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July 22, 2025 • 30 mins
We discuss whose boyband hotness holds up, Jenny talks self esteem, and more!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
I am hooked on a show that is so not
me to watch, and that is The Building the Band,
hosted by AJ McLean from Backstreet Boys.

Speaker 2 (00:09):
I was at my girlfriend's house last night and we're
playing her best rap party.

Speaker 3 (00:13):
Her fiance is in the basement.

Speaker 2 (00:14):
He comes up and he tells me that the show
he's watching is so good, and we're like, what are
you watching. He's like, building the Band? Yeah, he said,
he cried like three times already.

Speaker 1 (00:22):
I don't know about crying. Yeah, it is. There's some
stage drama in there. There was like one kid who
like fell in love with a girl and another band
and he wanted to spend more time with her than
he did, like me know, working on his band, and
he's like, yeah, I'm going to drop out because I'm
just in love. And it was like, come on, this
is like the sole purpose of this show is to
build a band, and you're going to pretend that you're Then,

(00:42):
of course he got back together with her. No real
spoiler alert. It's just kind of a silly side plot.
But AJ is of course a Backstreet Boy. And then
there's one kid in there that is totally Jack and
the Harry styles look. He looks kind of like him.
He's got the hair done like him. And so then
we're talking about boy bands that were hot and who

(01:06):
is still hot Like Nick Carter. When he was young
Backstreet Boy, he was the heart throb of the Backstree boys.

Speaker 3 (01:13):
Absolutely.

Speaker 1 (01:13):
I remember he came to he came to a star
party one time and when they were brand new, and
he had a little bowl cut. If you look at
like seventeen year old Nick Carter, he had a little
bowl cut. He was so adorable. Yeah blonde, yeah, blonde.

Speaker 2 (01:24):
Yes, he was definitely the hottest. And now he's by
far the ugliest or are you serious? Oh, absolutely, I disagree.

Speaker 4 (01:31):
I think he's hotter now than he was when he
was like in his prime. Interesting, I never thought he
was all that hot, Like when Backstreet boys were like
really like cool and obviously I was like an instant
girl in general, but of the Backstree boys, they were
always like Nick's the hottest.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
Nick's the hottest, and I was just like, this dude,
he's the hottest.

Speaker 4 (01:47):
But then, I mean, he was on the Dancing with
the Stars, like I don't know, seven years ago, and
he came out and I was like, okay, because now
his like skin.

Speaker 3 (01:54):
Isn't as like porcelain anymore.

Speaker 4 (01:56):
He's got lines on his face, and his hair is
more like a dirty blonde.

Speaker 1 (02:00):
Looks better than that.

Speaker 3 (02:01):
He just like it looks like he puts. It's all
put together. Now for ye, I say real person, He
doesn't look like a real person. I think he looks
like I want to be Ken Doll.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
Now like I feel like he had too many face
procedures done.

Speaker 3 (02:13):
Probably claims it's odd, Nachurala.

Speaker 1 (02:15):
I haven't looked at Nick Carter's face in a very
long time. I will say that Kevin has always been
just chiseled, very He's very handsome. He's got the smoky,
smoldering eyes. Kevin has always been the handsome one. He
has stayed handsome, and he's tall and lean. Now here's
the good thing about the Backstreet boys. They all look
and they say this. And I told vont this the
other day. I said, if you can keep your hair

(02:36):
and stay thin, you can stay young forever. And I
wrote it down, because what makes a guy, what makes
a guy look old? Losing his hair and putting on weight,
then it's like, okay, then a thirty year old can
look like he's sixty. So but if they're all thin
still and they got their hair, they all had hair transplants.
I know that Brian was losing his hair back during
Backstreet Boys days, and so is AJ. That's why AJ
always wore a hat. Now AJ has a full head

(02:59):
of hair. Will say it is a what is it
a hair transplant? No, it's not. It is aig w
h ig wig.

Speaker 3 (03:07):
Good were like two pay attached to.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
I call it the same thing. It is a hair appliance.
You can call it whatever you want, but it's just
a little you know, it's it's it's full coverage. There's
no thin spots. See.

Speaker 2 (03:18):
I feel like Kevin and AJ kind of evolved with
the times of like twenty twenty five, and so they
kind of have like the looks of what people care about,
whereas like Nick Carter stayed in a boy band looking
face because he's.

