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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Wait you as boom John Jay and Rich what's cracking like?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
And this is the Big Boss does snoopy diagle.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Double gigsel dang boom?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
What you don't.
Speaker 4 (00:13):
We're not talking about Rid and ten team, We're not.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Talking about last year. It's the one and only.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Does the last days lastly big snoop eagle double jiggle
in your face to me and in the place to
be And.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
You're listening to John Jay and Rich wakes John J.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Rich our phone number eight seven seven nine three seven
one oh four seven. The text line you text jj
R whatever's on your mind in nine six eight ninety three.
It's Monday, you guys, yayay, Hey, Nick, what's up? You're
on the air. What was your text about?
Speaker 4 (00:40):
My text was one of my friends. Uh, she she's
Mormon and she met a guy and I told her.
I was like, man, I'm telling you this guy he's
he's definitely gay. And she's like, no, he's not, No,
he's not. She's like, yeah, we're actually gonna go get
hit married in the Mormon temple. And so they went
(01:00):
through this whole process of uh, you know, doing all
their meetings and stuff to be able to be married
in the temple and they went and got married, and
then shortly later she ended up getting pregnant and he
just totally just was ignoring her, showing no affection, not
touching her, And she was looking through his computer and
found an email from another man, and she confronted him
(01:25):
and turns out he was gay, and so he ended
up ended up believing her, And yeah, so we we
I'm pretty sure he just did that just so that
he could have a child and tricked her.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
That's so unfortunate because there's so many people that are
willing to like have children for him, a couple specifically,
and it's like, why go that length to like ruin
a relationship someone hard as he also might have been
a guy struggling.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
We were twenty one at the time, so I mean,
and this was back and this was back in two thousand,
In two thousand and two thousand and one, it was
it wasn't really like, oh, yeah, I'm gonna come out
and yeah, so you'll find someone to have a kid with.
That wasn't really a thing back in those.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Days, right, right, But I still think that you just
if you watched the show I was just talking about
called Boots on Netflix. The guy's struggling. He's eighteen years
old and he's struggling with being gay. Hasn't totally only
told one person, so you don't know what this guy
was going through. But now, what about since then? Has
he been a great dad to this kid and his
life is great?
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:28):
I mean he's I mean he's he's been in a picture. Yeah,
so you know that's the you know, the visitations. I mean,
obviously the kid's grown up now. So yeah, he has
a good relationship with his dad and Okay, that's good.
Ok his stepdad and his mom and so everything ended
up working out. But yeah, it was just a sad
situation to watch her go through because she was like
my best friend. Yeah cool, Yeah, she was in my wedding,
so it was a yeah, it was a pretty pretty
(02:49):
traumatic event for her.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
All right, Nick, Well, thanks for calling in man.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
Have a great day you too.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
Rich.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
What's going on with you and your wonderful wife Stacy Barraw?
Speaker 3 (02:58):
My wife, who I refer to is a whirling dervish
all the time because she's running around me like she's
like moving like a Tasmanian devil through our She just
leaves things places, She just she's so organized with the
things that are inside her mind. She's the most brilliant
person I know, but outside of her as chaos. And
all of our friends will tell you this too. In fact,
(03:20):
she tells me that her friend's delight when they're around
and talking about how unorganized she is when they're doing
projects together, as far as like the things outside of
her world. So on Friday, we try to have our
date night and we go to dinner, and we are
in Tucson, and we kind of go early because she's
got an early morning the next morning. So we eat
early and we leave the restaurant and her phone starts ringing.
(03:42):
She's like, it's the restaurant. Why are they calling me?
We already eight there. I'm not going to take that call.
So we're driving back to Feenix and the restaurant keeps
calling her. She's like, I wonder if they think that
we're late for our reservation. We got there at five,
a reservation was at six. I don't know why they're
calling me. We clearly ate there. Everything's fine. Well, anyway,
(04:03):
she picks up the phone and it turns out she
left her purse there. She put it on the floor
and then she's mad at me. She's like, well, you
handed me the doggie bag with the carrot cake, and
that is about the same size as my purse. So
I thought that.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
The door didn't feel the void of not I get that,
actually I.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
Do, so, Like, why is it my fault?
Speaker 5 (04:28):
It's always the man?
Speaker 2 (04:29):
How far?
