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Speaker 1 (00:00):
John Jaye Rich you could call us at eight seven
seven nine three seven one four seven.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
It's November nineteenth. I'm back. Sorry.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
I had to leave yesterday. My wife had surgery and
she's doing as of last night. You know, I went
to bed, I went home with the bed and she
was last night doing great. I haven't heard from her
this morning, so good to hear. Yeah, So it was
pretty wild. She had a hysterectomy. I posted a video
or picture on Instagram and I was just curious that
I said something about, hey, if you've been through this,
(00:27):
can you tell us in the comments? And it's pretty amazing.
I think there's over five hundred comments. Oh wow, and
how many people? How many women have had it done?
And I would say, if I would do percentages, ninety
nine point nine percent of the women that I had
it done said it's the best thing they ever did.
And then Noah just texted me a text from his
mom that said she said, this is the best.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Thing ever did.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Oh really, my mom had one like when we were
super young, but I've never really ever thought to ask
her how it made her feel or anything like that.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
She was just mom, Well, the doctor's by the way,
so doctor Helms, she did the procedure. Doctor Kelly Helms.
She's amazing. She's literally just a phenomenal human. She even
went to a love Puff family fest. And then oh yeah,
I introduced I think I went to Rich was talking
to Blake and I goleed, Blake, your O b G.
I n is here, which is weird to say at
a farm. But anyway, so I think she's doing Grandavate
(01:17):
talktor this morning. But doctor Helms is amazing. But I
have to tell you guys something else. So I guess
when you're a physician, you're doing surgery, you have like,
you know, the anestueologist, and then there's another right hand physician,
the first physician. And that person came over to say
I had to Blake before the surgery, and his name
was doctor rex Boy b o y rex Boy. And
(01:39):
without knowing that Blake has a dog rescue, he was
talking about every time I go to a dog park.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
And so when he knows Rex.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Boy, he's like he's got thirty people the guy. And
then so we were at uh, she's at Honor Health
Hospital and there's a brother. They put you in the
pre opt. There's just many, many beads of many, many people.
And uh, when I was there hanging out with Blake,
there was a woman directly across from Blake. Her name
(02:05):
was Daniella, and she also was having the same surgery.
And she listens to the show. And then as I
was leaving out, they they they say, okay, you have
to leave here taking a new surgery. Somebody yelled, I
was trying to win those Disney tickets. Boy, we are
rocketed in the rock and they selected the department. We're
number one with people with fibroid tumors. And then and
(02:29):
then get this. So I was there all freaking day yesterday,
all day right and and uh, waiting in a waiting room.
And then I went to grab something to eat, and
they were texting me updates and when because you know,
you can't see her until they move her into a room,
recovery room, and asking me two hours two hours to
kill So I'm downstairs getting a smoothie that it's in
the hospital. They finally have a place where you can
(02:50):
get healthy food, but not for the patients, but they
still good like canned canned beans and then just like.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Pudding and whatever.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
So so I'm getting a smooth the downstairs and this
woman nurse walks spy.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
She goes, oh, John Jay, you're here. I go, yeah,
she was.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
You know, I thought I saw Kyle and I'm like, oh, no,
this isn't like a work thing, like, you know, like
we were all together because we were all at the
casino the other day and I had people message, did
I just see you walk through the casino? I said, yeah,
I was at the casino. But then it was like, oh,
I think I just saw Kyle, and I go, this
isn't a work thing. And I'm like, wait a minute,
(03:25):
could it be Kyle? And I was, and Kyle calls
me and I'm like, are you here? And I looked
to my right and there she is trying to get
through security. Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
You weren't supposed to see me. I was supposed to
be a ghost. My whole goal. I was just dropping
a little something off for Blake, And my goal was
I was just gonna go find whatever nurses station near
the room she was at, give give them the basket
that I had given her or wanted to give her,
and then slowly disappear ghost like right because I didn't
want to like that could be intriguing, you know what
(03:56):
I mean, Like we weren't asking some guests, you know,
we weren't asked for visitors. So the hospital is actually
very large, and so when I parked, I walked into
the building and I was like, hey, I'm looking for
my friend. She just had surgery, and like, I go
into like this whole story and she's looking at me
like what and I'm like, well, you can find the
room right and she's like, this is the cancer center
(04:18):
and I was like, oh, so I'm in the wrong building.
