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Speaker 1 (00:00):
He.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
I mean, if you get three roses, it's a trap.
War of the Roses starts.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Right now on John Jay and Ridge.
Speaker 4 (00:08):
John Jay and Rich. It's time for War the Roses. Olivia,
Good morning. What's going on with you?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
So? I've been with my boyfriend for about two years,
but for the last four months or so, I just
feel like it's mons been like off and he used
to text me all the time, and now like like
hours will go by without a reply. He's been turning
his phone off at night but randomly, like turn off
his location. And he's always working late and his I mean,
(00:35):
I check his paste up, like his paycheck doesn't look
any different. So if he's working like that doesn't make
any sense. And I just I just keep trying to
give him the benefit of the doubt because like I
want to trust him. But I looked at his company's
Facebook page and this, like this is really stuck me
over the edge. They posted pictures from their Halloween party,
and there's my boyfriend who's dressed as Travis Kelcey with
(00:58):
one of his co workers who's dressed a Swift. They
got matching costumes. Their arms are around each other. She's
literally holding up her hands with a fake engagement ring
and I'm like, like are you are you like? And
then he told me he wasn't even feeling Halloween this year,
so we weren't gonna do anything. And I don't, I
(01:18):
don't know. It just feels really weird and like I can't.
I can't deny the Halloween photos like that is weird.
And then for him to tell me that we're not
doing Halloween but that he did it with her, I'm confused.
Speaker 5 (01:29):
Did you not ask him about that when you see
the pictures? Like, what's going on here? I know it's work,
but talk to me.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
He just he just denies everything. He's like, oh, don't
worry about it. It's just for a company party. It's
not a big deal. It's just a joke.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (01:42):
But like I feel you though, Olivia, because if my
fiance was like posed up with like couple's costume with
someone else and it's like they it like looks kind
of couplish, I think that would rub me the wrong
way too. It's like, why couldn't you go find your
buddy down the hall?
Speaker 3 (01:56):
And that's with him?
Speaker 1 (01:57):
I don't know.
Speaker 7 (01:58):
Last year we talked about doing Tearaylor Swift and Travis
Kelsey and John Jay was gonna be Travis Kelce and
I was gonna be Taylor Swift. And I told Scott
and he was like, that's hilarious, you know what.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I mean, Like, yeah, no, totally.
Speaker 7 (02:07):
But but I think when you pair it with all
the other shady things he's doing, I can see why
it gives you that Really that just pit in your stomach.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
That's like, this is a little off.
Speaker 7 (02:18):
Because you're telling me you don't want to do anything
with me, but you're fine to do it at work,
just because it's a work thing. Like I think it's
the everything combined that makes it like ikey.
Speaker 8 (02:29):
Exactly.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
And then the detail of the fake engagement.
Speaker 6 (02:32):
Yeah, that's what is weird to me, Like is he
like what's the picture, Like, is he like down on
one knee proposing to Taylor Swift?
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Or she just like, oh.
Speaker 6 (02:40):
My gosh, look at me, Like now irritate me.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
This year's cost him. I was pitching to Kyle, She'd
be a bride and I'd be a groom. Be fun and.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Accurate, accurate.
Speaker 6 (02:58):
Also, we have a different working really relationships with one another,
Like our job is our.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Job so different? You know what I mean, people have their.
Speaker 7 (03:04):
Own relationships for the When we talk about, like what
are we doing for our Halloween costumes? We always try
to do something topical and out there. And maybe that's
kind of the conversation that went along with work. But
like he's he's coming homely, like he's hiding his phone,
he's turning his location off.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Where are you a weird one?
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Where are you?
Speaker 5 (03:21):
That's the weird one? Is it kind of a pain
to go turn off your location? Like, you've really got
to think about I don't.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Want somebody else steps for sure.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
You don't want somebody to know your where you're at.
Otherwise you would never really think about it. Right, if
you're not doing anything wrong, you're not hiding anything.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Well, let's see what he sends flowers to. Does he
send him to the tenor Swift coworker or no? What's
his name, Olivia?
Speaker 1 (03:44):
I hate it?
