8am Hour - Preheat The Oven

We talk to Stephanie, who needs advice on how to deal with her boyfriend in the bedroom, hear your questions for Gary Spivey, and more!

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Yeah, it's gold. It's the monster rash on Katie. All right,
we had a lot of stuff coming up on the show.
We have more boo bashed tickets, worry coming up, so
bring a carpenter keyword coming up in a few minutes.
Somebody just said that the Target layoff emails went out
at seven am. But then they also said that the
layoffs don't start until nine.

Speaker 2 (00:19):
So I guess if.

Speaker 1 (00:19):
You get laid off at seven, you got to work
until nine. Oh geez, I'm just trying to bring a
little smile in your face here.

Speaker 3 (00:24):
And confuses that get the email that says, hey, you'll
know at nine. That's what's confusing to me, is like,
isn't the seven am email?

Speaker 2 (00:32):
I I just hate to hear that.

Speaker 1 (00:33):
There's so many people who listen that work at Target
and this is such a life jolting sort of a thing.
So but everything will be okay, it always is, yeah,
am I right? Yeah, we worry, worry, worry, but everything
will be okay.

Speaker 4 (00:45):
Yeah, No, it'll be fine.

Speaker 1 (00:48):
What is your town famous for? Where are you from?
What's your town famous for? We do have one from
and over home of Bailey j Has that's me, so
use the top back feature, and let us know what
your hometown is famous for. We got some phone calls
to We're gonna get to these first. Here my phone
screener is not working, so tell me what is your name?

Speaker 5 (01:10):
Hi?

Speaker 2 (01:11):
Yeah? You yeah?

Speaker 6 (01:12):
Oh yeah, Tiana, Tiana?

Speaker 2 (01:14):
What is your what's your hometown? What's your famous for?

Speaker 7 (01:17):
Ohatana and we're famous for Owl City.

Speaker 2 (01:20):
Adam Young Yeah, yes, the Firefly saw. Yeah. Do you
ever run into him down to the quick trip anything
like that?

Speaker 6 (01:29):
Uh?

Speaker 8 (01:30):
I've ran into him out of Applebee's before.

Speaker 9 (01:32):
He's pretty well known.

Speaker 10 (01:33):
I think he got his dad a nice fancy car,
so everyone.

Speaker 6 (01:35):
Knows his dad's car when he's driving.

Speaker 2 (01:39):
Thank you, KDWB High. What's your name? He's still in
the same line. Let's try this one.

Speaker 11 (01:46):
Hi.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
What's your name?

Speaker 1 (01:49):
Max?

Speaker 2 (01:50):
Max? Where are you from? What is your hometown famous for?
From Minneapolis?

Speaker 8 (01:55):
And we're famous We invented the chair.

Speaker 1 (01:57):
The chair We did not you're making this out. The
chair was invented a long time ago in like Greece
or somewhere where. Did you hear this, Max? Well, it's
true because no one sat down before we invented the
chair here. No one sat down, you know, Jenny. Jenny
is gullible. Jenny is gullible, and Jenny's looking at me

(02:17):
like wow.

Speaker 12 (02:18):
I didn't know that I was going to say a
specific kind of chair. I obviously understand that a chair
was developed back in the I don't.

Speaker 2 (02:25):
Know, so you're telling me Max.

Speaker 1 (02:27):
Then nobody sat down until the chair was invented in Minneapolis.

Speaker 2 (02:30):
What year was that? Eighteen thirty six? Nobody sat down
and then somebody said, hey, look, have a seat. What
to get off by?

Speaker 4 (02:40):
Fuck Max?

Speaker 2 (02:43):
Because the ped was created a few years before.

Speaker 1 (02:45):
But they learned that if you're sitting in the upward position,
you can actually sleep better, so later they switched back
to the bad Okay, goodbye, Okay, goodbye Max.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
KTWB. Hi, what's your name?

Speaker 7 (03:02):
Courtney?

Speaker 2 (03:02):
Courtney? Where are you from? What is it famous for?

Speaker 7 (03:05):
I am premiers. I'm not famous from Casper, Wyoming, and
we're famous for the Platte River and the Oregon Trail.
They started fly fishing. It's start and go get their
food and fish, and there's a bunch of historic history there.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
I have been out there. You ever heard of Independence
Rock before?

Speaker 10 (03:25):
Oh?

Speaker 7 (03:25):
Yeah, you hear that it's hollow.

Speaker 1 (03:27):
Now it's not hollow. You're making this up. Why are
you saying it's hollow?

Speaker 7 (03:32):
So well, they came, they did the three D printer
scanner thing, and they found stuff inside of there, they say,
at least the.

Speaker 1 (03:41):
First chair from Minneapolis, Casper, Wyoming. Thank you appreciate that.
A bunch of talkbacks to a bunch of talkbacks. Let's
do this. Where are you're from? What is your town
famous for? I'm from chan Happening, home of Prince and
Paisley Park. Yeah, boom boom, okay, a bunch of talkbacks.

Speaker 2 (03:56):
You got them.

Speaker 10 (03:57):
Jennifer from Saint Paul.

Speaker 13 (03:58):
We're famous for the Minute the Wild and Mickey's Diner.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
Oh I heard Mickey's Diner is so good. Still haven't been.
It's cool, He's cool. Here's another one.

Speaker 14 (04:08):
This is Kimmy from Moundsville. We're famous for the Mermaid.
Fun fact, the Mermaid was removed a few years ago
and then put back at the building, all restored and
looking so fancy.