She's like, yeah, you're in the wrong building. So she
called like this shuttle and so this lady comes over
in a golf cart and she's like, you're gonna drive
me over to the right building. And she's like, okay,
where are we going.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
I'm like, I don't know. I actually don't know where
we're going.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Said here, So then I gave the whole shpiel ga
she just had surgery and this and that, and she goes, okay,
well there's a couple of places she could get surgery
the surgery center of the hospital, and I'm like, okay,
well I do know, like she's staying overnight and Okay.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Then that's the hospital, and I'm like okay, wow.
Speaker 4 (04:50):
So then I get to the front desk and I
have to go to the same spiel again. I had
to tell the whole thing over again. And so I'm
just looking for the room or maybe like a nurse,
and the lady at the front could not find where
Blake was going to be, and I'm like, okay, I
really didn't want to call John Jay. She's like, is
there somebody Maybe she's got a family member here. They
could come out and meet you, because I could send
(05:10):
it to the recovery, but then I'm not totally.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Sure it'll follow her to her room.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
And I was like, oh, okay.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
So he text John Jay's like here are you at
the hospital? How's everything going? Still trying to be incognito,
and he's like, yeah, are you here? Someone just said
they saw you.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
I'm she was like right there there she was.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
He's like, I'm at the juice bar and I go
He's at the juice bar. She goes, oh, that's right here,
like thirty feet away.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Oh that's awesome.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Like the whole time, I feel like he's like this
is like a movie, you know what I mean, where
you're seeing me trying to find it and you're just there,
You're just thirty feet away.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
That was so nice of you, though to go and
like pop up and say hi, thanks.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
So like every fifteen after she left, every fifteen minutes,
I was like, oh, I'm sure Peyton's on her way.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I went out in the parking lot. I was like,
I'm going to make sure I texted you.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
You hit me with the hearts.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
And then I was like, oh, I'm sure it's just
going to be by here pretty soon. And I was like,
you're like White's recovery. She could see you know, No, no,
I'm sure the rest of people I work and nothing, nothing,
but we go.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
It was funny.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
So Kyle, she left and then she comes back and
she's walking really fast, so I film her. Boom, I
see her, she watched. She just gotta go to the bathroom.
So she goes to the bathroom and I'm like, I'm
going to film her walking back from the bathroom. Right,
So I'm sitting in a chair and I'm filming and
I'm waiting. It's like three minutes of me holding my
hand up waiting for her to come back, and patients
are coming walking by and I'm like, I'm sure that's hippo.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
I'm sure I'm not gonna do that.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
I'm waiting for a doctor to have a confrontation with me,
and I'm waiting and I'm waiting, and then I'm like,
she must have gone number two. She's been in her
line and she never goes number two. She's been in
here a long time. Then I thought maybe she didn't
want to walk by me again, and she went out
another exit, so I stopped recording it, put the phone down, and.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Then she pops out. I know I had to pee.
Speaker 4 (06:53):
It was a very long one because I had not
gone since I left my house that morning.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
But it was so it.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
Was annoying because I literally didn't want John Jay to
see me anyways in the first place. Is trying to
be stealthy, right, And so I walk out and I'm like,
do you have the bathroom I can go do on
the way out, and she's like, oh yeah, it's right
back by the juice bar.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
And it was like day because I was just waiting
for them to tell me she was okay to go
up and visit her, and I did, and she's up
there now and she's again last night.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
It was like I was trying.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
There was like a little bench for me to lay on.
I'm like, what's my duty as a husband? Like, do
I have to stay the whole night there?
Speaker 2 (07:28):
You know?
Speaker 1 (07:28):
I do got to get up and do a show
the next day. So I was like, And then her
sister was there, so I was like, okay, I'm gonna
leave and go and have dinner and go to sleep.
