July 23, 2021 • 7 mins
The Chief Love Officer warns a lady not to listen to her negative father or else. He also gets a woman that is sad that she ran the perfect guy away.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Time for I asked the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve
Harvey in the building, ready for your questions, Courtney, and
I heart app listener says, I'm thirty and dating a
man that's thirty one, and he tells me all the
time that I'm his soul mate. He's all into me
in every way. He gives me bass and pedicures, and
(00:22):
he even will polish my toenails if I ask him too.
He ironed my clothes for me daily, and he cleans
up the kitchen if I cook. We never argue, and
if we ever disagree, we settle it quickly. Listen, He's
so different than any other guy I've dated. My daddy
says he's soft and won't make a good husband. How
(00:45):
can my daddy make such a negative assumption. Yeah, it's
better to be soft. Nothing says that the many Maybe
her father's hard and may and is a good husband.
So he thinking, because this dude ain't hard, he must
be solved. Lady, if you have no complaints, don't let
(01:08):
your father create one. This guy's a dream. There you go. Ash, Well,
can't say that, all right? What I can't say that
because somebody I was gonna say maybe you should ask
your mom how happy she's been and how she would
(01:28):
feel with some treatment like that, because your daddy he
didn't even do none of that. He old get into that. Yeah,
all right, moving on Kenetra and Memphis. Right. So, I'm
a forty two year old divorced woman and I fell
in love with a perfect guy, but I ran him
away by being paranoid. I had a rough marriage and
my husband cheated, so I developed bad habits like checking
(01:51):
his phone and popping up at places he was hanging out.
I carried this behavior into my new relationship and was
always accusing my new guy of messing around on a
second chance with him. And I want him to know
that I changed. How do I start the conversation with him? Luggage?
You know what? You know what what? Boy? I was
(02:12):
tripping and you know I was. You know, it's so
crazy because you know, I know you're a good man,
but I'm so stupid. I'd be getting checking your phone
and you know you didn't even know. I'd be outside
the ball waiting on you. I'll been at other house
and I just said, you know, I've just been you know,
but he was my ex. He just made me his way.
But and you know what, I'm not gonna do that
(02:34):
anymore because I think I found what I'm looking for.
You know, yeah, yeah it might work, but I doubt it. Yeah,
all right. So Tony in the Bay Area says, I'm
a thirty three year old married man raising my two
daughters while my wife is in jail for sixteen months.
(02:56):
She committed credit card fraud, and I was clueless when
she out arrested. The problem I'm having now is that
she only calls us once a week. If then she
calls her mom daily, and it ticks me off. Her
mom said, she's still ashamed to talk to me. But
I don't believe that she had a whole side hustle
that I didn't know about. So do you think she
(03:18):
has a side dude too? Am I being a fool
for waiting for her? Wow? Whoa a side dude? Yeah?
He wants to know. Yeah, well yeah, but bro, listen
to me. Credit card there ain't got nothing to do
with a side dude. She might be, you know, honestly,
(03:41):
just embarrassed. The mom could be right, I don't know
what you got the other dude from because she kept
that from him. You know, she she she keeps secret.
So he okay, Well, well well okay, okay, then go
with that theory, you know, with that theory and see
how that work out for you. Sometimes being paranoid about
(04:05):
stuff that you have no facts on it, it's a
waste of time. It's like, worried, Why are you tripping
yourself out about something that you don't even have the facts.
But uncle, she lied about that. What he's thinking is
she probably has some most skeletons, That's what it is. Well,
excuse me, but nephew, Tommy, because you lie about one thing,
don't mean that you lie about everything when I lie?
(04:29):
When I lie, no, Sherley, no, because you usually have
you know, when you tell one lie, you tell another
line another. I mean, I'm just saying this. Because you
lie about one thing, don't mean you lie about all things. Now,
if you want to accept the paranoia and act on it,
(04:51):
then go ahead. But the woman might not have nothing
to do with no other dude. She called once a week.