Speaker 4 (03:30):
An adult man with blonde hair. I feel like they
get a bad rap sometimes.

Speaker 3 (03:34):
I know, but the hairstyle.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
Don't feel bad for it.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
The hairstyle also isn't helping him. He could do something
to stylis his hair.

Speaker 1 (03:40):
You must be looking at pictures of the Backstreet Boys
right now, look at.

Speaker 2 (03:43):
Different pictures, but like, I also feel like a man
can change within the seconds when they go to a
good barber or hairstylis literally they can go from a
seven to an eleven in my eyes if they get
a good haircut.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
Then let's talk about in the rival band in Sync. Yeah,
no doubt Justin Timberlake was the heart throw back then.
Now he's still kind of a heart throb. Because I
will say that none of the other members of in
Sync are particularly attractive. Lance Bass is Lance Bass is
the hottest one now, Okay, I can buy that.

Speaker 4 (04:14):
Yeah, he's hotter than Justin Timberlake is now Justin Timberlake.

Speaker 3 (04:17):
What made him so hot was his like curly hair,
and now he does he.

Speaker 4 (04:21):
Shaves it off all the time, like man, you have
that like get rock with the Lord gave you.

Speaker 5 (04:26):
He also went through that blonde phase too, right, But objectively, yeah,
I don't think there's anybody else remotely touch it, like,
not close at all to Lance Bass or Justin Sean sinc.

Speaker 2 (04:35):
I always thought that j C was one of like
might have been in competition with Justin Timberlake back in
the day. And now I would say that he's hotter
than Justin Timberlake.

Speaker 3 (04:43):
Yeah, okay, it's hot, but his face looks like a
foot to me.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
Well, there was no question that j C was the
better singer. Yeah, and I think I heard a song
where it was like Justin sings well, but JC sings beautifully.
But j C was not the cutest one with the blonde,
curly hair, space to square. It was a little bit
well I saw it. His more tear dropped up, shined down,
shaped like a pointy chin.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
He looks like stonehenge to me, stone.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
Hinge, like a block, Yes, like a block of stone.

Speaker 3 (05:10):
That looks like a face. That guy.

Speaker 1 (05:12):
Who's right? Who's wrong? I think objectively the hottest current
boy band member, I would say Kevin. Kevin for Harry
Styles is I don't know. I mean you get to
work that. Those guys in.

Speaker 3 (05:25):
There too, well, no, because they're like they're a different generations.

Speaker 1 (05:27):
Okay, different generations haven't evolved enough.

Speaker 3 (05:31):
They're not old enough yet to be comparing them to
like years later. And regardless who we always forget about Howie.

Speaker 1 (05:38):
Well, Howie Yeah, well that's the Backstreet boy that he was,
the Chris Kirkpatrick of the band. Yeah, but I think
he was the best singer and certainly a very nice guy.
We had him on the show. We used to have
his phone number in Collin once in a while because
Angie Taylor. This is a weird story. Angie Taylor used
to be on this show. Yes, she dated Nick Carter.

(05:59):
I remember you told dated him. She was in the
National Inquirer or some magazine because she went to a
boat race with Nick Carter. He used to have what
they call a cigarette boat, which is those long, snaky
racing boats. Yeah, and so he owned it, and so
she was in the National Inquirer. I think it was
standing next to Nick Carter on the beach in Miami.

Speaker 3 (06:20):
Was he just like jetting her off to these places?

Speaker 2 (06:22):
Because how I was gonna say, how did she afford
to just like leave radio and go do all these shows,
leave for the weekend.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
I think I don't remember exactly, but it was just
mind boggling that the woman that I sat across with
from for years was dating Nick Carter.

Speaker 4 (06:36):
It's gonna happen to me then I'll be dating one
of the boy band people.

Speaker 1 (06:39):
Absolutely will. Yes, yeah, yeah, that's something to look forward to. Hey,
it is humid outside. You can feel it. It is
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(07:00):
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Speaker 3 (07:08):
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(07:33):
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Speaker 3 (08:02):
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Speaker 1 (08:04):
It's Dave's Dirt on kati w B, Shocky News yesterday.
Celebrity death Malcolm Jamal Warner, who was THEO when The
Cosby Show ran from eighty two or eighty four to
ninety two, And it was a huge culturally phenomenon of
a show because it was the first show to portray
a successful, wealthy black family. Yes, because until then it

(08:25):
was like good times. Well the Jefferson's was all. They
were wealthy also, but they were also kind of screwball
and kind of silly.

