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Speaker 1 (00:03):
It's time to make a date or Break on tip
in the morning, I'm gonna bring a few of these
to the table and see if your ears start perking
up and you know wherever it may be this morning.
Lori Sharpage is our licensed clinical counselor. She joins us
for make a Date or Break Therapy and Relationships Connect
on my show on Tuesdays.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
The Channing Tatum.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
White T shirt thing has popped up a few times
on my feet. I'm gonna play this clip where Channing
Tatum essentially refused to do laundry for an entire year.
I'm wondering how Zoe Kravitz feels about this. And instead
of washing the T shirts, I don't want to say
he threw them out. He jokingly said that he bought
(00:45):
new T shirts and every time he wanted one instead
of washing them.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
I had one year that I called the Year of
the Fresh White Teeth, and I don't think I did laundry.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Call year that year, and I just I just wore white.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
T shirts that I just bought. I gotta be like,
I get like two wears out of this week. This
is gonna be good. The Year the Fresh White tea
ninety nine or two thousand.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Although there is something nice about a fresh white tea,
I get that there is some special a bat Yeah
in your office. What are the typical things that couples
fight about that you're like, yeah, I guess this makes
sense or that make you giggle, or like what are
what are people bringing.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
To the table that bothered?
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:22):
Absolutely, well, First of all, laundry, I think is a
great example. So people leaving their socks around or not
doing the things that they need to do to keep
their laundry tidy and put together. Another one that I
hear a lot from men about women is their makeup
all over spray tan sheets.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Yeah, the spray tan sheets and the fact that your
powdered bronzer is just caked into that saying yes yes.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
So I think that's something that like, you know, like
it works for you, it's your flow, but it does
have an impact on other people. And I think that's
kind of what you know with with chanting, Like okay,
so that worked for you, but like how did that
impact everybody around you?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
So I think that there's these things that are just
small things but maybe kind of gets you.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
They gets you a little irked.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
Another example would of course be like things like dishes,
but it can also be things like communication, you know,
not telling that person when you're gonna go out or
you're gonna do things, or there's a change of plans.
That can also be something that really can irritate quickly.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
My best friend Hannah lives out in Los Angeles and
her boyfriend Ray is just infamous for like leaving the
house and not like saying it, just like where I'm
going and where I'm going back, And she's like, okay, cool, cool, cool,
Like I'll just hold it down here.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Laurie Sharpage is our licensed clinical counselor. So if you
don't call with a question on anything, whether you're newly dating,
you been married, maybe you moved in together this summer
five one three seven, four nine, one oh seven one
to ask and no question has ever stumped you. Nothing
is too out of pocket for Laurie if we if
you don't call, coming up into songs, what happens when
(03:02):
your significant other and you both have family and friends
and you're trying to fight for equal time with both sets,
it's never equal.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
So we will get to that. If we don't get.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Your phone calls again, we'd love to have you on
the show. It's Make a Date or Break only on TIF.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
In the Morning. Good morning, you're waking up with TIF
in the Morning on Kiswano Seva.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
One.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
That was Nellie, who of course is coming back to
Cincinnati this September coming up and like less than ten
minutes from now, I have your chance to win a
lotto tickets. But you'll need the keyword make a Date
or Break. Lori sharp Page is our licensed clinical counselor.
She joins the show every Tuesday where therapy and relationships
come together. What if your significant other is and you
(03:47):
both have families here in Cincinnati and your friends, you
both have great friend groups here in Cincinnati, and you're
constantly fighting for each other's time with different groups?
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Right Am I explaining this?
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Right?
Speaker 2 (03:57):
You are?
Speaker 4 (03:58):
You are explaining it right. I think the very first
thing is to know you can never have a perfect
fifty to fifty split. Let's just get that out of
the window, because that causes a lot of tension with
couples that are trying to make sure that we get
exactly fifty percent on both sides and that just doesn't work.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
So throw that expectation out of the window.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Also, one thing that's really really helpful is exploring, like,
do we have to do everything together? Is there time
for you to go spend with your family and your
friends independently and for me to go do the same,
And then there's gonna be times when you're gonna come together.
You need to be able to talk about you know,
what those things are, and to make it okay for
you guys to have independent time and also time for
(04:34):
me to say, you know what, I'm gonna sit this
one out. You go have fun with your friends and family.
I think when they're out of town it gets particularly
dicey because then we're dealing with additional resources as far
as time and travel and money to go see them.
