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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, we're getting ready for War of the Roses.
We've got Monet on the line. Good morning, Mornee, Good morning.
What's going on?

Speaker 2 (00:06):
So? I think that my boyfriend is cheating on me.
We've been together since high school, but lately she's been
acting super weird, just constantly on his phone and being
super protective of his phone. So I'm worried that something
is going on.

Speaker 1 (00:21):
Oh that's all we need to know. Okay, hold on,
we're gonna get more details coming up next. War the
Roses starts next with John Jay and Rich and my
best friend dummy. If you get free roses, it's a trap.
War of the Roses starts right now on John Jay
and Rich, John Daye. Rich's time for War of the Roses.

(00:42):
Good morning, Monet.

Speaker 2 (00:43):
Welcome, Hi, good morning.

Speaker 1 (00:45):
So you think so much cheating on you? Right, so
we want to hear your story. We want to hear
why you think that, and who they are and all
that jazz. So welcome to program. Let us in what happened?

Speaker 2 (00:54):
Yeah, I really think that my boyfriend might be cheating
on me. Actually, and we've been together time since high school,
but lately I really feel insecure, you know, like I'm
falling behind in life, and he's leveling up because he's
doing so well with work, and I'm really proud of
him for that, but you know, I'm not really in

(01:16):
the best place career wise myself, so it scares me.
I'm just worried that one day he's going to wake
up and realize that he can do better than me.

Speaker 3 (01:26):
That's sad.

Speaker 2 (01:26):
And also, yeah, he's he's been on his phone, just
glued to his phone twenty four to seven, and whenever
I mentioned that or bring it up to him ask
him about it, he says that he's just posting content
or responding to comments. But I know the difference between
engagement and hiding something because he's been super protective of

(01:48):
his phone. He won't let it out of his sight,
and I've seen him smiling at messages that he doesn't
want me to see. I mean, that's what it looks
like to me. So yeah, my gut is really telling
me that there's more going on here than just work
or regular social media stuff. And I really need to

(02:08):
know if I'm just being paranoid or if there's actually
something going on here that I should be worried about.

Speaker 4 (02:16):
Sounds a little weird. I think whenever someone's super protective
or overprotective of their phone, it's like one of two things. Yes,
they are being shady and hiding something, or they're trying
to get you a nice gift. Do you have any
birthdays or anniversary.

Speaker 1 (02:27):
Is coming up?

Speaker 4 (02:29):
Like they're definitely hiding something smiling or bad right, Like
I can't believe want.

Speaker 3 (02:33):
That to pull this off?

Speaker 2 (02:35):
Unfortunately, No, I don't have a birthday coming up, No anniversary.

Speaker 5 (02:39):
I mean Christmas is around.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
The corner either, Yes, Chris, we can cross our fingers
sat together.

Speaker 5 (02:46):
You're finished Christmas shop? And what do you mean does
aren't really?

Speaker 1 (02:49):
Maybe he's an engagement ring. Look for me, I'm not
a psychiatrist or a psychologist, but there's like common sense
and to me, it sounds like you got a lot
of insecurities. I mean, you first started saying that he's
going to find somebody better than you and you don't
think you're good enough for him. But you've been with
him since high school? Like why would you have those thoughts?
I would think that maybe you had previous relationships where
maybe you were mentally, you know, put down, but he's

(03:11):
been with you since high school, so like why do
you think that about yourself?

Speaker 2 (03:17):
Yeah, it's just because he's been acting so different lately,
you know, like he has a lot of followers on
social media now and making all this content and I
don't know, I think it might really be going to
his head. And yeah, he's just been really different than
he was before and.

Speaker 5 (03:34):
Also too to me, like John Jay, like, I've definitely
felt that way, the same way that you have Monet
and relationships. It's like, dang, like, is one day this
person gonna wake up and does not want to be
with me anymore? But a big part of that is
one absolutely insecurity, but then another part like I feel
like it's on your partner to lift you up and
show you and love on you and you know, let
you know and have that reassurance. And it seems to

(03:54):
me that he's not giving her the reassurance that she needs.

