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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Dave Ryan Show. I'm Katie w B.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
Do you ever wonder if you're getting like taken or
scammed on Facebook or social media? So I'm on this
like I grew up in Colorado Springs Facebook page, can
that's where I grew up? And so I commented about this, like, oh,
there's a picture of this old waffle house that they
tore down, and I said, that's where I had My
first date ever was at that waffle house. So woman

(00:25):
comments on mine. She's like, hello, David, I would like
to ask you some questions. Can you direct message me?

Speaker 3 (00:31):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (00:32):
And I thought, okay, well sure, yeah. So I messaged
her and I said, Hi, it's day from Facebook. And
I look at her profile and she's a very attractive,
twenty four ish looking Asian woman and her pictures there
are only pictures of her. There's like her with a
cup of coffee, one is like a model's pose, and
then there's one of like So it's a very small
little profile and I thought, here it comes. Somebody is like,

(00:57):
you know, there is a dude who's pretending to be
an attractive young woman. So I wrote back and I said, well,
what do you want to know? And She's like, I
am coming to Colorado Springs and I would like to
know what I should do while I'm there. And I'm like, okay,
well here's a big long list. And then she didn't
write back, and then this morning she wrote back. She
said that is wonderful, thank you very much. I appreciate it.
I'm coming in January, blah blah blah. But because I'm

(01:18):
a cynic, I keep waiting for them to be like,
I'm a little short on money. Is there any way
that you can venmo me or cash app? That's their favorite, right,
zell zell me some money? And so she hasn't done it.
So now I'm starting to think that it's really And
I was showing Susan because I'm like, look at this,
this young beautiful woman is asking me for advice. Of

(01:41):
all the people on this page, why is she asking me?
And so I keep thinking this like some guy who's like,
you know, sitting in his basement somewhere in his underpants,
smoking a pie or cigar, and he's like trying to
scam me.

Speaker 3 (01:53):
He sees your picture and he's like, this guy looks
like a schmuck.

Speaker 4 (01:56):
I'm gonna.

Speaker 2 (01:58):
I get smuck a lot, so I keep waiting for
that one. But I told Sue. She's like, oh, so
You're gonna go to Colorado and show her around. I'm like, absolutely,
you guys, get a hold ham absolutely not. All right,
let's get into the throw back threes right after your
Sabrena Carpenter.

Speaker 5 (02:14):
Keyword, let's take a strip afore chance to win a
trip to Los Angeles to see Sabrina Carpenter at one
of her sold out shows happens now.

Speaker 6 (02:22):
I'm kd WB. Talk back to the keyword busy. That's
busy on our iHeartRadio app.

Speaker 2 (02:29):
Okay, so use that keyword busy. This is the last
couple of days. I think we're done with it this weekend.
Get that trip out to Los Angeles. It'll come at
the perfect time to get on an airplane and go
out to LA to see Sabrina Carpenters.

Speaker 4 (02:45):
The radio show.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
Yeah, KATWD.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
Let's go back to twenty fifteen. It was only ten
years ago. Does that seem like a long time ago
or just a couple of years ago? What were you
doing in twenty fifteen? Where did you go on vacation
that year? Who were you seeing in twenty fifteen? Are
they over or are you still together? Let's do this
first of all, let's do movies from twenty fifteen, number three,

(03:11):
the Martian, number two, the Peanuts movie, and the number
one movie was Let's see if you can name it?

Speaker 1 (03:16):
Go Time double o seven.

Speaker 7 (03:17):
But in five minutes the head of the Joint Security
Service is going to walk through that door, and I've
got to explain to him how one of our ages
decided to potter off to Mexico all on his own and.

Speaker 1 (03:25):
Clausing anybody, anybody?

Speaker 8 (03:27):
I assume it's a James Bond movie double O seven. Correct,
it's called Specter Spector. Let's go to the TV. Let's
go to number three show on this date in twenty fifteen,
Broke Girls at number three, My Super Sweet sixteen at
number two, and this show at number one?

Speaker 1 (03:46):
Can you name it? You believe in love at first sight?

Speaker 9 (03:49):
I know what you're thinking, Well, there's a cynical place,
and I must be a cynical man thinking a woman
like you would fall for a line like that.

Speaker 1 (03:55):
Thing is it isn't a line? Any ideas?

Speaker 8 (04:01):
Is it?

Speaker 4 (04:01):
Sherlock?

Speaker 2 (04:03):
It's elementary music on Katie WB number three song from
twenty fifteen, on this date was see that blows Me Away?
That that was ten years ago?

Speaker 1 (04:19):
That's crazy.

Speaker 2 (04:20):
Number two was is and the number one song from
ten years ago adele on Katie WP Hello, we will

(04:45):
be back with more of the throat back threesome. Where
were you in twenty ten? Memories come flooding back.

Speaker 3 (04:53):
To the Dave Bryan Show on kt WB.

Speaker 2 (04:56):
We put a poll on Instagram. Is the poll on
Instagram about who on the show is the most normal?
Instagram and Facebook?

Speaker 1 (05:00):
Yeah? Okay, good.

Speaker 2 (05:01):
Who's in the lead so far? There's either me, Dave,
Jenny Bailey or vond He came up an hour ago.
We're talking about who's the most normal on the show,
and of course we all think we're the most normal
on the show.

Speaker 1 (05:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (05:13):
I don't know problem not being normal though, because I
think I am a little bit weird when I'm by myself.

Speaker 2 (05:18):
I think you are actually the probably the most normal.
You and me are tied for most normal.

Speaker 11 (05:21):
Don't change your answer every hour so far this show
and change her mind if she won?

Speaker 2 (05:26):
True right now.

Speaker 11 (05:27):
With thirty six percent of the vote, is a miss
Jenny Lutenberger Wow, leading yes and then thirty three Dave,
I'm in third place. Bailey, you are ten percent of
the vote for being the most normal.

Speaker 4 (05:38):
I don't know why you swear you're the most normal.

