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July 18, 2025 • 35 mins
We talk catfishing, family dynamic, and more!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's Katie WV on The Dave Ryan Show. Thanks for
coming out to Bark in the Park last night. We
had a great time. We're already working on a new one.
We're gonna hit a different area town next week. We
can either hit like Southeast down toward Cottage Grove or
Hastings or something like that. Or we can hit up
by Mounds View or White Bear Leg or Art Hills
something like that. So we're working on one in the
next couple of weeks, so we'll try to get one

(00:21):
out set up for you. I get an email and
I want you to This is somebody who thinks their
friend is being catfish. Now when you hear this, I
don't think you'll have any doubt their friend is being catfished. Hello,
I'm ninety nine percent sure my best friend is getting
catfished by a man online, and I don't know if
I should say something to her about it or not.
The backstory is she is an absolutely wonderful person, but

(00:43):
she's forty four, never married. She always puts other people
first and unfortunately has very low self esteem, so it's
hard for her to put herself out there. Well. She
tried the dating apps and a guy that I'm gonna call.
Kevin reached out to her with compliments and they started
talking through tech. Actually, it all seemed fine at first
until I recently heard that he was saying, I love you. Okay,

(01:07):
that's weird. I love you. They've never met before. They
have they live an hour apart, supposedly, but they've never
met in person yet. They have face timed twice, but
not since because why the camera on his phone broke?

Speaker 2 (01:22):
Oh god, okay, I want to know.

Speaker 1 (01:25):
Who was the face she was looking at when she
was facetiming. That's that's I think a fair question. Whose
face was that? Could have been some guy who just
jumped on really quick, and maybe he does that dozens
of times a day with different women to kind of
lure you in. It was dark, and you know, could
be when they were finally ready to meet. Check this out.

(01:51):
His construction company want to contract in Dubai, Dubai, and
he had to leave in a day or two. Okay,
we're ready to meet. Oh my god, on Sunday to
come over. We're gonna go out and get coffee. Friday night,
he calls and says, I gotta go to Dubai. Of course,
once there, he asked her for money because he needed
to pay his crew after a bank screw up. Okay,

(02:14):
all the signs are there, ye needs money, clearly a
million red flags. But she's my best friend, very sensitive.
I'm afraid that she'll get really upset with me and
stop telling me anything. Any advice from anybody who listens
to the show would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much,
love your show. And I know there are people who

(02:34):
have been catfished. I know my friend Nate. His mom
got catfished by somebody pretending to be the actor James Spader,
and she was like seventy four years old. She went
on a fan page and then James Spader, not really him,
started to interact with her and she fell for the
whole thing.

Speaker 3 (02:50):
We had a listener and too call in once and
said that her her mom, who was married to her
dad sell was getting totally swindled and scammed by some
guy who said he was a dentist in like Brazil
or something. Yes, and her husband was a dentist, so
she felt like some weird connection to it. And she
said her mom was always like very well with it,
like she's not losing it or anything. She's a smart person,

(03:12):
but she like fell for this person and they had
to try to figure out how to be like, this
is not a real person.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
Mom. We had a woman on the other day and
she was talking about how Bailey will spy on people
and do a background check when she meets a guy
that she's interested in. And the old woman said, I
wish i'd done that because I got scammed out of
twenty five thousand dollars. And she's like, I felt so
stupid because I'm a smart, successful person, but she got scammed.

(03:38):
So what would you tell somebody? And I think that's true.
It's like I think that her concern is valid. Where
she's like, you know, listen, this is fake. You're being catfished.
She'd be like, no, I'm not, You're just jealous. Yeah,
you've never wanted me to have a relationship. You've always
put down the guys that I've seen or whatever. And
then she won't tell her anymore. So what can she do?

Speaker 3 (04:00):
First text says be straightforward. If she is your friend,
she'll listen or if not, appreciate the honesty.

Speaker 1 (04:06):
It will come out one day. Yeah that she was right.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
It's just so odd to me.

Speaker 4 (04:11):
That you know, watching the show Catfish that people with
how much like a technology there is in twenty twenty
five that people still fall for all these red flags.
And in this scenario, it's red flag after red flag, Yeah,
after red flag. It's not just one thing that's like,
oh but maybe this.

Speaker 5 (04:25):
I feel like when you're looking for love that desperately
and you just want to be loved, like any like
morsel of attention will satisfy that, and then you'll continue
to want to you know, like.

Speaker 2 (04:38):
Feed into that. Yeah.

Speaker 5 (04:39):
True, even if it's you know, red flag after red
flag after red flag, you'd be like, you're rationalizing it,
and you're right.

Speaker 1 (04:44):
Thing so, because I think there's nothing quite like the
feeling of being adored by somebody that you want to
be adored by, not by somebody you don't want to
be adored by. That's called the stalker. But if you
are being adored by somebody who's like I just woke
up thinking about you this morning and I just want
to say good morning, handsome, or I was thinking about you,
and oh, I don't care where we go when I'm

(05:06):
with you, we just always have such a great time.
I think being adored is probably part of the allure
of somebody who's being catfish, because especially here's somebody who's
forty four, they've never been married, they've probably never been
that sounds sad, rarely been adored, And I think that's
part of the allure.

