SPEAK ON IT with calls - What Made You Dump Somebody?

SPEAK ON IT with calls - What Made You Dump Somebody?

Episode Transcript

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Welcome to another episode of the BigBoy Boy Speak On It on It podcast.
Big Boys Neighborhood Beautiful Day Neighborhood Nataliais open here in Italian Neighborhood News.
Once you got my little dumping abig everyone's got their reasons for wanting
to dump somebody that maybe they're talkingto or already had been on a couple
of dates with. This girl hasgone viral because she revealed the reason she

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dumped this guy. Now, basically, they met on a dating app.
They were going back and forth throughmessages. They were making plans to go
on their first date, and oncehe sent her this voice note, she
was like, Eh, it's notit, I am canceling this date.
Just listen to what he sent her. So you let me know where do
you want to go and what youwant to do. I'm always if yeah,

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you're probably gonna say like God's thehotel or soho or something. So
I'm boring, but like you justbe able to do it, it doesn't
matter. Just overprized one, overprisedI'll call why not beautiful? So basically
she was like like ick, likewhy are you assuming one that I want

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to go to these places? Butthen also bashing themol and she was like
it was that kind of attitude thathe just had. That For me,
I was like, I'm not itwith it. I'm dying. If I
can cut that at the beginning,I would do so too. I kill
it on the van. Yeah,big, you talk about like, oh,
sending your representative and when that ifthat is his representative, and that's

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really kind of just who is he? Who he is? Thank you?
Right? I remember when I wason a dating app and I was chatting
with the guy. We were makingplans very similar, making plans for our
first date. He randomly hit meup in the morning was like, look
at what I just got. Lookat my new car. And it was
not a cool car. And butI'm also not impressed by cars by any

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means. So for me, Iwas like, I know, I'm not
gonna like this guy because if hethinks that that's what I like, I
know what kind of guy he is. About said one time, some girls
send me like a booty shot,like a good morning booty shot, right,
and then attached to it was likefor other people's phone numbers. Oh
man, I was like, yeah, I'm probably gonna like cut her bro
but at least that was the firstnumber on that like lineup, you know

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what I mean? She probably uhand plus you got that what's that the
android? Yeah, so she probablyjust wanted to start off with everything green.
Anyway. She was like, letme start here man first. Yeah.
Yeah, I was like, yeah, you didn't meet Myra off a
dating app? No, okay,which is a stupid question because I put
it on because you was on popfor a little bit too. I remember,

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Yeah, yeah, I made suchand such on pop up p P
plenty of penises, plenty of fishbro oh my man. Okay. But
for those out there, man,oh, I know that what's supposed to
be on air. You know whatI'm saying us that, Hey the miss
sit down and do a one onone with them about plenty of about pop

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you know what I'm saying. Shoutout to my man, do missa hanging
out? Wuld have been more thantwo man, legendary Demiza up in here.
We want to speak to you,man, what made you dump somebody?
What made you dump somebody? Youknow what I'm saying? Did you
dump old grubs? You got thepictures? Oh? I never. I
was just like, all right,yeah, I'm gonna take her serious at
all? All right, are we'regoing to bring the jay into the neighborhood?
Sell was going down with jay upin here? J Hello, Hello,

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Hello there j J. What madeyou dump somebody? Okay? Big
good of it with her parents andher parents is out of town. But
she had her own room and sheinvited me over. You know things,
eat it up. I went tothe restroom before things got started, and
in her trash can, her ownpersonal restroom. In the trash can,

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there was a condom, right oh, And I asked her about it and
she would tell me on it.Then her her plea brothers when she didn't
have any brothers at all. It'llgo with her? Oh wow, Ah,
So you didn't. You didn't knockher down, didn't break up because
I figured if she already had onein there, she was down with the

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body, right. I didn't.I was. I was frustrated about it,
and it became a conversation where Iend up ended what I said.
It became a conversation. I sawthe condom wrapper and the trash can,

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and I ended up leaving leaving herOkay, cool, No, I just
wanted to make sure I heard himsay leaving her, you know what I
though. But if I was datinghim in his phone just that all the
time, I think I was justabout to say that, Man, I
was about to say, Jay,I gotta dump you. Yeah, yeah,
yeah, I know, Man,give me brunomor to that. Yeah,
we love it, believe that.But what made you dump somebody?

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Yeah? I guess if you gotyour own restroom and I walk in there
and I do see, you knowthere's a condom in there, I would
guessing, then you know you're lyingfor sure. And also now she's messing
with other people too. You don'twant to be messy. Yeah, And
it's just it's a lot if that'swhat we're gonna start at, or if
that's where we are right now.And I don't like, I don't like
like mind tricks and head games andthings like that. Already think too much

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anyway, you know, and mythoughts will always go to the most extreme
and the most it could be themost negative. So it's better for me
to just cut it on the varnejust click the dang day. What made
you dump somebody? We're gonna bringCandace into the neighborhood to see what's going
down with Candace up in here,Candice. Hello, Hello, hello there,
Candace. Good morning to you Candace. Candace, what made you dump

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somebody? So we were kind ofalready broken up, but we're still messing
around with each other, and it'snot like we agreed to see other people.
We're just kind of like on thefence of figuring things out, or
so I thought. So. Sohe had ran into a mutual friend of
ours. He's like, yeah,they were asking for you and they're like,

