November 7, 2023 • 13 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s War of The Roses / To Catch A Cheater
If you can't call a radio show to see if your significant other is cheating on you, who can you call!? In this segment, Jubal and the team do a sneaky prank on a significant other in an effort to trip them up. The person who set them up is ALWAYS listening on the other line. Drama, babe. Drama.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time take Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Only on the Table Show. Mollie is on the phone
today for it to Catch a Cheater. She's been with
her boyfriend Nick for a year and now she thinks
that something might be going on. So we'll see if
we can help her out. In just a minute when
we call him and try to catch him if he
is cheating. Hopefully he's not. But Mollie, tell us about
your situation. What's going on with Nick?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Yeah, hey, guys, So I have been dating Nix for
about a year now. He's a really great guy and
we met on the mast so I really love him,
but I'm having a bit of an issue. I think
something might be wrong.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
So we did kind of have a rough start.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
To be fair, Nick had a death in the family
and so the kind of honeymoon phase of an early
relationship kind of got put on hold because he has
had to go back across the country and he had
to settle everything that was needed from his family, and
when he got back, we did have a little bit
of a hard time getting back in this thing of things.
But you know, eventually things kind of started to work
(00:57):
out again, and he was working really hard to make
us work, and I wanted to do everything that I
could for him because I kind of felt like with
this loss, like his world was kind of crashing down
and he was having a really hard time with it.
And you know, things has sort of picked up and
gone down again, and things are going really good for
the last couple of months, but recently it feels like
he's kind of just pulling back like a lot. You know,
(01:20):
when we're together, it's like he's not talking really that much.
He's on his phone a lot. He disappears for hours
on end, and he says that he's going with friends
or saying nothing at all, and when I ask him
about it, he freaks out and he tells me that
he's just with his friends and I need to stop asking.
The other thing that's happened is we don't have sex anymore,
and I feel like he is hanging out with his
(01:41):
friends constantly, and a couple of girls that I know
he cooked up with.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
In the past.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
And I know I shouldn't have done in this, but
I have looked at his phone a couple of times
because I've been a little paranoid, and I do see
some messages.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
From those girls, okay, and the messages themselves.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
They don't seem like anything serious, are pretty innocuous. But
there's this one girl, Brittany, and she seems to constantly
want his attention. They're always testing, and it just makes
me feel a little weird. And I'm just getting tired
of him blowing me off and I think that he's
hooking up with this girl or one of his other friends,
and I'm just feeling like he's making me feel like
I'm crazy, and I just I need to know if
(02:19):
he's cheating or.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Not, because but the conversations seemed innocent that you saw
on his phone, They do.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Seem innocent, Yeah, you know, like they just seem like
friendly type conversations. But you know, still like it just
feels really weird to me.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
Yeah, I mean I think that would make anybody uncomfortable,
especially if you know that they have a history.
Speaker 6 (02:38):
I mean, before you brought up to as.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
Girls, I was like, I don't know, maybe it's like
he just needs to retreat and maybe still deal with
stuff from before. I mean, loss is something that's or
grief I guess is something that's ongoing, right.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Yeah, And I totally agree, And when he came back,
like I really wanted to give him time and space
and like be patient.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
But I don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
I'm just I have, like the Scott feeling that something's wrong,
that he's doing something, and I just feel like I
need to know.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Like now, and have you directly asked him about it?
Speaker 3 (03:09):
It's tough, like I a little bit, but I don't
want to.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
I don't want to accuse him of something.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
It's like I'm not right one percent sure, you know,
because like I don't want it to get really mad.
Speaker 6 (03:18):
You don't have to accuse, you could ask.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
That's true, That's true.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
You can tell a lot about an answer too, if
it's an honest question. You know, if somebody instantly gets
defensive like you're accusing them when you haven't accused them,
that's a lot of times a sign that there is
something going on.
