March 18, 2024 • 12 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s War of The Roses / To Catch A Cheater
If you can't call a radio show to see if your significant other is cheating on you, who can you call!? In this segment, Jubal and the team do a sneaky prank on a significant other in an effort to trip them up. The person who set them up is ALWAYS listening on the other line. Drama, babe. Drama.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Table show.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Roy is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
He thinks that his girlfriend of three and a half
years might be messing around. Her name is Melissa. What's up? Roy?
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Hey, how you guys doing?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Not too bad?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Man?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
How are you well?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
You know, I mean, kind of regrettable situation to be honest.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Yeah, I always hate when I ask that question on
this segment because obviously you're not doing the best to
think that your partner might be cheating on you, And
I'm assuming this is kind of a last resort for you.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Yeah, I mean, I don't know what else to do.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
She just won't open up to me, Okay, so tell
us what's going on.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
So lately she's been just on the phone, texting all
the time, and like, I don't know, she's just not
really paying much attention to seeing the loop. When I
ask her about it, she's kind of like, oh, you know,
don't worry about it. Kind of situation, you know, And
I just feel like I'm being less in the cold,
and I don't really know what's going on.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
Does she normally communicate with you pretty thoroughly? Like is
this a different way for her to communicate with you altogether.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Yeah, it feels weird. She seems very frustrated with me,
and I don't get why. The only reason I'm even
bringing it up is because, you know, we had a
situation in the past where she did cheat on me,
and this is making me suspicious.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
When was that? Was it recent or.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
It was like six months ago?
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Obviously you decided to forgive her for that and try
to move forward.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Yeah, and like we've been good, but the last few
weeks it's been just like weird. I don't know, I
feel like she's changing or something. It's really bothering me.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
What did it feel like when she cheated on you
six months ago? Does it feel like this?
Speaker 3 (01:41):
No, not exactly, because she was still talking to me.
So that was kind of a shock when when I
found out.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
You know, Hm, have you let her know that you're
suspicious that she's messing around? Like or have you asked questions?
Speaker 5 (01:52):
It?
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Not directly, but I've like asked her like what's going on?
Like why are you so cold? Like, you know, I
didn't want to be like two forward about the cheating thing,
you know, because it's like then then she might pull
back more so.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
When you found out she was cheating on you the
first time? Did she admit to that or did you
catch her?
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Well? I caught her, but then she admitted it. It
was like some evidence. And then I like confronted her
and then she had ended up admitting it and it
wasn't like evidence. But once I kind of found the evidence,
I was like, is this what does this mean? And
then she told me the truth and so we had
a conversation and I decided to forget her and we
moved on.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Okay, it is shady, you know, she's acting different, and
then the fact that that happened six months ago, and
you would think if it was that recent, she would
be going out of her way to make sure that
you knew she wasn't messing around, you know.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
Yeah, because I'd be on edge too, Roy, let's be honest.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
Yeah, And she's been late coming home and she's not
telling me.
Speaker 5 (02:49):
Why did you know the guy she originally cheated on with? Like, no,
have you met all her coworkers and like people who
she like works with?
Speaker 2 (02:58):
You trust people she works with?
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Only know a couple of them that she's kind of
like more friends with. I don't know all of them,
and those are all Those are like two females that
she was kind of close with.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
So when this happened before, did she give you details
about how she met that person?
Speaker 3 (03:13):
A little bit? It was more like I was more
focused on the betrayal than I was on like the details.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Of how Yeah, I guess it makes sense for sure.
The reason I was asking is I was wondering if
they were also a coworker.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
Yeah, so it wasn't a coworker we did. We definitely
confirm that.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Okay, all right, cool, Well, we'll see if we can
figure it out for you. You told us what grocery
store she shops at and is a rewards card member at,
So we'll call her, pretend to be from there, and say,
every single month, we choose one rewards card member at
random who gets free flowers delivered from our brand new
and improof fol department, and we'll see if she sends
those to you or to somebody else.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Okay, Okay, sounds good.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
All right, man, plays, I'll come back and get here
to catch cheeter. Next, if you're just joining us for today,
is to catch a cheeter. Roy is on the phone,
and Roy thinks that his girlfriend of three and a
half years. Melissa might be cheating on him. She actually
has cheated on him before. Six months ago he caught her,
and now he thinks it might be happening again. So
we're about to help him out. Real quick, Roy, refresh
(04:10):
everybody's memory. What's going on?
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Well, good, keep it quick. She's just been acting cold.
She's been texting a lot, looking at her phone a lot.
