October 9, 2025 • 14 mins
Sophia is concerned because she's dating Jared but he never wants to do anything. He goes alone to concerts and restaurants but never invites her and she thinks he might not be all that into her.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Gaddy a cheater, one fake booquet of Roses at a time.
Four of the Roses stars right now on kt WB.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
What would you do if you were dating somebody but
you never did anything with them? I mean, I don't
even know what you do if you're dating somebody and
then like you never go anywhere.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I mean, I like some independence, but I still want
to hang out with them every once in a while.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
You know.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Well, yeah, well we're talking to Sofia, who is telling
me about is your boyfriend Jared has that his name?
Speaker 5 (00:30):
Yeah, Jared?
Speaker 6 (00:31):
Okay, So tell me a little.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Bit about why you're on War of the Roses and
what makes you think that he might be doing things
just not with you.
Speaker 6 (00:39):
What's going on?
Speaker 5 (00:41):
So he does a lot of stuff and he says
he's doing it by himself. Like he will go out
to eat, like he went to Redstone the other night
and he was like, oh, I just sat at the
bar by myself for a few hours. And he'll go
to concerts or like live music or the movies, and
he always says that he's going alone, Like he doesn't
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invite me. He doesn't say he went with a friend.
And so now I'm starting to get suspicious, like are
these dates that he's going on and he just doesn't
want to say that. Is he cheating?
Speaker 2 (01:15):
And I don't know what's going Juan war the Roses
first three three decades now, wow, unaccounted for time is
always like suspicious?
Speaker 5 (01:26):
What is it?
Speaker 4 (01:26):
Unaccounted for? If he's saying, this is where I'm going.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
That's what I was gonna say. He tells you where
he's going. You said, he said Redstone the other day,
So he actually tells you, like if he's out at
this bar, or if he's out at this show or something.
Speaker 6 (01:39):
Have you ever tried showing up?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
No?
Speaker 5 (01:42):
But sometimes he does share his location with me, so
I know he's telling the truth about where he's going. Okay, okay,
well that's this is that he's there alone.
Speaker 6 (01:52):
Why doesn't he take you along?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Sophia? You sound charming and delightful. You must have something
in common. Why doesn't he invite you?
Speaker 5 (02:00):
Thank you? I you know, I asked him, and he
just said he thought that I wouldn't want to go
because like you're an introvert. I know you like to
just stay home. I don't want to bother you.
Speaker 6 (02:12):
And what do you say?
Speaker 2 (02:13):
I mean I mean, do you respond with like, yo,
I don't want to go, or I'm gonna guess you say, well,
I want to go sometimes, roll.
Speaker 5 (02:21):
Because I do said I want to go sometimes, and
I get I guess he is maybe right then some
of the you know, music and stuff maybe isn't my thing,
and I do. I work a lot, and so I
do like to stay home. But I still would like
him to ask, and I still would like to spend
more time with him.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
Yeah, because what if he is doing something with shady
and he just knows, well, she's not going to go,
so I can do shady stuff even though she knows
where I am.
Speaker 7 (02:46):
I'd be funny if one day you're like, actually, I
do want to go to Redstone with you and he's like.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
H I just I mean never min So does he
tell you these like I'm going out tonight to Redstone
or does he say the next morning like, well where
were you? And then he like, oh, I was at
the Fine Line seeing the I don't know when act
last night.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
I feel like it's usually at night I'll be like, oh,
what are you doing and he'll say like, oh, I'm
I'm out at that Stone. I'm out at I just
am leaving the movies. There's something that you know, if
he has his location on, he knows I can see.
I know he's tying of truth.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
Okay, at least with like concerts though, like those, Yeah,
it's a good thing.
Speaker 6 (03:29):
That you have the location on.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
But it's not like he's going to say like, oh,
I I wasn't at this concert becausect there's so many
people there, Like you could get away with doing anything
at this concert for sure.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
And I also feel like him giving the location could
be like a covering his tracks kind of thing, like, Oh,
she's gonna trust me if I give her my location,
but she doesn't know who else is going to be there.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
As a very experienced liar, the more details I can
give about my lie, the more authentic it seems. That
that so you think that it's possible that he's seeing
somebody else.