Speaker 5 (08:31):
But this was also like Bill Cosby and Felicia Rashad,
So it was like very very impactful.

Speaker 1 (08:37):
This is a little bit on the a clip of
the classic Cosby Show. Hey, I know, you know what.

Speaker 3 (08:45):
What's she gonna say?

Speaker 1 (08:47):
And it's under control, so no problem. He was swimming
with his family, I want to say, Costa Rica and
he got caught in a riptide. And a riptide is
basically it's when the waves come into to the shore,
they've got to go back out, so they kind of
congregate in what it seems like a river that flows
away from the beach. And they call that a riptide.

(09:09):
And they say if you get caught in and it
pulls you away from the shore and you can't outswim
a riptide, so you're supposed to swim parallel to the
shore and then swim back in once you get out
of the riptide.

Speaker 3 (09:20):
Like swim along with it.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
Yeah, no, no, no, it's okay. So the riptide is
and the beach are shaped like a tea. Okay, So
the rip tide is the bottom of the tea, the
beach is the top of the tea. So you're in
the riptide, it's pulling you away from the beach, swim
parallel to the beach, and then swim back in once
you get out of the riptide. Could be some we
don't worry about that around here. We don't have riptids
in Minnesota.

Speaker 5 (09:42):
No.

Speaker 2 (09:42):
But I mean I've definitely swam in oceans before and
gotten caught in waves that you just you don't realize
how strong they are. Like you're having fun jumping into
a wave and stuff, and some of them will just
pull you. I never obviously been caught in a riptide before,
but yes, I've always heard about the swimming parallel.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
That might be the most Minnesota thing I've ever heard
you say. Some of them will just pull.

Speaker 4 (10:00):
I heard.

Speaker 1 (10:01):
I was like, wowully, listen back to that.

Speaker 3 (10:06):
Like I said it in a.

Speaker 1 (10:09):
Not to make light of his death, because it was shocking.
He was only fifty four years old. Yeah, and he
was still working, still doing well, and he's on vacation
with his family.

Speaker 3 (10:17):
So there's audio of this, so I'd like to hear this.

Speaker 2 (10:19):
But a lot of people were talking about the Delta
flight that had to do this super crazy maneuver to
avoid another It was a bomber, but here's audio of it.

Speaker 4 (10:27):
There's no radar here.

Speaker 1 (10:29):
So there the tower realized that the spacing wasn't going
to work, and he said turn right, and I looked
over and there at an airplane which sposed you on
the right hand side.

Speaker 3 (10:37):
I thought it was a small airplane. He said turn right,
and I said, there's an airplane over there, and he says.

Speaker 1 (10:41):
Turn left, and then overs on an airplane.

Speaker 6 (10:43):
That was coming on a version of course with us.

Speaker 4 (10:46):
I'm sorry about the aggressive maneuver and coffee by surprises
is not.

Speaker 1 (10:49):
Normal at all.

Speaker 3 (10:50):
I knew apologize for it.

Speaker 4 (10:52):
Not a co airplane.

Speaker 2 (10:54):
So someone was obviously recording that within the plane, and
that was the pilot talking to everyone.

Speaker 3 (10:58):
But I saw that, and I was like.

Speaker 2 (11:00):
Man, I would think I was dying if I was
in an airplane that all of a sudden, I was like, WHOA.
And I don't know exactly what they did, Dave, maybe
you can explain it more.

Speaker 1 (11:08):
I'm looking at the Minot Airport and it is close
to Minot Air Force Base, so I mean very close,
within maybe five miles of the air Force base. So
he said, there's no radar. I don't. I think there
is radar. I think there's if there's a tower, there's radar.
But you know, somebody basically just made a mistake, and

(11:31):
you know, there was not enough clearance from the other plane.
I don't know. I'll find out about it, but I.

Speaker 4 (11:35):
Mean, I'm glad he looked both ways because saying, like,
turn left, there's a plane.

Speaker 3 (11:39):
There are you telling me there's areas that doesn't have radar?

Speaker 1 (11:44):
There are It's a little bit hard to explain, Okay, yeah,
I won't explain it. Yeah, I'll bore you with that.
Maybe on the on the Minnesota Goodbye.

