April 8, 2025 • 10 mins
When freinds get together should significant others stay home?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You're waking up with fifth in the morning, kis let
us seven one, no one once, your significant other at
the group outing, no one once, your significant other at the.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Group outing, no one once, your significant other at the
group outing.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I could go on for days.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Okay, when I get really excited about a topic, sometimes
I ramble and sometimes my words get jumbly because my
brain is operating at a high level and my mouth
is not keeping up.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Guy or girl does not matter.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
There has been a time where you have planned something
with your friend, probably a close friend, and they've either
brought their significant other without warning, or they've asked you,
can my significant other come?
Speaker 3 (00:52):
And I want to talk about that this morning. There
are multiple ways.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
To get in touch. You can talk back with Tiff
on the iHeartRadio. I'm the microphone is in the right
hand corner next to the play button five one three
seven four nine one oh seven one is a great
way for you and I to chit chat back and forth.
And don't be afraid to call the radio station. I
am literally the only one that answers the phone. Okay,
it's just me in this box. So I've had a
(01:15):
run in with this many times, and I'm just curious
on whether or not I doubt I'm alone. But am
I alone in the sense where my blood kind of boils?
And I do my bush to keep it to myself.
But have you ever planned something with your best friend
(01:36):
and their significant others showed up? I recently had this
experience with one of my best friends, who has been
in a relationship for I would say the better half
of a year. And I love her partner, love love
love her partner. And I understand that when you you know,
work in life in significant others, time for your best
(01:56):
friends kind of diminishes. And when you plan, Hey we're
gonna get dinner, Hey we're gonna do this. Hey we're
gonna do that, and you're really looking forward to it,
and you find out maybe that day, maybe you find out,
like on the spot when you pull up to the restaurant,
there's significant other?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Is there?
Speaker 2 (02:16):
Am I wrong in saying that is literally the worst
thing in the world. There's a the reason outside of
me talking about it. On a personal note, there's this
girl going viral on TikTok.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
You might follow this creator. Let me pull up her name.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
It's the It's called that Girl's Djo. She has written
this whole skit about group chats and significant others.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
I'll play it.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
Hey, Gurlees, so excited for dinner tonight. So I know
we said we weren't gonna do boyfriends, but honestly, Justin
really had such a rough day and I don't want
to leave him alone. He said he didn't want to
crash our dinner, but I told him, you guys would
totally get it.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Is she couldn't trying to bring her boyfriend again.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
What do we do to we respond?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
We wait for Jessica to respond.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
She just said, Hey, Haley, so sorry to hear that
Justin had such a rough day.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
I just checked with the restaurant and I.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Am unable to change the reservation to add a seat
for him.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Oh my god, I'm obsessed with her.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Oh it's so weird that you were unable to change
the reservation. I obviously didn't want to bother you guys
if it wasn't possible for Justin to come, so I
called the restaurant earlier, and weirdly enough, they said it
wouldn't be an issue.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Anyways.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
We're so excited to see you, guys.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
We're so excited to see you guys.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Nothing is more annoying to me than the word weird
when it comes to a relationship. And you know what
this is where you come in in this conversation this morning,
because obviously there's a hint of relatability here for everyone
in some way, shape or form.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
But I am single.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Right now, and if I look back to my time
with the Finance Guide, there were probably times that I
brought him along, But I always was very cognizant about
time spent with friends versus time spent in group settings
where everyone brings their significant other around.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
What I want to know is am I wrong?
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Was I wrong for being annoyed with my girlfriend? Five
win three seven four nine, one oh seven one? Let's
chat this morning or talk back with Tiff on that
same iHeartRadio app feature that I mentioned all the time.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
The microphone is in the top right hand corner.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
When you go out with your friends and they bring
their significant other, does that annoy you?
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Good morning?
Speaker 2 (04:34):
We're not far off from bangor brackets. Everyday seven forty
two songs go up against each other and you have
a chance to play for ten pairs of tickets at
riverbend this summer. I mean you'll be booked and busy.
You're waking up with TIF in the morning on Kiss
one oh seven one. I don't want to be the
troll on the radio, but I feel very passionate about
having quality time with friends, and then quality time with
(04:58):
friends in their significan and others. When I book an appointment,
and when I say literally book an appointment with my
best friends, sometimes we have to put it on the calendar.
I feel a type of way if she brings her husband,
and that's what we're in the midst of talking about
this morning. How you're on the air, my troll.
