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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Wakes up John Jay and Rich what's crack a leg?
And this is the big bulls dove snoopy deegle, double
jigsel bang boom.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
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Speaker 1 (00:16):
We're not talking about last week. If the one and
only dog, the last big smooth eagle, double jib in
your face to me and in the place to be
And you're listening to John Jay and Ridge, wake us our.

Speaker 3 (00:28):
Phone number eight seven seven nine three seven one oh
four seven. The text line you text jj R and
whatever you want to get into to the.

Speaker 2 (00:35):
Number nine six eight nine three.

Speaker 4 (00:37):
My wife was stressing out the other day because she
was charged with talking one of the girls from the
pageant into getting her nails done because they looked really ratty,
according to her roommate, and she was about to get
proposed to and there's gonna be pictures with bad nails.
So Stacy's like, how do I pull off this caper?
How do I get how do I get one of

(00:59):
my girls to get her nails done? An emergency? And
I've called Stacy to tell her a side of the story.
Good morning, love of my life.

Speaker 5 (01:07):
Oh, good morning, Hello, Well I want to correct you.
They didn't look ratty. They do not say that.

Speaker 4 (01:16):
I heard they look like claws like she had been
like doing some gardening work.

Speaker 5 (01:22):
No, no, they just weren't done. And if you're getting engaged,
as of course Kylin Peyton would know, you just want
your nails to be perfectly done and pretty and fresh
so that when that ring goes on, you know your
hand is ready for photos. But they didn't look ratty.

Speaker 2 (01:42):
So let me try to get like your point of view.

Speaker 3 (01:43):
You find out that someone you know is getting is
going to get engaged, and you are not happy with
her nails, so you want to do her a solid
and somehow nudge her to get a manicure.

Speaker 5 (01:54):
Well, and it's a little more than that, so if
I may so, as she says, know, I'm the director
of the Miss Arizona organization, and this we are talking
about Miss Arizona herself.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
Oh, it's even more stressful deal.

Speaker 6 (02:09):
Yeah yeah.

Speaker 5 (02:10):
But the cool thing is because I am the director
of the Miss Arizona Organization, I have a little pull
with my winner. Because this is Miss Arizona herself, I
can get her to get her nails done like that's
kind of she has to do that.

Speaker 4 (02:26):
I tell her to do it, what do you say,
how does that work out?

Speaker 5 (02:29):
So to get you But but yeah, but I can't
be so obvious about it because it's not like I've
ever told her to do that before. You know, It's
just that that's within my purview if I want to
do that.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
But you also, but the thing is.

Speaker 3 (02:42):
You know she's going to get engaged, and you know
what day you know, like, how do you, like, did
the fiance the future, like, did the guy reach out
to you?

Speaker 7 (02:49):
Like?

Speaker 2 (02:49):
How did you find this out?

Speaker 5 (02:50):
Her best friend reached out?

Speaker 2 (02:52):
Okay, So it's a dilemma. I think. I think it's
a diluma even if you're.

Speaker 3 (02:55):
Not a good friend someone, Right, if you find out
that Peyton get engaged and you look at her nails,
you're like, oh god, I've got to somehow do her
a solid and get her to get her nails done
because you know, someone like Peyton's gonna be posting the
ring in the hands of right.

Speaker 8 (03:09):
But then also I am confused, how like her best
friend didn't just say, hey, let's go get her nails
done together?

Speaker 2 (03:15):
Yeah you know what I mean?

Speaker 9 (03:17):
Yeah, Because I feel.

Speaker 10 (03:18):
Like Miss Arizona, like she's more likely to have her
nails done. Me, I never have my nails.

Speaker 9 (03:22):
You tell difficult.

Speaker 8 (03:24):
I'd be like, this is weird, But.

Speaker 4 (03:30):
So why didn't her friend handle it? Why did her
friend go to you just because she knew you have
the power?

Speaker 5 (03:34):
What I know from what I understood, her friend kind
of tried to nudge her to do it, and she
was like, I'm too busy to get my nails done.
I just don't have time. The only way we're getting
this done is if somebody orders her to get her
nails done. And I'm the only person who can do that.

Speaker 8 (03:52):
That makes sense, because if you nudge and then you
keep going, then it's like, very obvious is something's going on,
And as the best, you don't want to give up
the fact that she's about to get proposed to and
ruin the surprise.

Speaker 2 (04:04):
Okay, so you did it exactly?

Speaker 4 (04:05):
So what did you do?

Speaker 11 (04:06):
So?

Speaker 5 (04:07):
Because we're in the position where people like to donate
their services to our group, I said, hey, you know
that nail sponsor that we've been working with, There's been
a little confusion with them and they're not really sure
what our agreement is right now, and I'm feeling like
the relationship might be kind of on shaky ground, and

(04:30):
we need to have you go in there, get your
nails done and give them some social love so that
they're back in, like firmly back in with our organization
so they keep sponsoring, you know, periodic free nails. And
she was so cute. She was like, Oh, I'm happy
to go in and do that. I'd love to do that.
I'll definitely post on social But would this be a

(04:53):
free service or am I going to have to pay?
And then all of a sudden, I was like, oh
my gosh, so now here I am telling her it's
for the organization, but now I'm gonna make her pay.
So I was like, oh, no, no, no, it's for
the organization. You just go in, you get your nails done,
but you tell me how much it was. I'll then
mo you because it's for the organization, even though it

(05:14):
really wasn't for the organization, was totally for her. But
I was like I had to think on the spot.
But they were so nice that when she went in there,
they just did her nails for free.

Speaker 3 (05:23):
Oh that's okay, now, Miss Arizona. Is her name's Tiffany. Yes,
her name is Okay, so now we have tiff We
have Miss Arizona on the line. Tiffany, are you there?
I am assuming you got engaged this last weekend.

Speaker 12 (05:38):
I did just yesterday.

Speaker 10 (05:42):
Day.

Speaker 12 (05:43):
Thank you?

Speaker 4 (05:44):
And how your nails look? They didn't look already, did they?

Speaker 13 (05:47):
No?

Speaker 9 (05:48):
They didn't.

Speaker 12 (05:49):
A funny story. I was dead said against getting my
nails done because I was like, it'll be fine. I
can use press ons like, I don't need nails. I
obviously didn't know I was getting engaged, so I'm Ethan
is off of here at my fiance. He he got
with Stacy, who rich you know well, and convinced her
to text me to tell me that I needed to

(06:11):
go get my nails done with the Miss Arizona sponsor.
I suspected nothing. So I did have my nails done.
Things to Stacy.

Speaker 7 (06:21):
And it was pretty fun.

Speaker 2 (06:22):
Okay, so when you got engaged, what did anything go
through your mind for a second, like, oh, thank god,
I got my nails done on.

Speaker 12 (06:29):
The later, like like like two minutes after. In the moment,
I don't think I was thinking about my nails, but
right after it, yes, I then I was really like
like so grateful that this happened, and then I realized
it was all a setup.

Speaker 2 (06:41):
The team worked behind this.

Speaker 4 (06:43):
I'll tell you, hey, can we put pictures up of
your ring?

Speaker 12 (06:46):
Absolutely, I'll send them.

Speaker 3 (06:48):
How about the pedicure place, manicure place, let's the name
of it. Let's give them some love.

Speaker 12 (06:51):
Milano Nails Spot. They're amazing there on Glendale in north
central Phoenix and they are the best.

Speaker 2 (06:58):
All right, Well, what a where to go? Stacy? Where
to go?

Speaker 3 (07:05):
It's like, if you knew Rich was going to have
a photo shoot, you make sure he gets his ears waxed.

Speaker 4 (07:10):
That's happened many times. Well, congratulations, Tiffany, thank you.

Speaker 2 (07:19):
An.

Speaker 4 (07:21):
That's Stacey's a pretty good liar. Huh, just coming up
with stuff. She gonna keep her, keep her on patrol.

Speaker 9 (07:26):
Yeah, watch your six John, Jay and Rich are live
on the free iHeartRadio.

Speaker 2 (07:35):
App paid with the Bible Horsecopes.

Speaker 9 (07:37):
Well, have you guys been on Netflix lately?

Speaker 2 (07:38):
Every day?

Speaker 9 (07:39):
Okay?

Speaker 10 (07:39):
So have you guys seen that on Netflix they have
designated TV shows specifically for your zodiac sign?

Speaker 14 (07:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (07:46):
Uh huh.

Speaker 10 (07:47):
So I'm going to tell you which Netflix show you
should binge based off your zodiac SIGNE. And these are
recommendations from Netflix themselves.

Speaker 2 (07:53):
That's pretty good. Good morning, Susan, Good morning.

Speaker 7 (07:56):
We almost got fired.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
Waiting for you guys. It was got fired.

Speaker 5 (08:01):
Kidd No, I'm substituting teacher.

Speaker 2 (08:03):
I'm just kidding. Oh, just ignore those kids. I'm trying to.

Speaker 5 (08:10):
Yeah, we're so cute.

Speaker 15 (08:12):
Oh.

