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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Are we getting ready for second Ate Update? Lloyd, give
us a little bit about what you're going through.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
So I went out with this really really cool girl
and we stayed out really really late, basically till this
pub closed. And yeah, I can't get a hold of her.
I was just wondering what was going on.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Okay, we want to hear the full story and then
we'll call her up and find out why she's blowing
you off.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Second Ate Update starts next with John, Jay and Rich.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
The next segment we're going to do is called second
Date Update because that's what we're going to try and
get and that's what the bit is called.
Speaker 5 (00:29):
Second Ate Update starts right now on John Jay and Rigg.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
John, Jayan and Rich. It's time for second Ate Update.
Lloyd went on a date.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
We're gonna find out why there's no second date. He
thinks that she's ghosting him. We're going to find out why.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Good morning, Lloyd, what's your story?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
I went out with the girl Glynn met recently. We
just went out for like dinner, and she was really
really cool. I thought the date went really great. We
have some drinks, we laughed the whole time and basically
stayed till the place closed down. We hugged, you know
a couple of times, and she said she had fun,
(01:10):
and I figured i'd hear from her the next day.
But it's been a few days and nothing, So I
keep kind of thinking about the night, trying to figure
out what went wrong. Maybe I came on too strong.
So I figured i'd call and you know, see if
you guys get her on the phone.
Speaker 6 (01:29):
Okay, you said you thought you would hear from her.
Have you reached out and she just didn't text back
or you were just waiting for her to reach out.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Oh no, I've reached out.
Speaker 6 (01:37):
Okay, And how did you guys meet? You said you
just kind of met her, but you glazed over that part.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
You know. You said something at the end that you
said you thought that maybe you're too much.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
What was the phrase you used, Oh like that i'd
maybe come on too strong see her again, that's all.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Yeah, you said you came on too strong.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Like that part I don't understand, because if she stayed
with you and closed out the night, what part was
coming on too strong?
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Exactly?
Speaker 2 (01:59):
That's what I mean. I mean, uh, least stayed there
till the place shut down, So I figured there was,
you know, some chemistry there, but yeah, it's just weird.
I was hoping you guys could figure.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
Did she get up and try to leave and you
grab her and say sit, ye, they're still open right?
Speaker 2 (02:18):
No? Absolutely not.
Speaker 7 (02:19):
No.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
It was just like I had told her at one
point that I was having like a lot of fun.
I was just honest, you know, I was having a
lot of fun and I wanted to meet up with
her again, and she said, yeah, that'd be great. And
now kind of nothing, you.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
Know, Okay, you said a couple of hugs. Describe the hug.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Briefly when we met for the first time in person
and then later on at the end of the night,
like it was just really seemed kind of normal and
sweet and affectionate and yeah, that's that's it.
Speaker 5 (02:47):
She didn't a frame you where she leaned in with
the shoulder and like no, no touching and just like
you're a neat friend hug. You didn't get one of those.
It was a it was a let's go out again hug.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Yeah, absolutely, Okay, Well, I mean we'll call her and
find out see what's up.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
How long ago was the date?
Speaker 5 (03:03):
It was like a few days though, Okay, all right.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
What's her name?
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Nora?
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Okay, so hang tight, we're gonna get her on the phone.
We're gonna find out why she's blowing you off. Okay,
we'll take a quick break and we will come back
give us her number. A second ate update continues next
with John Jaye Rich.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
John Jaye Rich, we are in the middle of second
date update Lloyd and Nora.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Lloyd, Lloyd all Nolan.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
Voyd didn't get the call back, and he's feeling kind
of annoyed. Could it be the lack of chemistry that
made Nora think, Nora, way, will I ever make the
sweet love to Lloyd? We were about to find out?
Speaker 1 (03:51):
That was beautiful, What a beautiful setup. So, Lloyd, we're
gonna call Nora right now.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Okay, okay, thanks, So you stay a little quiet and
when you jump in at the right moment, we're going
to find out why she's blowing you off.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Okay.