We haven't really been engaging like we used to. And
then she's coming home from work weight and she gets
frustrated whenever I mention it.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
All right, We're about to call her and pretend to
be from the grocery store that she's a rewards card
member at and tell her that every single month we
choose one rewards card member at random he gets free
flowers delivered from our beautiful, new and improved flowl department.
It's so nice. Yeah, we'll see if she believes that,
and if she sends the flowers to you or to
somebody else. Okay, you ready?
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
All right? Cool? Medela the phone of her right now. Hello, Hi,
this is Gorble calling from Is this Melissa? This is
she Melissa? Hi, You're a rewards card member with us
(05:05):
and I just wanted to say congratulations here this month's winner.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
I'm sorry, I haven't heard of this before. What's going on?
Speaker 2 (05:13):
Oh the flowers? You're this month's winner.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
I won flowers.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Well, we recently reimagined our floral department, and to celebrate that,
we choose one Rewards Card member at random each month
who gets free flowers delivered from our brand new floral department.
We do delivery.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Now.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
We're trying to get the word out and also say
thank you for shopping totally free, totally free thirty six
long stem red roses, a card, and a box of chocolates.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
That is so sweet.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
That is awesome For the flower delivery, If you know
who you want to send them to right now, I
can take the information in just a couple of minutes
on the phone.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Uh yeah, I can do that right now. Like, what
do you guys need?
Speaker 2 (05:55):
All I would need is the first and last name
of the person you want to send them to. If
you want to put a thing on a card, I
would need that and then the address.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Great, okay, so yeah, I guess let's send them to Roy.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Did you want to include a card?
Speaker 1 (06:14):
I guess you can write like hey, love Sorry, I've
been really stressed out. Thanks for being there.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Yeah, I got a question real quick, you know, if
you don't mind, how long you guys been together?
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Three and a half years?
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Three and a half years? Okay, So hey, real quick,
I just want to let you know that this is
actually the Jubile Show. It's a radio show. It's not
the grocery store at all. That's Nina, What Why? And
that's Victoria. There's three people on the phone right now.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
What's this about?
Speaker 2 (06:50):
We do a segment on our show called to Catch
a Cheater, and your boyfriend Roy is actually on the phone.
He's been listening the whole time, and it's weird. Yeah.
It's a segment where we try to see if somebody
is messing around their significant other.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Roy, are you there?
Speaker 5 (07:06):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Care to explain what the heck is going on here?
Speaker 3 (07:11):
I mean, I'm kind of relieved that you sent me
the roses, but I'm sorry I didn't trust you. Y, I'm.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Not cheating on you.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
I mean it was just hard to believe you've been
so cold and like stressed out and like you're just
acting weird with me lately.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
I don't know, like, when are you going to trust me?
Speaker 3 (07:30):
When the wounds are healed. I'm still hurting.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
That was six months ago. I cheated on you six
months ago, like that you forgave me. That's that. I
feel like it's time to move on.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
It would be easier if I knew why you were
texting and looking at your phone all the time and
not engaging with me. I just feel like you've been
distant and it's opening the wound up again.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Okay, you want to hear all of the boring work stuff,
that's fine. You know that. I want to keep work
as work and home as home. It's a stressful job.
I don't really want to talk about it, but I
guess I'm here on the radio freaking talking about it.
So I have a new coworker. They're my superior. They
are stressing me out because they're texting me constantly about
like everything, like they're new in town, what grocery store
(08:15):
to go to, what bar to go to?
Speaker 6 (08:17):
Everything that they could, Like I'm their personal assistant and
I just want to get home, turn on the TV,
like relax a little bit, and not think about it
for like a second.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
But then they just keep texting me. So I don't
want to talk about it. And that's literally all that
it is.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
Okay, Yeah, So what's this person that you're texting? The
name is this new coworker? You're like, you have right?
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Why care with their name? Why is that important?
Speaker 3 (08:40):
But we're in a relationship. I feel like, if you're
texting somebody all the time, I'd like to at least
know who they are.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
You got to trust me, Like, I don't need to
tell you this.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
This is making it harder.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Yeah, why wouldn't you just tell them the name of
your coworker?
Speaker 1 (08:57):
Fine, okay, Jason, that's his name.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Oh so it is a guy.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
I'm gonna have male coworkers.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
I mean, the fact that you're hiding it from me
is that makes it more suspicious.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
I think you both have points here.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
I think Melissa it's fair to be open and respond
to his questions. And then also, Roy, if you are
going to forgive her for cheating on you, you do
have to trust her.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Look, I'm choosing to trust you, but like I'm still
hurting and the fact that, like, you're texting somebody all
the time and it's a guy, even though he's your coworker,
and you wouldn't tell me anything about what was going
on that. It makes me suspicious, and I'm choosing to
lay that aside for the sake of our relationship. But like,
you gotta let me know what's going on when I.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Ask you, right I already said that I would. Can
we just like drop this?