Speaker 6 (04:01):
We can get to the bottom of this.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
We can make a phone call to him and do
our usual ploy and say, hey, you take this survey
for your phone company.
Speaker 6 (04:09):
You win some roses. Who do you want to send
the roses to?
Speaker 4 (04:11):
Now?
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Your name is Sophia. Remember that Sophia the matter is
the name that matters that's the one we want to
hear you. Hang on, Sophia. We'll make a phone call
to this guy coming up in a second.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Okay, okay, none of everyone deserves closure, but we do.
It's signer Part two of War of the Roses on
Katie WB.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
So basically she's wondering what's going on. It's like, okay,
where'd you? Where were you last night? I went over
to Redstone, I had dinner at the bar by myself alone. Yeah,
I mean, not total too unusual. Well where'd you go
last What are you doing tonight? I'm gonna go see
a movie by myself? Okay? So now she's going all right.
It's one thing to kind of be a loner, but
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to never invite her along. So she's like, now the
wheels are turning. Yeah, she's he's with somebody else.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Yeah, he must be, because why isn't the inviting.
Speaker 6 (05:03):
Her, Which is a very good point.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Right, all right, let's find out who he'll send the
roses to if we offer him free roses on War
of the Roses on Katie WB.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Making the phone call, Jared, I appreciate your time today,
So I do have a dozen red roses to send
out to whoever you'd like, whether it's a partner or
a friend, maybe your mom. But I'll need to know
the name of that person. So if you could just
tell me who you want to send those two, sure.
Speaker 5 (05:38):
You can send it to Sophia.
Speaker 6 (05:41):
Who's Sophia.
Speaker 5 (05:44):
She's this girl I've been seeing.
Speaker 6 (05:46):
Okay, so your girlfriend? Sure?
Speaker 5 (05:51):
Yeah, I guess so.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
That doesn't if I was seeing someone, i'd want more
of a yeah, yeah, that's my girlfriend.
Speaker 6 (06:01):
Do you like surprises, Jared.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
I guess it depends on the surprise.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Well, I have a little bit of surprise for you,
and it's not a terrible thing. The reason why all
of a sudden there's a guy on the phone is
because this was all a setup to see if you
would send roses to Sophia, which you did. And my
name is Dave and we're on the radio on Katie
w B oh yeah and so and so. The person
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that put us up to this to see if they
wanted to test you is Sophia, who's listening right now.
Speaker 6 (06:36):
Say Hi, Sophia, Hi, I am here.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Oh he share, what's up? I'm sorry you hear so
much stuff for yourself that I was kind of trying
to think that you're lying that you're split some one else.
Speaker 6 (06:54):
You thought I was seeing somebody else.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Well, I don't want to like explain, but you know,
she basically said, you go to all these things by yourself,
Like you go to Redstone, you go to movies, you
go to shows whatever, by yourself. And she's like, well,
why do you Why do you go everywhere by yourself.
Speaker 5 (07:14):
And you don't invite me?
Speaker 6 (07:18):
Well, I invite you sometimes.
Speaker 5 (07:22):
But most of the time you don't. I feel like, well,
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (07:26):
I just I like, I don't know, being by myself.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
That's always just kind of been a lone wolf.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
A lone wolf, okay, I mean is there anything wrong
with that? Well, nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
I want to know. When he chose her to send
the flowers to her, he was just kind of like, yeah,
I guess she's kind of like my girlfriend. Are they
not exclusive or you guys? Did you guys have the
talk yet?
Speaker 5 (07:50):
You know?
Speaker 6 (07:50):
I guess.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
It. Yes, I kind of get that maybe they should.
Speaker 7 (07:57):
I like you, Sophia, but if you're a lone wolf,
then why have a girlfriend?
Speaker 5 (08:04):
That what I was gonna ask you, you know, why
do you do you do you even want a girlfriend
who seem like you'd rather just be alone.
Speaker 6 (08:13):
Yeah, of course. I mean Sophia is great, and I
like being with her some of the time.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
And I understand this guy. I know, and I totally
get this guy. He wants he loves his alone time.
He's kind of what do they call it, a not
a rec loose, A lone wolf, a hermit alone wolf.