Speaker 1 (05:40):
I'm glad.

Speaker 3 (05:40):
I think I'm relatable, not necessarily normal. I think people
relate to me.

Speaker 4 (05:46):
You change story too.

Speaker 3 (05:48):
It depends on your definition of normal. That's what it is.

Speaker 2 (05:50):
Fifteen years ago on the Throwback Threesome show.

Speaker 9 (05:59):
Yeah on kt.

Speaker 2 (06:00):
W, I'm really looking forward to the number one song
from this year in twenty ten because I love this song.
Let's get started with TV shows. TV shows that were
big on this date in two thoy ten. Number three Sherlock,
number two The Vampire Diaries, and number one was this one.

Speaker 1 (06:21):
Can you name it?

Speaker 2 (06:23):
Volunteers, you work in countless hours? Change it is Extreme
Makeover Home Edition. Oh okay?

Speaker 1 (06:38):
Movies.

Speaker 2 (06:39):
Number three at the box office was four Colored Girls.
That was in twenty ten. Number two do date.

Speaker 11 (06:47):
I don't remember these movies neither Color Girls was a
good tyl of para movie.

Speaker 1 (06:51):
And number one can you name this one?

Speaker 3 (06:54):
Okay?

Speaker 7 (06:55):
Okay?

Speaker 9 (06:56):
Natural Man and I were never a couple, but I
thought you two what everybody did.

Speaker 3 (07:02):
It was never really my type.

Speaker 2 (07:04):
Don't know this funny cartoon for sure. I think so
called mega mind, oh mega mind baby. All right, here
we go. Let's go to KWB number three song on
KTBDB on this date in twenty ten, number two song,
and now the number one song on this date in

(07:24):
twenty ten.

Speaker 1 (07:26):
Where were you? Were you in school? Were you working?
Were you on your first marriage? Were you in the
hospital having a baby right now? Where did you live
in twenty ten? Let's flash back and maybe this song
will help flat like GESU, that song was number one

(07:46):
fifteen years ago on Ktie'll be we're doing the throwback threesome.
We're gonna get to two thousand and five in just
a second. But I'm looking at text messages.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
Somebody said, fifteen years ago, I was dancing to that
song in my middle school him in eighth grade, Like
I knew what Slizzard was.

Speaker 1 (08:03):
I still don't know what is blizzard. I don't know
what that is.

Speaker 2 (08:07):
I think the scissor drinking scissor is like codeine and
cough syrup and vodcast or something what. That's why I
think locked up? Uh, let's go to two thousand and five,
twenty years ago. Here we go on TV number three
show was Charmed number two Smallville, and then one of

(08:32):
my favorite shows from that era.

Speaker 1 (08:34):
Can you name this TV show?

Speaker 11 (08:36):
You guys are each gonna have to stick your head
inside this box with these fifty tarantulas for three minutes?

Speaker 12 (08:44):
All right?

Speaker 1 (08:47):
Anyone?

Speaker 2 (08:47):
Yeah, that's Fear Fact. It was Fear Factor. Loved that show. Movies.
Let's go to the movies. Number three movie was Saw Too,
Number two, jar Head. Can you name the number one movie?
Here's a little clips is genetically tiny Lands.

Speaker 1 (09:14):
Anyone? Anyone?

Speaker 2 (09:15):
Only a cartoon Yump Chicken Little Okay. It's so funny
how we've forgotten about so many of these movies like
they were big back then. It's like, Okay, let's go
to KTWB. Number three song on KTWB twenty years ago today,

(09:35):
Soul Survivor with Young Jeezy and Akon when Acon was
on everything back then.

Speaker 3 (09:39):
I got to add that to a playlist. That's a
good one.

Speaker 2 (09:41):
Wow, Okay. Number two song twenty years ago. Damn, nobody
likes Kanye anymore, but we still like that song.

Speaker 4 (09:51):
Such a good okay, Jamie Fox.

Speaker 2 (09:54):
Number one was one of the dumbest songs ever, but
it reached number one, And it'll take you back to
two thousand and five, the number one song of that
year at this time on KTWB Black Eyed Peas on

(10:14):
the throw Back threesome I Tell You Will, I am
used to write more music. That song is so catchy,
is so stupid? What are you gonna do with all
that breast, all that breast inside that shirt that is
right up there with and in the end, the love
you take is equal to the love you make. Throw
back three some Black Eyed Peas number one twenty years ago.

Speaker 5 (10:37):
Let's take a trip or chants to win a trip
to Los Angeles to see Sabrina Carpenter at one of
our sold out shows.

Speaker 6 (10:43):
Happens now on KDWB. Tunk back. The keyword tears. That's
tears on our iHeartRadio app.

Speaker 2 (10:51):
Hey do that now for your chance to win that
trip to go see Sabrina Carpenter in Los Angeles. Do
it every time that you hear us say this, If
you listen for a while, you hear it more than once.
That's being able to buy several raffle tickets. So listen
longer so you can win. The Dave Ryan Show one
on one point three kd WB. War of the Roses

(11:13):
is coming up. It's a spicy one. She wants to
call she knows her husband's cheating. She wants to call
the woman he's cheating with, put her on the radio
and let her know that my husband is married. That's
coming up on War of the Roses. NBC will not
have special programming to ring in the New Year. They

(11:34):
nixed Snoops New Year's Eve, which was going to be
a two hour live event from Miami with performances celebrity guests.
But basically they want to focus on the Olympics because
the Olympics are coming up on NBC next year and
they want to focus more on promoting that apparently, so
they want to have Snoop do that instead. And the
Winter Olympics this year are in anybody, anybody? Anybody else?

(11:57):
Two harbors, Two harbors, Harbor. I don't know that pie
up there? God's country. They got a lot of pie
up exactly. Yeah, No, it's it's in Italy, by the way.

