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July 3, 2025 12 mins

Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
 
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Matt is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by somebody named Bria.
So in a minute, we're gonna call her and seeha
tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him
another date the first Matt, how long has it been
as you heard from Bria?

Speaker 3 (00:19):
Hey, yeah, you know it's been It's been about a
week now.

Speaker 1 (00:25):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (00:26):
I gotta be honest, this is the first time I've
ever been ghosts since. I'm not really sure if it's
a long time or not. Ever.

Speaker 4 (00:31):
Wow, congratulations, Actually appreciate that.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
I try to be selective of the idea.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
A week is a long time if you go out
with somebody, usually if they like you, you know, maybe
a couple of days go by where they don't text you,
but they'll get back to you. Have you tried reaching out?

Speaker 3 (00:47):
I'm heading about it just because I wanted to be
like a single you know, thoughtful thing like, not exactly
a grand gesture. I don't want to be like a
door about it, but I do want to make sure
that it is memorable, want to make it, you know,
And that's the thing. That's what I'm calling it is
because I want you guys to help me out with this.
I really don't know what I'm doing. This is totally
new territory for me.

Speaker 4 (01:08):
Okay, So you want to get her attention with something
more of a hey, how you do in text?

Speaker 3 (01:12):
Exactly? I want to be yea much more of a
because she is dating with intention and I want to
make sure that I am someone who's you know, intention
is worthwhile.

Speaker 2 (01:25):
That's cute picture.

Speaker 4 (01:27):
Okay, Okay, how did you meet Bria Matt? How did
you meet her? And how is the date?

Speaker 3 (01:33):
Yeah? We so we met on Hinge and we were talking,
you know, back and forth for a little bit and
making sure that you know, we we really you know,
had a feel for one another. I saw on Hinge
her photos where she was hiking, and that showed me
that she's equally active and she appreciates nature, and that's
that's all me. I love that we went to a
rooftop for drinks, you know, right sunset, so he's going

(01:57):
to have very very beautiful views and indeed we got
sure to that. That was great U And it was
really romantic there were plants. It was. It seemed kind
of an intimate setting. And then so I'm glad we
were there because we started just acting like we were
on vacation, you know, so we made up stories for ourselves.
We were looking around us at the different couples of

(02:18):
different people, making up stories for them.

Speaker 2 (02:19):
You know.

Speaker 3 (02:20):
It was a lot of fun, it was, and she
was a lot of fun. One of the things that
I really appreciate is just how she beams with everything,
you know, just big smile, laughing, contagious laughter. At that point,
we started out, you know, what we want and goals
and what our passions are, what drives us, and it
seemed it really really seemed to fit. And this is

(02:41):
why I'm concerned about the ghost thing, because you know,
I hope she's all right. I hope that I didn't
come across too strong. You know. We ended the day
with a hug, like a nice tight hug. It was.
It seemed promising, and so I want to make sure
that everything is kind of how I thought it was
in my head. And then I don't know, maybe I

(03:03):
messed up. I hope I didn't.

Speaker 4 (03:05):
Well, it sounds like it went really great for the
most part. Is there anything that happened that could be why?

Speaker 3 (03:10):
I mean, you know, I'm competitive, I'm maybe overly competitive.
And I asked her if she was seeing other people,
you know, just because she said she was dating with intention,
but I don't want to know kind of how that went.
And yeah, she did say that she was kind of dating.
It didn't sound like there was anything serious going on.
But maybe I just came across as too intense with

(03:32):
how I.

Speaker 2 (03:32):
Asked, how did you ask? Did you reached across the
table and grab her hand and stare deevid Juryan said,
are you seeing anybody else?

Speaker 5 (03:38):
Yes?

Speaker 4 (03:40):
I might like it.

Speaker 3 (03:43):
I can't quite remember. So maybe I was in a
bit of an altered state of mind. Maybe the duration
was going that evening. Okay, so yeah, that might have
contributed to it. I don't remember.

