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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Good morning, Evy.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Hey, how are you.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
What's going on with you? A long time? They'll talk.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Yeah, I need some help.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Okay, that's kind of our thing right now. We've been
helping people with stuff. What do you need?
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (00:14):
So my friend group's been tight since college. We do everything,
you know, we travel together, celebrate everything together. We're we're
just still very close and I'm grateful for that. But anyway,
one of the girls just got engaged and we were
all helping her plan this cute little engagement party at
her house. So the day before the party, I stopped
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by their house to drop off decorations and her fiance
was there alone and shirtless, cleaning the kitchen. So, I mean,
totally normal until I realized that he wasn't cleaning. He
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it was on FaceTime with one of our other friends,
like not just chatting, like full flirting mode, shirtless, and
this is the day before their party. It was crazy.
He didn't see me, so I quietly left and texted
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her best friend to figure out what to do, And
by the time I got home, the group chat was
literally blowing up. And it turns out that he's been
secretly hooking up with her maid of honor. Oh yeah,
so now half the group is pretending that nothing happened,
and the other half wants to tell her before the wedding.
And I'm sitting here sort of holding this information that
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could literally blow up the entire friend group to pieces
and my friend's you know, future marriage.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
Well, there's a lot of people in this story, so
forgive me if I say something it was obvious. But
is the maid of honor also in the group chat
in the friend chat? Yeah, so there's this whole friend
chat going on. How many people are in the friend chat?
Speaker 2 (02:07):
There's like nine of us.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
I think somehow somebody would.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Eat like everyone except the bride.
Speaker 5 (02:12):
But yeah, that makes sense if you're planning a wedding.
I'm sure my bride's maids all have a group.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
But if there's nine people chatting and you find out
that one of the people in the chat is baying,
you would.
Speaker 5 (02:21):
Think somebody would go and tell them all.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
Say, every single one of those nine, except for the
friend that's banging the fiance, are all in the same situation,
like how do we tell her?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
What do we do?
Speaker 4 (02:30):
This is about to blow everything up? Everything life as
you know it as a friend group. It's over after
this goes out, because people are going to pick sides
and it's gonna be so messy.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
You gotta make two.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Friends right now already, like people are getting really mad
at the maid of honor, and you know she's trying,
of course to tell us, like it's never going to
happen again. Don't say anything to the bride. You know,
it was a mistake.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
And she confessed to that it wasn't like their love Like,
it's not that it was like a time thing, two
time thing, ten time things.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Apparently if we believe her and believe them when he's
doing that the day before their engagement party, is she like.
Speaker 6 (03:10):
Pleading to the lesser charge like it was a one
time thing?
Speaker 7 (03:13):
Right?
Speaker 5 (03:14):
But then okay, so it's a one time thing, but
you're on face time with him the day before his
engagement party, y'alls are flirting and up, it was probably
gonna happen again. It just was a one time thing.
Because you guys caught her after it was a one
time thing.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
And he was cleaning with his shirt off. How dare
what he was doing? How was he flirting?
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Like?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
What was he doing? Yeah? Like, what's sexy about the kitchen?
I don't think i'd be in the kitchen, like what
was he doing, like doing the dishes And did you
just catch them after something happened or did you catch
them before? Like I would assume things were going to happen.
I want to get with you, but this sink's not
going to clean itself.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Yeah, I don't even really want to think about it.
I mean, I was like this innocent guystander I listen,
like I just want to look out for my friend
and I don't know what to do. She's about to
marry this guy.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
I feel kind of like like there's almost like a
power numbers, you know what I mean, Like if just
one of you doesn't tell her, I don't know, I
think that could be turned into something huge. But if
you're all there, then it's like maybe she feels more supported.
That's a really good idea, Kyle, Like, I mean, everyone
except for the maid of honor, unless the maid of
honor wants to try to make it better and like
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come clean.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Have you guys thought about that?
Speaker 7 (04:20):
Now?
Speaker 6 (04:20):
You should tell her what happened, like put it on
her to come clean.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Well, it's so difficult because it really seems like half
of us don't want to do that and the other
half of us do and so it's like, I feel like,
I don't know. I guess if I if I want
to say something, then yeah, yeah, that's good advice to
like maybe find even a couple other girls that were
willing to kind of approach her about it together.
Speaker 5 (04:44):
But I don't know.