Speaker 6 (05:14):
I honestly think time with friends should be just time
with friends, and time with your others should be with others,
because how many with your others you're like all.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
The time, all the time, all the time.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
That's why and me and I just I don't want
to be a troll, but I can't be alone in
this thought. Okay, what's your name? What neighborhood are you
waking up with me?
Speaker 6 (05:35):
And I'm waking up in the Richmond and my name's Erica.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
Erica. Thank you for the call. I appreciate you, no problem, all.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Right, thank you so much for holding I wanted to
get your thoughts.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
I appreciate you. Go ahead.
Speaker 7 (05:48):
Yeah, I would say it's pretty annoying, But I'd also
say that you guys have to you have to be
careful with that too, because sometimes your best friend can
be in love with your state of other and you
never know that because somebody can say, I mean spending
time together, nick, call them up. That's happened with me.
My best friends found love with.
Speaker 6 (06:05):
My husband because we would hang out so often.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Whoac skirt, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, yeah,
hold on.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Okay, you and your significant other spend a lot of
time with your best friend and she ended up. I
don't want to say steal, but for the story, took
your husband away.
Speaker 6 (06:23):
Essentially they both did.
Speaker 7 (06:24):
Oh yeah, So you have to be you have to
have like a boundary of that. And that's what I'm
trying to find now, Like I'm saying, all right now,
but I have to find a boundary like of Okay,
I understand we can have our own friends or whatever,
but can I come with your friends or like it's
a hard boundary to It's a hard, very hard boundary
to try.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
And figure out.
Speaker 7 (06:44):
So you just have to be careful because sometimes they'll
be like, well, I want to spend time with them
instead of you, And that's what happened to me.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Girl. Well what's your name? What neighborhood? Are waking up
with me?
Speaker 7 (06:52):
And I'm Monica and I'm Cincinnati.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Okay, Monica. Clearly that's a really horrible situation. But clearly
that was that man was not meant for you. And
I'm really glad that you're not in that anymore.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
If it was not right for you, I am so
thank you so much. You're welcome. No, I thank you
for calling the show. I appreciate you. Wow. So let's
let's turn it.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Let's turn it into this while we've got a few
minutes before we get into bangor brackets. What do you
usually say to your friend when they respond with can
I bring my significant other along?
Speaker 7 (07:27):
Look?
Speaker 3 (07:27):
What's your tactic on that?
Speaker 2 (07:28):
If five went three, seven, four, nine, one oh seven one,
or talk back with Tiff on the iHeartRadio app. Hi,
good morning, You're waking up with tif in the morning
on Kiss one oh seven one. Your chance to play
for ten plus pairs of tickets at Riverbend this summer
in our Banger Brackets challenge coming up here in a
hot second, your thoughts on bringing your significant other to
one on one meetups with your friends or or to
(07:50):
group settings.
Speaker 6 (07:52):
Me and my friend, so that's something that we all
struggle it because we all met college. So I met
some of my friends significant other before they started dating,
so we were all friends originally, which is fine, but
like now my friends from high school who I hang
out with, still that's the thing I always I struggle
(08:13):
with her now because she and I hang out and
I'm so used to just bringing my significant other things
because that's what we do in my other friend group.
That now, like, I've gotten better about it, but originally
she would be like, oh my god, you're bringing him again,
and I'd be like, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Yeah, you really, you know, and you're representing a lot
of people in Cincinnati, whether they know it or not,
and they can internalize that. I'm glad that you're recognizing
it because I think one on one time with your
close friend is very important. So for her sake and
I guess for my sake since I'm being selfish about this,
I'm glad that you're starting to realize it and you're
not going to bring your significant other to everything that
(08:50):
you do.
Speaker 6 (08:52):
Yeah, it's just sometimes hard because it's like I just
naturally think to bring him.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
So, what's your name and what neighborhood of you in
Laurena from Anderson And thank you for so much for
the call.
Speaker 8 (09:01):
Hi, you're on the air, Okay, So I don't think
you're wrong for feeling the way you feel about it.
And I'm like totally in the same boat because there
was a situation once where we were on a girl
trip and we were actually on a cruise and and
at the time I had a fiance so ended up
bringing him along because I would say over here, the
(09:21):
girl couldn't w know or whatever. So long story short, uh,
the fiance ended up picking up one of the girls
and she ended up getting pregnant and everything. It was
a it was a terrible.
Speaker 5 (09:39):
This is not this is the second story today.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Thank you for the call. That is wild.
Speaker 8 (09:57):
Open up.
Speaker 5 (09:57):
Man mc gill just caught me a better catch him
And I was like, I don't know when that this happened.
