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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I have some bad news for you. What you guys
have been hounding me for a year to take you
all to Bennie Hannah. So last week we agreed that
Wednesday at noon this week, that we would all go
to Bennie han Over in Golden Valley.

Speaker 2 (00:14):
You brought it up. You brought it up, you said,
you know what, I'll finally take you guys.

Speaker 3 (00:18):
Well we're not going.

Speaker 2 (00:19):
Why.

Speaker 1 (00:20):
Well, here's the reason why. Because I have got this
belly pain and I've had it for ten twelve years,
and last week it was really bad, to the point
where I couldn't even sit still because I'd be sitting
down and I'd like, I can't sit so I'd have
to get up and walk around just to kind of
like try to deal with the pain. So I called
to make a doctor appointment at the at the the

(00:41):
gastro doctor. And guess when the appointment is Wednesday at
eleven thirty. Of course, Wow, that was as soon as
they could get me in. They said, okay, Monday morning
at eight. I can't be there today at eight o'clock,
but I can be there. Don't look so sad, Bailey.

Speaker 4 (00:56):
I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

Speaker 5 (00:59):
We've been wanting to go because we've been I think
again we brought this up because you offer to do it,
then never cast in, and now look at you cashing
out like a monk.

Speaker 3 (01:06):
You know what.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
I think that you guys should be a little bit
more supportive of your friend who could have like some
dread disease.

Speaker 3 (01:16):
Oh my god, and I go to.

Speaker 6 (01:18):
The You've had bell pain for like twenty years. You're
fine still, it hasn't done anything to yet yet. You
know what fixes belly pain, Benny Hannah. Yeah, that's it,
Benny Hannah, with your wonderful coworker.

Speaker 3 (01:33):
You know I can't.

Speaker 1 (01:34):
I've got a health crisis over here, and the three
of you are bullying me to take it to Benny Hank.

Speaker 4 (01:40):
Give me a pen and I'll burst the pain in
your belly.

Speaker 3 (01:43):
It'll be gone to exist.

Speaker 4 (01:44):
Yeah, exactly, I'll burst it.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
And then we'll go to Bety Hanna. I want to
go to Betty Hank.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
I'm sorry, you'll maybe we'll go another time. I'm going
to cancel my gastro appointment to take you idiots to
Benni Hana, but you maybe.

Speaker 5 (01:55):
Will go another time. You heard it here, Dave canceled
on us. We bet last week on who we cancel first.
We thought Jenny, because she always is like that.

Speaker 6 (02:04):
I just will tell you ahead of time if I'm
not available. But if I'm available and I commit to something,
I stick with my commitments.

Speaker 5 (02:10):
On like somebody Dave was shot at the super Bowl party.
You didn't want to go, you didn't have any other.

Speaker 4 (02:15):
It's not true. I didn't say that.

Speaker 6 (02:17):
I said that I probably would be going to a
different super Bowl party.

Speaker 4 (02:20):
I just was unsure.

Speaker 2 (02:22):
What a Betty Hannah day.

Speaker 3 (02:24):
I know you wrote a song about it. Play it
What's to the tune.

Speaker 6 (02:27):
Of It's to the tune of Cocomo by the Beach Boys.
Just play play me the karaoke version, and I would
really like to sing the song for you to really
make you feel bad, to make you feel bad.

Speaker 4 (02:40):
Yeah, and when the doctor's like, you're fine, and that'll
be the end of it.

Speaker 7 (02:44):
And then I want you to revisit this and picture
me sad, sad underneath the rain cloud. Okay, Bochi, I
want to take me, Benny Hannah, Oh Mama, come on,
pretty mama, Yum yum, saw sweet sock ache Baby, Why
don't we go.

Speaker 4 (03:05):
In Golden Valley? There's a place called Penny Hand Hannah,
thank you for this.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
That's where you wanna go, and Dave will pay for it.

Speaker 3 (03:19):
All not gonna happen.

Speaker 2 (03:22):
And in Mabe grub.

Speaker 8 (03:27):
Onion train, go to Choochove, we'll be falling in love
to the rhythm of I Tokyo Band. Down in Bennie
Hannah Mership, Hey, Bachi A.

Speaker 7 (03:41):
Wanna take you? Benny Hannah, Oh, Mama, Colma breedy, Mama, yummy,
You'm sauce sweet sack ache Baby.

Speaker 8 (03:49):
Why don't we go.

Speaker 7 (03:51):
To Benny Hannah. We'll get there fast and then we'll
take it so we want Okay, got a second with
Down in Bennie Hannah tepping' yaki theatrics from the Kooki Chef,
five Courses and specials.

Speaker 3 (04:11):
How long is this song?

Speaker 4 (04:12):
Willie tell?

Speaker 2 (04:14):
Our pants are our freeze content?

Speaker 7 (04:16):
Trimping at a mommy or pan fried yosaf Hey, I'm easy.

Speaker 2 (04:23):
That's written up after brevity is the soul of wit?

Speaker 3 (04:27):
Have you ever heard that phrase before?

Speaker 8 (04:29):
Cocktails and moonlit? No?

Speaker 2 (04:31):
Now, you're not even making up words.

Speaker 7 (04:33):
That dreamy look in our eyes. Give me that tera
yaky contact Hi. Down in Bennie Hannah immersive. OKAYI wanna
take you to Bennie Hannah.

Speaker 2 (04:46):
It's not song anymore.

Speaker 1 (04:49):
Ye, song is over now? Okay boy, you and Sabrina
Carpenter the Songwriting.

Speaker 3 (04:54):
Hall of Fame, Yes close race You notice none of those.

Speaker 1 (04:59):
Words in the Bailey's version rhymed them dead Valley and
Hannah do not rhyme and oh my god, you've got
two dates this week on Hinge. If either of these
fellows heard this, they're going to cancel.

Speaker 6 (05:15):
Will be like sign me up, be like, well, we
clearly need to go to Benny Hank, Betty Hannah, Yeah right.

Speaker 2 (05:20):
I'm going.

Speaker 1 (05:31):
Should there'll be a dress code for teachers now. A
lot of schools have a dress code of sorts for students,
but not necessarily necessarily for teachers, even though many parents
think they should. There's a teacher named any She's gone
viral and it's getting slammed on social media over how
she dresses sexy every day and everybody knows how she

(05:51):
dresses because she shows her outfits on TikTok. But her
latest Little Fashioned show has drawn a lot of criticism
because she's wearing skin tight black faux leather pants. Some
critics say, you know, she's wearing club pants at a
school and for dressing to look hot for kids. But

(06:12):
not all the comments were negative. Some people thought the
outfit was harmless, and one pointed out, kids don't care
to them, you're an old lady in leather pants.

Speaker 3 (06:19):
Now, that is not true.

Speaker 1 (06:20):
That is certainly not true, because when you're in middle school,
Missus Trent was hot and all the boys thought Missus
Trent was hot, and she was probably twenty eight or so,
and here we are, like thirteen or fourteen. So I
don't know. I mean, I haven't seen her picture, but
off the top of my head, I would say wearing
tight faux leather pants at school is now you know,

(06:43):
you're not there to like, you know, look hot for
the kids or the other teachers dress a little bit
more conservatively.

