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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Max is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Daria.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
get him another date. But first, Max, how long has
it been since you talked to Daria?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
It's been eight days? Eight days, okay counting you said that,
so solemnly, how me reach it out to her?
Speaker 4 (00:29):
Yeah? No, I've tried to text her, but I haven't
heard anything back.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Okay, Well, tell us about your date so we can
hear about this connection. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
So, so we went to this pottery class which was
which was cool. Yeah, normally it's not like the typical
Drakes and Naps thing, but she seemed cool and I
wanted to go big or go home for her, you know,
and honestly, she was she was super into it and
she was good too.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Yeah, yeah, we got there.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
I was I was shocked because she made this like
beautiful bowl that looked like it belongs.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
To the museum.
Speaker 4 (01:08):
And meanwhile, I've never done it before, so mine just
looks like a squash muffin.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Cute.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
She left at that too, So but it was fun.
I think we were really connecting. We had wine, we
were kind of we got clay. We kind of had
a little clay fight, so we got clay all over
each other, and it just seemed like really playful and fun.
We ended up getting late night food after and you know,
after that, we ended up back at my place. So
(01:39):
I you know, I think everything went great according to
my perspective.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
I mean, it sounds like it so your place. You
didn't just like play checkers or did.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
You you call it checkers? Okay, either way, it wasn't
just a friendly hug, goodbye. Okay, got it. Did do
you guys make a plan to see each other again? Yeah?
We both expressed that, you know, something that we were
into and looked, you know, wanted to do again. So
(02:11):
you know, we didn't make any specific plans, but she
was definitely into the date, and I absolutely wanted to
make more plans.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
So yeah, I just don't know what happened. Is there
anything that you can think of that may have been
an issue? Well?
Speaker 4 (02:27):
I have, Yeah, I've been thinking about it and trying
to figure out.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
What could have happened.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
I mean, honestly, I was at one point I said,
I don't like avocados, and she was really passionate about guac.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
So like we're not like deeply invested in guacamole. Okay,
So I'm wondering if that is a thing.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
You know, she may not have been into that or
you know, at one point during the date, we we
got tacos and I did drop my taco on the
ground and I called it five second rule, but I
still laid it.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
I don't think it was the avocado thing. I think
you're safe there.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
No, okay, Okay, yeah, I mean it's that. I honestly,
the last thing I could think of possibly was I
told her that I'm emotionally available. But I texted that
to her the next day, and up until that, you know,
we'd been kind of texting through the date, and then
she stayed over at my place and the next day
(03:28):
I tried to start it again, but you know, nothing,
if you.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Had to call it and say one thing, what would
you think it would be? WHOA? I mean, it could
have been the thing.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
I just don't know, like, I, you know, might have
waited her out and I said I was emotionally available,
like maybe it was rushing or something.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
We'll see if we can figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
We'll play a song come back, and then call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
You and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Okay, okay, awesome, thank you, all right, we'll get your
first day follow up.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
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Speaker 2 (04:05):
If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up,
Max is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Darius.
So we're about to call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
a second date if he wants one. Still, But first
before we call her, Max, why don't you break down
your situation again first?
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Real quick? Yeah, So, Daria and I went to this
pottery class for our first date.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
We ended up getting some late nighte food, ended up
back at my place, had a great time.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
She stayed the night, and I haven't heard from her since.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
I thought maybe it could be because I dropped my
taco and still ate it during the date, or because
I texted her that I was emotionally available next day
and it weird you're out?
Speaker 3 (04:44):
I'm not sure? So did kiss you after you dropped
the taco and ate it? That's a good point, all right.
See if we can help you out. You ready for
us to call her? Yes? Thank you? All right, here
we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to Daria. Please.
Speaker 5 (05:11):
This is her?
Speaker 3 (05:12):
Hey, Daria, how are you? This is a radio show.
It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, Daria, I'm Nina. Hi,
I'm Victoria, and I'm Jewel. How are you?
Speaker 5 (05:22):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (05:22):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (05:24):
Up?
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Have you ever listened to The Jewel Show before?
Speaker 2 (05:27):
I have?
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Oh? Dope? Okay. Well, guess what, Daria?
Speaker 5 (05:33):
I always thought these calls for sake?
Speaker 2 (05:37):
No, no, yeah, somebody emailed us about you. Apparently you
went on a date with somebody. This is the first
day follow up, you know the segment that we do
that if you go on a date with someone and
you end up ghosting them, that person can ask us
to get you on the phone and find out why
you're ghosting them.
Speaker 5 (05:52):
People actually do actually call it.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Yeah, yep, because ghost sucks, Daria, and you're one of them.