Speaker 10 (08:13):
I feel like with with Susan being a substitute teacher
right now, Like I feel like we always watch TV
shows and movies, so maybe you can put.

Speaker 9 (08:20):
This on for your kiddos.

Speaker 10 (08:21):
But virgos, your love for precision and clever writing and
shows that make you feel smart even when you're not
paying fully attention. The Netflix show that you guys need
to binge is Black Mirror, The Queen's Gabbit, Gambit, and
Breaking Bad, because these plots are all organized chaos with
a little bit of genius underneath it, so you're gonna
analyze every detail like it's your job.

Speaker 2 (08:41):
You're right, Yeah, Well you know, I've seen The Queen's
Gambit and Breaking Bad in almost all of Black Mirror.

Speaker 3 (08:49):
And then I saw that Rashida Jones was nominated for
an episode of Black Mirror. Interesting, and I haven't seen
that episode yet, so I am going to watch that episode.

Speaker 9 (08:57):
Yes, perfect me too.

Speaker 4 (08:59):
Well, she was nominy for a Susan gil Today, Susan,
let's show those children some breaking bad. They're gonna love it.

Speaker 2 (09:09):
Hi, Jenny, Hi, what's you're saign? Jenny?

Speaker 16 (09:13):
I'm a Libra.

Speaker 10 (09:14):
Okay, So Libra's you were all about romance and aesthetics
and messy but beautiful relationships. So the Netflix shows that
you need to binge is Emily in Paris Bridgerton and
Love is Blind because they give you fashion, flirting and
dramatic eye contact. And these shows they just match all
of the aesthetic, chaos vibes that is perfect for Libra.

Speaker 17 (09:35):
Awesome.

Speaker 6 (09:36):
I'll check them out.

Speaker 8 (09:37):
Yes, I love all those shows, but I think the
last couple of seasons of Emily and Perry I couldn't
get into.

Speaker 9 (09:42):
I know, I watched like the first season and I
loved it.

Speaker 8 (09:46):
First season was really good, and then I think after
that I kind of just.

Speaker 3 (09:49):
Because they dupe us with the fake pregnancy and then
it was like that was a cliffhanger and then you
wait and you're like, what, that's the real stupid.

Speaker 9 (09:57):
It was? But Love is Blind is awesome and I
love you nailed it.

Speaker 2 (10:01):
Thanks Jenny. How about Pisces.

Speaker 9 (10:05):
Yeah, rich for you, Pisces.

Speaker 10 (10:07):
You want dreamy, escapism, romance, and a little bit of
emotional damage so you can feel something. You are built
for Bridgerton as well, The Crown and Heart Stopper because
they take you into fantasy world. Everyone's dramatic and the
feelings are super big and this shows like match your
cinematic vibe.

Speaker 3 (10:23):
That you like.

Speaker 4 (10:24):
I've never seen The Crown, and I know I know
both John Jay and Kyle love The Crown.

Speaker 2 (10:28):
Amazing, amazing.

Speaker 9 (10:29):
That's for you. Now, that's what Netflix is recommending that you.

Speaker 4 (10:32):
Piscey's been should be in for the holiday.

Speaker 9 (10:34):
Look at that.

Speaker 10 (10:35):
How about for Leo's Yeah, I'm a Leo, so us
Leo's we are the main characters, so naturally we're gonna
thrive with shows where the drama is glamorous and the
lighting is perfect. So we're made for Selling Sunset, The
Crown and Bridgerton as well. So all attention jaw lines
and plot lines that revolve around iconic entrances and these
shows they just match our sparkle I also have never
seen The Crown and I've also never seen Selling since

(10:58):
which I know.

Speaker 9 (10:58):
You love Kyle do a good shot. I might have
to get in tatoo.

Speaker 10 (11:03):
I just thought that was so cool that Netflix like
did that.

Speaker 3 (11:06):
Selling Sunset is the only show my wife watches. Really
the only show I've seen her binge. The only show
I've seen her excited for is Selling Sunset.

Speaker 9 (11:13):
Well, I feel like aries for Blake.

Speaker 10 (11:15):
The shows for them are Squid Game, Cobra Pai, and
Money Heis, which my wife.

Speaker 2 (11:19):
Would never watch any of those shows.

Speaker 9 (11:22):
Which is opposite.

Speaker 8 (11:24):
She might get roped in because of your sounds.

Speaker 2 (11:27):
If we can get to your sign they I'll post
it on her website. John Jay and Bridge Dot column,
you got NKO, Thanks for holding you're out there. What's
going on? How can we help you?

Speaker 16 (11:40):
I have a little issue. So basically, I was trying
to get this job at Little Lemon for like forever.
I just I'm upset at their clothes and their fashion.
I just thought it would be cool to, you know,
see what it's like to work there and stuff. So
recently I finally got the job yay, And now I

(12:01):
know yay, and like I'm new, like I'm like fresh off,
like I'm just starting, and everybody from like my mom
to my aunts and my cousins. Everyone's asking me if
they can get a discount, like my best friend, like
just everybody, and I'm like, okay, like I just started
working there, like I don't even feel comfortable, you know

(12:22):
what I mean, And like they're like, oh, don't worry,
we'll come at the end of closing, like you know,
it won't be obvious. And I'm just like, like, what.

Speaker 17 (12:28):
Do you like my marriages?

Speaker 16 (12:29):
Because I'm looking at me like I'm crazy, and I
don't want them to think anything of me, you know
what I mean. Like if I was like working there longer,
maybe it would be one thing, but I like, I
just I haven't even been there months. I just don't
know what to do, Like I don't know how to
I'm kind of a people pleaser, so I don't know
how to like say.

Speaker 8 (12:45):
No, like that's so uncomfortable. I do have advice though, Actually,
so I worked at Coach you know the person, Yes place,
I worked at Coach right like at the like the
at the end of college and hold on.

Speaker 2 (13:00):
First time hearing this, I don't think that you worked there.
I know that you worked over at ConA Grill.

Speaker 8 (13:05):
Well, this is when I moved to Ohio to be
with that guy that I was with.

Speaker 2 (13:12):
She was engaged to ProFootball player.

Speaker 8 (13:13):
You were engaged, and I moved to Ohio to be
with him for very short.

Speaker 2 (13:23):
I should take pictures of her on his last She
was so good looking.

Speaker 4 (13:28):
He could literally cut glass with his jaw. Was a
great guy.

Speaker 9 (13:32):
I'm I feel like I'm with a better guy now.

Speaker 2 (13:34):
But at that time I forgot about the.

Speaker 8 (13:40):
Okay, So at that time I worked at Coach, and
at Coach we only had a certain amount of discounts
we could take a month. So it was like you
could only buy like three or four purss a month.

Speaker 9 (13:52):
So you could just say.

Speaker 4 (13:53):
That's the policy, like.

Speaker 8 (13:54):
Hey, I've already reached my my discount quota.

Speaker 9 (13:57):
For the month.

Speaker 4 (13:59):
It's same here.

Speaker 8 (14:00):
Don't even know IFLUL was like that, but I think
you could use that as an excuse me.

Speaker 2 (14:03):
Were people trying to move? Were people trying to do
that to you?

Speaker 4 (14:07):
Kyle?

Speaker 8 (14:07):
Yeah, because I have fifty percent off, that was a
pretty good discount.

Speaker 2 (14:10):
So was it? Did you use it all the time?

Speaker 4 (14:12):
Though I used it quite a.

Speaker 2 (14:14):
Bit, like you you hooked up your friends?

Speaker 8 (14:16):
It was yeah, most of my sisters.

Speaker 3 (14:20):
So I know a couple of people work a Lululemon,
and I think the deal is they get a certain
amount of gift cards they can give out that gives
them like twenty percent off, because I remember they when
somebody give one to my wife.

Speaker 2 (14:30):
One time we went to Lulu Lemon and we tore
it up, and then when we left they forgot to
apply the discount and we had to go all the
way back and oh it was terrible.

Speaker 9 (14:38):
That's embarrassing.

Speaker 2 (14:39):
That's why I don't go to a little Leomon, although
I love their underwork. Underwork right now, anyway, that's good advice, Kyle.

Speaker 4 (14:46):
What do you tell them?

Speaker 9 (14:47):
What did I tell my?

Speaker 2 (14:48):
What do The advice you're telling her is to tell.

Speaker 8 (14:50):
Them that you're that you just have a limited amount
of discounts to give out and then you don't have
anymore every month them all.

Speaker 4 (14:56):
Yeah, yeah, but isn't that lying or is that how
they do it?

Speaker 16 (14:59):
They won't even know all those Yeah, they won't know.
So that's that's probably.

Speaker 6 (15:04):
The best option for people.

Speaker 4 (15:06):
Pleaser.

Speaker 9 (15:06):
Yes, I'm like passive aggressive.

Speaker 10 (15:10):
I'm like, oh, so you only want to talk to
me and hit me up because you want to discount
up for my job?

Speaker 3 (15:14):
Like that's just me that it's kind of weird because,
like you know, in our profession, there are certain hookups
we get less and less as time goes on, right,
I mean, you think radio station concert tickets, But it's
like I had someone the other day ask me, and
they do this certain thing where they say, hey, man,
how can I get Suns tickets?

