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Welcome to another episode of the BigBoy Boy Speak On It on It podcast,
Big Boy Neighborhood Nathalio's up in herein Nathalia Neighborhood News. What you
got. You know, sometimes yougotta cut out a friend big, Sometimes
you gotta cut them loose because they'rebad friends. I saw this post go
viral. I saw it on multiplewebsites, and it was talking about how
this guy had posted up how hehas dropped some friends because of something they
(00:25):
did to him. And I knowthat a lot of people have been in
situations where a friend just betrays youand you have to drop them. You
can't. You're like, you knowwhat, I guess they're not a friend.
So he goes on to say,I just blocked and deleted friendships with
four of my homeboys. I hadback surgery and literally a month ago,
and not one of them checked onyour boy. I ain't said anything.
(00:46):
I just blocked and let it bewhat it is. I guess they weren't
my real friend, hey man.And that kind of surgery they say to
anything that you touch with your backis bad. Yeah. By Jim Garcier
guy JMG, he had a backsurgeon. You know, what I'm saying
and those kind of things, man, you know, leading up to it,
it hurts. Yeah, and youknow as you're trying to bedamn recuperate
(01:07):
that that's another journey. But foryou not to even check in on your
homeboy, oh man, if theyhave a table somewhere at a club and
they're popping bottles, I'm sure you'rechecking in on them and wanting to be
around it. But when they gothrough the hard times like and they're not
around, I think I would definitelyhave I feel a certain way. I
would definite. And then it's fourof them. Yeah, so that means
even four of them if y'all inthe same buddy system, not even in
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one of the homies. You're like, hey, man, did you check
on Louis? Exactly? Yeah?Alright man, bad friends right there.
That's why they say you lucky ifyou get one. That's true, you're
lucky if you get one, man, But those are like four homies.
Believe that. But I want tohear from you right now, Man,
who's a bad friend. Who's abad friend? I don't think like,
oh hout my friend on blast,I'm a bad friend? No, they
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earned it, Yes, they totallyearned it. So call us up.
Let it be known. Who's abad friend. Let's bring honey into the
neighborhood to see was down with honey? Up in here, honey, Hello,
Hello, Hello there, honey,honey, who's a bad friend?
And why? Uh don't want togive her name out. But she did
(02:15):
me dirty, and she pretty muchI moved my schedule around for her,
helped her out with her kids,pretty much became their stepdad. And she
kicked me out on Christmas Eve andI slept in my car next morning when
and visited my son. Wow.Wait, so y'all were living together as
(02:35):
friends or as a couple. FriendOkay, so living together as friends and
you changed your certain things for her. You you looked out for her daughter.
Then she kicked you out on ChristmasEve? Yeah, what was the
reason for that? Like, sheprobably may call and say something different.
What would be the reason for herkicking you out on Christmas Eve? That's
kind of heartless. I was workinga lot trying to meet ya. I
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don't like to be a burden onpeople, so I just tried to get
my stuff together to get out ofher hair, and she took it.
As I was trying to not bearound her, and she said that I
was a bad friend for not beingthere for her. And she just felt
like, oh, you don't wantto be here, you don't sleep here
a lot. But I was workingthree jobs, wow, trying to get
(03:22):
out of her, you know,trying to better even look for a bigger
place for us. And yeah,it just it didn't work out. So
and honey, how many years areHow long were y'all friends? We were
friends for about three four years priorand put you out on Christmas Eve?
Yeah? Damn? And where areyou ladies at now? I don't really
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talk to her, but I alsoam like I just have a big heart,
so I know that everybody go throughsomething. But if she ever really
needs something, I'll be there.But I don't do people, they do
me. Damn. Man, Hopefullyshe's not listening. Well, hopefully she
is, But is she she gonnacall you? Be like, hey,
(04:06):
girl, you drop me off overafter such and such. I heard that
that's cold right there Christmas Eve?Yeah, hey man? And you know
how when you see when you juststart painting pictures in your head like I
see her like leaving out as cold? It's dark, you know, and
then you start doing movie stuff.It's snowing with a blanket, and then
she's walking slow. She got thatlittle stick with the little bandana tied to
(04:30):
it with the stuff in it.Wow. Yeah, man, So,
who's a bad friend. Let's bringanonymous into the neighborhood to see what's going
down with anonymous? Anonymous? Hello, Hello, Hello, they're anonymous?