Speaker 2 (03:46):
What's the coworker's name?
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Brittany Britney.
Speaker 5 (03:51):
It's always a Brittany, Actually.
Speaker 7 (03:57):
Always Jennifer's Okay, people are up.
Speaker 6 (04:01):
Sorry my five her name Courtney and high school slept
with my boyfriend, so any girl, they did him wrong?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
I'm like, her name is probably Corney.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
So Olivia, hold online, we're gonna get him on the phone,
and he seeho sends the flowers too?
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Okay, so rang tight, we'll get that set up. Next
four The Roses continues with John Jay and Rich. John
Jay and Rich. We're in the middle War of the Roses.
You got Olivia.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
She thinks her boyfriend Hayden's up to something shaving because
he does a couple of costumes with this girl at work,
but not with her.
Speaker 8 (04:31):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
They did Tyor Swift and Travis Kelcey and he doesn't
want to do a costume at home, right, He doesn't
want to even do anything.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
So she's like, something's up. Plus he's been acting kind
of weird right doing.
Speaker 7 (04:39):
They's location off coming.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Home from Werkley.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
All right, So, Olivia, are you ready for us to
call Hayden see who sends the flowers too?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
I am okay, cayl are you ready?
Speaker 3 (04:49):
I'm ready?
Speaker 2 (04:50):
Okay, let's do it.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Hello, good morning. Is Hayden available?
Speaker 8 (05:07):
Yeah, it's the same, Oh perfect.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Hi Hayden. My name's Cassie. I'm with a new company.
We're called J and R. Flowers.
Speaker 7 (05:13):
We're trying to, you know, get the name out there.
I do some marketing, and so you've actually been chosen
for a pretty cool promotion.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
We're calling post for Pedals.
Speaker 7 (05:21):
So you get to send our most romantic bouquet of
flowers to anyone you want, anywhere, and kind of all
we ask in return is that you post about us
on whichever social media platform you use the most. So
I don't need any credit card or there will be
no form of payment needed or anything like that, and
you just get to like surprise someone special in your life.
Uh sorry, now they just hand me a sheet with
(05:42):
a lot of phone numbers on it.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
It's above my pay grade, but.
Speaker 7 (05:44):
It's pretty cool that you've been chosen to do this
because this bouquet is usually almost one hundred dollars, so
it's going to make quite the impression. If you've got
someone special in your life, start thinking about them, and
like I said, I don't need any payment or anything
like that, but I will send it out with a card,
and I usually just tell people like, this is your
chance to personalize it. They're pretty romantic on their own,
but you can say whatever you'd like in the card
(06:05):
and we can actually get them sent out as early
as this afternoon.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Are you in.
Speaker 8 (06:12):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (06:13):
Why not?
Speaker 7 (06:14):
Okay, So just let me know the message you want
in the card and then we can go name an
address and I'll actually give you a delivery time as well.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Okay, I'm ready whenever you.
Speaker 8 (06:26):
Yeah, let's send in to Brittany. Can you are you
able to do emojis?
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:31):
You can do emojis.
Speaker 8 (06:33):
Okay, so let's do from Travis to Taylor with a
winkie face?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Are you kidding me?
Speaker 8 (06:41):
Hayden, Olivia? What the hell?
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Let's go on now, don't play dumb. You just sent
your little tailors with coworker flowers. I only know that
this is his name because I stopped her on Facebook
because he was tagged on your company profile, and you
told me to see that you weren't in the move
for Halloween, and then you wore a matching couple's costume
holding hands with a fake engagement ring. Have you walked
her mind?
Speaker 8 (07:06):
It was just a stupid work thing. It wasn't that deep,
not that deep.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
You've been distant for months, You've been lying about working late.
Now you're sending flowers to another girl. You know how
much I love Halloween. It's literally my my thing. And
you went you did it to someone else.
Speaker 8 (07:24):
You're being so dramatic. It was fine and everyone was
dressed up.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
Hey, I want to I want to jump in for
a second and let Hayden know that he's on the radio. Hayden,
you're on the radio, and you could say she's being dramatic.