Speaker 3 (06:49):
That's just me.

Speaker 7 (06:50):
Yeah, I mean I agree that, like, you should definitely
not be wearing skin tight clothes. But I know I've
seen a lot of this stuff on TikTok and like
people with talking about her outfits and like showing pictures her.

Speaker 8 (07:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (07:03):
And my thing though, is that she is just kind
of like a voluptuous woman, and that's not necessarily like
her fault. So like she could wear a bag and
she could still be considered like sexy because she's just
got a big button, big boobs, and a.

Speaker 1 (07:17):
Little bitty waist. But she's not wearing a bag. She's
wearing skin tight faux leather pants.

Speaker 4 (07:21):
Right, But I'm thinking, like, can she win at all
if she could?

Speaker 2 (07:25):
I mean, she could wear anything I considered.

Speaker 6 (07:28):
Right, we're but they have to wear baggy clothes every
day just because you got a bang and bod.

Speaker 1 (07:33):
The male teacher wear a muscle shirt, I mean, is
that okay if a male teacher wears a muscle shirt,
a belly shirt.

Speaker 6 (07:37):
I mean, what if he's just like super jacked in
any shirt he wears is a muscle shirt because he's
so jacked.

Speaker 2 (07:43):
That's what. Do you understand what I'm saying?

Speaker 1 (07:44):
Though I do, Yes, I do. I see what you're saying.
But I know, for example, my realtor, he is jacked.
And I didn't know he was jacked until I saw
him at the gym one time because he always wears
like a jacket and a business shirt kind of thing.
Then I see him at the gym and he's wearing like,
you know, a workout. I'm like, damn Jay, Damn Jenny,
what do you think.

Speaker 6 (08:04):
I'm looking at the photo right now, and I think
that it's ridiculous that people care. It's the same as
wearing skinny jeans in my opinion, which those are appropriate
to wear?

Speaker 2 (08:14):
Is it not? Yeah?

Speaker 5 (08:15):
But I don't think teachers are wearing skinny jeans to
school either. I wouldn't be mad if they were, but
I just don't think they are if you're a.

Speaker 6 (08:20):
Teacher of Texas in because I feel like a lot
of millennials have not let go of their skinny jeans.

Speaker 4 (08:24):
That's still a thing. I know gen Z is like
goad gross skinny jeans.

Speaker 2 (08:28):
I'm sure I were skinny jeans every day. I'm just
out of that. Other women.

Speaker 6 (08:31):
I think it's like it's a trend that's gone away
for women. So I yeah, I'm looking at this and
I just do not find it to be inappropriate. She's
wearing pants and they're not.

Speaker 4 (08:41):
I wouldn't. I don't know to.

Speaker 6 (08:43):
Say that those are like going out to the club
pants is hilarious. Those are stylish leather pants. In my opinion,
I think.

Speaker 1 (08:49):
That if there's one place that you should dress conservatively.
Number one, it's church, although I see a lot of
people that the church that I go to look like
they're going to a fashion show. It's like rich women
from chan Hassen are all decked out not to praise
the Lord, but to look hot for their neighbors and
have people go, oh wow, Jill and her family, they're rich.

Speaker 3 (09:05):
I see that a lot.

Speaker 1 (09:06):
But I also think that school is one place where
if you're gonna dress somewhat conservatively, that would probably be
the place if you're a teacher. We have so many teachers.
We are number one with teachers. Love to hear what
you think. Send me a text at Katie WB one
five three nine two one. Here is one right now.
It says I work for a school district as a
para professional US and the teachers both have dress codes.

(09:28):
No shorts, snow shirts that show your shoulder.

Speaker 3 (09:32):
Another one.

Speaker 1 (09:32):
I can't believe how sloppy teachers dress nowadays. But I
was a kid. Teachers always look nice. Drop my kid
off every day and watch these teachers walk in. They
actually literally have athletic pants on and a sweatshirt. Have
a great day, Christy.

Speaker 4 (09:47):
Have you seeing the photo, Dave?

Speaker 3 (09:48):
I'm not.

Speaker 1 (09:49):
I'm representing the portion of the audience that has not
seen the photo.

Speaker 6 (09:53):
I get that, but I think if you saw this photo,
you would be like cool, She's literally wearing like leather pants.
It's not like she's wearing that's so inappropriate. I just
don't I don't understand the uproar.

Speaker 1 (10:04):
Here's one in the Texas says, yes, I do wear
skinny jeans and a tall black boots. High school teacher here,
I wear skinny jeans. Yes, teachers still have a dress code.
Most schools won't let you wear jeans, but I still
wear black leggings. How about what kids wear to school?
Says this text. Yikes, So a lot of people say,

(10:26):
here's one skinny jeans are on. Now I'm on my
way to teach kindergarten jeans and T shorts or T
shirts or joggers and a T shirt is a muster
for kindergarten. All millennial teachers still wear skinny jeans to teach.

Speaker 2 (10:38):
Okay're so comfy. We got out Meg on the phone.
She's been a teacher for twenty.

Speaker 1 (10:42):
Five Oh it's twenty five years. Hi Meg, Hello, So
there's a story. There's a woman Denise on TikTok, and
she's getting kind of flamed because she wears like black
faux leather tight pants to school and some people are like,
you know what, no, what do you think, Meg, Well.

Speaker 9 (10:59):
That gets super silly from leggings to all winter long jiggings.

Speaker 7 (11:05):
Leggings.

Speaker 9 (11:05):
Everyone still wears them every generation. And I'm a gen
xer and all my millennial and even gen Z teachers.

Speaker 10 (11:15):
Now, yes we have them, already wear them.

Speaker 9 (11:18):
Because yes they're comfy, and yes, if you're not super
super skinny, the pant peter and style really bow bottoms
and big leg white legs are just flattering, Dave, and
and we still have them in our closet and it's
hard to stay up with well session and comfy, and
everybody's already said it.

Speaker 11 (11:38):
They still exist.

Speaker 12 (11:39):
And it is a little body shaming.

Speaker 9 (11:41):
So if we accept, you know, role models for our students, like,
why would we body shame a teacher?

Speaker 1 (11:47):
Seriously body shaming? I think their body praising. It's kind
of like, okay, it's like if I was ripped, May
I tell you, Meg, If I was ripped, I would
wear in a crop top mesh shirt every day because
I'd be like, look at me, Damn. I love the attention.
I want to look good. However, I am not that
kind of a bot. But if I was Meg, and
one day because I go to snap Fitness, I might

(12:09):
be so one day, Yeah, thank you, Meg.

Speaker 6 (12:13):
I think we should post a picture of this on
our Instagram and have a poll and say, see if
people think it's inappropriate or not.

Speaker 2 (12:19):
Be shocked.

Speaker 4 (12:19):
If people think it's inappropriate.

Speaker 5 (12:21):
Yeah, if I'm looking at the right picture, I don't
think what she's wearing is wrong at all.