Speaker 7 (04:12):
Hi, this is Norah.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Hi, Norah, this is Peyton with John jay and Rich.
We just wanted to call and talk to you on
the radio really quickly if you got time this morning.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Oh yeah, sure, Norah. We got a call from a guy.
Seems really sweet, says he.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
Went out on a date with a girl and had
a great time, and now she's ignoring his calls and Norah,
you are this girl. So we thought we would call
you and get your side of the story of why
you're blowing him off. If that's okay calling about.
Speaker 7 (04:42):
Lloyd, Oh, Lloyd, Lloyd Okay. I mean, I wasn't a
bad guy. You know, we had like pretty good conversations.
You know, you're revising your dinner. There was no like
awkwards silence. But then the bathroom incident happened.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
The bathroom incident. I don't believe he brought up the
bathroom incident. I'm hoping not.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
The bathroom incident is you both go into the bathroom
and tear it up because you're passionate for each other.
Speaker 7 (05:15):
I wish that was the story, but it is not.
I'm surprised he didn't tell you this. Yeah, so you know,
he asked for the checks. I figured, like, you know,
he's gonna pay. But then after he asked for the check,
he went to the bathroom and he was gone for
literally like twenty minutes, and that's not an exaggeration. He
(05:36):
was gone so long the server came back like three times,
asking if we were ready to pay, and I got mortified,
you know, her keep coming up and asking and I
was like, you know, I'll just cover the bill. And
then you know, he comes back from the bathroom and
I'm looking at him and he just like, you know,
looks like he's been through something.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Like sweaty. Yeah, like he has some stomach issues.
Speaker 7 (06:03):
Like what happened?
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Is that?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Poor guy?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Poor guy to have that. I think we've all been there,
but to do that on a date.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
And maybe she won't notice she's gonna So is it
just the bathroom thing that you're like, I'm out on?
Speaker 7 (06:20):
Not exactly. So, you know, he insisted on paying me back,
which was fine, but he's like, I'll just cash app
you and I'm like, uh, yeah, I don't have cash app.
And then he proceeded to tell me that he does
not have a bank account.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Hmmm, don't you have to have a bank account for
those apps? Cash app?
Speaker 5 (06:40):
You can just you can just kept cash on your
cash app and it doesn't have to be part of
the bank.
Speaker 7 (06:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
No.
Speaker 7 (06:48):
He gave me like total ick energy. Between that and
like him disappear into the bathroom. I was like, yeah,
I don't think.
Speaker 6 (06:54):
So did you ask why, like why you wouldn't have
a bank account, Like maybe he's got some maybe bank
screwed him over one day, He's like never holding my
money there again.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Yeah, I no doubt that he literally keeps his money
and is safe in his house.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
Yeah, like cash.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Yeah, you know who he is too. I actually thought
it'd be fun to kind of like rob him a lesson.
Speaker 6 (07:15):
Yeah, it's not just something you do for.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
A lot of people know who this guy is.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Oh my gosh, I can't wait to know about it.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Nora, You're you're seriously ghosting me because I don't have
a bank account.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
That's all, by the way.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Yeah, Hey, what's up. I'm just trying to understand why
is that such a red flag? Not not having a
bank account doesn't mean that I'm sketchy.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
Uh yeah, it kind of does, like left me with
the bill and then you can't like then know me
or zell me like a normal person. What am I
supposed to think?
Speaker 2 (07:51):
All right, well, it's actually kind of complicated.
Speaker 7 (07:55):
Uh yeah, clearly, like you can't even communicate and you're
confused about why I'm ghost you.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
Okay, it wasn't even like that. My buddy was trying
to help me get some money years ago, and he
ended up ruining my bank account standing and I had
to close my account and I haven't gone to another
bank yet.