But it's really really important to know that you can
never do this perfectly. So you've got to give a
lot of flex a lot of room for you guys
(04:54):
to get creative, to figure out how best for you
to continue to maintain those relationships as an individual and
as a couple, well, not having the expectation that it's
all going to be fifty to fifty.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Okay, Yeah, I feel like that conversation can come up
in relationships if you've got a good friend group and
they've got a good friend group.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
It's like we're spending or insert family.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
We're always spending time with your family, never with mine,
or if we're spending time with your friends and never mind.
And the fact that anything in relationships is supposed.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
To be fifty to fifty is no. It just doesn't work.
Just doesn't work.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
I mean, I understand the appeal of it, and I
think that we all have a level of like, we
want that, but that's not realistic and it's going to
hurt your relationship to try and strive for that.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Okay, at the coping queen on social media, if you
want to ever ask her a question, nothing has come
across her feet.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
That's out of pocket for her.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
I mean we have talked about pretty much everything on
this show. Coming up next, I'll mention it one more time,
but you need the keyword to make a date or
break to win the lotto tickets. She'll be here on
November first, so we'll make sure you get those here
next on TIF in the Morning, Thanks Lori, Thanks, because you're.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Waking up with Tiff in the morning on just one seven.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
One, Hi, you're on the air, Hi Yi, Hi Ning,
good morning, good morning.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
How are you and good?
Speaker 4 (06:09):
How are you good?
Speaker 1 (06:10):
I'm assuming you have a keyword for me, make a
data break. Congratulations, you're going to lotto.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Thanks, you're just Tuesday.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
You're so welcome November first. Absolutely, what's your name? What
neighborhood are waking up with me in this morning?
Speaker 4 (06:24):
It's Samantha and Monroe.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Samantha, we were just chatting on Instagram.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
Ny.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
My son is with me.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
And he just absolutely loves listening to you and watching
your show.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Oh my god, Well what's his name?
Speaker 4 (06:40):
Lear?
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Lear?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Thank you so much for listening to Tiff in the morning.
I appreciate you guys watching.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
For those that are just walking into this.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Sometimes we jump on Instagram live before we actually go live.
So look at that things worked out in your favor.
What neighborhood you guys in this morning?
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Weird and Monroe?
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Monroe. That's ready mentioned. Well, thank you enjoyed the show.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Congrats, Thanks, thanks having good Thank you too. If you
took a loss on these tics, I'll have you tomorrow
to e at thirty If you want to set a
reminder coming up next, I've got the three things you
need to know to get Your day started in Sincy,
It's time to make a date or Break on tip
in the morning, I'm gonna bring a few of these
to the table and see if your ears start perking
up and you know wherever it may be this morning.
Lori Sharpage is our licensed clinical counselor. She joins us
for make a Date or Break Therapy and Relationships Connect
on my show on Tuesdays.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
The Channing Tatum.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
White T shirt thing has popped up a few times
on my feet. I'm gonna play this clip where Channing
Tatum essentially refused to do laundry for an entire year.
I'm wondering how Zoe Kravitz feels about this. And instead
of washing the T shirts, I don't want to say
he threw them out. He jokingly said that he bought
(00:45):
new T shirts and every time he wanted one instead
of washing them.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
I had one year that I called the Year of
the Fresh White Teeth, and I don't think I did laundry.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Call year that year, and I just I just wore white.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
T shirts that I just bought. I gotta be like,
I get like two wears out of this week. This
is gonna be good. The Year the Fresh White tea
ninety nine or two thousand.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Although there is something nice about a fresh white tea,
I get that there is some special a bat Yeah
in your office. What are the typical things that couples
fight about that you're like, yeah, I guess this makes
sense or that make you giggle, or like what are
what are people bringing.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
To the table that bothered?
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:22):
Absolutely, well, First of all, laundry, I think is a
great example. So people leaving their socks around or not
doing the things that they need to do to keep
their laundry tidy and put together. Another one that I
hear a lot from men about women is their makeup
all over spray tan sheets.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Yeah, the spray tan sheets and the fact that your
powdered bronzer is just caked into that saying yes yes.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
So I think that's something that like, you know, like
it works for you, it's your flow, but it does
have an impact on other people. And I think that's
kind of what you know with with chanting, Like okay,
so that worked for you, but like how did that
impact everybody around you?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
So I think that there's these things that are just
small things but maybe kind of gets you.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
They gets you a little irked.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
Another example would of course be like things like dishes,
but it can also be things like communication, you know,
not telling that person when you're gonna go out or
you're gonna do things, or there's a change of plans.
