November 24, 2025 • 5 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's John Jay and Rich Joseph. Good morning, Thanks for
(00:02):
holding what's up?
Speaker 2 (00:03):
So I need advice because I don't know. I think
I'm going a little insane here. So let me let
me explain this. So my girlfriend, she goes out with
her friends and you know, they go clubbing, they go
and and you know, they spend hours dressing up and whatnot,
and then you know, crently, that's normal, that's totally girl time, right,
(00:26):
So just keep that in mind. But then you know,
when I want to go out and you know, when I,
let's say, I go do top golf or the shooting
range for whatever on my butt with my with my
friends on a Tuesday, APM. Mind you APM. We don't
go out clubbing until three am and come home and whatnot.
(00:47):
And she acts totally insane when I when I ask
or tell her that I'm going out. She thinks I
live a double life. So I'm trying to understand wrap
my hand around about that kind of mentality.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
You know, well I worry about that. Well, so is she?
Speaker 4 (01:01):
So what is she doing? Is she texting you like, hey,
where are you at? Who are you with? Or is
she like send me pictures of where you're at. I
don't believe you drop your location because I'm very much
like that, Like with my fiance if he's out with
his friends, like what you're doing? Who are you with? Like,
But that's just because I'm curious, not because I'm trying
to like catch him in anything.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Well you know, yeah, I mean I spend time with
my buddies and she's blowing up my phone, like who's there?
And why you're answering me whatever? You know, I'm trying
to have me go. That's a me time, you know.
So it's just to me, it's just kind of crazy
that you're blowing up my phone every minute, and you know,
I don't do that to her because you know, I'm
(01:42):
letting her have her own her time. So it's just
I don't know, it's just to me, doesn't it doesn't
doesn't seem like a normal behavior for me.
Speaker 5 (01:50):
I'm all about like having separate interests, you know what
I mean, Like my husband golf. I don't have any
interest going golfing with him, and I do you know, girls'
trips just had one this weekend. But what I see
here as a complete red flag is like the activity,
like she's going clubbing and you're going to top golf
or the shooting range. It's like totally two totally different
(02:11):
environments and a.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Lot of timetimes on Saturday night.
Speaker 5 (02:15):
Yeah, but a lot of times when someone has this
type of behavior and they're overly jealous, feels like maybe
she's a little feeling guilty of something and accusing you
of possibly the same thing without hearing her side of
the story. That's what it sounds like to me, A
bit like kind of a big red flag.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
You know what. We got people calling already, Joseph, hold on,
let's say hi to Ebony. Hold on a second. Okay, Ebony,
good morning, you're on the air. Your take on this.
Speaker 6 (02:40):
I literally had to pull my car over because, sir,
are you serious?
Speaker 3 (02:46):
Iright?
Speaker 6 (02:46):
Know, like you're complaining because your girlfriend texting you a
couple of times while you were out, like stoppish?
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Are you? I'm not asking for anything else, just on advice,
So I'll I just feel like I was just asking
for advice, not asking for marriage counseling.
Speaker 6 (03:05):
You know, well, well this is advice. I'm giving it
to you straight and hard. So you weren't at work,
you weren't with family, you were literally hitting balls nachos
with who's about like ex bodies right.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Oh there? And you know I don't know you, and
I don't you know. I'm not insulting you. I'm just
saying that it's kind of crazy that you blow up
my phone when I'm out with the guys, and all
of a sudden, I'm the bad guy because I'm trying
to understand what's happening here. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Well, let me ask you this, Joseph, Are you having
sex with these guys every time you go out the
top golf? When you up means something else, shot ranges,
something else stopped you. You guys will know that world
I do. I do. I never heard of that.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
Yeah, say no, So that's good.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
I do think there's something about when people accuse you
of something and you're absolutely doing nothing, but they come down.
You got to watch out, like are they are they smoking?
Mirroring you? You know, like is there something going on?
To Kyle's point, that's the first thing that jumped out
at me when you said that two.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Sides every store. We don't know her side where she's
like top golf.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
Every day without hearing her side.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
I know, but maybe she's that.
