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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Wakes up John Jay and.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
What's crag a leg? And this is the big bulls
dove snoopy deagle double gigsel bang boom. What you don't do,
j we're not talking about rin jend and we're not
talking about last year. If the one and only.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Dogs big smooth eagle double jib in your face to
me and.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
In the place to be and you're listening to John
Jay and.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Rich wakes it's John Jay and Rich on this beautiful Wednesday.
John Jay will be with us a little bit later.
He's taken care of some family stuff with him and
his wife Blake, so he will join us in a
little bit.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
But we are we are all here.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
I was actually kind of reading this article Kyle that
reminded me of something that you told us yesterday.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
In the headline is it's in People magazine.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
A woman is annoyed that her husband gave his coworker
a three hundred dollars gift despite not being invite to
the wedding. And the person got married was his work wife,
not invited to the wedding, low work wife three hundred
dollars and his actual wife not workwife. Real wife is like,
well you weren't even invited to the wedding. That's kind
(01:17):
of sucking.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
I feel like that's real messy territory.
Speaker 5 (01:19):
Like if your wife doesn't want you buying a gift
for your work wife, there's a problem there. Yeah, if
you're spending three hundred dollars on your work wife, there's
probably a problem there.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Now he's saying that they've got like this work this
work email, like it's like Slack where you can all
jump in. And her registry was posted on snap on
that that that that website like Monday or workday or
whatever it is, and he just clicked on the registry
and like, oh, this would be kind of cool even
though we're not going. She's nice enough, let's buy her
(01:50):
a present.
Speaker 5 (01:50):
I think No, I think it's totally nice to get
someone like I did. Like that's what I shared with
you guys. I actually bought someone that I know a
wedding gift. I wasn't invited the wedding, but I wanted to, like,
you know, gave a congratulations and just like say I'm
so happy for you too.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
And that kind of thing.
Speaker 6 (02:04):
And you guys all thought it was so weird.
Speaker 5 (02:06):
Except Peyton, who was like I want people to get this.
Speaker 6 (02:10):
I want more friends. Like Kyle, we are not invited
to the wedding, but she still said gift.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Oh god, I can't invite everybody heard.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
So I shared the whole story on her afterwards podcast,
which you can get anywhere you listen to podcasts, and
it's actually a pretty cool podcast that we did.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
It was it was a talking stick Resort, which is
the first time we've ever.
Speaker 5 (02:36):
Done the podcast off campus, which was kind of fun.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
It was it was adventurous for me. You're too high.
Speaker 5 (02:41):
Right after we did the podcast, I went and actually
delivered that wedding gift to this person who got married,
and she texts she was at work, so I just
left it. She was busy at work, so I just
left it there and I got a text from this
morning and.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
She was like, Wow, I'm so grateful, thank you so much.
And I think, like, that's like my love language. She's
like giving gifts.
Speaker 5 (02:59):
So maybe that's in the article that you read, that's
his love language. But the problem is when your wife
has an issue with it and your wife wasn't in
on that decision, Yeah, that's shady, Like that's where I
would have it an issue.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Have you, Kyle, ever done that before? Got a present
for somebody? Are present apprized for a wedding that you
weren't invited to or is this the first one?
Speaker 4 (03:18):
No, I've done that before.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
I don't think that I ever have.
Speaker 6 (03:20):
I've never heard that, and honestly, I kind of into it.
Speaker 7 (03:23):
Do you think that a couple that you did get
the gift for that you didn't get invited to the wedding?
Speaker 6 (03:27):
Do you think they felt bad? They're like, I hope not.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Oh my god, I hope not.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
No, No, I don't think so, because it's not like
we are friendly. But it's not like we are the
friends that go to lunch together or do things together,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
It's just like this is someone who does a lot
for me.
Speaker 5 (03:43):
But then also at the same time, it's like we're
not We're not on that level.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
So I never expected an invite to the wedding. But
I'm also very happy for them.
Speaker 7 (03:51):
So I'm like, here, here, you're such a good person.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Okay, so just out of curiosity, just because I want
to know if I'm not asking you what you spent,
but say you are getting a gift for a friend,
like you know, the same sex friend or a couple
you know, like, and you're not invited the wedding. What's
the price tag for that? What do you what would
you go up to for a present for a wedding
A gift?