But you sent flowers to the girl you work with?
Speaker 8 (07:38):
Are you kidding me? Right now? You called the radio?
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Yeah, yeah I did. Because you've been nicely weird. No,
don't gaslight me. Okay, you've been a Debbie downer about
everything that I do, and now I see why you're
saving all of your energy for her.
Speaker 8 (07:54):
You know what, Olivia, maybe maybe this isn't just maybe
it's just not working anymore.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Love obviously not for her either.
Speaker 8 (08:06):
You're always looking for something to fight about. I'm just
tired of it.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Whatever you're you literally cheated and now I'm the problem.
You're disgusting. I hope that your next heleeen costume is
a clown, because that's what you are.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Shots fire, but.
Speaker 6 (08:23):
I mean, like, why would you send roses to your
coworker with like winki faces and things like that.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
Like that's a little weird because he likes her and
he doesn't want to admit it right now? Is that
what it is?
Speaker 8 (08:34):
Yikes?
Speaker 6 (08:36):
Because you were so quick to just end your relationship.
Besides that, that's odd to me, And I feel like, Olivia,
your intuition was right.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
Right, like you're always looking for something to fight about.
Speaker 7 (08:45):
You just sent romantic roses to someone else.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
I think I think we're done here.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Yeah, sorry about that, Olivia. We'll have a great Halloween,
you guys.
Speaker 6 (08:58):
Well, like tomorrow, Olivia, you can go to a Halloween party.
You go dress him like your cutest little, skimpy little
outfit and go get you a new man.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
That's what I would do, exactly.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
A skippy outfit like in costume though like a sludy verse.
Speaker 6 (09:13):
Well exactly because, like we could quote the mean Girls life,
bloody doctor, Halloween is the only day of the year
that you can dress like a total beep and not get.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
Judged for Yeah, all right, Heyden, Sorry man, Okay, Olivia,
thanks for jumping on there with us. I'm sorry that
worked out that way, but thanks for trusting us to
give you the information you wanted.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
Right, So he's cheating, that's wore the roses, you guys
with John Jay Ritchell,
He.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
I mean, if you get three roses, it's a trap.
War of the Roses starts.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Right now on John Jay and Ridge.
Speaker 4 (00:08):
John Jay and Rich. It's time for War the Roses. Olivia,
Good morning. What's going on with you?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
So? I've been with my boyfriend for about two years,
but for the last four months or so, I just
feel like it's mons been like off and he used
to text me all the time, and now like like
hours will go by without a reply. He's been turning
his phone off at night but randomly, like turn off
his location. And he's always working late and his I mean,
(00:35):
I check his paste up, like his paycheck doesn't look
any different. So if he's working like that doesn't make
any sense. And I just I just keep trying to
give him the benefit of the doubt because like I
want to trust him. But I looked at his company's
Facebook page and this, like this is really stuck me
over the edge. They posted pictures from their Halloween party,
and there's my boyfriend who's dressed as Travis Kelcey with
(00:58):
one of his co workers who's dressed a Swift. They
got matching costumes. Their arms are around each other. She's
literally holding up her hands with a fake engagement ring
and I'm like, like are you are you like? And
then he told me he wasn't even feeling Halloween this year,
so we weren't gonna do anything. And I don't, I
(01:18):
don't know. It just feels really weird and like I can't.
I can't deny the Halloween photos like that is weird.
And then for him to tell me that we're not
doing Halloween but that he did it with her, I'm confused.
Speaker 5 (01:29):
Did you not ask him about that when you see
the pictures? Like, what's going on here? I know it's work,
but talk to me.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
He just he just denies everything. He's like, oh, don't
worry about it. It's just for a company party. It's
not a big deal. It's just a joke.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (01:42):
But like I feel you though, Olivia, because if my
fiance was like posed up with like couple's costume with
someone else and it's like they it like looks kind
of couplish, I think that would rub me the wrong
way too. It's like, why couldn't you go find your
buddy down the hall?
Speaker 3 (01:56):
And that's with him?
Speaker 1 (01:57):
I don't know.
