Brooke noticed something off about her BF

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Good morning, Brooke, Good morning.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
How are you?

Speaker 1 (00:02):
What can we do for you?

Speaker 3 (00:05):
I mean you.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
Okay, you guys can tell me if I'm being like
dramatic or ridiculous, but it's just something I've noticed. My
boyfriend is like very much like someone who's been pretty
much like I don't believe in marriage, Like that's his
like thing, you know, every Halloween. Every Halloween, he only
wants to do costumes where we're literally a married couple,

(00:31):
like we've been Frankenstein and his bride Lydia and Beetlejuice
and Goma as a martician. I'm just like, sure, you
don't want to propose to be in real life, but
all he wants to do is like play pretend and
play dress up and be your bride on Instagram for
like the likes on Halloween, you know. And I kind

(00:54):
of was like, I don't know, it feels weird, Like
it's weird that you want to do that, and all
you talk about is how you don't believe in Mary Rich.
But he was like, you're being you know, you're being
a lot. It's just for fun and you're looking into
something that's not there. But anyway, I'm like, why does
he want to do that for Halloween, but like we
can't do an in real life.

Speaker 1 (01:14):
You know, well, let me tell you this, in my opinion,
on Halloween, you dressed up of something you're terrified.

Speaker 4 (01:20):
Of that I'm looking at it. I just don't like.
I maybe he just likes couple's costumes.

Speaker 3 (01:29):
You are a couple.

Speaker 2 (01:30):
It's just weird when it's like that's his like, you know,
platitude to be like I don't believe marriage, and then
I don't know, I probably am looking too far into it,
and but it's just like it's I just found it odd.
I find it weird.

Speaker 1 (01:44):
And he's suggesting all these costumes like the Adams family.
He's suggesting this. Okay, yeah, because like.

Speaker 3 (01:52):
You would be down with like assault and Pepper duo costume.
You just don't want to act as if you guys
are actually are.

Speaker 1 (01:56):
Sultant Pepper buried in real life.

Speaker 3 (01:58):
I don't know, are they.

Speaker 1 (01:59):
Totally they're all married.

Speaker 3 (02:01):
I guess like according to Blues Clues, they are definitely
a married I'd like.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
But I don't care, you know, like it's just like whatever,
but it's I just I started to notice it, and
it's like a pattern.

Speaker 1 (02:14):
So here's the thing though, it sounds like it sounds
like you want a future with him and he doesn't
want to get married, So you either have to be
mentally prepared to be a girlfriend forever or you got
to move on.

Speaker 3 (02:24):
Yeah, I know that is annoying that he does. I'd
be annoyed too. You don't want to marry me, but
you want to play dress up. It's like a couple's costume.

Speaker 1 (02:33):
I get.

Speaker 3 (02:33):
I mean, I get, like, I get.

Speaker 4 (02:35):
You on the future there, but that's like a more
serious conversation than just like what you're doing on Halloween.
You are a couple, so I would think, you know,
it's natural for him to want to do a couple's costume.
I think that's awesome. Actually, Like I got to like
try to convince my husband to dress up with me.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
Every year, do Haley and Justin Bieber.

Speaker 4 (02:54):
But I do think that's like a deeper conversation that
you need to have. And if he is telling you
he does not want want to get married at the
end of the day, I think you've got to listen
to them and if that's what you want, you have
to move on, all.

Speaker 1 (03:05):
Right, Brook, Thanks for calling in interesting dilemma.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
Thanks, bye, bye bye