Speaker 5 (05:23):
And I mean, when you meet people online, you don't
have to go through kind of like the social awkwardness
of getting to know someone or approaching someone. So it's
easier to like initially meet online. So if you have
like a prime good catfisher who's like, ooh, I'm going to,
you know, love bomb you right at the beginning, then
it's going to be like, Wow, I just met this
guy online and he's so great and wonderful and he

(05:46):
loves me so much.

Speaker 2 (05:47):
I know he's really good at what he does.

Speaker 1 (05:50):
Here's some text messages. I'm a police officer. Just had
a romance scam come through with the same details scam
the lady out of thousands same deys, so they can't
FaceTime because the camera on his phone broke. Then he
went out of the country and he needed money to
pay his crew, so she gave him money. Here's a
longer text message. It says a really long time ago

(06:11):
I used to chat with this guy on the internet,
kind of like boyfriend girlfriend, but we'd never met same thing.
He could never talk on the webcam because it was
broken or too dark or whatever. Then we lost contact
for a handful of years. Then out of the blue,
he calls my phone and I'm happy to hear from him.
We talk and chat and it's fine. I tell him
how I'm starting this new job, and all of a sudden,
this new job, I'm getting flowers and balloons and stuffed

(06:32):
animals and pizza and all kinds of stuff sent to me.
And I never told them where I was working. It
was all so scary and I will never talk to
that person again. So he looked her up and found
out that sounds like it was just like a stalker. Yeah,
I mean that's frightening, creepy, totally happing.

Speaker 5 (06:50):
I'm not sure you were catfish, but I like, it's
it's wild to think like this is a little bit
of a tangent, but it's wild to think, like going
back use the Internet when I was younger, and I
know for a fact now looking back on it in hindsight,
that I was talking to some like grown adult dudes.

Speaker 2 (07:08):
Me too, which is so weird because I was like
a thirteen year old girl.

Speaker 1 (07:12):
Oh seriously, yeah, And I missed part of that. I
was looking at text messages. So you were thirteen on
chat just like on like we were on.

Speaker 5 (07:18):
Me and my sister were on Harry Potter message boards
talking to other Harry Potter fans.

Speaker 2 (07:22):
And you could talk on Napster too. Yeah, you could
talk get into chats.

Speaker 3 (07:26):
And I was such a such a stupid child that
I'd be like, you know, I'm eighteen whatever, and then
they'd be like, well, what do you look like?

Speaker 2 (07:34):
And I'd be like, do you know?

Speaker 3 (07:36):
Do you know what Christina Aguilera looks like? It never
went further than that, Like I wasn't flirting or anything,
but I was like putting this persona out.

Speaker 2 (07:47):
There to god knows who on the other side of
the computer.

Speaker 5 (07:50):
It's just wild to think about it in hindsight, Like
I know for a fact I was talking to like adult.

Speaker 2 (07:54):
Did they ever say anything like wait, No, not at all.
It's just like where I had.

Speaker 5 (08:00):
I remember this one friend that me and my sister
had that like everything we talked about. Now looking back
on it, it was so clear that he was an
adult but we just thought he was like an eccentric,
like thirteen year.

Speaker 2 (08:11):
Old boy didn't know at that point, yeah that.

Speaker 5 (08:14):
That existed, right, But then like one of our best friends,
like my mom, because then when my mom found out
about it, she was like, I need to talk to
these people and make sure that they're legit. And one
of the kids we did talk to, he was legit.
He was just like a kid who lived in England.
We like MSN like face timed with him at one
point and he was normal, but like not a lot
of those dudes probably were.

Speaker 1 (08:33):
Well, there's so many stories and I want to get
to some war of those in a second. But basically,
this woman wrote in and said her best friend who's
been you know, single, she's forty four, not very adept
at navigating the dating world, and she's being catfished. The
guy's already lied to her about, you know, going to
Dubai for work, so he can't come over to meet her.
And boy the way, oh, he needs money for his

(08:54):
crew because of a banking screw up, and he can't
FaceTime because his phone broke. So she wants to know,
how do I do I just ignore it? Do I
let her fall? Down this rabbit hole? Do I say something?
Is she going to get mad when I finally do?
Have you confronted a friend here's a great question. Have
you confronted a friend who's being catfish and say this
guy's not real? This is so fake? And what did

(09:16):
she say? Was she like, you know what, I didn't
see it that way, or screw you, you're jealous? What
was her reaction? Yeah, there's a bunch of text messages.
Here's one. I work in banking and I managed a
credit union branch. About ten years ago. I had a
lady come in. She was in her seventy She had
been catfished out of over two hundred thousand dollars. She

(09:37):
lost her whole life savings and there's living off just
her social security. A majority of them are seniors, which
is why it still happens today, because they don't get
technology and they're too gullible. Thanks, have a good day,
Appreciate everything you do. I think that people don't realize
when you're seventy years old and can barely figure out
how to turn your phone on, that there are scammers

(09:59):
because you think that, well, it seems real, so it
must be real.

