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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Uh, we're getting ready for second Ate update. We've talked
to Corbyn. Corbyn, give us a little taste of what's
going on with you and your date.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Yeah, so I went out with this really cool girl
and I think I think maybe I just complimented her
too much.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
And that's why she's blown you off.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Yeah yeah, she you know, was three weeks ago and
she just has not gotten back to me. And I
felt like we had a really great date. I'm wondering
if she just wants a guy who's mean to her.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
I don't know. Okay, that's that's enough. We will hang online. Okay,
we're gonna hear your story, and then we're gonna call
her and find out what she's blown you off. Second
Date update starts next with John, Jay and Rich. It
was supposed to be the start of a beautiful relationship,
but somebody screwed it all up. Second Date Update right
(00:51):
now with John, Jay and Rich. Time for second Ate update.
We want to hear all about this date, Corbyn, how
you met the person and everything going through your mind,
and then we're going to try to figure out why
they're blowing you off. Good morning, Corbyn, Welcome to John
Jan Ridge. Second ate update.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
You know, I met Laura met on one of the apps.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Obviously it's not obvious at a church.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
I mean, that's how people are finding their matches nowadays.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Obvious following. Just take us down the road of the date. Yeah,
what happened? You met horseback riding the.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
Obviously that would be that would be super chill meeting
someone of the.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Horseback riding events.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
I wait, yeah, So, like from the moment we met up,
I just I felt like she was like something special.
You know, there was like this connection that was just
she was funny and charming and.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
Easy to talk to, and the date was just.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
I don't want to say perfect, but it felt perfect,
you know. And uh I was so excited to hear
from her again. But you know, now it's been a
couple of days and I just have no idea why
she's like ghosting me.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
So you went back in your head, you went over
the date, and you're like, Okay, did I do something weird?
Did I eat my spaghetti odd? Like when you go
back into a moment like was there anything that you're like, Okay,
maybe that's not why, Maybe that's why she's not calling
me back.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
No, Yeah, for sure, I mean, I I've been replaying
it many times, especially when I'm not sleeping, and I'm
like wondering if I did I like compliment or smile
too much, or you know, there was like an awkward
joke I kind of made about not knowing.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
How to fold fitted sheets. I thought it would get
a laugh, but crickets.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
And yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:45):
Maybe maybe I just like.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Came on too strong, or maybe she just wasn't into
me the way I was into her, or maybe I
did something to like mess it up and I didn't
even realize it, but like you can probably tell. But
it's driving me a little crazy and I just kind
of want to know what happened.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
So when you leave the day, do you think something
went wrong and it didn't connect or do you think
this was the greatest first date of my life?
Speaker 2 (03:12):
As Yeah, I mean, aside something like not kissing.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
At the end, I was like this, this is like
this is it. I'm I'm locked up for a couple
of months at least.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
All right, we're going to find out I believe we
call her right now, But since it took you so
long to tell us his stories, We're going to take
a little break we'll come back. We'll get Laura on
the phone and find out why she's blown you off.
Second date update continues next day, Richard the middle. Second
and update. You got Corbyn and Laura. They met on
the dating app. Obviously they went to dinner. He complimented
(03:47):
her smile too much, he says Corbyn. How long ago
was this date with her?
Speaker 4 (03:51):
This was about three weeks ago?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Okay, So then you at the end of the day
you went in for the casses, she got to give
you the hug. So where we're at right now.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
But they were also you know, it was like it
was like a like sexy hug in a way. You know,
it wasn't just friends.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
I think I only give sexy hug. That's just what
I do.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Okay, just like look, sorry, sorry, I just like I
want to hear.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Okay. Now, Yeah, we're gonna we're gonna call her and
find out what is a sexy hug. I think only
sexy hug will probably from behind? Is that a sexy hug?
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (04:20):
What's a good sexy hug? Somebody be like longer, longer seconds,
more handsy.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Yeah, like.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
Hello, hey is Laura there? Yes, this is Laura.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Hi, my name is Peyton. I'm with John Jay and
Rich and we just wanted to talk to you on
the radio really quickly if you have some time this morning.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Okay, okay, good, So you are on the radio, live.
Speaker 5 (04:46):
On the radio, wow live. Okay.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
We took a call from the guy and he was
telling this guy was like, hey, I need some help. Lately,
a lot of people calling us asking for asking us
for advice. And he was like, I need some advice.
I went on a date with this girl. He says,
it went great. You're the girl, by the way.
Speaker 5 (05:02):
Now he says, you're kind of you're the guy with
the advice.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Yeah. Well, we're trying to help him figure out where
things went wrong. So far, it sounds to me that
where he went wrong, as he complimented your smile like
a hundred times. So we're talking about corbells. So we're
just curious what went wrong in your eyes?
