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August 5, 2025 33 mins
Andrea calls in to ask for advice communicating with her husband about Ozempic, Jenny gives us the science behind smoochin', and more!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
To Day Ryan in the morning show. That was to
tat McCray songs in a row. So I hope you're
entering that keyword on the talk back feature on the
iHeartRadio app. Well, we're waiting to get our winner on that.
We're going to dive right into group therapy.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
What a point three Katie w B Day Riot Show.

Speaker 1 (00:15):
They all right, I have Andrea on the phone and
she's got a little issue she's dealing with that home.
So Andrea, we're gonna jump right into it. What is
going on that you need to help on group therapy today.

Speaker 3 (00:27):
So my husband's gained probably about fifty pounds in the
last three years, I would say, and he's a little
self conscious about it, but I love him just the same,
Like it doesn't bother me at all. But I noticed,
like recently he's like not eating as much. So I thought, oh,
you know, maybe he's watching his portions trying to get healthy.
But then he seemed to drop weight like pretty quick,

(00:50):
and I'm like, oh, that's weird. And so we have
like a double vanity in our bathroom, and each of
us have our own like stuff under the sink, you know,
we each have our own sink and I go, you know,
the other day, digging through because I want to see, like,
is there anything in there? And I noticed, you know,
some ozempic in his garbage. Oh, and I didn't know
what do you mean?

Speaker 1 (01:10):
What do you mean by that? Like, I guess I
don't really know what ozempic because I think of it
like sure a shot when I think of ozempic, because
I know you have to like inject it, right.

Speaker 3 (01:18):
Yeah, but you know what, it kind of looks like
one of those tens, almost like an EpiPen. It's like
a thick blue pen. But I guess there's a needle
in it. Okay, okay, yeah, yeah. So I found that,
and I was very surprised, and honestly, I'm a little
upset that he didn't open up to me about it.
I'm not sure how I feel about ozembic, if I'm

(01:39):
being honest, and I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:44):
I think a lot of people feel that way right now.
They're not entirely sure how they feel. Some people are
for it, some people are like unsure.

Speaker 4 (01:49):
It's brand new, so it's hard to like know what
you feel about it when it's something that's so brand
new exactly.

Speaker 3 (01:55):
But also like I don't know. To me, it feels
like something you would talk to your partner about ahead
of time, you know, like you don't just do this
without talking to your partner. So like I'm wondering, like
can I confront him about this? And it's so like
how do I do that? And am I even allowed
to be upset about it? Because I'm kind of upset

(02:16):
that he would do this without talking to me.

Speaker 4 (02:18):
I wonder what you were looking for, like for the
reason for him to talk to you, Like did you
want him to ask you for permission? Or why is
it that you would want him to bring it up
to you.

Speaker 3 (02:29):
No, but I mean it's a health decision, and you know,
I wouldn't just go schedule a surgery without talking to him.
So why would you just start taking a serious medication
like this without a discussion with your wife? You know?

Speaker 2 (02:42):
I totally agree, not.

Speaker 3 (02:43):
Necessarily permission, but you know, consideration or or or just
just openness, like why are we hiding it? Is the
real question.

Speaker 5 (02:51):
I wouldn't say consideration, but I definitely agree that it's
one of those things. It's just a big decision in
your life, and it's not like it's a boyfriend or girlfriend,
even though I would talk to him my girlfriend and
I would hope that she would talk to me, but
your husband and wife, that's definitely something I feel like,
you know, shouldn't be hidden because it's not just like, hey,
I'm doing this thing. It's doctor's appointments, it's I'm sure
it's research. It's the fact that he's doing it in

(03:13):
your house.

Speaker 3 (03:14):
Okay, so exactly right.

Speaker 1 (03:15):
I mean, we can definitely give our opinions all day,
but we would love to hear from you if you
want to give us a call. Sixty five one nine
eight nine, Katie w B. Maybe you've been in this
position before with your partner where they kind of hid
something from you, or maybe it was specifically something like
Wagov or ozempic or something. But I think like in
terms of the hiding part of it, yeah, I do

(03:35):
feel like that's a little bit weird as a partnership
that you would like be a little bit open about that. However,
you know, he does have probably the right to do
what he wants right with his body. Yeah, so you
know that's definitely going to be an argument here.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
I think, yeah that.

Speaker 4 (03:50):
We just got a text that said it's his body,
so it's his choice and he but he probably was
a little bit embarrassed about it, so he didn't want
to talk about it.