Speaker 2 (15:32):
You know, like, well, what I mean, go to the
freaking ticketmaster, go to the booth and go get Sons tickets.
But they're asking me either a for me to give
them mine or give them the person might connect, and
it's I just say, I don't you know, I get
I get lost, and I try, I actually try to
get them for them, and it's I hate it because
I pull favors. I don't want to pull right, and.

Speaker 10 (15:52):
It's like stressful for you to do because like what
if you can't pull it off and you feel bad?

Speaker 3 (15:56):
Right the one time I thought, for sure, for sure,
for sure I could pull out off.

Speaker 2 (16:00):
Remember this, it's the Foreigner.

Speaker 4 (16:03):
You're gonna say that.

Speaker 3 (16:04):
Somebody asked me if I get tickets to Foreigner two
years ago, when of course I could do that, and
I couldn't. They were sold out and the fire marshals
shut it down and I couldn't get two tickets to foreigner.

Speaker 2 (16:14):
At a casino. Foreigner who wants to see foreign random band.

Speaker 9 (16:20):
Pop Smoked Horn.

Speaker 2 (16:23):
There an eighties band, Miko have a great day. Thank
you for listening.

Speaker 16 (16:28):
Okay, thank you so much.

Speaker 3 (16:30):
Cooked me with the gift card because like the come on,
MI go come through for us all God, thanks for listening.

Speaker 2 (16:37):
Good stuff. It's John J.

Speaker 14 (16:38):
Rich L.

Speaker 2 (16:45):
Three. Hi, you're on the air.

Speaker 6 (16:47):
Oh my gosh, let me tell you. I have ninety
nine problems in my garages. One Kyle help. This is
my My marriage depends on it. I okay, so listen.
I by all means I'm not a hoarder. I walk
around my.

Speaker 5 (17:06):
House fine, my house is very clean.

Speaker 6 (17:09):
However my garage is otherwise. And I know I'm not. Again,
I'm not a hoarder, but I do find like really
good deals and actually a lot. Anybody who knows me
cracks up because they're like, oh, so are you having
your garage? My neighbors come and they're like, hey, I
need a BCR. I know you have to have one.

Speaker 2 (17:28):
I'm like, I do.

Speaker 6 (17:31):
Things come and like, I kid you not. My garage
saves the day more than anything. So my neighbors love it,
my friends love it, my kids adore it. However, my
husband hates it. He he had he gave me an old,
not an old. I wouldn't say a marriage ultimatum, but
he gave me an ultimatum. He's like, hey, I recently

(17:53):
had surgery, got really sick, have been very anyhow, so
point point blank is surgery. And he gave me some slack,
and he's like, all right, once, once you're out of
your six weeks after your surgery, he's like, you have
two months to clean it up or else I'm going
to go in there and I'm going to just trash
it all. And I'm panicking, right, I'm like, okay, this

(18:15):
is like stuff I spend a lot of money on
and I can't just have it in the trash can.
And you know, it's almost like I spent so much
money on it and it's still good, but I don't
want to put it in the rug sell and then
get like twenty five cents for it. So anyhow, give
me chips?

Speaker 9 (18:30):
What about like a subwords unit?

Speaker 8 (18:32):
I say, like, your husband's out of line, like your
clutter has purpose. Oh dear, I want to change in
mind by something.

Speaker 9 (18:42):
Did you bring to the table, dude?

Speaker 15 (18:45):
I did.

Speaker 2 (18:46):
I'm like, did you.

Speaker 6 (18:47):
Clean your closet? And you know what he does, he
has such nerve. He's like, actually, let me go in
my closet. Here's three pair of pants, here's ten shirts.
And I'm like, god, this is going the opposite way.
I'm like, okay, let if bad fires on me. So
I'm like, oh great, I'm like, Okay, that's not the point.
The point is that you have a lot of stuff

(19:07):
and he really doesn't. And he's like, no, I don't,
and it's just like it's never ending. So I did
start declutting, like, you know, I took a lot of
things to like other mothers, like good stuff, and I
got some store credit and you know, like the consignment starts.
I'm like, cool, take that. That doesn't hurt that bad.
But you know, it's like the bigger things that I'm like,

(19:28):
you know, we have a birthday party. Who wants to
create a decorator a thousand dollars to decorate when I
could do it just as well.

Speaker 8 (19:34):
So anyhow, Okay, So if a storage unit, like Peyton said,
isn't an option, because that can be really expensive. I
would say, the thing that always helps me, like indie cluttering,
is first organizing. Like so if you if there's a possibility,
like if you're really attached to all the clutter and
it does actually help you out and all these people
in your life benefit from it, like I would just

(19:55):
try organizing it first, and then your husband may not
be so annoyed with it, like that would be my
first step. And then while you're organizing it, you may go, oh, well,
maybe this thing isn't totally necessary, or maybe you could
start a really cool offer up and you could just
start making money off of that stuff. Yeah, I tried that, Okay,
I would try organizing it because it's all like when

(20:17):
it's all like perfectly put in situations in places, it
may not feel so invasive.

Speaker 6 (20:23):
You're right, you're right, Okay, Yeah, so maybe not having
him tiptoe around my stuff and maybe a.

Speaker 9 (20:31):
Yeah, I give him, but he deserves that.

Speaker 4 (20:33):
Before you clean up. I'm looking for eighty style be dazzler.
Do you have one of those in your garage?

Speaker 15 (20:38):
I want to give my jacket look and fly all
look for why you know what I have that isn't ridiculous?

Speaker 6 (20:48):
And I will never I told my daughter, this is
going to be in my will. You were going to
take this home for your children? Is I went to
a garage cell. Actually it was a state cell, and
they have things from back like segregation. This lady would
have really crazy things. So then I got this desk.
That's all wooden. I don't even mind sending a picture

(21:09):
over to you, guys. I've never seen anything like that. Well,
inside the desk there was a newspaper that you could
barely open it up because it would crumble, and you know,
I didn't want to do that. Well, right before the
daughter sold it to me, I think I paid fifty
bucks for it just because it looks that cool. There
was stuff in there from like Queen Elizabeth and like segregation,

(21:32):
like the blacks and the whites and the water fountains,
and I'm like, what can I just keep that? And
she's like, sorry, that's my grandmother's and I'm like great.
So I didn't want to be a jerk, but anyhow
so I feel like that lap desk, it's worth so
much money.

Speaker 14 (21:46):
So much?

Speaker 7 (21:46):
Did that TV show what is that anti road show?

Speaker 2 (21:49):
Yeah? Yeah, Well I got a good rich rich Watson
White's only fountain so bad.

Speaker 6 (22:00):
Yeah, So anyhow, I feel like, yeah, I feel like
that may bring a fortune at some point, but yeah,
I probably need to take it to that pawn shop.
But yeah, well I want to make sure it's a
cruise enough a years so that they were like, Okay,
this is a once in a lifetime thing, you know.

Speaker 2 (22:16):
Yeah, IV, thank you for calling.

Speaker 6 (22:19):
Thank you, have a good day.

Speaker 18 (22:20):
Nice good mornings, Dad, your day with John Jay and Rich.

Speaker 4 (22:25):
I wake up with my favorite artist.

Speaker 2 (22:26):
Hey, this is Sabrina Carpentery. What's up, guys?

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This is both Blows Benson Boone and you're waking up
with John Jay and Rich.

Speaker 3 (22:32):
Time for stacks and hacks. I have stax information, Rich
has life hacks. This information I have is really good today.
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toss out a dad joke. It's still the most efficient
way to do it. One is six parents say dad
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make their kids cringe. Survey specificly look at family vacations

(22:53):
found the average parent embarrasses their child two to four
times per trip.

Speaker 2 (22:57):
And that is one way to embarrass your kids.

Speaker 9 (23:00):
I wish that was just how my dad chose to
embarrass us. Just a dad joke.

Speaker 4 (23:06):
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Speaker 9 (23:08):
Come on, man, that man has no filter.

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Speaker 9 (23:28):
Be like that, like at least think smart.

Speaker 8 (23:30):
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Speaker 3 (23:42):
There's a new health hack that I considered. When I
was reading about this, I thought maybe I could try,
but I don't know. It's on TikTok TikTok. It's called
a fifty jump trend. The minute you get out of bed,
you jump in place fifty times.

Speaker 4 (23:54):
Oh that's cool.

Speaker 3 (23:55):
It's supposed to be a quick way to get your
blood flowing first thing after waking up.

Speaker 4 (23:58):
I have seen the TikTok where they say that if
you jump one hundred times a day that you will
always have good muscles and you don't have to worry
about falling or any of that are not muscles but
good good bone density.

Speaker 2 (24:09):
Okay, this I think is very relatable and hilarious.

Speaker 3 (24:14):
At the same time, a woman paid seven hundred dollars.
She had a sound in her car. It was making
a weird noise. She took it to the mechanic and
they could not fix what was wrong with They couldn't
he was making a weird noise. Mechanics couldn't figure it out,
so they end up giving her a sixty thousand miles
tune up, which cost her seven hundred dollars. She brought
the car home, she realized that the sound was from

(24:38):
her phone connected to the Bluetooth and it was fireplace soundscaping.