Speaker 8 (04:45):
I mean, it's so.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
You don't want to get in other people's business, but
this isn't like a random goal that he's. This is
our other friend that he's that they're doing this.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Well, it's also the honor. So that's that's the closest
for it. That's why that's wild.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Before terrible, And I just don't want to break her heart.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
You know.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
But at the same time, they're like, is she going
to find out she shouldn't be marrying this guy?
Speaker 6 (05:10):
Yeah, well she's going to tell you that. At some point.
She's gonna be like, why didn't you guys tell me?
Speaker 5 (05:15):
That's what I'm saying. If I would have married someone
and all my friends knew and they didn't tell me
before I went through with it, I would be livid.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
You would want to think if they tell the bride,
if they tell the bride that they that she won't
be made of honor anymore.
Speaker 7 (05:27):
Yeah, I think.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
She'd be like, that's it. You're just in the wedding party.
Somebody else likes you're my maid of honor.
Speaker 6 (05:36):
It is kind of true, though, whenever you're the the
the person who brings the bad news, even though it's
not your fault, at some point you lose that friendship
because they're embarrassed by it or whatever whatever feelings they have.
So if you if you ever deliver the bad news,
you're going to be kind of out for the rest
of your life.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
That's why I feel if you do it with other
like with your other girlfriends, it's not it's not number one,
it's not all on you. And then also it's not
like it's like, oh, wow, everyone knows.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
You needed some sort of proof because be in denial.
That's not true.
Speaker 5 (06:07):
But if the girl admitted it, then is now the
group chat right or she is in the group chat
asking us not to tell you.
Speaker 6 (06:16):
It's kind of like, if you're the bride, you want
you kind of want the information and maybe she will
still marry him. Maybe she'll be like, hey, listen, you
gotta you know whatever it is.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Yeah, And I think I mean when you're telling her,
you can be delicate about it, like, hey, however you
want to deal with this, we have your back, not
like oh, you can never speak to you again. It's
like demanding she do something about it is not really
the right way to go. But just being there to
support her through what's going to be a really tough
time for her, I think it's the best way to go.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Evie. We're going to go to the phones and get
advice for you, even though I think we hit every
option possible. Unless someone's been through this before. Ooh, if
you've been through this before and you know of a
maid of honor sleeping with the groom, Wow, that's so crazy.
That's so crazy is to think about it. But anyway,
call us at eight seven seven nine three seven one
to four seven, or text us text JJR and your
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story to nine six eight niney three. Evie, thanks for
calling in.
Speaker 8 (07:09):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
I appreciate the help and buy that's.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
A tough one, all right, hold on the line. Thank
you was a ghost. Less than an hour from now,
we'll probably play a minute to win it for a
thousand dollars thirty minutes from now. Kate McCrae tickets right now, though,
(07:32):
everyone's kind about the evy situation. Ooh, and I hit
two buttons at one time. Oh, marcella high.
Speaker 8 (07:39):
Hi guys, good morning.
Speaker 7 (07:41):
Hello, Hi, you're on the air.
Speaker 8 (07:42):
Sorry, can you hear me?
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Yeah? I hit two buttons. I screwed things up on
the air. Are they I think so? Are both are
hear me? No, there's only one person on there because
I hit whatever. Hold on second, hold on, hold on
one second, be right there, okay, go ahead.
Speaker 7 (08:00):
Sorry, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 8 (08:02):
Can you hear me?
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (08:05):
Okay.
Speaker 8 (08:05):
I am driving to work, and I heard this conversation
with the bridesmaid and the guy getting caught in the
kitchen cleaning up the kitchen. By the way, I love you, guys,
and I am enraged by this conversation that this girl
is having missed you. Her group friends are contemplating whether
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they should come clean or not. Absolutely not if I
had a friend or even multiple friends like that, but
are trying to keep me from walking the from not
from telling me the truth. That is beast manature friends.
They should definitely come clean and let this girl know
to not marry this guy. This is ridiculous. Women need
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to come together, empower women another, love each other, not
throw her into the lions. Dennis say, here you go.
I didn't want to be they're a bad news marrying
a cheater. Yeah, absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
There's a text here that says, give me the bride's number.
I'll tell her right now. If nobody tells her. She
has no real friends. That's what the text says. That's
pretty good.
Speaker 8 (09:10):
Yeah, well, you know, I am with the other girl.
I am so sorry, and my heart goes out to her.
But if she has a group of friends like that,
absolutely much, and then a Beyonce like that, she's much
better than that girlfriend. No, you deserve a man that
loves you that.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
Okay, Okay, made sell And thank you for calling in.