Speaker 5 (03:57):
I never understood why people are ashamed to admit that
they're on no ozempic, Like maybe.

Speaker 2 (04:01):
It's the fear there's a stigma behind it.

Speaker 5 (04:03):
I think maybe it's the fear of shaming, because like,
you know, there's some people that are like running five
k's or dieting or doing whatever to lose weight, and
then ozempic is, you know, just it seems like a shot.
I don't want to say just a shot and downplay it,
but it is, you know, a shot, and it's a
quicker way to do it. But at the same time, like,
if you know this person personally, I'm gonna in the
back of my mind be like, wait a minute, you're

(04:25):
not changing the way you eat, You're not going to
the gym. Are you doing ozemp like you know this
person's habits. Yeah, so there's no reason to be ashamed.

Speaker 1 (04:32):
But with ozmpic and stuff like that, a lot of
the reason that you lose weight is because it suppresses
your appetite. So you probably are going to notice a
difference in how they're eating, if they're on ozembic or
wakobe or whatever form they're taking. I think also it's
just the fact that there's I mean, I've heard different
opinions from different like prestigious doctors on podcasts and stuff

(04:53):
like that about ozembic, whether it's good or bad. But
I think a lot of people are just nervous because
they don't feel like there's been enough research as to
if this is going to hurt people down the line
from taking it.

Speaker 3 (05:04):
Because and that's that's a concern I have, because what
if he would have had like a bad reaction and
I don't even know he's taking it, and like, how
am I gonna help him? How am I going to
tell a doctor like I don't like this is something
you don't you know, It's like he's hiding it almost
like drugs, Like it's weird. I don't know, Like that
that upsets me. I'm worried.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
So you're more upset about the fact though, that like
he's hiding it from you, right.

Speaker 3 (05:29):
Yes, because I don't understand. I just don't understand why
you would hide it.

Speaker 2 (05:32):
Yeah, And I'd also be scared.

Speaker 5 (05:34):
We all know on the show, I'm an overthinker, but
it opens the door of like what else are you hiding?
Or what else could you be lying about? Because, like
I said, this is not just like a gumball in
the gumball machine. This is like I have to do research.
I'm probably paying for it. I don't know if insurance
covers this or it's out of pocket. It's I have
to go to doctor's appointments. If you were able to
hide all that, my overthinking mind is going to go

(05:55):
down the road of like, Okay, what else do I
not know?

Speaker 1 (05:59):
Well, let's just talk. I think we focus on this
for right now because I'm sure like that's a whole
different conversation. But we do have some people on the phone.
Amanda's on the phone right now. I'm Amanda. How are
you good?

Speaker 2 (06:09):
How are you good?

Speaker 3 (06:10):
So?

Speaker 1 (06:11):
What does your take on this?

Speaker 6 (06:13):
I would say that there's a lot of shames around
weight in general, and it's a society thing. When I
decided to go on a similar medication called stet found,
I really contemplated whether I tell my husband, if I
tell other people in my life, and things like that
I've lost one hundred pounds on it, like it has

(06:35):
changed my life and I think that really as a partner,
like you should want your partner to be healthier and
support them and their decisions. And so the fact that
he didn't tell you, like, you know, that's a whole
other thing. But I think it's I think it's a
shame thing.

Speaker 1 (06:50):
Like, so, how long did it take for you to
tell your partner?

Speaker 6 (06:54):
I did end up telling him after I got the medication.
It was pretty quick, but I didn't know how I
was going to hide it in the fridge. So if
I had had a way, I probably would have waited
a little bit longer.

Speaker 3 (07:06):
Because when you try to lose weight.

Speaker 6 (07:08):
A bunch of times then you don't do it, it's
kind of like a is this going to work? Is
this going to be the thing? But I think we
should be happy for people who are helping themselves to
be healthier because and.

Speaker 1 (07:20):
I also have no big problem. Yes that is true.
Can I also ask what was your partner's reaction to
you wanting to take it and starting to take it?

Speaker 6 (07:30):
I mean, I think he ended up being supportive with it,
especially once.

Speaker 3 (07:35):
I've lost, you know, the weight, He's like.

