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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Tell me what happened over the weekend, the awkward moment
of Thanksgiving weekend?

Speaker 2 (00:03):
What happened?

Speaker 3 (00:05):
Yeah, I had to come, I had to build someone.
So okay, I went home to Dayton for Thanksgiving.

Speaker 2 (00:11):
Beautiful up there, huh.

Speaker 3 (00:12):
Yeah, and my cousin e J and his girlfriend announced
that he proposed. Okay, we all take congrats. We're super
excited for him. But it's not the first time he's
been engaged. He was engaged to another girl maybe like
a year and a half ago, but they called it off.

(00:32):
They called it off the two months before the win.

Speaker 1 (00:34):
That happened. Sometimes you know it is not the right one. Okay,
So but now EJ is engaged to his new girlfriend.
They tell everybody, Oh, that's great news. Ejay.

Speaker 3 (00:41):
Yeah, so yeah, yes he brings this girl. We're all like, oh,
another one, but we don't say anything. Everybody's cool. We're
celebrating until like, maybe, I don't know, fifteen minutes later,
my aunt asked to see the ring. Yeah, and Ejay's
new fiance starts launching this ring around on the dinner table,

(01:02):
and my grandma, who's a little scene. I all goes,
that's the same ring you proposed to Amelia.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
List oh no, oh no, right in front of the
new girl.

Speaker 3 (01:13):
Oh god, and Eve tried to change a subject. But
then my Grandma's like, let's and fucket that again. Yeah,
that's Amelia's old ring.

Speaker 2 (01:21):
Grandma, please zip its? What are you doing? Did you
crawl under the table and hide? What did you do
at this point? Mary?

Speaker 3 (01:29):
I mean I was kind of laughing. Everybody was like
covering up their laugh It was so awkward, and it
just she really she really biffed it. Uh my grandma,
but you know, she's she's getting older and she is
not all there.

Speaker 4 (01:44):
It was just so awkward after that.

Speaker 3 (01:46):
I don't I really don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
Here's the question, though, Mary, what do you think is
it okay to propose with an old ring that you
used a couple of years ago?

Speaker 2 (01:55):
Is that okay?

Speaker 3 (01:56):
I feel if? I don't know. I really I'm torn
a miss because it's a beautiful ring, right, I don't.

Speaker 2 (02:04):
Want to go to waste. I don't waste the money.
I don't really have a problem with it. I mean,
it didn't work out with the other girl. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (02:09):
I guess you should take it back to wedding day.
Diamonds and exchange it and get another one.

Speaker 5 (02:15):
Upset If somebody proposed to you with the ring that
they proposed to their last.

Speaker 2 (02:18):
You wouldn't know till Grandma told. Yeah, if you found
out from Grandma.

Speaker 6 (02:22):
I would be super upset. Yeah, if I found out
about it, sure, But if I didn't find out, No,
I probably wouldn't care as long as I liked it.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
If you didn't find it. But if you found out,
would you care? I would you would care?

Speaker 6 (02:32):
Yeah, because I think that that like takes it a
lot of like the love that you have.

Speaker 5 (02:37):
Really, it's not lazy. I wouldn't do it, But I
don't think it's lazy because he did go look for
the ring, just not for her, he looks he looked
for a ring for somebody else.

Speaker 1 (02:45):
That's got somebody else's like juju all over it, I guess.
But you've got what's the other girl's name, Amelia. Yeah,
he's got got Amelia's juju all over it. They were engaged,
she wore it, She sweated in that ring. They made
love in that with that ring. I don't imagine that
they's sweet, sweet loving with that. I don't think Mary
does either. So how did it end up? Did they

(03:06):
just change the subject, or did grandma go take a
nap or what happened?

Speaker 3 (03:09):
I mean, honestly, I felt like the new girl.

Speaker 4 (03:12):
I wasn't even sure she pieced it all together.

Speaker 3 (03:14):
It was awkward. My grandma does say a lot of
things that are kind of off off the cuff. Yeah,
so I will have to like check back in with
my family.

Speaker 6 (03:21):
I don't.

Speaker 3 (03:21):
I just I think that the girl was having trouble understanding.
I think she knew he'd been engaged before, but I
don't think she was.

Speaker 1 (03:28):
I can't imagine the car ride home, you know what
I mean, the car ride home between EJ and his
new fiance. Yeah, what now you were again? This is
your ex fiance's ring.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
Oh.

Speaker 1 (03:37):
I can just see her sitting there in the passenger seat,
arms folded. Yeah, pissed off, staring out on the other
side of the window. Don't talk to me.