Speaker 5 (06:00):
Oh, it's Max.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Do you have any idea? Who what email us about?
Speaker 5 (06:04):
You. I'm assuming it's Max, right, Oh.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Yes it is Max.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Can you tell us why you're ghosting him?
Speaker 5 (06:12):
Okay? So he literally liked every single photo I've ever posted,
every single one of them. I woke up, I had
like a million new notifications from one day. I'm just
from twenty seventeen that was popping up.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Because that's the sole reason.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
I mean, I posted a picture of a broken blender
in two thousand and eight and he hearted it broken
Who hearts a broken blender? Why didn't even post it?
It just it felt like, I don't know, it felt
like he was like virtually licking my timeline. I don't
even remember half of the photos that are there, and
it's not even like he just so like he literally
(06:52):
like he kind of studied them. It feels like he
commented on three different ones. I had fire emojis that
I had a comment that this era h and baby Daria,
like you really I've met the guy wants any commented
on a picture of me, like a picture of me
as a baby, an actual.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
A little bit flattered, I mean flattered.
Speaker 5 (07:14):
I'd be flattered if it was like you know, photo
or two recently, but like through the whole entire history
of me. It's a little.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
All right, well, Daria, thank you for telling us. And
you probably already know this though, but Max is on
the phone. He's been listening this whole time and wants
to talk to you.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
Oh yeah, yeah, they're they're on the other line. I
got it, okay, Yeah, hi.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Mas hi, Daria. That's why you ghosted me. You go
to me because I liked your posts.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
Dude, you time travel through my entire Instagram and gave
me literal chills.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
I just you posted. I was just trying to appreciate
you in full starry journey. You know. It was meant
to be a compliment.
Speaker 5 (08:06):
It's like you were in an FBI agent that did
a deep dive into my life, Like, how about just
good luck on your midterms instead of the history of Daria.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
Maybe I got like a little carried away, But it
was honestly meant to be just positive. I was was
enjoying getting to know you through your posts, and I
thought you were so interesting and I just wanted to
support your history.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
Dude, you supported it to death.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (08:33):
I think it's just I really like you, Daria, and
I was having so much fun getting to know you.
I had a great time doing pottery with you, and
and after.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
Matt stopped, I'm mad at you. You weren't getting to
know me. You were creating stories in your head based
off of what I posted.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
No, that's not true.
Speaker 4 (08:51):
I honestly think that you're super witty, beautiful, and I'm
sorry if I took it too far with those. And
also I hearted that blender that broke because I actually
have the same lender that broke as well.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
Max, you are trying to relate to me, You're you're
literally creating a scenario in your head. You're trying to
relate to me like you just need to chill out.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
No, I'm not. I really have that blender. I didn't
take the pictures of it, but I actually I actually
had it.
Speaker 5 (09:22):
I guess that's another reason why you think we're meant
to be.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
I mean, I can, I can dial it back. I
promise I can. Unlike that baby photo of you. You
know it's listen. I'm not saying that we're meant to be.
I just I honestly just think you're dope. And I
really I really.
Speaker 4 (09:39):
Liked you, and I still like you, and you know,
I just want to get to know you.
Speaker 5 (09:44):
You don't think you got to know me by scrolling
through a lifetime of Instagram.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
Post Daria, would you like to go on another date
with Max? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 5 (09:53):
I don't know. I mean, I I do like when
someone's into me, but I don't want to feel like
I'm being digitally followed home.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
I listen.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
I promise I can dial it back. I know I
came on too strong, but you know, just just give
me one more chance.
Speaker 5 (10:09):
I mean, are you going to find my mom and
start dming her and stuff like that like other suckers.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
I'll be honest. I found Pam's profile, but she look,
he didn't message Pam.
Speaker 5 (10:22):
Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
He held back to messaging Pam.
Speaker 5 (10:27):
Gonna hit request?
Speaker 3 (10:31):
I won't. I won't. I promise. What do you think, Daria?
One more chance? He sounds legit to me me too.
I would love that.
Speaker 5 (10:37):
I did have a good time and you do this
little cute thing with your pinky. I don't know. Just
don't like me so much yet.
Speaker 3 (10:45):
Right away?
Speaker 4 (10:46):
I promised to be into you, but but not but
not that into you.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
You'll do it?
Speaker 4 (10:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (10:54):
If he if he chilled out a little bit.
Speaker 3 (10:58):
Sweet congratulations Max, You got another date. Oh yeah cool.
Speaker 4 (11:02):
Yeah, I'm not I'm not that excited about it, but yeah,
there you go.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
That's a little left stressful for me.
Speaker 3 (11:11):
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