Genysis is dating a weird hugger

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Good morning, Genesis, thank you for holding Yeah for sure,

(00:03):
what's going on?

Speaker 2 (00:05):
I need to tell you? I need I need to
tell y'all.

Speaker 3 (00:08):
So did you Guys can tell me if I'm being
dramatic or if I like just uncovered a legitimate red flag.
So I've been dating this guy who I really like.
He's really sweet, you know, attentive. We have a good
vibe going, and he likes to hold hands in public

(00:29):
and you know, do a little PDA when I want it.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
But he is terrible at hugging. And I know that
like sounds super random, but I'm like serious, Like every
time I go in for a hug, he gives me
like the awkward, like half kind of hug, like I'm
hugging up my coworker. I I don't know, like like

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my brother. It's weird. I don't know. I feel like
I asked him about.

Speaker 4 (01:00):
It and he was like totally confused, like what do
you mean, that's just how a hug? So then I
have my friend even secretly watch us hug to see
if I was imagining it, and immediately she was like, oh, yeah,
that's what we cook.

Speaker 5 (01:16):
So but you've you've kissed him and everything.

Speaker 1 (01:21):
Yeah, I liked that your friend was secretly white, like
I need you to h.

Speaker 6 (01:27):
That's a good friend.

Speaker 1 (01:28):
Watch us hug. She'll watch you hug.

Speaker 5 (01:32):
That's a week hug. That's kind of weird, though, because
I feel like hugs are very important.

Speaker 6 (01:36):
They are, and this actually kind of reminds me when
I was in middle school. It was like the first
guy that I ever liked, and one of the reasons
I really liked him was because he was such a
good hugger. All my friends be like, why do you
like him? I'm like, he's so good at hugging, and
I mean, I'm like twelve, but I'm like, and honestly,
he ended up like ruining my life for the next
four years of high school.

Speaker 5 (01:54):
But he was a pain.

Speaker 6 (01:55):
He was a pain in my butt, is what he was.

Speaker 5 (01:57):
Okay, so then don't worry about the hug because it
doesn't really say thing about the guy.

Speaker 1 (02:01):
Okay, So, are I have this thing with my wife
and it's something like that, like before I explain my wife,
are you saying you don't know if you should date
him because anymore because he's a weird hugger, or or you.

Speaker 4 (02:13):
Just telling us that, Yeah, I just like I'm like,
is it a red flag?

Speaker 2 (02:17):
Like is he not that really into me? Or am
I just like chipping? And I need to, you know,
get over it.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
I would say, get over it. And here's why. So
my wife and I have this thing. We do it
every time we go to the movies. Every time we
go to the movies. Whenever the you know, we talk whatever.
The previews starts, and we kiss during the previews. So
she's let's say she's sitting to my right or she's
seeing my left, the previews start, we kiss. She It's
like our heads are never right. It never works. It's
the most like I feel like she's always turning the

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wrong way, and it's it's always always happens wrong. And
I'm like, if I go in first and I turn away,
you go the other way, and it never works. And
it reminds me of you saying the hug is awkward.
It's the most awkward, uncomfortable thing, and it feels like
we have no chemistry and it's just terrible. But I
just deal with it every time and the final I
just get over. So how you get to my popcorn
and watch the movie. So but the rest of everything

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else is great, But the preview kiss before the movie sucks.

Speaker 3 (03:11):
Oh well, but you're do You said it right there?

Speaker 2 (03:14):
Everything else is.

Speaker 1 (03:15):
Great, so you got it. I'm saying, get over.

Speaker 2 (03:17):
So they're the guy.

Speaker 1 (03:18):
Now, maybe I need to have a friend hide the
bushes and watch us kiss the movie. Needed to secretly
watch us kiss during the previews. You got to cut
your guy on everything. I think you're just gonna have
to tell him. He's gonna have to say, hey, what's
up with this? This feels like you're you know, I'm
hugging at two by four? Okay, hear what?

Speaker 5 (03:35):
It's just this body and go, this is what I'm
looking for. Because you have to train them to do
everything else anyway. When you get married to a guy, right,
you'd have to treat him how to you know, how
you like your birthday celebrated. You'd have to treat them
how to talk to your relatives. You have to train
them anyway. So teach them how to hug right.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
Okay, and to do what I just said, because I
don't think you can teach someone to do some of
those things, like I'm with my wife, it doesn't work.
We've talked about it. We've had the conversation. And it
doesn't work. Sometimes you just got to accept who they are.
Either way, we're all saying we think you should stick
it out and that shouldn't necessarily be a deal breaker.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
Okay, great, Thanks, thank you, have a great day.

Speaker 1 (04:14):
Thanks for listening.