Speaker 2 (24:44):
This is sound right here.

Speaker 3 (24:45):
This is out of her car, and the mechanics sit
in the car and we don't know what the hell
it is.

Speaker 4 (24:54):
She's like, my car is making a warm and inviting tone, right.

Speaker 9 (24:57):
She probably just had that on to like go to
sleep at night.

Speaker 3 (25:00):
Amazon announced a new AI feature for ring cameras to
help find lost pets you'll be able to connect with
other ring users in your neighborhood and let them know
if your pet went missing. AI will automatically detect cats
and dogs and tell you if there's a possible match.

Speaker 9 (25:12):
That's cool.

Speaker 2 (25:14):
Best horror movie from every year.

Speaker 3 (25:17):
It's official now every year from two thousand and five
until now. And I'm not a horror movie fan, but
I can tell you I've heard you guys talk about
like Insidious.

Speaker 9 (25:28):
Yeah, that's scary.

Speaker 3 (25:29):
That was number one scary movie in twenty ten. Drag
You to Hell that was two thousand and nine, The
Cabinet was twenty eleven, twenty twelve, Sinister.

Speaker 9 (25:37):
Yeah, sens oh, I actually really liked those movies.

Speaker 3 (25:40):
Twenty thirteen was the Conjuring, get Out was twenty seventeen, Yeah,
twenty nineteen was Midsommar.

Speaker 9 (25:46):
Yeah, that one's creepy.

Speaker 2 (25:47):
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Speaker 3 (25:49):
And the scariest movie twenty twenty four is called I
Saw the TV Glow.

Speaker 2 (25:53):
Never heard of it? Heard, never heard of it. What
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Speaker 4 (25:56):
Rich, Okay, let's talk about your iPhones. All your phones
actually so now more than ever, most people are like
the five G network, and scientists say, we don't know
yet what that does to your brain. So of course
you don't want to have your phone to your ear
that much, unless you're calling the show, then yes, please
do that. But they say the worst place is it

(26:18):
is by your bedside. So if you're one of those
people who use your phone for an alarm clock, and
that's your excuse to keep your phone by your bed,
experts now say, at least do us this favor. If
you don't have a separate alarm clock, keep your phone
across the room, set your alarm for as late as
you're gonna get up, so you don't have a bunch
of different alarms where you get you know, you just

(26:39):
hit stop or snooze or whatever. That way you don't
have that stuff going through your brain. Because they just
don't know in any time in history that anybody's ever
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stuff going right into your skull. So please, if you
use your phone for an alarm clock, put it across
the room or maybe even in a different room so
you have to get it up, get up, and then

(27:01):
turn it off. That hackened many more at John Jay
and Rich dot com.

Speaker 3 (27:10):
Our phone numbers eight seven, seven nine three seven one
four seven.

Speaker 2 (27:13):
Let me paint the picture.

Speaker 3 (27:14):
What's going on in the back room there at the
back studio where Noah is.

Speaker 2 (27:19):
In Kyle's office.

Speaker 3 (27:20):
We have a bunch of women that are here to
sweet date with great personalities. And Nick, our producer, went
back there and open up a bottle of champagne.

Speaker 4 (27:31):
That's how they do it on The Bachelor too. They
open up the champagne and that's when it gets crazy.

Speaker 2 (27:36):
In the studio. We have all of us, and we.

Speaker 14 (27:38):
Have Brett our bachelor.

Speaker 2 (27:40):
Our Bachelor for today.

Speaker 3 (27:42):
And Brett reached out to me several months ago about,
you know, hey, can you help find somebody right because
you're looking for a serious relationship.

Speaker 14 (27:50):
Like somebody who has her stuff together?

Speaker 2 (27:52):
Yes, yes, a good human Yes.

Speaker 3 (27:55):
And if we were to say, like, what do you
do for a living, how do you describe what you
do for living?

Speaker 14 (27:58):
I'm an author and I'm a speaker and a business owner.

Speaker 2 (28:01):
Right, okay, yeah, because you wrote you know what's funny
is that he's uh, he wrote a book about coaching
and the gym I go to. He's a superstar.

Speaker 3 (28:08):
They all like that, you know, because we posted a
picture of him with us last week, and all these
trainers were like, you know, Brett bur a coach is
coach basically coach, Like he had to move CEOs and
other people out of the way so.

Speaker 2 (28:20):
You can come in here this morning, right, Yeah, I'm
glaud to do it all right.

Speaker 3 (28:23):
So and I'm thinking, like, we have all these great
contestants here and we're gonna start bringing the man. We're
gonna do a speed dating thing. We're gonna ask a
bunch of questions fast and you know, and then we'll
dwindle it down and hopefully you go out on a
date with one of them. We're got a date with
all of them. But one twist we have, Oh boy, I.

Speaker 4 (28:40):
Just want to say record speed dating, right, And how
do you know if somebody's good at speed dating unless
you can see how fast they are.

Speaker 3 (28:47):
We have a treadmill we brought in here, and they
have to be on the treadmill answering questions like the treadmill.

Speaker 14 (28:56):
You know, or maybe better if Brett's on the treadmill,
why not doing that? I'm already the warmest person alive.
I will start sweating on the treadmill.

Speaker 9 (29:09):
Why make the ladies, walk walk.

Speaker 4 (29:11):
Could you knew what I had been?

Speaker 9 (29:14):
I didn't know about this. You asked me if we
had anything up our sleeves and said, I don't think so.

Speaker 2 (29:20):
Involved. There's always something, have no idea.

Speaker 3 (29:22):
Okay, you got your questions ready, so they'll have their
questions ready.

Speaker 4 (29:26):
But we're just gonna say hello and meet him real quick. Right,
we're going to meet each one.

Speaker 11 (29:29):
Sure we can do that, all right? Okay, Hocome, you
didn'tet champagne.

Speaker 4 (29:40):
If you want some champagne to get on the treadmill, Brett,
no quick, Okay, we served the finest plastic.

Speaker 3 (29:46):
Lizz You want to go first, so you step up.
Tell us your name, till. Let's make sure the my
phone working first. You're stand on the treadmill.

Speaker 2 (29:52):
Please, we're trying to fix the microphone.

Speaker 9 (29:57):
No, no, you can just come over here.

Speaker 2 (29:59):
Yeah, that'll be Okayish Champagne escape to.

Speaker 9 (30:02):
The treadmill for now.

Speaker 2 (30:03):
Okay, that's a little about yourself.

Speaker 19 (30:06):
Okay, Hi, I'm in here right, I'm Lindsay. I am
not a native of Arizona. I actually was born and
raised in Mississippi. But she probably don't meet a lot
of people from Mississippi, but I'm one of them. And
then I'm a huge sports fan, like love basketball. College
college basketball is my favorite, but I love college sports
in general.

Speaker 11 (30:27):
Yeah, single, mom.

Speaker 2 (30:28):
What do you do for a living?

Speaker 19 (30:30):
I sell a drug for a pharmaceutical companies.

Speaker 2 (30:33):
You want to say what drug?

Speaker 9 (30:35):
It's for cancer? So it's not a.

Speaker 2 (30:39):
Way.

Speaker 4 (30:41):
How many kids? How many kiddos?

Speaker 14 (30:42):
Just one?

Speaker 4 (30:43):
Okay? Boy? Girl?

Speaker 2 (30:44):
Okay, okay, but you got a question for her? Yeah? Absolutely, Okay.

Speaker 14 (30:47):
After one of your most stressful days, what is something
that would instantly calm you down?

Speaker 19 (30:53):
I have two dogs, so I just cuddle with my puppies.

Speaker 2 (30:55):
Great answer. Okay, would you mind going back to the
back line that.

Speaker 14 (31:02):
Dating speed?

Speaker 2 (31:05):
Hi? What's your name?

Speaker 9 (31:06):
Hi?

Speaker 11 (31:07):
I'm Rachel.

Speaker 20 (31:08):
I'm a dentist, and fun fact about me is I'm
pretty competitive. So darts, karaoke, golf, you name it, let's
do it.

Speaker 4 (31:18):
You want to win this too, because you're competitive?

Speaker 2 (31:20):
Yes?

Speaker 20 (31:21):
Absolutely, I want to win any competition I enter a girl.

Speaker 14 (31:24):
You have a question, what is something most people misunderstand
about you while being a dentist.

Speaker 20 (31:31):
I think there's a lot of misunderstandings about me and
what I do.

Speaker 2 (31:35):
What do they do?

Speaker 9 (31:35):
I figured well, dentistry.

Speaker 20 (31:38):
Is one of those kind of hard uh medical careers,
because we're the only medical career that sets our own
prices essentially, so people look at us and think that we're,
you know, trying to take them to.

Speaker 9 (31:49):
The cleaners, and really I'm just trying to help.

Speaker 14 (31:51):
Fix your tea.

Speaker 4 (31:52):
That's a point, right.