Thank you Justice. Good morning, Hi, good morning, Hi, you're
in the air.
Speaker 9 (09:41):
Hi. I was calling about the bridesmaid and the Beyonce situation.
And I've been in situations like that before they weren't
technically getting married, but where I've had to tell very
close friends of mine about their boyfriends cheating on them.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
And in my.
Speaker 10 (10:03):
Opinion, it's always better to tell your friend the truth.
If you're a true, honest friend, you will always tell
your friends the truth. Even even if it's something that
hurts them, and anyone that is debating on not telling
her is not a true friend, especially when it's someone
she's about to marry, like she has every right to
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know the truth because marriage is something you spend your
life with someone and you don't want that coming out
later on and questioning everything in between.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
Very good justice, Thank you for listening, Thanks for your passion. Mandy,
good morning, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 3 (10:43):
During Yeah, I couldn't agree more with everyone else with cling.
I mean, I don't even understand why it's up for
debate to be honest, I mean, to even call in
and ask for advice. It's like, I think the obvious thing,
it's obvious, what's the right thing to do is And
to allow the girl responsible for this to stand next
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to her and while she says I do, would just
be so immoral, and I don't understand why they would
even debate that.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
It's a good point, Mandy, good point. Let me ask
you this so many many years ago, right out of college,
I had a friend, it was kind of a it
was kind of a friend, and he had a girlfriend
and we were at a club one time and I
saw the girlfriend make it out with another dude. So
I told my friend, right, I think that's that's what
we're talking about here. Yeah, I told my friend that
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guy is no longer my friend. Yeah, and the woman
lives on my street now, no, she does what are
the chants?
Speaker 3 (11:39):
I know?
Speaker 1 (11:39):
And she's married to somebody else that there's always always uncomfortable,
never around them.
Speaker 6 (11:42):
Yeah, I've said something like that, like if you are
the bearer of bad news, a lot of times you
get cut out no matter what happens. That's happened to
a lot of us where you're like, hey, something's going on. Well,
then they're embarrassed by and they don't want to talk
to you again. You know, Yeah, it happens, but you're
still doing the right thing. Let them decide where the
relationship goes.
Speaker 7 (11:58):
Hi, Laurie Hate Hi there. I'm just calling regarding the
bridesmaid and the fiance getting married. I honestly, the bridesmaid
is obviously not a true friend because you would tell
her and like I said before, wants a cheater, always
a cheater. And if she gets upset about that and
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wants to continue and go through with the marriage, then
she's got to find out down the road this guy
is a cheater and he's gonna cheat.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Again, all right, Laurie, thank you. Another time I had
this friend of mine. He was living with a girl engaged,
and next door to their house was some a young
a young guy about nineteen twenty, and he would climb
over the fence and sleep with her when the husband
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was gone.
Speaker 5 (12:48):
With the first I know, I'm over the fence.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Yeah, because they shared a backyard. And the kid who
was doing that is the one who told me like
I knew, and he was telling me everything out. But
the guy, the husband, the fiance, was my friend. I
decided not to say a word. No right, so I
just kept it quiet. Sure enough, they broke up, the
kid moved. I don't know where he is now, I
don't know where the woman is now. And the guys
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no longer my friend. Yeah, so uh, it's win win
for me in all these situations. Yeah, I don't know,
less friends, less friends, the better is what I say.
So there's that. So anyway, what's coming up with? Oh no,
we're going to do some entertainment news and then we
can do we can do a minute to win it
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into entertainment news. Let's do that, all right, so call
eight seven seven ninety three seven one o four seven
to play minute to win it. And then the entertainment
news we got coming up as well, is there anything
any anything big coming in there in him the world?
Speaker 5 (13:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (13:45):
Two, Charlie's having some drama and then uh, I think
there's some big Kim Kardashian things happening.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Well good, Hey, Ashley, what's up you're on the air?
Speaker 11 (13:57):
Hi? Sorry, I'm driving second barely here. My suggestion is
that the bridesmaid actually goes to the room and gives
them ultimatum like either you tell her or I will't,
and that way it puts it on him and then
and then see where it goes from there, give them
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the opportunity to do the right thing, and that way,
you know, that's where I'm at.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
Somebody said, have them all played? Never have I ever
at a bachelotte party? And then everyone stare at her
if she's as she lies, and then say, really, all
have love
Good morning, Evy.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Hey, how are you.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
What's going on with you? A long time? They'll talk.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Yeah, I need some help.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Okay, that's kind of our thing right now. We've been
helping people with stuff. What do you need?
