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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's John Day and rich Alicia, Good morning, Good morning.
(00:02):
What's going on?
Speaker 2 (00:04):
So I just kind of wanted to talk to you
guys about a situation. And I just want to see
if I'm being like a jerk or if I'm exaggerating
or you.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Know, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
So I had a friends giving last night and it's
me and my girlfriends. It's a big tradition. We've had
it for like six seven years. I've hosted the last
two years. And one of our friends who we've all
been friends with for a very long time, she brought
one of her friends. She invited one of her friends,
which you know, we're not like an exclusive group or whatever.
But this girl that she brought, none of us really
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like her. She's always rude, she's always negative. She always
has like a really smart, slick comment to say, and
it's usually like under her breath and then will pretend
she didn't say anything. So like kind of it's very
it's very odd, and just like from the second she
walked in, she was giving everybody attitude. Didn't bring a
single dish, like, not even a drink, a bottle of wine,
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like sparkling water, nothing, and then the whole time. She
was just criticizing the food. She said to one of
my friends, like straight to her face, like, oh you
made this mac and cheese. It looks really dry.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Oh it's so rude.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
It was awful. Like she every person who brought out
their dish, she had something to say. She's like, oh,
the turkey, Oh is it supposed to be that color?
Like to someone who took the time to make a
whole turkey, made fun of the ham she said it
looked weird. Any song that came on the playlist, she
was like rolling her eyes, calling every song stupid.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
And then literally you didn't even want to be there.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Right, like why was she there?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Exactly? And then the worst but that's exactly what I
was thinking. She was like, Oh, I don't really do
house parties. I don't really like to be here. Then
why are you here, ma'am? Nobody invited you.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
Who did invite her? Like how did she know about this?
Speaker 2 (01:56):
So it's the one friend in her group who is
the sister of one of our friend who like she's
just part of the group as well, and like, you know,
that's the thing is she's her friend, but none of
us have ever liked her and like honestly, Like for me,
was like, whatever, I'll deal with the comments. We've all
just kind of gotten used to ignoring her, like whenever
she like shows up, like miss I only eat organic,
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like everything that came out like is this organic? Is
this organic? It's like, girl, you weren't even invited. And
then the final strawl like this is where I kind
of started to lose my My chool was before any
of us have even aten. This woman pulls out a
tupperware out of her bag okay, and starts packing herself
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with to go play.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
I thought, everything looks so terrible. Do you want to
take it?
Speaker 4 (02:49):
Yep?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
She everything was so disgusting and HomeGroup was needed to
take half of the mashed but half like half like
she literally scooped being like made a clear cut down
the middle and half of it into her topperware.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
I can't believe you guys stand for that.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
I probably would have checked my friend too and been like,
are you like what is going on here?
Speaker 5 (03:13):
That's what I was just gonna say.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
I think if conversation needs to be had with a
friend who invited her, like, did you like is that
normal behavior?
Speaker 6 (03:20):
Is that?
Speaker 4 (03:20):
Like?
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Because that's so rude well, I haven't I have a
take on it up until she took the mashed potatoes.
So first I think we throw this out there eight
seven seven nine three seven one oh four seven. Lit's
hear if anybody else has a rude friend, doesn't that
have to be Thanksgiving related, but just the rudest thing,
like that's just so rude. It's pretty over the top.
I will tell you. I think it's two things going
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on in her life before she took the mashed potatoes.
I think that she's probably got some issues at home.
I don't know how old she is. There's just some
sadness to her right because it's you know, the misery
of those company. There's that, or it's just a level
of maturity that she hasn't hit yet. Because I felt
like I felt somewhat seen there, because I can recall
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in my childhood, in my life as a single adult,
getting out into the world, going to people's houses and
being very similar complaining. Well, I mean, I've complained my
entire life about stuff. So now, like I've learned, I
look back at certain things I've done and I'm like, God,
what a jerk I was. I shouldn't have said those things,
and I think, like, right now, I feel like I
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feel like in the last year or two, I gotten
like really mature of myself. Hmmm, so like I remember,
it wasn't even that long ago. I was at a friend.
