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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Only on the Jubil Show.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
Paul is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
He's been with his girlfriend Leslie for three years, but
now he thinks something's going on. So we're going to
see if we can help him out and try to
catch her in a second if she is. Hopefully she isn't.
But Paul tell us what's going on?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Man.
Speaker 4 (00:19):
Yeah, I've been with my girlfriend Leslie now for three years,
and overall things have been great.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
It's been nice three years.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Leslie actually moved up here from a small town, you know,
one of those really small towns out.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
In the middle of nowhere.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Scary to me.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
But yes, yeah, you know, to be honest, it's the
same for me.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
It's a little odd going back because we visit often
to her family, and every time we go back there,
I just feel like it's going to another country.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Or another planet or something.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
That's kind of nice. You really get to escape.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Yeah, and it's not really a big deal to visit often.
I know, like I said, it's like another planet there.
But you know, my relationship with my family's a.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
You know, at best strain. So you know, I've never
had a problem going back with her as frequently as
we do.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
But unfortunately this year, I'm not able to go back
and visit with her on her mom's birthday. Okay, yeah,
I'm really swamped at work, and you know, it wasn't
really a huge deal. But that's kind of where in
regards to this trip and me not going with her.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Is kind of where suspicions started creeping in.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Okay, was she upset that you couldn't go with her?
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Well, see that that's the thing.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
It actually didn't seem like she was upset that I
wasn't going with her. And you know, recently, you know,
I feel like she's been kind of pushing me away.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
You know, I feel like, you know, she's.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
Been getting you know, a little bit more distant from me.
We've been getting into more arguments. And you know, one
thing I've noticed, and and the thing that I'm worried.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
About is this guy Joel, who well Joel is her.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
It's her ex from you know, like her kind of
high school sweetheart, kind of guy you know, still lives
in that small town where she came from. And I've
noticed that her and Joel have been texting a lot more,
you know, recently.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
They've always been texting, you said, a lot more so
they've always been a yeah.
Speaker 5 (02:32):
They you know, you know, to be honest, I'm not
one of those guys that's like has a huge issue
with somebody having a friendship with an ex or you know,
having that relationship ongoing.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
I met Joel, you know, when we've gone to to
you know, the visit. You know, I've met the guy.
You know, he seems like a.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
Decent person and and everything. But honestly, it has always
just kind of been or at least in my perception,
like sporadic communication. And you know, now it seems like it's.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Getting to be a lot more frequent.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Like I noticed that, you know, you know, I'll notice
her phone will light up, you know, a lot, and I'll.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
See you know, his name, you know, pop up, you know,
like it does on the phone.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
And I noticed it's more and more, and you know,
I even asked her about it, and you know, she's
gotten a little bit defensive like about me like checking
on her or why am I looking at her.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Phone and and that kind of stuff.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Okay, Honestly, like to put two and two together, I
noticed that it's really been since I told her that
I wasn't going that I wasn't gonna be able to
make it to the trip. And I told her mom,
I wasn't going to be able to make it, that
you know, the communication frequency you know, stepped up and
they started talking more, and like I said, I didn't
really feel like she.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Was particularly upset that I wasn't going to be able
to make it and I and I did.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
I asked her about it, and, like I said, she
got defensive, and she also said, you know, oh, no,
you know, just we were playing on meeting up with
mutual friends or we're just making you know, some friends
plans and old friends and getting together while I'm in
town or while she's in town. Rather and I don't
recall any friend group or mutual friend. I've never hung
(04:10):
out with her and her mutual friends in her small town.
So you know, honestly, I really don't know what's going on.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
In So you think maybe it's like she's planning something
with him for when she's there, but you're not there exactly.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
Yeah, So I thought maybe you guys could call her
from you know, just say you're our credit card company
and say she won a free travel ticket and a
free companion and just ask her who she would pick
to be that companion.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Okay, yeah, it's a good idea.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
All right, we'll play a song come back, and then
call her and hopefully she gives us your name and
not somebody else's. But we'll play a song come back
and get your to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Next.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater, if
you're just joining us, Paul is on the phone and
he thinks that his girlfriend of three years named Leslie
might be cheating. So in a second, we're about to
call her and see if we can catch her. But first, Paul,
why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your situation.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
We've been together three years.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
I'm worried she's getting back with or in a relationship
with her ex boyfriend from high school. And I was
hoping you guys could just pretend to be the credit
card company and say she want a free flight and see.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
Who she picked.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Okay, And she's going back home to visit her mom
and I'm not going, and I'm worried that she's been
really texting this guy and planning on seeing him when
I'm not there.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Okay, are you ready for us? To call her. Yeah,
all right, man, here we go.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Hello.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Hi, this is Grbal calling for I was looking for
our card holder, Leslie.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
This is she is everything.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Okay, I'm actually calling you some good news.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Congratulations for being a card holder with us and racking
up so many points and miles in travel. You've won
a voucher for six hundred dollars in free travel for
yourself and a companion.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Oh my god, wow, this is so cool.
Speaker 6 (06:07):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
So what do I do?