Speaker 4 (11:52):
We're still talking about that CEO and the HR lady
at the cold Play concert. Because the woman who recorded
the video, her name is Grace Springer. She revealed how
much money she made from the twenty two million views.

Speaker 1 (12:07):
Yes, she has.

Speaker 3 (12:09):
Made zero dollars.

Speaker 4 (12:11):
Oh no, really because it is not monetized at all, which,
like I guess in hindsight, she could have, you know,
joined the TikTok creator fund and then posted it.

Speaker 3 (12:21):
I know, at least just from like.

Speaker 4 (12:22):
My usage of TikTok that you have to have like
videos over a minute in order to get them like
super monetized.

Speaker 1 (12:28):
Right, Okay, but I can.

Speaker 4 (12:29):
Imagine like if you have one hundred and twenty two
million views and that's not making TikTok any money. I
don't I don't get that part. But she said it
was not monetized at all. But at one point she
posted I think on Twitter, she's like, Hey, I'm glad
you guys really like my video. Here's my venmo. I'd
like to pay off some student debt. So maybe they've
paid her a little bit.

Speaker 2 (12:50):
I'm pretty sure that any company who has used her video,
especially all of the millions of news outlets, should have
asked for permission first, if.

Speaker 1 (12:58):
Not offered to, because she owns that video.

Speaker 2 (13:00):
Yes she does, because I sent out like not cease
and desist, because I'm not that extreme. But I had
a video go viral over the holidays because of a
fire that.

Speaker 3 (13:08):
Started at my honest sure well, and I reached.

Speaker 2 (13:11):
Out to companies who didn't ask me permission first to
use my video, and I said, you can either take
that down or you need to pay me.

Speaker 3 (13:17):
Because you do not other rights to this video.

Speaker 1 (13:19):
Right, you own that video.

Speaker 3 (13:20):
I hope maybe some loyal will get a hold of
her and be like, let's start suing. Yeah, let's sue
left and right.

Speaker 5 (13:26):
I'm sure David Levado's trying to move out of her
whole like punk rock era of music, getting ready to
put out her ninth studio album. She said it's going
to be like a dance pop album, and she's really
excited to step in this new chapter of her life.

Speaker 1 (13:37):
We have no clue when it's gonna come out yet.

Speaker 5 (13:39):
And her anniversary or seventh anniversary of her near fatal
drug overdoses in two days, so good for Demi and
these milestones, Hey Demi.

Speaker 1 (13:46):
Months of teasing fans, Mariah Carrey has billed all the
deats revealing her new album Here for It All, will
drop on September twenty sixth, and Bailey and I looked
at each other with a giant who cares look on
our and we both agreed that there are no where,
there are people who like Mariah Carey's music, but there
are no literally no Mariah Carey fans left in the world.

(14:09):
Nobody's gonna be like, oh my god, Mariah has not
got new music. She's a new album coming out.

Speaker 3 (14:13):
I can't wait.

Speaker 1 (14:15):
I think Mariah Carey has just kind of made herself
to an unlikable, self absorbed diva and there's just nothing.

Speaker 7 (14:21):
Really.

Speaker 1 (14:21):
Your mom doesn't like Maria.

Speaker 4 (14:22):
My mom doesn't like her because the way that Maria
Carey stands when she sings is she just stands in
a very rigid and rigid stance, so she looks like
skinny and young, and my mom's like, you're not young
and you're not skinny anymore, so like just just perform,
walk around the stage. But she'll just sit in a
very specific way, so she still looks like she did
when she was twenty one, and it ain't gonna happen. Yeah,

(14:43):
it ain't gonna happen. But I do like her music.
But she's definitely like a like a playlist artist. I
would put her on a playlist. I would like to
play her album.

Speaker 1 (14:52):
The algorithms have warped the Billboard Hot one hundred and
seventy years of chart history. No song has ever or
spent one hundred weeks in the Hot one hundred singles
until Lose Control from Teddy Swims was released. It is
still in the top ten. It has been in the
Hot one hundred and four one hundred to four, Yeah,

(15:14):
for one hundred weeks.

Speaker 3 (15:15):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (15:15):
Never happened in seventy years of the Billboard charts. And
that is the dirt. We gonna take a break. We'll
be right back on. Katie w B sing Along Song
of the Day. What do you want to nominate? Maybe
you nominated the same song every day and we haven't
gotten to it yet. Do it again, Send me a
text for an upbeat, fun sing along song and we'll
do it next time.