Speaker 1 (03:57):
Regardless, doesn't mean you're wrong. Let's see who he sends
the flowers to. What's your boyfriend's name, Monette, Okay, his
name is Matt. Okay, we're gonna get him on the phone,
tell him he won a dozen red roses, and we'll
see who he sends me to. And Kyle, you could
be all like your social media following humongous. Yeah, we
definitely need you to plug us on your social media

(04:19):
apps since you're always on your phone. All right, Monday,
Hey tid, we'll getting mad on the phone. War the
Roses continues next with John Jaye Rich. John Jane Rich,
we're in the middle of war in the Roses. You
got Monette and Matt boyfriend and girlfriend since high school?
Where are you guys now? Money? Are you in college?

(04:39):
Are you in your thirties? Do you guys have grandkids?
Where are you guys now?

Speaker 2 (04:43):
We're both twenty nine right now?

Speaker 1 (04:46):
Actually, okay, it's a long.

Speaker 2 (04:47):
Time, in a while since high school?

Speaker 1 (04:49):
Yeah, okay, And now you think he could be cheating.
You feel like he's had his come up, he's blown
up with his career. You feel like you're stable or stale,
and then he's going to find somebody better than you.
You feel that way. He's also always on his phone.
He's laughing, looking at stuff, but he won't let you
see his phone. So we're gonna see who sends the
flowers to Colin FuG You ready to go?

Speaker 3 (05:09):
I'm ready?

Speaker 1 (05:32):
Hello?

Speaker 3 (05:33):
Hi? Is Matt available?

Speaker 1 (05:35):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (05:36):
This is Matt perfect I'm at.

Speaker 4 (05:37):
So, my name is Journey. I'm calling you with the
new company. We're called jan Ar Flowers. We're running a
new social media campaign and your account really stood out
to us. You've got great engagement, a great following, and
so we'd love for you to take a part in it.
It's called post for Pedals. So we get to send
out our most romantic bouquet of roses.

Speaker 3 (05:55):
In a nice crystal vase.

Speaker 4 (05:56):
It's very, very gorgeous, usually almost two to three hundred
dollars depending on which one you choose, and we'll get
to that in a second, but it's totally free for you,
and all we ask in return is that you post
for the pedals and you know, maybe say something great
about us.

Speaker 6 (06:10):
Okay, nice, Yeah, yeah, I'll.

Speaker 1 (06:11):
Go for it.

Speaker 4 (06:12):
Yeah, perfect, Okay, So I'm guessing most people pick the
more expensive one. It does come with a you know,
a little extra like jushing if you will, So we'll
go ahead and put you down for that. The only other
information that I'll need from you is I'll send it
out with a nice little card. And like I did say,
it was, it is our most romantic book cat So
if you want to go that vibe that's great or
you know, depending on the nature of your relationship. Just
let me know the message you want on it, and

(06:33):
then we can go name an address and I'll tell
you when it's sent out, and we can send you
like social media handles and all that.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
Cool.

Speaker 6 (06:39):
Yeah, could I actually have two of those things of
roses too? Uly ten thousand followers, so I could. I'd
be willing to make a post if two of them.

Speaker 3 (06:47):
Yeah, perfect, we can do that.

Speaker 4 (06:50):
I would just probably have to do like the more
affordable one. But they're just as gorgeous. They're so so gorgeous.
So yeah, you can go ahead and we'll just do
two messages right now, go ahead and start with the
first one.

Speaker 6 (07:00):
Sorry for the message to put a message on it.

Speaker 4 (07:02):
Yeah, I'm going to send both of them out with
a card, so that's your chance to personalize it. You've
got two of them going out, so whatever message you
want on each one of them, let me know and
then we'll talk name and address on both of those
for you.