Anonymous. Who's a bad friend?And why she was pertaining to be my
(04:50):
friend for like two years only tosleep with my boyfriend the entire time?
Oh wow, nat, So shewas pretending to be your best friend,
was sleeping with your boyfriend for twoyears the entire time that you guys were
cool, she was sleeping with yourboyfriend, right? And when how did
(05:13):
you guys like, like what wastheir friendship? Like, you know,
did y'all hang out? Did allthree of y'all hang out? All three
of us hung out? Me andher went to trips together, Me and
then her went to trips together.Meet her and her boyfriend and my boyfriend
went to trips together. It waslike a skin Wow. So she was
in a relationship, yep, andthat whole And how did you find out
(05:35):
that for the two years that youguys had been friends. First off,
before I asked that, how longwere you and your boyfriend together? I'm
like five years? Five years?Alrighty? And how did you find out
that they had been hooking up fortwo years? The entire time? Y'all?
Friends, I have a can hunt. You know, we're girls,
(05:58):
we know, you know what Imean. And it kind of just like
came into play when she thought,like we've broken up, and like she
thought they were going to be athing, and then she realized he hadn't
given me up yet, and shewas like, I just want to let
you know I've been sleeping with himfor so and so long. And I
was like, okay, cool,damn. So were you complete? Were
you finished with her? Oh?Yeah, now you you know what I'm
(06:20):
going to ask? Now? Wereyou finished with him? Yep? Alrighty,
that's good. That's good. Dang. And so y'all used to hang
out together when on trips together,and who you thought was a friend turned
out being, you know, notan enemy, but yeah, kind of
an enemy's side. She only becamemy friend because she wanted to sleep with
him. Oh wow, So youreally feel like there was something like it
(06:42):
was something calculated, like she wantedto be your friend because she wanted your
man. Oh, she told me, how did the friendship start anonymous?
They were friends first? Oh that'sdiabolical, man. Yeah, so they
were friends first. Wow, thenshe got cool with you and cause you
(07:02):
wanted to know what like the realwoman? Who was like what was she
all about? Why did she wantto be with her so bad? And
so she wanted to be my friendand meeting the naive well girl that I
can't be, which I'm not anymore, I was like, yeah, she
was the best friend. Wow.All right, now we're going to bring
Victoria into the neighborhood to see what'sgoing down with Victoria up in here.
(07:25):
Victoria, Hello, Hello there,Hello Victoria. Victoria. Who's a bad
friend. It was a really closefriend of mine. I don't want to
drop any names. And my motherhad passed away. It was in the
month of November, so we weregetting ready for my mother's service and everything.
It was her birthday. So Iwas like, okay, I'm going
(07:46):
to be a good friend. Iwant to loan her some money. So
then it went for me loaning herthe money, and I had to explained
to her like hey, I'm goingto need this fifty seven dollars back and
she was like, okay, cool, no problem. I was like,
okay, good, everything is squaredaway. My friend is not as I'm
good. She's good. Okay booth. So then it went from that to
two weeks later, I'm like,hey, can I get that you know,
(08:07):
the money I loaned out to you? And she was like, oh,
you didn't loan it out to me, like you gave it to me.
I'm like, what, I neversaid that. Yeah. So I
had to actually borrow some money frommy kid's shoes from my mom's service.
Wow. So this was so thisis the time when you're doing your like
your mom is like, this isthe your mom did she passed in and
(08:31):
she had already, yes, shehad passed in. My family and I
were getting ready for my mom's funeral, and I loaned her the money.