He's a lone wolf. I kind of like being a
lone wolf sometimes. I mean to go to Colorado by myself. Yeah,
and I can last three or four or five days
out there without Susan around, and it's just fine.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
But you've been married to Susan.
Speaker 7 (08:43):
This is a new relationship, so it should be like
fresh and you should want to do things with your partner.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
I'm actually on Dave's side, which is not normal for me.
I am really about spending time by myself, even if
I'm in a new relationship.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
To eat wherever you want, watch whatever you want, go
to bed when you want, get his drunk because you
want to.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
So you're saying Sophia should just go out and live
her own life too, and then they both want That's
what I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (09:07):
I'm that's what I'm saying that there's ships in the night.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
That's the part we're advocating for.
Speaker 6 (09:12):
Sophia wants more time.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
Together, right exactly. I think that's a validation. Will this
relationship last? Sophia, you're up first?
Speaker 5 (09:20):
I don't know. I guess what is you know? Going?
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (09:24):
How it is if you're as long as it's not
that you're trying to meet someone else or that you're
going on dates and lying about it. I understand why
I to spend time alone, but I would like to
spend more time with you and get to know you better.
Speaker 6 (09:44):
I mean, yeah, that sounds great.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
You're You're welcome to come with me to movies sometimes,
you know, sometimes.
Speaker 6 (09:54):
Get like how many days?
Speaker 3 (09:56):
How many more days a week? Are you going to
hang out?
Speaker 7 (09:58):
Jared?
Speaker 3 (09:58):
Are you willing to give her one more day to
hang out a week at least one?
Speaker 5 (10:03):
Yeah? Sure?
Speaker 3 (10:04):
Why not?
Speaker 7 (10:05):
Just don't sound confident, my god, in any of your answers.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
I think that there are couples like you know that
that are fine spending time apart, and then there are
couples that are like, I got to be together all
the time. I think that, like Susan was gone last night,
she was out at Purse Bingo. Yeah, I guess you
went to pers Yeah, yeah, pur Bingo. She won fifty
dollars and I loved it. I watched Scarface on TV. Yes,
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I got on my treadmill, I got some steps in
and and then when she came home, she came home
you know late, Yeah, and you know she smelt like cologne,
oh no, and leather, Oh no, leather, yeah, leather. And
so I enjoyed my time alone last night. Yeah, I
totally did. Yeah, I loved time alone. I mean I
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do everything by myself.
Speaker 4 (10:55):
And the last relationship that I was in it was
like a it was very much a COVID real relationships.
So when lockdown was happening, we spent all of our
time together, so that once things started opening up, I
went back to my life doing everything by myself and
going out and doing things. And he was like, you
never invite me anywhere, Like, okay, well why don't you
come along then? And then he would complain the whole time,
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So I stopped inviting him.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
So when you talk about this guy, I'm just I've
never heard of anything. But I'm not trying to critique,
but I've never heard you say anything really pleasant about
this former boyfriend that's.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
Really funny, but he was funny, so funny, but still
like so I wonder, I kind of wonder what her
attitude is when she did go along, and maybe that
also kind of tarnished it a little bit. Or you know,
maybe he just does like to spend time by himself,
which is totally valid too.
Speaker 7 (11:42):
Yeah, I just I'd spent almost every minute that I'm
home with my girlfriend Alyssa, because we're the only two
real close people we have with each other. But we
understand going in separate room sometimes is fine, or just
not being next to each other every single minute. This
guy's problem is that he just never wants to do
anything with Sophia. Ever, that's an issue. There are some
text messages.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
Here's when it says, my fiance told me that he
wants to be in a relationship three or four days
out of the week. Other than that, he wants his independence,
not to be with other people, but just to be alone.
And I think that sometimes that's really hard for extroverts
to understand why you want to be alone. And I
think that more and more people are now openly and
proudly admitting hey, I'm an introvert. Yeah, you know, I
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enjoy my time being social, but maybe not for like
a long time. I mean, sometimes we'll do something social
and after an hour or two, I'm like, Okay, you not.
Speaker 6 (12:35):
Ready to go? Can we get out of here?
Speaker 2 (12:37):
And other people that just thrive on that. Yeah, And
I think people are learning that it's it's okay to
be either way.