Speaker 7 (08:11):
So what I'm hearing is you tried to scam a bank.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
But that's not what you said.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Okay, it was ten years ago my friend had put
me onto Yeah, it's I guess it would be. You know,
I didn't understand at the time it was a scam,
but I started credit cards that I couldn't pay. I
had to shut everything down, and yeah, I've just been
out of the banking system since then.
Speaker 7 (08:38):
Yeah, that sounds like a lot of drama. And that's
not exactly something just like bounced back from.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Let's shift gears from the banking problems to the problems.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
I did this ten years ago and it was a mistake,
and you think I'm just automatically undateable.
Speaker 7 (08:55):
But also, Lloyd, what happened in the bathroom?
Speaker 6 (08:58):
She's like, actually, do you want to do we need
details to the next topic.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
What did happen in the bathroom? And why not send
her a text going, Hey, not feeling great, I'll be
out in a minute.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Oh man, you guys, this is this is terrible.
Speaker 4 (09:18):
What happened in the bathroom is terrible.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Get out. All four of us had asked you, what
happened in the bathroom? Does he really does not want
to say.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
It's like a nightmare. Thanks a lot. I'm really glad
it called.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
Oh no oh, how did you not think that wasn't
going to come up? Though you called us?
Speaker 2 (09:36):
I just yeah, had just having it was a time,
all right. It was the best of times. It was
the worst of times.
Speaker 6 (09:45):
So you actually had it was like an issue. You
weren't like trying to leave her with the bill. It
wasn't an.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
Intentional never do that, no, okay.
Speaker 6 (09:52):
I mean he did attempt to pay, that's true.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
We just didn't have what she has, all right.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
So Nora, would you like to see Lloyd again and
do a second date?
Speaker 3 (10:02):
I'm gonna go with no.
Speaker 7 (10:05):
One in the bathroom.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
Yeah, I'm really glad that you answered. Thanks a lot.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
Okay, he's no second date, you guys, no second date?
Speaker 1 (10:15):
All right, Thanks for being on our show, both of you.
That's second date update with John, Jay and Rich
Are we getting ready for second Ate Update? Lloyd, give
us a little bit about what you're going through.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
So I went out with this really really cool girl
and we stayed out really really late, basically till this
pub closed. And yeah, I can't get a hold of her.
I was just wondering what was going on.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Okay, we want to hear the full story and then
we'll call her up and find out why she's blowing
you off.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Second Ate Update starts next with John, Jay and Rich.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
The next segment we're going to do is called second
Date Update because that's what we're going to try and
get and that's what the bit is called.
Speaker 5 (00:29):
Second Ate Update starts right now on John Jay and Rigg.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
John, Jayan and Rich. It's time for second Ate Update.
Lloyd went on a date.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
We're gonna find out why there's no second date. He
thinks that she's ghosting him. We're going to find out why.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Good morning, Lloyd, what's your story?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
I went out with the girl Glynn met recently. We
just went out for like dinner, and she was really
really cool. I thought the date went really great. We
have some drinks, we laughed the whole time and basically
stayed till the place closed down. We hugged, you know
a couple of times, and she said she had fun,
(01:10):
and I figured i'd hear from her the next day.
But it's been a few days and nothing, So I
keep kind of thinking about the night, trying to figure
out what went wrong. Maybe I came on too strong.
So I figured i'd call and you know, see if
you guys get her on the phone.
Speaker 6 (01:29):
Okay, you said you thought you would hear from her.
Have you reached out and she just didn't text back
or you were just waiting for her to reach out.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Oh no, I've reached out.
Speaker 6 (01:37):
Okay, And how did you guys meet? You said you
just kind of met her, but you glazed over that part.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
You know. You said something at the end that you
said you thought that maybe you're too much.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
What was the phrase you used, Oh like that i'd
maybe come on too strong see her again, that's all.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Yeah, you said you came on too strong.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Like that part I don't understand, because if she stayed
with you and closed out the night, what part was
coming on too strong?
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Exactly?