And amen, even if there wasa misunderstanding, if you were to call
and say, oh, you knowmy fifty seven dollars right, and she
said, oh, I didn't knowit was a loan, but I'll get
(08:52):
that back. I'll get it backto you. You know what I'm saying.
I thought you gave it to you, right, big boy ry you
feel men? Yeah, man likeand especially knowing this person since middle school.
We're in our thirties now, yeah, yeah, that's wrong, man,
that's wrong. Friend of mine.You know what's so scary about that,
(09:13):
man, is you brought character andyou found out exactly who she was
and it costs you fifty seven Yeahyou know, yeah, and it did
cost a lot, especially especially thetiming. You know what I'm saying,
Especially the timing, man like anyoneknows, especially I lost my mom as
well. How fresh out those momentsare? You know, exactly exactly?
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She never check up on me ormy kids or anything. Yeah, it
was I was hurt. Ties afterthat, I said, I will I
will never. You don't have toworry about me, you know. God
blessed to her and hers, butno for me. Who's a bad friend?
Y'all? Hit us up Big BoysNeighborhood eighties. You find a big
(09:58):
boy from Big Boy Neighborhood on iHeartRadio. Here's another in case you missed it,
moment with us. What a bluedoggie? Do you guys? Remember
the situation when Drake was in contradat the Barclays and somebody threw a brawl
on stage, and he picked itup and like acknowledged it. But this
one was different, extra big bro. It was a thirty six G.
(10:22):
Thirty six gene, What does athirty six G look like? No,
miss Yeah. When he picked itup, I like blocked half his body.
I was like, yeah, man. People started leaving. It became
the count was over. They're like, man, I got the curtain.
He's like, man, it's massive, bro, thank you for listening.
It is upon a big boy,big Boy's neighborhood. You could catch more
(10:45):
of us right here on iHeartRadio
Welcome to another episode of the BigBoy Boy Speak On It on It podcast,
Big Boy Neighborhood Nathalio's up in herein Nathalia Neighborhood News. What you
got. You know, sometimes yougotta cut out a friend big, Sometimes
you gotta cut them loose because they'rebad friends. I saw this post go
viral. I saw it on multiplewebsites, and it was talking about how
this guy had posted up how hehas dropped some friends because of something they
(00:25):
did to him. And I knowthat a lot of people have been in
situations where a friend just betrays youand you have to drop them. You
can't. You're like, you knowwhat, I guess they're not a friend.
So he goes on to say,I just blocked and deleted friendships with
four of my homeboys. I hadback surgery and literally a month ago,
and not one of them checked onyour boy. I ain't said anything.
(00:46):
I just blocked and let it bewhat it is. I guess they weren't
my real friend, hey man.And that kind of surgery they say to
anything that you touch with your backis bad. Yeah. By Jim Garcier
guy JMG, he had a backsurgeon. You know, what I'm saying
and those kind of things, man, you know, leading up to it,
it hurts. Yeah, and youknow as you're trying to bedamn recuperate
(01:07):
that that's another journey. But foryou not to even check in on your
homeboy, oh man, if theyhave a table somewhere at a club and
they're popping bottles, I'm sure you'rechecking in on them and wanting to be
around it. But when they gothrough the hard times like and they're not
around, I think I would definitelyhave I feel a certain way. I
would definite. And then it's fourof them. Yeah, so that means
even four of them if y'all inthe same buddy system, not even in
(01:30):
one of the homies. You're like, hey, man, did you check
on Louis? Exactly? Yeah?Alright man, bad friends right there.
That's why they say you lucky ifyou get one. That's true, you're
lucky if you get one, man, But those are like four homies.
Believe that. But I want tohear from you right now, Man,
who's a bad friend. Who's abad friend? I don't think like,
oh hout my friend on blast,I'm a bad friend? No, they
(01:51):
earned it, Yes, they totallyearned it. So call us up.