She didn't she called her mama daily. How close once
y'all before she went in Wiley? Not as close as
he thought they were. Why was you doing all this anyway?
I mean, why was she doing all this anyway, something
(05:13):
else is going home, bro, And now you're thinking it's
another dude in the picture. When she went to jail
for credit card for all, she didn't go to jail
with an accomplish. That was a dude. She went by herself.
Maybe we need to see what she was buying with
the credit card. I mean we got hotels on it
and a whole bunch of other stuff. Then yeah, see
(05:35):
why you know, why don't we just let mister negativity here?
He's a good person's daughters. I don't know how I
became negativity. I'm negativity. She just letting him ask all
the little negative asked questions so he can break up
this family. All right, we're moving We're moving on. I
(05:56):
know you agree with him, Jay, because you you ignorant.
So moving on, Ja Dans, let's get to this one.
Ken and Huntsville says. I'm fifty two and I recently
met a fifty five year old man on an online
dating site. He has never been married, and he is
one adult child. I am divorced and I have one
child in college. I bought a small house after my divorce,
(06:19):
and he's living in a one bedroom apartment. We both
are teachers, and we're both Baptist. Other than that, we
don't seem to be on the same page. To be honest,
I had hoped to meet the man that didn't still
live in an apartment. Am I focused on the wrong thing?
Should I get to know him anyway? Ce hello? I mean,
you got every right to focus on what you want
to foc on day your priorities. If you want a
(06:41):
man that's a home owner at fifty two, then maybe
that's one of your qualifications and you can pass upon
a good man. If he ain't never been married, maybe
he ain't never had a reason by the house, I
don't know, or he couldn't live with somebody just said
he ain't been married. You know, he leave with nobody?
You know? All right? Well, thank you song wece again.
(07:01):
You could ask mister negativity what he wanted to do
about niversial kill everybody off, you know that, everybody just
break up, coming up next the nephew and run that
prank back. You're listening to the Dave Harvey Morning Show.
Time for I asked the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve
Harvey in the building, ready for your questions, Courtney, and
I heart app listener says, I'm thirty and dating a
man that's thirty one, and he tells me all the
time that I'm his soul mate. He's all into me
in every way. He gives me bass and pedicures, and
(00:22):
he even will polish my toenails if I ask him too.
He ironed my clothes for me daily, and he cleans
up the kitchen if I cook. We never argue, and
if we ever disagree, we settle it quickly. Listen, He's
so different than any other guy I've dated. My daddy
says he's soft and won't make a good husband. How
(00:45):
can my daddy make such a negative assumption. Yeah, it's
better to be soft. Nothing says that the many Maybe
her father's hard and may and is a good husband.
So he thinking, because this dude ain't hard, he must
be solved. Lady, if you have no complaints, don't let
(01:08):
your father create one. This guy's a dream. There you go. Ash, Well,
can't say that, all right? What I can't say that
because somebody I was gonna say maybe you should ask
your mom how happy she's been and how she would
(01:28):
feel with some treatment like that, because your daddy he
didn't even do none of that. He old get into that. Yeah,
all right, moving on Kenetra and Memphis. Right. So, I'm
a forty two year old divorced woman and I fell
in love with a perfect guy, but I ran him
away by being paranoid. I had a rough marriage and
my husband cheated, so I developed bad habits like checking
(01:51):
his phone and popping up at places he was hanging out.
I carried this behavior into my new relationship and was
always accusing my new guy of messing around on a
second chance with him. And I want him to know
that I changed. How do I start the conversation with him? Luggage?
You know what? You know what what? Boy? I was
(02:12):
tripping and you know I was. You know, it's so
crazy because you know, I know you're a good man,
but I'm so stupid. I'd be getting checking your phone
and you know you didn't even know. I'd be outside
the ball waiting on you. I'll been at other house
and I just said, you know, I've just been you know,
but he was my ex. He just made me his way.