Speaker 2 (04:23):
Another talk back.

Speaker 4 (04:25):
My name is Shauna from Asco, Minnesota, and we are
known for our Rudebega Festival. I would go Have you
ever had a Rudebaka day?

Speaker 10 (04:35):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (04:36):
They're delicious, vegetable right, yes it is. It's a root egetable.

Speaker 2 (04:40):
Gotcha. What's your what is your name? And what is
your town famous for? Hello? Hello, all right, let's get
that one. Let's get that one.

Speaker 11 (04:53):
Hi.

Speaker 9 (04:54):
My name is Rachel.

Speaker 13 (04:54):
I'm from Blaine, Minnesota, famously known for having thousands of
the exact same house, so a very much created place
to live. Also, Cornapis does get some crap. However, the
kru Naples Dam is pretty dang great, so give it
some credit.

Speaker 2 (05:11):
It is okay for sure? Where are you from? What
you're town famous for?

Speaker 11 (05:16):
My name is Amanda, and I am from Rollsville, Minnesota,
which is home to the first Barnes and Noble outside
of New York City, the first Target store in the country,
and the first dairy queen in Minnesota.

Speaker 2 (05:31):
Oh wow, who knew?

Speaker 4 (05:34):
Well that's fascinating.

Speaker 2 (05:35):
The first Target store in the country.

Speaker 4 (05:36):
I guess. So wow, that makes sense.

Speaker 2 (05:39):
I like this one. It's random.

Speaker 15 (05:41):
I'm from Crazy, Minnesota, home of the world's lardest turkey
and the only bridge over bridge over water, so.

Speaker 13 (05:47):
A plane, a train, a car in a boat can
all pass the same time.

Speaker 4 (05:53):
A bridge, a bridge over.

Speaker 2 (05:55):
A bridge over a bridge over water. Wow.

Speaker 4 (05:58):
Yeah, that sounds kind of fine.

Speaker 1 (06:00):
Crazy with basically every hometown is famous for something.

Speaker 12 (06:06):
Googled Saint Louis Parcas. That's where I currently live, and
I had no idea. It's the birthplace of the Cohen Brothers. Yeah,
which is the yeah yeah know that some talk message.

Speaker 3 (06:15):
This person says, I'm from Savage, Minnesota, which is known
for being a location after Pearl Harbor for language school,
specifically for the Japanese language during World.

Speaker 2 (06:24):
War kidding, that's so neat, Okay, cool.

Speaker 1 (06:27):
Wow, here's one from Longville, Minnesota, the turtle race capital
of the world. They raise turtles in the middle of
main Race turtles every Wednesday all summer long. Okay, I
like this one. I'm Amanda from luck Wisconsin. We're famous
for the creation of the Duncan yo Yo, which is
like the premiere branded Toyo yo Yo.

Speaker 2 (06:46):
That's crazy. All right, We got to wrap up.

Speaker 1 (06:47):
We got other things wait to take care of, including
your Sabrina Carpenter keyword, which I'm gonna give you in
just a couple of seconds. Boo Bash is coming up
on Thursday night. If you're going to Boo Bash, I
just won't let you know. We're gonna start the costume contest.
The first one is at seven thirty. That'll probably be
should we save sexiest for the last one or what

(07:08):
do you think? I don't know, best overall should be last,
best overall last? Okay, So we'll probably do duo or
group for the first one at seven thirty, so be there.
Then we'll probably do it at eight o'clock we'll do sexiest,
and then about eight thirty will do the final one
for most creative overall one thousand dollars. It's gonna be
at Mystic Lake, at the Hop House at Mystic Lake.
So we get there round six, and the funny thing

(07:30):
is we get there round six and everybody shows up
a little bit late.

Speaker 2 (07:32):
So we walk in and we go, hello.

Speaker 4 (07:34):
Hello, Hello, anyone here?

Speaker 1 (07:36):
Hello, Oh, there's Bailey, And we're the only ones there
for the first half hour, and then you.

Speaker 2 (07:40):
Go, nobody's gonna show up for our party, But then
pretty soon it's packed.

Speaker 1 (07:43):
We got a DJ psychic Gary Spivey is going to
be there, Tammy the Tarot card Reader. She is online
at if you want to find her online. She has
a website. It is a hold on second amad medium
correct dot com we'll give away those tickets coming up
a little bit on KDWB right now. Though, here is

(08:04):
your Sabrina Carpenter keyword. Let's take a strip before to
win a trip to Los Angeles to see Sabrina Carpenter
at one of her sold out shows. That's tears on
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up the iHeart app and say that into the red
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(08:26):
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Speaker 2 (08:36):
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Speaker 1 (08:38):
Anyway the stars? Where do the stars go in La
to eat? You're probably gonna run into Taylor.

Speaker 16 (08:43):
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Speaker 4 (08:47):
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Speaker 2 (08:49):
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Speaker 1 (08:51):
Okay, if you want to go, then use that keyword
tears on the iHeartRadio talk back app work. I will
warn you if you got little Tiffany in the car
or little Johnny Junior in the car, this might not
be the best thing for them to hear. It's just
the little heads up, but it's not going to get

(09:14):
vulgar or anything, but it is adult. Stephanie is on
the phone. Hi, Steph, Hi, talk to me, Stephanie. What
are you on the radio for today?

Speaker 2 (09:25):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (09:26):
So, I just I was curious, you know what your
take is on this?

Speaker 17 (09:30):
But I've been dating this new guy.

