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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Yvonne is on the phone today for to Catch a
Cheater and she thinks that her boyfriend of six years
named Chuck might be cheating.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
So we'll see if we can help her out. Yvonne
tell us what's going on?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Hi, Yeah, So my boyfriend Chuck and I have been
together for six years. I'm actually the breadwinner between the
two of us, and I have a really nice job,
and Chucky, i'd say he has his art. Like he
has like an okay job.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
He's a bar manager, but he's always.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Like spending tons of his money and his time on
his painting and his art, which you know, when I
first started dating him, like I actually I thought that
was like really cute and very sweet and he's you know,
there's like.
Speaker 4 (00:48):
Some vulnerability in that.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
And now and like that's actually like how we used
to spend a lot of our time together and now
he's just off like painting in his office and he's
like always been artsy, but in the last month or so,
it's just become really intense.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Like when he's not doing something.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
In the bar and he's not with me, he's just
off in his little room, and when I walk by,
when he's like apparently working on a painting, he's actually
just sitting on his phone, like texting I don't even
know who. And so I know that he hangs around
like a lot of the waitresses at his bar, and
(01:28):
I don't know. I think he might be really tempted
by one of them. And I've confronted him a couple
of times about just being really shady around these girls,
and he keeps denying it, and he keeps telling me
that I have nothing to worry about, and I just, yeah,
I think he might be cheating on me.
Speaker 4 (01:42):
With one of the waitresses.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Like it just this past month specifically, he's really not
been spending time with me. He's been in his little office,
or he's been spending too much time at the bar.
And that's why I'm reaching out to you.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Now, Okay, have you talked to him about this?
Speaker 3 (01:59):
I have, And I mean, I'm pretty convinced that she's
cheating on me with one of the waitresses.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
And I had been like, hey, like you seem to
be really shady. You seem to be spending a.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Lot of time, like you seem to not be hanging
out with me. You seem to only be in your office,
like what is going on? And he keeps denying it.
So I have brought it up to him, and it's
certainly hasn't yielded any sort of result.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Has he ever lied to you before? Any of this
that you're aware of.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
Not that I'm aware of. I mean, again, we've been
together for six years, so I'm sure.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
There's you know, like little stuff here and there that
both of us probably you know, maybe don't share that.
I wouldn't say it's like explicitly a lie, but not
in this way, no, because I.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Just wonder if like your your gut is probably correct,
but what if it's just like, yeah, he likes the
attention from this person. I mean, I guess that could
still be a form of cheating.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
I mean, I think it depends on like how you
exactly like you know, for me, an emotional cheat.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
In some ways actually to potentially be worse than the
physical cheats.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Like you know, if you're spending time and energy with
other people who are who are not your girlfriend, it's
a big concerning you know, And if you're not able
to vocalize.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
Why you're doing that, then I.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Think I have a reason to be even more concerned,
Like you're not expressing to me, like what's not going well?
You're not sharing with me why you're interested in talking
to other people, Like, clearly something is broken that either
the communication's not working that you're going to do this,
or that you don't feel safe with me or comfortable
with me that you're not talking to me about this
and I'm your girlfriend of six years.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Other than that stuff, I mean that you know, it
sounds like there's may be something going on it. Have
you checked, like is he doing his art? I mean,
is he spending a lot of time on a project?
Speaker 3 (03:36):
I mean he's in his little office apparently doing art
as like I'm not an artist myself, so I don't
really know, like how quickly one is supposed to produce
a painting, you know what? I like, I don't know
the like how long it takes to creative painting. It's
like if he's like, I'm working on it, I'm gonna
I would like to trust that that's part of the
process and.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
Gobble around and missed your paint I don't. I mean,
I don't what do I know?