Speaker 10 (12:07):
So, eight years after leaving the cable drama Suits, which
Dave loved for a while, Megan Markle is returning to acting. Yesterday,
she was on the set of Close Personal Friends at
co stars Breed Larsen, Lily Collins, Jack Quaid, and Henry Golding.
And Megan's role in the movie is small because she's
going to be playing herself and the plot of close
personal friends revolves around one couple's chance meeting of a

(12:28):
famous couple while vacationing in southern California. And also, I
just want to say all a little hope out there
to everyone. Megan Markle didn't meet whatever prince she's married
to Carry Harry until she was thirty five.

Speaker 3 (12:40):
I'm just throwing it out there. I'm just throwing it.

Speaker 1 (12:42):
Out she was thirty five.

Speaker 3 (12:43):
Yeah, wow, I'm thirty five.

Speaker 10 (12:45):
Yeah, there is It's in the cards for me, Prince Wow.

Speaker 1 (12:49):
Good luck, Bailey, thank you.

Speaker 8 (12:50):
There was a rumored in Sync biopic, but it's not
happening because the boys in the band are just not
into it. Justin Timerlake's manager brought up the idea to
the fast and furious producer Neil Moritz, and because apparently
Justin Timberlake wanted it to happen, which is weird because
he's the one who.

Speaker 3 (13:09):
Doesn't want to commit to a reunion tour.

Speaker 8 (13:11):
So now they were going to do a biopeck and
now the biopicks off. The table, so justin I beg
you please revisit the reunion tour.

Speaker 3 (13:19):
That's what we actually want. I don't need a biopick.

Speaker 11 (13:22):
I watched the first episode of that Kim Kardashian show
All's Fair. We were making fun of it because it
has zero percent on Rotten Tomatoes. It's not bad like
it's giving TB and it's also not giving legal drama.
It's giving sitcom like there's moments where they say something
where and then there's like a beat where you're supposed
to laugh, and I'm like, this isn't funny, but it's
also not giving drama. It's campy, right, yeah, yeah, I

(13:43):
guess so very campy is a good way to describe it.

Speaker 2 (13:46):
They start brought to you by Heimer and Lammer's Injury
low six one two injured. War of the Roses right
now on KATIEWB, brought to you by Ovo, Lasik and Lens.
Let's see what happens.

Speaker 8 (14:00):
Really offer you free flowers in this economy.

Speaker 3 (14:03):
It's time for one of the roses on JDWB.

Speaker 2 (14:08):
Okay, I want to let you know we've had some
unusual War of the roses lately, and this one fits
right into that one so this is not just like
they're cheating. I won't want to find out who they
send roses to. This is I want to have Madison
explain the whole thing, because you know the story better
than I do. Madison, you're on KATIEWB. Go ahead and
tell us what we're doing today. What's up?

Speaker 8 (14:31):
Hi? So?

Speaker 9 (14:33):
Yeah, I, my husband and I have not been having
the best time lately, Like things have been very weird
at home. And so he was caught the other night
by my friends. He was up holding this woman from

(14:54):
like behind, undeniable stuff's going on. My friend saw him
and and took pictures and sent them to me.

Speaker 1 (15:03):
Okay, what did you see in the pictures?

Speaker 9 (15:06):
Kind of like you remember that Chris Martin things? Then, yes,
like he's just like got his arms around this woman.
He's like noodling her and it's just undeniable.

Speaker 2 (15:23):
Okay, So so he's out and you maybe did you
know he was at or did he lie and say
he was somewhere else?

Speaker 8 (15:31):
Oh?

Speaker 9 (15:32):
No, he's been lying up the storm about everything. I
didn't know where he was.

Speaker 2 (15:36):
So what a dummy to go to. Yeah, there are
gonna be people who might know you, and sure enough
your your who was it? Your sister, that's who saw him?

Speaker 3 (15:47):
My friend?

Speaker 2 (15:48):
Okay, so your friend sends a picture.

Speaker 9 (15:52):
Yeah, okay, yep, and so I am just like he
gets home and I'm like, get your shoes and get
out of here. Becau I showed him the pictures.

Speaker 1 (16:02):
Oh boy, Yeah, I can't deny that.

Speaker 7 (16:05):
Yeah, no, you just can't.

Speaker 9 (16:06):
And so anyway, he's been gone since then, and I'm
just assuming he's probably staying with this person. And I
have her number because my friends knew her and gave
me her number, and I I just want to like

(16:27):
tell her that he's married or you know, was It's
not going to be long.

Speaker 2 (16:32):
But like, okay, so they're both dumb. So they go
to a place where she knows people. Uh huh, he
knows people. What would make you do that? Unless you're like,
I'm so into this person and I'm so done with
my marriage. I don't care who sees.

Speaker 4 (16:53):
At that time.

Speaker 1 (16:53):
Just leave, like leave.

Speaker 4 (16:55):
Your partner, your husband, wife, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (16:58):
Don't go. So we're not calling to find out whether
he's cheating. What are we calling? Who? We got her
phone number? We're calling her?

Speaker 7 (17:06):
I want to I don't I hope.

Speaker 9 (17:09):
I mean, I hope she doesn't know that he's married.
I just want to tell her this person is actually married, so.

Speaker 10 (17:16):
You know, like you're like ninety percent of the time,
i'd say that the person does.

Speaker 3 (17:19):
Not know that their partner is married.

Speaker 2 (17:24):
Oh, I don't know about that. I think initially, oh,
one hundred percent. There are so many people that are
willing to cheat with married people. Yeah, oh, one hundred percent.

Speaker 1 (17:33):
Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 11 (17:34):
Shout out to your friend for telling you, for getting
you this girl's number. Your friend came to clutch.

Speaker 3 (17:38):
Can't for taking pictures.

Speaker 1 (17:39):
Yes, she came out.

Speaker 9 (17:41):
Good friends, not a good husband, but I got a
good friend.

Speaker 4 (17:44):
She thought about going the FBI.

Speaker 2 (17:47):
All right, we'll make the phone call. Well, well, I
will get her on the phone. Okay, I'm not sure
we've never done this before, but we will just say hey,
I'll just tell her who I am. It's like, all right,
it's Dave Ryan over Katie. There's somebody on the phone
that wants to talk to you. Let's just try that.