Right if she's recovering and sleeping, yeah, you know, what
are you gonna do? And then and then she's like
when I said okay, I'm gonna leave, there's like five
o'clock and she's like, are you coming back?
Speaker 4 (07:46):
You're like, oh, I want to do that?
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Well? Do you want me to come back to her?
I'm said no, it's so good, Like what am I
supposed to do?
Speaker 1 (07:54):
So I thought I'd get up earlier and go over
there before I came in this morning, But I'm like,
that's so far away, so I didn't do it.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
As she might be sleeping.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Also, the night before she went in, she gave me
the whole spiel of in case she doesn't come out.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
How much of that did you remember? None of it?
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Stacks of stuff and She's like, here's the banking information,
here's all this other paper.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
She's like, what would you.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Do if if I didn't you bring this to you?
And I'd go, I would just probably just throw it away.
Penny knows this, and I go, well, then I got Penny,
I go, I don't I don't need any of this,
I go, Plus she'll be fine.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Yeah. And then this morning, when I.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Opened up the drawer to get my do my stuff,
like where I brush my teeth is up in the drawer.
Was in my drawer was a whole file of all
the stuff, just in case if she.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Didn't make it so prepared.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
I know, I know, but I haven't heard from me
at this morning, So I hope nothing terrible happened in
middle night.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
Hopefully she's still getting her rest.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
She needs that.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Now.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
How long does she have to stay in the hospital.
You know, I'm picking he up today. Oh, she gets
to come home.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
She can't go upstairs, so she's gonna stay in one
of the kids room, which is for like six weeks.
So I'm kind of like I had my own room
for six weeks, kind of cool. You know, she's got
to recover almost my room. I'm gonna put my Star
Wars posters up. We got Alex Warren tickets about an
(09:08):
hour from now minute to win it for a thousand
dollars about a half hour.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Also, thank you for all the kind words and well wishes.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
And if you want to know what it's like what
Blake went through and you want to leave the comment
my Instagram John J. Vanas she's been reading all the
comments and she's very grateful.
John Jaye Rich you could call us at eight seven
seven nine three seven one four seven.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
It's November nineteenth. I'm back. Sorry.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
I had to leave yesterday. My wife had surgery and
she's doing as of last night. You know, I went
to bed, I went home with the bed and she
was last night doing great. I haven't heard from her
this morning, so good to hear. Yeah, So it was
pretty wild. She had a hysterectomy. I posted a video
or picture on Instagram and I was just curious that
I said something about, hey, if you've been through this,
(00:27):
can you tell us in the comments? And it's pretty amazing.
I think there's over five hundred comments. Oh wow, and
how many people? How many women have had it done?
And I would say, if I would do percentages, ninety
nine point nine percent of the women that I had
it done said it's the best thing they ever did.
And then Noah just texted me a text from his
mom that said she said, this is the best.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Thing ever did.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Oh really, my mom had one like when we were
super young, but I've never really ever thought to ask
her how it made her feel or anything like that.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
She was just mom, Well, the doctor's by the way,
so doctor Helms, she did the procedure. Doctor Kelly Helms.
She's amazing. She's literally just a phenomenal human. She even
went to a love Puff family fest. And then oh yeah,
I introduced I think I went to Rich was talking
to Blake and I goleed, Blake, your O b G.
I n is here, which is weird to say at
a farm. But anyway, so I think she's doing Grandavate
(01:17):
talktor this morning. But doctor Helms is amazing. But I
have to tell you guys something else. So I guess
when you're a physician, you're doing surgery, you have like,
you know, the anestueologist, and then there's another right hand physician,
the first physician. And that person came over to say
I had to Blake before the surgery, and his name
was doctor rex Boy b o y rex Boy. And
(01:39):
without knowing that Blake has a dog rescue, he was
talking about every time I go to a dog park.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
And so when he knows Rex.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Boy, he's like he's got thirty people the guy. And
then so we were at uh, she's at Honor Health
Hospital and there's a brother. They put you in the
pre opt. There's just many, many beads of many, many people.