Speaker 7 (12:42):
I think COVID taught people straight across the board fifty
to fifty, like codependency, but also like I've learned to
do things by myself and I'm going to keep doing
things by myself.
Speaker 6 (12:51):
There is no in between. Yeah, I mean, what do
they say that you are born alone? You dialogue? I mean,
what a sad thing? God, Bailey, well anything any other
good news?
Speaker 4 (13:00):
No, but you should be like comfortable being by yourself,
and especially with like someone who you're in a relationship
with and you do spend a lot of waking hours with,
but then also like right up in their business all
the time. I would totally want to have time to
be like I'm leaving this room and I don't want
you to come with me. Like I think that's a
totally valid thing to want. Maybe I'm I'm literally just
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projecting a little bit.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
Susan wants to go see her best friend, who now
doesn't live here anymore, after you know, living here for
thirty years.
Speaker 6 (13:29):
Yeah, she lives down in Nashville, I want to say.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
And so she's like, I'm thinking about going down seeing Terium, Like,
let me help you pack, let me give you ride
to the airport.
Speaker 6 (13:38):
When do you want to leave right now? Let's go
mean maybe next week? Well why not right now?
Speaker 2 (13:42):
Taxi's going text messages that will wrap up War of
the Roses. This text says, I like Jared, the guy
that likes to be alone. My husband and I have
totally separate lives and interest and friend groups with some overlap,
but we very much love our time together. Been together
for twenty years. I think that's true. Some couple want
to be around each other all the time, and I
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think that's great, and other ones are like, you know what,
I spent the afternoon with you. I'm not going to
be here tonight.
Speaker 6 (14:10):
Yeah, you people.
Speaker 4 (14:11):
A problem is that there are two different types of
people and they probably it probably won't work out between
Sophia and Jured.
Speaker 6 (14:17):
Probably not, And that is go ahead.
Speaker 7 (14:19):
People are texting like I guess because I said that
this guy has a problem. I'm not saying that. I'm
just he never wants to be with her. It seems
like Sophia literally was just like, he never invites me anywhere.
I'm not saying you have to be at your partner's
hit at twenty four to seven, right, I'm just saying,
do something, you know,
Gaddy a cheater, one fake booquet of Roses at a time.
Four of the Roses stars right now on kt WB.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
What would you do if you were dating somebody but
you never did anything with them? I mean, I don't
even know what you do if you're dating somebody and
then like you never go anywhere.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I mean, I like some independence, but I still want
to hang out with them every once in a while.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
You know.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Well, yeah, well we're talking to Sofia, who is telling
me about is your boyfriend Jared has that his name?
Speaker 5 (00:30):
Yeah, Jared?
Speaker 6 (00:31):
Okay, So tell me a little.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Bit about why you're on War of the Roses and
what makes you think that he might be doing things
just not with you.
Speaker 6 (00:39):
What's going on?
Speaker 5 (00:41):
So he does a lot of stuff and he says
he's doing it by himself. Like he will go out
to eat, like he went to Redstone the other night
and he was like, oh, I just sat at the
bar by myself for a few hours. And he'll go
to concerts or like live music or the movies, and
he always says that he's going alone, Like he doesn't
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invite me. He doesn't say he went with a friend.
And so now I'm starting to get suspicious, like are
these dates that he's going on and he just doesn't
want to say that. Is he cheating?
Speaker 2 (01:15):
And I don't know what's going Juan war the Roses
first three three decades now, wow, unaccounted for time is
always like suspicious?
Speaker 5 (01:26):
What is it?
Speaker 4 (01:26):
Unaccounted for? If he's saying, this is where I'm going.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
That's what I was gonna say. He tells you where
he's going. You said, he said Redstone the other day,
So he actually tells you, like if he's out at
this bar, or if he's out at this show or something.
Speaker 6 (01:39):
Have you ever tried showing up?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
No?
Speaker 5 (01:42):
But sometimes he does share his location with me, so
I know he's telling the truth about where he's going. Okay, okay,
well that's this is that he's there alone.
Speaker 6 (01:52):
Why doesn't he take you along?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Sophia? You sound charming and delightful. You must have something
in common. Why doesn't he invite you?