Speaker 1 (04:30):
How far away were you? Like, I mean that's like
probably an hour and a half.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Well, we were on the far east side of town.
We were at that flying v way over on the
east side, so we were on the highway. We were
back so good, probably almost an hour. Security you called her,
so we had to go back and get it, and
she was not happy with me the whole time, Like
you have carrot cake. It's delicious, you should enjoy it.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
And you can't not go back.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
I mean you have to go.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
It's not like you forgot the doggy bag. You can Okay,
we'll leave that there.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Yeah, it was even like one of those tables where
it was small enough you could really put it on
a chair next to you. You have to you kind
of have to put it on the floor. Yeah, So
we just walked out and I didn't notice. So now
it's my job to notice things. So now when I
point stuff out, she's like, mm hmm, I know. I said,
do you realize that there are three curling irons on
the floor next to the mirror, along with two different brushes.
(05:22):
It's like, yeah, today's I gotta do my hair today.
I'm just getting ready. I'm like, well, you asked me
to point that out. She's like, yeah, I want you
to point out when I forget something. But if I
see it's on the floor, then I know it's on
the floor. So I really know what my job is here.
I just am pretty sure it's going to be on me.
But I mean it's part of the joy of being
with a brilliant person like that. I've accepted it now.
(05:42):
I accept that probably I would say six times a
day she loses the phone in the house that she
was just on, Like, you do that too, right, Kyle,
I do.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Don't do that literally, It's like, that's one of the
main reasons I share my location with Scott. Yeah, because
I'm make him, hey, where's my phone?
Speaker 3 (05:58):
That's exactly what I do. I'm like, I just looked
at it. It's right, it's right. It's literally right next
to you on the kitchen table. Underneath all your papers.
Just move your papers, so.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
It's not just moving your papers. Sometimes they just disappeared.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Who took my And she always accuses people of stealing
her stuff. Somebody stole my phone. I'm like, nobody's here,
nobody's stealing your phone.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Oh I just straight up at you, Scott, did you
take my phone?
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Relationships? Uh, if you can relate text us, text JJR
and whatever your relationship story is to ninety six eight
ninety three
Wait you as boom John Jay and Rich what's cracking like?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
And this is the Big Boss does snoopy diagle.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Double gigsel dang boom?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
What you don't.
Speaker 4 (00:13):
We're not talking about Rid and ten team, We're not.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Talking about last year. It's the one and only.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Does the last days lastly big snoop eagle double jiggle
in your face to me and in the place to
be And.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
You're listening to John Jay and Rich wakes John J.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Rich our phone number eight seven seven nine three seven
one oh four seven. The text line you text jj
R whatever's on your mind in nine six eight ninety three.
It's Monday, you guys, yayay, Hey, Nick, what's up? You're
on the air. What was your text about?
Speaker 4 (00:40):
My text was one of my friends. Uh, she she's
Mormon and she met a guy and I told her.
I was like, man, I'm telling you this guy he's
he's definitely gay. And she's like, no, he's not, No,
he's not. She's like, yeah, we're actually gonna go get
hit married in the Mormon temple. And so they went
(01:00):
through this whole process of uh, you know, doing all
their meetings and stuff to be able to be married
in the temple and they went and got married, and
then shortly later she ended up getting pregnant and he
just totally just was ignoring her, showing no affection, not
touching her, And she was looking through his computer and
found an email from another man, and she confronted him
(01:25):
and turns out he was gay, and so he ended
up ended up believing her, And yeah, so we we
I'm pretty sure he just did that just so that
he could have a child and tricked her.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
That's so unfortunate because there's so many people that are
willing to like have children for him, a couple specifically,
and it's like, why go that length to like ruin
a relationship someone hard as he also might have been
a guy struggling.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
We were twenty one at the time, so I mean,
and this was back and this was back in two thousand,
In two thousand and two thousand and one, it was
it wasn't really like, oh, yeah, I'm gonna come out
and yeah, so you'll find someone to have a kid with.
That wasn't really a thing back in those.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Days, right, right, But I still think that you just
if you watched the show I was just talking about
called Boots on Netflix. The guy's struggling. He's eighteen years
old and he's struggling with being gay. Hasn't totally only
told one person, so you don't know what this guy
was going through. But now, what about since then? Has
he been a great dad to this kid and his
life is great?