Speaker 5 (03:43):
Well, here's a text message at five three nine two
one says no, no, no, no, no, at least reset
it or something.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
Put it in a new setting, exactly him. Mary.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
Thanks for calling with your story. I appreciate it. Have
a good day, all right. I have a question for
you guys, and I want to see whether you think
this is legit. We were on a road trip. We're
going to Colorado for Thanksgiving, and I'm driving and I've
set the cruise control and let's say the speed limit
was seventy five. So we're on Interstate seventy and we're
going seventy five miles an hour and Susan's like, no, no, no,
you're going too slow. And I'm like, well, the speed

(04:13):
limit is seventy five. She said, you set your cruise
control nine miles higher than the speed limit. The cops
won't pull you over for nine miles over, but they'll
pull you over for ten miles over.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
I'm like, where do you get this? She's like, I
saw it online.

Speaker 1 (04:29):
So if you're driving on a sixty five mile an
hour road, my wife's theory is, set your cruise control
for seventy four miles an hour and the cops won't
pull you over. Has anybody else ever heard of this before?

Speaker 6 (04:40):
I mean, I feel like it is kind of just
like an unsaid rule that people follow quite often. Because
you've heard of it, then well, because there are different
fines for different speeds you go, so I think once
you hit ten and above, it is a higher fine
for so you can still get I don't know. I
think that you can still definitely get pulled over if
you're going nine miles oh the speed limit, but at

(05:01):
least it'll be a lesser fine. But I would say,
I'm like, I'm Susan side on this one. It is
kind of how I go about.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
Really, do you I maybe do like three miles over
the speed limit?

Speaker 6 (05:12):
Rampa slow.

Speaker 2 (05:14):
I'm not gonna just speeding. I'm not in the fashion.

Speaker 1 (05:18):
All right, I'm gonna call a friend of mine who's
a cop and see whether she would pull me over
for going let's say, eighty four in a seventy five.

Speaker 7 (05:26):
Probably depends on if she's busy like eating.

Speaker 2 (05:29):
Actually solving crimes.

Speaker 1 (05:30):
Are you actually making a cop donut joke?

Speaker 8 (05:32):
She did?

Speaker 1 (05:33):
I'm sorry, Ginny just made a cop eating a donut joke,
Like it's nineteen eighty five all over again. Okay, nobody
makes that joke anymore.

Speaker 7 (05:39):
You said it to her yesterday when you called her.

Speaker 6 (05:42):
She said she was on the treadmill, and you were like,
what are you doing needing donuts on the treadmill?

Speaker 1 (05:45):
Is this woman will eat anything? You'll eat anything, won't you?
Kelly no, no, yeah, hey, officer Kelly, how are you?
I'm just you know, if we if you saw me driving,
or anybody driving. Let's say that we're going in a
seventy five speed limit and they're going eighty four, do
you pull them over?

Speaker 6 (06:09):
Probably not, But it depends on the day.

Speaker 2 (06:12):
Okay, if I'm working.

Speaker 8 (06:15):
If I'm working and my thing I'm supposed to focus
on is speeding, then.

Speaker 1 (06:20):
Yeah, oh you would. Okay, good, yeah, okay, Now what
if I'm going twenty over. Let's say the speed limit
is fifty five, I'm going seventy five. Do I get
pulled over?

Speaker 2 (06:29):
Oh? Every time?

Speaker 7 (06:30):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (06:31):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (06:32):
Well how do I get a warning? How do I
do I cry?

Speaker 2 (06:35):
How do I totally? What I What do I do
to get a warning?

Speaker 3 (06:40):
Well?

Speaker 6 (06:40):
Crying? Probably not?

Speaker 2 (06:42):
No, Okay, if you're.

Speaker 8 (06:44):
If you're honest, usually if you own it, I'll.

Speaker 2 (06:47):
Give you a warning.

Speaker 7 (06:48):
Yeah, but then you're incriminating yourself.

Speaker 6 (06:50):
I've always said that you're not supposed to be like, yeah,
I know I was speeding.

Speaker 8 (06:54):
Well.

Speaker 9 (06:54):
To be fair, though, when you get pulled over, we
have to tell you why you got pulled over.

Speaker 7 (06:58):
We can't ask you anyway.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
Oh no, kidding, that's a change. They used to say,
do you know why I pulled jover? And I read
somewhere you're not supposed to say, yes, I was speeding,
because now you've incriminated yourself. But if you say no,
I don't know, then you sound like you're a troublemaker
and you're gonna get pepper sprayed. So when so, well, no, okay, tased,

(07:21):
You're gonna get tased, so so so. No longer are
cops allowed to is it a Minnesota thing? Or is
this like a city by city? You're not allowed to say,
do you know why I pulled jover?

Speaker 2 (07:31):
It's Minnesota.

Speaker 1 (07:32):
Say it's a Minnesota thing, So you can't say so
the cop has to say, I pulled over because you
were going thirteen over the speed limit.

Speaker 2 (07:38):
Right. Are you eating right now, Kelly? No, it sounds
like it sounds like that. It sounds like.