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (00:14):
So my friend group's been tight since college. We do everything,
you know, we travel together, celebrate everything together. We're we're
just still very close and I'm grateful for that. But anyway,
one of the girls just got engaged and we were
all helping her plan this cute little engagement party at
her house. So the day before the party, I stopped
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by their house to drop off decorations and her fiance
was there alone and shirtless, cleaning the kitchen. So, I mean,
totally normal until I realized that he wasn't cleaning. He
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it was on FaceTime with one of our other friends,
like not just chatting, like full flirting mode, shirtless, and
this is the day before their party. It was crazy.
He didn't see me, so I quietly left and texted
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her best friend to figure out what to do, And
by the time I got home, the group chat was
literally blowing up. And it turns out that he's been
secretly hooking up with her maid of honor. Oh yeah,
so now half the group is pretending that nothing happened,
and the other half wants to tell her before the wedding.
And I'm sitting here sort of holding this information that
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could literally blow up the entire friend group to pieces
and my friend's you know, future marriage.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
Well, there's a lot of people in this story, so
forgive me if I say something it was obvious. But
is the maid of honor also in the group chat
in the friend chat? Yeah, so there's this whole friend
chat going on. How many people are in the friend chat?
Speaker 2 (02:07):
There's like nine of us.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
I think somehow somebody would.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Eat like everyone except the bride.
Speaker 5 (02:12):
But yeah, that makes sense if you're planning a wedding.
I'm sure my bride's maids all have a group.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
But if there's nine people chatting and you find out
that one of the people in the chat is baying,
you would.
Speaker 5 (02:21):
Think somebody would go and tell them all.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
Say, every single one of those nine, except for the
friend that's banging the fiance, are all in the same situation,
like how do we tell her?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
What do we do?
Speaker 4 (02:30):
This is about to blow everything up? Everything life as
you know it as a friend group. It's over after
this goes out, because people are going to pick sides
and it's gonna be so messy.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
You gotta make two.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Friends right now already, like people are getting really mad
at the maid of honor, and you know she's trying,
of course to tell us, like it's never going to
happen again. Don't say anything to the bride. You know,
it was a mistake.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
And she confessed to that it wasn't like their love Like,
it's not that it was like a time thing, two
time thing, ten time things.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Apparently if we believe her and believe them when he's
doing that the day before their engagement party, is she like.
Speaker 6 (03:10):
Pleading to the lesser charge like it was a one
time thing?
Speaker 7 (03:13):
Right?
Speaker 5 (03:14):
But then okay, so it's a one time thing, but
you're on face time with him the day before his
engagement party, y'alls are flirting and up, it was probably
gonna happen again. It just was a one time thing.
Because you guys caught her after it was a one
time thing.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
And he was cleaning with his shirt off. How dare
what he was doing? How was he flirting?
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Like?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
What was he doing? Yeah? Like, what's sexy about the kitchen?
I don't think i'd be in the kitchen, like what
was he doing, like doing the dishes And did you
just catch them after something happened or did you catch
them before? Like I would assume things were going to happen.
I want to get with you, but this sink's not
going to clean itself.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Yeah, I don't even really want to think about it.
I mean, I was like this innocent guystander I listen,
like I just want to look out for my friend
and I don't know what to do. She's about to
marry this guy.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
I feel kind of like like there's almost like a
power numbers, you know what I mean, Like if just
one of you doesn't tell her, I don't know, I
think that could be turned into something huge. But if
you're all there, then it's like maybe she feels more supported.
That's a really good idea, Kyle, Like, I mean, everyone
except for the maid of honor, unless the maid of
honor wants to try to make it better and like
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come clean.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Have you guys thought about that?
Speaker 7 (04:20):
Now?
Speaker 6 (04:20):
You should tell her what happened, like put it on
her to come clean.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Well, it's so difficult because it really seems like half
of us don't want to do that and the other
half of us do and so it's like, I feel like,
I don't know. I guess if I if I want
to say something, then yeah, yeah, that's good advice to
like maybe find even a couple other girls that were
willing to kind of approach her about it together.
Speaker 5 (04:44):
But I don't know.