Speaker 5 (04:12):
I feel like a good wedding gift is like around
one hundred dollars. I think that's a pretty good wedding
gift because you know, like weddings are extremely expensive. They're
spending a lot of money to have you there, So
I don't know, I feel like around one hundred dollars is.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
A good wedding gift budget. So when you.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
Said that guy spent was three hundred dollars, I was like, geez.
And I think I actually read that same article and
that same coworker had gone to the wife's baby shower
and gotten her like a twenty dollars gift. But it's
not about the money, like maybe she doesn't make that much,
but the wife made the comparison like she got as
a twenty dollars gift, you got her a three hundred
dollars gift, And I think that was one of the
(04:50):
reasons the wife was upset. But then also I secretly
think that the wife's got a problem with their relationship.
Speaker 6 (04:55):
And iably I'm sorry, I'm not letting my man have
a work wife.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Yeah, no, I could get icy water. It's kind of
out these days. However, is it tacky for her on
her work website people aren't gonna be invited to put
her wedding register?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
It is, yeah that No.
Speaker 5 (05:11):
Come on Amazon, have you registered yet?
Speaker 4 (05:15):
Like, where are you at for your wedding?
Speaker 2 (05:16):
No? I have not.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Have you guys talked to it, because honestly, like registering
was really fun, we.
Speaker 7 (05:21):
Haven't gotten to that point. I've like brought up to Katine.
I would be like, so, like what color suit are
you gonna wear? How are you gonna do your hair?
Are you gonna wear it out? Are you gonna grow
it out and do braids? And He's like, I feel
like we should get a venue first.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Well, I was gonna ask you that because we were
in a media aboucher wedding last week. Other than the
date that you would like to be married, that you're
going to send out save the dates for? Is anything
locked in beside your groom?
Speaker 4 (05:45):
No, you'rerriam okay, I mean anything at all? Your next
step is go register.
Speaker 5 (05:52):
I honestly think because like it was like you literally go, well,
I don't know where I mean you guys, You guys
are at the point where you are eventually going to
move into a new home, and that's the goal. You
guys have to go get any You're gonna need everything
for your house. So you go to Target and write
and they literally give you like a scanner and you
just go scan.
Speaker 6 (06:07):
All the stuff they like you.
Speaker 5 (06:10):
You you could do it online too, but I think
it's more fun to go in person.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
Oh I would love yes, And.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Then you can cross one thing off your list. Yeah,
Like you might even put on your wedding registry a
venue to get married.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Well.
Speaker 5 (06:24):
And there's also like in that meeting when we were
talking about like the honey fund, if you want to
give your your wedding guests the option of like instead
of a new crock pot, which you might want the
crock pot, you may not want to deal with the
honeymoon stuff. But they have this thing called honey fund
where you pick out, Oh, we're gonna go to Hawaii
for our honeymoon, and on that honeymoon, we want to
do a jet ski excursion and so people can pay
(06:45):
for said justsursion or that kind of thing too.
Speaker 6 (06:47):
That's so fun.
Speaker 7 (06:48):
No, I definitely need to like lock in and get moving,
but I just really haven't. I think I just like
am not waiting for the stress. But I think the
one thing I need to check off is our save
the dates. But I'm having this issue because I so
diamond in my ring, so I don't want to go
and get the professional pictures taken yet because if I
give them my ring, it's still gonna take them forever
to get it back.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
It's all kinds of drama. So I found in.
Speaker 7 (07:08):
Gilbert there's like those like vintage photo booths, and I
told kadem on sat on Sunday, I said, let's get
dressed up and let's go try and see if we
can do this vintage photo booth get away with.
Speaker 6 (07:19):
It was five.
Speaker 7 (07:20):
Dollars to get this picture pointed and then do our
save the date. So these are the pictures.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
I love it.
Speaker 6 (07:25):
So it's like one of the half.
Speaker 7 (07:27):
And then I was thinking on the backside, that's where
you do the save the date. You put all the
info and then that's what you get in your mail.