Speaker 1 (18:04):
Okay, Yeah, let's do it.

Speaker 2 (18:06):
Okay.

Speaker 9 (18:07):
Spoiler alert, someone's about to get exposed.

Speaker 8 (18:11):
Part two of Where the Roses starts right now on
one on one point three kt w B.

Speaker 2 (18:15):
Well, it's a different war of the roses this time
because she knows her husband has been seeing this woman,
and didn't she kick him out of the house.

Speaker 1 (18:25):
I mean, she's like, you had to go.

Speaker 2 (18:27):
Yeah, And so she wants to call the woman that
he's been cheating with and tell her I don't know
if you know this, but that's my husband.

Speaker 3 (18:38):
Yeah, and just like kind of catch him in the act, like.

Speaker 1 (18:40):
I know, and then see what this other woman said.

Speaker 8 (18:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (18:43):
And I don't know if it's a great idea or
a bad idea.

Speaker 3 (18:46):
It is an idea though, it is for sure.

Speaker 2 (18:49):
Let's make the phone call on kd WB and see
what happens. Hello, Hi, I'm calling for Justine. Please, Hi, Justine.
It's it's Dave. Dave Ryan over at KDWB Radio. And

(19:15):
do you ever listen to KDWB.

Speaker 9 (19:19):
Yes?

Speaker 7 (19:21):
Did I win?

Speaker 1 (19:22):
No?

Speaker 2 (19:23):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (19:24):
Ouch no.

Speaker 2 (19:25):
But that's a logical question because but here's the funny thing.
I don't quite know how to break this year. First
of all, nobody died, okay, but I don't have the
best news for you. Nobody's in the hospital. Nobody died,
but there is somebody on the phone who called me
and asked me to call you so she could speak

(19:46):
to you here on KATIEWB. Do you know a woman
named Madison?

Speaker 7 (19:54):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (19:56):
Yes, Okay, Madison is here on the phone, and Madison
wants to talk to you.

Speaker 9 (20:06):
Okay, Hey there, I just heard that you do know
who I am. I just but I was hoping to
give you the benefit of the doubt and let you
know that Troy is married. If you don't know, he's

(20:29):
a liar. Oh, I know he's married, Madison.

Speaker 7 (20:34):
I know he's married. I know all about you. God,
this is so weird. Yeah, I've heard all about you.
I know how you treat him.

Speaker 9 (20:48):
I know.

Speaker 7 (20:50):
How you won't touch him.

Speaker 13 (20:51):
I know.

Speaker 7 (20:53):
All the things I've heard you talk about him.

Speaker 9 (20:56):
I know. Yeah.

Speaker 7 (20:58):
Yeah, why are you calling?

Speaker 9 (21:01):
How? I am so stunned?

Speaker 13 (21:04):
What?

Speaker 2 (21:05):
Wow?

Speaker 9 (21:05):
You are?

Speaker 7 (21:06):
Really you?

Speaker 9 (21:08):
I am? I thought like I would call you and
give you the benefit of the doubt. You know, But
because you don't what for not not being part of
something like this? But I guess not my mistake.

Speaker 7 (21:26):
Oh my god, listen you. He tells me all about
how you you spend all your money on like stupid
things like designer bags that are half are fake and wow,
sad mouth him constantly. You're not a good wife, You're
not a happy marriage. I don't know why that. You know,

(21:49):
are you surprised that he is not wanting to be
with you anymore? You guys, I got to have my answer.

Speaker 9 (21:56):
This is an you know, this is fine. You guys
deserve each other.

Speaker 7 (21:59):
I thought you would. You just want the drama you
want on the radio to do that, and you thought
you're gonna have that big confrontation and turns out, jokes
on you, Madison. You have done this to yourself.

Speaker 8 (22:15):
Now.

Speaker 9 (22:16):
The joke's on you because you're stuck with this nasty,
nasty man. So okay, that's all I wanted you guys,
Thank you?

Speaker 7 (22:23):
Hang him on. No, it's all right, I love it.
Bring it. You ruined your own marriage, honey, you wrecked your.

Speaker 3 (22:29):
Own home, Madison.

Speaker 9 (22:31):
Okay, good. You guys deserve each other.

Speaker 13 (22:33):
Thank you.

Speaker 7 (22:35):
Oh Madison, okay, good.

Speaker 9 (22:37):
You guys deserve each other.

Speaker 13 (22:38):
Thank you.

Speaker 2 (22:41):
I don't want to pick sides here, but they both
sound I don't know. Somebody did text in and say,
Justine sounds hot.

Speaker 1 (22:49):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (22:49):
Really, that's the point. If that's what you got out
of this war, the Roses is that Justine sounds hot.
Another text says Justine sounds drunk. Well, okay, maybe she's
just over it.

Speaker 4 (23:03):
So that he was married, Yeah, that's the crux of it.
She knew that he was married.

Speaker 11 (23:08):
But Dave and I said, there are plenty of people
that are fine like sleeping with people know when they're married.

Speaker 3 (23:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (23:14):
I felt like I was watching back and forth on
like Real Housewives kind of situation, like it was.

Speaker 10 (23:19):
Catty argument a little bit like that. Yeah, there was
less swearing than there would be kind of Housewives. But yeah, no,
I agree. I just think that anyone is ridiculous to
start a relationship based off of cheating.

Speaker 3 (23:29):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 10 (23:29):
I know there's a lot of people out there that
like that's how you ended up with your partner, But
I think it's a long road of trying to build
trust in a relationship like that.

Speaker 2 (23:38):
I totally agree.

Speaker 4 (23:38):
I just it sucks that it does happen. It is
a reality.

Speaker 2 (23:41):
I think you're right, it is a reality. We can
all sit there and judge, but I don't know people
will you know, people will do what people will do,
and we can judge, but sometimes it does work out.
Maybe there's a couple that should have never been married.
But I mean the obvious thing is to like, will
leave and break up before you cheat. But I don't know.