Speaker 3 (15:30):
One point three kat WB.

Speaker 1 (15:32):
Big fortieth Birthday, Happy Birthday. Cassie a big supporter of
the show. We love you, thanks for doing what you
do and thanks for listening. Happy Big four, Oh enjoy yourself,
and also shout out to Yesie from Plymouth and also
Alisha from Maplewood, who both suggested this song for the
singalong song of the day. It is we're discussing. We're

(15:56):
having a discussion here. I KTWB about sending the message.
Was sending a message to the wrong person? Are we
to talk about that later on the show today? We'll
save that. But if you ever have sent a message
and mine was basically, I'll share it later. I'm too worried.
The person is listening and I don't want to embarrass them,

(16:16):
I will say I did send I don't know what
it was. I was sending a picture of a hot
woman in a short skirt to Steve O one night,
and I was it was after a cub Scout meeting
and I accidentally sent it to the cub Scout leader
and he was like wow or that's great, like he
didn't know how to act. And I don't even know

(16:38):
if I said anything, and I'm like, god, stupid. I
didn't know why I was sending a picture of a
hot woman in the short skirt. I was young. I
don't remember anyway, it's Katiev we're about to do. You
can't make this stuff up, but I want to do
a happy birthday shout out to Dave. Happy twelve years
of saying I love you. Have a great day. Also,
can I get a self happy birthday? My wife, kids

(17:00):
are home sleeping, and I'm headed to the gym before work.
Fifty pounds down and fifty more to go. Oh my gosh,
that's amazing. Probably on their way to snap fitness. Yeah, yeah,
locations all over the place. Access twenty four to seven.
Look how big my arms are? Let me giant arm?
I think I can Yeah, giant arms. All right, let's

(17:23):
do this one on one point three kd WB Bailey
sent this to me and it's basically a guy talking
on Instagram and I will it's all kind of self explanatory.
It's a guy probably twenty five years old, looking at

(17:45):
the camera talking about dating.

Speaker 7 (17:47):
Here we go times when I'm bored, I like to
come up with unequal would you rathers?

Speaker 3 (17:52):
You know, would you rather?

Speaker 7 (17:53):
Questions that really are one sided but still make you
kind of think, like would you rather be set up
on fire? Or data woman?

Speaker 1 (18:02):
Named Bailey.

Speaker 3 (18:05):
It should be easy to answer, but it's not.

Speaker 7 (18:08):
You're thinking, Okay, well, how long am I on fire?

Speaker 1 (18:11):
And how long do I have to date Bailey?

Speaker 7 (18:14):
Would you rather eat shredded glass or listen to the
Grateful Dead for more than ten minutes?

Speaker 1 (18:19):
Would you rather.

Speaker 6 (18:21):
Fill your pants with venomous snakes or spend your entire
Saturday at the local farmers market? Would you rather be
three hundred thousand dollars in debt or data?

Speaker 1 (18:32):
Woman named Bailey? Bailey?

Speaker 7 (18:34):
I'm reusing that one.

Speaker 1 (18:35):
Because it's so hard to answer.

Speaker 7 (18:37):
Sometimes when I'm bored, I have to come up with
unequal would you rather?

Speaker 1 (18:42):
Okay, that's funny, unequal.

Speaker 3 (18:48):
You should DM him? You know what?

Speaker 4 (18:50):
I did comment on it and I said, hey wait,
and I thought, oh, maybe he'll see that. I said, like,
hey wait, but I could be like, you want to
date a girl named Bailey?

Speaker 3 (18:58):
But he listened like Virginia.

Speaker 1 (18:59):
So you have more followers than him, so there's a
good chance to do me.

Speaker 3 (19:02):
Seriously, he has five thousand something only.

Speaker 1 (19:05):
And Bailey, you're up to like almost seven thousand.

Speaker 4 (19:07):
Now, no, I'm almost a six thousand, but I want
to do I want to get seven thousand, so I
can do a tattoo tour.

Speaker 1 (19:12):
Okay, So if you get to seven thousand followers, you
will do a tattoo tour of your tattoos all over
your body. All of the ones that I have, Yes,
are there, are there in any like intimate belly areas,
top of the butt crack or anything like that between
the cheek.