Speaker 2 (01:59):
That's what I mean. I mean, uh, least stayed there
till the place shut down, So I figured there was,
you know, some chemistry there, but yeah, it's just weird.
I was hoping you guys could figure.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
Did she get up and try to leave and you
grab her and say sit, ye, they're still open right?
Speaker 2 (02:18):
No? Absolutely not.
Speaker 7 (02:19):
No.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
It was just like I had told her at one
point that I was having like a lot of fun.
I was just honest, you know, I was having a
lot of fun and I wanted to meet up with
her again, and she said, yeah, that'd be great. And
now kind of nothing, you.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
Know, Okay, you said a couple of hugs. Describe the hug.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Briefly when we met for the first time in person
and then later on at the end of the night,
like it was just really seemed kind of normal and
sweet and affectionate and yeah, that's that's it.
Speaker 5 (02:47):
She didn't a frame you where she leaned in with
the shoulder and like no, no touching and just like
you're a neat friend hug. You didn't get one of those.
It was a it was a let's go out again hug.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Yeah, absolutely, Okay, Well, I mean we'll call her and
find out see what's up.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
How long ago was the date?
Speaker 5 (03:03):
It was like a few days though, Okay, all right.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
What's her name?
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Nora?
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Okay, so hang tight, we're gonna get her on the phone.
We're gonna find out why she's blowing you off. Okay,
we'll take a quick break and we will come back
give us her number. A second ate update continues next
with John Jaye Rich.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
John Jaye Rich, we are in the middle of second
date update Lloyd and Nora.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Lloyd, Lloyd all Nolan.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
Voyd didn't get the call back, and he's feeling kind
of annoyed. Could it be the lack of chemistry that
made Nora think, Nora, way, will I ever make the
sweet love to Lloyd? We were about to find out?
Speaker 1 (03:51):
That was beautiful, What a beautiful setup. So, Lloyd, we're
gonna call Nora right now.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Okay, okay, thanks, So you stay a little quiet and
when you jump in at the right moment, we're going
to find out why she's blowing you off.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Okay.
Speaker 7 (04:12):
Hi, this is Norah.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Hi, Norah, this is Peyton with John jay and Rich.
We just wanted to call and talk to you on
the radio really quickly if you got time this morning.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Oh yeah, sure, Norah. We got a call from a guy.
Seems really sweet, says he.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
Went out on a date with a girl and had
a great time, and now she's ignoring his calls and Norah,
you are this girl. So we thought we would call
you and get your side of the story of why
you're blowing him off. If that's okay calling about.
Speaker 7 (04:42):
Lloyd, Oh, Lloyd, Lloyd Okay. I mean, I wasn't a
bad guy. You know, we had like pretty good conversations.
You know, you're revising your dinner. There was no like
awkwards silence. But then the bathroom incident happened.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
The bathroom incident. I don't believe he brought up the
bathroom incident. I'm hoping not.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
The bathroom incident is you both go into the bathroom
and tear it up because you're passionate for each other.
Speaker 7 (05:15):
I wish that was the story, but it is not.
I'm surprised he didn't tell you this. Yeah, so you know,
he asked for the checks. I figured, like, you know,
he's gonna pay. But then after he asked for the check,
he went to the bathroom and he was gone for
literally like twenty minutes, and that's not an exaggeration. He
(05:36):
was gone so long the server came back like three times,
asking if we were ready to pay, and I got mortified,
you know, her keep coming up and asking and I
was like, you know, I'll just cover the bill. And
then you know, he comes back from the bathroom and
I'm looking at him and he just like, you know,
looks like he's been through something.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Like sweaty. Yeah, like he has some stomach issues.
Speaker 7 (06:03):
Like what happened?
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Is that?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Poor guy?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Poor guy to have that. I think we've all been there,
but to do that on a date.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
And maybe she won't notice she's gonna So is it
just the bathroom thing that you're like, I'm out on?