A friend a kind of a famous friend, had a
big party and they had a VIP area in the
party and I was invited to the VIP area. The
food was on the second floor. The VIP are was
on the bottom floor. I was like, what GIFs, what
kind of VIP area is this? It was like every
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time I need food, I got to walk upstairs like
and I complained and complain to Now. I look back
at that now and I think, shame on you.
Speaker 7 (04:53):
Project in a cool VIP area with your friend no food.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
I was like to me, idea is food?
Speaker 8 (05:00):
You can't leave the VIP area?
Speaker 3 (05:02):
I did.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
How could there be a vip Like if I let
myself go, I can get angry again. I look at
like like being mature, like you'd be like, oh, that's cool.
I was in the vip A. Thanks for inviting me.
That's great. Where's the food? Okay, it's great. Do you
have someone that goes and gets it? Do you know
what I'm saying, so she's either not mature enough to
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know that this is like, this is a fun party,
and I remember all my I've been to friends gimmings
before I was single, and I don't ever remember bringing food. Yeah,
I don't think I don't remembers that. You just learn
as you go. So those are my two options.
Speaker 8 (05:38):
But mature, he's got to be part of it.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
So, I mean, you're right.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Sometimes people that are really negative and critical like that,
they do have more going on, Like it says more
about them and what's going on in their life than
what it does about the peroson they're saying the things
about So that could also be it too, But I mean,
you don't really want to surround yourself with that.
Speaker 8 (05:56):
Stealing the non organic mashed potatoes half of them, that
is sort of likely, Well what just happened?
Speaker 1 (06:02):
That would be a little confused. To talk to your
friend Alicia. She's going to bring her back around you guys.
Ah right, Alisha, thanks for jumping on there with us.
I really appreciate you. Eight seven seven nine three seven
one four seven who's had the rudest experience of someone
at a dinner function or something like that. We'll talk
to you next. John J.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
Ridge.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Emily, Hello, Hello, Hi, what's up? M oh Hi?
Speaker 4 (06:27):
I just kind of I didn't have a bad friend
like thing, but I kind of wanted to just weigh
in on Homegirl.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Go ahead.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
So I kind of think, based on experiences I've had
with people similar to that, I think Homegirl that nobody likes,
you know. I think she really likes her friend and
is jealous of the friend group's closeness with her. So
I think she's just trying to kind of like downplay
and talk crab about everything they do, so that you know,
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her friend will slowly kind of like start to feel
the same way and like spend more time with her,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (06:59):
Yeah, Because like I've.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
Had friends do that in the past, and I feel
like I've even done that as like a middle schooler,
but not as a grown adult at my big age.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
That's a good point, That's what I was saying, being mature.
They probably she's not mature there yet. Totally. Thanks, Emily,
have a great you do think you Brittany? Did you
have a rude guest story?
Speaker 6 (07:24):
Hello?
Speaker 4 (07:25):
Hi?
Speaker 7 (07:26):
Oh hi, Sorry I cut out, Yes I did. Actually
I attended a wedding and the bride was so like
anal about how much food was going to be left over,
because she actually brought her own tapp awar to the wedding,
so she was standing behind the crew that was portioning
out the food, making sure they weren't giving too much.
Speaker 8 (07:45):
Food out to.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Enjoy. Spent all this on a huge party.
Speaker 8 (07:55):
Enjoy it.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
The scoop.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
That's great.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
I don't know.
Speaker 7 (08:00):
But every time, like if something was left over at
the table, she's like, put it in topwar put it
in a tupwear. I'm like, girl, like enjoy your day
like you guys said. But she was always that way,
Like at parties she would show up with tupperware and
bring it and they're like that is so. We would
just shake our head and be like, that's Whitney for you.
Speaker 8 (08:16):
She's already an auntie. She's acting like an auntie.
Speaker 7 (08:20):
Oh yeah, yeah, she she was the gtar. But you
know everybody has the room thing.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Well, thank you, thanks, I had.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
To share it.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (08:30):
I love you guys. By the way, you.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Have a great day.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Bye you too.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
What's up Ramon?
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Hey?
Speaker 6 (08:36):
Yeah, I had a funny Thanksgiving. Actually I was like twelve.