That can also be something that really can irritate quickly.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
My best friend Hannah lives out in Los Angeles and
her boyfriend Ray is just infamous for like leaving the
house and not like saying it, just like where I'm
going and where I'm going back, And she's like, okay, cool, cool, cool,
Like I'll just hold it down here.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Laurie Sharpage is our licensed clinical counselor. So if you
don't call with a question on anything, whether you're newly dating,
you been married, maybe you moved in together this summer
five one three seven, four nine, one oh seven one
to ask and no question has ever stumped you. Nothing
is too out of pocket for Laurie if we if
you don't call, coming up into songs, what happens when
(03:02):
your significant other and you both have family and friends
and you're trying to fight for equal time with both sets,
it's never equal.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
So we will get to that. If we don't get.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Your phone calls again, we'd love to have you on
the show. It's Make a Date or Break only on TIF.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
In the Morning. Good morning, you're waking up with TIF
in the Morning on Kiswano Seva.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
One.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
That was Nellie, who of course is coming back to
Cincinnati this September coming up and like less than ten
minutes from now, I have your chance to win a
lotto tickets. But you'll need the keyword make a Date
or Break. Lori sharp Page is our licensed clinical counselor.
She joins the show every Tuesday where therapy and relationships
come together. What if your significant other is and you
(03:47):
both have families here in Cincinnati and your friends, you
both have great friend groups here in Cincinnati, and you're
constantly fighting for each other's time with different groups?
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Right Am I explaining this?
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Right?
Speaker 2 (03:57):
You are?
Speaker 4 (03:58):
You are explaining it right. I think the very first
thing is to know you can never have a perfect
fifty to fifty split. Let's just get that out of
the window, because that causes a lot of tension with
couples that are trying to make sure that we get
exactly fifty percent on both sides and that just doesn't work.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
So throw that expectation out of the window.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Also, one thing that's really really helpful is exploring, like,
do we have to do everything together? Is there time
for you to go spend with your family and your
friends independently and for me to go do the same,
And then there's gonna be times when you're gonna come together.
You need to be able to talk about you know,
what those things are, and to make it okay for
you guys to have independent time and also time for
(04:34):
me to say, you know what, I'm gonna sit this
one out. You go have fun with your friends and family.
I think when they're out of town it gets particularly
dicey because then we're dealing with additional resources as far
as time and travel and money to go see them.
But it's really really important to know that you can
never do this perfectly. So you've got to give a
lot of flex a lot of room for you guys
(04:54):
to get creative, to figure out how best for you
to continue to maintain those relationships as an individual and
as a couple, well, not having the expectation that it's
all going to be fifty to fifty.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Okay, Yeah, I feel like that conversation can come up
in relationships if you've got a good friend group and
they've got a good friend group.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
It's like we're spending or insert family.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
We're always spending time with your family, never with mine,
or if we're spending time with your friends and never mind.
And the fact that anything in relationships is supposed.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
To be fifty to fifty is no. It just doesn't work.
Just doesn't work.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
I mean, I understand the appeal of it, and I
think that we all have a level of like, we
want that, but that's not realistic and it's going to
hurt your relationship to try and strive for that.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Okay, at the coping queen on social media, if you
want to ever ask her a question, nothing has come
across her feet.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
That's out of pocket for her.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
I mean we have talked about pretty much everything on
this show. Coming up next, I'll mention it one more time,
but you need the keyword to make a date or
break to win the lotto tickets. She'll be here on
November first, so we'll make sure you get those here
next on TIF in the Morning, Thanks Lori, Thanks, because you're.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Waking up with Tiff in the morning on just one seven.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
One, Hi, you're on the air, Hi Yi, Hi Ning,
good morning, good morning.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
How are you and good?
Speaker 4 (06:09):
How are you good?
Speaker 1 (06:10):
I'm assuming you have a keyword for me, make a
data break. Congratulations, you're going to lotto.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Thanks, you're just Tuesday.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
You're so welcome November first. Absolutely, what's your name? What
neighborhood are waking up with me in this morning?
Speaker 4 (06:24):
It's Samantha and Monroe.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Samantha, we were just chatting on Instagram.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
Ny.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
My son is with me.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
And he just absolutely loves listening to you and watching
your show.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Oh my god, Well what's his name?
Speaker 4 (06:40):
Lear?
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Lear?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Thank you so much for listening to Tiff in the morning.
I appreciate you guys watching.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
For those that are just walking into this.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Sometimes we jump on Instagram live before we actually go live.
So look at that things worked out in your favor.
What neighborhood you guys in this morning?
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Weird and Monroe?
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Monroe. That's ready mentioned. Well, thank you enjoyed the show.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Congrats, Thanks, thanks having good Thank you too. If you
took a loss on these tics, I'll have you tomorrow
to e at thirty If you want to set a
reminder coming up next, I've got the three things you
need to know to get Your day started in Sincy,
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