(24:04):
What do you think? What did we miss? On War
of the Roses. There's a text that says that wife
sounds like an absolute d bag. I'm not surprised the
guy is cheating.

Speaker 1 (24:13):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (24:14):
Another one says, this lady is awful. I know he's married.
How dumb is this lady? Of course the cheating husband
complains about his wife. Well yeah, Another text says, so
who gets the flowers again? I think you might have
miss the whole point War of the Roses. On Katie WB,
we do have somebody on the phone with a commentary.
Jelinda Yolanda. Good morning, Jolanda.

Speaker 1 (24:35):
Hi Jelanda, good morning.

Speaker 2 (24:37):
Your thoughts.

Speaker 13 (24:38):
Please have a little input on that. For the lady
who's cheating with the cheating her husband, justin he's sound
to be pretty happy in believing the of the husband.
What are you saying about his wife? That is the
typical cheating husband. Oh, my wife is so bad and
she does this, she puts me.

Speaker 7 (24:54):
Down and she buy a designer bag.

Speaker 13 (24:55):
She brob you buy her own bag because she.

Speaker 7 (24:57):
Can't buy her bag talking about talk about it, Toronda, it's.

Speaker 14 (25:01):
Not even okay that ing with a.

Speaker 4 (25:03):
Married band period.

Speaker 3 (25:05):
Honestly, that's my boo bage.

Speaker 13 (25:09):
Last week I got chicken from you guys in my
car broke down on the way.

Speaker 1 (25:12):
I don't know bo bag.

Speaker 13 (25:15):
Check your email. I sent picture. I was all addressed up.

Speaker 1 (25:17):
Oh man, darn it, you know what will get you
in next year?

Speaker 13 (25:21):
Okay, I said, I said them to day.

Speaker 9 (25:22):
Right.

Speaker 3 (25:23):
Okay, well you're first.

Speaker 4 (25:24):
On the list for twenty twenty six.

Speaker 3 (25:26):
Yeah, on the list.

Speaker 1 (25:27):
You're awesome.

Speaker 7 (25:28):
I was so sad.

Speaker 2 (25:30):
Thanks for calling in. Have a good day.

Speaker 3 (25:32):
This text agrees that they say.

Speaker 8 (25:34):
I feel like people that blindly take someone's word about
how terrible their spouse is while they're cheating deserve what
they did.

Speaker 9 (25:40):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (25:40):
I would also say, be wary of someone who constantly
says that their ax was crazy. Yeah, because that's like
a lack of emotional maturity.

Speaker 2 (25:48):
What if they really are crazy? Though? I think about
this once in a while. It's like, you know what,
you know, if Susan and I split up, I wouldn't
be like, oh she's crazy, she's crazy, But Julie I
would have said she's crazy because she was the meanest
woman I've ever met in my life.

Speaker 8 (26:02):
Was she crazier to just do things that you didn't like?
Like actions? Her actions were things you didn't like that too. Yeah,
she wasn't crazy, You're right. She was very, very lucid. Yeah,
she wasn't crazy. But she was a mean, mean woman.
But I still loved her, because sometimes you do.

Speaker 2 (26:17):
Sometimes that wraps up War of the Roses on KDWB.
We are about another ten minutes away from that keyword
for Sabrina Carpenter. So if you're thinking about leaving and
you're like, I'm gonna leave, no, don't, because you can
be here another ten minutes for that life changing keyword,
which we'll do in just a few seconds. We want
to do something tomorrow around this time. We do this

(26:39):
new bit on Fridays called pros and cons, And we've
done pros and cons about Taylor Swift. We've done pros
and cons about cruises, whether you're like cruise ships or
whether you don't. We did pros and cons about Halloween
last week, and some people love Halloween and some people
are like, that's a garbage holiday. This time pros and
cons about Christmas decorations being up.

Speaker 8 (27:00):
Now.

Speaker 2 (27:02):
I know somebody who's got her Christmas stuff up already.
Somebody called yesterday said they were in Apple Valley, four
houses they drove by. I got their Christmas stuff up already.

Speaker 3 (27:10):
I have a friend who already has their tree up.

Speaker 2 (27:12):
That's awesome if that's what you're into. So tomorrow we
want somebody maybe it's you who is pro Christmas decorations
up early, and then somebody else who is con against those.
So how do we how do you call it? Do
you call in or what do you do?

Speaker 10 (27:28):
Callin right now and let us know, and we're gonna
just get y'all set up to be on the show tomorrow,
so it'll be around this exact same time. So if
you are pro Christmas decorations up, get it out there,
be all holly jolly, give us a call. But then
we need someone who's very against it as well, So
we just need one on each side of the spectrum.

Speaker 2 (27:44):
Okay, So that could be fun. You'll be on the
radio and you'll get to write up a little essay
and then argue your case, like pro decorations up early,
con decorations up early. So we'll do that in the meantime, Jenny,
you got to stir the pods. Yeah, because we switch
things up a little bit this week because BoNT gets
tired of stirring the pot. I stirred the pot on

(28:05):
Tuesday Tuesday, and I said teachers should be able to
spank their kids men. That stirred the pot. Some teachers
will absolutely agreed, and some were just riled up.

Speaker 4 (28:16):
A lot more people did agree with you for a
lot of time.

Speaker 8 (28:20):
I starred the pot about how people don't know how
to be a good audience member and have the worst
etiquette ever when they're in an.

Speaker 2 (28:25):
Audience crunching pretzels, wrinkling back.

Speaker 3 (28:28):
At their phone.

Speaker 8 (28:29):
And I went to a show yesterday and there were
people who were bad audience.

Speaker 2 (28:33):
Now there, So Jenny, yep, you get to stir the
pot today.

Speaker 6 (28:36):
Great.

Speaker 10 (28:37):
If you're a bride to be, you either get to
have a bachelor at party or a bridal shower.

Speaker 3 (28:43):
You are not allowed to have both.