And uh, when I was there hanging out with Blake,
there was a woman directly across from Blake. Her name
(02:05):
was Daniella, and she also was having the same surgery.
And she listens to the show. And then as I
was leaving out, they they they say, okay, you have
to leave here taking a new surgery. Somebody yelled, I
was trying to win those Disney tickets. Boy, we are
rocketed in the rock and they selected the department. We're
number one with people with fibroid tumors. And then and
(02:29):
then get this. So I was there all freaking day yesterday,
all day right and and uh, waiting in a waiting room.
And then I went to grab something to eat, and
they were texting me updates and when because you know,
you can't see her until they move her into a room,
recovery room, and asking me two hours two hours to
kill So I'm downstairs getting a smoothie that it's in
the hospital. They finally have a place where you can
(02:50):
get healthy food, but not for the patients, but they
still good like canned canned beans and then just like.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Pudding and whatever.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
So so I'm getting a smooth the downstairs and this
woman nurse walks spy.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
She goes, oh, John Jay, you're here. I go, yeah,
she was.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
You know, I thought I saw Kyle and I'm like, oh, no,
this isn't like a work thing, like, you know, like
we were all together because we were all at the
casino the other day and I had people message, did
I just see you walk through the casino? I said, yeah,
I was at the casino. But then it was like, oh,
I think I just saw Kyle, and I go, this
isn't a work thing. And I'm like, wait a minute,
(03:25):
could it be Kyle? And I was, and Kyle calls
me and I'm like, are you here? And I looked
to my right and there she is trying to get
through security. Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
You weren't supposed to see me. I was supposed to
be a ghost. My whole goal. I was just dropping
a little something off for Blake, And my goal was
I was just gonna go find whatever nurses station near
the room she was at, give give them the basket
that I had given her or wanted to give her,
and then slowly disappear ghost like right because I didn't
want to like that could be intriguing, you know what
(03:56):
I mean, Like we weren't asking some guests, you know,
we weren't asked for visitors. So the hospital is actually
very large, and so when I parked, I walked into
the building and I was like, hey, I'm looking for
my friend. She just had surgery, and like, I go
into like this whole story and she's looking at me
like what and I'm like, well, you can find the
room right and she's like, this is the cancer center
(04:18):
and I was like, oh, so I'm in the wrong building.
She's like, yeah, you're in the wrong building. So she
called like this shuttle and so this lady comes over
in a golf cart and she's like, you're gonna drive
me over to the right building. And she's like, okay,
where are we going.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
I'm like, I don't know. I actually don't know where
we're going.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Said here, So then I gave the whole shpiel ga
she just had surgery and this and that, and she goes, okay,
well there's a couple of places she could get surgery
the surgery center of the hospital, and I'm like, okay,
well I do know, like she's staying overnight and Okay.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Then that's the hospital, and I'm like okay, wow.
Speaker 4 (04:50):
So then I get to the front desk and I
have to go to the same spiel again. I had
to tell the whole thing over again. And so I'm
just looking for the room or maybe like a nurse,
and the lady at the front could not find where
Blake was going to be, and I'm like, okay, I
really didn't want to call John Jay. She's like, is
there somebody Maybe she's got a family member here. They
could come out and meet you, because I could send
(05:10):
it to the recovery, but then I'm not totally.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Sure it'll follow her to her room.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
And I was like, oh, okay.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
So he text John Jay's like here are you at
the hospital? How's everything going? Still trying to be incognito,
and he's like, yeah, are you here? Someone just said
they saw you.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
I'm she was like right there there she was.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
He's like, I'm at the juice bar and I go
He's at the juice bar. She goes, oh, that's right here,
like thirty feet away.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Oh that's awesome.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Like the whole time, I feel like he's like this
is like a movie, you know what I mean, where
you're seeing me trying to find it and you're just there,
You're just thirty feet away.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
That was so nice of you, though to go and
like pop up and say hi, thanks.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
So like every fifteen after she left, every fifteen minutes,
I was like, oh, I'm sure Peyton's on her way.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I went out in the parking lot. I was like,
I'm going to make sure I texted you.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
You hit me with the hearts.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
And then I was like, oh, I'm sure it's just
going to be by here pretty soon. And I was like,
you're like White's recovery. She could see you know, No, no,
I'm sure the rest of people I work and nothing, nothing,
but we go.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
It was funny.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
So Kyle, she left and then she comes back and
she's walking really fast, so I film her. Boom, I
see her, she watched. She just gotta go to the bathroom.