Speaker 18 (09:32):
We it's about six months now, and honestly, he's he's
everything that I could ask for, you know, in a
guy and personality. I absolutely adore him.

Speaker 17 (09:46):
You know, he's kind, he's funny.

Speaker 18 (09:49):
He is great in what he does and work and
super accomplished.

Speaker 17 (09:54):
But the one thing is is that, I mean, this sex,
it's just it's not good.

Speaker 18 (10:02):
I mean it's it's it's honest, it's it's awful. It's
it's probably honestly the.

Speaker 8 (10:09):
Worst sex I've ever had. And that kills me because
he is everything.

Speaker 17 (10:14):
Else, But I mean, it is bad where.

Speaker 18 (10:18):
I don't know if I can.

Speaker 8 (10:22):
Is this something you can get over.

Speaker 1 (10:24):
Or that's a good question, But I want to dive
into specific here.

Speaker 2 (10:29):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (10:30):
Now we can't get vulgar on the radio, we can
on the Minnesota Goodbye. That's the after the show podcast.
But without getting too nasty. What are the things that
you see that he could work on and they could
do better?

Speaker 18 (10:43):
I mean he could get some rhythm, you know, so
you don't match up, so it's like push push push push,
pump pump pump push.

Speaker 2 (10:49):
Push, push, pump, pump pump.

Speaker 16 (10:53):
It just like the rhythm.

Speaker 11 (10:54):
Like that.

Speaker 1 (10:59):
A problem, Jenny, Yeah, some guys think some guys think
that that's better. Yeah, okay, it's a race. Okay, guys,
that's not always true. Okay, no rhythm, what else?

Speaker 8 (11:11):
No rhythm? I mean the way that he grabs my boobs,
it's like.

Speaker 17 (11:17):
It's like they're stressful to him.

Speaker 8 (11:20):
I mean it's like you have never.

Speaker 17 (11:22):
Known how to, you know, intimantly be with it is.

Speaker 8 (11:29):
It's like he doesn't know how to use his instrument.
You could say, I am just okay. He also just
he wraps things up really.

Speaker 17 (11:42):
Fast, if you will.

Speaker 1 (11:44):
Okay, So he's on and then he's like grab a
grab and then he's like then he's done, he's done.

Speaker 4 (11:51):
And then you're left there like okay, and what about me?

Speaker 16 (11:54):
All right?

Speaker 2 (11:55):
Yes, exactly, I'm sorry.

Speaker 4 (12:00):
Sorry.

Speaker 1 (12:00):
I wonder why it is that so many wonderful guys
just don't know. And I think it is because nobody
has ever told them, because who's going to ever say,
you know what, Troy, you need to slow down and
a little bit take your time.

Speaker 15 (12:16):
I think that's a sign of a good communication, though,
if you can have that conversation like here's what I
like or here's what I would like you to do instead.

Speaker 2 (12:23):
Ideally, yeah, ideally.

Speaker 1 (12:26):
And had a girl once tell me that, like God,
is that how you kiss or something like that, and
I'm like, oh, man, because that's a real blot because
you think you're doing a good job.

Speaker 2 (12:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (12:38):
Well, the question is it's not how to make him better.
Hopefully with a little instruction and guidance over time, things
will get better.

Speaker 2 (12:45):
It's like, no, try this or no, not there there.

Speaker 4 (12:50):
But what if it doesn't, that's the question.

Speaker 1 (12:52):
What if it doesn't, can the relationship still work out?

Speaker 15 (12:57):
I don't know, man, Let's be real to me, is
such a big part of a relationship. I'm not saying
completely dump them, but if you're trying to be like
effectively communicating, and it doesn't seem like he's trying to
affect make you effectively change then.

Speaker 12 (13:15):
And so that he can get better at sex. So
this should not be a deal breaker. Go see a
sex therapist. Let me tell you, six months into a relationship,
you're not going to tell the person you're seeing, hey,
maybe you should go see.

Speaker 16 (13:26):
A sex therapist.

Speaker 12 (13:28):
Like that's just yeah, it's that's an uncomfortable conversation and
a blow to that person's ego.

Speaker 2 (13:34):
Right, I do totally.

Speaker 3 (13:35):
A lot of people are saying, you know, hey, you
can teach an old dog new tricks. Just be upfront
and open with what you want. And a lot of
people are saying, hey, you just got to talk to him,
just got to talk to him.

Speaker 4 (13:44):
But I think a great question is how how do
you do that?

Speaker 3 (13:48):
Because that would be such an awkward like, hey, babe,
can you sit down for a second.

Speaker 4 (13:52):
I really got to talk to you about something.

Speaker 1 (13:53):
Can I Can I tell you one thing that there
was this girl that I dated and she kissed like
a bass. If you think of a bass that you
pull out a little fist and the bass is like
struggling for air and their their jaws are gulping and gaping,
and that is how she kissed. And I remember just saying, hey,
you know what, just slow down, relax, and once she

(14:13):
learned from the master how to kiss your mom mom,
then she really enjoyed it. So I think sometimes you
don't want to fix everything at once. I'm gonna guess Stephanie,
you can't be like, okay number one, slow down, number two,
take your time number two, don't grab me like I'm
as stressful. I think if you just handle one thing,
like I don't know how to say it without sounding

(14:36):
really stupid, okay, but like you know, ouch ouch oh,
those are sensitive. For example, what.

Speaker 3 (14:41):
If you say it once though, and it doesn't clock
for them? How many times? I'm just trying to think, like,
is there a way to get through if it's not
like received, you know, like yeah, hey that hurt, Oh
that hurts, don't do it like that. And then the
next time it comes back around and it's the same
exact thing, and you're like, hey, didn't I just talk
about this and you didn't like retain it at all.

