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May 29, 2025 • 12 mins
What were you like in the past? How have you changed?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What version of yourself have you left behind? For instance,
I left behind the girl who used to party Friday, Saturday,
sometimes Thursday nights and would be out till two am.
Now I'm the girl who maybe can commit to one
or two things on a weekend. During the entire weekend,
I need to be home by nine pm, and I
like to be able to do house projects. So that's
who I am now, be like, do you feel like

(00:22):
you've left some sort of a version behind?

Speaker 2 (00:23):
It's funny because, like, compared to you, I was super tame.
But right after college, I moved to Florida and I
worked at Disney World, and there was you know, young energy, Yeah,
young energy.

Speaker 3 (00:35):
I was like twenty two.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
Yeah, And so there was like five months of my
life where me and my friends we would ride the
party bus to Senor Frogs. On any given day, we
would drink sex on the beach and we would like
double fist. We'd have like two drinks in either hand
and we'd.

Speaker 3 (00:50):
Be like whoo yeah.

Speaker 2 (00:52):
And then literally be riding the bus to work the
next day like super hungover, gonna like throw up, which
is so weird. But I didn't do any of that
in college because I was an ra in college. So
that's the version of myself I've left behind is just
this tiny, little, like five month me right after college.
And man, if you had a Spanish accent, I would

(01:15):
talk to you. I would want to be like should
we kiss? Because that was my vibe back in my days.

Speaker 1 (01:23):
Yeah, all right, Well we have some talk bag, so
we'll play a couple of those.

Speaker 4 (01:28):
What version of yourself have you left behind?

Speaker 1 (01:32):
Hi?

Speaker 5 (01:32):
I'm brit So, like Jenny, I was a party girl.
I did not know when to stop with the alcohol.

Speaker 4 (01:40):
I would keep going, keep going until.

Speaker 5 (01:42):
I got annoying and I'm like, Okay, now it's time. Instead,
I found real fulfillment in just being present in life.
So it's been three months since I had alcohol and
I am just feeling the best gym time, family time.

Speaker 6 (01:57):
All that.

Speaker 4 (01:59):
I love that.

Speaker 1 (02:00):
I feel that too, because I've gone to the gym
at like six am on Saturday and Sunday mornings now,
and I'm a.

Speaker 3 (02:06):
Person who am I when you would be walking home? Yeah? Right,
all right, another talk back.

Speaker 7 (02:13):
Good morning. The version of myself that I have left
behind is the one that thinks that I have to
go to every single event that I'm invited to, and
this year I have started saying nope, I can't or
won't make it.

Speaker 5 (02:26):
And I know that my.

Speaker 7 (02:28):
Best friends are going to understand where all adults like
gets busy, and they're going to say, my best friends,
whether I make it to every single dinner or not,
so spending my time the way that I need to
spend it for myself and unapologetically.

Speaker 1 (02:41):
So okay, yeah, seriously, we've got some text coming in
as well. This person said, how funny that you're asking
this question because this morning I was headed to the
gym at four thirty am, and it reminded me of
the time I used to speak out of houses in
the morning and be hungover at that time. Another verson said,
I can't talk. I'm at work, but Miley's song I

(03:02):
Used to Be Young is one hundred percent me. I
am in my early fifties now, and the first time
I heard that song, I just cried because she could
have written it directly about me. That's what I left behind.
I did a parody to that song. Yeah, that's a
fun time. Should we should that?

Speaker 8 (03:16):
Maybe?

Speaker 3 (03:16):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (03:18):
Okay, We'll read a couple more texts and then I'll
look for it. During this commercial break and find that
and we can play that.

Speaker 3 (03:23):
Yeah, this text says I was the party girl.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
I made it my mission to drink any man that
I could find under the table, and I usually succeeded.
I am now a nursing supervisor with two teenagers and
have just completed my kitchen cabinets.

Speaker 4 (03:37):
Love that, Love that for you.

Speaker 2 (03:39):
A lot of people used to speak party people. I
used to be a crazy party girl drugs and alcohol.
But now I'm the person who only uses natural things
and reads labels.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
Man, how time can change. See, I was never the
party person.

Speaker 9 (03:51):
I guess the version of me that I left behind
was caring about not what people think, but like trying
to make amends whenever I had a situation with somebody,
because from Jersey to here, a lot of people kind
of stopped talking to me like friends, and it sucked.
But I realized, like, I didn't do anything wrong, so
I shouldn't feel sorry or try to make amends, and
just be like, you know what it is, what it is.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
I posted this up on Facebook and that was a
lot of people saying I stopped caring so much about
what people thought about me.