Speaker 5 (05:20):
Oh my gosh. Yeah. So we were having a pretty
decent dat at first, but then it took a sharp
turn into like cringe city, like literally at one point
he randomly dropped the phrase I'm just holding space for that, okay,
and then he went on about how he's a chow guy, okay,
(05:44):
who's always varied, DeMar and mindful, familiar.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Did you have a TikTok.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
From there?
Speaker 5 (05:56):
Yes, like three and one sentence like seo keywords. I'm like,
what is happening? Like I thought maybe he was just quirky,
like he was being ironic or like sardonic, And I'm
just like no, no, no, like he's trying to pass
this off as like his personality.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Yeah to your salad? Did you call your salads? Give
you a toilet? That's when you know how?
Speaker 5 (06:24):
And so it just felt really weird, you know, And
I like then I got a little suspicious because I'm thirty, right,
so I consider myself an adult, you know, Like, Okay,
this guy's being a little immature. He's just giving me
kind of childish vibes and on bumble said he was
thirty also, but okay, so are you ready to find
(06:47):
like do you want to know the truth? Like he like,
this guy is not thirty at all, Like he's he's
twenty three. He's he's a kid, so he about his
age and he apparently likes mature women. So I'm a
mature woman, and yeah, I'm like so mature ay, and
(07:14):
I get like he was trying to pass as an
older guy, but like and no shade to anyone who's
young and wants like date up, Like I think that's cool,
but like, why are you pretending to be some wise
older guy and you're talking and memes, you know, it's
just like that's not it, Like that's just not going
to pass off as an older guy. And at that
(07:37):
point I just couldn't handle it, and I was like, Okay,
I have to pull the plug before this becomes part
of like whatever this mindful, chill guy's journey is, you know.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
So you weren't at all like I'm going to take
this twenty three year old and just show him, take
him to the sure.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
Oh my god, I don't need a boy toy like
I do. I want a man, you know. And if
I'm trying to date like like a living, breathing TikTok meme,
like I don't you know I could find that on
the internet, Like I don't really want someone that's just
like quoting you know, viral. Yeah, well you know that's weird.
Speaker 4 (08:20):
I'm sorry, Can I jump in and please? Oh my god, hey, Loria,
I'm I'm sorry this is like, it's really awkward.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
I I.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
Don't love being called a kid, but I'm not sure
what to say.
Speaker 5 (08:39):
I don't know should I I feel like should I
be quoting somewhat like, Hi, my name is, but my
name is who? Like I don't hear that. Yeah, I'm
reaching up, you know, I'm like, I'm aging up. So
I'd like to watch a lot of tiktoks.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
But I didn't really realize that that was coming out
in my vernacular. So you know, that's like a word
that a man uses, right, not a kid. Really, you know,
I mean I really was into you, and you know,
I'm sorry about the age thing. Like, if I'm being honest,
I usually do say something before I meet in person,
(09:22):
but I would. I just thought our conversation it just flowed.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
It's just like a very chill conversation as we were
talking on.
Speaker 5 (09:31):
Because you're a chill guy, so chill guy. I just
he's very demure in mind.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
Tult.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Low key. I'm dead.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
I'm dead after finding out all about this, this is crazy.
So you're saying you don't want to have enough d
what if what if we went out and I didn't,
I won't I won't quote any take talks. We can
just talk and have a good time again like we did.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
No cap, I think you're missing that, Riz.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 4 (10:12):
All right, cool.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Well I like them together. They have a little chemistry.
He's too young for her. Yeah, yeah, you're too young, dude.
You got to go secure the bag somewhere else.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
Okay here, Thanks of all, thanks for letting me know,
Thanks for reaching out. You could have just told me
that yourself too, But that's cool. I appreciate you guys.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
And here's the thing, real quick, listen, as you go
on with your life. I don't think you should lie
on these dating appsespecially about your age.
Speaker 4 (10:44):
Yeah, just twenty three year olds. They're like, oh, I
can't go.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
I know, but you can't say that you're thirty. Say
you're twenty three looking for a mature woman because you
can't handle these twenty three year olds.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
Yeah, you're not far from I think he's twenty seven.
So that's like everybody, you know. He appeals to all ages.
He really does, it, really does.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
He's got great cheekbones. Laura, no second date or do
you want a second date?
Speaker 5 (11:15):
I think I'm okay be friendly with him, but maybe
just you know she wants to shoot me.
Speaker 4 (11:22):
Well, I hope you who takes care of you and
make you laugh?