You can put that up on your fridge.
Speaker 6 (07:34):
Isn't that so cute.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Okay, do you know you know that audio? And it's perfect? Yes,
I love it.
Speaker 7 (07:41):
I love it because one of the very first pictures
Kadem and I took, we weren't even dating yet, we
went on a date to like Dave and Busters, and
we took it in the photo booth, and there's pictures
of that date on my parents fridge, on my grandma's bridge,
his parents bridge.
Speaker 6 (07:54):
So I thought that was like a little nod to us.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
This is super fun and every one of these pictures
captures your personality.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
We need to stick it up. Can we put it
up on the air.
Speaker 6 (08:01):
I'll put it up on John Jaye Rich.
Speaker 7 (08:02):
I don't like the bottom one because I feel like
my botox is working too good.
Speaker 3 (08:06):
I look crazyble Let's say hello to man who's been
holding to talk about the rudest thing he's ever seen
it a wedding.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Go ahead, matt.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Hey, good morning. So it was my sister's wedding and
it was in it was a destination wedding and Dominican Republic,
and the ceremony was right next to this beautiful, big
giant pool, and before the reception and all that, my
sister had kind of talked about like, oh, afterwards, we
should like jump into the pool. So we went through
(08:36):
the ceremony, had the reception, and then as we were
getting ready to go over to the pool so that
she and her husband can jump in, one of her
friends already jumped in and was like, everybody, come on,
jump in, like kind of coming away from her. Yeah.
It was actually unbelievable. So my sister and still jumped
(08:56):
in with her husband. She made sure that the photographer
didn't get her friend in the photo. They actually still
have like a lot of animals. Yeah, but after they
jumped in, the bridal party jumped in, and then more
and more people started jumping in, and eventually all seventy
six people that had attended attended the wedding were in
the pool.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
That's cool, and we just we just c g I
out the forget her well it turned out, okay, okay,
think about that. So we're all going into pool at
Peyton's wedding.
Speaker 6 (09:30):
I don't even go in public pool, so I don't
think that'll be happening.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
All right, Hey man, thanks for your call.
Wakes up John Jay and.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
What's crag a leg? And this is the big bulls
dove snoopy deagle double gigsel bang boom. What you don't do,
j we're not talking about rin jend and we're not
talking about last year. If the one and only.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Dogs big smooth eagle double jib in your face to
me and.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
In the place to be and you're listening to John
Jay and.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Rich wakes it's John Jay and Rich on this beautiful Wednesday.
John Jay will be with us a little bit later.
He's taken care of some family stuff with him and
his wife Blake, so he will join us in a
little bit.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
But we are we are all here.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
I was actually kind of reading this article Kyle that
reminded me of something that you told us yesterday.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
In the headline is it's in People magazine.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
A woman is annoyed that her husband gave his coworker
a three hundred dollars gift despite not being invite to
the wedding. And the person got married was his work wife,
not invited to the wedding, low work wife three hundred
dollars and his actual wife not workwife. Real wife is like,
well you weren't even invited to the wedding. That's kind
(01:17):
of sucking.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
I feel like that's real messy territory.
Speaker 5 (01:19):
Like if your wife doesn't want you buying a gift
for your work wife, there's a problem there. Yeah, if
you're spending three hundred dollars on your work wife, there's
probably a problem there.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Now he's saying that they've got like this work this
work email, like it's like Slack where you can all
jump in. And her registry was posted on snap on
that that that that website like Monday or workday or
whatever it is, and he just clicked on the registry
and like, oh, this would be kind of cool even
though we're not going. She's nice enough, let's buy her
(01:50):
a present.
Speaker 5 (01:50):
I think No, I think it's totally nice to get
someone like I did. Like that's what I shared with
you guys. I actually bought someone that I know a
wedding gift. I wasn't invited the wedding, but I wanted to, like,
you know, gave a congratulations and just like say I'm
so happy for you too.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
And that kind of thing.
Speaker 6 (02:04):
And you guys all thought it was so weird.
Speaker 5 (02:06):
Except Peyton, who was like I want people to get this.