Speaker 4 (04:17):
I left that version behind. Another one that I really liked.

Speaker 1 (04:20):
Was I left behind the version of me that ignored
the red flags?

Speaker 4 (04:24):
Yeah, yeah, that's a good one too.

Speaker 7 (04:26):
So this is cookie and I left behind the version
of myself that thought that you could change other people.

Speaker 4 (04:33):
It can't be done.

Speaker 7 (04:34):
They have to do it themselves, So don't worry too
much about what other people do.

Speaker 4 (04:38):
They make their choices.

Speaker 1 (04:40):
That such a good lesson to learn, because you do
not learn that until a little bit later in life,
that you cannot change someone.

Speaker 3 (04:47):
And a lot of the time you learn it the
hard way too. Oh yeah, get hung up on them
not changing. Pretty mush, pretty sure.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
That's the only way you learn it is when you
learn it the hard way. Or another talk back here,
what version of yourself have you left behind?

Speaker 10 (04:59):
Okay, So, so I left my wildlife behind. I've been
on my own since I was sixteen years old. A
party and your drugs se x. Now I work a
full time job raising three kids, and yeah, I've been
clean and sober going on six years now, and I

(05:24):
wouldn't change it for the world.

Speaker 3 (05:26):
Liza party drugs six.

Speaker 1 (05:30):
I haven't heard someone spell out sex for so long.
I love that, all right? Another talk back here?

Speaker 6 (05:35):
I left behind the people pleasing version of myself. I
used to be constantly doing temperature checks and making sure
everyone else was okay at my own expense. And then
I saw a quote that said, why are you trying
to please everyone? You don't even like everyone, And that
really spoke to me so pleasing.

Speaker 3 (05:52):
Myself no nice.

Speaker 1 (05:53):
I would challenge you, if you're a people pleaser, do
something this week that you wouldn't normally do, because, like,
for instance, honestly, I skipped my softball games on Tuesday
night because I was really overwhelmed with some work stuff
and I was tired from the traveling I did over
the weekend, and I felt so bad that I left
my team hanging. And then I realized, but like I

(06:14):
was making myself physically sick practically to do all these things,
and so I felt like that was like a people
pleasing moment where I actually just like put myself first
for one styled it back. Yes, So if you're a
people pleaser, please do something for yourself or don't do
something that you don't want to do.

Speaker 2 (06:30):
I have a couple of text messages this person says,
I've left behind the version that was super focused on
climbing the career ladder. The burnout was real. Now I
go to work, I do a good job. I leave
at four, and I spend time with my family and
love myself.

Speaker 3 (06:44):
I love love that. That's pretty good.

Speaker 6 (06:46):
Yeah, I know.

Speaker 2 (06:47):
This person says I left behind the version of me
that begged to be loved.

Speaker 3 (06:51):
Good one as well.

Speaker 6 (06:52):
Good.

Speaker 4 (06:53):
I got one more talk back here.

Speaker 7 (06:54):
The version of myself that I left behind was my
old drinking self.

Speaker 3 (06:58):
I drank a lot from fifteen day eighteen and got
a dui.

Speaker 7 (07:01):
A month after I turned eighteen. But I am now
sixteen months alcohol free and have my own house, work
out of town all week, and just focus on living life.

Speaker 4 (07:13):
Nice, good job, Good for you. I like this one.

Speaker 1 (07:17):
I have left behind the version of me that allowed
people to walk all over me and treat me like crap.

Speaker 4 (07:23):
I now remove those people from my life. Good good them.

Speaker 3 (07:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (07:29):
Well, thanks for all the texts talkbacks, and if you
want to go look at the Facebook message. Maybe it'll
be a little inspiration to you of leaving something behind
that you're a little stressed about. You can go to
the Day Brian in the Morning show on Facebook because
we got a bunch of stuff on there. But as promised.
I did do a parody to the song used to
be Young. These are all true stories that you are
going to hear in this song. I don't know if

(07:50):
BAILI and Fun have heard the sound before, but here
we go, the good old days when I used to
be young, Like the time when I went home with
somebody and I woke up before he did, and I
saw that the pizza that we were gonna eat the
night before was still not made.

Speaker 4 (08:05):
So I took it and I went home.