Speaker 3 (09:49):
He's my coworker, See that that doesn't help. I feel
like your attitude right now is like super defensive, and
that makes it.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
I am not being defensive. I am not being defensive. Okay,
I told you what I told you, But I gotta go.
I gotta go back to work. Okay, I'll see you later.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Okay, let's throw it to a vote. Is something going
on Nina?
Speaker 4 (10:13):
I want to say no, but she's curious, Like I
think she's attracted to.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Jason, Okay, Victoria, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (10:20):
It's the defensiveness that's getting me. Like she's too defensive
to for nothing to be going on.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
In my opinion, Yeah, and the person whose opinion really matters, Roy,
what do you think I'm.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Having really mixed opinions because she sent me the roses
without hesitation. But like when I said you're being defensive,
she blew up.
Speaker 4 (10:37):
That's why she's not cheating on you right now? Roy,
but I think we have to watch the situation closely. Yeah, yeah,
I want you to think about it. She didn't sound
very reasonable and willing to see your side, and she
is the one that cheated.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Right, Yeah, I mean I've been faithful.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Okay, I think Roy. Ultimately, is she worth maybe getting
hurt again?
Speaker 5 (11:00):
Quiet?
Speaker 3 (11:00):
Right now I'm questioning. I wanted to say yes when
it was kind of like what the roses she gave
them to me? But now like her response was pretty unreasonable.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
It was if you continue the relationship with her, it
could happen again, right, maybe not? But like, if you
do choose to trust her, you gotta trust her, and
you do know you could open yourself up to her
doing it again. Are you willing to take that risk?
I guess is what you have to what I feel
like you have to the things you have to weigh.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Yeah, I'm still on the fence. I mean, I think
I'm going to try and give her a chance, and
if the behavior doesn't change, I'm just gonna call it quits.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
Okay, Well, let us know, keep us updated, man, Yeah,
good luck? Right, Yeah, we're playing for you.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
I appreciate your health.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Guys, Yeah, no problem and if you. If it ends
up not working out, don't worry. We can find you
another date from someone who texted the show. We've got
a lot of people texting and who want dates all
the time. Here to Victoria too. Yeah, hi.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
He has a girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
Okay, I'm done.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
Thank you, Victoria. I'll keep that in mind, all right.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
The Jubile shows to catch a cheater.
It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Table show.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Roy is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
He thinks that his girlfriend of three and a half
years might be messing around. Her name is Melissa. What's up? Roy?
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Hey, how you guys doing?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Not too bad?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Man?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
How are you well?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
You know, I mean, kind of regrettable situation to be honest.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Yeah, I always hate when I ask that question on
this segment because obviously you're not doing the best to
think that your partner might be cheating on you, And
I'm assuming this is kind of a last resort for you.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Yeah, I mean, I don't know what else to do.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
She just won't open up to me, Okay, so tell
us what's going on.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
So lately she's been just on the phone, texting all
the time, and like, I don't know, she's just not
really paying much attention to seeing the loop. When I
ask her about it, she's kind of like, oh, you know,
don't worry about it. Kind of situation, you know, And
I just feel like I'm being less in the cold,
and I don't really know what's going on.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
Does she normally communicate with you pretty thoroughly? Like is
this a different way for her to communicate with you altogether.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Yeah, it feels weird. She seems very frustrated with me,
and I don't get why. The only reason I'm even
bringing it up is because, you know, we had a
situation in the past where she did cheat on me,
and this is making me suspicious.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
When was that? Was it recent or.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
It was like six months ago?
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Obviously you decided to forgive her for that and try
to move forward.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Yeah, and like we've been good, but the last few
weeks it's been just like weird. I don't know, I
feel like she's changing or something. It's really bothering me.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
What did it feel like when she cheated on you
six months ago? Does it feel like this?
Speaker 3 (01:41):
No, not exactly, because she was still talking to me.
So that was kind of a shock when when I
found out.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
You know, Hm, have you let her know that you're
suspicious that she's messing around? Like or have you asked questions?
Speaker 5 (01:52):
It?
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Not directly, but I've like asked her like what's going on?
Like why are you so cold? Like, you know, I
didn't want to be like two forward about the cheating thing,
you know, because it's like then then she might pull
back more so.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
When you found out she was cheating on you the
first time? Did she admit to that or did you
catch her?
