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Speaker 1 (00:02):
It's time to make a date or break on TIF
in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Our relationship expert Lori Sharpage, licensed clinical counselor. She brings,
she brings the heat every day, the Heat on Tuesdays.
This is the second time within this hour we're going
to talk about a television show or a movie, and
I'm gonna have to explain it without giving away any spoilers.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Tricky, tricky.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Nobody wants this on Netflix. Is the number one show
right now and for good reason. It's so good. Everyone's
in love with Adam Brody. And welcome, by the way,
to anyone on that just joined us from our Instagram
Live at Kiss one oh seven's another way to get
involved in our conversation and stuff.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Okay, you have not seen the show. I have not
seen it. It's on my list, but not seeing it. Okay.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
If you're like I don't want to know a single thing,
then I would understand if you needed to change the
radio station for like thirty seconds. But I think you're
gonna like this conversation because it essentially Adam Brody asks
Christy Bell to do a pretty serious thing in their relationship,
very early on into dating. That's the premise of a
conversation we're gonna have. Okay, let me give some backstory.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Kristen Bell is a podcast host with their sister. It's
a sex and relationship podcast, and Adam Brody works his
career is he's a rabbi.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
I'm just going to tell you that right now.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
And they fall for each other pretty quickly, quickly, and
it's one of those relationships. By the way, everyone is
obsessed with his character on the show. I mean, it's
really it's so sweet. He's such a good character. But
he asks her, I don't want to give this away,
but I think it's valuable knowledge.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
He asks her, I'm trying to think of a way
to do this.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Within two months of dating, he realizes to grow in
his career, she's going to have to do a specific
thing for them to really continue.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
And it's a pretty serious ask.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
M hm. Okay, and I think I'm just gonna leave
it at that and hopefully hopefully you can tiptoe around that.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Essentially, he asks her to like, Hey, I know we've
only been dating for two or so months, but for
us to be in love like the way I want
us to be, you're gonna have to do this, and
that's just like the way my job goes.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
So she's gonna have to change something about how she
identifies how she lives in order to continue to progress
with him.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Yes, Gottch, can you can you do something with that?
Can you make sure? Okay? Yeah, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
So first of all, you know, sometimes people fall in
love slowly. A lot of times from what I've seen,
it happens fast. And that's okay, it happens fast, there's
nothing wrong with it. I think it trips people up
a lot, myself included when it happens, because it's like,
oh whoa, Okay, this is here.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
I've waited a long time and it's here.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
But the thing is is like the love is just
one piece of the complex puzzle. And sometimes because of
certainty situations, job type, culture, even periods of time, there
are certain things that you need to do that maybe
are not what you expected that you would do. And
I think the key part here is having the conversations
(03:15):
about it. And I don't think it's a bad thing
to bring into the arena early on if this is
truly a love situation where you're planning your life together.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
He did say in the show he said, Listen, I
know this is really early for us. And by the way,
if you're just walking into this conversation we're talking about
nobody wants this the Netflix show.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
He says to Kristen.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
You know, listen, this is like really early for us
to be having this conversation, but like I kind of
need to know if we're going to progress, I need
you to do this. And I feel really bad asking
you this, especially very early.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
I just feel bad in general asking you to do this.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
I will say, if it's coming up that early and
it's that important, then I think you can expect that
this is going to be something big in your relationship
and your life moving forward with this person. And that
again is important information to have at the beginning because
it may not align for you.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
You can love.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Someone very deeply and find that connection and that spark,
but if there's certain things that need to happen to
continue to stay in a relationship with that person and
they aren't the right choice for you, that's a tough spot.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
But you really got to evaluate that.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
I feel like a lot of girls are listening right
now because we're both obsessed with the character in the novel.
