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Speaker 1 (00:00):
John J. Richwood Up, Carlos, what up?
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Man?
Speaker 1 (00:02):
How are you good? What's going on?
Speaker 3 (00:04):
What is up with rich being a woman so much
and not getting the guy's back? Now?
Speaker 1 (00:09):
What what are you talking about? When I was hearing
the the segment right now, and all you kept on
doing is having her side and not having the guys side.
And I'm like, dude, really, you mean.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
The guy who went on a date and didn't tell
his wife where he was and you want me to
get him, you want to get his back.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
We went to the coffee shop to get a drink
like we usually do.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
It just wasn't with the rest of the group. It
was just her.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
You gotta you gotta know, like how that looks Lewis
like Parley sends me a ticket.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Shure, It's just YouTube Like that's that's a date.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
That feels like a date, especially if you don't know
about it, right Rose, if you don't even know, Hey,
how many people showed up some at the coffee shop,
I'll be home in twenty That's one thing. But to
not share it at all.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
I'm shocked at you.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
See, I'm shocked you feel that way Rich, because I
feel like usually you would be like Hey, like he
went to do his hiking, he did what was normal. Hey,
it's all right to not check until after, but like
me on that, and like I would be livid, Like yeah,
it might be innocent, but at least shoot me a
text and let me know what's going on so I'm
not caught off guard.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Yeah, the optics not good, but I can feel for
the guy because then let's say that girl is completely
uninterested in him and she's like, you don't want to hike? Now,
what do you mean? Like, I'm married to have kids,
Like what do you Why can't we go hike together?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Do you stop and you call your wife and you
let her know what's about.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
To go down to? The wife says, no, you go,
my wife won't let me hike. Yeah. Yeah, that date.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
He even said, that's not a date.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
And you said, you know what I mean, that's not it.
The man says, it's not a date.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
You know.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
Hey, Okay, okay, let me defend this. Let me defend
my position for you. Okay. So he wasn't cheating, he
wasn't having an affair. But if you're doing something you
don't feel comfortable about telling the other person about because
you think they're gonna have a problem with it. That's shady,
and that's all I was saying.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Well, I start a fight when they shouldn't be one
in the first place.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
Then are you in a long term relationship, Carlos, because
I don't think that's going to work for you.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I know I've been married for what twenty four years?
And you just don't tell your wife stuff she asked
you didn't need to know? Oh, heck no, I tell
her everything. You see, that's why you're married. I tell
her everything. She knows everything about me. I don't care
I tell her.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
But you're saying, Carlos, that the guy made up. He
was in a weird situation. He made a decision as
a bad decision. He was like, oh, but it was innocent,
And you're like, why is it rich getting his back
or seeing his side of the story.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Is that what you're saying? Correct? Correct?
Speaker 4 (02:32):
Well, I think what he's asking once he gets on
is he didn't see what the big deal was. And
I was trying to say, if she thinks it's a
big deal that you didn't tell her, you should tell her.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
But then again, though, as as a guy to a guy,
she'd like you know what, I have my guy's back regardless,
because all the women always have their back.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Listen. I try to just call balls and strikes as
I see him. That's it. So and he wasn't right.
He wasn't right.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Okay, you gotta do what you got to do it
and I understand that and I respected.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
All right, Carlos, thanks for listening. I have a great day, dude. Okay.
You know what, just remind me.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Of something happened another time on our show recently. We
had this conversation about being a good friend, right, and
Richie said, you'd lie on the stand.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
I know I didn't say that. I'm trying to remember
what you say.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
You were saying, what would be a rider or die friend?
And I said, would you go vote so far as
to lie for somebody in court?
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Right?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
And you said would that be right or die?
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Right?
Speaker 1 (03:30):
And you said you would for certain people? Sure? Okay,
so for you right?
Speaker 2 (03:33):
So if your writer died, was in that situation that
we were in for War of the Roses, you back
them up? Then hmmm, you wouldn't. But if you'll lie
on the stand where you can go to jail, if
you understand, Yeah, I don't know. I don't know if
the stakes are as high. I don't think i'd be
anybody's alibi for their for their wife or girlfriend. I
haven't ever before, you know, Like, did I say that
(03:55):
I was at your place?
Speaker 1 (03:56):
No, but I'll lie for you that you committed murder
on stand? Yeah, I'm saying that would be a yeah, right?
Did they have it coming? What I'm trying to understand,
you follow me? I know I do follow you. It's
not consistent, Well, it isn't. Your relationship with people isn't consistent. Right.