Speaker 8 (04:45):
I mean, it's so.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
You don't want to get in other people's business, but
this isn't like a random goal that he's. This is
our other friend that he's that they're doing this.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Well, it's also the honor. So that's that's the closest
for it. That's why that's wild.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Before terrible, And I just don't want to break her heart.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
You know.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
But at the same time, they're like, is she going
to find out she shouldn't be marrying this guy?
Speaker 6 (05:10):
Yeah, well she's going to tell you that. At some point.
She's gonna be like, why didn't you guys tell me?
Speaker 5 (05:15):
That's what I'm saying. If I would have married someone
and all my friends knew and they didn't tell me
before I went through with it, I would be livid.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
You would want to think if they tell the bride,
if they tell the bride that they that she won't
be made of honor anymore.
Speaker 7 (05:27):
Yeah, I think.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
She'd be like, that's it. You're just in the wedding party.
Somebody else likes you're my maid of honor.
Speaker 6 (05:36):
It is kind of true, though, whenever you're the the
the person who brings the bad news, even though it's
not your fault, at some point you lose that friendship
because they're embarrassed by it or whatever whatever feelings they have.
So if you if you ever deliver the bad news,
you're going to be kind of out for the rest
of your life.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
That's why I feel if you do it with other
like with your other girlfriends, it's not it's not number one,
it's not all on you. And then also it's not
like it's like, oh, wow, everyone knows.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
You needed some sort of proof because be in denial.
That's not true.
Speaker 5 (06:07):
But if the girl admitted it, then is now the
group chat right or she is in the group chat
asking us not to tell you.
Speaker 6 (06:16):
It's kind of like, if you're the bride, you want
you kind of want the information and maybe she will
still marry him. Maybe she'll be like, hey, listen, you
gotta you know whatever it is.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Yeah, And I think I mean when you're telling her,
you can be delicate about it, like, hey, however you
want to deal with this, we have your back, not
like oh, you can never speak to you again. It's
like demanding she do something about it is not really
the right way to go. But just being there to
support her through what's going to be a really tough
time for her, I think it's the best way to go.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Evie. We're going to go to the phones and get
advice for you, even though I think we hit every
option possible. Unless someone's been through this before. Ooh, if
you've been through this before and you know of a
maid of honor sleeping with the groom, Wow, that's so crazy.
That's so crazy is to think about it. But anyway,
call us at eight seven seven nine three seven one
to four seven, or text us text JJR and your
(07:06):
story to nine six eight niney three. Evie, thanks for
calling in.
Speaker 8 (07:09):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
I appreciate the help and buy that's.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
A tough one, all right, hold on the line. Thank
you was a ghost. Less than an hour from now,
we'll probably play a minute to win it for a
thousand dollars thirty minutes from now. Kate McCrae tickets right now, though,
(07:32):
everyone's kind about the evy situation. Ooh, and I hit
two buttons at one time. Oh, marcella high.
Speaker 8 (07:39):
Hi guys, good morning.
Speaker 7 (07:41):
Hello, Hi, you're on the air.
Speaker 8 (07:42):
Sorry, can you hear me?
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Yeah? I hit two buttons. I screwed things up on
the air. Are they I think so? Are both are
hear me? No, there's only one person on there because
I hit whatever. Hold on second, hold on, hold on
one second, be right there, okay, go ahead.
Speaker 7 (08:00):
Sorry, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 8 (08:02):
Can you hear me?
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (08:05):
Okay.
Speaker 8 (08:05):
I am driving to work, and I heard this conversation
with the bridesmaid and the guy getting caught in the
kitchen cleaning up the kitchen. By the way, I love you, guys,
and I am enraged by this conversation that this girl
is having missed you. Her group friends are contemplating whether
(08:27):
they should come clean or not. Absolutely not if I
had a friend or even multiple friends like that, but
are trying to keep me from walking the from not
from telling me the truth. That is beast manature friends.
They should definitely come clean and let this girl know
to not marry this guy. This is ridiculous. Women need
(08:49):
to come together, empower women another, love each other, not
throw her into the lions. Dennis say, here you go.
I didn't want to be they're a bad news marrying
a cheater. Yeah, absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
There's a text here that says, give me the bride's number.
I'll tell her right now. If nobody tells her. She
has no real friends. That's what the text says. That's
pretty good.
Speaker 8 (09:10):
Yeah, well, you know, I am with the other girl.
I am so sorry, and my heart goes out to her.
But if she has a group of friends like that,
absolutely much, and then a Beyonce like that, she's much
better than that girlfriend. No, you deserve a man that
loves you that.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
Okay, Okay, made sell And thank you for calling in.