Speaker 6 (02:10):
I want more friends. Like Kyle, we are not invited
to the wedding, but she still said gift.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Oh god, I can't invite everybody heard.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
So I shared the whole story on her afterwards podcast,
which you can get anywhere you listen to podcasts, and
it's actually a pretty cool podcast that we did.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
It was it was a talking stick Resort, which is
the first time we've ever.
Speaker 5 (02:36):
Done the podcast off campus, which was kind of fun.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
It was it was adventurous for me. You're too high.
Speaker 5 (02:41):
Right after we did the podcast, I went and actually
delivered that wedding gift to this person who got married,
and she texts she was at work, so I just
left it. She was busy at work, so I just
left it there and I got a text from this
morning and.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
She was like, Wow, I'm so grateful, thank you so much.
And I think, like, that's like my love language. She's
like giving gifts.
Speaker 5 (02:59):
So maybe that's in the article that you read, that's
his love language. But the problem is when your wife
has an issue with it and your wife wasn't in
on that decision, Yeah, that's shady, Like that's where I
would have it an issue.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Have you, Kyle, ever done that before? Got a present
for somebody? Are present apprized for a wedding that you
weren't invited to or is this the first one?
Speaker 4 (03:18):
No, I've done that before.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
I don't think that I ever have.
Speaker 6 (03:20):
I've never heard that, and honestly, I kind of into it.
Speaker 7 (03:23):
Do you think that a couple that you did get
the gift for that you didn't get invited to the wedding?
Speaker 6 (03:27):
Do you think they felt bad? They're like, I hope not.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Oh my god, I hope not.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
No, No, I don't think so, because it's not like
we are friendly. But it's not like we are the
friends that go to lunch together or do things together,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
It's just like this is someone who does a lot
for me.
Speaker 5 (03:43):
But then also at the same time, it's like we're
not We're not on that level.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
So I never expected an invite to the wedding. But
I'm also very happy for them.
Speaker 7 (03:51):
So I'm like, here, here, you're such a good person.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Okay, so just out of curiosity, just because I want
to know if I'm not asking you what you spent,
but say you are getting a gift for a friend,
like you know, the same sex friend or a couple
you know, like, and you're not invited the wedding. What's
the price tag for that? What do you what would
you go up to for a present for a wedding
A gift?
Speaker 5 (04:12):
I feel like a good wedding gift is like around
one hundred dollars. I think that's a pretty good wedding
gift because you know, like weddings are extremely expensive. They're
spending a lot of money to have you there, So
I don't know, I feel like around one hundred dollars is.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
A good wedding gift budget. So when you.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
Said that guy spent was three hundred dollars, I was like, geez.
And I think I actually read that same article and
that same coworker had gone to the wife's baby shower
and gotten her like a twenty dollars gift. But it's
not about the money, like maybe she doesn't make that much,
but the wife made the comparison like she got as
a twenty dollars gift, you got her a three hundred
dollars gift, And I think that was one of the
(04:50):
reasons the wife was upset. But then also I secretly
think that the wife's got a problem with their relationship.
Speaker 6 (04:55):
And iably I'm sorry, I'm not letting my man have
a work wife.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Yeah, no, I could get icy water. It's kind of
out these days. However, is it tacky for her on
her work website people aren't gonna be invited to put
her wedding register?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
It is, yeah that No.
Speaker 5 (05:11):
Come on Amazon, have you registered yet?
Speaker 4 (05:15):
Like, where are you at for your wedding?
Speaker 2 (05:16):
No? I have not.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Have you guys talked to it, because honestly, like registering
was really fun, we.
Speaker 7 (05:21):
Haven't gotten to that point. I've like brought up to Katine.
I would be like, so, like what color suit are
you gonna wear? How are you gonna do your hair?
Are you gonna wear it out? Are you gonna grow
it out and do braids? And He's like, I feel
like we should get a venue first.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Well, I was gonna ask you that because we were
in a media aboucher wedding last week. Other than the
date that you would like to be married, that you're
going to send out save the dates for? Is anything
locked in beside your groom?
Speaker 4 (05:45):
No, you'rerriam okay, I mean anything at all? Your next
step is go register.