(04:16):
Some people are not your ride and die, so you
wouldn't do that, right.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
So, but if your ride or die was was on trial,
you would lie for them, you said, I'm just saying
the ride or die was in a situation with this,
this the situation war of the roses, you would not
lie for them.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Okay, Well that's two totally different things, but the same
person in two different no no, no.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
So one of them is a guy who doesn't understand
why his wife's pissed off. And I'm saying it's because
you were doing something all day, a hike in a
lunch with a woman that she didn't know about, and
you didn't tell her about. So if you're wondering why
she's pissed, that's why she's pissed. So rich.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
What you're saying is that the reason you didn't defend
the guy that went on the hike is.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Because that's not your ride or dies.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
She's asking what the problem is. I'm telling them what
the problem is.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Now.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Another thing you said, what would be something that a
writer or die would do? When I say lie for
somebody in court, that would be a pretty extreme example.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
I would probably do it.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
For everybody in here, and not many of them unless
you're one of my grade school people, are maybe a cousin.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
I would probably lie for you.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Guys, to you would I probably stand.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
If you go to jail, it depends what you merger
the court.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
It depends what you did.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
It's situational whatever you do. What is there a situation
you could lie in court about? That's okay?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
You like like, I don't think you could lie in
court no matter what the situation is.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
I couldn't do that.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
I feel like, sometimes, yes, go ahead.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
I'm not gonna just go bring it. Oh my gosh,
what are we about to hear it?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Though?
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Just bring it? I'm not doing it.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
No, I just feel like some sometimes in the court
of laws, sometimes the law needs to be broken every
now and then.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
That's right, it's fine sometimes not justifying murder.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
But you know something sometimes like if you're if like Kyle,
like let's say had an altercation and you were on
her side. She's like, I need you to say that
I was at your house. I would, right, Like, if.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
You and Kyle are out at the bars and these
girls come and they try to jump us, and me
and Kyle are out of the car, and me and her,
we might have to conspiracy theory between the two of
us to make sure we got our story straight.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Right, Okay, that's second, that's a move.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
I would do that for her, okay, in court, in court, okay,
all right, all right, very good.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Well there you get. I think you have it there.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I don't know if what I was trying to say
made it through, but it doesn't matter.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Try it with Tragy. All right, there you go. It's
John jen Rich. Thanks Carlos,
John J. Richwood Up, Carlos, what up?
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Man?
Speaker 1 (00:02):
How are you good? What's going on?
Speaker 3 (00:04):
What is up with rich being a woman so much
and not getting the guy's back? Now?
Speaker 1 (00:09):
What what are you talking about? When I was hearing
the the segment right now, and all you kept on
doing is having her side and not having the guys side.
And I'm like, dude, really, you mean.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
The guy who went on a date and didn't tell
his wife where he was and you want me to
get him, you want to get his back.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
We went to the coffee shop to get a drink
like we usually do.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
It just wasn't with the rest of the group. It
was just her.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
You gotta you gotta know, like how that looks Lewis
like Parley sends me a ticket.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Shure, It's just YouTube Like that's that's a date.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
That feels like a date, especially if you don't know
about it, right Rose, if you don't even know, Hey,
how many people showed up some at the coffee shop,
I'll be home in twenty That's one thing. But to
not share it at all.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
I'm shocked at you.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
See, I'm shocked you feel that way Rich, because I
feel like usually you would be like Hey, like he
went to do his hiking, he did what was normal. Hey,
it's all right to not check until after, but like
me on that, and like I would be livid, Like yeah,
it might be innocent, but at least shoot me a
text and let me know what's going on so I'm
not caught off guard.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Yeah, the optics not good, but I can feel for
the guy because then let's say that girl is completely
uninterested in him and she's like, you don't want to hike? Now,
what do you mean? Like, I'm married to have kids,
Like what do you Why can't we go hike together?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Do you stop and you call your wife and you
let her know what's about.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
To go down to? The wife says, no, you go,
my wife won't let me hike. Yeah. Yeah, that date.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
He even said, that's not a date.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
And you said, you know what I mean, that's not it.
The man says, it's not a date.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
You know.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
Hey, Okay, okay, let me defend this. Let me defend
my position for you. Okay. So he wasn't cheating, he
wasn't having an affair. But if you're doing something you
don't feel comfortable about telling the other person about because
you think they're gonna have a problem with it. That's shady,
and that's all I was saying.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Well, I start a fight when they shouldn't be one
in the first place.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
Then are you in a long term relationship, Carlos, because
I don't think that's going to work for you.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I know I've been married for what twenty four years?