Speaker 2 (31:54):
Thank you very much, thank you very much, Thanks for
coming in. Hi and what is your name?

Speaker 19 (31:59):
Hi?

Speaker 21 (31:59):
I'm Morgan, I'm thirty. I am the commissioner of my
fantasy football league, and I am like.

Speaker 4 (32:06):
A shot of tequila.

Speaker 21 (32:07):
You are hooked from the first Supah.

Speaker 4 (32:12):
With their own branding.

Speaker 2 (32:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 14 (32:15):
So what is something that even one of your exes
would say you are annoyingly good at.

Speaker 21 (32:22):
I'm really intuitive. I'm a piscy, so my intuition is
never wrong. If I look through a phone, there was
something to find.

Speaker 14 (32:28):
So to answer to a hard question, well done.

Speaker 2 (32:31):
It's very good, very good, Morgan. Okay, who's next.

Speaker 14 (32:34):
Hello? My name is Ariel.

Speaker 18 (32:35):
I'm thirty two. I work in project management for an
engineering firm.

Speaker 9 (32:40):
Love my job.

Speaker 18 (32:42):
A single mom of one. He's seven, a great little boy.
He's very easy, very happy, go lucky, spontaneous looking for
somebody that wants a real relationship, somebody that is able
to give the energy back that I am able to
bring in a relationship.

Speaker 2 (33:02):
Well said, yeah, all right, yes.

Speaker 14 (33:05):
How do you handle conflict? Are you the type to
shut down or do you want to hash it out
and get to the bottom of it right away?

Speaker 18 (33:10):
I think a little bit of both. I think initially
I just kind of get flustered. I need to get
my thoughts centered, so I take a little take a
little breather, and then I want to come back to
it and resolve it right away.

Speaker 4 (33:22):
I don't want to like, let it drag out.

Speaker 18 (33:24):
Let it drag out and I fester. Yeah, I don't
want it to fester.

Speaker 2 (33:28):
Good answer, You're very good.

Speaker 4 (33:30):
You coming in much strong choices so far without saying
do you have one in mind that you want to
talk to a little more?

Speaker 2 (33:39):
Oh?

Speaker 14 (33:39):
Man, I haven't gotten there yet.

Speaker 4 (33:42):
Okay.

Speaker 8 (33:42):
I do kind of feel like also, we need to
give the ladies a chance to ask.

Speaker 14 (33:48):
Being interviewed, Brett, would you rather sing or dance?

Speaker 2 (33:51):
Dance?

Speaker 14 (33:52):
You'd rather dance? Yeah, okay? What is your spirit on
the uh White Siberian Tiger? Do you have a top
Netflix recommendation?

Speaker 2 (34:01):
And I guess Dexter is.

Speaker 14 (34:03):
Not on net fist. I'm surprised how many people saw
have not seen that.

Speaker 2 (34:07):
Kyle just watched it for the second time, the whole thing.

Speaker 9 (34:10):
It's still amazing.

Speaker 14 (34:11):
There's like three more spin offs.

Speaker 2 (34:14):
Brett, what's expensive but worth it? Travel?

Speaker 4 (34:17):
Very good answer answer.

Speaker 2 (34:22):
We've got speak in Spectaclear Part two. Next John, Jay
and Rich.

Speaker 9 (34:27):
I didn't think it and stand.

Speaker 3 (34:34):
Right in the middle of our speed dating game. We've
got four lovely contestants. We got one bachelor. My friend Brett.
Brett is a coach, like a success coach, right, is
that what you used? That a way to call it communication?
Like I hope people with community like get out of
their own head. Psychology performance coaches performance. You wrote a book,
you have another book coming out, but you know you

(34:54):
you've also owned gyms before, You've trained people.

Speaker 2 (34:56):
You know, just to give you guys a little idea,
he trained the rock that I mean, Demie Levado.

Speaker 3 (35:01):
You have seen fighters, right that because trading that's like
like workout trading trade athletes.

Speaker 14 (35:05):
For twenty years prior to doing what I do now.

Speaker 4 (35:07):
You seem like a very direct communicator. So if you're
in a relationship with you. I feel like you're one
of those guys. It doesn't mince words, and like being
around the bush, you seem like you give right to
how you feel.

Speaker 14 (35:17):
Yeah, well it would be the question I asked one
of them was what's something people misunderstand about you? I'm
super direct, but that comes from a place of respect,
like I'm not gonna waste your time. I also know
how to soften that though. You know, I'm not just
one of those people that has a no filter. But
you're never gonna know or never gonna guess where I'm
coming from, Like you'll wear my heart on my sleeve,
and I don't really what's the value of like lying
in sugarcoating and bolting?

Speaker 2 (35:39):
All right, So Lizzia, you have you have a question.

Speaker 9 (35:40):
I have a.

Speaker 19 (35:41):
Question for you. Do you have any pets or children?

Speaker 14 (35:45):
I do have a child. His name his name's five,
He's five. I did have two dogs rescues, but unfortunately
they passed a couple of years ago. Hear that. I
appreciate it.

Speaker 2 (36:00):
You have another one, you get another one.

Speaker 19 (36:02):
What is what's been your longest relationship?

Speaker 14 (36:04):
Fifteen years?

Speaker 19 (36:05):
Damn okay, four that's.

Speaker 4 (36:10):
Still a long time. Yeah, especially if it's a bad relationship.
That's a long time.

Speaker 2 (36:13):
Okay, Next, come on up. You have questions for.

Speaker 20 (36:16):
Brett, I would say, what are you looking for in
an ideal partner?

Speaker 14 (36:21):
This is Rachel by the way, for yeah listening, great question, Rachel.
Somebody one that puts in effort. Like I am a
natural giver, so I'm always going to take care of
you or my person, right. But I'm at the point
now where I've probably over accommodated in that sense too
much in the past, and so a boundary for me
is if they don't put the effort in, go the
extra mile, if they're not intuitive. If I I'm always

(36:42):
going to state my needs and wants right to a
reasonable degree, and I want to say that you listen
and that you take initiative with that absolutely okay answer.

Speaker 2 (36:49):
Okay, do you have another one?

Speaker 4 (36:51):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (36:51):
I do. When was the last time you got really angry?

Speaker 4 (36:54):
And why?

Speaker 2 (36:55):
Oh? Man?

Speaker 14 (36:56):
I would say probably about a month ago. I had
worked four months on a contract for a client, put
a lot of time and effort. We had a lot
of trip wires going into it, and they flaked. And
if I have one pet peeve, because I'll tell you
the good and bad about me.

Speaker 2 (37:08):
It's flaky.

Speaker 14 (37:09):
People like that's something that I always have to try
to step back and manage my emotions. I came from them.
I grew up in the Midwest. Honor your word, do
the damn thing. So if somebody doesn't like follow through,
I really have to like take a beat, breathe, and
make sure that I control that.

Speaker 2 (37:25):
Good answer, Bright, what's your favorite way to celebrate your birthday? Oh? Really?

Speaker 14 (37:28):
At this point, again, just being able to do something
very low key. I'm on a lot for my job.
I have to teach a lot of like workshops. I'm
always whether it's my writing or whether that's stuff I
have to do online or in person, I always have
to be on and so a chance to just be off,
be goofy. I love ridiculous comedies, you know things like that.

Speaker 2 (37:46):
I like, what's your favorite comedy?

Speaker 14 (37:47):
One of my favorite comedy well right now, just I
mean stand up comics. I love watching that. I mean,
like Nate Margatzi was the last set watching. Okay, that's good,
But I'm like nineties comedies. I'm still like Black Sheep,
Tommy Boy movie. If you're I'm thirty.

Speaker 2 (38:02):
Nine, Okay, yeah, Moregan, you're ready.

Speaker 21 (38:04):
What is You're an ideal lazy Sunday?

Speaker 14 (38:07):
Oh well, having no agenda, you know, being able to
just wake up not have to be I do not
like it when you have to be somewhere right away
when you wake up in the morning, especially on a Sunday.
But if I can have just wake up late, have
a really good breakfast, get outside, you know, get some sun,
what have you, and then probably not be productive until

(38:28):
the later part of the day. So yeah, just relax, I.

Speaker 21 (38:31):
Have want more. What is one item you can't live without?

Speaker 14 (38:35):
One item I cannot live without. I would say some
kind of book. Being an author, I love to read,
you know, and when I can't read, I'm going to
listen to something.

Speaker 4 (38:42):
But what do you read?

Speaker 2 (38:43):
What kind of stuff I'm watching reading Emily Dickinson right now?

Speaker 4 (38:47):
Okay, So do you want.

Speaker 14 (38:48):
To know what I'm the episode of reading right now
or what kind of books I read?

Speaker 2 (38:51):
In general?

Speaker 4 (38:52):
Shry John Jay and I have our own thing going on.

Speaker 14 (38:54):
Non fiction and history. So the book I'm reading right
now is called Posterity, and it's a bunch of letters
they found from a great Americans like John J. Rockefeller,
Benjamin Franklin to their kids and advice.

Speaker 2 (39:04):
They'd give their kids about posture.