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Well? I caught her, but then she admitted it. It
was like some evidence. And then I like confronted her
and then she had ended up admitting it and it
wasn't like evidence. But once I kind of found the evidence,
I was like, is this what does this mean? And
then she told me the truth and so we had
a conversation and I decided to forget her and we
moved on.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Okay, it is shady, you know, she's acting different, and
then the fact that that happened six months ago, and
you would think if it was that recent, she would
be going out of her way to make sure that
you knew she wasn't messing around, you know.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
Yeah, because I'd be on edge too, Roy, let's be honest.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
Yeah, And she's been late coming home and she's not
telling me.
Speaker 5 (02:49):
Why did you know the guy she originally cheated on with? Like, no,
have you met all her coworkers and like people who
she like works with?
Speaker 2 (02:58):
You trust people she works with?
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Only know a couple of them that she's kind of
like more friends with. I don't know all of them,
and those are all Those are like two females that
she was kind of close with.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
So when this happened before, did she give you details
about how she met that person?
Speaker 3 (03:13):
A little bit? It was more like I was more
focused on the betrayal than I was on like the details.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Of how Yeah, I guess it makes sense for sure.
The reason I was asking is I was wondering if
they were also a coworker.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
Yeah, so it wasn't a coworker we did. We definitely
confirm that.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Okay, all right, cool, Well, we'll see if we can
figure it out for you. You told us what grocery
store she shops at and is a rewards card member at,
So we'll call her, pretend to be from there, and say,
every single month, we choose one rewards card member at
random who gets free flowers delivered from our brand new
and improof fol department, and we'll see if she sends
those to you or to somebody else.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Okay, Okay, sounds good.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
All right, man, plays, I'll come back and get here
to catch cheeter. Next, if you're just joining us for today,
is to catch a cheeter. Roy is on the phone,
and Roy thinks that his girlfriend of three and a
half years. Melissa might be cheating on him. She actually
has cheated on him before. Six months ago he caught her,
and now he thinks it might be happening again. So
we're about to help him out. Real quick, Roy, refresh
(04:10):
everybody's memory. What's going on?
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Well, good, keep it quick. She's just been acting cold.
She's been texting a lot, looking at her phone a lot.
We haven't really been engaging like we used to. And
then she's coming home from work weight and she gets
frustrated whenever I mention it.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
All right, We're about to call her and pretend to
be from the grocery store that she's a rewards card
member at and tell her that every single month we
choose one rewards card member at random he gets free
flowers delivered from our beautiful, new and improved flowl department.
It's so nice. Yeah, we'll see if she believes that,
and if she sends the flowers to you or to
somebody else. Okay, you ready?
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
All right? Cool? Medela the phone of her right now. Hello, Hi,
this is Gorble calling from Is this Melissa? This is
she Melissa? Hi, You're a rewards card member with us
(05:05):
and I just wanted to say congratulations here this month's winner.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
I'm sorry, I haven't heard of this before. What's going on?
Speaker 2 (05:13):
Oh the flowers? You're this month's winner.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
I won flowers.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Well, we recently reimagined our floral department, and to celebrate that,
we choose one Rewards Card member at random each month
who gets free flowers delivered from our brand new floral department.
We do delivery.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Now.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
We're trying to get the word out and also say
thank you for shopping totally free, totally free thirty six
long stem red roses, a card, and a box of chocolates.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
That is so sweet.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
That is awesome For the flower delivery, If you know
who you want to send them to right now, I
can take the information in just a couple of minutes
on the phone.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Uh yeah, I can do that right now. Like, what
do you guys need?
Speaker 2 (05:55):
All I would need is the first and last name
of the person you want to send them to. If
you want to put a thing on a card, I
would need that and then the address.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Great, okay, so yeah, I guess let's send them to Roy.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Did you want to include a card?
Speaker 1 (06:14):
I guess you can write like hey, love Sorry, I've
been really stressed out. Thanks for being there.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Yeah, I got a question real quick, you know, if
you don't mind, how long you guys been together?
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Three and a half years?
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Three and a half years? Okay, So hey, real quick,
I just want to let you know that this is
actually the Jubile Show. It's a radio show. It's not
the grocery store at all. That's Nina, What Why? And
that's Victoria. There's three people on the phone right now.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
What's this about?
Speaker 2 (06:50):
We do a segment on our show called to Catch
a Cheater, and your boyfriend Roy is actually on the phone.
He's been listening the whole time, and it's weird. Yeah.
It's a segment where we try to see if somebody
is messing around their significant other.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Roy, are you there?
Speaker 5 (07:06):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Care to explain what the heck is going on here?