Speaker 1 (11:29):
All right, Thank you both for going on there with us.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
Thank you all right.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
That second date update
Uh, we're getting ready for second Ate update. We've talked
to Corbyn. Corbyn, give us a little taste of what's
going on with you and your date.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Yeah, so I went out with this really cool girl
and I think I think maybe I just complimented her
too much.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
And that's why she's blown you off.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Yeah yeah, she you know, was three weeks ago and
she just has not gotten back to me. And I
felt like we had a really great date. I'm wondering
if she just wants a guy who's mean to her.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
I don't know. Okay, that's that's enough. We will hang online. Okay,
we're gonna hear your story, and then we're gonna call
her and find out what she's blown you off. Second
Date update starts next with John, Jay and Rich. It
was supposed to be the start of a beautiful relationship,
but somebody screwed it all up. Second Date Update right
(00:51):
now with John, Jay and Rich. Time for second Ate update.
We want to hear all about this date, Corbyn, how
you met the person and everything going through your mind,
and then we're going to try to figure out why
they're blowing you off. Good morning, Corbyn, Welcome to John
Jan Ridge. Second ate update.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
You know, I met Laura met on one of the apps.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Obviously it's not obvious at a church.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
I mean, that's how people are finding their matches nowadays.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Obvious following. Just take us down the road of the date. Yeah,
what happened? You met horseback riding the.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
Obviously that would be that would be super chill meeting
someone of the.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Horseback riding events.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
I wait, yeah, So, like from the moment we met up,
I just I felt like she was like something special.
You know, there was like this connection that was just
she was funny and charming and.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
Easy to talk to, and the date was just.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
I don't want to say perfect, but it felt perfect,
you know. And uh I was so excited to hear
from her again. But you know, now it's been a
couple of days and I just have no idea why
she's like ghosting me.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
So you went back in your head, you went over
the date, and you're like, Okay, did I do something weird?
Did I eat my spaghetti odd? Like when you go
back into a moment like was there anything that you're like, Okay,
maybe that's not why, Maybe that's why she's not calling
me back.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
No, Yeah, for sure, I mean, I I've been replaying
it many times, especially when I'm not sleeping, and I'm
like wondering if I did I like compliment or smile
too much, or you know, there was like an awkward
joke I kind of made about not knowing.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
How to fold fitted sheets. I thought it would get
a laugh, but crickets.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
And yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:45):
Maybe maybe I just like.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Came on too strong, or maybe she just wasn't into
me the way I was into her, or maybe I
did something to like mess it up and I didn't
even realize it, but like you can probably tell. But
it's driving me a little crazy and I just kind
of want to know what happened.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
So when you leave the day, do you think something
went wrong and it didn't connect or do you think
this was the greatest first date of my life?
Speaker 2 (03:12):
As Yeah, I mean, aside something like not kissing.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
At the end, I was like this, this is like
this is it. I'm I'm locked up for a couple
of months at least.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
All right, we're going to find out I believe we
call her right now, But since it took you so
long to tell us his stories, We're going to take
a little break we'll come back. We'll get Laura on
the phone and find out why she's blown you off.
Second date update continues next day, Richard the middle. Second
and update. You got Corbyn and Laura. They met on
the dating app. Obviously they went to dinner. He complimented
(03:47):
her smile too much, he says Corbyn. How long ago
was this date with her?
Speaker 4 (03:51):
This was about three weeks ago?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Okay, So then you at the end of the day
you went in for the casses, she got to give
you the hug. So where we're at right now.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
But they were also you know, it was like it
was like a like sexy hug in a way. You know,
it wasn't just friends.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
I think I only give sexy hug. That's just what
I do.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Okay, just like look, sorry, sorry, I just like I
want to hear.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Okay. Now, Yeah, we're gonna we're gonna call her and
find out what is a sexy hug. I think only
sexy hug will probably from behind? Is that a sexy hug?
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (04:20):
What's a good sexy hug? Somebody be like longer, longer seconds,
more handsy.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Yeah, like.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
Hello, hey is Laura there? Yes, this is Laura.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Hi, my name is Peyton. I'm with John Jay and
Rich and we just wanted to talk to you on
the radio really quickly if you have some time this morning.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Okay, okay, good, So you are on the radio, live.
Speaker 5 (04:46):
On the radio, wow live. Okay.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
We took a call from the guy and he was
telling this guy was like, hey, I need some help. Lately,
a lot of people calling us asking for asking us
for advice. And he was like, I need some advice.
I went on a date with this girl. He says,
it went great. You're the girl, by the way.
Speaker 5 (05:02):
Now he says, you're kind of you're the guy with
the advice.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Yeah. Well, we're trying to help him figure out where
things went wrong. So far, it sounds to me that
where he went wrong, as he complimented your smile like
a hundred times. So we're talking about corbells. So we're
just curious what went wrong in your eyes?