But two how would you tell someone to approach a conversation.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Let's say someone in their car listening right now is.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Like, yeah, I'm pretty dead set on I don't know,
kids or marriage or moving to London. Yeah, how do
you approach that conversation with someone very early into the
dating landscape.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
So in person and without distractions would be my advice
on that. Because these are complex conversations. You can expect
emotions to come up, and we want to be able
to stay focused.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Now.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Oftentimes these big conversations, they can be pretty uncomfortable and
people feel that discomfort and they think that they're doing
something wrong.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Just comfort's not a bad thing. It means you're talking
about something challenging. Okay, here's what we're gonna do.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Lori sharp Page hangs out in the studio on Tuesdays
for you, and I know it might feel uncomfortable coming
to a radio show with what's going on, but hopefully
you're a part of our inner circle enough to know
that that's not really what that's about. You know, we
love having you five win, three, seven, four nine, one
oh seven one. If you have a specific question for
Lori sharp Page, you can also talk back with Tiff
If you want to remain anonymous, just search Kiss on
(05:28):
the iHeartRadio app. You'll see the microphone right next to
the play button, and Lourie, I don't know if you
can give us insight on what happens when you're in
love with a television character.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Ooh, good one, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
You're waking up with TIF in the morning on Kiss.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
One oh seven one.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Tuesdays is our day of relationships, and I have an
expert that comes in every Tuesday. Lori sharp Page is
our licensed clinical Counselor you can ask your questions, you
can share your specific situation, whether you want to do
that with our talk feature, or you can DM us,
or you can call us, or you can come here,
or you can.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Do whatever you want.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
We're here for you all the we're in the midst
of talking about nobody wants this the biggest show on
Netflix right now.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
And.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
I think it's given almost hope and resurgence into the
dating community, and I hope that we're feeling that here
in Cincinnati too, because there's this one scene in particular,
and I'm trying to my brains processing how to talk
about this without giving any spoiler alerts away. But Essentially
(06:34):
the whole theme of the show is Kristen Bell is
authentically herself the entire time.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
And do you find that.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Women tend to change themselves in dating more so than
men or no?
Speaker 1 (06:45):
What's your expertise on that one. I say it's more
person to person.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
But if you are more perfectionistic, you are more likely
to change yourself based off of who you're sitting in
front of.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Is that natural? I think so.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
I mean, I think you're some people are more aware
of how they person and are trying to control for that.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Yeah, we can all agree that when you meet someone,
whether it's romantically or not, you're gonna put your best
foot forward typically.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Yeah, that's where you're leading.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Yeah, like you're going You're gonna give them the best
of you. That's what happens in this show.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
Though.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
Kristen Bell is so authentically just who she is that
I think it was really refreshing for the dating community
to see. Now, on the other side, Adam Brody was
so accepting of her character that I felt like it
kind of gave hope into dating for sure.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
I mean, unconditional acceptance.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Does that exist though in real life dating? Or are
we just looking at a television show and like hooping.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
No. Absolutely, So we call this unconditional positive regard, which
means that whatever you do, even if I don't agree
with it, or it makes me mad or whatever, then
maybe whatever you do, I still see the value in you,
and I believe that we all should have that lens
for each other and for ourselves.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
We all have value.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
It almost feels like a fairy tale or a dream though,
or just like, yeah, you're fantasizing about being able to
connect with somebody in that way in the dating landscape,
especially since so much of it is done through apps
and such. Does it exist? How do you find it?
Speaker 1 (08:19):
It does exist.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
Patience and perseverance is how you find it. And you
know you have it because all of a sudden the
games stop.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
Oh shoot, yeah, the game stop. The game stop. Yeah,
that's up, they stop, and they stop right here.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
I'm assuming that to be able to achieve that, though,
you have to be so authentically yourself though, and that's hardly.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
Yeah, I mean that's not and not everybody is going
to be comfortable with you being authentically yourself like that.
You know it's not going to be for everybody, but
it's so much better to lead like that and find
the person who loves it than to cover it up
and then reveal it a few months under the relationship.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
It's much better to be you.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
And now, obviously you know, judgment is something that goes
on in the dating process. It's not anything that we
need to make the villain here. But the more you
can love yourself and be yourself, the more likely or
are to find somebody who's going to feel the same
Laurie shartpage.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
She's at the Coping Queen.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Her birthday's tomorrow, Happy birthday from the show and our
tiff in the morning community. Yeah, you know how to
reach out to her directly. Therapy is expensive, hard to
find sometimes and so hopefully get a little taste of
what Laurie's like. You're more than welcome to hit her
up and make a date. Where break happens every Tuesday
on this show. So I guess I would ask if
you found somebody, would you make your next date or
(09:43):
would you break it off with them if they didn't
give you the Adam Brodie treatment.
Speaker 3 (09:48):
You know, I think that if you find somebody and
you got some good feelings and you're feeling good about yourself,
always make that next date.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
See what happens. All right, thanks LORII.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Coming up, we're still commercial for you guys, time to
hang out. We're going to into the three things you
need to know to get your day started and then sincey,
good morning,
It's time to make a date or break on TIF
in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Our relationship expert Lori Sharpage, licensed clinical counselor. She brings,
she brings the heat every day, the Heat on Tuesdays.