I had an uncle who was crazy who freshly got
out of prison, which I didn't know at the time,
and I was sitting next to him. He was saying
these crazy things, and the one thing is that he
was my brothers are dating. We're natives, so they're dating
white girls. And he was looking at him like, yes,
look at these, look at these, look at these white woman.
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I'm like, sitting next to When I was twelve, I'm like, uh,
what do.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
You say saying?
Speaker 6 (09:00):
And then he's like, look at this juicy ham makes
me want to call her again. It was like I'm
cleaning it up. But he was going to explicit details
while I was twelve sitting next to him. I'm like,
how long have you been in prison?
Speaker 8 (09:11):
Uncle?
Speaker 6 (09:11):
He's like about five years. I'm like, let me get
him out of here because I'm like twelve. And he
was saying all these explicit things about my brother dating
white woman, how the hand was juicy, how the mash
potatoes used to look like back then when she could
it was just really.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
Really bad.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
So he's talking about them like he's talking about the food,
but he's looking at the white girls like making it about.
Speaker 6 (09:33):
Yeah, my brothers were dating at the time, and it
was just like these white women. I'm like, uh, I'm
like twelve years old. I'm like, what are you talking about?
Speaker 1 (09:40):
You're twelve years old?
Speaker 6 (09:42):
Yeah, I was like, yeah, I remember when he came
out of he was fresh out and he was definitely
going into the hand like how juicy it was. And
I'm like, I'm like, twelve years old, just had no
idea what's going I was just sitting over the blank
face like can you come down? I'm like, where's my mam?
Speaker 4 (09:54):
Mad?
Speaker 1 (09:55):
That's crazy? It was.
Speaker 6 (09:56):
It was just really explicit. So it's just some of
the things I cleaned up though, But that was.
Speaker 8 (10:00):
I'm glad glad we got the PG thirteen version.
Speaker 5 (10:07):
Hi, good morning you guys. So this was years ago,
years and years and years ago. So I think the
funny thing was. So it was at a powow where
I'm from, and I was engaged to my husband at
the time. But traditionally we invite family what have you,
And I invited my my husband's brother brother and his
wife at the time, and in that setting, you're supposed
to serve the people that you invite to a palow.
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So there's all this food, like under a tent. My
family has like fry bread, soup, all this traditional like
native food. And then my sister in law will soon
to be sister in law. She starts eating and she's
kind of a bigger lady, which is fine. All of
a sudden, some of my relatives like, who is that?
And I'm like, oh, that's the man that I'm dating
his sister in law. And we look over and she's
eating soup, and literally she takes out her front teeth,
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puts them in her pocket, puts them in her pocket,
and to beep, eating.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
Soup.
Speaker 5 (11:00):
She's just like and she was like twenty five, Like
she's not wasn't old? She twenty five? And my one
of my relatives looks at me and he was like,
all I have to say is thank god, I ate
my soup already.
Speaker 8 (11:13):
There's something we said for her feeling at home enough
to be you know, like, you know, let it all
hang out well.
Speaker 5 (11:19):
And then and then I had to update my future
my now husband. I had to tell him later on
that evening on the phone because he was on a
fire assignment fighting fires and here I told him what happened.
He was like, I can't believe she did that in
front of your in front of the first time she
ever met you, I was like, oh my gosh, like.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
You couldn't warn me.
Speaker 5 (11:37):
He's like, I didn't think she'd do it the first
time meeting your entire family. I mean I'm talking like
fifty relatives all saw her just blatantly pull.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Her teeth out. How awesome I'm in her pocket.
Speaker 5 (11:47):
Yeah, I just want to share that. So thanksgiving you
guys too.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
You only reminds me of the top war story. I
remember after Luis Gonzalez won the World Series for the
World for the Diamondbacks, he there was another game. It
was the next season, right, and the Diamondbacks are the
hottest thing in the world, and he gave us a
sweet for my mom and me and my family, and
the sweet was loaded with food. So my mom Mexican,
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my aunt Receipita Mexican, and we're done. The game's over
and they start grabbing all the food left over, putting
into trash bags Like Santa Claus. Each trash bag lift
themers over their shoulders.
Speaker 5 (12:26):
The mom.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
I feel them though.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
I took a couple to go plates that love putt
family fest. Oh I saw you do that.
Speaker 8 (12:33):
I think I had three.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
I got a good food