Thank you Justice. Good morning, Hi, good morning, Hi, you're
in the air.
Speaker 9 (09:41):
Hi. I was calling about the bridesmaid and the Beyonce situation.
And I've been in situations like that before they weren't
technically getting married, but where I've had to tell very
close friends of mine about their boyfriends cheating on them.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
And in my.
Speaker 10 (10:03):
Opinion, it's always better to tell your friend the truth.
If you're a true, honest friend, you will always tell
your friends the truth. Even even if it's something that
hurts them, and anyone that is debating on not telling
her is not a true friend, especially when it's someone
she's about to marry, like she has every right to
(10:25):
know the truth because marriage is something you spend your
life with someone and you don't want that coming out
later on and questioning everything in between.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
Very good justice, Thank you for listening, Thanks for your passion. Mandy,
good morning, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 3 (10:43):
During Yeah, I couldn't agree more with everyone else with cling.
I mean, I don't even understand why it's up for
debate to be honest, I mean, to even call in
and ask for advice. It's like, I think the obvious thing,
it's obvious, what's the right thing to do is And
to allow the girl responsible for this to stand next
(11:03):
to her and while she says I do, would just
be so immoral, and I don't understand why they would
even debate that.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
It's a good point, Mandy, good point. Let me ask
you this so many many years ago, right out of college,
I had a friend, it was kind of a it
was kind of a friend, and he had a girlfriend
and we were at a club one time and I
saw the girlfriend make it out with another dude. So
I told my friend, right, I think that's that's what
we're talking about here. Yeah, I told my friend that
(11:31):
guy is no longer my friend. Yeah, and the woman
lives on my street now, no, she does what are
the chants?
Speaker 3 (11:39):
I know?
Speaker 1 (11:39):
And she's married to somebody else that there's always always uncomfortable,
never around them.
Speaker 6 (11:42):
Yeah, I've said something like that, like if you are
the bearer of bad news, a lot of times you
get cut out no matter what happens. That's happened to
a lot of us where you're like, hey, something's going on. Well,
then they're embarrassed by and they don't want to talk
to you again. You know, Yeah, it happens, but you're
still doing the right thing. Let them decide where the
relationship goes.
Speaker 7 (11:58):
Hi, Laurie Hate Hi there. I'm just calling regarding the
bridesmaid and the fiance getting married. I honestly, the bridesmaid
is obviously not a true friend because you would tell
her and like I said before, wants a cheater, always
a cheater. And if she gets upset about that and
(12:20):
wants to continue and go through with the marriage, then
she's got to find out down the road this guy
is a cheater and he's gonna cheat.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Again, all right, Laurie, thank you. Another time I had
this friend of mine. He was living with a girl engaged,
and next door to their house was some a young
a young guy about nineteen twenty, and he would climb
over the fence and sleep with her when the husband
(12:48):
was gone.
Speaker 5 (12:48):
With the first I know, I'm over the fence.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Yeah, because they shared a backyard. And the kid who
was doing that is the one who told me like
I knew, and he was telling me everything out. But
the guy, the husband, the fiance, was my friend. I
decided not to say a word. No right, so I
just kept it quiet. Sure enough, they broke up, the
kid moved. I don't know where he is now, I
don't know where the woman is now. And the guys
(13:12):
no longer my friend. Yeah, so uh, it's win win
for me in all these situations. Yeah, I don't know,
less friends, less friends, the better is what I say.
So there's that. So anyway, what's coming up with? Oh no,
we're going to do some entertainment news and then we
can do we can do a minute to win it
(13:33):
into entertainment news. Let's do that, all right, so call
eight seven seven ninety three seven one o four seven
to play minute to win it. And then the entertainment
news we got coming up as well, is there anything
any anything big coming in there in him the world?
Speaker 5 (13:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (13:45):
Two, Charlie's having some drama and then uh, I think
there's some big Kim Kardashian things happening.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Well good, Hey, Ashley, what's up you're on the air?
Speaker 11 (13:57):
Hi? Sorry, I'm driving second barely here. My suggestion is
that the bridesmaid actually goes to the room and gives
them ultimatum like either you tell her or I will't,
and that way it puts it on him and then
and then see where it goes from there, give them
(14:18):
the opportunity to do the right thing, and that way,
you know, that's where I'm at.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
Somebody said, have them all played? Never have I ever
at a bachelotte party? And then everyone stare at her
if she's as she lies, and then say, really, all
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