Speaker 2 (12:25):
What she's wearing is fine.

Speaker 5 (12:26):
I just think that kids come to school wearing crazier
every day. So I feel like, yes, as a teacher
or an educator, as a role model, let's just try
to push the kids to wear you know, not pajamas
or not.

Speaker 2 (12:37):
You know, the kids are gonna wear pajamas for cars lists.

Speaker 1 (12:39):
Now you see kids all the time because your work
with a high school. Kids, do they wear pajama pants
to school?

Speaker 2 (12:43):
They wear sweatpants every single day?

Speaker 6 (12:46):
Yes, sweatpants and like a crop tip, he's a laptop
sweatpants crocs.

Speaker 5 (12:51):
Or when I was doing Friday night footballs, I saw
a lot of kids. I mean, you're outside and it's
not technically school, but wearing like very short shorts or
tank tops and.

Speaker 2 (12:59):
I'm just like and they're mid drift, always showing back.

Speaker 6 (13:02):
In mine and Jenny's day, you could not show your belly,
but you were sent home. You had to have two
fingers thickness, Yes, straps your top three percent home.

Speaker 4 (13:12):
Yeah maybe a my mystere Okay, back.

Speaker 1 (13:14):
When I was growing up in Colorado Springs, Black Forest, Colorado,
you would have both straps of your overalls over your shoulder.

Speaker 3 (13:20):
Yeah you didn't.

Speaker 1 (13:21):
You got sent back to the farm on a track.
You couldn't have one nip out, just one.

Speaker 3 (13:28):
Nip Who else is on the phone? Kayla? Hi, Kayla.

Speaker 1 (13:31):
We're talking about this woman who's a teacher and I
haven't seen the picture because I'm representing the faction of
the people listening who haven't seen the picture. And we
all saw the picture, then it'd be a different story.
But she apparently is wearing foux hot the tight let
pants and people don't like it. Kayla, what do you
think I think people.

Speaker 11 (13:51):
Need to get over it?

Speaker 9 (13:53):
I am a middle school teacher, and I am that
teacher and sees and a flusher every single day. I'm
a better teacher when I'm comfortable and kids are walking
in the door with the blankets and slippers and their
hands and talckey bags and wearing just like very casual things.
So I don't think teachers should have to like dress
super professionally and dress up and suits the heels of

(14:15):
sever to deliver good instructions.

Speaker 1 (14:19):
Okay, interesting, maybe because I went to school, like, you know,
back during the ro administration. Yeah, that I'm just a
little bit more old passionate about that one. But I
don't know. I just think that it matters how you look.
And if you think that looks okay, then that's fine.
I've got no problem with tell the kids that I'd
be like you kids. Pajama pants should not be worn
out of the house. And that's just me. Bailey is

(14:42):
going to stir the pot today. Bailey is stirring the pots.
Why because Vaughn says, I'm tired of being the mean
guy all the time on the show. So yesterday I
stirred the pot and I said teachers should be able
to spank kids. Give them kids a good whooping, they
probably start shaping up a little bit and be better students.
Phones down, give them kids a little ash whooping. That

(15:03):
was my hot take yesterday on dave' sirs The Pot. Yeah,
what do you got today? Your turn?

Speaker 3 (15:07):
Bailey?

Speaker 2 (15:07):
Here's my Bailey stirs the pot.

Speaker 7 (15:09):
People need to learn some etiquette when it comes to
being in an audience. I don't care if you're seeing
a play, a movie, a stand up comedian. I don't
care what audience you're in. Even if you're at like
a I don't know a summit and you're sitting in
an audience and you're listening to the main dude speak,
learn you manners. Wow, you're gonna stop unwrapping candy lattice.

Speaker 6 (15:34):
You get your little crinkle crinkle, crinkle, crinkle crinkle.

Speaker 2 (15:36):
And that never that candy never opens.

Speaker 7 (15:38):
Stop unwrapping candy, Stop chewing gum and smacking it and
blowing bubbles. Stop leaving your ringer on your phone or
taking your phone out at all, because it's always somebody
who has their brightness on twenty seven thousand percent and
so everyone can see you on your phone.

Speaker 6 (15:57):
Stop coughing because I swear you're not sick. You're just
feeling uncomfortable. Because there's a quiet moment and there's a
pause in the actions.

Speaker 2 (16:08):
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 7 (16:10):
So Monday, Monday, I was at an event where I
was in an audience and I sat behind someone who
tapped their foot the whole show.

Speaker 2 (16:18):
The whole show.

Speaker 6 (16:19):
I was listening to people saying and then you just
hear along with the music. And I kept looking behind
me so that they would know that I was upset,
like just kind of turning my head like, oh.

Speaker 7 (16:29):
I'm annoyed. Oh what's that sound behind me? What's that sound?
They did not pick up on that at all. But
not only that, David, I don't only want people to
learn etiquette when they're in an audience, but if you
are with a person who is failing at audience etiquette,
you have to call them out on it. Why aren't
people calling out their friends for being annoying more often?

(16:51):
That tap foot tapper had three other people around her,
and she kept tapping her foot, and three other people
around her didn't say anything.

Speaker 3 (16:59):
I brained out. Keep them accountable, Okay.

Speaker 7 (17:02):
I used to get in trouble all the time with
one of my friends tell me I was chewing too loud,
and now I'm very mindful about chewing.

Speaker 3 (17:08):
Sometimes that's what it takes.

Speaker 7 (17:09):
Yeah, Or I tell Jenny right before I eat an
apple in the morning, I say, I'm so sorry, but
I'm going to eat an apple.

Speaker 4 (17:13):
He does apologize to me before she eats her apple.

Speaker 7 (17:16):
And usually like if I'm around somebody brand new and
I open like a bag of chips or something, and
I say, I'm so sorry, but I'm gonna eat this
bag of chips.

Speaker 2 (17:22):
Is that okay?

Speaker 5 (17:22):
I say that, Yeah, I'm not apologizing for eating, but
being loud.

Speaker 6 (17:27):
Why are you eating in an audience when you're supposed
to be watching whatever it is that you paid to
be there for.

Speaker 2 (17:32):
I also paid for these chips. I'm not not watching
it by eating?

Speaker 6 (17:35):
Oh drives me.

Speaker 1 (17:37):
Bailey is turned the pot and you get a couple
of people who agree with you. Somebody says Bailey, I agree,
or whispering. Another one says Bailey. They should also brush
their teeth before going. I had to sit next to
a guy who had the worst breath at my last play.

Speaker 7 (17:50):
Yeah, well, you know that's that's a very specific one.

Speaker 4 (17:53):
I don't I've never had to sit next to somebody
who's stinky, But like I just and also.

Speaker 7 (17:59):
You know, I could even call out the places that
have these audiences if you're if you're selling tickets to something,
why are you selling something that has a crinkly wrapper?

Speaker 1 (18:06):
Calling out you Orphium because they sell pretzels. This I
didn't say that. This text message said that they sell
pretzels at the Orphum. It's so noisy. So you got
Joyce over here, who's nown on pretzels during a dramatic
part of Fiddler on the Roof.

