

Speaker 3 (17:13):
Now Tom was able to be a part of the
show this morning even though he has jury duty.

Speaker 1 (17:16):
Yeah, exactly, be more like Tom.

Speaker 4 (17:18):
Oh, I'll just phone it in Tamo does.

Speaker 3 (17:23):
That's called voice tracking. They don't use a phone, it's
a machine.

Speaker 1 (17:29):
Wait.

Speaker 2 (17:29):
Wait, I didn't want this to be into Hey, let's
tell Elliott how much our families hate him.

Speaker 3 (17:33):
No, but you you didn't even get my turn yet.

Speaker 1 (17:35):
Well, go ahead, but you No, but Lindsay doesn't hate me.
She's always very nice to me when I see her.

Speaker 3 (17:40):
Lindsay I think defaults to knowing I care more about
you than them. Okay, yeah, it's not that's sadly, that's
their reality.

Speaker 1 (17:50):
Yeah, I think Jackie's in that boat.

Speaker 3 (17:52):
She is, Yeah, she is. They could commiserate together. Yeah,
but I but I have to explain to them. You'll
never understand how I am sacrificing myself for you guys.

Speaker 1 (18:07):
Exactly. And that's the part that doesn't get appreciated.

Speaker 3 (18:11):
It never does.

Speaker 4 (18:13):
It is by some considered Joan, what am I getting
the nod for?

Speaker 1 (18:17):
Excuse me, I'm just listening, Tyler.

Speaker 3 (18:20):
But no, I do I think that whether it's my friends,
even twenty plus years of this, and I feel like
they hate it because I remind my family about this
a lot. You'll never get it.

Speaker 1 (18:37):
I'll never get it. Not you. Oh oh no, they.

Speaker 3 (18:41):
Won't and they never will get it. And they don't
like hearing that and this. If she's listening, this will
upset her. And I don't mean for it to be,
but this job upsets her a lot. So it's just
another mile down that road.

Speaker 4 (18:57):
What are you looking at me for nothing?

Speaker 1 (19:00):
No, listen, it was good. We sometimes had days off
for hockey tournaments.

Speaker 4 (19:07):
Exactly right. I think that's been brought up before, too.

Speaker 1 (19:10):
Oh it comes up.

Speaker 3 (19:11):
Who well, I think that there.

Speaker 4 (19:13):
Was like, wait, if we're going to be off for
a hockey tournament, maybe I'll get a life saving procedure
on that day. I'll see if I can schedule that.

Speaker 1 (19:26):
I wanted to be there for my kids and all
my friends. Oh what here we go.

Speaker 3 (19:36):
No, it's just people agreeing with uh, Diane.

Speaker 1 (19:42):
What then you have to be there for colon oscar
being that, There's no way that's true, not that part
of it.

Speaker 4 (19:47):
Oh you think the woman lied to my face?

Speaker 1 (19:51):
No, I don't.

Speaker 2 (19:52):
I don't, but I think I think they would have
done the procedure if you weren't there, because you didn't
know you had.

Speaker 4 (19:56):
To be there, and he still wouldn't be taught talking
to me.

Speaker 1 (20:00):
Who's Scott? Scott loves you. I love you.

Speaker 4 (20:03):
I'm just saying that was that was an uncomfortable afternoon.

Speaker 2 (20:07):
Of course, it was anytime you come out of anesthesia,
you could be uncomfortable.

Speaker 1 (20:13):
Oh you mean when you told him that he can't
do it?

Speaker 4 (20:14):
When I said I can't do that day? Can you
call him back and reschedule?

Speaker 1 (20:19):
Well, I maybe if I was playing goddamn hockey.

Speaker 3 (20:22):
Essentially, And if you are one of the kind parents
who are volunteering at the football game tonight to work
the concession stand and see my wife working, I'll tell
you the same thing I told her when she didn't
understand why I wouldn't sign up.

Speaker 1 (20:39):
I SmackDown's on.

Speaker 3 (20:43):
I said, because I can't work every single second of
every goddamn.

Speaker 1 (20:48):
Day one or two. Where am I going? Line one? Hi?
Elliot in the morning.

Speaker 5 (20:58):
By This is Alan from Richmond. Yeah, they whenever you're
under general anesthesia, they require someone to be there because
sometimes people have bad reactions. They could go into a
seizure they don't wake up. But the other problem is
sometimes they get drowsy after the fact and they'll pass
out mid drive. And that's why.

Speaker 1 (21:14):
Oh yeah, no, no, listen, listen, I get the you
have to drive.

Speaker 2 (21:18):
Well, I've always heard you've had to drive them home,
like we live clothes, like let Jackie walk, but the because.

Speaker 3 (21:24):
Then I got a rush out of here the middle
of the street.

Speaker 1 (21:27):
I'll be done at one. Yeah, fall down in front
of the hospital. There are used to people falling down
out there.

Speaker 2 (21:32):
The uh no no, but like I get that, but
I've never heard that, Like I've never like Jackie's gone
to a lot of doctor things where I've never been
there at the beginning.

Speaker 5 (21:43):
Well, just because with the anesthesia, you never know how
somebody might react to it. They could have an allergic reaction.
The blood presher could suddenly Scott was.

Speaker 2 (21:51):
In there, and you know, listen, Ultimately Diane got a
whole day off for that is if something would have
happened to Scott, like, what are they gonna do?

Speaker 1 (21:59):
Come out in to the lobby and go.

Speaker 2 (22:01):
Oh hey, Diane, Scott's having a reaction to the anesthesia.

Speaker 1 (22:05):
Can you go in and fix it?

Speaker 4 (22:07):
No, you're not doing anything, but they want a family
member there.

Speaker 3 (22:11):
So I have my.

Speaker 1 (22:13):
Information that's gotta be. Yeah, I know yesterday we read
your wedding.

Speaker 3 (22:19):
My patient letter prior to my colonoscopedge.

Speaker 2 (22:21):
Oh isn't this where they found unusual amounts of meat
in your colon or something?

Speaker 1 (22:24):
Oh? Blood? What was it? What did you have it undigested?
Thank you?

Speaker 3 (22:30):
They said that my prep wasn't complete. There was du
which is.

Speaker 1 (22:38):
Like it left me incredulous up in the more anyway,
so I.

Speaker 3 (22:44):
Am reading straight from it. It does say, you know,
the prep in terms of eating or drinking anything after midnight,
don't do anything in the morning of your procedure. Someone
must accompany you home after the procedure. Medication that would
be given totude health you relax. You will not be
able to drive uber taxi and buses are not an

(23:04):
acceptable form of transportation, right.

Speaker 1 (23:07):
So it's home home. But now what year is that?

Speaker 2 (23:11):
Twenty nineteen, right, So maybe it has changed, change, Maybe
it's changed.

Speaker 1 (23:17):
Tell Elliott it change. It will punch it into his face.

Speaker 3 (23:23):
And for me, Tailan, all was safe to you prior
to the procedure. It's all. It's all right here, all.

Speaker 1 (23:33):
Right, very good.

Speaker 2 (23:33):
Well, you know what, this didn't go the way that
I was expecting it to go. What do you mean, Well,
I thought we were going to have a fun, upbeat
conversation about workaholics, and instead all I do is learn
everybody's family member hates me.

Speaker 3 (23:44):
But I will say this, I am forever grateful because.

Speaker 1 (23:47):
You have the greatest job in the world.

Speaker 3 (23:49):
You have given me a career and a livelihood. But
it's also my life's biggest regret.