You're waking up with fifth in the morning, kis let
us seven one, no one once, your significant other at
the group outing, no one once, your significant other at the.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Group outing, no one once, your significant other at the
group outing.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I could go on for days.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Okay, when I get really excited about a topic, sometimes
I ramble and sometimes my words get jumbly because my
brain is operating at a high level and my mouth
is not keeping up.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Guy or girl does not matter.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
There has been a time where you have planned something
with your friend, probably a close friend, and they've either
brought their significant other without warning, or they've asked you,
can my significant other come?
Speaker 3 (00:52):
And I want to talk about that this morning. There
are multiple ways.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
To get in touch. You can talk back with Tiff
on the iHeartRadio. I'm the microphone is in the right
hand corner next to the play button five one three
seven four nine one oh seven one is a great
way for you and I to chit chat back and forth.
And don't be afraid to call the radio station. I
am literally the only one that answers the phone. Okay,
it's just me in this box. So I've had a
(01:15):
run in with this many times, and I'm just curious
on whether or not I doubt I'm alone. But am
I alone in the sense where my blood kind of boils?
And I do my bush to keep it to myself.
But have you ever planned something with your best friend
(01:36):
and their significant others showed up? I recently had this
experience with one of my best friends, who has been
in a relationship for I would say the better half
of a year. And I love her partner, love love
love her partner. And I understand that when you you know,
work in life in significant others, time for your best
(01:56):
friends kind of diminishes. And when you plan, Hey we're
gonna get dinner, Hey we're gonna do this. Hey we're
gonna do that, and you're really looking forward to it,
and you find out maybe that day, maybe you find out,
like on the spot when you pull up to the restaurant,
there's significant other?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Is there?
Speaker 2 (02:16):
Am I wrong in saying that is literally the worst
thing in the world. There's a the reason outside of
me talking about it. On a personal note, there's this
girl going viral on TikTok.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
You might follow this creator. Let me pull up her name.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
It's the It's called that Girl's Djo. She has written
this whole skit about group chats and significant others.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
I'll play it.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
Hey, Gurlees, so excited for dinner tonight. So I know
we said we weren't gonna do boyfriends, but honestly, Justin
really had such a rough day and I don't want
to leave him alone. He said he didn't want to
crash our dinner, but I told him, you guys would
totally get it.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Is she couldn't trying to bring her boyfriend again.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
What do we do to we respond?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
We wait for Jessica to respond.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
She just said, Hey, Haley, so sorry to hear that
Justin had such a rough day.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
I just checked with the restaurant and I.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Am unable to change the reservation to add a seat
for him.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Oh my god, I'm obsessed with her.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Oh it's so weird that you were unable to change
the reservation. I obviously didn't want to bother you guys
if it wasn't possible for Justin to come, so I
called the restaurant earlier, and weirdly enough, they said it
wouldn't be an issue.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Anyways.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
We're so excited to see you, guys.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
We're so excited to see you guys.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Nothing is more annoying to me than the word weird
when it comes to a relationship. And you know what
this is where you come in in this conversation this morning,
because obviously there's a hint of relatability here for everyone
in some way, shape or form.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
But I am single.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Right now, and if I look back to my time
with the Finance Guide, there were probably times that I
brought him along, But I always was very cognizant about
time spent with friends versus time spent in group settings
where everyone brings their significant other around.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
What I want to know is am I wrong?
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Was I wrong for being annoyed with my girlfriend? Five
win three seven four nine, one oh seven one? Let's
chat this morning or talk back with Tiff on that
same iHeartRadio app feature that I mentioned all the time.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
The microphone is in the top right hand corner.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
When you go out with your friends and they bring
their significant other, does that annoy you?
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Good morning?
Speaker 2 (04:34):
We're not far off from bangor brackets. Everyday seven forty
two songs go up against each other and you have
a chance to play for ten pairs of tickets at
riverbend this summer. I mean you'll be booked and busy.
You're waking up with TIF in the morning on Kiss
one oh seven one. I don't want to be the
troll on the radio, but I feel very passionate about
having quality time with friends, and then quality time with
(04:58):
friends in their significan and others. When I book an appointment,
and when I say literally book an appointment with my
best friends, sometimes we have to put it on the calendar.
I feel a type of way if she brings her husband,
and that's what we're in the midst of talking about
this morning. How you're on the air, my troll.
