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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, we're getting ready for Second Date Update. We
(00:01):
got braid on the line. Braden, give us a little
bit about what's going on in your dating situation.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
So I went on this date with this girl. We
went bowling and even hooked up afterwards in my car.
Now I'm not really hearing from her, So maybe you
guys can help me out.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
What kind of car do you have?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
I got a Camaro?
Speaker 1 (00:18):
There you go. Next kidding, Kitty, just jokes, Bray, all right,
hang on, all right. Second Date Update starts next with
John Jay and Rich.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
And I know she'll be the death of me. Ele.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
The next segment we're going to do is called second
Date Update because that's what we're going to try and get,
and that's what the bit is called. Second Date Update
starts right now on John Jay and Rich.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
John Jay Rich, it's time for Second Date Update. You
meet somebody either on an app, at church, at a club, whatever,
You make a date. You go out on the date.
Then the person doesn't call you or respond to your
text message anymore. So you come to us, we hear
your story, like we are here with Braiden. Then we're
gonna call the person you went out with and find
out why they're blowing you off. Good morning, Braiden.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Hey, good morning guys.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
What's your story, Braiden.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Yeah, so a couple of weeks ago, I went out
with this girl, Christine, and I don't know if I
thought the date went really well. We went bowling and
we laughed and we're chatting the whole time. I had
a great time, and yeah, things kind of escalated and
we ended up by hooking up in my car for
(01:30):
a little bit. She didn't want to go back to
my place was a little far, and you know, she
didn't want me to come to her, and I guess
for roommates reasons, but but yeah, I mean it felt
like we were really into each other and it went
really well. But now I'm kind of confused because I
haven't heard from her for like almost a week, and
you know, we texted a little bit, you know, the
(01:52):
day after our date, but now it's like she's totally ghosted,
and like, I don't know what's what's up. Like, you know,
I thought things went really well. I thought that we
were both kind of giving off the same vibe.
Speaker 5 (02:06):
Anything weird happened while you were making out in the car,
Like I don't know the awkward Did you go too far?
Speaker 1 (02:11):
What did it defender? Like?
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Were you too sloppy?
Speaker 2 (02:14):
I don't think so. I mean we're both super into
it and we were both bummed at like, you know,
neither of our places was an option that night, So
and what was it like?
Speaker 6 (02:24):
It wasn't like, oh my gosh, I like this so much,
but I have roomains home where it was like, oh,
too bad, my roommates are home and I don't want
to go too far to your house. Was she just
trying to get out of there?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
I mean I didn't get that impression. Knows just like yeah,
like yeah, sorry, my roommates are home and makes me uncomfortable,
like bringing a guy over when they're there, which I get.
So I don't know. No, I really thought like we would,
we would, you know, continue it another time. But now
I'm like a little freaked out.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
I wonder if maybe you gave her the ick with
the way you were bowling. What do you picture he
was squatting down or he makes a perverted comment when
you put your fingers in the ball.
Speaker 7 (03:07):
So I mean, yeah, but the fact that you know that,
like that's you know that the day, That's a good
point all right, dude.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Well that's enough for us to call her. Say. Her
name is Christine. Here's how it works. You chill. We're
gonna get her on the phone, okay, and then we're
going to interview her and find out why she's blowing
you off, right, all right. Second Ate update continues next
with John Jaye Rich. John Jaye Rich, we are in
the middle of second Ate Update.
Speaker 6 (03:38):
Let's meet Brayden, who started off cuffing season by taking
his holiday date to a bowling alley, the most romantic
of locations, which led to a dance of love in
the car, but was Brayden's clumsy, drooling lunges all gut
her balls.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
I mean that's a good recap right there, right, Bradon, Yes,
very complimentary when you think about it. All right, So
we're gonna get Christina on the phone and find out
why she's blowing you off, all right, So you stay quiet. Okay?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Here, Hello, Hi is this Christine?
Speaker 4 (04:27):
It is Hi. My name is Peyton. I'm with John
jay and Rich and we just wanted to talk to
you on the radio really quickly if you got time
this morning.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Okay, Christine, we got a call from a guy, so
you know, We're doing our radio show and talk about
relationships and dating and if anyone went on any fun
dates lately or they got blown off. And sure enough,
this guy calls us says he went on a date
with you. He described the date as a lot of fun,
even got into the makeout session in the car afterwards. Right,
you follow me so far? You know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 8 (04:56):
Yeah, yeah, I'm following you so far.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
His nickname was all of us in the studio is
Braid in the Bowler. So what's the deal with Braid
and the Bowler.