Speaker 3 (19:28):
I'm not saying cheeks. I do have one of my butt,
but it's like the high it's a high butt okay,
but it's not a trans damp. No, it's not a
trams damp.

Speaker 1 (19:37):
Now would that be in the tattoo tour?

Speaker 3 (19:39):
Yeah, it would be on the tattoo tour.

Speaker 1 (19:40):
Okay. Good, So maybe go go to Bailey on air
and like, and we'll see if we can get follow
follow right exactly and then follow and see when you
get me up to like seven thousand.

Speaker 3 (19:50):
Do we call tattoos trams stamps?

Speaker 2 (19:52):
Because I feel like that war doesn't really I feel
like people don't call that.

Speaker 1 (19:55):
Well they don't. They don't. They're not popular anymore, so
they don't. We don't refer to them. But I think
they're still called the tramp stamp. Yeah, because when you
say tramp stamp. You know exactly what somebody's talking about.
It's not demeaning, it's.

Speaker 2 (20:07):
It's that that I'm just saying. I feel like I
don't hear people because people don't get anymore.

Speaker 3 (20:12):
Yeah, a lower back tattoo.

Speaker 1 (20:13):
Yeah, lower back tattoo. It used to be right above
the butt crack, and they called a tramp stamp.

Speaker 3 (20:17):
What are you about over there?

Speaker 1 (20:18):
Just like that, like, is that what we call it now?

Speaker 2 (20:22):
No, I'm not asking out of PC terms. I'm genuinely asking.
I just don't feel like people ever use that word anymore.

Speaker 1 (20:28):
I feel like that was like a nice same and
one the same way, we don't use the term fax machine.
You know, we still know what a fax machine is,
but we never referred to Hey, yeah, I'm gonna run
down to the fact machine. I'm gonna go to get
a tramp stamp.

Speaker 4 (20:39):
I would get a I'd get a tramp stamp just
because I got a big old, like a what is
that called a birthmark right above my button. It's kind
of embarrassing looking and I just kind of hate it's
a birthmark.

Speaker 3 (20:47):
Like it's just colored skin like Panama.

Speaker 1 (20:49):
It's really cool. It is shaped like.

Speaker 3 (20:51):
Panama shaped like Panama.

Speaker 1 (20:53):
I just watched.

Speaker 3 (20:54):
I showed him. It's like, hey, could you check this
out for me? Check out my my upper butt tattoo,
and then while you're at it, check out my birth mom.
I'm like, wow, are pretending to be a dermatologist?

Speaker 6 (21:04):
Again?

Speaker 3 (21:04):
He's not.

Speaker 4 (21:10):
Anyway, That guy's wrong. It's not bad to date a
girl named Bailey or light yourself on fire?

Speaker 1 (21:16):
Which would you rather do? For ten minutes? DA girl
or data girl named Bailey? All right, it's one on
one point three kdub. I want to ask you a question.
And if you're a mom or a dad, and he
got like older kids that are like twenty or twenty
five or maybe even forty five, I want to ask
you a question. Do you ever have dreams that your
kids are young again? I had a dream last night.

(21:39):
Carson and I were walking somewhere and he was eight
and he had the bowl cut that he had that
he grew up with, this silly bowl cut, and he
was like eight years old. We're walking around. He's like, Dad,
I want to go play on that swing set. And
I was like, I don't know. By yourself, I don't
know if you can go do that, and then I
realized in my mind, he's twenty four years old, but

(22:01):
I was dreaming of him that he was an eight
year old boy. And I don't remember ever having a
dream about my kids being young again. I wonder if
other parents have been through that, Like maybe you get
a sixteen year old girl and you dream of her
when and she's three again, because that's like you know
that we love them when they're little and they're young
and they're so fun. But maybe you've got a twenty

(22:21):
five year old daughter. Maybe MoMA Ronda still dreams of
a very young Bailey j I.

Speaker 4 (22:27):
Wonder if she does, because I don't. I mean, I
feel like we all dream about being but like back
in school again, like oh totally, yeah, it's the final
today and I haven't gone to.

Speaker 3 (22:36):
Class all semester.

Speaker 1 (22:38):
That's a big one yet.

Speaker 4 (22:39):
But I mean, I don't have kids, but I don't
even I don't even dream about like my family and
friends being younger or like who they were at a
younger time.

Speaker 3 (22:48):
If I dream about my mom, I dream about who
my mom is, right it was now.