Speaker 5 (03:33):
Well, he did tell her to stop asking questions about friends,
so I don't know if that's the same category. But
I feel like anybody would feel a little bit uneasy
about their person.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
He now somebody they used to hook up with.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Yeah, definitely, right, All right, Well, we'll see if we
can help you out. We'll play a song, come back
and then call him. You already told us what grocery
store he's a Rewards card member at, so will play
a song come back, and then call him and pretend
to be from the grocery store and say that every
single month, well Lucky Rewards card member whins free flowers
delivered from our floral department, we'll see if he sends
us see you or to somebody else.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Okay, okay, thank you, guys.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Plaus I'll come back and get your to Catch a
Cheater next, it's.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Time to Catch a Cheater only on the Table show.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
If you're just joining us for today's to Catch a Cheater.
Mollie is on the phone and she thinks that her
boyfriend of one year named Nick might be messing around
on her. We're about to call him and pretend to
be from the grocery store that he's a rewards card
member at, and say that every single month, we choose
one Lucky Rewards Card member who gets free flowers delivered
from our floral department, absolutely free, and we'll see if
he sends those to Molly or to somebody else. But
(04:37):
before we do that, Mollie, why don't you refresh everybody's
memory about why you think he might be cheating.
Speaker 4 (04:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (04:41):
Sure.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
So my boyfriend Nick has been a little secretive recently.
He's been doing a lot of time with friends. I
feel like he's kind of pulling away. Our physical relationship
is sort of deteriorated, and I just have this Scott
feeling that something's wrong. Has been talking to these girls,
but a couple of them I know he's hooked up
with in the past, and I just I just need
to know.
Speaker 6 (05:02):
Are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Yeah? I'm ready?
Speaker 7 (05:04):
All right?
Speaker 3 (05:15):
What?
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (05:17):
May I speak to Nick?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Uh?
Speaker 6 (05:21):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Nick?
Speaker 6 (05:21):
How are you please? Do not hang up? My name
is Chortl.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
I'm calling from and I'm calling to let you know
that as a Rewards card member with us, Congratulations, you're
this month's big winner.
Speaker 7 (05:32):
What do I guess?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Oh, maybe you're not aware. Every single month, one of
our Lucky Rewards Card members gets selected to get free
flowers delivered from our Florida department to anywhere in the
United States. You just won thirty six long stem red roses,
a box of candy and cards sent anywhere. Like I said, Oh, yes, congratulations.
It's just our a little way of saying thank you
for shopping.
Speaker 7 (05:54):
Oh wow.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Yeah, if you know the person you want to send
them to right now. I can take the information down
in a matter of minutes, or I can set up
time to call you back.
Speaker 7 (06:03):
I can just tell you the person I want to enter. Two,
I can give you all the information.
Speaker 6 (06:08):
Let's start with the first and the last name of
the lucky person.
Speaker 7 (06:13):
You're gonna send these two. Molly, it's a card.
Speaker 6 (06:18):
Do you want to put anything on a card there?
Speaker 7 (06:20):
Yeah? Can you? Can you write? I get you so.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Many of these, but I got some tree once this
time I got that's funny, And then also write date
night restaurant?
Speaker 7 (06:36):
Is your turn to choose?
Speaker 6 (06:39):
That's nice? That is sweet? Any great? That is so nice.
So this is obviously your girlfriend is a girlfriend.
Speaker 7 (06:47):
Wife, it's my girlfriend. Yeah.
Speaker 6 (06:51):
How you how long you've been together?
Speaker 4 (06:54):
We've been together for a little bit over a year.
Speaker 7 (06:58):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Yeah, Well I'll let you go in just a second. Yeah,
first I let you need I need to let you
know that Molly, your girlfriend is on the phone actually
and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 7 (07:08):
Hi, honey, Hi, Hi, what are you doing?
Speaker 5 (07:14):
This is the Jubile Show, Nick, It's a radio show. Hi, Nick,
the whole show's here, Anina, Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
This is a segment that we do call to Catch
a Cheater, where if you think your significant other might
be messing around, you see what they send flowers.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
So that's why Molly is here.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
Oh are you kidding me?
Speaker 7 (07:31):
Are you kidding me?
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Right now?
Speaker 6 (07:33):
Like we should be happy. Nobody cheating?