Speaker 12 (15:02):
So without having the sit down conversation, when you're actually
in the act, you're saying like you're reacting in the
way that you would normally react, not pretending.

Speaker 16 (15:10):
Yeah, and then they still do it that way.

Speaker 1 (15:12):
Well, the problem is she's been you've been kind of
pretending that you liked it this whole time.

Speaker 8 (15:17):
Right, Well, I mean, I definitely I am reacting a
little bit in the moment, but it does seem.

Speaker 17 (15:27):
Like it just kind of goes over his head.

Speaker 8 (15:30):
So, yeah, I'm confused as to whether or not I
should say something, you know, in the bedroom or yeah, well, let.

Speaker 1 (15:38):
Me grab a phone call real quick because we got
to take a break. We can continue on the other
side of the break here. So basically, we're not trying
to be sillacious or do you know whatever. But she's
it's it's so important, and it's not dirty or vulgar.
It's that's the love and the relationship is not good
while everything else is pretty good. I don't have your name.
My phone screen is not working. But you're on the
phone and you want to comment to Stephanie.

Speaker 2 (15:58):
What's your name, Ebie? Okay, what you want to say
about it?

Speaker 6 (16:03):
Well, just listening to the conversation.

Speaker 9 (16:05):
If it's worth the relationship to you to stick around,
Just like Dave said, you got to have the conversation.
I've been married for twelve years, got married very young,
and in the beginning of my relationship, I did take
it because I thought that's what I had to do,
and I thought that's what girls have to kind of
don if it's not the best, just act like it's
all right. No, absolutely not. Just let them know, like, hey,

(16:26):
it feels a lot better when you do it this way,
or it might.

Speaker 6 (16:28):
Feel better if you do it this way, or let's
try it this way.

Speaker 9 (16:31):
I think conversation piece is definitely needed in this. You
did not have to suffer.

Speaker 1 (16:35):
Through that girl, because the longer it goes on, the
lot harder it's going to be to fix.

Speaker 2 (16:41):
The whole thing.

Speaker 1 (16:41):
Oh yeah, hold on, we'll come back into second more
on the other side of this one. If you've got
any comments. There's a lot of people texting that that
sounds like their relationship. Guys, pay attention and we'll be
right back on Katie R.

Speaker 2 (16:58):
Again.

Speaker 1 (16:59):
We're not trying to be weird or salacious or dirty
or whatever, but it's a little bit more of an
adult group therapy. And I always give you a little
warning that if you got little Timmy in the car
or a little uh, Jeanine in the car. Then first
of all, sure, she's she shouldn't be named Janine. That's
an old lady name. But if you have a little
kid in the car, this is probably not the best
thing to listen to. But it's also it's not you know,

(17:19):
it's just it's more for adults, not dirty, but for adults.

Speaker 2 (17:22):
Stephanie's on the phone.

Speaker 1 (17:23):
Give me your sum up your problem with your boyfriend
in one sentence, Stephanie.

Speaker 18 (17:28):
Okay, I I've been dating him for about six weeks.
I love everything about him, but a sex is awful.

Speaker 1 (17:36):
Awful, awful, And we were talking about, you know, not
just how do you fix it, but can it work
even if the love and is not so good because
you can talk to him and you can be like, oh,
that's a little bit, you know, slow down a little bit.

Speaker 9 (17:49):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (17:49):
I remember when I was brand new at like, you know,
like relationships cricket, what my girlfriend at the time said,
you don't have to jam your tongue all the way
down my throat, And I said, oh, I honestly thought
that's what you did. I didn't know. So then you
learn to like just you know, slowly and you know

(18:13):
what else you can? You can you can hold a position,
you don't have to be constantly moving.

Speaker 2 (18:16):
You can go.

Speaker 12 (18:20):
List I'm not looking at you, the microphones in my way.

Speaker 2 (18:27):
Yourself blessed?

Speaker 4 (18:29):
Gosh.

Speaker 1 (18:30):
All right, So the question is, and we've got a
bunch of text messages on this one, not just can
you teach them, but will it work even if you go, man,
I love this guy. They're wonderful. I always happy when
I'm around them, but it's just not good loving. Can
it work out? Elliott is on the phone with some input.
Good morning, Elliott, what do you want to share with

(18:53):
this Elliott?

Speaker 19 (18:54):
Well, you guys were speaking about how did you bring
yoursel up in a conversation? So I'm thinking I'm thinking
she could strike up like a flirtatious conversation and then
bring up his interest rather than hers and kind of
you know, hey.

Speaker 9 (19:07):
So what do you like?

Speaker 19 (19:08):
What position do you like?

Speaker 3 (19:10):
Oh?

Speaker 19 (19:10):
Well, I like this and I like that, which would
be a good time for her to kind of expread that,
and then when they're doing the business, it won't come
off so awkward when she's like, oh, you know, let's
try to remember what remember when I told you let's.

Speaker 3 (19:22):
Try that, so making it seem like he's the one
coming up with ideas versus put the ball in his court.

Speaker 2 (19:31):
Okay, gotcha.

Speaker 1 (19:32):
Why do you think, Elliott, that so many guys are
kind of clueless when it comes on, it comes as
like they you know, they hop on, they go for
their eight seconds, and then it's like, okay, cowboy, we're
all done. Why do you think so many guys are clueless?