Speaker 9 (28:45):
Ahead.

Speaker 3 (28:46):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 10 (28:47):
The amount of money we are spending on the bride
side of things is getting out of control. We're doing
destination bachelorette parties. We're doing bridal showers where you look
at Pinterest to find them extravagant things to make this
bridle shower poppin', and then we're doing the actual wedding,
which also could potentially be a destination you never know.
And the amount of money that adds up to celebrate

(29:10):
this person's love is not worth it for me. Okay,
So when you are going to be married, you either
get to have one or the other.

Speaker 3 (29:16):
That is my stir the pot today.

Speaker 2 (29:18):
Bachelorette party or shower you not both?

Speaker 1 (29:22):
Not both.

Speaker 2 (29:23):
Now you might disagree with Jenny because maybe you did
both and you loved it and your friends all loved it.
Do you think their friends pretend to love it because
they love you?

Speaker 10 (29:33):
I think some people really love us stuff. I know
Bailey's a big fan of things like that. I like,
I mean, I like those things.

Speaker 8 (29:37):
But the people that I know who have been married,
they have done both.

Speaker 3 (29:42):
But the bridal showers more.

Speaker 8 (29:43):
For their like family, like older family members, right, and
then the bachelorette parties for all their friends who want
to go out and like get shots.

Speaker 10 (29:50):
And I get that, And I thought about saying, well, like,
if you have like the bachelorett party for just friends
and bridleshower for family, sure, but I'm sticking to it.
You get one of the other. I mean, I went
to both for all or the other, and I've gotten
to both for all of those. And my thing is
is I feel like I'm coming off as like a
sulty single woman right now who potentially will never get married.

Speaker 3 (30:08):
But it truly isn't that.

Speaker 10 (30:09):
It's the fact that we're spending so much money on
and you're getting the same things. The same things you
get at a bridle shower half the time are like
the same things for weddings, maybe not so much anymore
because weddings you usually just give money now, Yeah, but
there's a registry for a bridal shower, there's a registry
for the wedding. And I think bridle showers are kind
of outdated to an extent because those were developed back

(30:30):
in the day when you didn't really live with a partner,
or if you did, you didn't have much yet, and
now people are getting married later. Yeah, So like, I
don't know, the men have a bachelor party and they
have a wedding and that's it, and that's all they have.
So why are we having to do all of it?

Speaker 2 (30:45):
I'm looking at text messages Jenny Jenny stirs the pot.
I am with you, Jenny, it is so ridiculous. Another one,
women are expected to give so much money to friends
who are getting married. They typed in all caps.

Speaker 3 (30:56):
Yes, it's crazy.

Speaker 10 (30:58):
It's like, I don't know. I I love a good
destination bachelorett party. I do enjoy doing stuff like that
because I look at it as like a girl's trip.
I look at it as just like a bachelor at party.
But it's starting to get out of control. And then
like and on top of it, when I get invited
to something and I can't make it, I still give
money for that thing. Yeah, Like I could not make
a bridal shower recently, I still went in on a

(31:19):
group present, but I didn't get to thank you for Yeah,
probably because I wasn't in attendance for it, But I
still gave money for it.

Speaker 2 (31:26):
Can I read a text message at katiewb one Jenny
spot On. I don't know how things got to that age.
In my age, we had lame showers. Another one, the
showers for old ass aunties and the bachelorette is to
drink out of funny looking, funny shaped whoho Straws signed
a twenty twenty six bride who is doing both a

(31:46):
lot of comments on this one baby showers Jenny first
born only or every baby.

Speaker 10 (31:52):
I think firstborn only, which I thought was what most
people stuck with. That's what most of my friends have
always done. I haven't seen my people do more than
just the firstborn. For that, I have not attended anything
beyond the firstborn.

Speaker 8 (32:05):
The text two also says some people do engagement parties too, yes,
which is an addition.

Speaker 2 (32:09):
I't forget the baby reveal party.

Speaker 3 (32:11):
Well, yeah, at the gender reveal party, and gosh.

Speaker 10 (32:14):
And I don't think I've ever been to a gender
reveal party, so like maybe one time. And I don't
think I had to bring a present for that, So like,
I don't mind that as long as you're not required
to like give them a present coming to that. But yeah,
I just I don't know, guys, it's getting ridiculous the
amount of money we're spending on friends' weddings because of
all of the activities we have to engage in.

Speaker 3 (32:34):
And I love a good engagement party too.

Speaker 10 (32:36):
Those are super fun, but don't expect me to spend
money at that. That is, if you want to have
an engagement party to celebrate your love. Then you're providing everything.
In my opinion, the initial stir what was the initial?
I said that if you are a bride to be,
you get to have either a bachelor party or a
bridal show, where you do not get to do both
because we are spending too much money on weddings nowadays

(32:57):
text messages.

Speaker 2 (32:58):
I agree with you, Jenny. I had to go to
Spain for a bachelorette party.

Speaker 1 (33:02):
Insane. Next one.

Speaker 2 (33:04):
My name is Jamie Bride this year getting married next Saturday.
I had both. My bridal shower was close friends and
family and was walking Tacos and Margarita's. But my bachelorette
party was low key. We went to Wild Bills and
did one one in the afternoon, bingo, then pottery painting
and that was it. I think you can have both
unless you were doing a huge bachelorette party. So they're

(33:27):
kind of like understated, more fun and less expensive.

Speaker 8 (33:30):
Yeah, someone else does say I think the real issue
is that bachelorette parties are getting way out of hand.

Speaker 2 (33:34):
Just go to the bar and get wasted like normal people. Yeah,
people go out of the country.

Speaker 11 (33:38):
Yeah, a big old which is cool and I ba't
what you want, but like Jenny said, then I can't
be responsible.

Speaker 2 (33:42):
For X Y Z.

Speaker 11 (33:44):
Earlier this year, I got called cheapy the chefs Gate
because we went to a destination wedding and I was like,
I don't think I should have to do an expensive
gift because I think my girlfriend Alysta wanted to. And
I was like, we're already paying for hotel, resort, flight,
et cetera.