Speaker 1 (07:35):
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, this icy?
Speaker 7 (07:37):
Am I not setting any flowers?
Speaker 6 (07:39):
No? Sorry?
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Great, okay, great, thanks for wasting my time. So I
just want you guys to know, every single month, this
is something new with Mollie. Honey, I cannot believe you this.
This is crazy, guys. Just I don't know if she
told you, but she is constantly expecting we have cheating
and is trying to always find out. And it's been
(08:04):
like this for months now. She does both like this
all since the beginning of our relationship. It's like she's
paranoid and this point, she's been cheated on before, and
it's just paranoid.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
Now, yes, I have been cheated on before.
Speaker 7 (08:18):
Okay, yeah, I get that. I get that, and I'm
sorry about that.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
But even when I'm on the other side of the country,
when when my mom dies suddenly and I have to
deal with all that stuff, and I'm getting messages from
her all the time and calls from her all the time,
saying that I need to pay attention to her more,
that I need to do this or that more.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
And we go on.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Dates every two weeks. We we we we do dinner,
we do the whole thing, and we try to make
time for each other.
Speaker 7 (08:43):
I am dealing with a lot right now.
Speaker 4 (08:45):
I know you're dealing with a lot. I know, but.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Somehow I can't get a message from any of my friends,
some of would happened to be women without you thinking
I'm sleeping with them.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Okay, but if you're not cheating on me, then where
do you keep on going? You get so defensive when
I ask you where you're going? It's like, what else
am I supposed to think? Like seriously, Like you know that?
Like that makes me anxious? And I've been really sensitive
to the issues with your family, like I have been.
You know I have been. But what am I supposed
to think? If you go out and you're gone for
(09:15):
hours and I can't get a hold of you, Like,
what am I supposed to think?
Speaker 4 (09:18):
Seriously? Tell me what am I supposed to think?
Speaker 1 (09:21):
I think you try to be sensitive with issues in
my family, but I do think frankly, you still have
your own needs and feelings of insecurity that continue to
rear their actly head. Honestly, honey, I love you so much,
but this is crazy. And you know what, Yeah, I
do go out sometimes for a while. I am almost
always with my friends. I'm almost always at a bar
with my friends or going for a walk, and sometimes
(09:42):
I just turn my phone off and I just want
to go be alone because you know what, I'm depressed.
Speaker 4 (09:47):
I you know, when one of.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Your parents dies, you'll probably be a little depressed too.
Speaker 7 (09:51):
And it's nothing about you.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
I love you, but this is this is crazy.
Speaker 7 (09:58):
This is actually crazy. And listen, I am done being accused.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
You bought you you guys there, yes, here, I am
done being accused.
Speaker 7 (10:07):
And if you know, do you want to think about it?
Speaker 1 (10:10):
When I go out with my friends, it's usually a
response to the fact that I'm getting really angry and
just more getting uneasy and getting defreshed.
Speaker 7 (10:17):
You're getting into a bad place.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
I need to go out and be around people, other people,
not just you. And I love you, guys, I love Molly,
I love you.
Speaker 7 (10:26):
I need space.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
Sometimes I understand that you've been cheated on before. If
you're going to be in a relationship, though, you have
to choose to trust. Also, somebody else is not responsible
for your anxiety. I know that's probably hard to hear,
but it's on you to trust to manage your anxiety,
and your partners should try to do things to help you.
But nobody can one hundred percent do that for you.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
Right, But I've like, from my perspective, I feel like
he's not doing anything to help, like with that you
think that if you know that I'm feeling anxious about
those things, like you would keep your phone on.
Speaker 6 (10:57):
Okay, We're not getting angry at somebody.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
And I'm trying.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
I've tried so hard to like keep my anxieties at day,
like you know I have.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
But like what am I supposed to think?
Speaker 3 (11:05):
Like our physical relationship deteriorated?
Speaker 6 (11:08):
Nick? For her? Can you be more responsive when you're
out with your friends?