Speaker 6 (07:37):
You know what this is working for you? You tried
really hard to lose the weight before and you weren't
able to, and so you know, I think he's proud
of me for doing what needs to be done. And honestly,
I can now go do the things with my kids
I want to do because I can keep up. And
so that weight was probably holding him down, and so
I think she should be happy for him and maybe
asked him, hey, you know, did you start othentic and

(07:59):
when you would start a conversation be supportive, Like that's
our job, that's partners to be supportive for sure.

Speaker 1 (08:06):
Well that was a great take on that, a man.
We appreciate you calling in. I always got more text messages.

Speaker 4 (08:11):
Yeah, so, this person says, I'll be honest, I started
taking some a glue tide in January and I've.

Speaker 2 (08:16):
Never told my husband.

Speaker 4 (08:18):
Same with botox injections, you just don't say anything.

Speaker 2 (08:22):
This person says, hold on, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (08:24):
So your husband isn't noticing that you suddenly don't have wrinkles, and.

Speaker 4 (08:27):
Or maybe if it's consistent with like, if you consistently
get botox, who's gonna know that you.

Speaker 2 (08:33):
Had the wrinkles in the first place.

Speaker 1 (08:34):
I guess that's true, But I feel like most people
notice weight loss in their pertay. But I guess if
it's like a gradual thing, yeah, maybe I was like,
you've changed your lifestyle then okay.

Speaker 4 (08:44):
This text says he probably feels like she would shame
him for not losing weight the traditional way, like through
exercise and diet. This one says, as someone on weight
loss medication, there's so much shame for using it for
weight loss. When I decided to tell my husband, I
was telling him, not asking him for permission. Also, there's
a lot of embarrassment behind using it, especially for men
to admit that they need weight loss medication, which is

(09:05):
kind of what our last collar just said too.

Speaker 1 (09:08):
I mean, there hasn't been a lot of takes on
the opposite side of things. Most people have said like
it's it's a shame thing and he should be able
to do it and whatever. But this person does say
marriage and sickness and health, he should talk to her
about it because it has a lot to do with
his health.

Speaker 2 (09:21):
I agree.

Speaker 5 (09:22):
I think you should just tell him that, you know,
because you've gone this far in the dark now that
you know, and you're you're worried, you know, you're concerned, because.

Speaker 2 (09:28):
Yeah, it has to do with his health.

Speaker 5 (09:29):
God forbid, you come home one day and I don't know,
I don't even want to speak anything in the atmosphere,
but you don't know what will happen.

Speaker 4 (09:35):
But like, yeah, but people who are single are on
weight loss medication as well, who live alone, so they
don't have vow that saying sickness and health to tell
somebody else.

Speaker 2 (09:46):
See.

Speaker 4 (09:46):
I guess that's where I just kind of like, if
it's if it's his choice that he's doing it and
he does have shame around it, or maybe he just
doesn't have shame around it.

Speaker 2 (09:53):
Maybe it's just like a non issue for him. He's like, yeah, I'm.

Speaker 4 (09:56):
Gonna go on ozem pick, I'm gonna lose some weight,
and that's just like his choice.

Speaker 1 (10:01):
I mean, I think the difference between though, like someone
living alone someone in a partnership, is with ozembic, you're
injecting something into your body and not none of us
are doctors, at least us on the show. They're not doctors,
so we don't fully understand the implication of that, Whereas
like with a diet, maybe you're restricting your portions, you're
eating more fiber, or you're eating whatever. That's like something

(10:22):
proven to be like that is healthy, and you should
not all of a sudden keel over because you ate
broccoli instead of having a cookie, you know what I mean.
So I think that there is a difference between a
diet and losing weight that way or portion sizes versus
injecting something into your body. But I'm not saying that
there's anything wrong with that. I'm just saying that, Like I,

(10:45):
if I had a partner who decided to do that,
I would also want them to talk to me about it,
just so I knew, not because I am allowed to
have an opinion whether they do it or not, just
so I know.

Speaker 2 (10:55):
That's all.

Speaker 3 (10:56):
Yeah, And I would not have told him not to
do it either. I would support him and whatever he
wants to do. I want him to know that I
love him just the way he is. But whatever is
going to make him happy, I'm here for it. But
you know, I to hide it is very concerning, and
and you know, I just you know, I understand everyone's
talking about the shame and I'm trying to understand that,

(11:17):
but I mean, I just wish we would have talked
about it.

Speaker 2 (11:21):
Yeah, Yeah, that's valid for sure.

