November 5, 2025 • 4 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I Gabe, I thanks for taking my call.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
So I just I need an outside opinion. I feel
like I'm going a little nuts and starting to mess
with my head. But so my girlfriend and I we
have these little cameras in the apartment just for a
peace of mind, to watch the dog. I could just
like nothing crazy. But recently she brought up that when
I'm gone or I'm sorry, when she's gone, that she
(00:27):
she watches me on them, not just like a quick
check in, but like watches watches what I'm doing a lot.
And she's brought up specific things I've done when I'm home,
like what I'm eating when I nap. Sometimes I change
out of clothes. She calls that out and comments on
(00:47):
the outfit. Like one time I was I was heating
up leftovers and she texted me while I was eating
them up, being like, don't eat that, order something else.
So she's watching me in real time.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
It's not like she's not telling you about it though.
It's not like she's being But that's.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
So weird, Like nobody wants to be watched constantly. You
know what's the funny is my husband, he works from home,
but he used to have a camera in his office,
and like when I would call him and he wouldn't
pick up, I would look to see what he was doing,
and he'd just be like saying there working, and I'm like,
what are you doing? She'd be picking up by phone call,
and he moved the camera.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
So maybe that's.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
An option for you.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
You can just move the spot.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
You know, the comfort she has with watching me, it's
like it's a non issue for her. But the thing is,
like I've I've already been having some doubts about her relationship.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
That's why.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Yeah, Well, the thing is it's relevant because she has
she's a little controlling, you know, to say, and she
always needs to know where I am, who I'm with,
what I'm doing. And now it's like that has been
transferred to my own home. I feel like I can't
even relax in my own house.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
Oh that's not good.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Yeah, it feels I don't know if I'm well, listen,
that's why I called. I don't know if I'm overreacting, overthinking,
or if this is a genuine huge red flag.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I think you got to set some sort of camera
boundaries or something, or you know, do some things on
camera that's gonna bother the hell out of it, Like
what like, maybe you got a little excited watching a
rerun a euphoria and you like grab the tissues out.
You're like, oh, sorry, you don't want to see.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
That, and now she has a hate first or Sidney Sweeney,
I think the biggest red flag is the controlling part.
And this is taking into like a whole new level
for you. So I think if the relationship is going
to move on in any sort of healthy way, that
has to be addressed.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Don't you think that the line would be somewhere like
you're heating up a leftover and she's like, don't eat that,
order something else that's weird. Okay, hold on, tell me,
let me live my life here, go do whatever it
is that you're supposed to do.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
You know, the other person I know that has cameras
like that in their house. I don't know if you do, Rich,
But is Kyle, what's that like said? Is that that
has cameras in their house? Do you have cameras in
your hospital?
Speaker 3 (03:02):
I don't have cameras in my house, but I know
a lot of people that do.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Really I kind of want that, but I'm too lazy
to do it.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
I do, but I very rarely check them for anything.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
You have cameras in your house in your house, Wow,
what's like for you, Kyle? Like you ever? I wonder
there cameras in your house that you don't even know
about your husband.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Has probably I don't know how they all are. Yeah,
I mean to me, it's not really weird because like
we only really look at them like if actually they're
pretty awesome. Because we've lost a couple of things and
we go back and look at the camera and be like, Okay,
last time we know we had it, it was this time,
(03:36):
we'll go back and we found it several times. Several times.
That's been actually very helpful. But we don't generally use
it to spy on each other. Only sometimes I have it.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
We have cameras all outside my house, and it is
so complicated I have to make a huge effort to
rewind and watch something. Yeah, like you guys, I love
the cameras you guys have someday anyway, A Gabe, thanks
for sharing that with us. Man, that's frustrating game.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
We think it's a red We'd like to watch you though,
as well.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
If you could go there the password to get in,
I Gabe, Thanks brother,
I Gabe, I thanks for taking my call.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
So I just I need an outside opinion. I feel
like I'm going a little nuts and starting to mess
with my head. But so my girlfriend and I we
have these little cameras in the apartment just for a
peace of mind, to watch the dog. I could just
like nothing crazy. But recently she brought up that when
I'm gone or I'm sorry, when she's gone, that she
(00:27):
she watches me on them, not just like a quick
check in, but like watches watches what I'm doing a lot.
And she's brought up specific things I've done when I'm home,
like what I'm eating when I nap. Sometimes I change
out of clothes. She calls that out and comments on
(00:47):
the outfit. Like one time I was I was heating
up leftovers and she texted me while I was eating
them up, being like, don't eat that, order something else.
So she's watching me in real time.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
It's not like she's not telling you about it though.
It's not like she's being But that's.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
So weird, Like nobody wants to be watched constantly. You
know what's the funny is my husband, he works from home,
but he used to have a camera in his office,
and like when I would call him and he wouldn't
pick up, I would look to see what he was doing,
and he'd just be like saying there working, and I'm like,
what are you doing? She'd be picking up by phone call,
and he moved the camera.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
So maybe that's.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
An option for you.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
You can just move the spot.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
You know, the comfort she has with watching me, it's
like it's a non issue for her. But the thing is,
like I've I've already been having some doubts about her relationship.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
That's why.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Yeah, Well, the thing is it's relevant because she has
she's a little controlling, you know, to say, and she
always needs to know where I am, who I'm with,
what I'm doing. And now it's like that has been
transferred to my own home. I feel like I can't
even relax in my own house.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
Oh that's not good.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Yeah, it feels I don't know if I'm well, listen,
that's why I called. I don't know if I'm overreacting, overthinking,
or if this is a genuine huge red flag.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I think you got to set some sort of camera
boundaries or something, or you know, do some things on
camera that's gonna bother the hell out of it, Like
what like, maybe you got a little excited watching a
rerun a euphoria and you like grab the tissues out.
You're like, oh, sorry, you don't want to see.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
That, and now she has a hate first or Sidney Sweeney,
I think the biggest red flag is the controlling part.
And this is taking into like a whole new level
for you. So I think if the relationship is going
to move on in any sort of healthy way, that
has to be addressed.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Don't you think that the line would be somewhere like
you're heating up a leftover and she's like, don't eat that,
order something else that's weird. Okay, hold on, tell me,
let me live my life here, go do whatever it
is that you're supposed to do.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
You know, the other person I know that has cameras
like that in their house. I don't know if you do, Rich,
But is Kyle, what's that like said? Is that that
has cameras in their house? Do you have cameras in
your hospital?
Speaker 3 (03:02):
I don't have cameras in my house, but I know
a lot of people that do.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Really I kind of want that, but I'm too lazy
to do it.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
I do, but I very rarely check them for anything.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
You have cameras in your house in your house, Wow,
what's like for you, Kyle? Like you ever? I wonder
there cameras in your house that you don't even know
about your husband.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Has probably I don't know how they all are. Yeah,
I mean to me, it's not really weird because like
we only really look at them like if actually they're
pretty awesome. Because we've lost a couple of things and
we go back and look at the camera and be like, Okay,
last time we know we had it, it was this time,
(03:36):
we'll go back and we found it several times. Several times.
That's been actually very helpful. But we don't generally use
it to spy on each other. Only sometimes I have it.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
We have cameras all outside my house, and it is
so complicated I have to make a huge effort to
rewind and watch something. Yeah, like you guys, I love
the cameras you guys have someday anyway, A Gabe, thanks
for sharing that with us. Man, that's frustrating game.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
We think it's a red We'd like to watch you though,
as well.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
If you could go there the password to get in,
I Gabe, Thanks brother,
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