Speaker 8 (05:11):
Yeah, I just there was just a lot of little
stuff that that wound up being really it added up
to kind of bigger stuff. So I'm yeah, I was
kind of done.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Could you tell us the little stuff?
Speaker 8 (05:25):
Yeah? It just it turned into like like little comments
and things that he did during bowling, Like, okay, so,
for instance, like I was trying to joke around about
the fact that I'm not good at it, you know,
and I was trying to make a joke about that,
and he goes, oh, well, I'm just naturally good at
this kind of thing, and it just seemed like kind
(05:49):
of egotistical. And then we go further on in the
game and like I actually do get a strike and yeah, right,
And and he's not he's not hyping me up though,
he's not. He's not being happy for me. He just goes, yeah,
you're catching on, Like.
Speaker 6 (06:06):
You didn't freak out that you never bowl and you
got to strike. That's a pretty big deal, right, Yeah.
Speaker 8 (06:12):
He'd no, he was just like, yeah, you're catching on,
Like like his job to like make me better at
it or I don't know, it just it came across
like he's always acting like he's he's he's better at things.
He's he has to be smarter, it has to be
a competition, and it just it, honestly just kind of
put me in mind of my dad because he was
(06:35):
like that too. And I know you're ansay daddy issues
and I understand, but like he just kind of acted
like that and and I'm projecting like the hate that
I have for my dad being like that onto this
and it was just not comfortable for me anymore.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Hmm.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
I get that.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Just because he's a better bowler than.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
You, I think was what he was saying.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
You went from being a better bowlard, which interesting we listen,
you self diagnosed yourself with daddy.
Speaker 6 (07:02):
Issues, which is you know, introspective.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Yeah, wow, that was really interesting.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
Well and then the fact that she knows that and
she can see that in him. It's like that there
is no bigger red flag, right.
Speaker 6 (07:13):
Okay, but what about the red flag that she went
and made out with him in the car?
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Afterwards to make out with sometimes people are off and
then you're done. You want to see you test out
a little bit and you're like okay, you know, but
the deeper issues is this is going anywhere?
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Right?
Speaker 4 (07:29):
Like when she's looking at him and just wants to
hate his face, Like, yeah, it's probably not a good match, like.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
A rage makeout?
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Were you making out with him in the car at all?
And thinking about your dad? Gros I encourage everyone tonight
whenever you're intimate with together, think about your parents. Would
you encourage that you have such issues? Well, Christine, we
actually have Braiden on the line.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
Yo, Christine, see are you are you actually serious? And
I like I remind you of your dad, Like are
you are you joking? Because that's kind of insane.
Speaker 8 (08:07):
I mean what, it's okay if you do, but like
you're the one that it's kind of like sorry, I'm
a little forward right now. You're the one that was
like coming at it and kind of making it a competition.
And it's it's not cute, you know what I mean,
Like it's it's it's a lot.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
I mean, it's not girls like confidence. I mean, like
I bowled a good game and we're like joking and
like we even hooked up. So I don't I just
don't get why, Like that's like why you ghosted.
Speaker 6 (08:37):
Well, I mean she's telling me pretty directly, yeah, it's
it's okay.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Well, I guess like confidence, mind you of your dad,
Like I don't know, it just feels like you're projecting. Honestly,
it's like her.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
Say, I am projecting.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
I mean a lot of your your manner is the
reminded her father, and.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
I guess she's And if you don't your dad, that's
all you're seeing in him.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
I look at it as a red flag for both
of you.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
Could be well, I mean, I guess, like I don't know,
just own up to it and call it your daddy issues,
you know, instead of just like yeah.
Speaker 6 (09:19):
But also also you need to be a little less egotistical.
It sounds like why you're bowling.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Yeah, I can't help it. I'm a pretty good bowler.
Speaker 6 (09:27):
No second, we're not gonna we're not gonna Brad hit
that down a little bit. You're gonna keep that right there.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Watch his bowling talents.
Speaker 8 (09:38):
We're just like we're gonna double down.
Speaker 4 (09:40):
Then we're not.
Speaker 8 (09:40):
We're not gonna like stand right there, We're just going
to double down. Okay, all right, just checking making sure.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
All right, So no, no second date for each of you.
You're out right both of you not.
Speaker 6 (09:50):
Interested kind of you?