This is the second time within this hour we're going
to talk about a television show or a movie, and
I'm gonna have to explain it without giving away any spoilers.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Tricky, tricky.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Nobody wants this on Netflix. Is the number one show
right now and for good reason. It's so good. Everyone's
in love with Adam Brody. And welcome, by the way,
to anyone on that just joined us from our Instagram
Live at Kiss one oh seven's another way to get
involved in our conversation and stuff.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Okay, you have not seen the show. I have not
seen it. It's on my list, but not seeing it. Okay.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
If you're like I don't want to know a single thing,
then I would understand if you needed to change the
radio station for like thirty seconds. But I think you're
gonna like this conversation because it essentially Adam Brody asks
Christy Bell to do a pretty serious thing in their relationship,
very early on into dating. That's the premise of a
conversation we're gonna have. Okay, let me give some backstory.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Kristen Bell is a podcast host with their sister. It's
a sex and relationship podcast, and Adam Brody works his
career is he's a rabbi.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
I'm just going to tell you that right now.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
And they fall for each other pretty quickly, quickly, and
it's one of those relationships. By the way, everyone is
obsessed with his character on the show. I mean, it's
really it's so sweet. He's such a good character. But
he asks her, I don't want to give this away,
but I think it's valuable knowledge.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
He asks her, I'm trying to think of a way
to do this.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Within two months of dating, he realizes to grow in
his career, she's going to have to do a specific
thing for them to really continue.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
And it's a pretty serious ask.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
M hm. Okay, and I think I'm just gonna leave
it at that and hopefully hopefully you can tiptoe around that.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Essentially, he asks her to like, Hey, I know we've
only been dating for two or so months, but for
us to be in love like the way I want
us to be, you're gonna have to do this, and
that's just like the way my job goes.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
So she's gonna have to change something about how she
identifies how she lives in order to continue to progress
with him.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Yes, Gottch, can you can you do something with that?
Can you make sure? Okay? Yeah, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
So first of all, you know, sometimes people fall in
love slowly. A lot of times from what I've seen,
it happens fast. And that's okay, it happens fast, there's
nothing wrong with it. I think it trips people up
a lot, myself included when it happens, because it's like,
oh whoa, Okay, this is here.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
I've waited a long time and it's here.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
But the thing is is like the love is just
one piece of the complex puzzle. And sometimes because of
certainty situations, job type, culture, even periods of time, there
are certain things that you need to do that maybe
are not what you expected that you would do. And
I think the key part here is having the conversations
(03:15):
about it. And I don't think it's a bad thing
to bring into the arena early on if this is
truly a love situation where you're planning your life together.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
He did say in the show he said, Listen, I
know this is really early for us. And by the way,
if you're just walking into this conversation we're talking about
nobody wants this the Netflix show.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
He says to Kristen.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
You know, listen, this is like really early for us
to be having this conversation, but like I kind of
need to know if we're going to progress, I need
you to do this. And I feel really bad asking
you this, especially very early.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
I just feel bad in general asking you to do this.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
I will say, if it's coming up that early and
it's that important, then I think you can expect that
this is going to be something big in your relationship
and your life moving forward with this person. And that
again is important information to have at the beginning because
it may not align for you.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
You can love.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Someone very deeply and find that connection and that spark,
but if there's certain things that need to happen to
continue to stay in a relationship with that person and
they aren't the right choice for you, that's a tough spot.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
But you really got to evaluate that.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
I feel like a lot of girls are listening right
now because we're both obsessed with the character in the novel.