Speaker 5 (02:00):
Thank you? I you know, I asked him, and he
just said he thought that I wouldn't want to go
because like you're an introvert. I know you like to
just stay home. I don't want to bother you.
Speaker 6 (02:12):
And what do you say?
Speaker 2 (02:13):
I mean I mean, do you respond with like, yo,
I don't want to go, or I'm gonna guess you say, well,
I want to go sometimes, roll.
Speaker 5 (02:21):
Because I do said I want to go sometimes, and
I get I guess he is maybe right then some
of the you know, music and stuff maybe isn't my thing,
and I do. I work a lot, and so I
do like to stay home. But I still would like
him to ask, and I still would like to spend
more time with him.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
Yeah, because what if he is doing something with shady
and he just knows, well, she's not going to go,
so I can do shady stuff even though she knows
where I am.
Speaker 7 (02:46):
I'd be funny if one day you're like, actually, I
do want to go to Redstone with you and he's like.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
H I just I mean never min So does he
tell you these like I'm going out tonight to Redstone
or does he say the next morning like, well where
were you? And then he like, oh, I was at
the Fine Line seeing the I don't know when act
last night.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
I feel like it's usually at night I'll be like, oh,
what are you doing and he'll say like, oh, I'm
I'm out at that Stone. I'm out at I just
am leaving the movies. There's something that you know, if
he has his location on, he knows I can see.
I know he's tying of truth.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
Okay, at least with like concerts though, like those, Yeah,
it's a good thing.
Speaker 6 (03:29):
That you have the location on.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
But it's not like he's going to say like, oh,
I I wasn't at this concert becausect there's so many
people there, Like you could get away with doing anything
at this concert for sure.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
And I also feel like him giving the location could
be like a covering his tracks kind of thing, like, Oh,
she's gonna trust me if I give her my location,
but she doesn't know who else is going to be there.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
As a very experienced liar, the more details I can
give about my lie, the more authentic it seems. That
that so you think that it's possible that he's seeing
somebody else.
Speaker 6 (04:01):
We can get to the bottom of this.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
We can make a phone call to him and do
our usual ploy and say, hey, you take this survey
for your phone company.
Speaker 6 (04:09):
You win some roses. Who do you want to send
the roses to?
Speaker 4 (04:11):
Now?
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Your name is Sophia. Remember that Sophia the matter is
the name that matters that's the one we want to
hear you. Hang on, Sophia. We'll make a phone call
to this guy coming up in a second.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Okay, okay, none of everyone deserves closure, but we do.
It's signer Part two of War of the Roses on
Katie WB.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
So basically she's wondering what's going on. It's like, okay,
where'd you? Where were you last night? I went over
to Redstone, I had dinner at the bar by myself alone. Yeah,
I mean, not total too unusual. Well where'd you go
last What are you doing tonight? I'm gonna go see
a movie by myself? Okay? So now she's going all right.
It's one thing to kind of be a loner, but
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to never invite her along. So she's like, now the
wheels are turning. Yeah, she's he's with somebody else.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Yeah, he must be, because why isn't the inviting.
Speaker 6 (05:03):
Her, Which is a very good point.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Right, all right, let's find out who he'll send the
roses to if we offer him free roses on War
of the Roses on Katie WB.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Making the phone call, Jared, I appreciate your time today,
So I do have a dozen red roses to send
out to whoever you'd like, whether it's a partner or
a friend, maybe your mom. But I'll need to know
the name of that person. So if you could just
tell me who you want to send those two, sure.
Speaker 5 (05:38):
You can send it to Sophia.
Speaker 6 (05:41):
Who's Sophia.
Speaker 5 (05:44):
She's this girl I've been seeing.
Speaker 6 (05:46):
Okay, so your girlfriend? Sure?
Speaker 5 (05:51):
Yeah, I guess so.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
That doesn't if I was seeing someone, i'd want more
of a yeah, yeah, that's my girlfriend.
Speaker 6 (06:01):
Do you like surprises, Jared.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
I guess it depends on the surprise.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Well, I have a little bit of surprise for you,
and it's not a terrible thing. The reason why all
of a sudden there's a guy on the phone is
because this was all a setup to see if you
would send roses to Sophia, which you did. And my
name is Dave and we're on the radio on Katie
w B oh yeah and so and so. The person
(06:30):
that put us up to this to see if they
wanted to test you is Sophia, who's listening right now.