Speaker 1 (11:22):
There's so many texting calls coming in right now, and
we appreciate it, but we do have to move on
because we got to call our Tate McCray winner. But
thank you so much for being on, Andrew. I hope
that we helped you out today. We appreciate it. If
you ever want to be on for group therapy, you
can just email us at Ryan Show at KDWB dot com.
But now it's time to call our winner for Taate
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(13:46):
up with that. And just remember, if you hear two
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All right, coming up next, we'll do a little Jenny's
been on.

Speaker 2 (14:00):
Jenny's been on Reddit.

Speaker 1 (14:03):
Okay, Jenny's been on Reddit is brought to you by
Mary and Jane. So today on Reddit we're go and
talk about smooching. Okay, it's kind of failing that sadness
in your I don't know, are these are kissing facts
you didn't know? Except for I'll be honest, I think

(14:23):
you might know some of these kissing releases dopamine. That's
why the first kiss feels so addictive, But then you
get used to those smooches after a while, it's not
quite the same.

Speaker 6 (14:36):
I know.

Speaker 5 (14:37):
I wish I could recreate like when me and Alyssa
used to kiss when we first got together.

Speaker 2 (14:40):
I wish I could recreate that feeling.

Speaker 1 (14:42):
Yeah, a long kiss can sink heartbeats, so love is
not just felt, it's physical, especially with kissing. I feel like,
how long does it have to be? And don't you
almost have to be like kissing the same beat at
a time then to sink hertbeat?

Speaker 2 (15:00):
Do you know what I mean?

Speaker 8 (15:02):
No?

Speaker 2 (15:03):
No, no, I mean like you know you like speed
up the kiss.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
Or you like slow down with the kiss.

Speaker 4 (15:10):
I don't think it matters how the rate of kissing
to your rate of heart rate. I don't think you
have to do it in time and he just sinks
it up, do you, guys?

Speaker 1 (15:18):
And I think that I can attest to this one.
People remember their first kiss more vividly than their first time.

Speaker 4 (15:25):
Yes, yes, I'm going to say it depends because I
have had many first kisses, but I don't know which
one qualifies.

Speaker 2 (15:34):
Because like when I was little, I would.

Speaker 1 (15:36):
Not like chasing boys, okay because that kisses no?

Speaker 2 (15:39):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (15:40):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (15:40):
Then when I was like eighteen and I had my
first boyfriend and we dated for two whole weeks.

Speaker 2 (15:45):
I remember his face coming close to mine. I was like, uh,
when was your first makeout kiss?

Speaker 1 (15:50):
Eighteen?

Speaker 4 (15:51):
No, probably not until I was like nineteen or what
actually twenty, only twenty my first makeout kiss.

Speaker 1 (15:58):
I was fourteen.

Speaker 2 (16:00):
Jesus well, bliss ask vot don't look at me? Yeah,
I was twelve.

Speaker 1 (16:06):
Yeah, I mean I don't know. My friends were all
smooching before me, even and I was fourteen. I was
like the late bloomer of it. I hated making out.
At first, I was like you French kisses gross, Like.

Speaker 5 (16:18):
I mean, I was a typical teenage boy. When I
got one or two, I was like, dude again exactly.

Speaker 1 (16:24):
These are just some fun facts about kissing. The last
one is kissing boosts mood and lowers stress. It's nature's
best therapy. That could be argued, argued it's natures, but
I would argue that therapy is nature's best therapy. Well, nature, though, nature,
that's not nature. Oh, therapy is like you know, man,
science and yeah, nature. I would say that nature is

(16:46):
nature's best therapy. I would be in touching grass. However,
maybe I'm sure a lot of people will disagree. But yes,
those are some fun facts about kissing. For Jenny's been
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what time do you guys go to bed? There's the

(17:09):
average American time that everyone goes to bed coming up
on You can't make this stuff up, And let me
tell you it's much later than any of us.

Speaker 2 (17:15):
Anticipated we'll talk about that all right.

Speaker 1 (17:20):
So the average bedtime for most Americans, this is the
time that you actually fall asleep, is eleven eighteen p m. Which, honestly,
that align is probably close to me. I am around
that time.

Speaker 2 (17:34):
Too late for me.

Speaker 1 (17:35):
I mean, it is too late for me too. But
that's why I'm a nap queen. I do love napping.

Speaker 4 (17:39):
Hey, I have realized, like, at this job, yes, we nap,
and we need to be able to nap.