Speaker 1 (22:50):
Yeah, it's very common when somebody dies in your family,
like when your mom and dad die, you will dream
that they are still alive, and you won't even question it.
You'll be like, oh, wow, look at that. I guess
they'd didn't die after all.

Speaker 3 (23:01):
Yeah, my mom always thinks that's like a sign from them,
like I'm okay.

Speaker 1 (23:05):
Well, then Mom and Dad need to leave me alone
because I have that dream all the time.

Speaker 3 (23:10):
I don't forget that.

Speaker 1 (23:11):
Don't worry Mom and dad. I'm not gonna forget you.
Let me know if you've had that dream. It is
one of one point three kd WB twenty no make
it about fifteen minutes away from pick your ticket Tuesday
on kd WUB And right now, we'll come back in
a second with Jenny's been on Reddit and we'll see
what she's found on Reddit. Next on KDWB Jenny's been

(23:37):
on Reddit.

Speaker 3 (23:38):
Jenny's Been and Reddit is brought to you by Mary
and Jane. And today we're going to talk.

Speaker 2 (23:41):
About how people immediately know someone has low self esteem.
And you can disagree with the people on this because
I kind of do for some of these. This first one,
I don't getting very defensive one offered constructive criticism or
when disagreed with that means that you have a lower
self esteem.

Speaker 3 (24:00):
I think I agree with that one.

Speaker 1 (24:01):
I've dealt with that because the company has me work
with other morning shows and coach people, and it's sometimes
some people just cannot take any criticism at all. They
immediately a wall goes up right and it's like, I'm
just I'm just here to help you, so.

Speaker 3 (24:17):
Right, okay.

Speaker 2 (24:18):
Up next is knowingly and proudly being someone's side piece.
You have a love of self esteem if you're like, yeah,
I'm side piece whatever.

Speaker 5 (24:29):
I've never understood that. I always want to be the
main character, So why would you want to be a
side piece.

Speaker 1 (24:32):
I think anybody don't. Nobody wants to be a side piece.
I don't know that anybody's proud of it. I mean
if I was Taylor Swift's side piece, I'd be like, oh, Bailey,
guess what I'm doing this afternoon.

Speaker 3 (24:43):
I want people to be proud to be someone's side
and not.

Speaker 1 (24:46):
Immediate and like an athlete or just a normal guy,
like a.

Speaker 2 (24:50):
Normal It was a female, but like a normal female.
And I immediately was like, yeah.

Speaker 3 (24:54):
You definitely have. It's not someone i'm close with.

Speaker 2 (24:56):
You definitely have low self esteem because like, why would
you why you allow yourself to be that when you
could be something like someone else out there's going to
treat you better and make you their main person or
your own. You're the only person that's the main person,
the main one one. These are signs that people have
self esteem. Agreeing with pretty much everyone. There's someone we

(25:19):
used to work with that literally the nicest person ever,
but they agreed all the time.

Speaker 3 (25:24):
I'll tell you off air, Dave.

Speaker 2 (25:25):
They agreed with everything all the time, and it was
like they could never have their own opinion.

Speaker 3 (25:29):
They just like went with everyone else around.

Speaker 1 (25:32):
I can think of a lot of people on the
show who were not like that.

Speaker 3 (25:35):
Yeah, no, I mean, look at someone on this show
who has low self esteem.

Speaker 2 (25:42):
Though not deliberately so I'm saying you would have people
who are going to like be opinionated, and that's like
not a sign usually of having those self right.

Speaker 1 (25:53):
All the time.

Speaker 3 (25:54):
All right, doing too much for other people might mean
you have low self esteem. What are you happy? There's
a bug over here and daily looking at me like,
what are you doing?

Speaker 1 (26:02):
I know what you're doing. You're getting swarm by a mosquito.

Speaker 3 (26:04):
There was like a little bug, but I think I
got it away all right. Sorry, you're fine.

Speaker 1 (26:09):
I just like flies.

Speaker 3 (26:12):
In the middle of the show, a little bug was
in face.

Speaker 4 (26:15):
I read.

Speaker 2 (26:15):
Another one is jealousy and constant comparison. I think that
that kind of speaks for yourself with lower self esteem
because you're just like, obviously you're comparing yourself to someone else,
and that's the reason why you might have low self esteem.