Speaker 4 (03:57):
Any cloy all Right, man, Matt.

Speaker 2 (04:05):
We'll see if we can figure it out for you.
We'll play a song come back, and then call her
and try to get you another date and find out
where you're getting goosted.

Speaker 3 (04:11):
Okay, thank you, guys, I appreciate that.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
All right, we'll play a song, come back, get your
first day, follow up, next.

Speaker 1 (04:17):
First date, follow up, Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.

Speaker 2 (04:23):
If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.
Matt is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Bria.
So we're about to call her and see if so
tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him
another date. But first, Matt, why don't you catch us
up on your situation?

Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah, Brion, I went on a date, and you know,
beforehand and met on Hinge. I was very tried to
all of her photos. We met up, it seemed like
it was going really great. We had a lot of
fun just making up stories about ourselves and when it
came to this fun little gamer you're playing. But I
feel like I really got to know her. I was
very very attractive to her and she was basically like

(04:56):
just just sunshine, and so I want to know what
happened with it.

Speaker 2 (05:01):
Okay, And you think that the reason she might not
be calling you back is because you asked if she
was dating other people.

Speaker 3 (05:06):
Maybe I honestly don't know, and I'm looking for you
guys to help me out with this.

Speaker 2 (05:11):
Okay, Well here we go. Are you ready to call her?

Speaker 3 (05:13):
Please? Let's do it's up.

Speaker 2 (05:27):
Hi, man, I speak Tobria.

Speaker 5 (05:28):
Please, this is she.

Speaker 2 (05:30):
Hey Bria, how are you? My name is Jeubel and
I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.

Speaker 4 (05:35):
Hi, Bria, I'm Nina also on the show.

Speaker 5 (05:37):
Hi, and I'm Victoria. Oh. Hi, there's a lot of
people here there is.

Speaker 2 (05:41):
How are you?

Speaker 5 (05:44):
I'm okay? How are you?

Speaker 2 (05:47):
I'm good? Thank you for asking. Have you ever listened
to the show before?

Speaker 5 (05:50):
I have?

Speaker 2 (05:52):
Well, we're calling because we do a segment on the
show called the First Date follow Up, where if you
go out on a date with somebody and then you
ghost them, they can email us to call you and
ask why you're ghosting them.

Speaker 5 (06:03):
Uh huh.

Speaker 2 (06:04):
So we got an email about you from somebody.

Speaker 5 (06:07):
Yeah, okay, who.

Speaker 4 (06:10):
Are you ghosting?

Speaker 5 (06:10):
Brian? Well, I'm guessing is this Matt? Yes?

Speaker 2 (06:17):
It is so. Matt emailed us and we talked to
him a little bit about your date. He really liked you,
and he is wondering why you're not calling him back.

Speaker 5 (06:27):
I mean, it feels kind of weird to say, but
I just think he's too pretty.

Speaker 2 (06:32):
You think he's too pretty?

Speaker 5 (06:34):
I think, Yeah, I think I think he's too pretty,
and I think he knows he's he's a he's a
handsome lad, and that is that was a little bit
of a turnoff for me.

Speaker 4 (06:45):
Was it confidence or arrogance?

Speaker 5 (06:47):
Well, so, like it started off, he just kind of
seemed to talk a lot about himself, and he seemed
to just always be catching his reflection in a mirror
or a window, just like seemed very taken with it.
And he also was kind of talking about his internet
presence and how many followers he has and just like

(07:08):
repeated that a few times, and I just kind of
felt like I wasn't really being paid attention. You know,
it's a first date, so I expected some questions about me,
and he just kind of seemed to be talking about
how fit he is and like how he's going to
start off fitness page. You know, like I know that
he we talked about hiking and like being outdoors and

(07:30):
being fit, and like I'm definitely about that, but like
I'm also a person, and I felt that, yeah, we
got to talk about things bigger than internet presence.