Speaker 5 (05:20):
Oh my gosh. Yeah. So we were having a pretty
decent dat at first, but then it took a sharp
turn into like cringe city, like literally at one point
he randomly dropped the phrase I'm just holding space for that, okay,
and then he went on about how he's a chow guy, okay,
(05:44):
who's always varied, DeMar and mindful, familiar.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Did you have a TikTok.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
From there?
Speaker 5 (05:56):
Yes, like three and one sentence like seo keywords. I'm like,
what is happening? Like I thought maybe he was just quirky,
like he was being ironic or like sardonic, And I'm
just like no, no, no, like he's trying to pass
this off as like his personality.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Yeah to your salad? Did you call your salads? Give
you a toilet? That's when you know how?
Speaker 5 (06:24):
And so it just felt really weird, you know, And
I like then I got a little suspicious because I'm thirty, right,
so I consider myself an adult, you know, Like, Okay,
this guy's being a little immature. He's just giving me
kind of childish vibes and on bumble said he was
thirty also, but okay, so are you ready to find
(06:47):
like do you want to know the truth? Like he like,
this guy is not thirty at all, Like he's he's
twenty three. He's he's a kid, so he about his
age and he apparently likes mature women. So I'm a
mature woman, and yeah, I'm like so mature ay, and
(07:14):
I get like he was trying to pass as an
older guy, but like and no shade to anyone who's
young and wants like date up, Like I think that's cool,
but like, why are you pretending to be some wise
older guy and you're talking and memes, you know, it's
just like that's not it, Like that's just not going
to pass off as an older guy. And at that
(07:37):
point I just couldn't handle it, and I was like, Okay,
I have to pull the plug before this becomes part
of like whatever this mindful, chill guy's journey is, you know.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
So you weren't at all like I'm going to take
this twenty three year old and just show him, take
him to the sure.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
Oh my god, I don't need a boy toy like
I do. I want a man, you know. And if
I'm trying to date like like a living, breathing TikTok meme,
like I don't you know I could find that on
the internet, Like I don't really want someone that's just
like quoting you know, viral. Yeah, well you know that's weird.
Speaker 4 (08:20):
I'm sorry, Can I jump in and please? Oh my god, hey, Loria,
I'm I'm sorry this is like, it's really awkward.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
I I.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
Don't love being called a kid, but I'm not sure
what to say.
Speaker 5 (08:39):
I don't know should I I feel like should I
be quoting somewhat like, Hi, my name is, but my
name is who? Like I don't hear that. Yeah, I'm
reaching up, you know, I'm like, I'm aging up. So
I'd like to watch a lot of tiktoks.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
But I didn't really realize that that was coming out
in my vernacular. So you know, that's like a word
that a man uses, right, not a kid. Really, you know,
I mean I really was into you, and you know,
I'm sorry about the age thing. Like, if I'm being honest,
I usually do say something before I meet in person,
(09:22):
but I would. I just thought our conversation it just flowed.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
It's just like a very chill conversation as we were
talking on.
Speaker 5 (09:31):
Because you're a chill guy, so chill guy. I just
he's very demure in mind.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
Tult.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Low key. I'm dead.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
I'm dead after finding out all about this, this is crazy.
So you're saying you don't want to have enough d
what if what if we went out and I didn't,
I won't I won't quote any take talks. We can
just talk and have a good time again like we did.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
No cap, I think you're missing that, Riz.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 4 (10:12):
All right, cool.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Well I like them together. They have a little chemistry.
He's too young for her. Yeah, yeah, you're too young, dude.
You got to go secure the bag somewhere else.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
Okay here, Thanks of all, thanks for letting me know,
Thanks for reaching out. You could have just told me
that yourself too, But that's cool. I appreciate you guys.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
And here's the thing, real quick, listen, as you go
on with your life. I don't think you should lie
on these dating appsespecially about your age.
Speaker 4 (10:44):
Yeah, just twenty three year olds. They're like, oh, I
can't go.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
I know, but you can't say that you're thirty. Say
you're twenty three looking for a mature woman because you
can't handle these twenty three year olds.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
Yeah, you're not far from I think he's twenty seven.
So that's like everybody, you know. He appeals to all ages.
He really does, it, really does.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
He's got great cheekbones. Laura, no second date or do
you want a second date?
Speaker 5 (11:15):
I think I'm okay be friendly with him, but maybe
just you know she wants to shoot me.
Speaker 4 (11:22):
Well, I hope you who takes care of you and
make you laugh?
Speaker 1 (11:29):
All right, Thank you both for going on there with us.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
Thank you all right.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
That second date update
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