Speaker 6 (05:14):
I honestly think time with friends should be just time
with friends, and time with your others should be with others,
because how many with your others you're like all.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
The time, all the time, all the time.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
That's why and me and I just I don't want
to be a troll, but I can't be alone in
this thought. Okay, what's your name? What neighborhood are you
waking up with me?
Speaker 6 (05:35):
And I'm waking up in the Richmond and my name's Erica.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
Erica. Thank you for the call. I appreciate you, no problem, all.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Right, thank you so much for holding I wanted to
get your thoughts.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
I appreciate you. Go ahead.
Speaker 7 (05:48):
Yeah, I would say it's pretty annoying, But I'd also
say that you guys have to you have to be
careful with that too, because sometimes your best friend can
be in love with your state of other and you
never know that because somebody can say, I mean spending
time together, nick, call them up. That's happened with me.
My best friends found love with.
Speaker 6 (06:05):
My husband because we would hang out so often.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Whoac skirt, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, yeah,
hold on.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Okay, you and your significant other spend a lot of
time with your best friend and she ended up. I
don't want to say steal, but for the story, took
your husband away.
Speaker 6 (06:23):
Essentially they both did.
Speaker 7 (06:24):
Oh yeah, So you have to be you have to
have like a boundary of that. And that's what I'm
trying to find now, Like I'm saying, all right now,
but I have to find a boundary like of Okay,
I understand we can have our own friends or whatever,
but can I come with your friends or like it's
a hard boundary to It's a hard, very hard boundary
to try.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
And figure out.
Speaker 7 (06:44):
So you just have to be careful because sometimes they'll
be like, well, I want to spend time with them
instead of you, And that's what happened to me.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Girl. Well what's your name? What neighborhood? Are waking up
with me?
Speaker 7 (06:52):
And I'm Monica and I'm Cincinnati.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Okay, Monica. Clearly that's a really horrible situation. But clearly
that was that man was not meant for you. And
I'm really glad that you're not in that anymore.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
If it was not right for you, I am so
thank you so much. You're welcome. No, I thank you
for calling the show. I appreciate you. Wow. So let's
let's turn it.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Let's turn it into this while we've got a few
minutes before we get into bangor brackets. What do you
usually say to your friend when they respond with can
I bring my significant other along?
Speaker 7 (07:27):
Look?
Speaker 3 (07:27):
What's your tactic on that?
Speaker 2 (07:28):
If five went three, seven, four, nine, one oh seven one,
or talk back with Tiff on the iHeartRadio app. Hi,
good morning, You're waking up with tif in the morning
on Kiss one oh seven one. Your chance to play
for ten plus pairs of tickets at Riverbend this summer
in our Banger Brackets challenge coming up here in a
hot second, your thoughts on bringing your significant other to
one on one meetups with your friends or or to
(07:50):
group settings.
Speaker 6 (07:52):
Me and my friend, so that's something that we all
struggle it because we all met college. So I met
some of my friends significant other before they started dating,
so we were all friends originally, which is fine, but
like now my friends from high school who I hang
out with, still that's the thing I always I struggle
(08:13):
with her now because she and I hang out and
I'm so used to just bringing my significant other things
because that's what we do in my other friend group.
That now, like, I've gotten better about it, but originally
she would be like, oh my god, you're bringing him again,
and I'd be like, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Yeah, you really, you know, and you're representing a lot
of people in Cincinnati, whether they know it or not,
and they can internalize that. I'm glad that you're recognizing
it because I think one on one time with your
close friend is very important. So for her sake and
I guess for my sake since I'm being selfish about this,
I'm glad that you're starting to realize it and you're
not going to bring your significant other to everything that
(08:50):
you do.
Speaker 6 (08:52):
Yeah, it's just sometimes hard because it's like I just
naturally think to bring him.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
So, what's your name and what neighborhood of you in
Laurena from Anderson And thank you for so much for
the call.
Speaker 8 (09:01):
Hi, you're on the air, Okay, So I don't think
you're wrong for feeling the way you feel about it.
And I'm like totally in the same boat because there
was a situation once where we were on a girl
trip and we were actually on a cruise and and
at the time I had a fiance so ended up
bringing him along because I would say over here, the
(09:21):
girl couldn't w know or whatever. So long story short, uh,
the fiance ended up picking up one of the girls
and she ended up getting pregnant and everything. It was
a it was a terrible.
Speaker 5 (09:39):
This is not this is the second story today.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Thank you for the call. That is wild.
Speaker 8 (09:57):
Open up.
Speaker 5 (09:57):
Man mc gill just caught me a better catch him
And I was like, I don't know when that this happened.
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