Speaker 4 (10:02):
And I guess that's fine. It's not fine, but like
it's I understand it. Whereas in Jenny and Bailey your scenarios,
you guys were kids, so it was stupid, but it
was also like you didn't you know, you're just whatever,
you just be yesing on the internet. This woman, she
said her age right, she's she said, she's yeah. That's
a little bit more like come on, like just you
see the scenario happening. You've done life, you're not you're

(10:24):
not elderly, and you're not not with it.

Speaker 3 (10:27):
Someone said that they work in mental health, and they said,
we're kind of right, because a lot of times it's
less about whether they actually believe the person's real. It's
more about kind of like a mental illness or wanting
to feel like they're wanted or feeling right, because we
all want.

Speaker 1 (10:41):
There's nothing like feeling wanted and desired and important. I mean,
it's like a drug. It's like when somebody texts you
and tells you how wonderful and funny you are and
they can't wait to see you, and oh, let's make
plans to go to lunch or whatever. It's like it
feels good. And sometimes I think even if you know,
it might not be real, you still get that hit

(11:02):
of pleasure or dopamine.

Speaker 4 (11:03):
It's definitely case by case because, like I said on
episodes of Catfish, which is so odd to me that
show is still running today.

Speaker 1 (11:09):
It's such a good show.

Speaker 4 (11:10):
But like, there's people of all ages, all different race, religions, creeds,
all that, like everything, and there's still people that fall
for it.

Speaker 2 (11:18):
But yeah, maybe they're just vulnerable.

Speaker 5 (11:19):
This text, I like this one that just says I
work at a bank and online romance scams can go
on for years. It's really sad to hear some of
the stories of our customers giving away their life savings.
Anytime there's money involved walk away. Yes. Yeah, And that's
how I would feel like even if I met somebody
online they're like, hey, can you send me money?

Speaker 3 (11:37):
No, no, not even bucks. Yeah, take a note out
of my book. Can be just cheap as hell. Yeah,
the moment someone asks you for money, goodbye, I don't
have any money.

Speaker 2 (11:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (11:47):
A couple of shout outs. I get to give a
shout out to Carl, who was at the dog thing
last night with Bernie. He's my buddy. Carl is the
one standing next to me. With Bernie in the big
group picture. Shout out my buddy, And there was another
one a shout out of my daughter. Happy birthday, Kyla Jade.
Good luck on your driver's test today. You got this.
We love you so much from mom. Good advice. We'll

(12:11):
be right back on Katie, but be with the Daily Bailey.
Anything good on the Daily Bailey.

Speaker 5 (12:15):
Well, today is National Perfect Family Day, so we're going
to talk about the Perfect Family next now on.

Speaker 2 (12:20):
YouTube every morning starting at seven am. Just search Dave
Ryan TV.

Speaker 1 (12:24):
Going to the Raspberry Festival this weekend. We're taking Big Burn.
That's one of his nicknames, Big Burn Burnie. Yeah, yeah,
big Burn, Bernardo. We call him Bernardo, Big Bernie, Bernadoodle.
Big Burn is usually is my favorite name. And we're
gonna be at the Hopkins Raspberry Festival. I've never been before.

(12:45):
I've lived here for years and years I've never been.
But I think it's just kind of like a mini
state fair along the streets of Hopkins.

Speaker 5 (12:51):
I have a friend who it was like the one
of the Raspberry Queens. She was like a queen one
year and that's kind of her entire person.

Speaker 1 (13:01):
Yeah, she'll be like but it's the Raspberry Festival again
this Did you know that back in two thousand and six,
I was the.

Speaker 2 (13:07):
Raspberry right, Yes, we know. Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (13:10):
We had a great time last night at Bark in
the Park with Bernie. Thanks for coming out, if you
came out with your dog and your kids. We met
so many fun people and we had a great time.
We're going to work on another one, maybe in a
different part of town this time. Kind of spread a
love around a little bit, meet some different people, different dogs,
and check out the pictures on Dave Ryan Show on Instagram.

Speaker 2 (13:33):
All right, today is perfect family Day.

Speaker 5 (13:36):
I don't know how they come up with some of
these holidays, I guess, but it's perfect family day. So
I thought we could just kind of like get to
know each other a little bit, Okay, Like I just
want to know what was your family dynamic like growing up,
if you had any issues or anything, because I don't
know that about everybody in this room.

Speaker 1 (13:55):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (13:56):
So we have a therapist in the room right now.

Speaker 3 (13:57):
We have Kaylee here, and yes we're having we're talking
about our family.

Speaker 5 (14:02):
Yeah, and because I'm sure I'll a lot of us
have some interesting family dynamics. Although first you guys, I
am from a broken home. My parents were divorced when
I was four. Uh so we lived with my mom
and then every Wednesday and every other weekend we would
go see my dad. And my dad was remarried after
my mother and then divorced as well after my mother.

(14:25):
And I have one sister. Her name is Madison, and
I love her very much, though she annoyed me to
no end.

Speaker 1 (14:31):
Grows It's funny. Every story you tell me about Madison
is annoying. What do you mean, tell me happier stories
about it about?

Speaker 5 (14:37):
Okay, So it was her birthday last week and I
went to her little birthday party with all of her
little teacher friends, and I was having a great time
because she would be talking to her teacher friends and
then something would come up that only I would know,
and she would say something to me, and then I
would be like, wow, me and my sister share a
lot of the same memories.