Speaker 7 (11:12):
Yeah, I can try to do that.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
I can. I can leave my phone on, I can
try to be a bit more responsive when I'm out,
And I think that, Yeah, she's right, I can be
a bit more you know, patient and understanding.
Speaker 7 (11:25):
I think that I was really.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Patient and really understanding, especially right in the beginning of
our relationship, because this has been from basically day one, guys, right,
and you know, my life has basically been turned upside
down right now because my mom died suddenly without any
morning and that has made my capacity be a lot lower.
So I mean, look, we were our first weekend. We
were walking down the street and a whomeless girl started
(11:48):
talking to me and ask me for money, and she
thought I was sporting with her because I talked to
her for like two minutes, so.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
Like I felt like you were like you were working
with her.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
Oh my god, guys, this is so much right, And
that's the kind of stuff, Molly, where you're in charge
of that. If you want to help your anxiety, so
you're not feeling that way, you need to look at
the situation and go No, a homeless person stopped him.
He talked to her for a second, because Nick is
a nice guy. Nick is not trying to sleep with
the homeless person.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
Yeah, and listen, listen.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
I'm I'm sorry, I really am, Like I know, I know.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
You want, I know, and I'm sorry for losing my
cool and I'm sorry for having less you know, less
patience recently because I think I've just been in a
heightened state. But you know, just the constant accusations, it's
just it pushes me further away, and it makes me
feel the urge to go out and then be away
from home more, you know, to go to go out
(12:42):
on a on a weeknight or a Saturday night or whenever,
you know, instead of wanting to look forward to come
home from work and spend time with you. You know, So
that's that doesn't help. And listen, I'm not angry at you.
Speaker 7 (12:57):
I'm just frustrated with the situation. So I know you're apologizing.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
And I understand that, and I love you and I
don't want to leave you.
Speaker 7 (13:06):
But when I get home, we need.
Speaker 4 (13:08):
I don't want you to leave me. I really don't, honey.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
I don't want to leave you either, and I don't
I don't have any desire to really, but we just
need to have a very noble conversation.
Speaker 6 (13:20):
Cool. Well, I mean I think it's good. It's you're
opening up communication.
Speaker 7 (13:24):
Yeah, well, good luck.
Speaker 6 (13:27):
Nick By the Jewell Shows to Catch a Cheater
It's time take Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Only on the Table Show. Mollie is on the phone
today for it to Catch a Cheater. She's been with
her boyfriend Nick for a year and now she thinks
that something might be going on. So we'll see if
we can help her out. In just a minute when
we call him and try to catch him if he
is cheating. Hopefully he's not. But Mollie, tell us about
your situation. What's going on with Nick?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Yeah, hey, guys, So I have been dating Nix for
about a year now. He's a really great guy and
we met on the mast so I really love him,
but I'm having a bit of an issue. I think
something might be wrong.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
So we did kind of have a rough start.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
To be fair, Nick had a death in the family
and so the kind of honeymoon phase of an early
relationship kind of got put on hold because he has
had to go back across the country and he had
to settle everything that was needed from his family, and
when he got back, we did have a little bit
of a hard time getting back in this thing of things.
But you know, eventually things kind of started to work
(00:57):
out again, and he was working really hard to make
us work, and I wanted to do everything that I
could for him because I kind of felt like with
this loss, like his world was kind of crashing down
and he was having a really hard time with it.
And you know, things has sort of picked up and
gone down again, and things are going really good for
the last couple of months, but recently it feels like
he's kind of just pulling back like a lot. You know,
(01:20):
when we're together, it's like he's not talking really that much.
He's on his phone a lot. He disappears for hours
on end, and he says that he's going with friends
or saying nothing at all, and when I ask him
about it, he freaks out and he tells me that
he's just with his friends and I need to stop asking.