Speaker 8 (19:43):
I think it's just social media and everything they have.
You know, they have these younger.

Speaker 19 (19:47):
You know, kids confoos on what love is and what
you know bating should be, and you know.

Speaker 1 (19:52):
They just I don't know, to sate yourself, Elliott, time
to rate yourself as a lover on a scale of.

Speaker 2 (19:59):
Being the highest.

Speaker 19 (20:00):
Oh man, listen, I want to be a sex therapist.

Speaker 7 (20:02):
Let's let's put it like that, all alliant?

Speaker 16 (20:07):
Are you sayingle I am?

Speaker 3 (20:09):
I am?

Speaker 2 (20:16):
And what's citing a you're from?

Speaker 3 (20:17):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (20:19):
Not to stand on the corner in Brooklyn Park, Elliott, I.

Speaker 4 (20:22):
Got my thumb is out? Anyone? Anyone?

Speaker 15 (20:25):
There is some truth to that, though, like p on
and social media, it all makes you think that sex
is one way and it so is not.

Speaker 2 (20:34):
Let's just be so in.

Speaker 1 (20:36):
The capital P world, the woman enjoys whatever is going on. Yea,
you know what I mean. He can be doing it
all wrong in this way and that way and that way,
and yeah, and the woman is enjoying it because it's
you know, it's.

Speaker 2 (20:48):
P P world.

Speaker 3 (20:50):
I think a lot of text messages that are saying like, hey,
bring it up in the moment, bring it up, it's there.
I'm also seeing one that's saying, hey, communication isn't just
speaking up, it's also listening.

Speaker 4 (20:59):
So he has to be willing to hear you.

Speaker 3 (21:02):
And if you bring it up like in the moment
at the time, it might not be the right time
because he's not listening right then. So having I I
think the people who are saying hey, like actually have
a conversation like what Elliott just said, Hey, what do
you like about this that the other thing, versus in
the moment, because he might not be hearing you in
that moment.

Speaker 15 (21:20):
Somebody texted and said they need to have a Subprina
Carpenter moment where she does this on on stage when
she's like, have you ever tried this one?

Speaker 2 (21:27):
And should do with sex position on.

Speaker 4 (21:29):
Stage on this one?

Speaker 2 (21:31):
I like this one.

Speaker 1 (21:32):
Does he preheat the oven first or did you just
throw the cake right in there?

Speaker 6 (21:35):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (21:36):
Good question. Yeah, that's a good question too.

Speaker 12 (21:38):
Pre Heat in the oven is more important than throwing
the cake in there, just honest, you don't Just so
every every recipe is up to stove.

Speaker 16 (21:51):
Or well that other kind that doesn't really matter for
the oven.

Speaker 4 (21:55):
But I don't know.

Speaker 12 (21:55):
Some people need it at four hundred and twenty five degrees,
some people only needed at like three p fifty.

Speaker 15 (22:00):
If some people need it for fifteen minutes, some people
could use like a good.

Speaker 4 (22:03):
Twenty five and time broilers.

Speaker 2 (22:06):
You better make that type of time.

Speaker 16 (22:09):
Only things. We're actually talking about making a recipe right now.

Speaker 2 (22:11):
Which she sucks at anyway, So I don't know why
she's learned.

Speaker 1 (22:16):
Okay, basically, let's get let's answer her question those best
we can.

Speaker 2 (22:20):
She wants to know.

Speaker 1 (22:21):
Okay, the relationship work out, even though the love in
his subpar.

Speaker 3 (22:25):
And a lot of people are agreeing that, yes it can.
You have to teach him, but maybe not right in
the moment as it's happening, because he might not be
hearing you in that moment.

Speaker 4 (22:34):
But having to have a conversation about it.

Speaker 3 (22:35):
And communicating, because if you can't communicate, then you shouldn't
be doing.

Speaker 4 (22:37):
It in the first place.

Speaker 12 (22:39):
Jenny, I was gonna say a lot of people are
saying just try to communicate because he seems to be
a really good person in all other aspects. That sex
is definitely something that you can teach people. It sucks
that you have to.

Speaker 1 (22:52):
But here's something interesting in text message at katiewb one
and thanks for all these. My husband has Asperger's no
social cues exact sex issue. Great guy, but no clue
in the bedroom. They want to know what to do,
but they can't emotionally handle being told interesting.

Speaker 15 (23:07):
Okay, you have to be able to be emostly like
to be told that. I and I don't know if
other people are like this. Sometimes I'll ask, like can
I am I doing something wrong? Not in that moment,
but I'll ask can I be doing something better? Because
I care about pleasing my partner? So I hope that
he's like that, that he's willing to care about pleasing
your partner too. So you and I have that.

Speaker 1 (23:24):
Punch you God, he's trying to be friendly.

Speaker 20 (23:30):
God.

Speaker 1 (23:33):
But hey, Stephanie, I think that the good news is
you can work it out, but it's going to take
some work.

Speaker 17 (23:38):
Okay, this has been so helpful, really, I think for
a lot of people.

Speaker 1 (23:42):
Honestly, I think a lot of people have realized I'm
not the only one with a clueless man in the bedroom.

Speaker 18 (23:47):
Yeah, it sounds hopeful, so I definitely am gonna, you know,
bring it up and ask him, uh, you know, put
the ball.

Speaker 1 (23:56):
In his court, changing lives one color at a time.
We do improop therapy. We'll be back in a second
on KADIEWB with us. We're gonna do some boom Bash
tickets right now. We haven't done this in a couple
of minutes, so let's get you boo Bash tickets. If
you want to go and you're free on Thursday night
and you've got a costume, you want to throw one together.
It doesn't have to be Elepard. I don't care if
you wear like it just a mask or a hat.