Speaker 8 (08:07):
This bully's no fooling you. I I'll dress the same.

Speaker 1 (08:12):
I definitely don't wear my cowboy boots anymore. I hung
those up after ten years of country essay. But I'll
never forget that one time where there was a big
board of different boobholes and you could put your boobs.

Speaker 4 (08:21):
Into all the sea. Which one you fit, you got
a free shot.

Speaker 8 (08:24):
That was the best shout of my life. Juns up
boss to booken pots and gone late, Like.

Speaker 1 (08:32):
The time I drank half a bottle of tequila and
woke up in my apartment with no pants on.

Speaker 8 (08:40):
Oh no, I used to be fun, you say, I
used to be well, essay, I used to be young.

Speaker 1 (08:49):
I'll never forget my twenty first in Vegas, hanging out
with the VIP section, having battle service and then getting
sick everywhere and getting kicked out.

Speaker 4 (08:55):
Of the club.

Speaker 8 (08:56):
Oh crazy, that's because I used to be young. Oh man.

Speaker 1 (09:04):
My absolute favorite story from those days has to be
the time I met a wonderful gentleman out at a
bachel at party.

Speaker 8 (09:10):
He came home with me.

Speaker 4 (09:11):
We had some fun. I wanted to take a shower,
a walk out. He's gone.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
Come to find out, he stumbled drunkenly into my neighbor's
apartment but naked. Good man, need to know where I
was if you thought that was my apartment and now
my friends, is how I met my neighbors for the
very first time.

Speaker 4 (09:29):
Okay, I used to be.

Speaker 8 (09:34):
Oh no, I used to be fun. Use it and
I used to be I say, I used to be young.

Speaker 1 (09:43):
But if you do ask me to take a shot
with you and you're paying, I am still your girl.

Speaker 8 (09:53):
That's good. I used to be young.

Speaker 1 (09:58):
Wow.

Speaker 3 (10:00):
I love Vont.

Speaker 1 (10:02):
We use a walkie talkius this sohone between the on
your studio and the studio that Vont s it's on
and he literally just gets on and he goes what
so what in the stories? Those are all true stories.
I didn't make those up. That was literally the life
I used to live. I was crazy back in the day.

Speaker 8 (10:17):
That's well.

Speaker 3 (10:17):
I mean the one that I said what to was
the guy that left and went your neighbor's house.

Speaker 1 (10:23):
But I was in the shower and he left and
I walked on. I was like, hell, yeah, I don't
have to deal with him anymore because he was gone.
And then I woke up in the morning and realized
all of his belongings were still on my coffee table,
like his wallet, his phone, his keys, and I was like, well,
that's weird. So then I'm nervous that he like stumbled
out into the streets and was like dead in the streets.

(10:45):
But no, he just accidentally like went through the door
out into the hallway, across the hallway thinking he was
going into my room, walked into the neighbor's room, demanded
to know where I was because then he thought there
was some new dude in my bed, not realizing he
had walked into a completely different apartment and he was
butt naked. And then the neighbor goes, whoa man settled down,

(11:05):
and the neighbor literally gave him close, let him sleep
on the couch, and then they dealt with it in
the morning. And I found never I fought on all
of this because they went down to the front where
you could like dial people's numbers to get into the apartment,
and they were calling me from the front number thing.

Speaker 3 (11:21):
They're like naked us.

Speaker 1 (11:22):
Anyways, he he definitely left his mark on the neighbors
and me, and then the next day we like hung
up for a little while and he was super cool.

Speaker 3 (11:31):
I don't know what he does nowadays, get the show.

Speaker 1 (11:34):
Yeah, I'm not sure what he's up to nowadays, but yeah,
that was definitely, I would say the craziest story that's
ever happened from my from my youth.

Speaker 3 (11:42):
I just can't believe in the shoes of your neighbor
to be like, hey man, whoa, whoa have some pants?
Lay down and someone's like naked in your doorway yelling
at you.

Speaker 8 (11:52):
Where's Jenny.

Speaker 3 (11:55):
Can you imagine they're like, let me get you some
tea you can on the caf You could talk about it.
Your neighbors are way bigger than people than I am,
because I would be like, get out of my apartment.

Speaker 1 (12:04):
So anyways, that is an old version of me that
no longer exists now. Like I said, I like to
go to bed at ten PM, and I don't.

Speaker 3 (12:12):
Have strangers in my bed anymore. That's for sure. That's
so funny.
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