Speaker 4 (07:41):
It sounds like he was trying to impress you. Oh,
isn't it like he showed up with all of his
toys and was like, look at this is what I have.
Do you like him?

Speaker 5 (07:48):
I could see that. I could see that, and you know,
I was trying to ask him about things that he
was interested in, but I kind of expected him to
ask me about some stuff. That's you got to make
a connection on your eight and I feel like you
actually have to, you know, like ask questions and sort
of be interested.

Speaker 3 (08:06):
Okay, can I ask you a question?

Speaker 4 (08:09):
So?

Speaker 5 (08:10):
Wait, wait, what was that?

Speaker 2 (08:11):
That's Matt. Matt is actually on the other line listening
and wants to talk to you.

Speaker 5 (08:14):
Yeah. I thought it was just you guys.

Speaker 2 (08:19):
Matt's here too, Yeah, and I guess he has a question.

Speaker 3 (08:21):
Now. I wanted to ask, did you have a fun
time on our date?

Speaker 2 (08:27):
Otherwise valid, what's a question about you?

Speaker 5 (08:34):
But it was a question about us, So I'm gonna
say fifty to fifty. We I mean, we did have fun,
Like it was fun, pretending like we were on vacation
and coming up with all kinds of stories for the
people around us. But you know, it was a date
where I was trying to get to know you, and
I thought you would be trying to get to know me.
So anytime I felt like I brought up, you know,

(08:57):
bigger topics. You know, I thought it, you just kind
of always steered it back to you. So I'm looking, Yeah.

Speaker 3 (09:05):
They're there are a couple of I hope they don't
come across as just excuses here. First off, I kind
of had maybe a couple shots before the date to
call my nerves because I was definitely really getting looking
forward to getting to know you.

Speaker 5 (09:25):
Yeah, yeah, of course you did. And I feel like.

Speaker 3 (09:28):
I, honestly, I do genuinely feel like I I you know,
I feel like I did actually get to know you.
You know, like you're You're a great listener, and I
mean the work you do with animals is brilliant.

Speaker 5 (09:41):
What I don't work with animals, I'm really sure what
that is.

Speaker 3 (09:51):
I might have had way too much. I had two
shots that might have quadruple I genuinely though, I, I mean,
I really appreciated her energy, and I think that she
was She's just sunshine. She's just sunshine and human form.

(10:12):
And I understand that I have totally totally overly concerned
about my looks and everything, and that shouldn't be something
that I'm worrying about on first date with my business.
I kind of have to be on all times, and
I should have unwinded. That was one of the reasons
I had those shots as well. But humbly I would

(10:33):
love a second date.

Speaker 5 (10:34):
Can you could you just tell me what color my
eyes are?

Speaker 3 (10:39):
You're beautiful green eyes?

Speaker 5 (10:42):
Well they're blue?

Speaker 2 (10:45):
Bal would you like to go on a first date
with another shot?

Speaker 5 (10:55):
I know were we were? We was this? Did this happen?

Speaker 3 (10:59):
It sounds like we need another first date for sure.
I need to remember at this time.

Speaker 5 (11:06):
Well, if you can promise that, you know, maybe we
do an afternoon thing, maybe we have some coffee and
we if we talk about some things a little bit
bigger than internet presence, I think maybe I can.

Speaker 3 (11:20):
I can agree to that. Though you said a drive
a hard bargain, but those are agreeable terms. You're gonna go, Tria.
I am so sorry that. Clearly I was in a
different place in my mind and I was not listening
to a single or you said. And I really appreciate. Yeah,
you know what this this next one, I'm going to

(11:40):
listen to everything. I'm gonna let you do the talking.
Let's let's go with that.

Speaker 5 (11:46):
Well, I do I do like a person who can
own their mistakes and you know we're not always going
to be perfect every time. So yeah, cool.

Speaker 2 (11:55):
Well, congratulations Matt you got a date with Bria.

Speaker 5 (11:59):
Yeah, it's impressed that you guys are with the look.
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