Speaker 6 (06:36):
Say Hi, Sophia, Hi, I am here.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Oh he share, what's up? I'm sorry you hear so
much stuff for yourself that I was kind of trying
to think that you're lying that you're split some one else.
Speaker 6 (06:54):
You thought I was seeing somebody else.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Well, I don't want to like explain, but you know,
she basically said, you go to all these things by yourself,
Like you go to Redstone, you go to movies, you
go to shows whatever, by yourself. And she's like, well,
why do you Why do you go everywhere by yourself.
Speaker 5 (07:14):
And you don't invite me?
Speaker 6 (07:18):
Well, I invite you sometimes.
Speaker 5 (07:22):
But most of the time you don't. I feel like, well,
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (07:26):
I just I like, I don't know, being by myself.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
That's always just kind of been a lone wolf.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
A lone wolf, okay, I mean is there anything wrong
with that? Well, nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
I want to know. When he chose her to send
the flowers to her, he was just kind of like, yeah,
I guess she's kind of like my girlfriend. Are they
not exclusive or you guys? Did you guys have the
talk yet?
Speaker 5 (07:50):
You know?
Speaker 6 (07:50):
I guess.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
It. Yes, I kind of get that maybe they should.
Speaker 7 (07:57):
I like you, Sophia, but if you're a lone wolf,
then why have a girlfriend?
Speaker 5 (08:04):
That what I was gonna ask you, you know, why
do you do you do you even want a girlfriend
who seem like you'd rather just be alone.
Speaker 6 (08:13):
Yeah, of course. I mean Sophia is great, and I
like being with her some of the time.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
And I understand this guy. I know, and I totally
get this guy. He wants he loves his alone time.
He's kind of what do they call it, a not
a rec loose, A lone wolf, a hermit alone wolf.
He's a lone wolf. I kind of like being a
lone wolf sometimes. I mean to go to Colorado by myself. Yeah,
and I can last three or four or five days
out there without Susan around, and it's just fine.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
But you've been married to Susan.
Speaker 7 (08:43):
This is a new relationship, so it should be like
fresh and you should want to do things with your partner.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
I'm actually on Dave's side, which is not normal for me.
I am really about spending time by myself, even if
I'm in a new relationship.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
To eat wherever you want, watch whatever you want, go
to bed when you want, get his drunk because you
want to.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
So you're saying Sophia should just go out and live
her own life too, and then they both want That's
what I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (09:07):
I'm that's what I'm saying that there's ships in the night.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
That's the part we're advocating for.
Speaker 6 (09:12):
Sophia wants more time.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
Together, right exactly. I think that's a validation. Will this
relationship last? Sophia, you're up first?
Speaker 5 (09:20):
I don't know. I guess what is you know? Going?
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (09:24):
How it is if you're as long as it's not
that you're trying to meet someone else or that you're
going on dates and lying about it. I understand why
I to spend time alone, but I would like to
spend more time with you and get to know you better.
Speaker 6 (09:44):
I mean, yeah, that sounds great.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
You're You're welcome to come with me to movies sometimes,
you know, sometimes.
Speaker 6 (09:54):
Get like how many days?
Speaker 3 (09:56):
How many more days a week? Are you going to
hang out?
Speaker 7 (09:58):
Jared?
Speaker 3 (09:58):
Are you willing to give her one more day to
hang out a week at least one?
Speaker 5 (10:03):
Yeah? Sure?
Speaker 3 (10:04):
Why not?
Speaker 7 (10:05):
Just don't sound confident, my god, in any of your answers.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
I think that there are couples like you know that
that are fine spending time apart, and then there are
couples that are like, I got to be together all
the time. I think that, like Susan was gone last night,
she was out at Purse Bingo. Yeah, I guess you
went to pers Yeah, yeah, pur Bingo. She won fifty
dollars and I loved it. I watched Scarface on TV. Yes,
(10:33):
I got on my treadmill, I got some steps in
and and then when she came home, she came home
you know late, Yeah, and you know she smelt like cologne,
oh no, and leather, Oh no, leather, yeah, leather. And
so I enjoyed my time alone last night. Yeah, I
totally did. Yeah, I loved time alone. I mean I
(10:54):
do everything by myself.