Speaker 7 (18:20):
Yeah, and I used to work at a theater and
we would sell bottles of wine and then people would
buy a bottle of wine and then the bottle of
wine would.

Speaker 2 (18:27):
Go clink clang, and then start rolling around.

Speaker 7 (18:29):
Oh my gosh, learn some etiquette when you're in an
audience that's Bailey stirs.

Speaker 3 (18:34):
Like it now.

Speaker 1 (18:35):
Jenny is the nicest, kindest person on the show. So
I can't imagine how Jenny is going to come up
with anything that's going to really rile anybody up.

Speaker 4 (18:43):
I thought of mine last night.

Speaker 6 (18:44):
I put a note on my phone really to me,
I think it's going to yes. I think the way
that I'll state it will row people up, because I
think that a lot of people who listen to our
show will disagree because they've done it before.

Speaker 4 (18:58):
Okay, and I don't think you should do it.

Speaker 1 (19:00):
A couple of text messages, and you're doing this tomorrow.
Jenny is gonna stir the pod tomorrow. Bailey says this
text at KATWB one is somebody who sat through the
Prince Musical here in the Boomers cough and be obnoxious,
like can you clearly muffle the sound of a cough
in a setting?

Speaker 9 (19:16):
No?

Speaker 1 (19:16):
And the two women behind me who kept talking, shut up,
do not talk. Carson and I saw a movie a
couple of weeks ago, and a couple came in late
and I could tell right away because they were dressed funny.
They talked at this volume through the entire movie.

Speaker 2 (19:30):
That just follows you do, because that happened when you
and I went to the movies too.

Speaker 1 (19:33):
It did a little bit, but they were like girls,
and they were like, they were nothing like this anyway.

Speaker 3 (19:37):
I don't want to get too far out track here.

Speaker 7 (19:39):
This tex says I was at a conference. The guide
to the left of me said yes, uh huh yep
to everything the trainer said, and to the right someone
crinkled chips.

Speaker 4 (19:47):
Eight hours I almost lost it.

Speaker 1 (19:51):
Uh, thanks for that, Bailey, stirring the pot on katiewb Jenny,
you got to stir the pod.

Speaker 3 (19:57):
Yeah, because we switched things up.

Speaker 1 (19:58):
A little bit this week because Bond gets tired of
stirring the pot. I stirred the pot on today Tuesday,
and I said teachers should be able to spank their kids.

Speaker 3 (20:09):
Men. That stirred the pot.

Speaker 1 (20:10):
The teachers will absolutely agreed, and some were just riled up.

Speaker 2 (20:15):
A lot more people did agree with you.

Speaker 7 (20:17):
For a lot of I stard the pot about how
people don't know how to be a good audience member
and have the worst etiquette ever when they're in.

Speaker 3 (20:24):
An audience crunching pretzels, wrinkling.

Speaker 2 (20:27):
Back at their phone.

Speaker 6 (20:28):
And I went to a show yesterday and there were
people who were bad audience.

Speaker 3 (20:31):
Then there M so, Jenny, Yep, you get to stir
the pot today.

Speaker 6 (20:35):
A great If you're a bride to be, you either
get to have a bachelor at party or a bridal shower.

Speaker 4 (20:42):
You are not allowed to have both. I'm sorry.

Speaker 6 (20:46):
The amount of money we are spending on the bride
side of things is getting out of control. We're doing
destination bachelorette parties, We're doing bridal showers where you look
at Pinterest to find the most extravagant thing to make
this bridal shower poppin', and then we're doing the actual wedding,
which also could potentially be a destination you never know.
And the amount of money that adds up to celebrate

(21:09):
this person's love is not worth it for me. Okay,
So when you are going to be married, you either
get to have one or the other.

Speaker 4 (21:15):
That is my stir the pot today, bachelorette party or
shower you have both, not both.

Speaker 1 (21:22):
Now you might disagree with Jenny because maybe you did
both and you loved it and your friends all loved it.
Do you think their friends pretend to love it because
they love you?

Speaker 6 (21:31):
I think some people really love that stuff. I know
Bailey is a big fan of things like that. I like,
I mean, I like those things. But the people that
I know who have been married, they have done both.
But the bridal showers more for their like family, like
older family members, right, and then the bachelorette parties for
all their friends who.

Speaker 2 (21:47):
Want to go out and like get shots.

Speaker 6 (21:49):
And I get that, And I thought about saying, well, like,
if you have like the bachelor party for just friends
and bridles shower for family, sure, but I'm sticking to it,
you get one of the other. I mean, I went
to both for all of those. The other I've gone
to both for all of those. And my thing is
is I feel like I'm coming off as like a
sulty single woman right now who potentially will never get married.

Speaker 4 (22:07):
But it truly isn't that.

Speaker 6 (22:08):
It's the fact that we're spending so much money on
and you're getting the same things. The same things you
get at a bridle shower half the time are like
the same things for weddings, maybe not so much anymore
because weddings you usually just give money now, Yeah, but
there's a registry for a bridal shower, there's a registry
for the wedding.

Speaker 4 (22:24):
And I think bridle.

Speaker 6 (22:25):
Showers are kind of outdated to an extent because those
were developed back in the day when you didn't really
live with a partner, or if you did, you didn't
have much yet, and now people are getting married later. Yeah,
So like, I don't know, the men have a bachelor
party and they have a wedding and that's it, and
that's all they have.

Speaker 4 (22:41):
So why are we having to do.

Speaker 3 (22:43):
All of it?

Speaker 1 (22:43):
I'm looking at text messages Jenny Jenny Stirs the pot.
I am with you, Jenny, it is so ridiculous. Another one,
women are expected to give so much money to friends
who are getting married. They typed in all caps.

Speaker 4 (22:55):
Yes, it's crazy.

Speaker 6 (22:57):
It's like, I don't know. I love a good destination
bachelor att party. I do enjoy doing stuff like that
because I look at it as like a girl's trip.
I look at it as just like a bachelor at party.
But it's starting to get out of control. And then
like and on top of it, when I get invited
to something and I can't make it, I still give
money for that thing. Yeah, Like I could not make
a bridal shower recently, I still went in on a

(23:18):
group present that I didn't get to thank you for.

Speaker 2 (23:21):
Yeah, probably because I.

Speaker 4 (23:22):
Wasn't in attendance for it, But I still gave money
for it.

Speaker 1 (23:25):
Can I read a text message at Katie wb one
Jenny spot On. I don't know how things got to
that age. In my age, we had lame showers. Another
one the showers for old ass aunties and the bachelorette
is to drink out of funny looking, funny shaped whoho.
Straws signed a twenty twenty six bride who is doing
both a lot of comments on this one baby showers

(23:48):
Jenny firstborn only or every baby.

Speaker 6 (23:51):
I think firstborn only, which I thought was what most
people stuck with. That's what most of my friends have
always done. I haven't seen many people do more than
just the firstborn. For that, I have not attended anything
beyond the firstborn.