But two how would you tell someone to approach a conversation.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Let's say someone in their car listening right now is.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Like, yeah, I'm pretty dead set on I don't know,
kids or marriage or moving to London. Yeah, how do
you approach that conversation with someone very early into the
dating landscape.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
So in person and without distractions would be my advice
on that. Because these are complex conversations. You can expect
emotions to come up, and we want to be able
to stay focused.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Now.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Oftentimes these big conversations, they can be pretty uncomfortable and
people feel that discomfort and they think that they're doing
something wrong.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Just comfort's not a bad thing. It means you're talking
about something challenging. Okay, here's what we're gonna do.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Lori sharp Page hangs out in the studio on Tuesdays
for you, and I know it might feel uncomfortable coming
to a radio show with what's going on, but hopefully
you're a part of our inner circle enough to know
that that's not really what that's about. You know, we
love having you five win, three, seven, four nine, one
oh seven one. If you have a specific question for
Lori sharp Page, you can also talk back with Tiff
If you want to remain anonymous, just search Kiss on
(05:28):
the iHeartRadio app. You'll see the microphone right next to
the play button, and Lourie, I don't know if you
can give us insight on what happens when you're in
love with a television character.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Ooh, good one, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
You're waking up with TIF in the morning on Kiss.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
One oh seven one.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Tuesdays is our day of relationships, and I have an
expert that comes in every Tuesday. Lori sharp Page is
our licensed clinical Counselor you can ask your questions, you
can share your specific situation, whether you want to do
that with our talk feature, or you can DM us,
or you can call us, or you can come here,
or you can.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Do whatever you want.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
We're here for you all the we're in the midst
of talking about nobody wants this the biggest show on
Netflix right now.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
And.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
I think it's given almost hope and resurgence into the
dating community, and I hope that we're feeling that here
in Cincinnati too, because there's this one scene in particular,
and I'm trying to my brains processing how to talk
about this without giving any spoiler alerts away. But Essentially
(06:34):
the whole theme of the show is Kristen Bell is
authentically herself the entire time.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
And do you find that.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Women tend to change themselves in dating more so than
men or no?
Speaker 1 (06:45):
What's your expertise on that one. I say it's more
person to person.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
But if you are more perfectionistic, you are more likely
to change yourself based off of who you're sitting in
front of.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Is that natural? I think so.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
I mean, I think you're some people are more aware
of how they person and are trying to control for that.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Yeah, we can all agree that when you meet someone,
whether it's romantically or not, you're gonna put your best
foot forward typically.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Yeah, that's where you're leading.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Yeah, like you're going You're gonna give them the best
of you. That's what happens in this show.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
Though.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
Kristen Bell is so authentically just who she is that
I think it was really refreshing for the dating community
to see. Now, on the other side, Adam Brody was
so accepting of her character that I felt like it
kind of gave hope into dating for sure.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
I mean, unconditional acceptance.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Does that exist though in real life dating? Or are
we just looking at a television show and like hooping.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
No. Absolutely, So we call this unconditional positive regard, which
means that whatever you do, even if I don't agree
with it, or it makes me mad or whatever, then
maybe whatever you do, I still see the value in you,
and I believe that we all should have that lens
for each other and for ourselves.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
We all have value.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
It almost feels like a fairy tale or a dream though,
or just like, yeah, you're fantasizing about being able to
connect with somebody in that way in the dating landscape,
especially since so much of it is done through apps
and such. Does it exist? How do you find it?
Speaker 1 (08:19):
It does exist.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
Patience and perseverance is how you find it. And you
know you have it because all of a sudden the
games stop.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
Oh shoot, yeah, the game stop. The game stop. Yeah,
that's up, they stop, and they stop right here.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
I'm assuming that to be able to achieve that, though,
you have to be so authentically yourself though, and that's hardly.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
Yeah, I mean that's not and not everybody is going
to be comfortable with you being authentically yourself like that.
You know it's not going to be for everybody, but
it's so much better to lead like that and find
the person who loves it than to cover it up
and then reveal it a few months under the relationship.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
It's much better to be you.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
And now, obviously you know, judgment is something that goes
on in the dating process. It's not anything that we
need to make the villain here. But the more you
can love yourself and be yourself, the more likely or
are to find somebody who's going to feel the same
Laurie shartpage.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
She's at the Coping Queen.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Her birthday's tomorrow, Happy birthday from the show and our
tiff in the morning community. Yeah, you know how to
reach out to her directly. Therapy is expensive, hard to
find sometimes and so hopefully get a little taste of
what Laurie's like. You're more than welcome to hit her
up and make a date. Where break happens every Tuesday
on this show. So I guess I would ask if
you found somebody, would you make your next date or
(09:43):
would you break it off with them if they didn't
give you the Adam Brodie treatment.
Speaker 3 (09:48):
You know, I think that if you find somebody and
you got some good feelings and you're feeling good about yourself,
always make that next date.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
See what happens. All right, thanks LORII.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Coming up, we're still commercial for you guys, time to
hang out. We're going to into the three things you
need to know to get your day started and then sincey,
good morning,
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