Speaker 2 (17:46):
And I shouldn't be embarrassed about napping. You're not. You
shouldn't be Wow, you embarrassed. It's not that I'm some
people do nap shame.

Speaker 4 (17:52):
Yeah, it's just like, oh, you're taking a nap, Like, yeah,
because I got five hours of sleep last night.

Speaker 2 (17:57):
That's why I'm taking a nap.

Speaker 4 (17:59):
Or or it'll be like, oh, I'm taking a nap
and I wish I was outside because it's such a
nice day, and then I'll feel bad about.

Speaker 2 (18:06):
Taking a nap. So I'll shape myself that I feel.

Speaker 1 (18:09):
I do feel that too. I was super hyped yesterday
because I was really exhausted from the weekend and it
was just kind of cloudy out yesterday, so like perfect
napping away my day away.

Speaker 4 (18:19):
No.

Speaker 1 (18:19):
I was at a dinner recently and there were a
bunch of people who are moms there, and one person
literally was like, I don't get people who can nap
and they literally have multiple kids, and what do you mean,
Like do you I mean, I know you probably don't
have time to nap, but like if you had time
to nap, I would assume you would take advantage of
that nap because you have kids like running around.

Speaker 4 (18:38):
Anytime my niece naps, my sister also naps. She's like, well,
you're sleeping. I'm sleeping, yeah, wed so yeah. Eleven eighteen
is the average time that Americans fall asleep. They kind
of start their nighttime routine around ten fifteen. It takes
about twenty one minutes to get ready for bed and
then about forty minutes to fall actually asleep, which Bailey
has the superpower of being able to just yes. I

(18:59):
was saying this last week because Dave was saying like, oh,
you need to put your your phone down, not look
at your phone for whatever, like twenty minutes before you
go to bed because the blue light whatever. I can
literally be looking at my phone and fall asleep with
it in my hand. I can fall asleep with my
thumb on the screen like I'm about to click to
the next like story on Instagram stories, and I will

(19:19):
fall asleep. And so I have zero problem falling asleep. Literally,
if you see me with my eyes shut, I'm probably
sleeping because it happens that quickly.

Speaker 2 (19:28):
I'm happy for you, Thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (19:29):
One other story that we're going to talk about today,
and I don't this is not any opinion of our own,
but Deadmark, a zoo in Denmark is getting a ton
of backlash, rightfully so, because they're asking people to donate
their pets so that they can feed them to the lions.

Speaker 2 (19:48):
And I saw that. Isn't that insane?

Speaker 1 (19:50):
Yes, so it's some zoo in northern in A, Denmark.
They made the peon Facebook last Thursday saying did you
know that you can donate smaller pets to us? And
they're not talking about sick pets. They only accept healthy pets. Oh,
I thought it was like your old no sick pets.

Speaker 2 (20:04):
No, that's dumb.

Speaker 1 (20:05):
So people are, of course, rightfully so, losing their minds
on social media about it and saying that like they're villains,
Like what do you mean, like whatever, they don't accept
cats or dogs, but rabbits, chickens, guinea pigs, small horses
are being accepted to feed the lions. I'm sorry, but
maybe I don't know what lions eat. Besides other I

(20:26):
know they have prey. They are what are they called predators? Right,
so they eat meat for food? Yeah, yeah, right, so
I understand that they need to get their meat in. However,
feels like there's a better way to go about doing this,
and going on to social media asking for other people's
pets isn't the right way, Like maybe ask for donations
so you can afford to buy whatever kind of food

(20:48):
you need.

Speaker 2 (20:48):
To feed the lions. Yeah, you know, yeah, that's what
I would hope.

Speaker 4 (20:52):
But the only thing I will say is that back
in the day when I worked at the farm, my
old historic farm job, we had a roof or that
really sucked and I would have loved to feed him
to some lions because he was sure you walk into
the chicken coop and that man would come running at
you and there's fling his body into you and you'd
fall over against the wall.

Speaker 2 (21:12):
God, I hated that rooster.

Speaker 1 (21:14):
He was so mean, but I did not feed him
to lions. Okay, that's good a least tit didn't. Do
you think he's still alive? Do you think he you
saw him one day?

Speaker 5 (21:23):
For god?

Speaker 2 (21:24):
Yeah, he remembers you. He's like ghostly bar.