Speaker 2 (14:57):
So much. And then she would annoy me so that
I'd be like, oh God, she's.

Speaker 1 (15:00):
So loud, I'll go next time. I was the youngest
of six kids, definitely Mom's favorite, no question. Very spoiled.
My dad was very strict with my older sisters, and
by the time I came around, they didn't. They were tired.
They were tired. They didn't care. It's not they didn't care.
They were very permissive. Like I'd stay out all night
at fourteen years old. I'd be over my friend's house, drinking,

(15:23):
playing pool really oh and fourteen years old, smoking swish
or sweets, and Mom and dad were like, well, he's fine,
he's over at Scott's house. And I'd come stumbling in
at eight o'clock on a Saturday morning, hungover, fourteen years old, gosh,
Steve and they and they either knew and didn't care
or just gave up, or or maybe I fooled them.
I don't know right, but they were lovely. Mom was

(15:43):
the loving one. Dad was the enforcer. Okay, I didn't
messed with my dad. And how old were your siblings
older than you? Up to eighteen years older? My oldest
sister was eighteen years older when I was.

Speaker 2 (15:54):
So were you sad because you were kind of like alone?

Speaker 1 (15:56):
Not at all? Oh, not at all, No, not at all?

Speaker 2 (15:58):
No, all right, no, Jenny. So I've got two sisters.

Speaker 3 (16:01):
I'm the middle child and my older sister and I
are only a year and a half apart. So we're
very close, but I'm as we've become adults. I'm also
close with my younger sister as well. My parents got
divorced when I was I don't know, eleven or twelve
or something. Grew up listening to them fight. So that
was where my trauma started and my anxiety. And the
best thing that can happen in the best thing that

(16:21):
could have happened for us, was getting a divorce. However,
my mom was a helicopter mom who was very strict,
and my dad was like, do what you want.

Speaker 2 (16:30):
I don't care you want to eat. Do you want
to eat a whole package of popcarts?

Speaker 5 (16:33):
Day?

Speaker 2 (16:33):
Get after it?

Speaker 3 (16:34):
Yeah, Like that's how it was. So it was very
very different households growing up. And it was supposed to
be kind of a fifty to fifty split of who
we share times with, but my dad had a weird schedule,
so would be like we'd be with him on like
a Monday night to a Wednesday morning, or like a
Tuesday to a Thursday, and then some weekends.

Speaker 2 (16:52):
Yeah, it was all over the place.

Speaker 3 (16:53):
But yeah, I mean, I joke, but I'm not traumatized
from my parents by any means. I mean, I do
probably struggle with really in different ways than other people
who grew up in a happy household.

Speaker 2 (17:03):
But yeah, that was me.

Speaker 5 (17:05):
I am glad though that in the nineties at least
a lot of the TV movies all that stuff that
we consumed had divorced parents. And they don't do that anymore.
There's always one that's just gone or dead. And I
missed the divorced family. They don't acknowledge it exactly. But
tell me about your family dynamic.

Speaker 4 (17:20):
WELLA I was. My parents got married when I was
five and then divorced. Well, they separated little in their
one year anniversary of being married, so that was weird.
But my dad's always been in my life, which I'm
so grateful for.

Speaker 1 (17:33):
And then my mom.

Speaker 4 (17:34):
Had my oldest sister who they're both younger, but she
is fifteen now eight nine years difference by a different
man who has never been in her life. But my
dad acts as her dad, and I applaud him for
that because there's so many men that will not do that,
that will take up daddy role for a kid that's
not theirs. My dad got remarried first to somebody else
before my before my mom did. My dad had a

(17:56):
kid with his now wife, and life is good. We're
a very much a blended family. Like my mom will
go and take my dad's daughter and vice versa.

Speaker 2 (18:05):
And I love that because a lot of people can't
do that. Wow, look at us a kaleidoscope.

Speaker 1 (18:10):
It really is a kaleidoscope.

Speaker 5 (18:11):
Differences, yes, and yet all gets along most of the time.

Speaker 2 (18:15):
I don't like that. I got very like just now
talking about that. Oh sorry, buddy, the past.

Speaker 5 (18:20):
I really want to marry into a really big family
because my ideal situation would be like sitting at a
like a Thanksgiving table that has like twelve people at it.

Speaker 3 (18:30):
Yeah, but then you have to think about the fact
that you're going to be going to a million birthday parties,
a million retirement My god, that I'm.

Speaker 2 (18:41):
Not Alissa's family.

Speaker 4 (18:42):
They her parents cannot even be in the same vicinity
or like right now, I'm in a different studio than you, guys.

Speaker 2 (18:47):
They can't even be like in this.

Speaker 1 (18:50):
Families are like that person is really bitter because of
the divorce and the and the other person's like, you know,
get over it, or they don't. They just can't stand
each other. So go to like their kid's band concerts
and they have to sit in different sections of the auditorium.
They can't even sit together.

Speaker 3 (19:04):
Get over that once your kids start having kids, because
my parents have to be around each other all the time.

Speaker 2 (19:09):
Now with the grandkids. Yeah, it's a lot.