Speaker 5 (07:48):
Radio right because he can't eat.

Speaker 2 (07:52):
Kelly, You know I can't.

Speaker 1 (07:53):
I can't eat until like eleven o'clock or like twelve
because I got a camera pill swallow later today. I
haven't eaten since this time yesterday. It's killing me.

Speaker 7 (08:01):
That's why you're so crabby. No, has nothing to do
with the food.

Speaker 2 (08:06):
All right, So is a good rule.

Speaker 1 (08:09):
Let's say we're on Interstate seventy and we're driving to
Denver and the speed limit seventy five. If we go
eighty four, we're probably going to be okay, I.

Speaker 6 (08:17):
Mean probably it's speeding in general.

Speaker 7 (08:19):
You're playing Russian rouletteless wherever you're driving through.

Speaker 2 (08:22):
Look at the text what's what's the text safe on?

Speaker 7 (08:24):
It says nine you're fine, ten you're mine.

Speaker 6 (08:27):
And there's a lot of people that texted.

Speaker 1 (08:28):
That nine you're fine, ten your mind? Have you heard that?
Officer Kelly? Yeah, okay, gotcha.

Speaker 7 (08:38):
I'm just not going to tell.

Speaker 2 (08:39):
You what to do.

Speaker 7 (08:40):
Yeah, no, that's fine.

Speaker 6 (08:41):
You shouldn't do that, totally sir, and a very sophisticated
lady that helps the community. We won't ask you that.
But another person said the ten percent rule. So if
they're doing sixty five, they'll do six over.

Speaker 2 (08:53):
Okay, okay, so ten percent.

Speaker 1 (08:56):
So if you're if you're if the speed limits fifty
ten percent of that five, you can go fifty five
or so speed live in seventy five, you can go
seven and a half miles over that.

Speaker 2 (09:04):
Something like That's that's a decent rule.

Speaker 6 (09:06):
Yeah, like you're not going nine over in a twenty five.
That's extreme.

Speaker 7 (09:11):
I don't even know what that math with three you
go three over.

Speaker 2 (09:13):
I'm really bet at math.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
Yeah, Kelly, thank you for what you do. We appreciate
your service and enjoy your donuts. Okay, Oh okay, thank you, Okay, bye,
thank you.

Speaker 6 (09:26):
Gosh, the amount of people that said nine you're fine,
ten your mind, I've never heard that in my view.
There was a state trooper who texted in and it's now,
where did it go? Call in?

Speaker 2 (09:37):
State trooper.

Speaker 6 (09:38):
Troopers typically won't pull you over unless you're going fifteen
or over, and that comes from a state trooper.

Speaker 1 (09:44):
Okay, And that's the worst. When you know you were
just hauling a and you're going ninety four miles an
hour and you didn't even realize it, and then you
see the red lights or you see the cop ahead
of you do a U turn and you're like, oh.

Speaker 5 (09:56):
God, and now whatever you are going over you put
all these text messages be.

Speaker 2 (10:01):
Like, but this trooper said, I can go fifteen over there? Right? Okay?

Speaker 1 (10:05):
Thank you, Kelly Kristen, good morning, you're on your favorite
radio station, Katie WB Congratulations, thank you.

Speaker 9 (10:14):
Actually, it really is my favorite. I've been listening to
you for year's Dave.

Speaker 2 (10:17):
I appreciate you. What are you?

Speaker 1 (10:20):
We talked a little bit earlier, but I wonder you
to talk about this on the radio because I find
it really interesting.

Speaker 2 (10:25):
What's up about Christmas?

Speaker 9 (10:28):
Yeah, I decided that I'm I'm going to quiet quit Christmas.

Speaker 2 (10:33):
Which means that, yeah.

Speaker 9 (10:36):
So, I mean, I I used to do everything like
I'm but this year, I'm not going to do you know,
holiday cards. I'm not going to do secret Sanna, you know,
Matthew pajamas, like going to see Santa, going to Christmas shows,
like it's just it got it's gotten to be too much, honestly.
So all I'm really going to do is have a

(10:58):
Christmas tree. I think that's fine. But yeah, so do
you know.

Speaker 6 (11:07):
Do you have kids, Kristen? Yeah?

Speaker 9 (11:10):
Actually I have a four and a six year old.

Speaker 1 (11:13):
Okay, you're a mean one, missus grinch. I can't believe no,
you've got two babies that love Christmas, the magic of Christmas.
And you're like, now we're not gonna go Shanta, We're
not gonna do cards, We're not gonna make them bring
ginger bread house. I get it. It's a lot. But
your job is to create memories for those kids.

Speaker 7 (11:31):
But go on, what if she's the only one doing it?

Speaker 3 (11:35):
Exactly, I've been.