Speaker 6 (07:15):
Oh yeah, I guess. Uh here, enjoy these flowers then
is the same message for both of them.

Speaker 4 (07:24):
Do you want to put enjoy these flowers on both
of them? I mean, some people usually get a little
more like lovey dovey, but that's okay.

Speaker 6 (07:28):
Yeah, sure, it's easier.

Speaker 4 (07:31):
Enjoy these flowers. Okay, we'll put that on both of them.
And then who did you want to address the first
one too?

Speaker 3 (07:36):
Uh?

Speaker 6 (07:37):
The first one for Cali and then this second I guess, uh? Money,
what what are you serious?

Speaker 2 (07:47):
Right now? You're sending flowers to another girl and.

Speaker 6 (07:50):
You whoa whoa your own girlfriends?

Speaker 2 (07:53):
What that is? Super weird?

Speaker 1 (07:55):
Money? What? What?

Speaker 6 (07:56):
What?

Speaker 1 (07:57):
What is?

Speaker 6 (07:58):
Why are you on the phone? What's going on?

Speaker 2 (08:00):
Don't play down that you really thought you could send
flowers just some random girl and I wouldn't find out?

Speaker 6 (08:06):
My god, Lonet, it is not like that. Okay, I
sent you flowers? Did I not?

Speaker 1 (08:10):
Did I? Okay?

Speaker 6 (08:11):
The other boat uquay is thank you?

Speaker 1 (08:13):
You know, Matt, you're on the air. You're on the radio.
You're on the radio, John Dye, rich Ward of the roses?

Speaker 6 (08:19):
What put me on the radio?

Speaker 2 (08:21):
Sending her? This other girl? Why are you sending her
of okay of roses? At a thank you thank you.

Speaker 6 (08:27):
For what I'm as a thank you for helping me
out with content. Okay, it's literally we've just been making
videos and stuff. She's got a following. We've done TikTok
wise a few times. I've got a following. Its networking.

Speaker 2 (08:40):
Oh god, yes, he's helping you. This is the first
time I've ever even heard her name. How did you
even meet? And like this is this is not just
regular networking type of stuff to just send someone flowers,
especially roses.

Speaker 6 (08:58):
She got me a bunch of me followers money. I
met her on TikTok She's got me a bunch of
followers where it's part she's part of the content journey, Okay,
and it's it's fine, it's nothing weird. Like I said,
I sent you roses too, Okay, But I don't understand her.

Speaker 2 (09:15):
That's a big part of your content journey. Why am
I only hearing about her right now?

Speaker 1 (09:21):
You? You literally act like.

Speaker 6 (09:23):
I'm cheating just because I'm talking to someone with followers. Okay,
You're being really dramatic.

Speaker 2 (09:28):
Talking to another girl constantly is super inappropriate. And I
don't care if TikTok live DN or content brainstorming or whatever.
You're giving another woman access to you and that crosses
a line.

Speaker 6 (09:41):
Durma, what are you?

Speaker 2 (09:42):
No way?

Speaker 1 (09:42):
Okay?

Speaker 6 (09:43):
You maybe you just need to level up and keep up. Okay,
I'm not gonna do there. It is because you're stuck. Okay,
I'm I'm about to blow up in a and this
is what comes with it. Okay, I'm gonna stop talking
to people.

Speaker 2 (09:55):
Wow. Wow, So now I'm the problem because I have boundaries.

Speaker 6 (10:00):
I'm just saying, if you can't handle it, maybe it
isn't for you.

Speaker 1 (10:04):
That's the feeling that you had. That's not paranoia. That
was the feeling she had. Also, she has boundaries, but
does not sound like they were ever set. So he's
kind of like crossed those boundaries as she like, they
haven't talked about. Now that's so stated. I think you
got really rude there at the end here.

Speaker 5 (10:18):
You should know about it, obviously. Yeah, it's like you
think you're better than her.