Speaker 1 (03:59):
You know, Okay, you already told us what grocery store.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
You guys are rewards card members at So we'll call
and pretend to be from the grocery store and say
that every single month, we choose one rewards card member
at random who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department,
and we'll see if he sends those to you or
to somebody else.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
Okay, yeah, Roses would be like perfect.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
He usually actually actually guessed me like a dozen every month,
so that actually kind of is our fame.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Yeah, okay, well that works perfect. Then if you definitely
if you sends them to someone else, that's weird. All right, Yeah,
well'll play a song. We'll come back and then call
him and get here.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
To Catch a Cheeter.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Right after this, right in the middle of To Catch
a Cheater, if you're just joining us, Yvonne is on
the phone and she thinks that her boyfriend of six
years named Chuck might be cheating on her. So in
a second, we're gonna call him and see if we
can catch him. But first, Yvonne, why don't you catch
everybody up in your situation?
Speaker 6 (04:44):
Yeah, I guess the long.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
And short of it is that we've been together for
six years. I'm the bread winner.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Chuck works at a bar. He's really into art, and
she has been the whole time he've been together, but
more recently this half month, specifically, she's anytime.
Speaker 6 (04:59):
He's not at the he's in his little office.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Doing his apparent painting and or like what I think
is like on his phone texting, and I'm just pretty
convinced that he is cheating on me with one of
the waitresses at the bar.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
All right, and we're about to call him from the
grocery store where he's a rewards card member at and
say that every single month we choose one rewards card
member at random, we gets three flowers delivered from our
floral department. Anyone, He said, he gets you flowers every
month anyway, right.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Yeah, he dies?
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Yeah, so sit really sweet?
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Hey it is if he sends them to somebody else,
then I mean that is definitely a red flat, red flat,
big one. All right, here we go. He Hi, this
is Jafar calling from I was looking for a rewards
(05:48):
member check.
Speaker 6 (05:51):
Yeah, that's me.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Hey, Chuck, please don't hang up. This is not a
marketing phone call. I'm calling to tell you congratulations. Here
this must big winner. Oh thanks for when the flowers.
Oh wow, cool, like a bouquet or something like that, Like, oh,
maybe you haven't seen the signs in the store that
every single month we choose one Rewards Card member to
get free flowers delivered from our flooria department. It's our
(06:14):
way of saying thank you very much for being such
a loyal customer. You'll get thirty six long stim red roses,
a box of chocolates, and a car delivered to anybody
that you'd like to deliver them to in the fifty
United States of the Americas. So congratulations, thank you very much.
Speaker 6 (06:27):
That's awesome.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Cool.
Speaker 6 (06:28):
Thanks.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
I can take the information down in a matter of
minutes if you know who you want to send it
to right now.
Speaker 6 (06:33):
Yeah, we can do it right now.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
First I would need to get the first and the
last name of the person you'd like to send them to.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Sure, So the first name is Yvonne.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
And do you want to put anything on a card there?
Speaker 6 (06:47):
Yeah, let's do. Okay, you get more roses this month
because you're extra special.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Okay, Well, I'll just let you know that she's on
the phone and this is actually the Jewbel Show.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
It's a radio show. My name is juwe Hi Amina Hi,
I'm Victoria, and Yvonne, your girlfriend is on the phone
by really. Yeah. We do a segment on the show.
It's called to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
It's where if you think your significant other might be
cheating on you, we try to catch you based on
things like who you send flowers to. So Yvonne has
been suspicious.
Speaker 6 (07:21):
I don't believe this van For the last time. I
am not eating on you. Does that make sense to you?
Speaker 4 (07:31):
Do you get that?
Speaker 6 (07:32):
I'm so tired of you accusing me of all of
this book and just being straight and mean in general?
You're how am I?
Speaker 3 (07:43):
How am I being?
Speaker 1 (07:44):
You?
Speaker 6 (07:45):
Do you actually want to go through this on the air?
Speaker 4 (07:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (07:48):
I do? Okay, great, okay, So let's start with maybe
the fact that you belittle my job every day. It's, oh,
you're not making enough money. Oh you're working too many hours.
You know, like you're always reminding me that you are,
you know, the one putting in all the money, you're
supporting us, which by the way, is not the case
(08:08):
at all. I'm putting in my fair share. You just
seem to have this need for control, right, and then uh, okay,
let's go on to the next thing. Since you seem
to have such a problem with me painting and being creative.