Let it be known. Who's abad friend. Let's bring honey into the
neighborhood to see was down with honey? Up in here, honey, Hello,
Hello, Hello there, honey,honey, who's a bad friend?
And why? Uh don't want togive her name out. But she did
(02:15):
me dirty, and she pretty muchI moved my schedule around for her,
helped her out with her kids,pretty much became their stepdad. And she
kicked me out on Christmas Eve andI slept in my car next morning when
and visited my son. Wow.Wait, so y'all were living together as
(02:35):
friends or as a couple. FriendOkay, so living together as friends and
you changed your certain things for her. You you looked out for her daughter.
Then she kicked you out on ChristmasEve? Yeah, what was the
reason for that? Like, sheprobably may call and say something different.
What would be the reason for herkicking you out on Christmas Eve? That's
kind of heartless. I was workinga lot trying to meet ya. I
(03:00):
don't like to be a burden onpeople, so I just tried to get
my stuff together to get out ofher hair, and she took it.
As I was trying to not bearound her, and she said that I
was a bad friend for not beingthere for her. And she just felt
like, oh, you don't wantto be here, you don't sleep here
a lot. But I was workingthree jobs, wow, trying to get
(03:22):
out of her, you know,trying to better even look for a bigger
place for us. And yeah,it just it didn't work out. So
and honey, how many years areHow long were y'all friends? We were
friends for about three four years priorand put you out on Christmas Eve?
Yeah? Damn? And where areyou ladies at now? I don't really
(03:46):
talk to her, but I alsoam like I just have a big heart,
so I know that everybody go throughsomething. But if she ever really
needs something, I'll be there.But I don't do people, they do
me. Damn. Man, Hopefullyshe's not listening. Well, hopefully she
is, But is she she gonnacall you? Be like, hey,
(04:06):
girl, you drop me off overafter such and such. I heard that
that's cold right there Christmas Eve?Yeah, hey man? And you know
how when you see when you juststart painting pictures in your head like I
see her like leaving out as cold? It's dark, you know, and
then you start doing movie stuff.It's snowing with a blanket, and then
she's walking slow. She got thatlittle stick with the little bandana tied to
(04:30):
it with the stuff in it.Wow. Yeah, man, So,
who's a bad friend. Let's bringanonymous into the neighborhood to see what's going
down with anonymous? Anonymous? Hello, Hello, Hello, they're anonymous?
Anonymous. Who's a bad friend?And why she was pertaining to be my
(04:50):
friend for like two years only tosleep with my boyfriend the entire time?
Oh wow, nat, So shewas pretending to be your best friend,
was sleeping with your boyfriend for twoyears the entire time that you guys were
cool, she was sleeping with yourboyfriend, right? And when how did
(05:13):
you guys like, like what wastheir friendship? Like, you know,
did y'all hang out? Did allthree of y'all hang out? All three
of us hung out? Me andher went to trips together, Me and
then her went to trips together.Meet her and her boyfriend and my boyfriend
went to trips together. It waslike a skin Wow. So she was
in a relationship, yep, andthat whole And how did you find out
(05:35):
that for the two years that youguys had been friends. First off,
before I asked that, how longwere you and your boyfriend together? I'm
like five years? Five years?Alrighty? And how did you find out
that they had been hooking up fortwo years? The entire time? Y'all?
Friends, I have a can hunt. You know, we're girls,
(05:58):
we know, you know what Imean. And it kind of just like
came into play when she thought,like we've broken up, and like she
thought they were going to be athing, and then she realized he hadn't
given me up yet, and shewas like, I just want to let
you know I've been sleeping with himfor so and so long. And I
was like, okay, cool,damn. So were you complete? Were
you finished with her? Oh?Yeah, now you you know what I'm
(06:20):
going to ask? Now? Wereyou finished with him? Yep? Alrighty,
that's good. That's good. Dang. And so y'all used to hang
out together when on trips together,and who you thought was a friend turned
out being, you know, notan enemy, but yeah, kind of
an enemy's side. She only becamemy friend because she wanted to sleep with
him. Oh wow, So youreally feel like there was something like it
(06:42):
was something calculated, like she wantedto be your friend because she wanted your
man. Oh, she told me, how did the friendship start anonymous?