Speaker 1 (19:12):
I'm sure.

Speaker 2 (19:12):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (19:13):
All right, thank you, Bailey, we appreciate it. Coming up by,
we're going to talk about pets again because we love
our pets. But thirty one percent of people that own
pets would do this with their pet, but the rest
said no way. What is it that thirty one percent
of people would absolutely do with their pet and the

(19:34):
other seventy percent said no way. I'll tell you about
it next and see where you fall. Coming up next,
it's like career day in the studio today.

Speaker 2 (19:41):
Truly.

Speaker 1 (19:42):
We have a therapist that that I'll tell you who
Kaylee is. Kaylee drew the amazing artwork that features all
of us, like Jenny's got a dumbbell in her hand,
I've got like a magician's hat and a card. Bailey
is singing in vant is stirring a which is cauldron
and it's amazing artwork and it's you can see it
on Dave ryanshow dot com and we're trying to think

(20:03):
about doing that as a State Fair T shirt. Problem
is there's a lot of colors in there. Yeah, we
ain't got no budget. We got no budget for colors,
but we got.

Speaker 5 (20:09):
Other ideas that Kaylee also came up with, so we
will likely hopefully think he's crossed see something of Kaylee's
designs at state.

Speaker 1 (20:17):
Fair, which is starting in just over a month.

Speaker 2 (20:21):
You can see.

Speaker 3 (20:21):
Her design too on our Instagram, and I think it's
on a Facebook, right fond. Yeah, so just go to
Dave Ryan Show and you can see it's like a
cartoon with Katie b b in the background.

Speaker 2 (20:30):
So she's here.

Speaker 1 (20:31):
So Kaylie's here, and they also realtor and Woman about
Town Stephanie. Good morning, Stephanie. Woman about Well, she knows
all these things. She's a mom and she got seven
in that time, she got seventeen kids. Yeah, seventeen kids,
five five children. And so I found her online because
she posts all these things to do, so you're not

(20:52):
sitting around the house playing Angry Birds on your phone
all weekend and doom scrolling. Stephanie, Welcome to this base
Needle studio. What do we find one on this weekend
that we should check out.

Speaker 6 (21:01):
Well, there is a many mini hah Falls Art Fair
and the Hopkins what's called Rabestial.

Speaker 2 (21:07):
I didn't put those on the list because everyone knows
they're going on.

Speaker 1 (21:09):
Okay.

Speaker 6 (21:10):
Number five this is for the nineties kids. Silverwood Park
in St. Anthony is having a movie like Movies in
the Park, except they're doing it from the edge of
Silver Lake out into the water, so like, bring your boat,
paddle and watch the movie and you can grab the
audio eighty nine point seven.

Speaker 2 (21:30):
They'll have it, you know, on the radio.

Speaker 1 (21:32):
So you're on your boat, you're watching a movie on your.

Speaker 6 (21:34):
Boat, and they're paying Space Jam, which is awesome, the
old one, you know Space Yeah.

Speaker 2 (21:40):
So that's tomorrow night at nine o'clock is when it starts.
N up there.

Speaker 6 (21:45):
Number four there is a big like kids party at
Arbiter Brewing. They're going to have like a bunch of
books and authors there and stuff, live music for kids.
So dance party, you know, Bounty castles, face painting, ice cream, prizes, food.

Speaker 1 (22:00):
All that, so something you can take your kids out too.

Speaker 2 (22:02):
It's called their Lit Festival. There's a It's Lit. It's Lit.

Speaker 6 (22:06):
It's a company called Halfpike and they're they're hosting that.

Speaker 2 (22:09):
So that's on Sunday from noon to four. Okay.

Speaker 1 (22:12):
Yes.

Speaker 6 (22:14):
Number three is a Twin Cities record show every month
they set up there's like thirty vendors that set up
at Minneapolis Cider and they have like records, forty five CDs, memorabilia,
things like that.

Speaker 2 (22:25):
That is on Saturday.

Speaker 1 (22:26):
Do you know what a forty five is it? Are
you serious?

Speaker 2 (22:29):
I don't know what five is?

Speaker 1 (22:31):
No, Bailey, you know what one of.

Speaker 2 (22:33):
A smaller record? A smaller record with a.

Speaker 1 (22:35):
Big hole single. It's a single.

Speaker 2 (22:37):
Yeah, so it does a play on a normal record player.

Speaker 1 (22:39):
It does. Yeah, yeah, you didn't know this.

Speaker 2 (22:43):
I was born in the eighties, young Dave. How dare
you well?

Speaker 1 (22:47):
I just thought maybe you knew what a forty it was.

Speaker 2 (22:49):
I had tapes growing up and then switch to CDs like.

Speaker 1 (22:53):
Okay, I had records.

Speaker 6 (22:55):
So there's a record show Saturday from noon to four,
free parking, free admission, and just going.

Speaker 1 (23:00):
That sounds cool. Where's that again.

Speaker 2 (23:01):
At Minneapolisite or it's a Northeast Okay? Nice? All right.

Speaker 6 (23:05):
Number two there is a pop up skate park, so
if your kids are into skateboarding, or rollerblading.