Speaker 2 (33:56):
Do you think it has anything to do with and
I don't know. I don't live in that world. It
has anything to do with social media? Like if your
friend Jessica is getting her she's doing her bachelorette party
and they're going to Costa Rica and they're all the
girls on the beach and they're all wearing the funny
straw hats and they got a margarita, and it's like, oh,
that's the standard. Do you think that's anything? Well for
the grand but also it's like, well, I can't just

(34:18):
like take them out to cowboy Jacks because Jessica went
to Costa Rica.

Speaker 10 (34:21):
I do think that it is kind of that, and
you get a lot of ideas for that because of course,
when I planned my sister's bachelortt party, I was looking
at social media and Pinterest and doing all these extra
things whereas like that didn't used to exist. You would
just go to the bar get drunk. Yeah, and that
was like the extent was the whole thing. But yes,
I do think that there is, Like I'm be honest,
Tina on our show, the girls who coordinated her Bacheldrett party.

Speaker 3 (34:42):
This summer, they went all out.

Speaker 10 (34:44):
I mean they got a whole banner that said camp
Range on it had the dates, like personalized it. We
all had personalized tote bags with like gifts in it.

Speaker 3 (34:52):
Like it was crazy. And I appreciate everything that they.

Speaker 10 (34:55):
Do, but it's like, I don't know if I ever
get married, I would love to have a bachelor at
party and I do not want to require anyone to
do anything besides.

Speaker 3 (35:02):
Show up and have a couple of cocktails with me.
That's like really all I care about.

Speaker 8 (35:06):
Yeah right, No, I agree, I agree, And I've gone
to a lot of those things and it does.

Speaker 3 (35:12):
It does suck buying things constantly.

Speaker 8 (35:14):
And I've been in a lot of weddings too, so
like when you're in a wedding, it's even more expensive
because then you're expected to show up to all of them, right, code.

Speaker 3 (35:22):
Someone with an opinion.

Speaker 1 (35:25):
Ghostbusters available.

Speaker 2 (35:27):
She was a woman who said that she had she
was a bridesmaid in a wedding that had four, yes,
four bachelorette parties. Now here's another text, Jenny, you sound
like an old curmudgeon. Get off my damn grass.

Speaker 10 (35:41):
I would have said this exact same statement ten years
ago versus being at thirty five, because even when my
sister got married and I was like twenty five or
twenty six, I was like, this is ridiculous.

Speaker 3 (35:51):
That we're doing all of this time.

Speaker 10 (35:54):
So you can you can definitely say I'm an old curmudgeon,
I admit it, but I'm also I'm a frugal bitch.
Is and I'm going broken my friend's weddings.

Speaker 2 (36:07):
Okay, Alex is on the phone giggling. You wanted to
talk about just so give me the initial stur Jenny.

Speaker 10 (36:12):
Yeah, that if you're getting married as a bride, you
only get a bachelor at party or a bridal shower,
not both.

Speaker 2 (36:17):
Now, Alex, are your thoughts please.

Speaker 14 (36:20):
A bachelorette party or what I'm sorry, or.

Speaker 3 (36:22):
A bridal shower?

Speaker 14 (36:26):
I think if you don't want everyone to go to
you know, costa Rica for your bacheloor red party. Then
you could easily just do both. But when you want
people to pay thousands of dollars as one person, that's unacceptable.
And that's what today's standard is.

Speaker 7 (36:40):
That's my bone.

Speaker 2 (36:41):
Now, what you have a bone to pick with the
wedding industry specifically what I hate it.

Speaker 14 (36:46):
I've been in several wedding parties. I've also been married
myself and married for almost seven years, and I only
paid eight thousands for my own wedding. When people want
me to pay two thousand for a bachelor red party,
I think it's unreasonable. But then you're a bad friend.
And when you don't want to pay that, I a
jenny that going to the back of our party is
like a girl's trip. I love it, get it, But

(37:06):
you're there to celebrate one person, which means you're there.

Speaker 7 (37:09):
For it on a person.

Speaker 14 (37:10):
Paying thousands of dollars for somebody else's vacation is unacceptable.

Speaker 3 (37:14):
I agree.

Speaker 10 (37:14):
And then on top of it, when you're on that vacation,
you feel like you have to pay for their drinks.

Speaker 3 (37:18):
The whole time. It turns into this whole thing.

Speaker 8 (37:22):
That's the hard part about being in a wedding party,
I think is paying for the bride's drinks and paying
for her meals and stuff because you want her to
have a good time. And I've been a bridesmaid like
five times, and that's that's a lot.

Speaker 1 (37:35):
That is a lot. Here is a text message.

Speaker 2 (37:37):
There's somebody you did stir the pot on this one, Jenny.
This is a text that says, I also hate when
you got to be at the wedding venue at seven
am as a bridesmaid, but the wedding's not until six pm.

Speaker 1 (37:48):
Is that a thing?

Speaker 5 (37:49):
Well?

Speaker 10 (37:49):
You usually everyone gets together for mimosas and coffee and stuff,
and everyone's getting their makeup and hair done together. So yes,
usually if you're part of the wedding party, you're there
very early.

Speaker 3 (37:58):
To do all that.

Speaker 10 (37:59):
A lot of people nowadays they do do photos ahead
of time before the ceremony even takes place, just to
get those done with. But yeah, I mean, it's a
full day commitment on top of everything else you commit
to as a bridesmaid.

Speaker 2 (38:12):
What about this is this text says, and I'm just reading,
a bridal shower is one hundred percent different than the bachelorette.
The bridal showers for your family and your aunt Vivian
and your older elderly cousin Sharon to come along. That's
for the shower. Bachelorette is for your friends to go
out and wear a funny looking hat and a drink

(38:32):
out of a funny looking straw. Bachelorette. No bachelorette requires gifts,
so it no.