The other thing that's happened is we don't have sex anymore,
and I feel like he is hanging out with his
(01:41):
friends constantly, and a couple of girls that I know
he cooked up with.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
In the past.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
And I know I shouldn't have done in this, but
I have looked at his phone a couple of times
because I've been a little paranoid, and I do see
some messages.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
From those girls, okay, and the messages themselves.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
They don't seem like anything serious, are pretty innocuous. But
there's this one girl, Brittany, and she seems to constantly
want his attention. They're always testing, and it just makes
me feel a little weird. And I'm just getting tired
of him blowing me off and I think that he's
hooking up with this girl or one of his other friends,
and I'm just feeling like he's making me feel like
I'm crazy, and I just I need to know if
(02:19):
he's cheating or.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Not, because but the conversations seemed innocent that you saw
on his phone, They do.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Seem innocent, Yeah, you know, like they just seem like
friendly type conversations. But you know, still like it just
feels really weird to me.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
Yeah, I mean I think that would make anybody uncomfortable,
especially if you know that they have a history.
Speaker 6 (02:38):
I mean, before you brought up to as.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
Girls, I was like, I don't know, maybe it's like
he just needs to retreat and maybe still deal with
stuff from before. I mean, loss is something that's or
grief I guess is something that's ongoing, right.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Yeah, And I totally agree, And when he came back,
like I really wanted to give him time and space
and like be patient.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
But I don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
I'm just I have, like the Scott feeling that something's wrong,
that he's doing something, and I just feel like I
need to know.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Like now, and have you directly asked him about it?
Speaker 3 (03:09):
It's tough, like I a little bit, but I don't
want to.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
I don't want to accuse him of something.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
It's like I'm not right one percent sure, you know,
because like I don't want it to get really mad.
Speaker 6 (03:18):
You don't have to accuse, you could ask.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
That's true, That's true.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
You can tell a lot about an answer too, if
it's an honest question. You know, if somebody instantly gets
defensive like you're accusing them when you haven't accused them,
that's a lot of times a sign that there is
something going on.
Speaker 5 (03:33):
Well, he did tell her to stop asking questions about friends,
so I don't know if that's the same category. But
I feel like anybody would feel a little bit uneasy
about their person.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
He now somebody they used to hook up with.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Yeah, definitely, right, All right, Well, we'll see if we
can help you out. We'll play a song, come back
and then call him. You already told us what grocery
store he's a Rewards card member at, so will play
a song come back, and then call him and pretend
to be from the grocery store and say that every
single month, well Lucky Rewards card member whins free flowers
delivered from our floral department, we'll see if he sends
us see you or to somebody else.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Okay, okay, thank you, guys.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Plaus I'll come back and get your to Catch a
Cheater next, it's.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Time to Catch a Cheater only on the Table show.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
If you're just joining us for today's to Catch a Cheater.
Mollie is on the phone and she thinks that her
boyfriend of one year named Nick might be messing around
on her. We're about to call him and pretend to
be from the grocery store that he's a rewards card
member at, and say that every single month, we choose
one Lucky Rewards Card member who gets free flowers delivered
from our floral department, absolutely free, and we'll see if
he sends those to Molly or to somebody else. But
(04:37):
before we do that, Mollie, why don't you refresh everybody's
memory about why you think he might be cheating.
Speaker 4 (04:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (04:41):
Sure.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
So my boyfriend Nick has been a little secretive recently.
He's been doing a lot of time with friends. I
feel like he's kind of pulling away. Our physical relationship
is sort of deteriorated, and I just have this Scott
feeling that something's wrong. Has been talking to these girls,
but a couple of them I know he's hooked up
with in the past, and I just I just need
to know.
Speaker 6 (05:02):
Are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Yeah? I'm ready?
Speaker 7 (05:04):
All right?
Speaker 3 (05:15):
What?
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (05:17):
May I speak to Nick?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Uh?
Speaker 6 (05:21):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Nick?
Speaker 6 (05:21):
How are you please? Do not hang up? My name
is Chortl.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
I'm calling from and I'm calling to let you know
that as a Rewards card member with us, Congratulations, you're
this month's big winner.
Speaker 7 (05:32):
What do I guess?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Oh, maybe you're not aware. Every single month, one of
our Lucky Rewards Card members gets selected to get free
flowers delivered from our Florida department to anywhere in the
United States. You just won thirty six long stem red roses,
a box of candy and cards sent anywhere. Like I said, Oh, yes, congratulations.