(24:17):
We'll make fun of you, but well, you know, show
up with whatever you want at Mystic Lake Hop House,
Thursday night, six until nine. Costume contest, get a reading
with Gary Spivey, the world's most gifted psychic. Tammy is
going to be doing your tarot card reader about three
or four minutes of tarot cards. She's online at madmedium
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Can you give an example.

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Blood, okay that's, Great, bailey thank.

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there's no. Question thanks for one up and. Me, god come,
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Don't, yes they.

Speaker 2 (25:38):
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Speaker 16 (25:42):
Who Justin guarini.

Speaker 3 (25:43):
Is justin Who my sister cried when he didn't, Win really.

Speaker 12 (25:48):
Didn't he go Against Kelly. Clarkson your sister thought that
he should have Beat Kelly.

Speaker 3 (25:53):
Clarkson hey, listen we were like, Twelve, okay we had a.

Speaker 4 (25:57):
Lot of strong feelings.

Speaker 2 (25:58):
LOVE i love Just.

Speaker 1 (25:59):
Ine as matter of, FACT i left him a twenty
percent tip at the ie hop last.

Speaker 2 (26:03):
Night so there's a new.

Speaker 1 (26:09):
Thing it's great to go out and catch up with the,
friends but the bar bills add. Up So reddit is going.
Viral we're coming up with a, fun, wholesome inexpensive alternative baking.
Cookies so you have your friends over to the house
and you like you look at your recipe, books you
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and we each walked away with a dozen. Cookies we
had tea and, milk and it was so so nice
and it was way more memorable than hanging out in
a noisy. Bar so another. Idea pumpkin carving or painting
is another group. Activity so, cooking making cookies pumpkins another.
One we used to meet at a Local mexican, restaurant
have a twelve dog gall Or. Margarita now we meet

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at her house and watch the new season Of survivor
and have snacks in a.

Speaker 2 (26:56):
Drink sound? Fun so much fun and a lot. Cheaper, Yeah,
jenny we.

Speaker 4 (26:59):
Should have a cookie. PARTY i come over and you make.

Speaker 16 (27:01):
Cookies, Oh, bailey that's.

Speaker 12 (27:03):
OKAY i do enjoy baking a, lot so that brings
me a lot of, joy SO i would have no
problem doing.

Speaker 3 (27:08):
That, okay, great, YAY i can't wait And i'll eat.

Speaker 1 (27:11):
Them, also thank, You, bailey very kind of. You, also
are you dressing up your pet For? Halloween according To
google's fright geast Fright geist trends for twenty twenty, five
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sure how you dress up as AN i hop it, okay, chicken,
crypto pickleball, Champ superman thing From Adam's, family a pet
Spider glinda From, wicked an ambulance The Lorax elvis that'd
be kind of, funny and a flying monkey.

Speaker 15 (27:48):
C selection CAN i take this time to plug my cute?
Puppy ava and her prisoner? Costume not only do we
get her a prisoner. Costume but when we tell her
to go to her, cage we say, prison not We
i'd solely do, that.

Speaker 2 (28:00):
And she does it and she.

Speaker 15 (28:01):
Follows she's like, okay and Her instagram is at it's aba.
Girl if you gonna go follow my, bag you go
check that. Out, well are you gonna Put bernie in a, Costume,
Dave you're probably not because we don't have any where
to show it.

Speaker 1 (28:11):
Off and when the kids comfort he he doesn't really
react well to the, doorbell so he gets a little.
Excited he, barks he wants to find out what's going.
On he's never gonna hurt. Anybody he loves, people he loves.
Kids but he's just a little. Bit you know when
some little kids don't like. Dogs, yeah you, know she
get a dog and you're doing trick or treat and
doing candy and. Stuff my suggestion put your dog, away
so we'll put him in the.

Speaker 3 (28:31):
Kennel especially when you like they open the door to
give you candy and their dog comes running at.

Speaker 4 (28:36):
You, Terrifying absolutely terrifying to some.

Speaker 2 (28:39):
Kids it really.

Speaker 23 (28:40):
Is.

Speaker 1 (28:40):
Yeah we had a little boy scout come by Selling
christmas frees the other day and his dad warned us
in advance because they're a. Neighbor and he, said, yeah
he's you, know he got attacked by a, dog you,
know when he was, little so he's not crazy about.
Dogs so we Put bernie.

Speaker 3 (28:52):
Away but what if you put him in a little
outfit then he won't be nearly a scarl costume if
he's dressed up as an ice cream.

Speaker 2 (28:58):
Cone, no sometimes something to think.

Speaker 1 (29:00):
About all, right what are we doing, Here, jenny BECAUSE
i don't want to get you ahead of.

Speaker 2 (29:05):
Ourselves.

Speaker 12 (29:05):
Yeah, no we are actually going to give away something super.
Special we've never done this, before But Gary, spivey the
world's most gifted. Psychic he's going to be on the
show On thursday And friday, morning and we're actually gonna
give away private reading to someone to come in and
talk To, gary or you can just be on the
phone with him when he's in studio with. Us so
what we need from you is you need to tell

(29:26):
us what do you want to Ask? Gary and we're
going to get a bunch of people on the phone
and whoever has the juiciest question gets the private reading With.