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:28):
I mean he's I mean he's he's been in a picture. Yeah,
so you know that's the you know, the visitations. I mean,
obviously the kid's grown up now. So yeah, he has
a good relationship with his dad and Okay, that's good.
Ok his stepdad and his mom and so everything ended
up working out. But yeah, it was just a sad
situation to watch her go through because she was like
my best friend. Yeah cool, Yeah, she was in my wedding,
so it was a yeah, it was a pretty pretty
(02:49):
traumatic event for her.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
All right, Nick, Well, thanks for calling in man.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
Have a great day you too.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
Rich.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
What's going on with you and your wonderful wife Stacy Barraw?
Speaker 3 (02:58):
My wife, who I refer to is a whirling dervish
all the time because she's running around me like she's
like moving like a Tasmanian devil through our She just
leaves things places, She just she's so organized with the
things that are inside her mind. She's the most brilliant
person I know, but outside of her as chaos. And
all of our friends will tell you this too. In fact,
(03:20):
she tells me that her friend's delight when they're around
and talking about how unorganized she is when they're doing
projects together, as far as like the things outside of
her world. So on Friday, we try to have our
date night and we go to dinner, and we are
in Tucson, and we kind of go early because she's
got an early morning the next morning. So we eat
early and we leave the restaurant and her phone starts ringing.
(03:42):
She's like, it's the restaurant. Why are they calling me?
We already eight there. I'm not going to take that call.
So we're driving back to Feenix and the restaurant keeps
calling her. She's like, I wonder if they think that
we're late for our reservation. We got there at five,
a reservation was at six. I don't know why they're
calling me. We clearly ate there. Everything's fine. Well, anyway,
(04:03):
she picks up the phone and it turns out she
left her purse there. She put it on the floor
and then she's mad at me. She's like, well, you
handed me the doggie bag with the carrot cake, and
that is about the same size as my purse. So
I thought that.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
The door didn't feel the void of not I get that,
actually I.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
Do, so, Like, why is it my fault?
Speaker 5 (04:28):
It's always the man?
Speaker 2 (04:29):
How far?
Speaker 1 (04:30):
How far away were you? Like, I mean that's like
probably an hour and a half.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Well, we were on the far east side of town.
We were at that flying v way over on the
east side, so we were on the highway. We were
back so good, probably almost an hour. Security you called her,
so we had to go back and get it, and
she was not happy with me the whole time, Like
you have carrot cake. It's delicious, you should enjoy it.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
And you can't not go back.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
I mean you have to go.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
It's not like you forgot the doggy bag. You can Okay,
we'll leave that there.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Yeah, it was even like one of those tables where
it was small enough you could really put it on
a chair next to you. You have to you kind
of have to put it on the floor. Yeah, So
we just walked out and I didn't notice. So now
it's my job to notice things. So now when I
point stuff out, she's like, mm hmm, I know. I said,
do you realize that there are three curling irons on
the floor next to the mirror, along with two different brushes.
(05:22):
It's like, yeah, today's I gotta do my hair today.
I'm just getting ready. I'm like, well, you asked me
to point that out. She's like, yeah, I want you
to point out when I forget something. But if I
see it's on the floor, then I know it's on
the floor. So I really know what my job is here.
I just am pretty sure it's going to be on me.
But I mean it's part of the joy of being
with a brilliant person like that. I've accepted it now.
(05:42):
I accept that probably I would say six times a
day she loses the phone in the house that she
was just on, Like, you do that too, right, Kyle,
I do.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Don't do that literally, It's like, that's one of the
main reasons I share my location with Scott. Yeah, because
I'm make him, hey, where's my phone?
Speaker 3 (05:58):
That's exactly what I do. I'm like, I just looked
at it. It's right, it's right. It's literally right next
to you on the kitchen table. Underneath all your papers.
Just move your papers, so.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
It's not just moving your papers. Sometimes they just disappeared.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Who took my And she always accuses people of stealing
her stuff. Somebody stole my phone. I'm like, nobody's here,
nobody's stealing your phone.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Oh I just straight up at you, Scott, did you
take my phone?
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Relationships? Uh, if you can relate text us, text JJR
and whatever your relationship story is to ninety six eight
ninety three
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