Speaker 9 (11:36):
I've done all the work, and it's like everything goes
so fast that it's just done too quickly. And the
kids they get all the toys, they don't even they're
done in ten minutes, like they they don't care.

Speaker 2 (11:49):
That's true.

Speaker 1 (11:49):
I get a little cash registers like oh babies, first
cash register. They open it, they scan boop boop boop
three times, and then it goes in the back of
the closet.

Speaker 2 (11:57):
Yes, you are right about that.

Speaker 5 (11:58):
There's still something magical about like me at twenty four
years old, I love Christmas time. I don't know what
it is, but something about just thinking about when I
was a kid and I would stay up making doing
cookies and milk for sano or wabbud do. I don't
know if you ever did reindeer food. And I don't
know what the reindeer food is now, but reindeer food.

Speaker 7 (12:13):
It's so cute.

Speaker 2 (12:14):
What is what did you have a partner?

Speaker 9 (12:18):
I do, but I've just had to do it all.

Speaker 2 (12:20):
So what did they say?

Speaker 1 (12:22):
What did they say when they said, Okay, we're not
going to do elf on a shelf. I mean, the
kids gotta doing elf. You're not doing elf on the
shelf anymore.

Speaker 9 (12:29):
I'm not doing it. I just told them that that's
only for naughty kids that need to be washed.

Speaker 1 (12:37):
What do you think they're I will tell you. I
know some people that feel like you do that. They're
not crazy about Christmas and all the expense and all
the work and all the things and the stress, but
they do it anyway. But I admire you in a
way for going you know what, No, we're not going
to do that. It's expensive and before you know it,
it's over and you got to pack everything up. But

(12:59):
what do you think about this when send me a
text or call me and let me know about Christian
quiet quitting Christmas? How do you think the kids are
going to react when they realize there's only like a
couple of presents under the tree. Are you going to
hang stockings at least for the kids?

Speaker 5 (13:14):
Maybe you don't even got to put anything in them,
just hang them. But I'm saying, if you're trying to
not do if you're trying to do the bare minimum,
at least hang them up for decord.

Speaker 6 (13:25):
I mean, she's got a tree at least.

Speaker 2 (13:29):
On your tree or is it just the tree?

Speaker 6 (13:31):
I mean, I'm assuming the kids are still going to
get some presents at Christmas.

Speaker 9 (13:34):
Yeah, they're getting a few presents, and yes, the tree
is going to be decorated. That's that's going to be
a thing. But yeah, I'll think about hanging some stockings.
But aside from that, that's it.

Speaker 8 (13:46):
I mean I get her point of view though, like
if she's the only one doing all of the work,
and especially when she like listed off all the things
that she has been doing. Yeah, like your kids are
only four and six, But if she's been doing it
since the six year.

Speaker 7 (14:00):
Old was born, that's six years of.

Speaker 8 (14:02):
Doing Like you're essentially party planning the entire month of December.

Speaker 2 (14:06):
But you can't ruin it for your kids. Your kids
are gonna grow up like the Grinch too. You're right,
You're exactly right.

Speaker 8 (14:11):
But I don't think it would ruin it for them,
because like would they remember, like, well, we used to
go do this, this, this, this.

Speaker 1 (14:17):
Yes, this will yes at four years old, but as
they grow up, they didn't remember going to the y
for the Christmas lights. They're gonna go the sand to
parade through the neighborhood, but they won't remember not doing it.
That's what you mean. It's not like, uh, like Saint
Patrick's Day. A lot of people don't do that. Christmas
is everywhere. Christmas is the still exist in her house.

(14:40):
It still exists in her house.

Speaker 8 (14:41):
I'm just saying, like for me growing up, our Christmas
was like we would essentially go see the holidazzle and
then have Christmas Day.

Speaker 7 (14:49):
That was Christmas.

Speaker 8 (14:50):
Okay, But like, if that's what you think is Christmas,
but if Christmas is everything else she's been doing, then
like that's I I see where she's.

Speaker 1 (14:59):
Coming to a mom Kristen on the phone who says
she's quiet quitting Christmas. She used to do everything and
now she's cutting it way back because of the expense
and the stress. And there's a bunch of text messages
on your side and not on your side, and we'll
read some of those in a second. So hang on, Kristin.
I mean, you don't have to stay on the phone,
but keep listening. I appreciate it, and you'll get some
people with some thoughts on your situation. Okay, I know

(15:23):
you're not asking for advice. Nobody's gonna change your mind,
but you'll get some thoughts on it. Thank you, Kristen,
have a great day, Merry Christmas. Nobody even say we'll
read because there are some people who think that they
are kind of on her side. This text says, I
understand her. When you're the one doing it all and

(15:44):
it's not appreciated, it gets old really fast. Well, kids
don't real they appreciate it, but they don't say necessarily
thanks mom. They just absorb it because that's their job.