Speaker 14 (39:06):
No, I will be a part.

Speaker 9 (39:09):
Of your book club.

Speaker 21 (39:10):
I was a math teacher, so it's not really my thing,
but I love that for you.

Speaker 2 (39:19):
What did you dream of becoming as a child. I
don't know if you.

Speaker 14 (39:21):
Really want to know that, because when I was really young,
I wanted to be an assassin.

Speaker 20 (39:25):
Yeah.

Speaker 14 (39:25):
Yeah, well I want to be a professional athlete, and
then I want to be a sports agent and uh
a criminal profiler. So I went through some different phases.
I'm obsessed with psychology. So if that scares any of
you you've read.

Speaker 2 (39:37):
Yeah, well question Ariel.

Speaker 18 (39:41):
Sorry, sorry to break it up. Yeah, this is Ariel.
My question is what's your ideal first date?

Speaker 2 (39:47):
Oh?

Speaker 14 (39:48):
Ideal first date is something where I can tell you
what it's not right, where it's like the standard let's
go out to this super nice restaurant and make it
a big thing, where none of our personalities are really
going to come out, and you feel like you have
to put on a show. So something casual. We're inevitably
something goofy is probably gonna happen to one of us,
and you can't play it cool. So it doesn't. I
don't really care whether it's hiking or this or that,

(40:09):
but just something where there's not a lot of facade
and you can't hide behind, you know, the environment.

Speaker 4 (40:13):
Love that Brett.

Speaker 2 (40:15):
Do you have Do you have a favorite serial killer?

Speaker 14 (40:17):
Do you have a favorite cereal? Like real or like
what Michael Myers from the Halloween movie?

Speaker 4 (40:21):
Okay, he's good.

Speaker 14 (40:22):
There's nothing fancy about him. He's just determined and keeps coming.

Speaker 3 (40:25):
Nobody else had any other questions for speed dating for
one last question or anybody anything else? No, Okay, then
I guess you guys, go Nick, you take him back there.
We'll talk about question.

Speaker 14 (40:34):
Thank you.

Speaker 2 (40:34):
Okay, Okay. If you're listening to this right now and
you're interested in Brett or any of the four, maybe
maybe there's a like a love connection. Listening right now.
It's like, oh my god's also was perfect for me.

Speaker 14 (40:45):
I mean, it's like a nodding hill like love montage
where somebody runs down to the studio and picks either
one of them.

Speaker 2 (40:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (40:51):
If I if I were going to set up one
of my friends with any of the girls, all four
of them seem like they got good hang vibes, you know, like,
they're not going to be two extra, They're going to
be able to hang in any situation. That's a great
start for you.

Speaker 3 (41:05):
So let me ask you this, is there one of
the four that you find interesting that you would like
to see without telling you, don't tell you?

Speaker 2 (41:12):
Is there one more than one? Just one?

Speaker 14 (41:13):
There's one, two, there's one, there's one that stands out.

Speaker 8 (41:17):
Okay, I think I think everybody, Brett and our four
lovely ladies go and they tell Nick separately yay or nay, fair,
and then we don't need to know.

Speaker 2 (41:29):
Okay, fair, Okay? Is that? How good with you? Brett?

Speaker 14 (41:32):
You guys are in charge? Absolutely sounds great. I think
you're just watching the whole operation come together here now.

Speaker 4 (41:38):
Yeah, I think you're You're a good dude, and there's
a couple of good girls in there too.

Speaker 2 (41:41):
So far as coach goes, do you think we need
a session with you?

Speaker 5 (41:46):
Are you judging.

Speaker 2 (41:49):
The ride along?

Speaker 3 (41:51):
All right, we're gonna wrap this thing up. So let
Brett and the ladies deliberate, deliberate, deliberate.

Speaker 2 (41:58):
One first coaching, JE learned how to read.

Speaker 3 (42:02):
They're going to go on a date and we'll touch
base with them in a couple of days, we'll get
an update to see if we made a love connection
to speed dating love connection.

Speaker 2 (42:11):
Yeah. Follow along on our instagram for more at John
Jay and rich on all social media. John j.

Speaker 17 (42:23):
Hi, Jen, Hi Johnny, how are you good?

Speaker 2 (42:26):
How are you?

Speaker 20 (42:28):
Oh?

Speaker 16 (42:28):
I'm fabulous.

Speaker 22 (42:29):
I've talked to you guys before. Hi, Kyle, Hi, Katon, Hi,
rid Hi Hi guys. So I had a question for
Kyle about your name. So, I know you have a
gender kind of neutral name. Maybe it's more favored with boys.
But you see, you know, Kyle Richards and stuff, and
we named our son Taylor, and I know Taylor's more
popular now with girls. So I'm wondering how growing up

(42:50):
with your name affected you in a positive way or
negative way or.

Speaker 7 (42:55):
Something like that.

Speaker 9 (42:56):
That's interesting.

Speaker 8 (42:57):
Okay, So growing up I really hated it because there
were kids in my that's.

Speaker 2 (43:00):
A boy's name.

Speaker 8 (43:01):
You a boy, and you know when you're a kid,
a comment like.

Speaker 2 (43:04):
That is like a boy. Like.

Speaker 8 (43:05):
No, it did effect, and then I think, all the
way up until college, I wanted to change my name,
like I like anything else. I was like, I would
rather have, you know, just a regular girl's name. And
then I think in college, I started really sort of
embracing it and enjoying how it was like somewhat unique
and it was me, and that then I couldn't picture

(43:26):
myself with a different name. But you know what's weird
is my daughter's name is Addison, and just recently she's
been telling me how much she hates her name Addison
because she looked up the meaning of it and it's
like son of Adam and she's.

Speaker 9 (43:39):
Like, that's a boy's name. Son, I'm not a son,
And I'm like, but it's not really a boy's.

Speaker 8 (43:44):
Name right now, and she's like, it's the worst Adam Adam.

Speaker 22 (43:49):
Yeah, no it's not, it's not.

Speaker 8 (43:52):
But for some reason she hates it so much. And
I keep telling her, Listen, if when you're an adult,
you want to go through all the paperwork and the
hoops you got to jump through to change your name,
and you still want to change your name, go for it.
But I personally think it's a beautiful name for you.

Speaker 7 (44:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (44:05):
It's interesting that you say that, Kyle, though, because you're like,
that's a girl's name right now, because I feel like
gender neutral names, Like I feel like I have a
gender neutral name. I know a lot of guy peyton's
and I know a lot of girl patents, but when
I was born, there wasn't a lot of girl patents,
And so I feel like, well, for one, if you're
a girl and you have a boy's name, you're really cool.
I feel like, if you have a boy's name and
you're a girl, you're really cool. But I think it's

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interesting how names do shift in energy.

Speaker 9 (44:29):
That wis too.

Speaker 2 (44:30):
Did you ever not like your name? Peyton?

Speaker 9 (44:31):
I didn't like my name because I couldn't. I still
can't say my name right.

Speaker 10 (44:35):
Like my mom would get on my nerves because she'd
be like, you're not saying your name right.

Speaker 9 (44:41):
I say Peyton.

Speaker 10 (44:42):
She says that I say Peyton Peyton, that I don't
pronounce my name Kyle.

Speaker 2 (44:47):
When you didn't like your name as a kid, what
was another name you wanted?

Speaker 8 (44:51):
I liked Lara because apparently that's what my mom was
deciding between when she decided to name me Lara. Yeah,
and now I don't want to be Lara. I know
Alara now and I'm like, oh, weird. My name could
have been your name, but it's not. You know, it
doesn't It doesn't feel me.

Speaker 9 (45:05):
I think I grew into it.

Speaker 3 (45:06):
You know, my wife has a guy's name too, same thing,
And I remember she did like her name, and she
she actually had people start calling her and I can't
remember what it was, like Sue or something like that, Sally, No, Sally,
so it was something and so like the neighbor, an
older man would call her whatever the name was that
she wanted.

Speaker 2 (45:21):
I can't remember what it was, Susan Sally. I don't know.
Maybe you can get her on the phone, you can ask.

Speaker 10 (45:26):
I also love girl names for boys too, though, or
like your traditional girl name, because I like, I've brought
it up to Kadem that I love the name Stacy,
and I love the name Carrie for a boy, and.

Speaker 9 (45:36):
He's like no.

Speaker 8 (45:37):
I do also wonder if, just because of how like
society is, is if it's different for boys with girls' names,
you know, just because of how like societal norms like
put more pressure on boys be manly or whatever, it
might be.

Speaker 9 (45:51):
Different for boys.

Speaker 3 (45:53):
Get this though, if I'm correct, I don't think Jen
was even calling about this.

Speaker 2 (45:56):
Were you calling about something else?

Speaker 20 (45:58):
Oh?

Speaker 22 (45:58):
I was calling about the name thing, but then I
was telling about something else as well.

Speaker 6 (46:02):
Well.

Speaker 22 (46:02):
Thank you very much for the advice. So it was
we always question whether or not we did a good
thing naming him Taylor if he's gonna hate us in
the future.

