Revenge Porn/Mean Ass Family

Steve gets a crazy HR question from social media.  A lady writes in about her boyfriend's toxic family and needs a little guidance.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:02):
So, Steve Tony on Facebook writes, one of my co
workers is getting on my nerves and it feels like
it could land me into some serious HR trouble. He
and his girlfriend just broke up, and it seems like
he's getting into revenge porn mode and she works with us.
I guess the two of them used to enjoy recording
their sexual activities, and now he's trying to corner me

(00:25):
at least eight different times, trying to get me to
watch them while he laughs about it. I've tried walking away,
telling him I'm not interested, advising him to delete the
stuff and get therapy, but brother man is not getting it.
I'm now at the point where I'm afraid this is
all going to backfire on me. Do I snitch and
say something to my boss? Or do I keep it quiet?

(00:47):
You're a little pump for that. Yeah, yeah, he is
on every level. The dude that recorded the girl. Yeah
he weak? Man, weak, yeah weak? And now, look, man,
you've told the dude he needs to get some therapy.
He wants you to watch this. Look, man, I don't

(01:09):
want to watch you, dog. I don't want to see
you with your girl naked. I know what your dog, hey, man,
show ass way from me and then just tell him. Look, man, hey, look,
I'm gonna tell you one more time. Don't come to
me with that. I have no interest in that now
if you keep doing that, man, so obviously the dude

(01:31):
that writing a letter, he's like tossed up a little bit.
He don't know what it's right, you know, man, looks
just hey man, I'm telling you right now, don't show
me nothing. I ain't interested in this. And if you
keep doing it, man, I'm gonna have to I'm gonna
have to report it, right and just tell him you're
gonna report it. But then, don't you know, don't man,

(01:52):
I don't go in there and mess this girl up
in him up over trying to show you someone you
can see you can stop anybody from showing you anything.
You ain't got to sit there. He's her own ass. Man.
Well see, na, yeah, I understand that if you incorporate
a miracle, which I ain't never being so, but you
ain't gonna keep showing me that. I'm told you no, right,

(02:15):
we ain't got to go talk to no damn about
it about this. If I see your ass one more
tam on this phone you know I'm gonna blessed If
I see it. I'm gonna punch you dead your mouth.
You bring another picture your naked ass in here? See
what all? Huh? Yeah, we have another one. This is

(02:43):
from Pam on Steve Harvey FM. Pam writes, my boyfriend
and I have been together for three years. We currently
live in the same town as his parents, and since
we moved here about a year ago, we've had dinner
with his family once a week. I'm not sure why
he wants to continue doing this, because, from what I
can see, none of his family seems to like one another.
They're all mean to each other, and it brings out

(03:05):
a side of my boyfriend that I don't normally see
and definitely don't like. He's not like that when we're together,
and I don't want to have a family with him
if that's what our future is going to look like.
Should I see this as a sign that making a
new family with my boyfriend would be a mistake? Or
should I just try to get him to cut his
toxic family out of his life. Why don't you try

(03:28):
telling him you're not interested into once a week dinners anymore? Yeah?
I think that would be a good way to start,
because he's gonna have to say why and you just say.
I just don't enjoy sitting there listening to that. It
seems very negative, and it's believing a bad taste in
my mouth, and it's got me thinking, if we continue
at this pace, we're gonna end up just like that.

(03:49):
And I don't want to have a family, and I'm
not gonna sleep with you if you take me over
there are I said last a little jab saying real soft?
Uh huh? How do how does sh sh say? It's
Steve and you know, and all this sudden they're just something.
I don't want to stay end up like that anymore,

(04:10):
and I'm not gonna sleep with you, yeah, you know.
And then that's when he had to squint, what yeah,
what did she just? I just I just and then
just do that girl that I just I just step can't, Uh,
I can't, I can't and then cry a little all right,

(04:34):
and then cry a little Oh he got to do something,
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