Speaker 3 (07:11):
I mean, I'm kind of relieved that you sent me
the roses, but I'm sorry I didn't trust you. Y, I'm.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Not cheating on you.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
I mean it was just hard to believe you've been
so cold and like stressed out and like you're just
acting weird with me lately.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
I don't know, like, when are you going to trust me?
Speaker 3 (07:30):
When the wounds are healed. I'm still hurting.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
That was six months ago. I cheated on you six
months ago, like that you forgave me. That's that. I
feel like it's time to move on.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
It would be easier if I knew why you were
texting and looking at your phone all the time and
not engaging with me. I just feel like you've been
distant and it's opening the wound up again.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Okay, you want to hear all of the boring work stuff,
that's fine. You know that. I want to keep work
as work and home as home. It's a stressful job.
I don't really want to talk about it, but I
guess I'm here on the radio freaking talking about it.
So I have a new coworker. They're my superior. They
are stressing me out because they're texting me constantly about
like everything, like they're new in town, what grocery store
(08:15):
to go to, what bar to go to?
Speaker 6 (08:17):
Everything that they could, Like I'm their personal assistant and
I just want to get home, turn on the TV,
like relax a little bit, and not think about it
for like a second.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
But then they just keep texting me. So I don't
want to talk about it. And that's literally all that
it is.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
Okay, Yeah, So what's this person that you're texting? The
name is this new coworker? You're like, you have right?
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Why care with their name? Why is that important?
Speaker 3 (08:40):
But we're in a relationship. I feel like, if you're
texting somebody all the time, I'd like to at least
know who they are.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
You got to trust me, Like, I don't need to
tell you this.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
This is making it harder.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Yeah, why wouldn't you just tell them the name of
your coworker?
Speaker 1 (08:57):
Fine, okay, Jason, that's his name.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Oh so it is a guy.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
I'm gonna have male coworkers.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
I mean, the fact that you're hiding it from me
is that makes it more suspicious.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
I think you both have points here.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
I think Melissa it's fair to be open and respond
to his questions. And then also, Roy, if you are
going to forgive her for cheating on you, you do
have to trust her.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Look, I'm choosing to trust you, but like I'm still
hurting and the fact that, like, you're texting somebody all
the time and it's a guy, even though he's your coworker,
and you wouldn't tell me anything about what was going
on that. It makes me suspicious, and I'm choosing to
lay that aside for the sake of our relationship. But like,
you gotta let me know what's going on when I.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Ask you, right I already said that I would. Can
we just like drop this?
Speaker 3 (09:49):
He's my coworker, See that that doesn't help. I feel
like your attitude right now is like super defensive, and
that makes it.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
I am not being defensive. I am not being defensive. Okay,
I told you what I told you, But I gotta go.
I gotta go back to work. Okay, I'll see you later.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Okay, let's throw it to a vote. Is something going
on Nina?
Speaker 4 (10:13):
I want to say no, but she's curious, Like I
think she's attracted to.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Jason, Okay, Victoria, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (10:20):
It's the defensiveness that's getting me. Like she's too defensive
to for nothing to be going on.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
In my opinion, Yeah, and the person whose opinion really matters, Roy,
what do you think I'm.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Having really mixed opinions because she sent me the roses
without hesitation. But like when I said you're being defensive,
she blew up.
Speaker 4 (10:37):
That's why she's not cheating on you right now? Roy,
but I think we have to watch the situation closely. Yeah, yeah,
I want you to think about it. She didn't sound
very reasonable and willing to see your side, and she
is the one that cheated.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Right, Yeah, I mean I've been faithful.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Okay, I think Roy. Ultimately, is she worth maybe getting
hurt again?
Speaker 5 (11:00):
Quiet?
Speaker 3 (11:00):
Right now I'm questioning. I wanted to say yes when
it was kind of like what the roses she gave
them to me? But now like her response was pretty unreasonable.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
It was if you continue the relationship with her, it
could happen again, right, maybe not? But like, if you
do choose to trust her, you gotta trust her, and
you do know you could open yourself up to her
doing it again. Are you willing to take that risk?
I guess is what you have to what I feel
like you have to the things you have to weigh.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Yeah, I'm still on the fence. I mean, I think
I'm going to try and give her a chance, and
if the behavior doesn't change, I'm just gonna call it quits.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
Okay, Well, let us know, keep us updated, man, Yeah,
good luck? Right, Yeah, we're playing for you.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
I appreciate your health.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Guys, Yeah, no problem and if you. If it ends
up not working out, don't worry. We can find you
another date from someone who texted the show. We've got
a lot of people texting and who want dates all
the time. Here to Victoria too. Yeah, hi.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
He has a girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
Okay, I'm done.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
Thank you, Victoria. I'll keep that in mind, all right.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
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