Speaker 1 (09:52):
Yeah, okay, okay, well thank you both for going there
with us.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Thanks, no problem.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
Yes, yep, that's second date update John day Rich
All right, we're getting ready for Second Date Update. We
(00:01):
got braid on the line. Braden, give us a little
bit about what's going on in your dating situation.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
So I went on this date with this girl. We
went bowling and even hooked up afterwards in my car.
Now I'm not really hearing from her, So maybe you
guys can help me out.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
What kind of car do you have?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
I got a Camaro?
Speaker 1 (00:18):
There you go. Next kidding, Kitty, just jokes, Bray, all right,
hang on, all right. Second Date Update starts next with
John Jay and Rich.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
And I know she'll be the death of me. Ele.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
The next segment we're going to do is called second
Date Update because that's what we're going to try and get,
and that's what the bit is called. Second Date Update
starts right now on John Jay and Rich.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
John Jay Rich, it's time for Second Date Update. You
meet somebody either on an app, at church, at a club, whatever,
You make a date. You go out on the date.
Then the person doesn't call you or respond to your
text message anymore. So you come to us, we hear
your story, like we are here with Braiden. Then we're
gonna call the person you went out with and find
out why they're blowing you off. Good morning, Braiden.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Hey, good morning guys.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
What's your story, Braiden.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Yeah, so a couple of weeks ago, I went out
with this girl, Christine, and I don't know if I
thought the date went really well. We went bowling and
we laughed and we're chatting the whole time. I had
a great time, and yeah, things kind of escalated and
we ended up by hooking up in my car for
(01:30):
a little bit. She didn't want to go back to
my place was a little far, and you know, she
didn't want me to come to her, and I guess
for roommates reasons, but but yeah, I mean it felt
like we were really into each other and it went
really well. But now I'm kind of confused because I
haven't heard from her for like almost a week, and
you know, we texted a little bit, you know, the
(01:52):
day after our date, but now it's like she's totally ghosted,
and like, I don't know what's what's up. Like, you know,
I thought things went really well. I thought that we
were both kind of giving off the same vibe.
Speaker 5 (02:06):
Anything weird happened while you were making out in the car,
Like I don't know the awkward Did you go too far?
Speaker 1 (02:11):
What did it defender? Like?
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Were you too sloppy?
Speaker 2 (02:14):
I don't think so. I mean we're both super into
it and we were both bummed at like, you know,
neither of our places was an option that night, So
and what was it like?
Speaker 6 (02:24):
It wasn't like, oh my gosh, I like this so much,
but I have roomains home where it was like, oh,
too bad, my roommates are home and I don't want
to go too far to your house. Was she just
trying to get out of there?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
I mean I didn't get that impression. Knows just like yeah,
like yeah, sorry, my roommates are home and makes me uncomfortable,
like bringing a guy over when they're there, which I get.
So I don't know. No, I really thought like we would,
we would, you know, continue it another time. But now
I'm like a little freaked out.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
I wonder if maybe you gave her the ick with
the way you were bowling. What do you picture he
was squatting down or he makes a perverted comment when
you put your fingers in the ball.
Speaker 7 (03:07):
So I mean, yeah, but the fact that you know that,
like that's you know that the day, That's a good
point all right, dude.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Well that's enough for us to call her. Say. Her
name is Christine. Here's how it works. You chill. We're
gonna get her on the phone, okay, and then we're
going to interview her and find out why she's blowing
you off, right, all right. Second Ate update continues next
with John Jaye Rich. John Jaye Rich, we are in
the middle of second Ate Update.
Speaker 6 (03:38):
Let's meet Brayden, who started off cuffing season by taking
his holiday date to a bowling alley, the most romantic
of locations, which led to a dance of love in
the car, but was Brayden's clumsy, drooling lunges all gut
her balls.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
I mean that's a good recap right there, right, Bradon, Yes,
very complimentary when you think about it. All right, So
we're gonna get Christina on the phone and find out
why she's blowing you off, all right, So you stay quiet. Okay?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Here, Hello, Hi is this Christine?
Speaker 4 (04:27):
It is Hi. My name is Peyton. I'm with John
jay and Rich and we just wanted to talk to
you on the radio really quickly if you got time
this morning.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Okay, Christine, we got a call from a guy, so
you know, We're doing our radio show and talk about
relationships and dating and if anyone went on any fun
dates lately or they got blown off. And sure enough,
this guy calls us says he went on a date
with you. He described the date as a lot of fun,
even got into the makeout session in the car afterwards. Right,
you follow me so far? You know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 8 (04:56):
Yeah, yeah, I'm following you so far.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
His nickname was all of us in the studio is
Braid in the Bowler. So what's the deal with Braid
and the Bowler.