Speaker 2 (24:04):
This text two also says some.

Speaker 7 (24:05):
People do engagement parties too, yes, which is an addition.

Speaker 3 (24:08):
I forget the baby reveal party.

Speaker 2 (24:10):
Well, yeah, at the gender reveal.

Speaker 6 (24:11):
Party and gosh, and I don't think I've ever been
to a gender reveal party, so like maybe one time.
And I don't think I had to bring a present
for that, So like, I don't mind that as long
as you're not required to like give them a present.

Speaker 4 (24:24):
I have coming to that.

Speaker 6 (24:25):
But yeah, I just I don't know, Guys, it's getting
ridiculous the amount of money we're spending on friends' weddings
because of all of the activities we have to engage in.
And I love a good engagement party too. Those are
super fun, but don't expect me to spend money at that.
That is, if you want to have an engagement party
to celebrate your love, then you're providing everything.

Speaker 3 (24:43):
In my opinion, the initial stir what was the initial I.

Speaker 6 (24:47):
Said that if you are a bride to be, you
get to have either a bachelor party or a bridal show,
where you do not get to do both because we
are spending too much money on weddings nowadays text messages.

Speaker 1 (24:57):
I agree with you, Jenny. I had to go to
Spain for a bachelorette party. Insane next one. My name
is Jamie Bride this year getting married next Saturday. I
had both. My bridal shower was close friends and family
and was walking tacos and margaritas. But my bachelorette party
was low key. We went to Wild Bills and did
one a one in the afternoon, bingo, then pottery painting

(25:19):
and that was it. I think you can have both
unless you are doing a huge bachelorette party. So they're
kind of like understated, more fun and less expensive.

Speaker 6 (25:29):
Yeah, someone else does say I think the real issue
is that bachelorette parties are getting way out of hand.

Speaker 4 (25:33):
Just go to the bar and get wasted like normal people.

Speaker 2 (25:35):
Yeah, people go out of the country.

Speaker 5 (25:37):
It is a big old which is cool and I
fact what you want, but like Jenny said, then I
can't be responsible for X y Z. Earlier this year,
I got called cheapy the chiefs Gate because we went
to a destination wedding and I was like, I don't
think I should have to do an expensive gift because
I think my girlfriend Lista wanted to. And I was like,
we're already paying for hotel, resort, flight, et cetera.

Speaker 3 (25:54):
Do you think it has anything to do with it.
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (25:56):
I don't live in that world. It has anything to
do with social media. Like if you're friend and Jessica
is getting her she's doing her bachelorette party and they're
going to Costa Rica and they're all the girls on
the beach and they're all wearing the funny straw hats
and they got a margarita, and it's like, oh, that's
the standard.

Speaker 3 (26:12):
Do you think that's everything?

Speaker 1 (26:13):
Well for the grand but also it's like, well, I
can't just like take them out to cowboy Jacks because
Jessica went to Costa Rica.

Speaker 6 (26:20):
I do think that it is kind of that, and
you get a lot of ideas for that, because of course,
when I planned my sister's bachelrett party, I was looking
at social media and Pinterest and doing all these extra
things whereas like that didn't used to exist. You would
just go to the bar get drunk. Yeah, and that
was like the extent was the whole thing. But yes,
I do think that there is, Like I'm be honest,
Tina on our show, the girls who coordinated her bachelorret party.

Speaker 4 (26:41):
This summer, they went all out.

Speaker 6 (26:42):
I mean they got a whole banner that said camp
Range on it had the dates, like personalized it. We
all had personalized tote bags with like gifts in it.

Speaker 4 (26:51):
Like it was crazy.

Speaker 6 (26:52):
And I appreciate everything that they do, but it's like,
I don't know, if I ever get married, I would
love to have a bachelor at party and I do
not want to require anyone to do anything besides show
up and have a couple of cocktails with me.

Speaker 4 (27:03):
That's like really all I care about.

Speaker 7 (27:05):
Yeah, right, No, I agree, I agree, And I've gone
to a lot of those things and it does. It
does suck buying things constantly. And I've been in a
lot of weddings too, so like when you're in a wedding,
it's even more expensive because then you're expected to show
up to all of them, right.

Speaker 4 (27:20):
Day someone with an opinion.

Speaker 2 (27:24):
Ghostbuster available.

Speaker 1 (27:26):
She's a woman who said that she had she was
a bridesmaid in a wedding that had four, yes, four
bachelorette parties. Now here's another text, Jenny, you sound like
an old curmudgeon. Get off my damn grass.

Speaker 6 (27:40):
I would have said this exact same statement ten years
ago versus being at thirty five, because even when my
sister got married and I was like twenty five or
twenty six, I was like, this is ridiculous.

Speaker 4 (27:50):
That we're doing all of this time.

Speaker 6 (27:53):
So you can you can definitely say I'm an old curmudgeon,
I admitted, but I'm also I'm a frugal bitch, is
what it comes out.

Speaker 4 (28:01):
And I'm going broken my friend's wedding.

Speaker 1 (28:06):
Okay, Alex is on the phone giggling. You wanted to
talk about just so give me the initial stur Jenny.

Speaker 6 (28:11):
Yeah, that if you're getting married as a bride, you
only get a bachelor at party or a bridal.

Speaker 3 (28:15):
Shower, not both. Now, Alex, are your thoughts please a.

Speaker 11 (28:19):
Bachelorette party or what I'm sorry.

Speaker 4 (28:21):
Or a bridal shower?

Speaker 11 (28:25):
I think if you don't want everyone to go to
you know, costa Rica for your Bachelor Red party.

Speaker 10 (28:31):
Then you could easily just do both.

Speaker 11 (28:33):
But when you want people to pay thousands of dollars
as one person, that's unacceptable, and that's what today's standard is.
That's my bone.

Speaker 1 (28:40):
Now, what you have a bone to pick with the
wedding industry specifically what I hate it.

Speaker 11 (28:45):
I've been in several wedding parties. I've also been married
myself and married for almost seven years, and I only
paid eight thousands for my own wedding. When people want
me to pay two thousand for a Bachelor Red party,
I think it's unreasonable. But then you're a bad friend
when you don't want to pay that. I a jenny
that going to the back of our party is like
a girl's trip. I love it, get it, But you're

(29:05):
there to celebrate one person, which means you're there four
another person.

Speaker 10 (29:09):
Paying thousands of dollars.

Speaker 11 (29:10):
For somebody else's vacation is unacceptable, I agree.

Speaker 6 (29:13):
And then on top of it, when you're on that vacation,
you feel like you have to pay for their.

Speaker 4 (29:17):
Drinks the whole time. It turns into this whole thing.

Speaker 6 (29:21):
That's the hard part about being in a wedding party.

Speaker 7 (29:23):
I think is paying for the bride's drinks and paying
for her meals and stuff because you want her to
have a good time. And I've been a bridesmaid like
five times, and that's that's a lot.

Speaker 3 (29:33):
That is a lot.

