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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Diego is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Samantha.
So in a few minutes, we'll call her and see
if she sellue why she's ghosting him, and maybe get
him a second date. But first, Diego, how long has
it been since you heard from Samantha.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been a minute, you know, it's been like like
over a week right now, and uh, yeah, it's just weird.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
So have you been trying to get a hold of
her or how did you guys leave it after the date?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
You know, let me just give you a full story.
So basically, like I met her online and we were
texting each other. It's we had like a really good,
like sort of vibes going, and actually we figured our
first date would be at like like a pottery class,
and it was great. Even when I picked her up
to go to a pottery class, she was like roasting
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me about my playlist in my car, and it was
just it was a squirty in a way too. It
was really it was really cool, and you know, it
was it was fun. You know, it was a good
feeling and uh yeah, so we we did our poverty
class thing. It was messy, creative, kind of romantic in
like a ghost way. You've ever seen that movie Ghost
with Patrick Swathe and Woobie Goldberg and anymore. So, All right,
(01:18):
long story short, I kept overspinning my wheel and splattering
clay everywhere, and I think that's why she uh ghosted me,
because it even even spilt on another couple next to us,
which was kind of.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
You know, so fall you know, you think maybe she's
ghosting you because you were like messy with your pottery.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Yeah. Yeah, I was splashing everywhere.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Yeah. Did she seem bothered by it?
Speaker 3 (01:48):
I mean I just felt like she was, and I
think we still had sparks. She was like laughing and
like she was even snorting. It was like, you know,
I you know, we were it was. It was it
was pretty I thought it was pretty funny, but then
I don't know, you know what I'm saying, Like she
was even joking about me and about like our Frankenstein bowls.
And at the end she hugged me, said goodbye, and
(02:09):
like he would, clay still on my face. She's still
you know, give me a kissing the cheek, you know, Okay,
I'll tell you this. I left thinking like this is
definitely someone I could actually vibe with long term. So
it's kind of brutal with the radio silence, you.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Know, totally did the people that you were getting clay
all over gap set? Was there like an altercation or
it was just random Clay flying. I'm just trying to understand,
like at what point maybe she was like rubbed wrong.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
I don't know. I mean, like everyone was like kind
of cool about it though, but you never know, you
know what I mean. I mean, she definitely was like
joking about it, so I don't know if it was
just a sort of like a defense mechanism.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
So I don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
I mean, I was really into her humor. I liked
how she was like making fun of me, and like
she's also felt deprecating too, Like we definitely vibe the
staying type of like humor. So you know, I still
want to like lose that to see.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
You know, did she say anything like she wanted to
go out again?
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Yeah, we were like, yeah, let's keep in touch, you know,
like but it seemed genuine, not like yeah, we'll keep
in touch, but not you know, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
I feel like being bad at pottery is kind of
a weird reason to ghost somebody. But maybe she's a
pottery snole. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
Maybe it's an excuse, which is also not helpful to you.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
I'm really sorry. We'll see if we can figure it
out for you. Right, we'll play a song come back,
and then call her and see if she'll tell us
why she's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date. Okay,
all right, sounds good.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
We'll get your first day follow up next if you're
just joining us for today's first date follow up. Diego
is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Samantha.
So we're about to call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
another date. But first, Diego, why don't you break down
your date for us again?
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Real quick?
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Yeah? So, basically met her online. We had great vibes,
and we went to a pottery class. Things got a
little messy, and I'm just trying to hear back from her.
Hopefully I didn't make a total myself.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I hope you didn't say that. Yeah, all right, are
you ready for us to call her? Yeah, okay, here
we go.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Hello.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Hi, I'm asking Disamantha. Please speaking. Hey Samantha, how are you?
This is a radio show, it's called The Jubil Show. Hi, Samantha.
I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jebel.
What's up?
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (04:42):
Not much? Have you ever listened to the show before.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
I've heard of you, guys, but I don't really listen
to radio that much.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
That's okay, Okay, Well, thank you for hearing of us. Yeah,
that's good. We're calling you today because we got an
email about you.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Oh you did.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Yeah. We do a segment on the show and it's
called the First Day follow Up. That's where if you
go out on a date with somebody and then you
end up ghosting them, that person can email us to
ask why you're ghosting? So do you have any idea?
Who would email?
Speaker 1 (05:17):
Yeah? I might have a slight idea.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Okay, who is that? Who do you think it is?
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Are you calling about Diego?