But and you know what, I'm not gonna do that
(02:34):
anymore because I think I found what I'm looking for.
You know, yeah, yeah it might work, but I doubt it. Yeah,
all right. So Tony in the Bay Area says, I'm
a thirty three year old married man raising my two
daughters while my wife is in jail for sixteen months.
(02:56):
She committed credit card fraud, and I was clueless when
she out arrested. The problem I'm having now is that
she only calls us once a week. If then she
calls her mom daily, and it ticks me off. Her
mom said, she's still ashamed to talk to me. But
I don't believe that she had a whole side hustle
that I didn't know about. So do you think she
(03:18):
has a side dude too? Am I being a fool
for waiting for her? Wow? Whoa a side dude? Yeah?
He wants to know. Yeah, well yeah, but bro, listen
to me. Credit card there ain't got nothing to do
with a side dude. She might be, you know, honestly,
(03:41):
just embarrassed. The mom could be right, I don't know
what you got the other dude from because she kept
that from him. You know, she she she keeps secret.
So he okay, Well, well well okay, okay, then go
with that theory, you know, with that theory and see
how that work out for you. Sometimes being paranoid about
(04:05):
stuff that you have no facts on it, it's a
waste of time. It's like, worried, Why are you tripping
yourself out about something that you don't even have the facts.
But uncle, she lied about that. What he's thinking is
she probably has some most skeletons, That's what it is. Well,
excuse me, but nephew, Tommy, because you lie about one thing,
don't mean that you lie about everything when I lie?
(04:29):
When I lie, no, Sherley, no, because you usually have
you know, when you tell one lie, you tell another
line another. I mean, I'm just saying this. Because you
lie about one thing, don't mean you lie about all things. Now,
if you want to accept the paranoia and act on it,
(04:51):
then go ahead. But the woman might not have nothing
to do with no other dude. She called once a week.
She didn't she called her mama daily. How close once
y'all before she went in Wiley? Not as close as
he thought they were. Why was you doing all this anyway?
I mean, why was she doing all this anyway, something
(05:13):
else is going home, bro, And now you're thinking it's
another dude in the picture. When she went to jail
for credit card for all, she didn't go to jail
with an accomplish. That was a dude. She went by herself.
Maybe we need to see what she was buying with
the credit card. I mean we got hotels on it
and a whole bunch of other stuff. Then yeah, see
(05:35):
why you know, why don't we just let mister negativity here?
He's a good person's daughters. I don't know how I
became negativity. I'm negativity. She just letting him ask all
the little negative asked questions so he can break up
this family. All right, we're moving We're moving on. I
(05:56):
know you agree with him, Jay, because you you ignorant.
So moving on, Ja Dans, let's get to this one.
Ken and Huntsville says. I'm fifty two and I recently
met a fifty five year old man on an online
dating site. He has never been married, and he is
one adult child. I am divorced and I have one
child in college. I bought a small house after my divorce,
(06:19):
and he's living in a one bedroom apartment. We both
are teachers, and we're both Baptist. Other than that, we
don't seem to be on the same page. To be honest,
I had hoped to meet the man that didn't still
live in an apartment. Am I focused on the wrong thing?
Should I get to know him anyway? Ce hello? I mean,
you got every right to focus on what you want
to foc on day your priorities. If you want a
(06:41):
man that's a home owner at fifty two, then maybe
that's one of your qualifications and you can pass upon
a good man. If he ain't never been married, maybe
he ain't never had a reason by the house, I
don't know, or he couldn't live with somebody just said
he ain't been married. You know, he leave with nobody?
You know? All right? Well, thank you song wece again.
(07:01):
You could ask mister negativity what he wanted to do
about niversial kill everybody off, you know that, everybody just
break up, coming up next the nephew and run that
prank back. You're listening to the Dave Harvey Morning Show.
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