And you just don't tell your wife stuff she asked
you didn't need to know? Oh, heck no, I tell
her everything. You see, that's why you're married. I tell
her everything. She knows everything about me. I don't care
I tell her.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
But you're saying, Carlos, that the guy made up. He
was in a weird situation. He made a decision as
a bad decision. He was like, oh, but it was innocent,
And you're like, why is it rich getting his back
or seeing his side of the story.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Is that what you're saying? Correct? Correct?
Speaker 4 (02:32):
Well, I think what he's asking once he gets on
is he didn't see what the big deal was. And
I was trying to say, if she thinks it's a
big deal that you didn't tell her, you should tell her.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
But then again, though, as as a guy to a guy,
she'd like you know what, I have my guy's back regardless,
because all the women always have their back.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Listen. I try to just call balls and strikes as
I see him. That's it. So and he wasn't right.
He wasn't right.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Okay, you gotta do what you got to do it
and I understand that and I respected.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
All right, Carlos, thanks for listening. I have a great day, dude. Okay.
You know what, just remind me.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Of something happened another time on our show recently. We
had this conversation about being a good friend, right, and
Richie said, you'd lie on the stand.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
I know I didn't say that. I'm trying to remember
what you say.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
You were saying, what would be a rider or die friend?
And I said, would you go vote so far as
to lie for somebody in court?
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Right?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
And you said would that be right or die?
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Right?
Speaker 1 (03:30):
And you said you would for certain people? Sure? Okay,
so for you right?
Speaker 2 (03:33):
So if your writer died, was in that situation that
we were in for War of the Roses, you back
them up? Then hmmm, you wouldn't. But if you'll lie
on the stand where you can go to jail, if
you understand, Yeah, I don't know. I don't know if
the stakes are as high. I don't think i'd be
anybody's alibi for their for their wife or girlfriend. I
haven't ever before, you know, Like, did I say that
(03:55):
I was at your place?
Speaker 1 (03:56):
No, but I'll lie for you that you committed murder
on stand? Yeah, I'm saying that would be a yeah, right?
Did they have it coming? What I'm trying to understand,
you follow me? I know I do follow you. It's
not consistent, Well, it isn't. Your relationship with people isn't consistent. Right.
(04:16):
Some people are not your ride and die, so you
wouldn't do that, right.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
So, but if your ride or die was was on trial,
you would lie for them, you said, I'm just saying
the ride or die was in a situation with this,
this the situation war of the roses, you would not
lie for them.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Okay, Well that's two totally different things, but the same
person in two different no no, no.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
So one of them is a guy who doesn't understand
why his wife's pissed off. And I'm saying it's because
you were doing something all day, a hike in a
lunch with a woman that she didn't know about, and
you didn't tell her about. So if you're wondering why
she's pissed, that's why she's pissed. So rich.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
What you're saying is that the reason you didn't defend
the guy that went on the hike is.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Because that's not your ride or dies.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
She's asking what the problem is. I'm telling them what
the problem is.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Now.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Another thing you said, what would be something that a
writer or die would do? When I say lie for
somebody in court, that would be a pretty extreme example.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
I would probably do it.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
For everybody in here, and not many of them unless
you're one of my grade school people, are maybe a cousin.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
I would probably lie for you.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Guys, to you would I probably stand.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
If you go to jail, it depends what you merger
the court.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
It depends what you did.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
It's situational whatever you do. What is there a situation
you could lie in court about? That's okay?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
You like like, I don't think you could lie in
court no matter what the situation is.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
I couldn't do that.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
I feel like, sometimes, yes, go ahead.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
I'm not gonna just go bring it. Oh my gosh,
what are we about to hear it?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Though?
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Just bring it? I'm not doing it.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
No, I just feel like some sometimes in the court
of laws, sometimes the law needs to be broken every
now and then.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
That's right, it's fine sometimes not justifying murder.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
But you know something sometimes like if you're if like Kyle,
like let's say had an altercation and you were on
her side. She's like, I need you to say that
I was at your house. I would, right, Like, if.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
You and Kyle are out at the bars and these
girls come and they try to jump us, and me
and Kyle are out of the car, and me and her,
we might have to conspiracy theory between the two of
us to make sure we got our story straight.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Right, Okay, that's second, that's a move.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
I would do that for her, okay, in court, in court, okay,
all right, all right, very good.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Well there you get. I think you have it there.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I don't know if what I was trying to say
made it through, but it doesn't matter.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Try it with Tragy. All right, there you go. It's
John jen Rich. Thanks Carlos,
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