Speaker 10 (38:39):
You usually play games, you bring like underwear that you
think represents your personalities, and the bride guesses whose underwear
you usually do, end up spending some money on that,
and then you do buy the bride drinks. They should
the bride should never have to pay for drinks throughout
the entire night in my opinion. But yes, I would
say that they are different. I understand where you're coming from. However,

(39:01):
friends are getting invited to the bridle shower too. Yes,
every good friend who I've gone to their bachelorette party,
I am invited to the bridle shower on top of it.

Speaker 3 (39:09):
Especially if you're in the wedding party. You are going
to both of them.

Speaker 2 (39:12):
Hey, really quick, and because this is so important and
we know people that wait around for this, here's your
Sabrina Carpenter keyword. And then I've got somebody with another story.
They lost a friend over this argument that's coming up
in a second. Let's take a.

Speaker 5 (39:27):
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Speaker 6 (39:32):
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Speaker 1 (39:41):
Okay, go do that now.

Speaker 2 (39:43):
I know you're busy, getless stuff going on, but this
is for a trip to Los Angeles to see the
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I would say, second hottest after Amy the Bobby. Thank
you very much, Bobby. All right, so let's get back
to it. This is the last call. We We're gonna
move on some other things. So Jenny mistering the pod saying,
you either get a bridal shower or a bachelorette party,

(40:05):
but not both. Maya lost a friend over this whole thing.
Tell us what happened, Hi, Maya.

Speaker 12 (40:12):
So I actually had a friend who had gotten married
about like a year year and a half ago, and
before her, before she had a marriage, she wanted a
bachelotte party. She's like, we're going to Vegas. She's like,
you're going to be the maid of honor. And I
was like, cool, whatever, we'll figure it out. She's like, yeah,
we'll be expecting to pay five to ten thousand dollars
for our parties. And I should excuse.

Speaker 3 (40:33):
You, right, gosh, And you did not.

Speaker 12 (40:37):
I did not, And we're no longer friends. And we
were friends from third grade all the way up until.

Speaker 10 (40:45):
Oh, no, party you throw on that's gonna cost ten
thousand dollars.

Speaker 2 (40:50):
That's not the wedding.

Speaker 4 (40:52):
That's not the wedding.

Speaker 3 (40:53):
Oh my goodness, that's crazy.

Speaker 10 (40:56):
You can actually do Vegas somewhat cheap as a female,
because usually guys by your drinks the whole time. You're
just probably spending money on the hotel. But even like
the hotel shouldn't cost that much. Gosh, wow, she really
won from you. Yeah, you dodged a bullet with that one. No,
I mean, I'm sorry. I'll still though.

Speaker 3 (41:12):
Yeah that's a long one.

Speaker 4 (41:13):
But good for a stay in on all business and
not spending the money.

Speaker 12 (41:15):
No, yeah, she wasn't getting my money.

Speaker 1 (41:17):
I got kids.

Speaker 2 (41:19):
Yeah, good for you. There's so many text messages about this,
and we could read these for days, but we'll read
a couple of like highlighted ones about whether a bride
should have just a bachelorette party or just a shower,
but not both.

Speaker 8 (41:33):
This one kind of has the same sentiment as the
last caller. I have been in eleven weddings. The amount
of money I have spent between wedding day, bachelorette party,
bridal shower is literally someone's annual salary.

Speaker 3 (41:45):
It is absolutely outrageous. Wow, And I totally feel that.

Speaker 1 (41:50):
Why why why do you do it? Though?

Speaker 2 (41:53):
I mean because your friends and I get you love
your friend. It is a you know, it's a once
in a lifetime event hopefully, and it's a big deal
and it's a great excuse to go do something memorable. Yeah,
is that what it's all about.

Speaker 3 (42:05):
It's a yeah. I think it's a it's a great
memory to make and everything.

Speaker 8 (42:09):
It is just expensive, especially for I think for women especially,
it's expensive. And if it's your friend or your sibling
or someone in your family who's getting married.

Speaker 3 (42:19):
You feel obligated to go to all of the things.

Speaker 8 (42:21):
You feel obligated, especially if you're like made of honor
to pay for everything you do because you're like, well,
I've been deemed the best friend, so I guess I
have to pay for everyone's drinks, not everyone's but the wife,
the bride's drinks and things like that.

Speaker 3 (42:35):
It's just it is exhausting.

Speaker 8 (42:37):
Or you're just like self deemed the best bridesmaid, so
you're paying for everything even if you're not.

Speaker 2 (42:42):
The made up honor right. Yeah, so many text messages
on on this. I appreciate it so much.

Speaker 1 (42:48):
Thank you.

Speaker 2 (42:49):
J Yeah, we gonna like mix it up with stir
in the pods, so I think we all stirred the
pot pretty well.

Speaker 1 (42:56):
All right.

Speaker 2 (42:57):
I mentioned the keyword a little while ago is espresso,
So makes you do that for the keyword for I
almost said Amy but Bobby because somebody brought up Amy
Bitbobby a little way. It was Vont that brought up
Amy Bitbobby biggest pop star and Nan Sabrina the biggest
pop star in the world, just ahead of Serena Carpenter.

(43:18):
All right enough, we'll be back in a second on
kd WB. I think we're going to talk is it
ladies room kind of And I think Vont and I
are going to maybe back out of this one a
little bit. This is the whole boyfriend conversation.

Speaker 10 (43:32):
Yeah, there's just a big conversation going on because of
an article that was published in British Vogue about is
having a boyfriend embarrassing?

Speaker 12 (43:39):
Now?

Speaker 3 (43:39):
And so many people have been talking.

Speaker 10 (43:41):
About it, but I feel like that title is very
click baity, and we want to explain why it's being
like promoted that way, and so we are going to
talk about whether it is embarrassing to have a boyfriend
at this point, So you better think about this.

Speaker 3 (43:53):
Vont you're a boyfriend, Yeah I am, Yeah, it's embarrassing

Speaker 2 (43:57):
All right, Coming right back on Katie w B on
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