Speaker 2 (23:09):
I forgotten Star Brewing.

Speaker 6 (23:11):
They're having a pop up tomorrow from noon to eight
and they'll have I mean, I'm a half pipe. Is
that half Yeah, you're gonna be good to do it
grind but they're doing like those.

Speaker 2 (23:24):
Rails who can grind.

Speaker 6 (23:25):
On From one to four, they'll have lessons for skateboarding,
and then at five o'clock they're having like the best
trick and you can win cash to do that.

Speaker 1 (23:32):
So I used to be able to do an alie.
Do you know what an alie is? Where you pop
your skateboard up in the air. I can't do it anymore.
Last time I tried to do one, I fell and
landed on my orbital, which is the bone over here
and leaf your eye. Yeah, and in my head it
sounded like two cookie sheets clinging together. So when I landed,
it sounded like pang.

Speaker 2 (23:49):
Is that why you're ugly now?

Speaker 1 (23:51):
Well one of the reasons? Yeah, thank you all right.

Speaker 6 (23:55):
Number one, there is a dance party. It's called in
Bed before ten dance party tomorrow.

Speaker 2 (24:00):
Jenny, that's for you. I love that.

Speaker 6 (24:02):
I spent my twenties like every weekend going dancing. Not clubs,
but like bars that have music and stuff like that.
So this is so they're going to be playing eighties,
nineties and early two thousands club anthems for the thirty
plus crowd. Jenny, where's this at the Green Room in Minneapolis?

Speaker 2 (24:17):
Okay? From three to eight?

Speaker 6 (24:18):
I had looked it up and I think tickets are
like thirty five bucks but seems a little spend deep
but also super fun.

Speaker 1 (24:23):
Like okay, kind of maybe worth it to drinks dance.

Speaker 2 (24:27):
Yes, okay from three to eight, but you.

Speaker 6 (24:28):
Have to be in the door by four in the
door by four, door by four, in bed by ten.

Speaker 2 (24:34):
I love it.

Speaker 1 (24:34):
I love that cool.

Speaker 2 (24:36):
That's so funny.

Speaker 1 (24:37):
So let's go over these again. Can we hang these
or post these up somewhere von so people can find
these or there on your on your Instagram.

Speaker 6 (24:42):
They put them on my story and tag you guys,
so you should be able to just yeah that three posts.

Speaker 2 (24:46):
I can make a post though if you want.

Speaker 1 (24:48):
Well, sure so. And you can also follow Stephanie Stephanie
Underscore dot Steanie Dot Rosner, R O, S E and
E R.

Speaker 6 (24:57):
Every week there's like ten or fifteen ideas just got.

Speaker 5 (25:00):
Invited to, like the Brewery conglomerate of like event planning
round the Rachel from Inbound invited me.

Speaker 6 (25:06):
She has like a networking meeting with all the brewery
event managers. So they were just like I'm like, Hi,
I'm Stephanie Rosener, and I share these things that are
going on, Like here's some things that I found are
super popular. Should contact these people and get them in
your brewery. Saw more beer. Yeah, that was pretty cool
to see. I'm all working together instead of competing, you
know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (25:26):
Really that's you, you know that is Bailey, Yeah, Bailey something.
You know, the Jeffersons, Jefferson's That's what I was gonna say.
You just love the.

Speaker 1 (25:35):
Apartment in the sky. So let's go over again one
more time.

Speaker 6 (25:37):
Number Can Take the Space Sham at Silverwood Tomorrow night.
Number four, the Lit Festival for Kids at Arbitt of
Brewing Sunday, noon to four. Number three the Twin Cities
Record Shows on Saturday from twelve to four at Minneapolis
Cider and then the pop up skate park at Forgotten
Star Is tomorrow from noon to eight. Number one in
bed before ten three to eight tomorrow.

Speaker 1 (25:59):
Populous, very cool, lots of stuff to do and you
didn't mention the the Mini Haha Arts Festival because it's
very mainstream, super popular that's going on as the Sure
and the Hopkins Raspberry Festival is tomorrow, Like I think
it might go all weekend. I don't know, sounds right,
I'm going tomorrow. So are you gonna have.

Speaker 2 (26:16):
A raspberry when you're there? And to eat one?

Speaker 1 (26:18):
You know, they're not my favorite, but possibly it is
the raspberry exactly. Thank you, Stephanie, You're awesome. Thank you
for coming in and doing this. We appreciate it. Follow
her on Instagram And by the way, if you need
to sell or buy your home, you also can help
people sell and buy the whole house of market Right now?
Is it still over.

Speaker 6 (26:35):
As slowing down a little bit? It's not as intense
as it was in spring. I talked to like, you know,
agents just in passing the business and they're like, yeah,
I've felt the shift. So it's slowing down a bit,
which means it's like for a buyers, it's not as competitive.

Speaker 1 (26:47):
Oh really, okay, because it used to be if you're
going to buy a house, you would have to bid
ten thousand over asking price to even be in the ball.

Speaker 6 (26:54):
And that's still happening, but it doesn't seem to be
as like across the board.

Speaker 1 (26:57):
Now, okay, good news, Thank Stephanie. All right, we'll be
back in a second with you can't make this stuff
up on k d WB.