Speaker 8 (05:11):
Yeah, I just there was just a lot of little
stuff that that wound up being really it added up
to kind of bigger stuff. So I'm yeah, I was
kind of done.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Could you tell us the little stuff?
Speaker 8 (05:25):
Yeah? It just it turned into like like little comments
and things that he did during bowling, Like, okay, so,
for instance, like I was trying to joke around about
the fact that I'm not good at it, you know,
and I was trying to make a joke about that,
and he goes, oh, well, I'm just naturally good at
this kind of thing, and it just seemed like kind
(05:49):
of egotistical. And then we go further on in the
game and like I actually do get a strike and yeah, right,
And and he's not he's not hyping me up though,
he's not. He's not being happy for me. He just goes, yeah,
you're catching on, Like.
Speaker 6 (06:06):
You didn't freak out that you never bowl and you
got to strike. That's a pretty big deal, right, Yeah.
Speaker 8 (06:12):
He'd no, he was just like, yeah, you're catching on,
Like like his job to like make me better at
it or I don't know, it just it came across
like he's always acting like he's he's he's better at things.
He's he has to be smarter, it has to be
a competition, and it just it, honestly just kind of
put me in mind of my dad because he was
(06:35):
like that too. And I know you're ansay daddy issues
and I understand, but like he just kind of acted
like that and and I'm projecting like the hate that
I have for my dad being like that onto this
and it was just not comfortable for me anymore.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Hmm.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
I get that.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Just because he's a better bowler than.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
You, I think was what he was saying.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
You went from being a better bowlard, which interesting we listen,
you self diagnosed yourself with daddy.
Speaker 6 (07:02):
Issues, which is you know, introspective.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Yeah, wow, that was really interesting.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
Well and then the fact that she knows that and
she can see that in him. It's like that there
is no bigger red flag, right.
Speaker 6 (07:13):
Okay, but what about the red flag that she went
and made out with him in the car?
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Afterwards to make out with sometimes people are off and
then you're done. You want to see you test out
a little bit and you're like okay, you know, but
the deeper issues is this is going anywhere?
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Right?
Speaker 4 (07:29):
Like when she's looking at him and just wants to
hate his face, Like, yeah, it's probably not a good match, like.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
A rage makeout?
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Were you making out with him in the car at all?
And thinking about your dad? Gros I encourage everyone tonight
whenever you're intimate with together, think about your parents. Would
you encourage that you have such issues? Well, Christine, we
actually have Braiden on the line.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
Yo, Christine, see are you are you actually serious? And
I like I remind you of your dad, Like are
you are you joking? Because that's kind of insane.
Speaker 8 (08:07):
I mean what, it's okay if you do, but like
you're the one that it's kind of like sorry, I'm
a little forward right now. You're the one that was
like coming at it and kind of making it a competition.
And it's it's not cute, you know what I mean,
Like it's it's it's a lot.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
I mean, it's not girls like confidence. I mean, like
I bowled a good game and we're like joking and
like we even hooked up. So I don't I just
don't get why, Like that's like why you ghosted.
Speaker 6 (08:37):
Well, I mean she's telling me pretty directly, yeah, it's
it's okay.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Well, I guess like confidence, mind you of your dad,
Like I don't know, it just feels like you're projecting. Honestly,
it's like her.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
Say, I am projecting.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
I mean a lot of your your manner is the
reminded her father, and.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
I guess she's And if you don't your dad, that's
all you're seeing in him.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
I look at it as a red flag for both
of you.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
Could be well, I mean, I guess, like I don't know,
just own up to it and call it your daddy issues,
you know, instead of just like yeah.
Speaker 6 (09:19):
But also also you need to be a little less egotistical.
It sounds like why you're bowling.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Yeah, I can't help it. I'm a pretty good bowler.
Speaker 6 (09:27):
No second, we're not gonna we're not gonna Brad hit
that down a little bit. You're gonna keep that right there.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Watch his bowling talents.
Speaker 8 (09:38):
We're just like we're gonna double down.
Speaker 4 (09:40):
Then we're not.
Speaker 8 (09:40):
We're not gonna like stand right there, We're just going
to double down. Okay, all right, just checking making sure.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
All right, So no, no second date for each of you.
You're out right both of you not.
Speaker 6 (09:50):
Interested kind of you?
Speaker 1 (09:52):
Yeah, okay, okay, well thank you both for going there
with us.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Thanks, no problem.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
Yes, yep, that's second date update John day Rich
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