Speaker 1 (29:34):
Here is a text message. There's somebody you did stir
the pot on this one, Jenny. This is a text
that says, I also hate when you got to be
at the wedding venue at seven am as a bridesmaid,
but the wedding's not until six pm.

Speaker 3 (29:47):
Is that a thing?

Speaker 13 (29:48):
Well?

Speaker 6 (29:48):
You usually everyone gets together for mimosas and coffee and stuff,
and everyone's getting their makeup and hair done together. So yes,
usually if you're part of the wedding party, you're there
very early to do all that. And a lot of
people nowadays they do you do photos ahead of time
before the ceremony even takes place, just to get those
done with.

Speaker 4 (30:05):
But yeah, I mean it's a full.

Speaker 6 (30:07):
Day commitment on top of everything else you commit to
as a bridesmaid.

Speaker 1 (30:10):
What about this is this text says, and I'm just reading,
a bridal shower is one hundred percent different than the bachelorette.
The bridal showers for your family and your aunt Vivian
and your older elderly cousin Sharon to come along. That's
for the shower. Bachelorette is for your friends to go
out and wear a funny looking hat and a drink

(30:31):
out of a funny looking straw. Bachelorette. No bachelorette requires gifts,
so it no.

Speaker 6 (30:38):
You usually play games, you bring like underwear that you
think represents your personalities, and the bride guesses whose underwear
you usually do, end up spending some money on that,
and then you do buy the bride drinks. They should
the bride should never have to pay for drinks throughout
the entire night in my opinion. But yes, I would
say that they are different. I understand where you're coming from. However,

(31:00):
are getting invited to the bridal shower too? Yes, every
good friend who I've gone to their bachelorette party, I
am invited to the bridal shower on top of it,
especially if you're in the wedding party. You are going
to both.

Speaker 1 (31:11):
Of Maya lost a friend over this whole thing. Tell
us what happened, hi.

Speaker 13 (31:16):
Maya, So I actually had a friend who had gotten
married about like a year year and a half ago
and before her, before she had pre marriage, she wanted
a bachelortt party.

Speaker 11 (31:27):
She's like, we're going to Vegas.

Speaker 13 (31:29):
She's like, you're going to be the maid of honor.
And I was like, cool, whatever, we'll figure it out.
She's like, yeah, we'll be expecting to pay five to
ten thousand dollars for our parties. And I should excuse.

Speaker 2 (31:38):
You, right, gosh, And you did not.

Speaker 13 (31:43):
I did not, And we're no longer friends. And we
were friends from third grade all the way up until.

Speaker 6 (31:50):
Oh, no, party you throw on that's gonna cost ten
thousand dollars the wedding.

Speaker 2 (31:57):
It's not the wedding. Oh my goodness, that's crazy.

Speaker 6 (32:01):
You can actually do Vegas somewhat cheap as a female
because usually guys buy your drinks the whole time. You're
just probably spending money on the hotel. But even like
the hotel shouldn't cost that much. Gosh, Wow, she.

Speaker 4 (32:13):
Really won from you.

Speaker 6 (32:14):
Yeah, you dodged a bullet with that one. I'm sorry
about still though.

Speaker 2 (32:17):
Yeah that's a long one. But good for a staying
on our business. I'm not spending the money.

Speaker 13 (32:21):
No, yeah, she wasn't getting my money. I got kids.

Speaker 3 (32:25):
Good for you.

Speaker 1 (32:26):
There are so many text messages about this, and we
could read these for days, but we'll read a couple
of like highlighted ones about whether a bride should have
just a bachelorette party or just a shower, but not both.

Speaker 7 (32:38):
This one kind of has the same sentiment as the
last caller. I have been in eleven weddings. The amount
of money I have spent between wedding day, bachelorette party,
bridal shower is literally someone's annual salary.

Speaker 4 (32:50):
It is absolutely outrageous.

Speaker 2 (32:53):
Wow, And I totally feel that.

Speaker 3 (32:56):
Why why why do you do it? Though?

Speaker 1 (32:58):
I mean because your friend and I get you love
your friend. It is a you know, it's a once
in a lifetime event hopefully, and it's a big deal
and it's a great excuse to go do something memorable. Yeah,
is that it's all about? It's a Yeah.

Speaker 4 (33:11):
I think it's a it's a great memory to make
and everything.

Speaker 7 (33:14):
It is just expensive, especially for I think for women especially,
it's expensive. And if it's your friend or your sibling
or someone in your family who's getting married.

Speaker 2 (33:25):
You feel obligated to go to all of the things.

Speaker 7 (33:26):
You feel obligated, especially if you're like made of honor
to pay for everything you do because you're like, well,
I've been deemed the best friend, so I guess I
have to pay for everyone's drinks. Not everyone's but the wife,
the bride's drinks and things like that.

Speaker 2 (33:40):
It's just it is exhausting.

Speaker 7 (33:42):
Or you're just like self deemed the best bridesmaid, so
you're paying.

Speaker 2 (33:46):
For everything even if you're not the maid of honor.

Speaker 6 (33:48):
Right.

Speaker 1 (33:48):
Yeah, so many text messages on on this. I appreciate
it so much.

Speaker 3 (33:53):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (33:55):
Yeah, we can like mix it up with stir in
the pods. So, Shay, we've been talking about have your
ears been ringing? We've been talking about you, Sheila.

Speaker 14 (34:05):
Yeah, good morning morning.

Speaker 1 (34:07):
So Sila, was I think it was a couple of
days ago we heard from a movie said we got
to have you tell your story on the radio.

Speaker 3 (34:15):
Sheila.

Speaker 1 (34:15):
I don't want to take it away or steal your thunder,
but you were done with your marriage. You were out
the door. Tell me about what happened in the process
and what's going on now.

Speaker 10 (34:27):
Okay, yeah, I was.

Speaker 14 (34:29):
I was thinking about divorcing my husband. You know, he's like,
he's fine, He's he's this kind of dull, kind of boring,
and I started thinking like, hmm, what if there was, like,
you know, somebody else out there that that I was,
if I was.

Speaker 10 (34:47):
Single, if I was free, if I was able to
figure out who I'd want to be with.

Speaker 14 (34:52):
Uh.

Speaker 10 (34:52):
I kind of thought that I would just be looking
for the same man as my husband.

Speaker 6 (34:57):
Oh okay, So making like a list of like qualities
that you want in a man or something if you
ended up leaving him.

Speaker 14 (35:07):
Yeah, yeah, Like you know, if I I would.

Speaker 10 (35:11):
Want somebody who's like a steady.

Speaker 14 (35:13):
Eddy that's my husband, you know, I would I want
somebody that's involved with with my son, our son.

Speaker 10 (35:23):
My husband coaches te ball for her son, Like he's
you know, he's we don't fight, we don't have any
like financial problems. But I was just like, you know,
I was thinking about this, and I was like, instead
of going through all the divorce, if you meet somebody
that you know kind of checks all the boxes and
you think, oh, that could work, just think like, maybe

(35:46):
don't get divorced, Maybe your husband's fine.

Speaker 3 (35:49):
And you know, I think I think I get what
she's saying.