So she goes to the bathroom and I'm like, I'm
going to film her walking back from the bathroom. Right,
So I'm sitting in a chair and I'm filming and
I'm waiting. It's like three minutes of me holding my
hand up waiting for her to come back, and patients
are coming walking by and I'm like, I'm sure that's hippo.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
I'm sure I'm not gonna do that.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
I'm waiting for a doctor to have a confrontation with me,
and I'm waiting and I'm waiting, and then I'm like,
she must have gone number two. She's been in her
line and she never goes number two. She's been in
here a long time. Then I thought maybe she didn't
want to walk by me again, and she went out
another exit, so I stopped recording it, put the phone down, and.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Then she pops out. I know I had to pee.
Speaker 4 (06:53):
It was a very long one because I had not
gone since I left my house that morning.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
But it was so it.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
Was annoying because I literally didn't want John Jay to
see me anyways in the first place. Is trying to
be stealthy, right, And so I walk out and I'm like,
do you have the bathroom I can go do on
the way out, and she's like, oh yeah, it's right
back by the juice bar.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
And it was like day because I was just waiting
for them to tell me she was okay to go
up and visit her, and I did, and she's up
there now and she's again last night.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
It was like I was trying.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
There was like a little bench for me to lay on.
I'm like, what's my duty as a husband? Like, do
I have to stay the whole night there?
Speaker 2 (07:28):
You know?
Speaker 1 (07:28):
I do got to get up and do a show
the next day. So I was like, And then her
sister was there, so I was like, okay, I'm gonna
leave and go and have dinner and go to sleep.
Right if she's recovering and sleeping, yeah, you know, what
are you gonna do? And then and then she's like
when I said okay, I'm gonna leave, there's like five
o'clock and she's like, are you coming back?
Speaker 4 (07:46):
You're like, oh, I want to do that?
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Well? Do you want me to come back to her?
I'm said no, it's so good, Like what am I
supposed to do?
Speaker 1 (07:54):
So I thought I'd get up earlier and go over
there before I came in this morning, But I'm like,
that's so far away, so I didn't do it.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
As she might be sleeping.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Also, the night before she went in, she gave me
the whole spiel of in case she doesn't come out.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
How much of that did you remember? None of it?
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Stacks of stuff and She's like, here's the banking information,
here's all this other paper.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
She's like, what would you.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Do if if I didn't you bring this to you?
And I'd go, I would just probably just throw it away.
Penny knows this, and I go, well, then I got Penny,
I go, I don't I don't need any of this,
I go, Plus she'll be fine.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Yeah. And then this morning, when I.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Opened up the drawer to get my do my stuff,
like where I brush my teeth is up in the drawer.
Was in my drawer was a whole file of all
the stuff, just in case if she.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Didn't make it so prepared.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
I know, I know, but I haven't heard from me
at this morning, So I hope nothing terrible happened in
middle night.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
Hopefully she's still getting her rest.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
She needs that.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Now.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
How long does she have to stay in the hospital.
You know, I'm picking he up today. Oh, she gets
to come home.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
She can't go upstairs, so she's gonna stay in one
of the kids room, which is for like six weeks.
So I'm kind of like I had my own room
for six weeks, kind of cool. You know, she's got
to recover almost my room. I'm gonna put my Star
Wars posters up. We got Alex Warren tickets about an
(09:08):
hour from now minute to win it for a thousand
dollars about a half hour.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Also, thank you for all the kind words and well wishes.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
And if you want to know what it's like what
Blake went through and you want to leave the comment
my Instagram John J. Vanas she's been reading all the
comments and she's very grateful.
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