I mean like it feels so unsupportive to me that
and just makes me feel bad.
Speaker 5 (08:27):
I do have to ask really quick, Chuck, you sound
very frustrated, and rightfully so.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
At any point have you told her how you feel? Yeah, okay,
I brought it up.
Speaker 6 (08:36):
No, no, you haven't.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
And even if you haven't, honestly, I don't belittle you. No,
I don't belittle you. Okay, if you want to look,
if you want to do your art thing, you can
go ahead and do it. I don't need I don't
give a pay. Honestly, at the time that I understand
or I get it you are saying.
Speaker 6 (08:54):
Just the fact that you call it your art thing,
it sounds so condescending. It's like it just throws it away.
It makes it seem like it's nothing. It makes it
seem like, oh, it's just a hobby, like you know what,
It's just so kind of.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
Well, it is a hobby. You're not making any money
on it. Do you make money?
Speaker 3 (09:11):
No, it is a hobby. You see your little office,
and I don't know what you paid. You don't really
talk about it with me. It is a hobby.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
So why am I supposed to understand.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
This painting thing being anything more than you just sitting
in a little office and dabbling on a canvas. Wow,
bars and money I make more, okay, so what I
work hard and I get paid well so that you
can do.
Speaker 4 (09:34):
Your little bar thing?
Speaker 3 (09:35):
Also okay, so art thing and bar thing, same thing
you do make more money. I'm rend with me. Maybe
if you stayed home and talked to me instead of
being in your little office. Maybe if you paid any
attention to me, Maybe if you actually gave it about
me and our relationship, I would give.
Speaker 6 (09:51):
About your art. Maybe I'm gonna tell you something. Nothing
has changed in the last six years I've had this job.
Since we started, I haven't changed.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
That's exactly the problem. The problem is that nothing has changed.
We've been together for six years. I think I'm just
wanting to sit here and just twiddle my thumbs while
you're doing what. I'm invested in our future together. It's
in six years. What's the happening to us and our relationship?
Speaker 4 (10:15):
Nothing?
Speaker 3 (10:16):
And I'm tired of having the same conversation with you
every single day.
Speaker 7 (10:21):
Okay, you know what, ship I did cheat on you?
And you know what, it wasn't one of the shifts.
Do you want is that what you want to do?
Is that what you wanted to hear?
Speaker 4 (10:33):
Yeah, well, well I knew I was right. That's talk
about the woman's intuition.
Speaker 6 (10:37):
Do you want to know why I did what I did?
Speaker 1 (10:40):
I don't give it.
Speaker 6 (10:41):
Why what did you had? Never given me? Telling on your.
Speaker 4 (10:46):
Girlfriend of six years?
Speaker 3 (10:48):
Tell me anyway you're justified and cheating as opposed to
communicating with your girlfriend of sixth.
Speaker 6 (10:54):
Tell me, chuck, because she was nice to me and
she gave Do you know how hard it is to
come home and realize that the person that you spent
all this time love and care with doesn't give us
about who you are and what you do, and she
was just I'm really glad.
Speaker 4 (11:13):
I'm really glad that all you really want in a
relationship with someone to be nice to you. I'm really
really glad that that's something that you're looking for.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
I'm so glad Sometimes that's just enough. That's all I've
ever wanted, and you know, helped to get that someday too.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
But I know that w she were to date you,
you flyar such. Eventually she's going to have her heartbroken
because you're going to go cheat on her because maybe
her niceness is not something that you're bored with, and
then you'll just cheat again, always a cheater.
Speaker 6 (11:39):
You know what, Maybe what I did wasn't right, but
I know that life is too short to be with
somebody who doesn't support you, who doesn't give us about you.
All right, well, you know what, I'm going to pack
up my stupid little office with my stupid little art
supplies and yeah, see you never cool.
Speaker 4 (11:56):
That's great, Yeah, just run from your problems. Good on you.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
And they both hung up. Wow they should not be together.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
Definitely not this happened. What just happens is I think
the most appropriate breakup ever.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
I squeezing my butt cheeks that whole time
Speaker 4 (12:16):
The jubile shows to catch a cheater