Speaker 7 (01:58):
Last year we talked about doing Tearaylor Swift and Travis
Kelsey and John Jay was gonna be Travis Kelce and
I was gonna be Taylor Swift. And I told Scott
and he was like, that's hilarious, you know what.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I mean, Like, yeah, no, totally.
Speaker 7 (02:07):
But but I think when you pair it with all
the other shady things he's doing, I can see why
it gives you that Really that just pit in your stomach.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
That's like, this is a little off.
Speaker 7 (02:18):
Because you're telling me you don't want to do anything
with me, but you're fine to do it at work,
just because it's a work thing. Like I think it's
the everything combined that makes it like ikey.
Speaker 8 (02:29):
Exactly.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
And then the detail of the fake engagement.
Speaker 6 (02:32):
Yeah, that's what is weird to me, Like is he
like what's the picture, Like, is he like down on
one knee proposing to Taylor Swift?
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Or she just like, oh.
Speaker 6 (02:40):
My gosh, look at me, Like now irritate me.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
This year's cost him. I was pitching to Kyle, She'd
be a bride and I'd be a groom. Be fun and.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Accurate, accurate.
Speaker 6 (02:58):
Also, we have a different working really relationships with one another,
Like our job is our.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Job so different? You know what I mean, people have their.
Speaker 7 (03:04):
Own relationships for the When we talk about, like what
are we doing for our Halloween costumes? We always try
to do something topical and out there. And maybe that's
kind of the conversation that went along with work. But
like he's he's coming homely, like he's hiding his phone,
he's turning his location off.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Where are you a weird one?
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Where are you?
Speaker 5 (03:21):
That's the weird one? Is it kind of a pain
to go turn off your location? Like, you've really got
to think about I don't.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Want somebody else steps for sure.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
You don't want somebody to know your where you're at.
Otherwise you would never really think about it. Right, if
you're not doing anything wrong, you're not hiding anything.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Well, let's see what he sends flowers to. Does he
send him to the tenor Swift coworker or no? What's
his name, Olivia?
Speaker 1 (03:44):
I hate it?
Speaker 2 (03:46):
What's the coworker's name?
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Brittany Britney.
Speaker 5 (03:51):
It's always a Brittany, Actually.
Speaker 7 (03:57):
Always Jennifer's Okay, people are up.
Speaker 6 (04:01):
Sorry my five her name Courtney and high school slept
with my boyfriend, so any girl, they did him wrong?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
I'm like, her name is probably Corney.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
So Olivia, hold online, we're gonna get him on the phone,
and he seeho sends the flowers too?
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Okay, so rang tight, we'll get that set up. Next
four The Roses continues with John Jay and Rich. John
Jay and Rich. We're in the middle War of the Roses.
You got Olivia.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
She thinks her boyfriend Hayden's up to something shaving because
he does a couple of costumes with this girl at work,
but not with her.
Speaker 8 (04:31):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
They did Tyor Swift and Travis Kelcey and he doesn't
want to do a costume at home, right, He doesn't
want to even do anything.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
So she's like, something's up. Plus he's been acting kind
of weird right doing.
Speaker 7 (04:39):
They's location off coming.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Home from Werkley.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
All right, So, Olivia, are you ready for us to
call Hayden see who sends the flowers too?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
I am okay, cayl are you ready?
Speaker 3 (04:49):
I'm ready?
Speaker 2 (04:50):
Okay, let's do it.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Hello, good morning. Is Hayden available?
Speaker 8 (05:07):
Yeah, it's the same, Oh perfect.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Hi Hayden. My name's Cassie. I'm with a new company.
We're called J and R. Flowers.
Speaker 7 (05:13):
We're trying to, you know, get the name out there.
I do some marketing, and so you've actually been chosen
for a pretty cool promotion.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
We're calling post for Pedals.
Speaker 7 (05:21):
So you get to send our most romantic bouquet of
flowers to anyone you want, anywhere, and kind of all
we ask in return is that you post about us
on whichever social media platform you use the most. So
I don't need any credit card or there will be
no form of payment needed or anything like that, and
you just get to like surprise someone special in your life.