Speaker 1 (29:35):
Gary so example of not juicy would be Like i'm
gonna have a, baby is it gonna be a boy
or a. Girl, YEAH i, mean you're gonna love it either.
Way or will my husband ever get caught for embezzling
From Wells? Fargo now that's a good juicy.

Speaker 3 (29:50):
Question or WHEN i was twenty ONE i lost a
piece of my memory over the night Of july, Twelfth
DID i kill?

Speaker 22 (29:57):
Someone, okay something like, that something like, that Terrifying bailey.

Speaker 3 (30:01):
Exactly that's why they would Need Gary. Spivey if you call.

Speaker 1 (30:05):
Me, out think about it for a, second and we're
going to load the phones. Up we'll give you a
minute or two to load the phones up at sixty
five to one nine eight NINE, kdwb you tell us
what you would Ask Gary, spivey and this, ONE i,
mean it's basically entertain. Us the more salacious and the
more entertaining it, is the better chance you have to win.

Speaker 2 (30:21):
That so remember if it's just, like WILL i ever
find the? ONE i?

Speaker 1 (30:25):
MAY i hope you, do And i'm sure you. Will
but that's not juicy. Enough but are which of the
three married Guys i'm seeing is the one THAT i should.
Pursue now that that would be a good, One, okay
six' five one nine eight NINE. Kd wb if you've
never Heard Of, gary spivey he is the world's most gifted.

(30:47):
Psychic medium he's been on the show, for many, many
years and, People Goes, gary, spivey legit. YOU Know i my, experience,
is yes we wouldn't have. HIM model i didn't think
there was so. THING there a big believer in psychics all. The,
Time NO but i will tell you one time he
did something that was. So amazing when my, Dad died

(31:07):
susan had spent the night before he died with him
And singing christmas songs and kind. Of killed my dad,
couldn't sleep so, he was, you know up all night
in the hospital and My wife susan was there with
him and held his hand And sang christmas songs and told,
you know stories and whatever and so and then he
died the. Next day and Then So gary spivey was
on a couple of, weeks LATER and, i said how's my?

Speaker 2 (31:26):
Dad?

Speaker 1 (31:26):
Doing oh, you know he dabbah bah Bah By and, i'm, like, okay.
Yeah whatever so we, hang up have a. Good day
gary calls me back three minutes later, he's like my
dad won't leave. Me alone your dad won't leave. Me alone,
he says you got To tell susan. Thank You and,
i'm like and there's No way gary would have known anything. About,
That Wow and, i'm, Like boo maybe there's. Something there,

(31:46):
Another One, amy hawker who is A big tv news
anchor Over on. Fox nine we were doing a show
one Time And amy hawker was in studio and Here Comes.
Gary spivey he looks, at her, he goes you're going
to meet a Guy. From florida you're gonna get married
to this Guy. In Florida and, amy's, like yeah get out.
Of here she met a Guy. From florida well she
got married and now they have. Chilled children oh, my,

(32:07):
god amazing Shout. Out amy so there is. Something there
so what we want you to do is tell us
what you want To. Ask gary if you want to
win a free private reading, fifteen minutes you can learn
a lot in fifteen Minutes. From gary we'll have you
on the Phone with gary privately nobody's. Listening in or
you can come down to the radio station and meet
him and bring your sister if. YOU want i don't care.
You want that'll be on what day.

Speaker 16 (32:29):
That's going To, Be.

Speaker 1 (32:29):
Thursday, THURSDAY okay i don't have the names, OF people
voncei you might want to help.

Speaker 15 (32:33):
Me out so, line three this one's about us some
secrets in, your family secrets in.

Speaker 1 (32:38):
The, family hi you don't have to tell me. Your,
name yeah what's? Been anonymous what do you want To?

Speaker 2 (32:42):
Ask, GARY well i wanted To.

Speaker 24 (32:45):
ASK gary i am recently and happily divorced from now,
as husband and over the, last year his mother has
started devolging some family SECRETS that i may be one
of the only people in the entire family, to know
including that she gave a child up for adoption when she,
was seventeen and my husband is also adopted into, the

(33:06):
family and we recently did ancestry. Dot com is how
some Of you fagrit started ping out of. His mom
but there are SEVERAL that i know that his key
and his siblings do. Not KNOW so I guess i'm
just Curious what jary would tell me or what he
could force see in the future of me knowing these
family secrets and navigating a.

Speaker 2 (33:25):
Contentric, course okay it's. Very good hold on.

Speaker 15 (33:29):
One second, line four is this one's about something you're
wondering about Your.

Speaker 2 (33:33):
Coworker okay going about. A coworker? What's, UP.

Speaker 7 (33:37):
Hey i am wondering at a new JOBS and i
am wondering if one of the PEOPLE that i work
with us with my husband twenty.

Speaker 2 (33:46):
Years, ago oh what makes you think?

Speaker 7 (33:48):
They?

Speaker 9 (33:49):
DID well i recognize.

Speaker 7 (33:51):
The name it's kind of a, common, name Though so,
i'm like is?

Speaker 6 (33:54):
It?

Speaker 12 (33:55):
Her oh so you know the name of, The person
you're just not sure because It's Like jenny smith and
that could.

Speaker 16 (34:02):
Be anybody.

Speaker 10 (34:03):
Keep, on, yeah, exactly.

Speaker 9 (34:05):
Yes exactly, but.

Speaker 2 (34:06):
Yeah okay. Very interesting.

Speaker 15 (34:10):
Line five something that happened five? Years, ago okay what's
up from five? Years ago what do you want To?