Speaker 2 (15:55):
All right.

Speaker 1 (15:55):
Coming up, We had a really interesting conversation with a
woman named Kristen a minute ago who said she's quiet
quitting Christmas, which is, well, what does that mean. She's like,
I've done everything. I've done everything from the elf on
a shelf, I've done the Christmas holiday cards, I've done
the holiday party, We've gone on the lights tour, a
tree full of presents in the corner, secret all that,
all of that stuff. And she said it is too

(16:16):
much money, it is too much stress. I do all
the work. And she didn't sound like she's blaming her partner. No,
but he's you know, he or she is not definitely helping.
And there she's not alone. Rachel. You said you are
also kind of quietly quitting Christmas.

Speaker 10 (16:29):
Yep, I a couple of years ago quit doing everything
except putting up a Christmas tree and stockings, and stockings
don't even get stucked anymore because Fanta doesn't have that
kind of money that's put seventy five dollars in stocking.

Speaker 1 (16:45):
Yeah, you know what seventy five dollars in a stocking is.
We usually put chapstick in a box of tik TACs,
and it was there was something in there. Wow, you
know what. I admire you for you deciding what's more important.
So thank you, Rachel.

Speaker 4 (16:59):
Yes, have a good big yep you too.

Speaker 1 (17:01):
A lot of debate on this one, and it's like, okay,
that's your job as a parent is to create these
wonderful memories. And I will bet you if you ask
Carson and Allison, they'd be like, yeah, I remember Christmas.
We'd go to Christmas Church, we'd come home, we'd open
one present. We would always have oyster stew for some reason,
that was Susan's idea, and then the kids would have

(17:21):
to wait at the top of the stairs until I said, okay,
it's time to come down and they'd get to open
one present at a time. You had to watch other
people open their presence. And then we'd take a break,
we'd have a little breakfast, and there's just like so
many things that it was just such a wonderful thing.

Speaker 6 (17:35):
That's like normal stuff. I feel like she's quite quitting
the stuff that's super extra, like the matching pajamas, the
Alfa on the shelf and stuff, because like I didn't
have any of that stuff growing up, and I still
had a great Christmas. And also a lot of these
people that are texting in honestly are annoying me saying
that she's a bad mom because like you don't know
her financial situation, you might be better off than she.

Speaker 1 (17:54):
She sounded rich to me, Okay.

Speaker 6 (17:55):
Well, but like so to do a lot of these
things I see my friends and like when Alfa on
the Shelf comes to visit, and the amount, I don't know.

Speaker 8 (18:06):
It's not even just expensive for like money, though, Jenny,
it's like expensive because of time, Like she's putting in
all of this time and effort in planning all of
this stuff.

Speaker 7 (18:15):
Because I said earlier, it's like she's party.

Speaker 8 (18:17):
Planning all of December and that takes out, that takes
a lot out of anybody. Someone did text and saying
she's not necessarily quitting, she's just simplifying Christmas, and that
they don't see the issue in that, and then other
people are saying, yeah, she's a bad mom, and like
it's for your kids.

Speaker 7 (18:32):
Don't have kids if you can't do it.

Speaker 8 (18:34):
But like I understand, like like dialing back on what
you've been putting in.

Speaker 7 (18:40):
If what you've been putting in hasn't been either enjoyed
that much or helped out with at all.

Speaker 1 (18:45):
I think sometimes Christmas became it became an orgy of
gifts at our house, and we finally said about five
years ago, we said we are dialing it back. Because
Carson would get he'd get the PlayStation five, and then
he would get a pair of beats by Dre whatever
the current thing was that he had to get, and
Allison would get a brand new coat that was three
hundred dollars, and Susan would get like you know what,

(19:07):
And we finally said, no, that we just don't need
it to be an orgy of presents. So now we're
going to have maybe two presents for each of us
under the tree.

Speaker 5 (19:17):
I think that's different for you though, still because five
years ago your youngest kid was eighteen, his kids are
four and six. You know, yeah, so they I mean,
I don't know how much Joy Carson at eighteen years
old would get out of building a gingerbread house as
much as her four and six year old.

Speaker 1 (19:30):
That is a good point, So I Sady's like, sign
me up. Well, there's a bunch of a bunch of
tax messages. At the very least, do elf on the shelf.
My kids are seventeen and nineteen and asked this year
where Barley is Barley the apparently somebody else via tax
says ad school and sports, holiday stuff as well. It's
all too much. And then you've got your office Christmas party,

(19:52):
and then you've got your whatever that you're volunteering for.
So there is a lot, but I think that it's
just that's part of the season. It's kind of an overwhelming,
exhausting season. But it's good stuff. It's not like you're
you know, digging a ditch or something. You're having fun.
But do what works for you. We're gonna get Jenny.

