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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Ellie is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Drew.
So in a few minutes we're gonna call him and
see if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe
get her another date. But first, Ellie, how long has
it been since you heard from Drew.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been about three weeks.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Oh wow, okay, yeah, that's in a minute. Have you
guys had any exchanges in the three weeks.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
No, it's been good silent.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Oh no, okay. How did you guys leave it at
the end of the date.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
I mean it felt good. It just felt really like like,
you know, positive, and like we're flirty, we're having fun,
and like maybe we'll get together again. Like there wasn't
any like indication. I think he said he texted me
and thought I.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Was sweet, okay, And he never texted no, did you
you did?
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Yeah? Uh?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
And he didn't respond at all.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
No.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
And I was trying, you know, just like, hey, how's
your week going? Very casual thing like serious. I wasn't like,
let's go on to dat yet or anything.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
You know.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Okay, well tell us about the date.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
So well, I met Drew at like a tree Knight.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
And this is so dumb.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
But he was like yelling out all the wrong answers,
but like he was super confident, which I thought was cute,
Like I think it's fun when someone like is down
to make fun of themselves. And he was like passionate
even though he was wrong. And yeah, so we just
kind of got to talking and he was super honey
(01:44):
and quick and he had like a Ryan Gosling kind
of vibe like not look guys, which is like I
don't care, like but I care.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
It was just very but it was it was like
and he's charismatic, and we got along. We changed numbers
and then we were texting a little bit and then
he asked me to go mini golfing, which I love
and it's like fun and love pressure and the curting
card he wanted to do, and I think it's a
cute idea. It's kind of like you have an activity
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so you don't have to like stare at each other
at like a dinner table, right.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Things.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
Yeah, so about everything was fine and then we're having
a time, he's being funny. I think I'm being funny.
And then about like halfway through, I hissed the ball
really hard and it like ricocheted off a rock straight
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into the water, and I was laughing, like I thought
it was funny, but I feel like he kind of
went into like pull on like dad coach mode, like
he was like giving me like tips about my stands
and like my ball going true, and I'm like, dude,
this is like mini ball, Like this is not the Masters,
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you know. And I thought we were just having a
good time and making fun of ourselves, but suddenly things
felt kind of like it was just like there, it
was like an impass. We felt like not on the
same page, okay, but like he was charming and like
I let it slide, like I was like whatever. We
what continued on the date, like we got a milkitic
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after he walked me in my car, and yeah, I
thought it was like I even thought like maybe he
was just doing a big you know, like it was joking,
but it was just, you know, it was pretty fun easy,
and yeah I just been silent. So I guess I'm
just like kind of confused and with like an answer.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Why do you think he's ghosting you? Do you have
any thoughts on that?
Speaker 3 (03:52):
Honestly? No, Like, I think it went really well. Like
I mean, unless he was super mad that I hit
the ball into the water, like, but I mean that
would be insane, right.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Was there something else that happened in that moment? I
mean you said that's kind of when everything started to change.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
One that I can we think of. I mean I
thought it was like it was just like the you know,
part of the game, and then we moved on.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Okay, well, we'll see if we can figure it out
for you'll play a song, come back, and then call
him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting
you and maybe get you a second date. Okay, okay, yeah,
we'll get your first day follow up next. If we're
just joining us for today's first date follow up. Ellie
is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a
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guy named Drew. So we're about to call him and
see if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe
get her a second date. But before we do that, Ellie,
why don't you recap your date again for us real quick?
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:48):
I mean we went minil thing. It was fine, maybe
got like weirdly impatant in the middle, but everything was cool.
We like how to good rest of the date, and
he said he would text me, and I haven't heard
from him in three weeks.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Okay, Well are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Here we go.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Hi, I'm asking the Drew please.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
This is he?
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Hey Drew, how are you?
Speaker 2 (05:28):
This is a radio show. It's called The Jewbile Show.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Hi, Drew.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
I'm Nina.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
I am Victoria and my name is Juble.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
What's up? Oh? Hello? Did I win something?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
I'm not sure yet. You'll find out in a second though.
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 3 (05:43):
No?
Speaker 4 (05:43):
I haven't. What's going on?
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Well, we do a segment on the show it's called
the first Date follow Up. That's where if you go
out on a date with somebody and you end up
ghosting them, that person can email us to get you
on the phone and ask why you're ghosting? Do you
have any idea? Who would email us?
Speaker 4 (05:59):
Yeah? About Ellie?
Speaker 1 (06:01):
You knew that right away.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Uh, well, she might be. She's the only person that
I would bro I don't like the word ghosting. I
just want to put that out there. I like, uh
not responding to okay, gives me maybe it's a little
less pooky or something. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Well, sounds rude, but don't mind telling us why you're
not calling her back.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Well, I thought, Ellie, it was awesome in the beginning,
the beginning of the day was super fun. She's beautiful,
she's funny, it's flirty. We're having a good time. Uh well,
so how much do you know about the date already?