Speaker 8 (46:09):
But he is a tailor, you guys want to show
him other like male tailors that are really huge, like
Taylor shared in he's like one of the biggest writers
in Hollywood right now.

Speaker 4 (46:16):
In my favorite brand of acoustic guitar is a tailor.
So right there.

Speaker 2 (46:20):
But what else were you calling about?

Speaker 22 (46:22):
So it's also probably about murders on the streets. So
we moved to Florida a little different just the time.
We moved to Florida back in twenty twenty, and we
moved in this apartment complex, and a couple months after
we moved in, the girl above us overdose and died.
And then two months later my Pomeranian of fourteen years

(46:43):
passed away. And then a year later we found out.
This is a trigger warning because this one's really sad.
Right across the main road through the apartment complex still
see apartment complex, a mother went to pick up her
son from her father and found out it was a
double murder homicet Susie Hype. Yeah, I'm like, oh my god,

(47:05):
let's get out of here. Florida's crazy. It was so
much fun in Florida.

Speaker 12 (47:09):
But oh my god, yeah.

Speaker 3 (47:11):
That's a lot of Hey, real quick, I'm gonna get
my wife's on the phone.

Speaker 2 (47:15):
Can you pick her up? Richell? Want wants? I want
to ask real question? Okay, Hey, hi, beautiful, have I Hey,
we have Jen on the line. And she named her
son Taylor, and you know it's a guy girl's name now,
and then Kyle's name is kind of a guy's name,
and uh, Peyton's name is kind of a guy's name.
So I wanted to call you because I remember when

(47:35):
you were a kid, you didn't like your name and
you had your neighbor call you a different name, right,
And I was trying to remember what that was.

Speaker 17 (47:40):
Yeah. So when we were when I was like five
years old and we moved in, the lady the next
door neighbor asked me what my name was and I
told her. I told him it was Lisa.

Speaker 2 (47:50):
Lisa.

Speaker 17 (47:50):
So Bob Myers, he called me Lisa my whole entire life,
including like my adult life when I ran into him,
you know, in my forties.

Speaker 10 (48:00):
Crazy when he when he called you, were you like,
who are you talking to?

Speaker 9 (48:04):
Or did you recognize No.

Speaker 17 (48:06):
I know, I know because he's the only one on
earth that ever called me. Recent used to be upset
because I would go like, I went to summer camp
at a tennis camp and and I was put in
the boy's dorm. I went, I went on a trip
in college and I was put in a room with

(48:26):
a guy. So I used to get upset at that,
but now I embrace it because I like to call
myself the a ridge.

Speaker 21 (48:36):
Blake.

Speaker 17 (48:36):
Because you find somebody my age that is a girl, Blake,
I don't know if you can.

Speaker 9 (48:43):
I was going to say, you are the reason she's younger.

Speaker 17 (48:47):
I'm the Ridge in the whole white world. I'd like
to find somebody my age that is that is Blake.

Speaker 22 (48:58):
On the phone, Blake, how did you tell you?

Speaker 12 (49:00):
My new said?

Speaker 22 (49:01):
I love you so much?

Speaker 12 (49:01):
Your goals?

Speaker 22 (49:02):
You are just a lady.

Speaker 7 (49:06):
What are talking to you?

Speaker 2 (49:07):
All? You guys think? All right? Thank you, Blake. It's judging.

Speaker 3 (49:29):
I want to play a couple of comedy clips that
I think are so damn funny that I just have
to highlight for you. One is comedian Brian Reagan and
Colin and I have shared this guy's humor for a while, right,
I mean, he's just absolute hilarious. And this is a
clip I've never heard of it before where he's talking
about a reality show and anyway, just listen.

Speaker 23 (49:47):
Talking about TV. I watched weird shows. Man, there's one
I'm trying to understand. It's about Moonshiner's reality show. I
don't get it because a guy hiding out in the
woods trying to make moon I don't understand the premise
liquor is legal. What's he doing hiding behind trees? Don't

(50:15):
tell anybody I'm out here. Why are you out here?

Speaker 2 (50:20):
I'm making Moonshohn.

Speaker 23 (50:23):
You want some now, I can get Jack Daniels over
at the liquor store.

Speaker 2 (50:28):
It's legal, has been for a while.

Speaker 23 (50:31):
Come out of the woods and read a newspaper.

Speaker 3 (50:37):
So funny. The other one is Kevin James. He used
to have a TV show called Kim Queen's. He's been
on TV al He's in the movie Grown Ups with
Adam Sandler, and this is him talking that. This to
me is extremely relatable. So if you're in a relationship,
I mean, Peyton, we're gonna get into your relationship with
your boyfriend here in a second, but we all are
in this right. Here is a conversation between me in

(51:00):
my life pretty much every day.

Speaker 2 (51:02):
Well, I saw some I love her so much. She
loves to talk. She's like the balance to me. She's
so good at it.

Speaker 14 (51:07):
At night, we got in the car to drive home
and she started talking again, and I was like, Hey,
we don't need it now we are.

Speaker 2 (51:17):
We don't need to talk ever again. We don't.

Speaker 4 (51:21):
That's a good thing. I mean, we've been together like
twenty years.

Speaker 14 (51:23):
I've already said every word I'm ever going to say
to her in every combination.

Speaker 4 (51:27):
That's it.

Speaker 2 (51:28):
And she said every word to me.

Speaker 14 (51:29):
She knows everything about me. I know everything about her.

Speaker 4 (51:31):
We don't need to talk anymore. We could finish out
the rest of our life with gestures. That's it.

Speaker 23 (51:37):
You want to talk, go in your closet, take your
clothes off, and talk all night long.

Speaker 4 (51:43):
But why do I have to be there? Can I
hear it telling me things that I.

Speaker 2 (51:51):
Experienced with her?

Speaker 14 (51:53):
I was with her all day.

Speaker 4 (51:56):
I can't believe Alan stood up in front of everybody
revealing facts about his son.

Speaker 2 (52:01):
I didn't like that at all.

Speaker 4 (52:02):
I couldn't believe it.

Speaker 14 (52:04):
Could you believe it?

Speaker 2 (52:06):
And in my head, I'm going, yes, I can you
know why because I was there anyway. What's going on
with you and your boyfriend? Different levels of relationships?

Speaker 9 (52:19):
Yeah, totally.

Speaker 10 (52:20):
We've been together for a little over four years. We
live in a one bedroom apartment and things are good
except for it kind of made me think yesterday I
was like, I'm missing something here, and it made me think, like,
what are the things in your house that you can't
have because of your significant other? And for me, it's flowers.
I'm not allowed to have flowers at the house right
because Kadema has like these insane allergic reactions to flowers.

(52:43):
It's like he's absolutely miserable, and then in turn, I'm
miserable because he's miserable. Then he can't sleep, and then
I can't sleep because he can't sleep, and it's just
stressful and I just want my house to look pretty
and have flowers.

Speaker 2 (52:56):
I did you got rid of your cat because of
his allergies.

Speaker 13 (52:59):
You can't have plants, fake place, Yeah, fake flowers, but
I won't.

Speaker 9 (53:03):
You know, it's different than you have like fresh flowers
in your.

Speaker 4 (53:06):
House that actually makes the whole place look better.

Speaker 9 (53:09):
Yeah. I think I think so too.

Speaker 10 (53:10):
And I'm just super bummed out that I don't get
to have pretty flowers in my house.

Speaker 2 (53:14):
Everybody got married. My wife maybe like move my posters
into another room.

Speaker 4 (53:19):
Like you're really cool, like you're.

Speaker 3 (53:20):
A Star Wars poster, Godfather poster, Animal House poster, Rocky poster.

Speaker 9 (53:25):
You're lucky. She just made you put in another room
to get rid of them.

Speaker 2 (53:29):
And then well then it was one room.

Speaker 3 (53:30):
First we got married in one room, and then we
moved to another house and it got they kind of
put it in the hallway into the garage. Then it
got put in the garage, and then they kind of
went away there in storage.

Speaker 2 (53:39):
And I had like one Star Wars poster that's autographed,
and I.

Speaker 3 (53:41):
Was able to put it in one of my son's rooms,
so like my son's rooms kind of like where I
put my stuff.

Speaker 15 (53:46):
Now, yeah, makes that's sort of sad.

Speaker 4 (53:50):
That's why I have a basement. All my stuff's the basement,
because you know, I will say that my living room
looked like a guitar center, so now it does not.
Now it's all all in the bay and nobody comes
in the basement really except for me.

Speaker 2 (54:03):
Cave Kyle, why do you say your brain is full.

Speaker 13 (54:06):
Because well, okay, we've talked several times about how like
I can't, like I don't remember certain things, Like just
the other day, you're like you were with us when
we were.

Speaker 9 (54:15):
Talking to Ashanti for an hour.

Speaker 14 (54:16):
I don't remember that.

Speaker 2 (54:17):
Yeah, yeah, you don't remember that.

Speaker 3 (54:19):
You don't remember that comedian came here, dropped his pants.

Speaker 9 (54:23):
Don't remember that.