Speaker 3 (26:26):
Don't compare yourself. It's the thief of joy. Yeah, easier
said than done.

Speaker 1 (26:30):
You say that one again. It's a thief of joy comparison.
Is the thief comparison joy? Yeah, don't compare yourself. Yeah,
if you do, compare yourself down.

Speaker 3 (26:38):
Some presidents said that, I am not taking that. President
just said.

Speaker 2 (26:44):
A president said that, also saying it's fine when they're mistreated.

Speaker 3 (26:49):
Signs of low self esteem?

Speaker 2 (26:50):
Do you guys have anything that you feel like if
you see this in a person, you're like, they like
need a little more confidence.

Speaker 1 (26:57):
A lack of eye contact, I would say, as somebody
who looks the other way, But.

Speaker 2 (27:04):
That just might mean they have a little bit of
like social in so I wouldn't necessarily associate that with
low self esteem.

Speaker 3 (27:10):
But that's a good one. Also, I think that this
one is my favorite.

Speaker 2 (27:14):
One is when people are constantly talking us about other people. Oh,
that means they have low self esteem. I will say it,
and I will be proud to say it. All the
trolls online you have low self esteem. I'm sorry because
you talking crap about other people or being mean to
other people. If you were happy with your.

Speaker 3 (27:32):
Own life, you don't need to go online and do
what you do. That is a huge sign of low.

Speaker 1 (27:37):
Selfis tear somebody else down to make yourself feel better.
But if you have a vibrant, happy life, you don't
feel that emptiness that you need to tear somebody else down.

Speaker 2 (27:49):
And it's not necessarily to feel I don't think it's
to feel better. I think it's to get attention. They
just like want the attention from it.

Speaker 3 (27:56):
But it's bad attention too. I don't understand.

Speaker 2 (27:58):
But it doesn't matter. They just aren't kidding any in
some way. So there's like a kid that lacked up. Yeah, yeah,
So those are signs that people are immediately screaming low
self esteem.

Speaker 3 (28:09):
And once again Reddit, it's probably by Mary and Jane.

Speaker 1 (28:13):
Thank you, Jenny. A couple of things we're talking about
dreaming about your kids, like if you've got grown kids,
do you dream about them? Talk to a friend of mine,
Renee texted a minute ago. She's listening to the show
for years and she says that her kids are like old,
way older, and she dreams about them as babies all
the time. Here is one. I'm thirty six and the
baby of the family. So thirty six. My mom says

(28:35):
she still has dreams that I'm three all the time.
And she says it's because she regrets not spending more
time with me as a kid. Yeah, I wonder if.

Speaker 5 (28:45):
There is like reason for it every time, Like if
you like, because you missed them being a kid, or
you missed it you didn't spend much.

Speaker 1 (28:52):
Time with them. And tell the dumb dream. Last night
I had vonn please a friend of mine, a faceless,
nameless friend had a pet coyote, okay, and coyote kept
chasing me around and he's like, you got to move slow.
You can't make any sudden moves around the coyote. And
I'm like, why, hey, do you have a coyote? What
the hell does that mean? Look up coyote dream?

Speaker 5 (29:14):
What does it say?

Speaker 4 (29:14):
Streaming of a coyote you often symbolizes instinct, adaptability, and cunning. No,
he proves it can also represent a warning about deception
or a need to be more resourceful.

Speaker 3 (29:28):
You're being deceived.

Speaker 1 (29:29):
Oh I know, I am Jenny.

Speaker 2 (29:32):
Okay, whatever. When did you have this dream, by the way,
about your kids being young?

Speaker 1 (29:36):
A week ago?

Speaker 3 (29:37):
Okay?

Speaker 2 (29:37):
Does it have any desire to protect them? Is there
something going on in one of their lives?

Speaker 6 (29:41):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (29:42):
Absolutely, Yeah, that's what it does. Because Carson is on
the road. He is on tour right now with Jake Scott,
and he is really working hard. And I worry about
him because he's like, I don't get a whole lot
of sleep. I'm busy all the time. But he also
loves it, so I worry about him. It's like, you
know what, buddy, you got to get some sleep. You
can't be you know, like you're not going to be
on your game. So any of course, I worry about
him all the time, all my other kids.

Speaker 3 (30:03):
That's why you're dreaming.

Speaker 1 (30:04):
That totally makes sense. We are coming back in a
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