Uh sorry, now they just hand me a sheet with
(05:42):
a lot of phone numbers on it.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
It's above my pay grade, but.
Speaker 7 (05:44):
It's pretty cool that you've been chosen to do this
because this bouquet is usually almost one hundred dollars, so
it's going to make quite the impression. If you've got
someone special in your life, start thinking about them, and
like I said, I don't need any payment or anything
like that, but I will send it out with a card,
and I usually just tell people like, this is your
chance to personalize it. They're pretty romantic on their own,
but you can say whatever you'd like in the card
(06:05):
and we can actually get them sent out as early
as this afternoon.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Are you in.
Speaker 8 (06:12):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (06:13):
Why not?
Speaker 7 (06:14):
Okay, So just let me know the message you want
in the card and then we can go name an
address and I'll actually give you a delivery time as well.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Okay, I'm ready whenever you.
Speaker 8 (06:26):
Yeah, let's send in to Brittany. Can you are you
able to do emojis?
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:31):
You can do emojis.
Speaker 8 (06:33):
Okay, so let's do from Travis to Taylor with a
winkie face?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Are you kidding me?
Speaker 8 (06:41):
Hayden, Olivia? What the hell?
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Let's go on now, don't play dumb. You just sent
your little tailors with coworker flowers. I only know that
this is his name because I stopped her on Facebook
because he was tagged on your company profile, and you
told me to see that you weren't in the move
for Halloween, and then you wore a matching couple's costume
holding hands with a fake engagement ring. Have you walked
her mind?
Speaker 8 (07:06):
It was just a stupid work thing. It wasn't that deep,
not that deep.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
You've been distant for months, You've been lying about working late.
Now you're sending flowers to another girl. You know how
much I love Halloween. It's literally my my thing. And
you went you did it to someone else.
Speaker 8 (07:24):
You're being so dramatic. It was fine and everyone was
dressed up.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
Hey, I want to I want to jump in for
a second and let Hayden know that he's on the radio. Hayden,
you're on the radio, and you could say she's being dramatic.
But you sent flowers to the girl you work with?
Speaker 8 (07:38):
Are you kidding me? Right now? You called the radio?
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Yeah, yeah I did. Because you've been nicely weird. No,
don't gaslight me. Okay, you've been a Debbie downer about
everything that I do, and now I see why you're
saving all of your energy for her.
Speaker 8 (07:54):
You know what, Olivia, maybe maybe this isn't just maybe
it's just not working anymore.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Love obviously not for her either.
Speaker 8 (08:06):
You're always looking for something to fight about. I'm just
tired of it.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Whatever you're you literally cheated and now I'm the problem.
You're disgusting. I hope that your next heleeen costume is
a clown, because that's what you are.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Shots fire, but.
Speaker 6 (08:23):
I mean, like, why would you send roses to your
coworker with like winki faces and things like that.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
Like that's a little weird because he likes her and
he doesn't want to admit it right now? Is that
what it is?
Speaker 8 (08:34):
Yikes?
Speaker 6 (08:36):
Because you were so quick to just end your relationship.
Besides that, that's odd to me, And I feel like, Olivia,
your intuition was right.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
Right, like you're always looking for something to fight about.
Speaker 7 (08:45):
You just sent romantic roses to someone else.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
I think I think we're done here.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Yeah, sorry about that, Olivia. We'll have a great Halloween,
you guys.
Speaker 6 (08:58):
Well, like tomorrow, Olivia, you can go to a Halloween party.
You go dress him like your cutest little, skimpy little
outfit and go get you a new man.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
That's what I would do, exactly.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
A skippy outfit like in costume though like a sludy verse.
Speaker 6 (09:13):
Well exactly because, like we could quote the mean Girls life,
bloody doctor, Halloween is the only day of the year
that you can dress like a total beep and not get.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
Judged for Yeah, all right, Heyden, Sorry man, Okay, Olivia,
thanks for jumping on there with us. I'm sorry that
worked out that way, but thanks for trusting us to
give you the information you wanted.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
Right, So he's cheating, that's wore the roses, you guys
with John Jay Ritchell,
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