Speaker 1 (21:29):
Oh goshod for you can't make this stuff up. We'll
get into some Dave's Dirt coming up next. We got
Kelly Clarkson covering a pretty unique song for Kelly Clarkson,
but let's be honest, he can cover almost any song
out there and do it justice. But also there's a
big spin on Bachelor and Paradise that they haven't done,
and they've been doing that show for many, many years now,

(21:51):
and we'll talk about that coming up next in Dave's Dirt.
So have I told you guys about the new friend
I made lately?

Speaker 3 (21:58):
No?

Speaker 2 (21:58):
No, tell us, Jenny.

Speaker 1 (22:00):
So you know I live in a house by myself. Yeah,
and I recently discovered this little spider.

Speaker 2 (22:07):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (22:07):
He hangs out above the cabinet in my bathroom and
I go into that cabinet frequently, and normally I'm pretty
scared of spiders, and I immediately get my vacuum and
I suck him up. Yeah, but I was like he's
not hurting anyone, He's just living his life, and like
he pretty much is the only thing that greets me
when I come into the house, whether it's like you know,
a lot of times I come home, I need to
go to the bathroom, I see him, I say hi, yeah.
And then in the morning I wake up, I start

(22:28):
my face routine. I see him, I say hi, yeah,
And he usually has perched out prominently at the beginning,
and then he kind of squees away when I open
the cabinet door, and then he you know, he kind
of hides. But so his name is Larry, and he
is my only friend.

Speaker 6 (22:43):
Uh.

Speaker 4 (22:44):
If you are personal friends with Jenny Lutenberger, please text her.

Speaker 2 (22:48):
She is spiraling out of control. Close your ears. Okay,
she's talking to us, spider Larry, I said, close your ears.
You're not here fun. I think we need to be
a little bit concern to wout that her little d Lulu,
because who who is friends with the spider doesn't kill it,
she's just us.

Speaker 1 (23:08):
Larry's been doing great for me.

Speaker 2 (23:09):
We asked you to close your ears. Sorry, I'm still
out of the conversation. We need to call somebody firm.

Speaker 5 (23:15):
She has been talking about her social battery being low,
but you know, she she seems to spend a lot
of time with this spider.

Speaker 4 (23:20):
You know, it seems like it's low because she's spending
all of the battery on being friends with Larry the spider.

Speaker 2 (23:28):
I come back now, Jenny.

Speaker 1 (23:29):
Jerry has great jokes. Yeah, him and I just like
are chuckling back and forth all day together. One Yeah, Jenny,
did you know why the chicken crossed the road? Why
to get to the other side that was Larry's? Is
Larry a sixty seven year old white man?

Speaker 8 (23:46):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (23:46):
She sounds like, what for just five cents a day,
you can help, Jenny.

Speaker 1 (23:50):
I don't ask people things like that, because a lot
to be whoever they want.

Speaker 2 (23:53):
All right, for five cents a day, you can help
her solitude if you are.

Speaker 1 (24:00):
I do need help, But honestly, I usually do murder
every single spider that enters my house, and not this one.
I'm just like letting him love his life because I
decided spiders can be friends. And especially when I have
a bunch of flies I get in my house when
I open my sun room door, I'm like, whatever, he'll
catch my flies.

Speaker 2 (24:16):
Okay, I think I'm gonna start talking. All the fruit
flies then that hang out in my garbage can.

Speaker 1 (24:20):
And I think you need to clean your garbage can.
If you have a bunch of fruit flies in there,
you just have to take the garbage out.

Speaker 2 (24:26):
Or that that too. Who are you gonna make friends
with that? Home? You need to make some friends, not
any inanimate objects or insects.

Speaker 1 (24:32):
Yeah, well, you don't know what you're missing out.

Speaker 7 (24:34):
I think I do.

Speaker 2 (24:37):
Sounded like a crazy wacko.

Speaker 1 (24:39):
All right, I am a little crazy. Look crazy today,
Get in a desert, keeping our finger on the pulse
of Tinseltown.

Speaker 2 (24:48):
Dave's dirt on kd wb A.

Speaker 1 (24:51):
All right, Dave's dirt. Let's get into it.

Speaker 2 (24:54):
I'll take it off with some news about Chapel Roone.

Speaker 5 (24:56):
We just played her and it probably will be the
only time we hear from her, because she says she's.

Speaker 2 (25:00):
Not putting on a new album.

Speaker 5 (25:01):
There is no new album, even though she's put out
two singles this year. She said maybe five years for
the next album. Maybe, but it doesn't exist. And I
know that disappoints Bailey Jay.