Speaker 4 (10:55):
And the last relationship that I was in it was
like a it was very much a COVID real relationships.
So when lockdown was happening, we spent all of our
time together, so that once things started opening up, I
went back to my life doing everything by myself and
going out and doing things. And he was like, you
never invite me anywhere, Like, okay, well why don't you
come along then? And then he would complain the whole time,
(11:16):
So I stopped inviting him.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
So when you talk about this guy, I'm just I've
never heard of anything. But I'm not trying to critique,
but I've never heard you say anything really pleasant about
this former boyfriend that's.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
Really funny, but he was funny, so funny, but still
like so I wonder, I kind of wonder what her
attitude is when she did go along, and maybe that
also kind of tarnished it a little bit. Or you know,
maybe he just does like to spend time by himself,
which is totally valid too.
Speaker 7 (11:42):
Yeah, I just I'd spent almost every minute that I'm
home with my girlfriend Alyssa, because we're the only two
real close people we have with each other. But we
understand going in separate room sometimes is fine, or just
not being next to each other every single minute. This
guy's problem is that he just never wants to do
anything with Sophia. Ever, that's an issue. There are some
text messages.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
Here's when it says, my fiance told me that he
wants to be in a relationship three or four days
out of the week. Other than that, he wants his independence,
not to be with other people, but just to be alone.
And I think that sometimes that's really hard for extroverts
to understand why you want to be alone. And I
think that more and more people are now openly and
proudly admitting hey, I'm an introvert. Yeah, you know, I
(12:24):
enjoy my time being social, but maybe not for like
a long time. I mean, sometimes we'll do something social
and after an hour or two, I'm like, Okay, you not.
Speaker 6 (12:35):
Ready to go? Can we get out of here?
Speaker 2 (12:37):
And other people that just thrive on that. Yeah, And
I think people are learning that it's it's okay to
be either way.
Speaker 7 (12:42):
I think COVID taught people straight across the board fifty
to fifty, like codependency, but also like I've learned to
do things by myself and I'm going to keep doing
things by myself.
Speaker 6 (12:51):
There is no in between. Yeah, I mean, what do
they say that you are born alone? You dialogue? I mean,
what a sad thing? God, Bailey, well anything any other
good news?
Speaker 4 (13:00):
No, but you should be like comfortable being by yourself,
and especially with like someone who you're in a relationship
with and you do spend a lot of waking hours with,
but then also like right up in their business all
the time. I would totally want to have time to
be like I'm leaving this room and I don't want
you to come with me. Like I think that's a
totally valid thing to want. Maybe I'm I'm literally just
(13:21):
projecting a little bit.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
Susan wants to go see her best friend, who now
doesn't live here anymore, after you know, living here for
thirty years.
Speaker 6 (13:29):
Yeah, she lives down in Nashville, I want to say.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
And so she's like, I'm thinking about going down seeing Terium, Like,
let me help you pack, let me give you ride
to the airport.
Speaker 6 (13:38):
When do you want to leave right now? Let's go
mean maybe next week? Well why not right now?
Speaker 2 (13:42):
Taxi's going text messages that will wrap up War of
the Roses. This text says, I like Jared, the guy
that likes to be alone. My husband and I have
totally separate lives and interest and friend groups with some overlap,
but we very much love our time together. Been together
for twenty years. I think that's true. Some couple want
to be around each other all the time, and I
(14:03):
think that's great, and other ones are like, you know what,
I spent the afternoon with you. I'm not going to
be here tonight.
Speaker 6 (14:10):
Yeah, you people.
Speaker 4 (14:11):
A problem is that there are two different types of
people and they probably it probably won't work out between
Sophia and Jured.
Speaker 6 (14:17):
Probably not, And that is go ahead.
Speaker 7 (14:19):
People are texting like I guess because I said that
this guy has a problem. I'm not saying that. I'm
just he never wants to be with her. It seems
like Sophia literally was just like, he never invites me anywhere.
I'm not saying you have to be at your partner's
hit at twenty four to seven, right, I'm just saying,
do something, you know,
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