Speaker 1 (35:52):
You can think about this one if you broke up,
and I want you to picture this if you're married
right now, and maybe you're you know, there's a lot
of marriages that are okay, there's some that are wonder
and there's a lot that are.

Speaker 3 (36:01):
Like, we're kind of roommates.

Speaker 1 (36:03):
Think about this if you were single, because I think
what she's saying is, if you're single and you're like
out dating again and you met somebody who was like
kind of like your current partner, would you go like,
they're kind of a catch. You know, they're they're just different,
they're steady, eddy, they do you know, they're involved with
the kids. But you would said you didn't say this

(36:24):
now because maybe you got shy about it. You said
you want a guy with a sex drive, but not
somebody who wants it all the time.

Speaker 3 (36:31):
Yes, okay, all right.

Speaker 1 (36:33):
So you want a guy who's like, you don't want
a guy who doesn't have any kind of a sex drive,
But you don't want a guy who's like, you know,
you can't even like bend over the kitchen sink or
empty the trash without him being like, hey, let's.

Speaker 3 (36:43):
Go what so.

Speaker 10 (36:46):
Is that normal that way?

Speaker 1 (36:50):
So he's like, yeah, he has the drive, but not
all the time. So then you start to realize if
you were out dating and you met somebody on hinge
that was a steady eddy, maybe a little bit dull.
It wasn't you know, like always you know, pestering you
for the loving. You'd be like, this guy's quite a catch.
Oh wait, that's my husband.

Speaker 2 (37:08):
I already have that.

Speaker 3 (37:10):
But yeah, here comes mister sink over here.

Speaker 5 (37:14):
I just feel I should never be in a thought
process where I'm like, maybe I should get a divorce,
because if I get to that point, then I don't
think there is saving it. I think, you know, if
you think you should get a divorce, then it should happen.

Speaker 7 (37:26):
Though I really disagree because like there's so many like
chances when you're even in just a relationship prior to marriage,
where you're like, is this the one right for me?

Speaker 4 (37:35):
And it's a lot of self sabotage.

Speaker 5 (37:37):
You said it right there before marriage when you when
you marry somebody, you make vows to commit for better
or for worse, for richard, for poor, for all those things.

Speaker 6 (37:43):
Yeah, but there's fifty percent divorce rate. I think I
think it's hard to say. Like us three on the show,
Dave's been married for a long time. We have never
been in a super super super long relationship. So I
don't think we can necessarily relate to someone. I don't
know how long you've been married, Sheila, but like, if
you've been in a relationship for fifteen years, like, does

(38:03):
it change?

Speaker 2 (38:04):
Does it? Like Lauren?

Speaker 5 (38:06):
No, it changes for sure. But I think that you
made a commitment to be with this person. I'm not
going to get too a marriage considering that it might
end one day.

Speaker 1 (38:13):
I think that is a very that's a commitment to
I think if it's a religious ceremony, I think it's
a commitment to God. I don't think you should commit
to ten years of a happy marriage and thirty more
years of being miserable with each other.

Speaker 3 (38:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (38:28):
So a lot of people are texting in that this
is the Pina Colada song, which is what I thought.

Speaker 1 (38:33):
And I never knew that you like Pini by the way, Pena,
And she said, I never knew that. Part of the
song was like because he walked into the bar and
he's like, oh, it's you.

Speaker 7 (38:47):
So the song is that these two people they put
out like ads because they want to find someone else
outside of their marriage, so they're looking to cheat. But
then when they fulfill the ad, they go on this
date to go and meet this person that was willing
to add and it's their spouse.

Speaker 1 (39:02):
We that is, so you know what, Sheila, you brought
up a really interesting topic. I wish we had more
time to talk about it. But thank you because I
think it made a lot of people think. But I
I gotta say that if you really sometimes you know,
it's like, man, yeah, I have a commitment, but I
also don't want to commit myself to being bored and
lonely and miserable for the next thirty years. Sheila, thanks

(39:23):
for being on. Have a great day, Okay, Yeah, yeah,
thank you. We're gonna we'll talk about this a little
bit more when we come back. Somebody says vont is
showing his age with that answer, and then said it's
kind of true. Somebody else says, the grass is not
always greener. We got a lot of response on this one.
We got to take a break. We'll come back in
a second and we'll talk more about this in a
little bit. On kd WB, we talked to a woman

(39:44):
a minute ago, Sheila, I believe her name was Yeah,
really really interesting take on divorce because she said, Hey,
I've been married for a while my husband's boring. He's
like a steady Eddy, he coaches t ball, he's you know,
a good you know husband.

Speaker 3 (39:57):
Whatever, he's just boring.

Speaker 1 (40:00):
And she started to go through the divorce and like
thinking about divorce and working it through in her mind
and going out and seeing what she could get as
far as a new partner and meeting people, and the
idea is maybe kind of exciting to her. So then
she started thinking about, God, well what if I met
a guy. I really would if I met a guy
that had all those boxes like kind of boring and

(40:21):
steady eddy, good with the kids. Once I had to
have a sex life, it's not crazed about it. And
then she realized that's what her husband is. So then
she said, I am not going to get a divorce.
So and I thought that was really interesting because if
you were divorced and single and you found somebody who

(40:42):
was just like, I mean the good qualities.

Speaker 2 (40:45):
Yeah, because everybody.

Speaker 1 (40:46):
Has too except their boorah maybe borings not. I'd rather
have a boring relationship than somebody who was full of drama.
Had to bail them out of prison and take them
the Betty for and all that. You know, I just Okay,
so I'm talking to somebody named Angela, and you're kind

(41:07):
of in the same boat that she was. Hi, Angela,
tell me your story.

Speaker 12 (41:13):
Good morning, same boat. I mean I thought of over
you know, I thought about divorce on and off. It's
not that I don't love my husband. Of course, I
love my husband. We've been married over fifteen years. But
I mean he's kind of an overtime, you know, marriage
has change, and he just doesn't want to go out.
He doesn't want to go out to dinner. He doesn't
want to go do things, you know, like go out

(41:34):
and dates, you know, little dates. Yeah, so I've just
decided I thought about it, you know, I thought about
the divorce thing, but I mean I trust my husband.
Trust is hard. I have single friends. The dating world
is terrible. So I'm just gonna go out. I decided
to date myself, Like we should normalize being able to
go to dinner by yourself, go do things by yourself.
I deserve to be happy. She deserves to be happy.

(41:56):
I mean, I mean it doesn't like she does not
have like she's she doesn't hate him or anything. Stay married,
take yourself out, do a thing for yourself. Nobody's deserved
your time more than yourself.

Speaker 3 (42:06):
Okay, I like that.

Speaker 1 (42:07):
I really like that, Angela. And you've been married for
fifteen years and you said that, what has changed? So
he used to want to go out to you know,
play darts or go dance, or go to.