Speaker 6 (34:15):
Ask gary five, YEARS ago i started cheating on my
husband of over twenty. Five YEARS and i took ten.

Speaker 9 (34:24):
Lovers total a few, MONTHS.

Speaker 6 (34:26):
Ago i completely stopped seeing all. OF them i want
to keep a secret from. My husband will be able
to keep?

Speaker 17 (34:33):
A secret, oh?

Speaker 8 (34:34):
Girl?

Speaker 1 (34:36):
Juicy wow ten lovers in the span of. Five, years,
yeah okay no, judging.

Speaker 4 (34:43):
Here but she cheated on.

Speaker 2 (34:45):
Her, Husband no i'm not here to.

Speaker 1 (34:47):
Judge, people okay if you judged, every cheese there are
people cheating that you don't even.

Speaker 2 (34:50):
Know, ABOUT no, i know and you. Love, them sure, m,
hmm okay.

Speaker 4 (34:55):
No judging why are you looking at me so? Hard
today they're just staring at me?

Speaker 2 (35:03):
All right, Last one this one's about your. Dad's, girlfriend hi?
Dad's girlfriend? What's?

Speaker 10 (35:07):
UP hey i was just Curious if gary could tell
me what or how many kinds of demons my dad's.
Girlfriend has she is a really, nice lady but like
a couple of, months ago it just She doctor jackyll
missed her HYDE and i am not sure what trigger.
Is IT and i am just, so curious, you know
because she is really NICE and i think she needs

(35:31):
some help Maybe.

Speaker 1 (35:32):
From gary what can you be a little bit more
specific and titillating about what? SHE does, i mean you
want to, win?

Speaker 17 (35:38):
This.

Speaker 10 (35:39):
Right yeah so, IT'S like i, don't know she's just
so weird about, like past like they're middle aged people
AND it's i, don't know it's, just crazy like she'll
come to his house and she'll, be, LIKE oh i
feel that, you know maybe this ex energy is still

(36:00):
here from five, years ago or you'll just kind of
strange stuff.

Speaker 1 (36:05):
Like, That, Okay okay so here's the ones. We have
we have the, the secrets the. FAMILY secrets a lot
of stuff that the coworker did the coworkers sleep with
her husband ex husband twenty. Years ago she got started
cheating on her husband five. Years ago she took, ten
lovers and then she wonders whether her husband will ever
find out or the one you. Just, Heard, so jenny

(36:27):
you get to. Decide today what do? You, think oh it's, On, You,
JENNY well i know.

Speaker 12 (36:33):
Which one's, the JUICIEST but i don't KNOW if i
necessarily want to gift.

Speaker 4 (36:37):
This reading but you get to, hear more?

Speaker 12 (36:40):
All right judging Being judging jane that people get mad
at and mad at us when we reward people.

Speaker 2 (36:46):
For mat make, a stand, Do?

Speaker 16 (36:47):
You, jenny well then the.

Speaker 5 (36:48):
Woman who cheated on her husband is. The, winner okay
but the loves. Ten lavas guess what you're going to
come in? On you if you want to, come in
you can. Come in if you want to do it on.
The phone we'll get your Answer from Gary on Friday. Or,
thursday okay.

Speaker 11 (37:03):
Are?

Speaker 3 (37:04):
You?

Speaker 1 (37:04):
There, yeah, okay good that's. Good news What if, carry, says,
oh yeah he's gonna. Find out i'm gonna find out
about all ten.

Speaker 2 (37:11):
Of them Or imagine gary says he's also had. Ten Lavas,
not gary, Your husband Oh, not gary talk about?

Speaker 11 (37:17):
Your?

Speaker 1 (37:17):
Hospital good, all right, Hold on we'll get you all. Your, information, okay.

Speaker 4 (37:21):
Okay everybody else who, called in you can still.

Speaker 1 (37:23):
Call in and Talk. To gary you'll just have to
call and. Get through Because when, gary's on what time has?

Speaker 12 (37:27):
He gone so we're going to have him on at
eight Am on. Thursday morning he'll also Be on friday
morning at.

Speaker 16 (37:32):
Seven, am okay so.

Speaker 1 (37:35):
You can still call the answer get your. Questions answered
you'll just have to call or text or send. An
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sounds very Much Like Ocean's eleven, oceans, twelve, thirteen fourteen whatever,
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you're a professional THIEF like, i, AM right i was
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it right in the middle of, the daytime and they
wore like these bright like caution sign or not, caution
signs like worker, reflective vests and so they kind of
just look, LIKE workers i guess to the random person
that's at. The Museum but i've seen people, being like
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all going to be like the people who did, the
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in march and then head out on a massive.

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World tour so this IS giant k pop but boy.
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South korea so now they are back and they've got
to have a new album and a.

Speaker 2 (39:44):
New.

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Tour yay he's just.

Speaker 15 (39:45):
Really, exciting yeah speaking of, New music i'm here. For
This kevin jonas really announced the release date for his,
Debut Single Changing.

Speaker 2 (39:54):
Im change it's.

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So good keep been performing it live on tour and, everybody's, Like,
yeah kevin because this is the first time in the
Twenty years jones' brothers have been a thing that he's
doing something by himself.

Speaker 3 (40:10):
And it comes out he only did it at that
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In, minnesota well then he's.

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Doing it, at selections so what? The Heck but november
twenty is when that single.

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remember he's ninety five. Years old he's in a retirement
nursing home and he Started At Taylor Swift fan club
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then twenty and now it's. A hundred someone has to sponsor.

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