Speaker 2 (25:10):
It does. I love Chapel Room so much. I just
don't I don't know, but I can't get behind Chapel Roone.
I like her a lot too. Your hater certified, Your
certified hater is.

Speaker 5 (25:20):
The first thing on my Instagram bio at Vante Leek
go follow me before my birthday a week away.

Speaker 2 (25:26):
Okay, that's your one. Yeah, you can't limit how often
I talk.

Speaker 1 (25:29):
About being all right, you shared your song picture on
the Dave Ryan social media account, so you can talk
about you have to revoke your access to those accounts
if you continue to abuse your privileges like that.

Speaker 2 (25:39):
We can talk about Jenny being friends with a spider.

Speaker 5 (25:42):
Yeah, but me talking about my I think it was
one time too many, d Lulu I am.

Speaker 1 (25:48):
I am probably gonna bring it up consistently now out
the week and let you guys know the latest joke.

Speaker 2 (25:52):
Larry told me.

Speaker 4 (25:53):
But we got a direct from CNN report about the
song of the Summer.

Speaker 2 (25:58):
All right, drum roll, here's the song of the summer.
There isn't one. Yeah, yeah, I feel that way.

Speaker 4 (26:05):
They said, more like song of the Bummer the summer
of twenty twenty five is severely lacking in espresso.

Speaker 2 (26:13):
So they're literally from CNN. They said.

Speaker 4 (26:17):
Even the top ten songs on the Billboard Hot one
hundred are largely occupied by downers.

Speaker 2 (26:23):
So we just heard Ordinary not that long ago, which
is a little bit of a downer. No, that's like
a love song. Yeah, but it's not like a pipe
it is, though you like you're gonna dance to this?

Speaker 4 (26:35):
Okay, no exactly, I want to dance in a in
a bikini during the summertime, said not me ever, but
say where I see that nowhere? But even like so
they said Morgan Wallins, since that's country, it's not necessarily
on like you know, the hot stations like one Katie
w B. And then they even brought up Justin Bieber

(26:57):
saying that he's keeping it low key on his new album,
which is a lot of downbeat guitars.

Speaker 2 (27:02):
Way, yeah, thank you, fine, thank you, thank you. Yeah,
this isn't feeling like Song the Summer is a banger, though,
and it's.

Speaker 4 (27:11):
Nothing like Desposito was in twenty seventeen. So CNN was like, hey,
we're coming off a huge wave of really amazing stuff,
but in twenty twenty five, we're kind of down, kind
of low energy. So song of the Summer is song
of the bummer. There are no songs of the Summer,
according to Hi and Mighty CNN.

Speaker 1 (27:30):
For a second, I was like, didn't I read this
story yesterday when you started? But no, it was actually
someone who emailed into the Minnesota Goodbye calling this out
before even CNN did. Yeah, so we did discuss this
on the Minnesota Goodbye episode yesterday. If you want to
listen to that, you can go to the iHeartRadio app
and listen to the Minnesota Goodbye. But yeah, it is
so true. I don't just not as understand, bummer. Jessica

(27:51):
Bila is just like all of the other moms out there.
She multitasks and she specifically does it in the shower.
She says that she admits to shaving and applying a
hair mask while showering, but she also says, if you're
drinking coffee in the shower, you might as well have
food too. So sometimes I'll have cereal in the shower,
what yogurt and fruit. I've even eaten a piece of
keish in the shower. Now I have to imagine showers

(28:13):
that Jessica Biale probably gets some help with her two
young sons. She has a celebrity, the usually have like
full time nanny help kind of something along those lines.
Assistance whatever it might be, but I can't. You know,
she's still a mom, so she's probably busy, and she
does have a career. I think right, she's still doing things.
She's still an actress. She did something recently that was big.

(28:34):
I just can't remember what heaven. Yeah, seventh Heaven. If
you haven't heard of it, check it out. But yeah,
so she's a multitasker. And then not super great story,
but Jesse j had come out saying that she had
breast cancer and she did have surgery for it several

(28:54):
weeks ago, and she recently wrote on her stories that
the recovery physically as far from quick or easy, and
mentally it's been the most challenging time for me, especially
as a mother with a toddler and being unable to
be the mother I usually am, and then added having
to change the plans for my career for this year
has been very frustrating after working so hard to get
to this point and excited to do it all. But
it's life, I know it. And Jesse Jay like kind

(29:17):
of had a little bit of a comeback recently because
I think it's because of TikTok or something. She's been
out kind of performing a little bit more because I
think one of her songs blew Up that was an
older song. Yeah, I might be wrong about that, but.