(20:12):
Jenny's been She's been on Reddit all morning. Yeah, what
I can't get you're not paying any attention.

Speaker 7 (20:17):
Oh, I have a good one though.

Speaker 2 (20:21):
Jenny's been on Reddit, people.

Speaker 6 (20:23):
Who canceled their weddings last minute are sharing what happened.
Let's year about, let's get let's get messy. This person
said they died or so I was told nope, he
actually moved to Japan with his LoVa Craig and they
are super happy.

Speaker 2 (20:40):
Now good.

Speaker 6 (20:40):
So this person said that they didn't find out until
a year later. I feel like, I don't know how
you don't find out until a year later, but good
for you that you did find out. But she says
it's a great opening story whenever I start with a
new therapist.

Speaker 7 (20:53):
So there's that.

Speaker 6 (20:56):
Another one was my ex's family had a lot of money,
so they were going to buy the house we wanted
in cash, but basically future mother in law started telling
her exactly how the house was going to be renovated, decorated,
done up. And she also said, well, we're actually probably
going to live in it with you for like a
year before you guys can fully have it, So that
wedding was called off.

Speaker 1 (21:16):
I want to give you a piece of advice that
if you let them in laws or your parents pay
for your lifestyle, they will think that they can call
the shots for you. I knew somebody who's mom and
dad paid for their house most of it anyway, made
the big down payment or whatever. Mom and dad dropped
in without notice anytime they wanted and stayed as long

(21:37):
as they wanted. And I went over there one time
and it was like, does she come by whenever? She's like, yep,
she comes by whenever she wants. So if you take
financial assistance for mom and dad, mom and dad will
call the shots in your life.

Speaker 2 (21:52):
So try not to.

Speaker 7 (21:53):
Yeah, Ill, that's awful. It's not your space anymore.

Speaker 6 (21:56):
Yeah, all right, Well these are reasons people cancel their
weddings last minute. Two months before the wedding, a day
after we mailed the invitations, my boss told me he
needed me to go work in another country for three months.
At least you paid for my fiance to go with me.
But they ended up not having the wedding because he
didn't end up going with her.

Speaker 2 (22:17):
And they broke up.

Speaker 7 (22:18):
They broke up.

Speaker 6 (22:18):
SID said it wasn't exactly last minute, but my ex
wanted to postpone our wedding day for someone else's birthday. No, no,
oh gosh, I planned our wedding day. Our hour planned
wedding day came and went, and we just never got
the momentum back and we broke up by the end
of the year.

Speaker 5 (22:36):
Basically, well, now I need to know whose birthday it was, like,
how close his birthday?

Speaker 7 (22:40):
She always goes all out. I can't miss it.

Speaker 6 (22:43):
I mean, you would think that you probably wouldn't plan
your birthday or your wedding around someone's birthday. But at
the same time, if that's the only time a venue
is available, I'm sure your close family member is not
going to mind. No, I don't know whatever. My friend
canceled her wedding when the cops showed up to question
her fiance about some crazy allegation. He said, goodbye, goodbye

(23:04):
to you. Let's see a couple more. My fiance saw
me gardening and freaked out. He said he couldn't marry
someone who did manual labor.

Speaker 2 (23:13):
What wow, gardening?

Speaker 6 (23:16):
Yes, yeah, I thought it was the other thing at first.

Speaker 7 (23:19):
It's not no actual gardening.

Speaker 6 (23:20):
What I want I would love I do manual labor,
and I want my partner.

Speaker 7 (23:25):
To a labor so dirty hands.

Speaker 6 (23:29):
But one other one, my fiance met me for lunch
and slid a prenup in front of me two weeks
before the wedding.

Speaker 7 (23:36):
I wouldn't have gotten anything.

Speaker 6 (23:38):
Meanwhile, I would have had to help him take care
of his mother, and there were so many other provisions
in it for me. And he took me somewhere to
get it notarized and I refused to sign it. He
tried to bargain with me, but I was just not
having it. Yeah, I really feel like if you're going
to do a prenup, which I'm actually all four having
prenups just to like keep things more civil if anything
bad does happen. But if you're gonna have a prenup,

(24:00):
you can't do that two weeks before a wedding. Yet's
too close to the wedding. And so they called it
off and that was the end of it. And there
you go, reasons people call off their.

Speaker 1 (24:09):
Wedding and random phone calls this morning, So let's find
out what Phoebe has to talk about. Good morning, Phoebe. Hey,
what is your issue that we need to put on
the radio. What's going on?

Speaker 3 (24:19):
I mean, I just need you guys to talk my
friends out of doing.

Speaker 2 (24:21):
Something, Okay, what is she doing?

Speaker 3 (24:26):
Uh?

Speaker 9 (24:27):
So, basically she wants to like act a fool at
our friend's wedding.