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Well, we talked her a little bit about it. She said, uh,
do you guys want mini golfing stuff? But that's pretty
much it.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Okay, so we're on the mini golf course and it's
pretty even. I'd like to think I'm a little better.
She's doing a little worse than me. So I try
to give her. You know, she hits the ball really hard.
At one point at ricochet's almost hit somebody. It's kind
of dangerous looking back on. I'm trying to give her
a friendly tip on how to keep it, keep the
ball on the course, keep the game moving, not only
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for us but for the people around us. And I
give her this tip. She looks me dead in the eyes,
and I didn't gonna sound insane again. It is insane.
She says, I will destroy you. Wait right, And we
don't know each other well enough for me to know
whether this is some kind of joke, whether this is
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her humor. It didn't feel very funny. It felt competitive
in a way that I didn't find very attractive. I
was actually kind of scared at that moment his death.
There was I don't know, it's very intense and oh my.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
God, I was. I was joking, are you serious?
Speaker 2 (07:47):
She's actually on the phone and wants to talk to you, hi, Ellie.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
I didn't realize we'd be talking. I thought I was
talking to the radio, know, Like, how did you don't know?
Speaker 3 (07:58):
I was hitting? We were like doing bits like.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
I mean, I didn't know you well enough to know
what was a bit? And does it feel like a bit?
When you asked me afterwards to bow down on my
knees to my.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Mini golf queen, it was funny, like me, it was weird,
but it was funny.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
It's funny up to the point where there's a grown
man on his knees. You know, it sounds a little,
I don't know, embarrassing, especially on a first date. I
don't want to be embarrassed.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
Yeah, I did because I kicked your as I beat
you down.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
I was. I mean, I guess it sounds funny in
this context, but when we were there, it didn't feel
very funny. You felt really intense and uh, I don't know.
You made me like you wouldn't let me do anything
else until I did get down on my knees. It's
one thing to joke about it and say it's but
to force me to do it is it's a little
too star.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Yeah. I mean, I don't die like we were standing.
Speaker 4 (08:59):
There are people lining up behind us, and I'm trying
to not get on my knees, and I only end
up doing it because I have to move this game along.
Its fell very wrong to me, Ali, I don't think
you should be uh imposing royal decrees upon your first date.
I just I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Like to win, it's confidence like what you want me
to be, like a weak women woman.
Speaker 4 (09:23):
And lose like I'm happy for you to win, but
let's celebrate your victory together. I don't have to be
on my knees. You don't have to make me parade
me around mini golf establishment telling people I one, I.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
One, look at the loser, look at the loser.
Speaker 4 (09:37):
That's not.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
Maybe did you know who they were in the pred
I'm sorry, I'm.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
Sorry that I'm really I have a really.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Good eye hand coordination and I'm yeah, I'm good and
I'm I'm an ex softball player. Look how you know.
I'm yeah, I get contive.
Speaker 4 (09:53):
So what I'm okay with some competition, But like at
the end of the game, we have to shake. I
don't want you to throw me to the ground.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
But did she throw you to the ground?
Speaker 3 (10:05):
Though?
Speaker 4 (10:06):
I will say, you know, I played along, but you know,
it's the first date. I'm sure. I don't. I don't
want to stay what my expectations were, but I was
hoping for a second at least, and you know, when
things like this happened, it doesn't really it's hard to
play and I'll play along a little bit, you know,
but at a certain point it's just too much.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
I don't know. It was like you committed me to
bit uh it's seem I stay ran through like I
this was I thought we were both in on it.
I thought we were most committed.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
I I guess I mean I was. I tried to
play along to the best of my ability. Don't get
me wrong. But like it's it's you called me a
loyal subject. I don't have to feel lesser than you, know,
like it's it's if you were the queen and I
was the king, that would be one thing. Don't make
me the court jester.
Speaker 3 (10:56):
And no moment you were left than me because I
teach you, Like, hey.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Drew, would you like to go on another date with Ellie?
Will pay for it?
Speaker 4 (11:06):
I don't know, Like I said, I want to be
with someone who's gonna treat me as an equal. And
I don't think our first date was a great sign,
but we could make that happen.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
We are equals, just not when it comes to minigolf
or probably any sport that we need.
Speaker 4 (11:22):
Again, not not super encouraging of me to to get
back out with you.
Speaker 3 (11:30):
All right whatever, I guess you know, Chivalry's dog or whatever,
like you just can't take a woman being really good
a sport. Juble's first date fallow up