Speaker 2 (27:07):
One on one point three kd.

Speaker 5 (27:09):
W B.

Speaker 1 (27:18):
One third of people would do this with their dog
or their cat, but the other seventy percent say, no, way,
it is date them if they were human. If your
pet were human, would you date them. There's a trend
where people use AI to see what their dog or
cat would look like as a human. So met Life
Pet Insurance at a poll to see how many people

(27:39):
would actually date that human. Okay, and it turns out
a lot of us would would date their pet, but
the rest of us say their dog is a walking
red flag. Now, basically, they say, here's the reasons why
they could not date their pet. They need constant attention,
and you date somebody that needs constant attention, it's just

(27:59):
not fun. Yeah, they're too clingy. They're always following you
around the house, They get up on the couch next
to you, put their head on your leg. They're just
too clingy.

Speaker 2 (28:09):
You're describing Bernie pretty much.

Speaker 1 (28:11):
Yeah, he was hired last night. We got home from
barking the park and he was playing with his taco
that wandered about him. Yeah, and then he got tired,
so he got up on the couch and laid down
and he was hired on my lap. Not great with
boundaries and other words. They'll walk in the bathroom while
you're pooping. Hey, you don't want that, is it? Okay?

Speaker 2 (28:29):
Yeah? Whatever? Ava doesn't do that.

Speaker 4 (28:31):
Ava used to have a thing where she was scared
to come through door thresholds, like our front door, our bedroom,
the bathroom.

Speaker 1 (28:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (28:37):
Yeah, it's such an odd thing and she's kind of
growing out of it, but she doesn't come in the bathroom.

Speaker 1 (28:42):
Yeah, Bernie doesn't like stairs at all.

Speaker 2 (28:44):
Yes.

Speaker 4 (28:45):
Ava used to be like that because you hit the
stairs before you go to the elevator in our apartment,
and so we'd passed the stairs and she'd be like nope,
and I'd be like, come on, nope, elevator, lean back.

Speaker 2 (28:54):
Yeah, can't date her then, stairs, right.

Speaker 1 (28:59):
Another reason that you would not date your pet because
they're easily jealous or territorial. In other words, they get
mad when somebody comes to the front door.

Speaker 2 (29:06):
Yeah, who is that?

Speaker 1 (29:08):
Or they're too moody or temperamental. Temperamental? Yeah, So would
you date cap Cat?

Speaker 5 (29:16):
Well, I mean one, I do want to run it
through chat shipt to see what he would look like
as a human, just because I'm curious. But to no,
I wouldn't date that cat because he is a spicy
baby and every time I try to pet him or
kiss him, especially when it's like hot out, he'll bite
me or he'll like try and hit me. And he
never like uses clause. He just kind of goes like, yep, right, dude,

(29:39):
I'm your mom, like chill out.

Speaker 2 (29:41):
Gosh, I saved you from certain facts.

Speaker 1 (29:43):
Yeah, they do that, but yeah, you're not really sure why.

Speaker 2 (29:45):
So I would not date him, No, he's a tool.

Speaker 1 (29:47):
Would you date Ava?

Speaker 5 (29:49):
No?

Speaker 4 (29:50):
Because lately she's been not listening to me. Oh actually
I've already date Ava. Alyssa doesn't listen. Yeah, yeah, I
guess so.

Speaker 1 (29:57):
I would date I would dig Bernie because he's a
chill but he also knows how to have fun. He
would like to go on hikes, yeah, motorcycle rides, airplane rides,
things like that.

Speaker 2 (30:06):
And he's a handsome guy.

Speaker 1 (30:08):
He's quite handsome.

Speaker 5 (30:08):
I'm going to put my cat through the chuchod yout.
I want to see what he looks at.

Speaker 1 (30:11):
That's a great idea, all right, that is you can't
make this stuff up. We'll be back with Dave's Dirt
coming up in just a second. You know the main
story we got to talk about. It's the latest on
the couple at the cold Play concert. You probably know
the story by now. We got the latest update next
on KTWB or radio. It's Dave's Dirt on kd WB.
Story everybody's talking about has nothing to do with, like

(30:31):
I don't know, Hollywood and movies and things like that.
It is the cold Play concert where Chris Martin was
putting people on the big jumbo tron. And you know
the story. You've probably seen all the memes and all
the read whatever. And so there's a powerful CEO and
his CPO Chief People officer and he's married and I
think she's divorced, and they're probably forty five or fifty,

(30:52):
and they're both quite attractive. They're at the cold Play show.
Here comes the JumboTron and it shines on him and
they're on the JumboTron and they look up at him,
they go, oh my god, and then she covers her face,
turns around, and he ducks. They could not have acted
more guilty. Here is Chris Martin's play by play.

Speaker 2 (31:09):
All right, everyone, what either an affair, well, that's a
great shunk.

Speaker 1 (31:17):
Now there was. You probably heard him said either they're
having an affair correct or they're very shy, and so
he's kind of disappeared. He canceled and closed his LinkedIn,
His wife changed her last name on Facebook. We don't
know what happened to the CPO, but there was a
fake apology letter that he had written that was making

(31:38):
the rounds and I believed it, and he basically was like,
you know, I can't believe I go to a Cold
Play concert and it turns into something like so embarrassing
and I can't believe this, and I'm going to try
to make a better me. And it turns out that
was fake.