Speaker 5 (29:29):
Can be back up real quick, Jessica buel thing, I
was trying to rack my brain. You know who else
does this weirdo behavior and shares it online? Chrissy Teagan.
Christy Teagan's also very just like out there because I
don't know what she did, but posted like a video
of her in the tub a couple of years ago
and it was like a not a mud bath. If
anybody knows what I'm talking about, please text it in.
She's also just.

Speaker 2 (29:49):
Kind of strange.

Speaker 1 (29:51):
Yeah, I mean she's pretty much just always herself. So
I think some people pretend to be other something other
than themselves, and I think Christy Teagan is just fully
herself no matter her online or not.

Speaker 6 (30:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (30:01):
I kind of like her. I think she's kind of fun.

Speaker 1 (30:03):
I think she's a little controversial to a lot of people.
But you know whatever, Dave doesn't like her. She's one
of those celebrities that he.

Speaker 2 (30:09):
Is doesn't like anyone, well, not even us, not even us.

Speaker 4 (30:13):
So.

Speaker 1 (30:14):
Bachelor in Paradise is a spin off of the Bachelor
and Bachelor att were a bunch of contestants that didn't
find love try to find love in Paradise and basically
usually it ends with some engagements after you know, these
people have been dating throughout the season, but there's been
a little spin put on this recent season that's playing
right now.

Speaker 8 (30:32):
Sometimes there'll be winners we need to make a pivotal decision,
and sometimes there will be losers that won't have any
roses to hand out. But in the end, the strongest
and the most deserving couples are going to be faced
with a life changing opportunity, the possibility of leaving Paradise

(30:52):
with up to half a million dollars.

Speaker 1 (30:58):
God, wow, Jesse is the of it now. Ever since
they got rid of Chris Harrison. He annoys me.

Speaker 2 (31:04):
He's good at it.

Speaker 1 (31:05):
He used to be a contestant himself, But then I
think he used.

Speaker 2 (31:09):
To play professional football. I don't really know.

Speaker 1 (31:12):
He's a decent host. I'm just I don't know what
it is about his delivery, Like that was so dramatic. Yeah,
Chris Harrison wouldn't have done that. I just would have
been delivered differently.

Speaker 4 (31:21):
Looked him up and his head kind of looks like
a loaf of bread. It's very long and very rectangular,
so it looks kind of like a short squout scout
stout loaf of bread.

Speaker 2 (31:35):
I said what I.

Speaker 1 (31:35):
Said, Yes, that's you're not wrong, Yeah wrong. I try
not to comment on people with long faces because I
have a horse face, so I try to avoid comment.

Speaker 2 (31:44):
Yours is long front wise, it's long down. What do
you mean?

Speaker 1 (31:49):
I thought, what do you mean?

Speaker 2 (31:50):
Frontwise? Mine is what That's what I feel like. Goldfish,
it's giving goldfish. That's how feel about any Blanco. That's
what he looks like to me. You hate Why would
you say that to Jenny? And you always talk you.

Speaker 5 (32:01):
Know, no, no, no, not Jenny. You said she was
asking what you were comparing him to. Oh oh yeah,
well this.

Speaker 4 (32:07):
Jesse Palmer guy just he's very yeah, long face, but
yours is long in a different direction, Jenny, what does
that mean? It just means that yours isn't long down.
It's not like your face is like melting. His looks
like it's melting from his forehead because it's all like one.
It's almost like a square. It's like a rectangle. That's
just a super long rectangle. Okay, and yours is just

(32:27):
long in a different direction. Yours is at an angle.
That's a compliment. Okay, thank you, welcome to clarify.

Speaker 1 (32:33):
To clarify, Jenny Todd, we love her all right, that
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someone who went on a date. It's called was There
a Second Date? It's a fun new segment that we've started. Well,
they're gonna tell us about the first date and something
always went wrong, something went wrong on that first date.

(32:54):
And then we're going to try to decide whether or
not there was a second date, or maybe they got married,
maybe they went to chapel and they're like, let's go
get that first date. No, well for the second day.

Speaker 2 (33:04):
I mean, we'll do that.

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