Speaker 7 (06:20):
Not exactly. So, you know, he insisted on paying me back,
which was fine, but he's like, I'll just cash app
you and I'm like, uh, yeah, I don't have cash app.
And then he proceeded to tell me that he does
not have a bank account.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Hmmm, don't you have to have a bank account for
those apps? Cash app?
Speaker 5 (06:40):
You can just you can just kept cash on your
cash app and it doesn't have to be part of
the bank.
Speaker 7 (06:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
No.
Speaker 7 (06:48):
He gave me like total ick energy. Between that and
like him disappear into the bathroom. I was like, yeah,
I don't think.
Speaker 6 (06:54):
So did you ask why, like why you wouldn't have
a bank account, Like maybe he's got some maybe bank
screwed him over one day, He's like never holding my
money there again.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Yeah, I no doubt that he literally keeps his money
and is safe in his house.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
Yeah, like cash.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Yeah, you know who he is too. I actually thought
it'd be fun to kind of like rob him a lesson.
Speaker 6 (07:15):
Yeah, it's not just something you do for.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
A lot of people know who this guy is.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Oh my gosh, I can't wait to know about it.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Nora, You're you're seriously ghosting me because I don't have
a bank account.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
That's all, by the way.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Yeah, Hey, what's up. I'm just trying to understand why
is that such a red flag? Not not having a
bank account doesn't mean that I'm sketchy.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
Uh yeah, it kind of does, like left me with
the bill and then you can't like then know me
or zell me like a normal person. What am I
supposed to think?
Speaker 2 (07:51):
All right, well, it's actually kind of complicated.
Speaker 7 (07:55):
Uh yeah, clearly, like you can't even communicate and you're
confused about why I'm ghost you.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
Okay, it wasn't even like that. My buddy was trying
to help me get some money years ago, and he
ended up ruining my bank account standing and I had
to close my account and I haven't gone to another
bank yet.
Speaker 7 (08:11):
So what I'm hearing is you tried to scam a bank.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
But that's not what you said.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Okay, it was ten years ago my friend had put
me onto Yeah, it's I guess it would be. You know,
I didn't understand at the time it was a scam,
but I started credit cards that I couldn't pay. I
had to shut everything down, and yeah, I've just been
out of the banking system since then.
Speaker 7 (08:38):
Yeah, that sounds like a lot of drama. And that's
not exactly something just like bounced back from.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Let's shift gears from the banking problems to the problems.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
I did this ten years ago and it was a mistake,
and you think I'm just automatically undateable.
Speaker 7 (08:55):
But also, Lloyd, what happened in the bathroom?
Speaker 6 (08:58):
She's like, actually, do you want to do we need
details to the next topic.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
What did happen in the bathroom? And why not send
her a text going, Hey, not feeling great, I'll be
out in a minute.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Oh man, you guys, this is this is terrible.
Speaker 4 (09:18):
What happened in the bathroom is terrible.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Get out. All four of us had asked you, what
happened in the bathroom? Does he really does not want
to say.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
It's like a nightmare. Thanks a lot. I'm really glad
it called.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
Oh no oh, how did you not think that wasn't
going to come up? Though you called us?
Speaker 2 (09:36):
I just yeah, had just having it was a time,
all right. It was the best of times. It was
the worst of times.
Speaker 6 (09:45):
So you actually had it was like an issue. You
weren't like trying to leave her with the bill. It
wasn't an.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
Intentional never do that, no, okay.
Speaker 6 (09:52):
I mean he did attempt to pay, that's true.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
We just didn't have what she has, all right.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
So Nora, would you like to see Lloyd again and
do a second date?
Speaker 3 (10:02):
I'm gonna go with no.
Speaker 7 (10:05):
One in the bathroom.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
Yeah, I'm really glad that you answered. Thanks a lot.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
Okay, he's no second date, you guys, no second date?
Speaker 1 (10:15):
All right, Thanks for being on our show, both of you.
That's second date update with John, Jay and Rich
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