Speaker 4 (31:49):
That was yeah.

Speaker 5 (31:49):
One my favorite part of that is Chris Martin going,
oh what, like just reacting to it like it's okay.

Speaker 4 (31:56):
Well I know what he thought after the fact, like
when he saw social media later, oh this was an affair.

Speaker 2 (32:02):
I was right.

Speaker 3 (32:03):
You have to okay, I only speak this because I
have had to, like narrate kiss cams and dance videos
at the Timberwolves games a couple times, because I've done
in arena hosting and you have to be like on
your toes right away and think of something. So that
was like the first thing that obviously came to his head.
And then afterwards he was like, wow, actually they probably
were cheating. So Justin Bieber is cash poor right now.

(32:24):
Hopefully this new album will make him rich again. There's
still conflicting reports about the Bieber household whether Justin oh
Scooter Brown money, but apparently he's still owes him thirty
one million dollars. Yeah, so he sold his music catalog
for two hundred million dollars. But TMC claims that Justin
spent most of that money that did not go to

(32:45):
lawyer fees, accountants and Uncle Sam. And so now he's
waiting for Haley to sell her Road Beauty company because
he invested money in that.

Speaker 2 (32:54):
So he'll get fifty million dollars once.

Speaker 1 (32:56):
She sells that.

Speaker 3 (32:57):
Wow really yeah, which is obviously a good chunk of money.
But apparently one of Haley's reps said that the historic
sale of Road is a huge accomplishment for Haley and
it's completely separate from her husband and.

Speaker 2 (33:08):
His business affairs. So I don't know where he's going.

Speaker 3 (33:10):
To come up with this thirty one million dollars per
scooter unless he starts doing like tours and the last.

Speaker 1 (33:16):
That's where they make their money, right, And the last.

Speaker 3 (33:17):
Two tours, I'm pretty sure he ended them early because
of mental health issues.

Speaker 2 (33:21):
So I don't know. I don't foresee him going on
to tour. He's got to figure something out.

Speaker 1 (33:25):
Speaking of tours, my son Carson is tour managing an
artist named Jake Scott and they are in Fort Worth
tonight and Carson is the tour manager. I'm so proud
of my boy boy Carshon. That boy gets around in
this way. He is doing so well. I'm so proud
of him.

Speaker 5 (33:42):
What was cool is that yesterday so we had Dash
on the radio yesterday and her tour manager and Dave
were yucking it up for forever a long time because
you're like, might change it tour managers, you know.

Speaker 2 (33:53):
But also that she used to work on the street
team here.

Speaker 1 (33:55):
She used to Yeah, Dash is tour manager, is from
the Twin Cities and shout out Bridget and she she
used to work on our street team, which is the
people who like blow up balloons and FULLD T shirt
to the State Fair.

Speaker 2 (34:08):
Yeah, which is so cool, Like what a small world.

Speaker 4 (34:10):
Ye. Speaking of tours, the Steve Miller band was scheduled
to do a North American tour and one of those
stops was here for the grand stand at the State Fair,
and they canceled the entire tour and they called it
extreme weather conditions, which at first I thought was like,
you just think it's gonna rain in a month. But
Jenny inside, it's some wisdom in me and said, it's
because Okay, sorry, never mind, Jenny's not as smart as

(34:30):
I thought.

Speaker 2 (34:31):
It's just.

Speaker 4 (34:33):
That it's because of what tornadoes, hurricanes, mother.

Speaker 2 (34:35):
Natures, climate change.

Speaker 3 (34:37):
They're they're kind of just taking a stand for climate change.

Speaker 5 (34:40):
You know.

Speaker 1 (34:40):
I was on Facebook. Look, I was looking at your
uncle Lloyd Jenny last night. On Facebook, Uncle Lloyd Jenny's
uncle Lloyd says that the whole global warming thing is fake.
So I clicked like, and I am now following your uncle.

Speaker 3 (34:54):
Lloyd's fide as long as it's Lloyd Harve though he is.

Speaker 5 (34:58):
Off his rock. Look at a funkcohol if you have
the peacock streaming service. I hate to tell you, but
the prices are going up by three dollars a month,
which didn't Netflix just recently like raise their prices like
an a dollar.

Speaker 3 (35:14):
I'm gonna start being that person who just starts to
creating new emails so I can have a new email
account associated with everythe so I.

Speaker 2 (35:20):
Can have like a beginner fee.

Speaker 1 (35:22):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (35:22):
Yeah, like saying great, that is dirt.

Speaker 1 (35:25):
Yeah, I hate to cut you short. We got to
we're up against the clock. That's the dirt. Brought you
by six one two injured Heimer and Lammer's injury law
coming up another thousand dollars. We had a winner the
other date, guy named Sean. He was able to win.
He got one thousand dollars. So I'll give you the
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give that to you when we come right back immediately,
I'll give you the keyword. They're going to talk to
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(35:46):
thousand dollars catfish and scam. And it's a fascinating story.
And she listens to the show and she'll tell you
all about it.

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