It's just our a little way of saying thank you
for shopping.
Speaker 7 (05:54):
Oh wow.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Yeah, if you know the person you want to send
them to right now. I can take the information down
in a matter of minutes, or I can set up
time to call you back.
Speaker 7 (06:03):
I can just tell you the person I want to enter. Two,
I can give you all the information.
Speaker 6 (06:08):
Let's start with the first and the last name of
the lucky person.
Speaker 7 (06:13):
You're gonna send these two. Molly, it's a card.
Speaker 6 (06:18):
Do you want to put anything on a card there?
Speaker 7 (06:20):
Yeah? Can you? Can you write? I get you so.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Many of these, but I got some tree once this
time I got that's funny, And then also write date
night restaurant?
Speaker 7 (06:36):
Is your turn to choose?
Speaker 6 (06:39):
That's nice? That is sweet? Any great? That is so nice.
So this is obviously your girlfriend is a girlfriend.
Speaker 7 (06:47):
Wife, it's my girlfriend. Yeah.
Speaker 6 (06:51):
How you how long you've been together?
Speaker 4 (06:54):
We've been together for a little bit over a year.
Speaker 7 (06:58):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Yeah, Well I'll let you go in just a second. Yeah,
first I let you need I need to let you
know that Molly, your girlfriend is on the phone actually
and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 7 (07:08):
Hi, honey, Hi, Hi, what are you doing?
Speaker 5 (07:14):
This is the Jubile Show, Nick, It's a radio show. Hi, Nick,
the whole show's here, Anina, Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
This is a segment that we do call to Catch
a Cheater, where if you think your significant other might
be messing around, you see what they send flowers.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
So that's why Molly is here.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
Oh are you kidding me?
Speaker 7 (07:31):
Are you kidding me?
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Right now?
Speaker 6 (07:33):
Like we should be happy. Nobody cheating?
Speaker 1 (07:35):
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, this icy?
Speaker 7 (07:37):
Am I not setting any flowers?
Speaker 6 (07:39):
No? Sorry?
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Great, okay, great, thanks for wasting my time. So I
just want you guys to know, every single month, this
is something new with Mollie. Honey, I cannot believe you this.
This is crazy, guys. Just I don't know if she
told you, but she is constantly expecting we have cheating
and is trying to always find out. And it's been
(08:04):
like this for months now. She does both like this
all since the beginning of our relationship. It's like she's
paranoid and this point, she's been cheated on before, and
it's just paranoid.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
Now, yes, I have been cheated on before.
Speaker 7 (08:18):
Okay, yeah, I get that. I get that, and I'm
sorry about that.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
But even when I'm on the other side of the country,
when when my mom dies suddenly and I have to
deal with all that stuff, and I'm getting messages from
her all the time and calls from her all the time,
saying that I need to pay attention to her more,
that I need to do this or that more.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
And we go on.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Dates every two weeks. We we we we do dinner,
we do the whole thing, and we try to make
time for each other.
Speaker 7 (08:43):
I am dealing with a lot right now.
Speaker 4 (08:45):
I know you're dealing with a lot. I know, but.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Somehow I can't get a message from any of my friends,
some of would happened to be women without you thinking
I'm sleeping with them.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Okay, but if you're not cheating on me, then where
do you keep on going? You get so defensive when
I ask you where you're going? It's like, what else
am I supposed to think? Like seriously, Like you know that?
Like that makes me anxious? And I've been really sensitive
to the issues with your family, like I have been.
You know I have been. But what am I supposed
to think? If you go out and you're gone for
(09:15):
hours and I can't get a hold of you, Like,
what am I supposed to think?
Speaker 4 (09:18):
Seriously? Tell me what am I supposed to think?
Speaker 1 (09:21):
I think you try to be sensitive with issues in
my family, but I do think frankly, you still have
your own needs and feelings of insecurity that continue to
rear their actly head. Honestly, honey, I love you so much,
but this is crazy. And you know what, Yeah, I
do go out sometimes for a while. I am almost
always with my friends. I'm almost always at a bar
with my friends or going for a walk, and sometimes
(09:42):
I just turn my phone off and I just want
to go be alone because you know what, I'm depressed.