Speaker 4 (24:33):
And I just need you to like get this out.

Speaker 7 (24:36):
What do you mean like she's gonna get hammered or.

Speaker 2 (24:40):
White?

Speaker 7 (24:40):
Oh to a wedding?

Speaker 6 (24:42):
Big, that's like the only rule you have to follow
going to a wedding. Get as drunk as you want,
but don't wear white.

Speaker 2 (24:47):
Why does she want to wear white to your friend's wedding?

Speaker 3 (24:50):
She's being abnorming obnoxious.

Speaker 4 (24:52):
She just literally wants to be obnoxious.

Speaker 7 (24:54):
Okay, wh.

Speaker 2 (24:57):
Why though? And why haven't you able to talk her
out of it?

Speaker 8 (25:01):
What?

Speaker 1 (25:01):
Because everybody knows that you're not supposed to wear white too,
that's even I'm a dude, and you're not supposed to
wear white or red to a wedding.

Speaker 2 (25:08):
I heard of red, I never heard. Well, I don't
understand why white?

Speaker 7 (25:11):
Well because the yeah, but I mean that's typical for a.

Speaker 1 (25:17):
Go down vont Avenue on this that is, No, we
are not von Avenue, von Avenue. You know what, I
don't turn right on. No, we don't have time for
vont Avenue today. So what do you have any idea?

Speaker 2 (25:32):
Do you want? You want us to talk her out
of it.

Speaker 3 (25:35):
We have tried. It is falling on deaf ears.

Speaker 9 (25:37):
She's going full of lexus from Ship's.

Speaker 10 (25:39):
Creek like it's okay, it's okay, it's okay.

Speaker 2 (25:42):
It's a real show. It's a real show.

Speaker 1 (25:43):
Okay, So we are going to do we have her number,
give me a second.

Speaker 6 (25:53):
She emailed it, Yeah, she emailed it over. So I
didn't know if we did want to actually call her not.
But I can try calling her if you want.

Speaker 1 (25:59):
Why you try calling her and then I will give
you a second. And while you're trying to call her,
let me turn your microphone off, Jenny, I will tell
you a couple of update updates. Okay, Number one, I
got Wordlin three today. Congrats number two. There's a certain
police department that heard us talking about how I got
Wordlin three today, and they brought it up in their
roll call meeting this morning. And I don't want to

(26:20):
shout him out or anything. Wow, but a local police
department said, yeah, I heard Dave Ryan Tay's plays wordle
every day. Yeah, I got it in three. I got
connections with no clues and I got strands with only
one clue.

Speaker 5 (26:32):
Don't wait a minute, Wait a minute, So the police,
the police, they said, all right, here's our morning meeting.
We got to do this this there's an accident. Oh it,
make sure you do word because they've got it in.
That's that was the meeting this morning, pretty much.

Speaker 8 (26:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (26:44):
Wow, And they all trade their words because you know what,
you guys are not intellectuals.

Speaker 2 (26:49):
I am. I do wordle with the other smartness. You
get what?

Speaker 6 (26:54):
Oh she didn't answer at first, but I tried her again.

Speaker 7 (26:57):
She's here, are you serious? We have more on the phone.

Speaker 1 (27:00):
Okay, Now, if you didn't hear this a minute ago, Morgan,
we've been talking about you.

Speaker 3 (27:06):
Hello.

Speaker 2 (27:08):
Yes, we're on the radio right now.

Speaker 1 (27:10):
Your friend Phoebe called in and she told us that
you're gonna wear white at a friend's wedding, and she
wants us to talk you out of it. But I
got to hear why you want to wear white at
this friend's wedding.

Speaker 4 (27:21):
Yeah, yeah, I decided I'm going to.

Speaker 9 (27:26):
No.

Speaker 4 (27:26):
The bride slept with my ex.

Speaker 3 (27:29):
Back in the day.

Speaker 4 (27:31):
And she doesn't know that I know, but I'm just
going to go to the wedding and embarrass.

Speaker 7 (27:38):
Her a little bit.

Speaker 5 (27:40):
But it's her day, So how long back in the day,
was this, like, why are we still holding a grudge?

Speaker 4 (27:46):
She was like six years ago. I was dating the
guy for like three and a half years, so going and.

Speaker 1 (27:53):
She knew that you were dating this guy, and she
hooked up with him anyway, And so now she doesn't know.
So you're still on the guest list for the wedding.
So your plan is to wear white to the wedding.
Now I would say just either. I mean, if you're
determined to do it, then you go whatever, but just

(28:13):
don't go. But I think you're gonna embarrass herself more
than you're gonna embarrass her.

Speaker 4 (28:19):
I mean, I can cause her a little stress on
her big days. I mean, I'm not going to wreck
her relationship by wearing white. She wrecked my relationship.