They were friends first? Oh that'sdiabolical, man. Yeah, so they
were friends first. Wow, thenshe got cool with you and cause you
(07:02):
wanted to know what like the realwoman? Who was like what was she
all about? Why did she wantto be with her so bad? And
so she wanted to be my friendand meeting the naive well girl that I
can't be, which I'm not anymore, I was like, yeah, she
was the best friend. Wow.All right, now we're going to bring
Victoria into the neighborhood to see what'sgoing down with Victoria up in here.
(07:25):
Victoria, Hello, Hello there,Hello Victoria. Victoria. Who's a bad
friend. It was a really closefriend of mine. I don't want to
drop any names. And my motherhad passed away. It was in the
month of November, so we weregetting ready for my mother's service and everything.
It was her birthday. So Iwas like, okay, I'm going
(07:46):
to be a good friend. Iwant to loan her some money. So
then it went for me loaning herthe money, and I had to explained
to her like hey, I'm goingto need this fifty seven dollars back and
she was like, okay, cool, no problem. I was like,
okay, good, everything is squaredaway. My friend is not as I'm
good. She's good. Okay booth. So then it went from that to
two weeks later, I'm like,hey, can I get that you know,
(08:07):
the money I loaned out to you? And she was like, oh,
you didn't loan it out to me, like you gave it to me.
I'm like, what, I neversaid that. Yeah. So I
had to actually borrow some money frommy kid's shoes from my mom's service.
Wow. So this was so thisis the time when you're doing your like
your mom is like, this isthe your mom did she passed in and
(08:31):
she had already, yes, shehad passed in. My family and I
were getting ready for my mom's funeral, and I loaned her the money.
And amen, even if there wasa misunderstanding, if you were to call
and say, oh, you knowmy fifty seven dollars right, and she
said, oh, I didn't knowit was a loan, but I'll get
(08:52):
that back. I'll get it backto you. You know what I'm saying.
I thought you gave it to you, right, big boy ry you
feel men? Yeah, man likeand especially knowing this person since middle school.
We're in our thirties now, yeah, yeah, that's wrong, man,
that's wrong. Friend of mine.You know what's so scary about that,
(09:13):
man, is you brought character andyou found out exactly who she was
and it costs you fifty seven Yeahyou know, yeah, and it did
cost a lot, especially especially thetiming. You know what I'm saying,
Especially the timing, man like anyoneknows, especially I lost my mom as
well. How fresh out those momentsare? You know, exactly exactly?
(09:35):
She never check up on me ormy kids or anything. Yeah, it
was I was hurt. Ties afterthat, I said, I will I
will never. You don't have toworry about me, you know. God
blessed to her and hers, butno for me. Who's a bad friend?
Y'all? Hit us up Big BoysNeighborhood eighties. You find a big
(09:58):
boy from Big Boy Neighborhood on iHeartRadio. Here's another in case you missed it,
moment with us. What a bluedoggie? Do you guys? Remember
the situation when Drake was in contradat the Barclays and somebody threw a brawl
on stage, and he picked itup and like acknowledged it. But this
one was different, extra big bro. It was a thirty six G.
(10:22):
Thirty six gene, What does athirty six G look like? No,
miss Yeah. When he picked itup, I like blocked half his body.
I was like, yeah, man. People started leaving. It became
the count was over. They're like, man, I got the curtain.
He's like, man, it's massive, bro, thank you for listening.
It is upon a big boy,big Boy's neighborhood. You could catch more
(10:45):
of us right here on iHeartRadio
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