Speaker 12 (42:17):
A movie or what you absolutely, and it just hasn't.
He's more of a homebody now, which is fine, you know.
I mean I do, I ask for it every night. No,
but I mean there's I mean, life just changed. He
just wants to be a homebody, doesn't want to go
out on dates, doesn't want to go to you know,
just doesn't want to go to like different sports events
or like you said, go bowling or go out with

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friends or go play Bengal.

Speaker 11 (42:39):
He just doesn't want to do that.

Speaker 12 (42:40):
So I'm just I'll do it myself, do it yourself.

Speaker 3 (42:42):
Why are you happy with that?

Speaker 1 (42:43):
And you don't have to be you know, I think
you're being real honest, But do you kind of wish
that it was? Like, man, I'm kind of looking around
going I wish I had a partner that wanted to
go to can Can Wonderland, who wanted to go to
Nick Universe type of thing.

Speaker 12 (43:00):
I mean, yes, and no, but I mean nowadays it's
hard to find somebody. And I mean I definitely all
the qualities he has. I love everything that he has.

Speaker 11 (43:09):
So I just feel like if, like.

Speaker 12 (43:10):
She said, if I went and found I would I
would think about him more than anything. I mean, it's
hard to trust and I you know, and so nobody
deserves my time more than me.

Speaker 3 (43:19):
You know what.

Speaker 1 (43:19):
I love Angela. I love that attitude. I'm so glad
that you were able to be on the radio with us.
Yea and a great week and you take you're taking
yourself out this weekend, and.

Speaker 12 (43:28):
You know what, yes, because he's going hunting.

Speaker 1 (43:32):
By the way, you win, you win the Minnesota Accents
of the Day award.

Speaker 4 (43:35):
So the body, thank you, thank you.

Speaker 3 (43:38):
Have a good day.

Speaker 5 (43:39):
I'm glad that she's choosing to date herself though, and
not go find other people, because I said that the
minute divorce or even like going to find somebody else
crosses your mind, just do it. Because I feel like
you made a commitment to your partner when you just
decided to get married, the thought of going to somebody
else shouldn't.

Speaker 2 (43:54):
Cross your mind.

Speaker 1 (43:56):
Oh you got disagree with me. I think if you're
going to be honest. I think that you know, I
thought about divorce before. I'm sure Susan has thought about
it before, and not for any like wow reason, like wow,
you have a gambling problem or whatever, just kind of
like you know, yeah, and it's not like we ever

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like got serious about it. But I think that if
every couple is being honest, there's probably a part of
every couple that's been married for forty years where they've
at one point said, well, yeah, is this making me happy?

Speaker 4 (44:33):
I think go ahead, Jenny, I was gonna say.

Speaker 6 (44:34):
I think that once you get into a longer relationship,
you still like really care about your partner, if you
chose the right partner. It just is a matter of like,
there are certain things every person evolves throughout their life,
It's true, and you don't necessarily evolve in the same
way as your partner.

Speaker 3 (44:48):
Look at this guy, Yeah he used to go out.
He doesn't go out.

Speaker 6 (44:51):
It's like, it's like you, there are parts of you
that probably question like is there someone else that fits
who I am as a person?

Speaker 9 (44:57):
Better?

Speaker 3 (44:58):
Now?

Speaker 5 (44:58):
Like the point of though, say for better, for worse, rich,
for poor, I commit like my life to you. That's
the point of marriage.

Speaker 2 (45:04):
But if you.

Speaker 7 (45:04):
Change in a way that's not beneficial to like the relationship,
then I think it's better to get a divorce. But
in her case, like the person she would be looking
for is essentially going to be the same guy anyway.

Speaker 5 (45:16):
I hear what you're saying, like, you should not feel
confined right to that person whatever changes. But again, I
just you know, if something happened tomorrow or in twenty years,
Alyssa changes, we get married, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (45:28):
I said, Hey, I'm with you for life.

Speaker 5 (45:31):
I just think you shouldn't go into a situation of
commitment with a notion in the back of your head
that I don't know.

Speaker 6 (45:35):
If this I don't think nobody goes into marriage thinking
like someday I'm going to get a divorce.

Speaker 4 (45:39):
At least I hope they don't.

Speaker 6 (45:41):
Or if you do, then you probably know right off
the bat that's not the right person for you.

Speaker 2 (45:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (45:45):
I just think that it's a naive thing to say
that you wouldn't potentially think about someone else. I'm all
for working for the relationship. I am all for trying
to get through hard times with people, or if you
are getting bored in your relationship, I'm all for trying
to like figure out what the solution is for that, Yes,
but I do think that it would be I don't know.
I just think it'd be silly to say that people.

Speaker 4 (46:06):
Don't have those thoughts though.

Speaker 3 (46:08):
Well, if you just turned the radio on.

Speaker 1 (46:09):
We were talking about a woman called in and she
said she thought about getting a divorce, but then she
fast forward in her mind how it would play out.
She would go out, try to find a new partner,
and if she found somebody who was just like her husband,
she'd be like, what a catch? And then she realized
that she has what a catch. We got a lot
of responses on this one. For example, this one says,

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I want to say thanks to Angela, who just called
in and she said, my husband's boring. So instead of
like me staying home at being bored, I take myself out.
This text says, thanks Angela. I've been going back and
forth on divorce because he doesn't want to go out,
and now I'm going to take myself out. That's a
great compromise.

Speaker 7 (46:46):
Can I would like to also say on that note, like, yes,
I'm not married. My last relationship though, was like almost
five years and I was in the same position where
it was really great at the beginning, obviously, and then
he just didn't want to go out anymore. So I
continued living my life the way I wanted and he
lived his separate life.

Speaker 4 (47:03):
And I feel like, yes, take yourself out.

Speaker 6 (47:05):
But if your lives like diverge so fully that you're
just living two different lives and kind of ships in
the night in your home, then like I would say,
get a divorce.

Speaker 1 (47:14):
It could be happy. Why why commit yourself? I'll give
you two thoughts, and I really believe this. You might disagree.
If you have to work that hard on a marriage,
it ain't a good marriage. Yeah, a marriage. You should
not have to work that hard on a marriage. If
you have to work that hard, marriage's a lot of work.
It shouldn't be that much work, or it's not a
good marriage. I disagree. I mean, I hope that it

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doesn't get to that point.

Speaker 5 (47:37):
But marriage is all about as far as I know,
I'm not married, but like sacrifice and deciding to always
show up. This other text it says I agree with
nowhere is it. Throughout a long marriage. People fall in
and out of love all the time. The trick is
to make the choice to stay even during the seasons
when the love might feel lost. However, it's normal to
start considering the what ifs during those seasons. Two so
to be able to navigate the highs, the lows, the

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ups and downs, the peaks and valleys, but still get through.

Speaker 3 (48:00):
I think I think that's true.

Speaker 1 (48:02):
I mean, you fight over like you know, she spent
too much money, or he bought a new motorcycle without
asking or whatever, then yeah, those are your peaks and valleys.
But if everything is like uh ho hum, I don't
say I love you, we don't kiss, we don't do this.

Speaker 3 (48:17):
You pass each other naked in

Speaker 1 (48:18):
The hallway and you don't even glance at each other,
then things start to be a problem.