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Well, It's simple.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Your voucher will go automatically into your account online. So
the only thing that I would need would be the
name of the companion that you would take with you. Now,
I can give you some time to obviously think about that,
but unfortunately they ask that we give them that information
ahead of time.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
You know. Oh okay, that's fine, Okay, great, Just the
first and last name would be awesome.
Speaker 6 (06:37):
Yeah, can you make it to Joel?
Speaker 3 (06:42):
Yes, I can get that notated on there. Would you
like to send an email to this person so that
you can also give them the good news with like
a little bit of an E card type situation?
Speaker 7 (06:55):
Yeah, maybe just say that things keep getting better and
after this trip we can go back and have the talk.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
I'll just read it back to you. Okay.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
It says your boyfriend of three years, Paul is on
the phone right now listening to this and probably wants
to know why you got the companion ticket for Joel
and are sending Jill that message?
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Wait? What did I get that? Right?
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Yes? PAULA, Paul?
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Yeah, what's going on? Leslie? This is the Jewbill Show.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
It's a radio show, and we do a segment where
we catch people cheating, and Paul thought you might be
able to do something right.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
But yeah, it seems I'm right. Oh my god.
Speaker 6 (07:41):
Wow. Okay, well I was definitely not prepared to have
this conversation at this moment, but I guess this is
where we're at.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Hi, Paul, Hi, Yeah, you playing? What's going on?
Speaker 6 (07:56):
Yeah, it's true. I've been talking to my ex Joel.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
You know you know Joel.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
Yeah, well I know that part. I know you've been talking.
I've talked to you about how you've been talking. But
what's going on?
Speaker 8 (08:11):
Okay?
Speaker 7 (08:12):
So we've been talking, you know, about our past and
the relationship and how it's never really had any real
finality or ending, and you know, and then the conversation
just kind of went into how there's still some feelings
there that we have even though you know we've broke
off obviously, and that you know, what we've been wanting
(08:36):
in our life is really the same thing, which is
to be in that town, in our town together and
and have the same feature there. And I feel like
an absolutely horrible person right now, but I'm I mean, Paul,
I'm in love with with Joel, and I've fallen back
in love with him this past month, and I really
(08:59):
think we we want to try and make it work
this time. And so I guess my thought process was
I wanted to get that ticket to Joe so that
he could come here to us and we could all
talk about it, and you know, he could help me
move my things back home.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Are you serious? I honestly, I can't believe it.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
You think you were ready to fly him with a
free companion ticket to our house so that I would
sit down with him and what shake his hand?
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Wish you well?
Speaker 4 (09:37):
I mean I can't, and you know, honestly, you know
I love you, and you know we've been together three years.
But it's really the sneaking around that bothers me the most.
That I got to like do the whole setup to
catch you. Like I confronted you about you texting him
and you talking to him, and obviously I knew something
was up, and you could sense something was up, and
we've been kind of, you know, at odds.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
And the tension has been Why couldn't you just talk
to me? Why does it have to come out of
like this? This is ridiculous?
Speaker 4 (10:04):
And also, you know, thank you for doing this around
your mom's birthday for real, honestly, like this is.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
A like, this is a devastating thing. And you know
I love your mom to death. Okay, you know she
likes me, or at least you've.
Speaker 4 (10:16):
Told me she likes me, you know, And and you
want to put this around your mom's birthday and and
and more so, instead of this being a very serious
conversation about us breaking up or you moving up, you're
like capitalizing on the fact that I couldn't make it
to this trip. You're like seeing as like a blessing.
And I could tell, I could tell you didn't want
me there, you know. So you know, you know I
(10:36):
love you, but like.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
You, I hear what you're saying that I probably deserve that.
Speaker 8 (10:46):
I definitely mean Honestly, you deserve more than that, you know,
and you know you can text me, you could, you can,
you can reach out. You're obviously you would get yourself
when I don't want to see you, I don't want
to see him. It's not going to be the sit down,
nice hug, shake hand thing.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
You know.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
Honestly, I really hope you're happy because you're taking it
off from me.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Okay, well we'll.
Speaker 7 (11:06):
Talk about it, and I again, I'm sorry that it
had to come off this way.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
But nope, nothing to talk about. It is done.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
Okay, all right, well Paul, I'm sorry, man, so sorry.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
You know, well, you know what, y'all don't need to apologize.
You're the only one that needs to apologize. Thank you,
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (11:25):
Like I said earlier, you know, I was going to
be embarrassed either way, but thank you for saving me
a trip to go over there and embarrass myself.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Obviously, I'm pissed off.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
This is ridiculous, but you know what, at least it's
better than me flying over there being around her family
to be the guy.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
The other man.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Don't be embarrassed, man, this sucks.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Yeah, Well, whenever this happens, we always tell somebody. There
is someone out there for you, So don't give up,
Pope man.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
Yeah, honestly, I'm not even thinking about that, right, I'm
just I'm just pissed.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
This is this hurts this honestly, it hurts. This hurts
The jewel
Speaker 3 (11:58):
Shows it to catch a cheater.