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Yes? It is and we talked to Diego. He told
us a little bit about your date and he really
liked you and he's wondering why you're ghosting him. Would
you mind telling us.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Oh gosh, this is it on the radio? Okay. I
mean I really didn't expect to like talk about this
like publicly, like on the radio, Like this is kind
of crazy. Okay. So honestly, guys, gosh, this is so weird. No,
(05:59):
he's great, he's we had a great time. We went
to a pottery class. It was really really fun. But
he just he's just not like the guy for me.
Let me just say that.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
But did something happen or is it just a vibe
you're getting.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
He has some mannerisms that are just not like I
don't know if I can really deal with that. Yeah,
Like I don't want to be rude.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
I don't want to be rude.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Well, you know, like we told him that we would
tell him whatever you told us, and he's prepared to
hear whatever.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Okay, okay in the nicest way possible. We like went
to dinner, and the way he was drinking his soda,
he was like slurping with the straw like he was
auditioning for a kazoo band. I don't know how I
could ever recover from that. It was so I had
secondhand embarrassment. It was so loud, like everyone in the
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restaurant was turning around to look, and yeah, it was
that bad, Like it was so loud, and it wasn't
just one time, it was like over and over and.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
They just gave you, like the ick. It us a
turn off.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
It gave me, yes completely, it gave me the ick,
and I just, yeah, I don't think I could do that.
Speaker 4 (07:16):
Do you think he does that all the time? I
guess I could find out. But if he does that
all the time or just when you drink soda.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Oh, I don't know. I assume anytime he drinks through
a straw, Like did you never learn how to drink
out of a straw? Like growing up? Like what is
going on here?
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Well, Samantha, just to let you know, Diego is on
the phone and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Uh oh, what do you like listening to that?
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:46):
You do you afterwards? Look, So, I'm so sorry I
was so rude.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
It happened.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
I'm just sorry. Let me wait, you ghosted me because
I shipped too hard on the straw?
Speaker 1 (08:00):
That's like, yeah, that's ridiculous. Yeah right, the sound is
burned into my brain, like people were turning around, did
you not notice like everyone turning around me, like who
brought the human espresso machine? It wasn't once, it was
like every sip like surrounding like it was. I was embarrassed.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
Oh my god, I was. I was thirsty, Okay, Like
you handed me spicy noodles. What did you expect?
Speaker 1 (08:28):
That was a drink water like a normal person, not
like a one man tuba section.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Oh wow, wow, I guess I'll start hydrating in silence
from now on.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
You ast me to be honest, so you'd.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Seriously not date me because of the way I drink
from straw.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Yeah, like I just can't unhear and unsee and like
undo the itic that gave me. I'm really really sorry.
It's not your fault, but I mean maybe, but.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
How many times would I be drinking from a straw
that's like a rare curtains. It's not like I drink
from a straw every day.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Yeah, that's true. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Fine, I'll never touch a straw again. I swear I'll
just drink out a cupped hands if I have to. Whatever.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Oh, you don't know if you're.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Okay, But it's not just that, like any time you
would be drinking any like whatever. I would just be
thinking about this straw incident.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
A straw incident. Oh my god, you named something. You
named it the straw incident.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
It was that bad. It was that bad burned into
my brain. And then afterwards I changed your name in
my phone to strawboy.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
Oh no, Samantha, would you like another day with strawboy?
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
You know, diego. I'm sure there's someone out there who
is a good match for your straw drinking habit. It's
not me, unfortunately. I'm so sorry. I did have a
good time with you, but there's someone better for you
out there. I mean, can I mean, are you just
like I mean, we had a good time. Could you
just give me another thought? Like, I mean, I didn't know.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
That I sip that straw that back. I'll try to
I'll make sure I don't drink straws that crazy again,
or I won't even touch a straw as long as
I'm like seeing you. How about that?
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Like?
Speaker 3 (10:22):
And I know it's you know, it's ingraining your head
as the straw incident, but honestly, like I'm hoping you
thought about the other incidents was like, oh, you know,
the fun times we had incident, the pottery incident, you know,
like the car Playlist's incident. Like I'm hoping you think
about like the positive vibes we had in each.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Other and not just that one weird moment.
Speaker 3 (10:43):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Well, I mean that was well, well okay, okay, okay, fine,
I will go out with you one more time just
to see only because you sound desperate enough to be entertaining. Wow,
no straws, but it's going to take a lot of convincing.
(11:07):
I'll do it.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
Oh my god, thank you, Sam, Sam. I really appreciate it.
Like I'll even go on YouTube and like watch tutorials
on how to drink a straw properly.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Wow, that exists. It must get good. This tongue whoa
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