Speaker 5 (05:52):
I honestly think because like it was like you literally go, well,
I don't know where I mean you guys, You guys
are at the point where you are eventually going to
move into a new home, and that's the goal. You
guys have to go get any You're gonna need everything
for your house. So you go to Target and write
and they literally give you like a scanner and you
just go scan.
Speaker 6 (06:07):
All the stuff they like you.
Speaker 5 (06:10):
You you could do it online too, but I think
it's more fun to go in person.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
Oh I would love yes, And.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Then you can cross one thing off your list. Yeah,
Like you might even put on your wedding registry a
venue to get married.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Well.
Speaker 5 (06:24):
And there's also like in that meeting when we were
talking about like the honey fund, if you want to
give your your wedding guests the option of like instead
of a new crock pot, which you might want the
crock pot, you may not want to deal with the
honeymoon stuff. But they have this thing called honey fund
where you pick out, Oh, we're gonna go to Hawaii
for our honeymoon, and on that honeymoon, we want to
do a jet ski excursion and so people can pay
(06:45):
for said justsursion or that kind of thing too.
Speaker 6 (06:47):
That's so fun.
Speaker 7 (06:48):
No, I definitely need to like lock in and get moving,
but I just really haven't. I think I just like
am not waiting for the stress. But I think the
one thing I need to check off is our save
the dates. But I'm having this issue because I so
diamond in my ring, so I don't want to go
and get the professional pictures taken yet because if I
give them my ring, it's still gonna take them forever
to get it back.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
It's all kinds of drama. So I found in.
Speaker 7 (07:08):
Gilbert there's like those like vintage photo booths, and I
told kadem on sat on Sunday, I said, let's get
dressed up and let's go try and see if we
can do this vintage photo booth get away with.
Speaker 6 (07:19):
It was five.
Speaker 7 (07:20):
Dollars to get this picture pointed and then do our
save the date. So these are the pictures.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
I love it.
Speaker 6 (07:25):
So it's like one of the half.
Speaker 7 (07:27):
And then I was thinking on the backside, that's where
you do the save the date. You put all the
info and then that's what you get in your mail.
You can put that up on your fridge.
Speaker 6 (07:34):
Isn't that so cute.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Okay, do you know you know that audio? And it's perfect? Yes,
I love it.
Speaker 7 (07:41):
I love it because one of the very first pictures
Kadem and I took, we weren't even dating yet, we
went on a date to like Dave and Busters, and
we took it in the photo booth, and there's pictures
of that date on my parents fridge, on my grandma's bridge,
his parents bridge.
Speaker 6 (07:54):
So I thought that was like a little nod to us.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
This is super fun and every one of these pictures
captures your personality.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
We need to stick it up. Can we put it
up on the air.
Speaker 6 (08:01):
I'll put it up on John Jaye Rich.
Speaker 7 (08:02):
I don't like the bottom one because I feel like
my botox is working too good.
Speaker 3 (08:06):
I look crazyble Let's say hello to man who's been
holding to talk about the rudest thing he's ever seen
it a wedding.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Go ahead, matt.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Hey, good morning. So it was my sister's wedding and
it was in it was a destination wedding and Dominican Republic,
and the ceremony was right next to this beautiful, big
giant pool, and before the reception and all that, my
sister had kind of talked about like, oh, afterwards, we
should like jump into the pool. So we went through
(08:36):
the ceremony, had the reception, and then as we were
getting ready to go over to the pool so that
she and her husband can jump in, one of her
friends already jumped in and was like, everybody, come on,
jump in, like kind of coming away from her. Yeah.
It was actually unbelievable. So my sister and still jumped
(08:56):
in with her husband. She made sure that the photographer
didn't get her friend in the photo. They actually still
have like a lot of animals. Yeah, but after they
jumped in, the bridal party jumped in, and then more
and more people started jumping in, and eventually all seventy
six people that had attended attended the wedding were in
the pool.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
That's cool, and we just we just c g I
out the forget her well it turned out, okay, okay,
think about that. So we're all going into pool at
Peyton's wedding.
Speaker 6 (09:30):
I don't even go in public pool, so I don't
think that'll be happening.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
All right, Hey man, thanks for your call.
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