Speaker 8 (54:24):
Maybe blocked that one out on purpose. I don't know,
but I don't remember that. And yesterday I had this
moment where I was like, oh my gosh, this is
why I don't remember things, because my brain is full
of things that I don't need and.

Speaker 9 (54:35):
Probably don't necessarily even want.

Speaker 8 (54:37):
So yesterday after the show, I was talking with Rich
and Grant, and Grant was like, Kyle, when's the last
time you listened to the Crash Test Dummies album? And
I'm like, like, twenty years ago, probably whenever it came out.
I don't know, but I used to love that album, right,
And He's like, I listened to it the other day,
front to back. It's still it's like still slaps like

(54:58):
it's so good.

Speaker 2 (54:58):
And I'm like, you know what, a Grant, I'm gonna
listen to that album.

Speaker 9 (55:01):
On the way home.

Speaker 8 (55:02):
And guess what, I still know at least eighty percent
of the lyrics of every song, and not just the
song that was on the radio, like Steep Track's track three,
track five.

Speaker 3 (55:10):
I'm seeing all the words wow because they I was
just gonna.

Speaker 2 (55:13):
Say, I know them.

Speaker 9 (55:15):
I know every word to that one. I do not
know to the other ones did.

Speaker 4 (55:20):
I literally hit Kyle with when You go on Camping
Trips and she knew the whole song.

Speaker 2 (55:24):
Like immediately, you sure were those hit songs I've never
heard there?

Speaker 4 (55:29):
They were not the song. The song I listened to.

Speaker 2 (55:33):
They got me into it.

Speaker 4 (55:34):
I listened to it five times and I was like, well,
I'm just gonna listen the whole album was I think
I'll disappear now. I love that song crash Can we
can we work in some crash tests now?

Speaker 8 (55:43):
These this morning guys, it's not even so relevant, Like
nothing about it is relevant at all. But the fact
that I still remember eighty percent of all the lyrics
of every song on the album, I'm like, this is it.

Speaker 4 (55:55):
This is Why do I remember this?

Speaker 9 (55:57):
But I don't remember a comedian getting.

Speaker 6 (55:59):
Naked in the same why I don't know?

Speaker 2 (56:02):
You said again, remember this one. I think this is a
beer up.

Speaker 9 (56:07):
Remember this one?

Speaker 2 (56:08):
What's the their hit?

Speaker 14 (56:11):
That's it?

Speaker 3 (56:14):
Yeah, was a run came up before there must have
been a writer's block.

Speaker 2 (56:20):
He's like, of course it was before that. Oh this
is crash test.

Speaker 8 (56:25):
This is this was the one song that like people
would probably know from them.

Speaker 9 (56:30):
The other tracks, no.

Speaker 4 (56:31):
One would know.

Speaker 9 (56:33):
You would definitely know this.

Speaker 14 (56:34):
One, and you might need to. You might need to
fast forward to like forty five seconds and rich does
all the works.

Speaker 4 (56:42):
Crowd's having a minute.

Speaker 2 (56:43):
But wait, finally you back his hair.

Speaker 9 (56:52):
He drove from black Kid to Pride.

Speaker 2 (56:54):
Why oh why I know?

Speaker 14 (56:57):
Why do I know? Not?

Speaker 9 (57:00):
And the cars? It's next. So this is the part
I know.

Speaker 2 (57:19):
Oh my god, it's John Jay and rich.

Speaker 4 (57:22):
Stap In and stay what's up?

Speaker 21 (57:24):
Sure, open the free I Heart radio app and tap
the talkback mike to send John Jay and Richard message.

Speaker 2 (57:29):
Now what's up? Cal? Thanks for holding?

Speaker 7 (57:31):
Hey yeah, no, prob, thank you. I gotta I got
a question for you guys. So I got this neighbor
moved in like a year ago. I worked from home.
She goes into an office and you know when she
we got talking or whatever. You know, the neighborhood thing.
And recently, about six months ago, she asked me like, hey,
I'm starting to get Amazon packages. I'm not at home,

(57:54):
like I know you're at home. Would you mind grabbing
them and been bringing them inside and I'll come pick
them up later. And at first I was like, I
had no problem. That sounds good. And when it first started,
it was like maybe one or two packages a week,
but now it seems like it's like every other day.
And I don't know what she's ordering, but these are
massive Amazon boxes that I have to keep picking up
and dragging it in. And now I feel like I

(58:15):
work for Amazon because these things are massive, and I
don't know how to tell her, like, hey, I don't
want to do this anymore. I don't know how to
tell her to chill out, like I don't want to
sound like a bad neighbor cause any issues between us,
but like this is I feel like, I mean, take
an advantage of At this.

Speaker 9 (58:30):
Point, Yeah, you kind of are a little bit.

Speaker 14 (58:32):
I think.

Speaker 9 (58:32):
Is your neighbor like an old fragile lady.

Speaker 7 (58:37):
No, not at all, Like she's she's middle a. I
mean she's like forty. I don't really know how old
she is I want to assume that she's like closer
to forty than she is anything else. But they know
she goes for runs. She seems fit enough, like nothing
that would prevent her from being able to carry.

Speaker 3 (58:50):
Her Okay, so you're carry you're carrying the packages into
her house or you take them into your house until
she gets home.

Speaker 7 (58:56):
I take them into my house because she didn't give
me a like I don't have a key to her.
I don't want to keep her out Like that's not much.

Speaker 2 (59:01):
Okay, but they're not being are they being delivered to
your house? No?

Speaker 7 (59:05):
I have to go to her place, pick up the packages,
bring them into my place, and then she comes over
later to grab them, and then yeah, that's terrible helping
her move them into her place.

Speaker 3 (59:15):
Does she want does she want a little piece of cow?
Is that what she's hoping for a little a little
cow zone.

Speaker 7 (59:22):
There's the weirdest way to flirt with me.

Speaker 2 (59:24):
If that's probably she's probably like he just doesn't get it,
especially if she's what you should.

Speaker 9 (59:29):
Look I think, wearing so many packaging this.

Speaker 2 (59:32):
Lingerie and he not wants is asking if I want
to try it on?

Speaker 7 (59:37):
I mean, if that's the case, maybe I should ask
her out that.

Speaker 4 (59:42):
Yeah, are you single?

Speaker 20 (59:44):
I am?

Speaker 4 (59:44):
And she's single now and she's single.

Speaker 7 (59:50):
You know. The thing is that I don't know. That's
that's another issue I have too, where it's like I'm
not very close to my neighbors in that way, like
I I don't know. I like being friendly with neighbor,
but I only be overly friends with my neighbor.

Speaker 9 (01:00:03):
That's perfect.

Speaker 8 (01:00:03):
You ask her out, and if she is with someone,
she will not want you to get her packages anymore.

Speaker 9 (01:00:09):
She'll know it's the wrong signal.

Speaker 8 (01:00:11):
Yeah, if she is single, then you get a date
and then maybe fall in love, and then you move
in together, and then at least you're getting the packages
from your own house.

Speaker 9 (01:00:18):
Right there, your packages now too well, you.

Speaker 2 (01:00:20):
Know, as we suggest too, dode Is, just don't pick
them up for a while and see what happens. And
then she's gonna like if if if they're there for
a day, like she's home, right, she's just she's or
she's at work or wherever, and the packagees get delivered,
she wants you to take them to your house. So Jess,
don't do it for a day or two.

Speaker 3 (01:00:34):
And as the packages build up, maybe one will get
stolen and you can be like, I'm so sorry, I
was busy.

Speaker 2 (01:00:39):
I didn't have time to get the packages in. Or
is she gonna come up to go? Remember I asked
you being these packages in? Are you not going to
do that for like.

Speaker 3 (01:00:44):
I can see her getting the hint once you didn't
do it, you know what I mean?

Speaker 7 (01:00:49):
Yeah, that's actually a good point too. I just I
don't know. I don't want to sound like a bad neighbor,
come across like mean or anything. That's kind of the
issue I have.

Speaker 9 (01:00:56):
I kind of like the piece of cow zone rub.

Speaker 2 (01:01:00):
Oh you think she wants you think you think it's romantic?

Speaker 8 (01:01:05):
What a great love story she's talk I don't get it.

Speaker 2 (01:01:09):
He comes over all the time and I gotta go
order you.

Speaker 4 (01:01:11):
I don't know what else told her in Amazon? I've
ordered everything.

Speaker 3 (01:01:14):
What if you wear when she comes over to get
her packages? Does she wear a nice little huge.

Speaker 7 (01:01:18):
Sex I don't know. All my friends tell me I'm oblivia,
so she could. She could be wearing low cup tops
and I probably wouldn't even notice to be on it.
I'm oblivious to when girls hit on me, like most
guys are. So she is hitting on me or wearing
anything that would suggest anything. It is completely going over
my head. I'm just getting annoyed with the package issue. Now,
you guys make me think I need to look at

(01:01:39):
this whole situation different.

Speaker 3 (01:01:41):
Maybe all right, well, it's a good problem to have
brothers to calling in.

Speaker 2 (01:01:48):
Thank you, all right, bye bye,