Speaker 6 (10:22):
Well keep doing to me right now, Like what are
we even talking?

Speaker 1 (10:27):
Like?

Speaker 4 (10:27):
You know, No, it's one thing for you to like
go out and network and create and do your business,
and that's great for you, but the fact that you're
hiding this person from your significant other is what makes
it shady.

Speaker 6 (10:40):
This is well, wait, but and then she asked you
about it, and you make her feel bad about it.

Speaker 1 (10:44):
That's not cool.

Speaker 6 (10:46):
Would she set me up on some sort of like
entrapment scenario. I feel like, you know, hey, man.

Speaker 1 (10:50):
You're blowing up. That's going to happen. You're blowing up.

Speaker 2 (10:52):
I was worried that you were seating, and now obviously
I find out that you are.

Speaker 6 (10:57):
So I was right.

Speaker 2 (10:58):
I'm not right not cheating.

Speaker 6 (11:00):
You've literally made up your mind that on cheating, I'm not.
I'm telling you I'm not.

Speaker 1 (11:04):
By the way, that's a pretty big attitude to have
early ten thousand followers. Rich has ten thousand followers in
his stool, which is a whole problem.

Speaker 2 (11:17):
You know what. It seems like you can't handle being
loyal to me because all of this stuff, all of
this social media content creation stuff is going to your head.
And so maybe I'm just not for you anymore.

Speaker 1 (11:30):
Wow, since high school, you guys just gonna end it
just like that because of social media.

Speaker 5 (11:33):
I mean, I mean obviously there's been some issues before.

Speaker 1 (11:37):
Yeah, I think there's mental abuse to me, That's what
it seems like to me, Like he's just mean to her. Yeah.

Speaker 5 (11:42):
Yeah, And like here's the thing, say, like Matt does
blow up, Like imagine how much more that's going to
go to his head and then he really might step
out and really cross boundaries and you don't want any
part of that money.

Speaker 2 (11:53):
Yeah, yeah, I mean you lately has just been I'm
purchased though off and it just wasn't like how I
remember him being before when we first met and got together,
and he just seems like a different person. Now. Yeah,
I mean that's really sad. But yeah, I just I
can't deal with how he is right now.

Speaker 1 (12:15):
Okay, Well he did send you flowers. He also sent
it to the other girl, but he also didn't do
anything romantic on the card, Joers. What if you said
was a lesser bouquet? Right? Or they're both equal.

Speaker 4 (12:24):
I just said I'll give you the less expensive one
that he could do too.

Speaker 1 (12:28):
So I wonder which one he was sending, Uh, less
exactly the same one is just less like if you're
sending like just trying to put yourself in his brain
for a second, a stupid brain. Is he going, oh
this girt if everything he says is true, is he
sending a coworker or somebody's working with, Hey, these are
just a nice flowers, thanks for your help. And then
he also send the romantic red flowers to his girlfriend.

Speaker 5 (12:48):
I feel like a text message would do if he
really wants to help, You.

Speaker 1 (12:54):
Can text, right, Can I get two flowers? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (12:57):
Sure, And that's your opportunity to say hey, thank you
in the message.

Speaker 1 (13:01):
What do you say the message? Both just do the
same thing. Yeah, you guys got issues. I think you
guys could go to therapy work it out, or you
have to end it and you need to let us
know right now.

Speaker 5 (13:13):
It's a lot of relationships that they've been in and.

Speaker 1 (13:16):
How to deal with. Well, thank you both for going
on the air with us.

Speaker 3 (13:23):
I think you're better off without him. Yeah.

Speaker 5 (13:24):
I don't like his ego.

Speaker 4 (13:25):
ANTI kind of feel like he is holding you.

Speaker 1 (13:29):
I just unfollowed him, That's what I said. I just
un followed you. Well, Monette Matt, thanks for being on
a program that's War of the Roses with John Jay
and Rich
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