Speaker 4 (09:47):
I you know, when one of.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Your parents dies, you'll probably be a little depressed too.
Speaker 7 (09:51):
And it's nothing about you.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
I love you, but this is this is crazy.
Speaker 7 (09:58):
This is actually crazy. And listen, I am done being accused.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
You bought you you guys there, yes, here, I am
done being accused.
Speaker 7 (10:07):
And if you know, do you want to think about it?
Speaker 1 (10:10):
When I go out with my friends, it's usually a
response to the fact that I'm getting really angry and
just more getting uneasy and getting defreshed.
Speaker 7 (10:17):
You're getting into a bad place.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
I need to go out and be around people, other people,
not just you. And I love you, guys, I love Molly,
I love you.
Speaker 7 (10:26):
I need space.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
Sometimes I understand that you've been cheated on before. If
you're going to be in a relationship, though, you have
to choose to trust. Also, somebody else is not responsible
for your anxiety. I know that's probably hard to hear,
but it's on you to trust to manage your anxiety,
and your partners should try to do things to help you.
But nobody can one hundred percent do that for you.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
Right, But I've like, from my perspective, I feel like
he's not doing anything to help, like with that you
think that if you know that I'm feeling anxious about
those things, like you would keep your phone on.
Speaker 6 (10:57):
Okay, We're not getting angry at somebody.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
And I'm trying.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
I've tried so hard to like keep my anxieties at day,
like you know I have.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
But like what am I supposed to think?
Speaker 3 (11:05):
Like our physical relationship deteriorated?
Speaker 6 (11:08):
Nick? For her? Can you be more responsive when you're
out with your friends?
Speaker 7 (11:12):
Yeah, I can try to do that.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
I can. I can leave my phone on, I can
try to be a bit more responsive when I'm out,
And I think that, Yeah, she's right, I can be
a bit more you know, patient and understanding.
Speaker 7 (11:25):
I think that I was really.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Patient and really understanding, especially right in the beginning of
our relationship, because this has been from basically day one, guys, right,
and you know, my life has basically been turned upside
down right now because my mom died suddenly without any
morning and that has made my capacity be a lot lower.
So I mean, look, we were our first weekend. We
were walking down the street and a whomeless girl started
(11:48):
talking to me and ask me for money, and she
thought I was sporting with her because I talked to
her for like two minutes, so.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
Like I felt like you were like you were working
with her.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
Oh my god, guys, this is so much right, And
that's the kind of stuff, Molly, where you're in charge
of that. If you want to help your anxiety, so
you're not feeling that way, you need to look at
the situation and go No, a homeless person stopped him.
He talked to her for a second, because Nick is
a nice guy. Nick is not trying to sleep with
the homeless person.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
Yeah, and listen, listen.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
I'm I'm sorry, I really am, Like I know, I know.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
You want, I know, and I'm sorry for losing my
cool and I'm sorry for having less you know, less
patience recently because I think I've just been in a
heightened state. But you know, just the constant accusations, it's
just it pushes me further away, and it makes me
feel the urge to go out and then be away
from home more, you know, to go to go out
(12:42):
on a on a weeknight or a Saturday night or whenever,
you know, instead of wanting to look forward to come
home from work and spend time with you. You know, So
that's that doesn't help. And listen, I'm not angry at you.
Speaker 7 (12:57):
I'm just frustrated with the situation. So I know you're apologizing.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
And I understand that, and I love you and I
don't want to leave you.
Speaker 7 (13:06):
But when I get home, we need.
Speaker 4 (13:08):
I don't want you to leave me. I really don't, honey.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
I don't want to leave you either, and I don't
I don't have any desire to really, but we just
need to have a very noble conversation.
Speaker 6 (13:20):
Cool. Well, I mean I think it's good. It's you're
opening up communication.
Speaker 7 (13:24):
Yeah, well, good luck.
Speaker 6 (13:27):
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