Speaker 6 (28:29):
This was like six years ago. Why are you still
holding on to this? You should have confronted her by now.

Speaker 2 (28:34):
Some people want a confrontational like that.

Speaker 5 (28:36):
They'd rather just make a statement and showing up to
the wedding in white is her statement.

Speaker 8 (28:40):
Could come in white with like shades on and like
a bottle and a brown bag. Just sit in the back, yeah,
hammer with their sunglasses on and dress.

Speaker 1 (28:50):
Phoebe has tried to talk you out of this. Phoebe,
I can't get through to her. What have you tried
to tell her?

Speaker 3 (28:56):
Literally, she's being petty and crazy, like if you don't
want to do this, like this is how you want
to act, and like, don't go.

Speaker 1 (29:04):
Are you going to be a Phoebe? You're you're going
to be there right? Yes, it's gonna be embarrassing. Do
you want to embarrass Phoebe? Because Phoebe is probably gonna
hang out with you and sit with you and be
at your same table.

Speaker 10 (29:14):
You're gonna be not if you're gonna be dressed in white.

Speaker 1 (29:16):
Oh, you're not going to So you're gonna avoid You're
gonna avoid Morgan at the wedding.

Speaker 2 (29:21):
Morgan sitting alone? I mean, what do you say, Morgan?

Speaker 4 (29:28):
Phoebe is one of the good ones, Like our entire
friend group knew and didn't tell me. So I don't
really care what people think of me, but I need
a good guest otherwise, like I got them a gift
off their registry, I went to the bridal shower everything else.
I just think it's time to make a little statement.

Speaker 6 (29:47):
But don't you think that it's just going to be
embarrassing for you, because I don't really feel like it
embarrasses the bride. I think that it's embarrassing for everyone
to be talking about me in a room and not
in a positive way, which is what's going to happen.

Speaker 1 (29:58):
Well, that's a win, though, isn't it. Though, that's a win.
You take one for the team and everybody's talking about you.
But at the same time, you're a major distraction from
this bride's wedding, So that's a win. I'm on I'm
all of a sudden on morgan side.

Speaker 2 (30:15):
There's a bunch of text messages.

Speaker 10 (30:16):
You were supposed to help me.

Speaker 7 (30:18):
Yeah, maybe I'm not on Morgan's side here at all.

Speaker 3 (30:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (30:23):
No, because the bride slept with Morgan's boyfriend instead, we're
red instead, because that's what that means usually.

Speaker 6 (30:31):
No, it means that you slept with the groom. Morgan.
Have you slept with this girl getting married her groom?

Speaker 3 (30:38):
No?

Speaker 7 (30:38):
Okay, well that's not yeah though, because.

Speaker 2 (30:41):
What a bunch of text messages.

Speaker 5 (30:48):
Text messages say, does she realize that she will not
embarrass the bride and will only make her look like
an a hole? And then some people say, I agree, Dave,
she's gonna embarrass herself more than the actual bride, looking
like an idiot. And then there are some people team Morgan.

Speaker 2 (31:00):
I'm team Morgan.

Speaker 8 (31:01):
Someone says if I were Phoebe, I would pour red
wine all of her Morgan's white dress, just saying.

Speaker 7 (31:05):
Oh, it's gonna be a That is the wedding I
want to go to.

Speaker 1 (31:09):
That is a wedding I want to go to. A
text message up by the way, Morgan Morgan plans on
wearing white to her friend's wedding because her friend slept
with Morgan's boyfriends six years ago and the bride knew
that they were seeing each other. So Phoebe called us
and said, talk my friend Morgan out of wearing white
to the wedding, and we're not.

Speaker 2 (31:26):
Able to do it. So she's determined.

Speaker 9 (31:28):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (31:29):
This text says, my ex mother in law wore white
to my wedding. It only embarrassed her. I did not
give two f's about her wearing white, but she looked
like the crazy monster in law that she truly was see.

Speaker 7 (31:41):
And going down vont Avenue.

Speaker 5 (31:43):
I just I've been to a lot of weddings, never
ever heard of that rule or understood why it.

Speaker 1 (31:48):
Was guys can wear, Guys can wear. You know, no
guy's gonna wear like a white suit to a wedding.

Speaker 5 (31:52):
He's surprised you might find an old pop up that
pulls a soup like his grandson's baptism.

Speaker 1 (31:59):
Morgan, Team Morgan. I'm on your side, only for the drama.
I hope that you get wine port on your dress.
Happy wedding, Happy holidays.

Speaker 3 (32:09):
Thanks guys.

Speaker 2 (32:10):
Yeah buddy, He's like, I'll never calling you guys. I
don't know, I don't know what else to say.

Speaker 8 (32:13):
Thanks.

Speaker 2 (32:13):
Bye,
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