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hey, where's Candace, you know, like, why isn't she here
with you? And he was like, oh, that's that's just my friends.
And when he had said that,I was like, okay, yeah,
we're not best friends. And that'swhen I knew I kind of had
to cut him, Like forget damn. Not only did he put you in
the friend zone, he put youin the best friend zone. Yeah,
yeah, and the best friend zone. And then I was like, what
best friendly best friend? We neverbeen friends? He said wow. Oh,

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He's like, well, you know, well that's how I see you.
And I'm like, well, that'snot how I see you. So
how how did you see him?Candice? Oh? Well I was,
you know, still in love withhim. I thought that we were trying
to figure things out, and thenhe like kind of just went on to
go, well, you know,I'm already like talking to somebody else and
like and I'm like, dad,exactly, I'm like, okay, this

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was really like unbeknownst to me.I guess I was like being naive about
the situation. But I totally cuthim. And then when I told him
it was over, like yeah,I'm not seeing you anymore, he trying
to turn it on me and waslike, well, why can't you be
mature about this situation? Why can'twe just be friends out of big stuff?
What do you think of stupid?Yeah, understood, And that is

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a great reason to dump somebody,Yeah, damn hell yeah? And how
long were you all together, Candice? Over a year? A little over
a year. So that's why Ithought, like, you know, this
was potentially still like gonna work out. And then when he told me that,
I was like, yeah, that'sit's over. Yeah hell yeah,

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man, Yeah, you gotta letthat one go. I ain't mad at
you. Why did you what madeyou dump somebody? Just bring Carlos into
the neighborhoods He was going down withce Los up in here, Carlos.
Hello, hello, big boy,Hello there, Carlos, Carlos, what
made you dump somebody? Well checkthis out, man. So a while

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back ago, I was a salespersonat this retail store and I was having
an affair with this woman and herhusband went in one day and purchased some
items in. I was the onewho helped them out, and I felt
really bad for the dude. Andyou know, we continue having an affair,
but he would always come back andhe was always buying stuff for me

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with his kids there, and Ijust felt really bad for the guy.
Man. So you know, Itold I told her I had to break
it off because I felt bad forher man, And she was like,
no, he's fine, he's okay, he's okay. And I'm like,
no, you can't do that nomore. Man. How can she say
he's fine, he's okay. Hedid he ever come in and say,
hey, man, I know yousee with my wife, but I'm okay,

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I want to buy his shirt righthere, you know what I'm saying.
Nothing like that. Yeah, Andwere you in a relationship, cardinals,
Were you in a relationship because yousaid in an affair? I was,
Man, I was, And That'sthat's what made me, you know,
kind of really change my ways becauseI seen how how she was like
really loose with it, like shewas okay with you know, doing this
or a man. And then Ifinally got a chance to meet the guy,

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you know, cause she was talkingalways like oh, he's there,
he's that he's so bad. Andthen when I got to meet the guy,
he wasn't not really that bad.And you know, he went in
there with his kids and stuff,and I was like, and were you
with a girlfriend or were you married? Nah? I was married? Man.
Man, damn, Hey, Carlos, you say you felt bad for
him, did you feel as badfor your wife? Whoa uh yeah,

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yeah. Amen. He was like, man, I felt bad for him.
I couldn't do that to him.You and my man had not half
a wife. He had a wholewife at the house. Yeah. He
was probably like hey, big,Yeah, nobody ever really asked me about
like that. Yeah, I guessI did. Uh, I guess I
did feel kind of bad. Didn'tthink he's got this conscience that comes in

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yeah, man, hey dude,And I know people were sitting out there
listening, like big, you gottaask him because he said affair. You
know what I'm saying. He didn'tsell to missing with his married lady.
So so Carlos, So you youcalled it off because you met him and
you felt bad? Yeah right,yeah yeah, and I felt bad for
the guy man, but yeah yeah, But Carlos, did you feel bad

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going home to your wife? Idid, I really did, man,
But she just kept calling too man. But but it was it was more
because of homeboy, Like he wouldshow up with his kids, right,
yeah, all right, So hurtinghim hurt you more? Yeah, there,
it is so hurting him hurt himmore than hurting his wife. Like

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yeah, as soon as he sawhim, you know what I'm saying,
that coming in buying stuff brought thekids. One more question, Carlos,
did you did you and your girlhave kids? Yeah? We got kids.
Okay, So you felt bad watchinghim with his kids? Yeah?
All right there he is all right, y'all stick around your radio Big Boy
neighborhood. Hey, I just wantedto story here foying a big boy from

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joining Lucas in the neighborhood. Whydid you never get mad at hip
hop. You mean I've never reallyheard you come and say what is over
here? And this mother? Youknow what I'm saying, like I've never
heard you pulled down to get up? Then that really me not taking accountability,

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right. It's like I'm not sittinghere saying I need to be talked
about amongst the community and need torespect my head. I don't give about
that right. A lot of peopleask me, like, you feel like
you're underrated? Do you feel likeyou don't get the respect that you deserve?
And I say, if I amunderrated and if I don't get the
respect that I deserve, then that'smy fault. You know, when you

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need the big three when we talkabout Kendrick, Call and Drake, But
if they're the big three, who'scalling them the big three? The fans
are calling them the big three?These are the big three, biggest nicest,
dopest artists in the world, right, they put them on that pedestal.
So if the people aren't saying joinersin that conversation or joiners not,
you know what I'm saying, like, that's my fault though, that means

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I gotta work harder. If joineris not the Big three. Joyner is
okay with that. I'm not madat that. I'm right big three.
I'm not mad that I'm not theBig tenn hen Man, thank you for
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