Speaker 5 (04:32):
But the way Joseph lays it out, it sounds like
a red flag. Now, now she may be like, yeah,
he's not telling you all the things right, staying atop
golf till after hours, and.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
I'm with you. But am I right?
Speaker 6 (04:46):
Yes, I'm just saying check in you know what I mean.
Just say back, oh, yeah, I'm good. All good, because
then our mom's just wandering. We wander, we wander. Just
stop it by saying, hey, I'm good, I'm still you know,
I'm I'm beating all the fellas. That pop cough is
all good.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
See what I'm saying. The whole gay thing, I don't
think talking about She's like he man beating all the fellas.
All right, all right, Joseph, I think you got some
good advice from Ebany, from Kyle, from Peyton for Rich,
don't listen to me all right. Thank you guys for
(05:24):
going on the air with us. Thanks for listening. All right,
it's Jay and Rich
It's John Jay and Rich Joseph. Good morning, Thanks for
(00:02):
holding what's up?
Speaker 2 (00:03):
So I need advice because I don't know. I think
I'm going a little insane here. So let me let
me explain this. So my girlfriend, she goes out with
her friends and you know, they go clubbing, they go
and and you know, they spend hours dressing up and whatnot,
and then you know, crently, that's normal, that's totally girl time, right,
(00:26):
So just keep that in mind. But then you know,
when I want to go out and you know, when I,
let's say, I go do top golf or the shooting
range for whatever on my butt with my with my
friends on a Tuesday, APM. Mind you APM. We don't
go out clubbing until three am and come home and whatnot.
(00:47):
And she acts totally insane when I when I ask
or tell her that I'm going out. She thinks I
live a double life. So I'm trying to understand wrap
my hand around about that kind of mentality.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
You know, well I worry about that. Well, so is she?
Speaker 4 (01:01):
So what is she doing? Is she texting you like, hey,
where are you at? Who are you with? Or is
she like send me pictures of where you're at. I
don't believe you drop your location because I'm very much
like that, Like with my fiance if he's out with
his friends, like what you're doing? Who are you with? Like,
But that's just because I'm curious, not because I'm trying
to like catch him in anything.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Well you know, yeah, I mean I spend time with
my buddies and she's blowing up my phone, like who's there?
And why you're answering me whatever? You know, I'm trying
to have me go. That's a me time, you know.
So it's just to me, it's just kind of crazy
that you're blowing up my phone every minute, and you know,
I don't do that to her because you know, I'm
(01:42):
letting her have her own her time. So it's just
I don't know, it's just to me, doesn't it doesn't
doesn't seem like a normal behavior for me.
Speaker 5 (01:50):
I'm all about like having separate interests, you know what
I mean, Like my husband golf. I don't have any
interest going golfing with him, and I do you know, girls'
trips just had one this weekend. But what I see
here as a complete red flag is like the activity,
like she's going clubbing and you're going to top golf
or the shooting range. It's like totally two totally different
(02:11):
environments and a.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Lot of timetimes on Saturday night.
Speaker 5 (02:15):
Yeah, but a lot of times when someone has this
type of behavior and they're overly jealous, feels like maybe
she's a little feeling guilty of something and accusing you
of possibly the same thing without hearing her side of
the story. That's what it sounds like to me, A
bit like kind of a big red flag.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
You know what. We got people calling already, Joseph, hold on,
let's say hi to Ebony. Hold on a second. Okay, Ebony,
good morning, you're on the air. Your take on this.
Speaker 6 (02:40):
I literally had to pull my car over because, sir,
are you serious?
Speaker 3 (02:46):
Iright?
Speaker 6 (02:46):
Know, like you're complaining because your girlfriend texting you a
couple of times while you were out, like stoppish?
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Are you? I'm not asking for anything else, just on advice,
So I'll I just feel like I was just asking
for advice, not asking for marriage counseling.
Speaker 6 (03:05):
You know, well, well this is advice. I'm giving it
to you straight and hard. So you weren't at work,
you weren't with family, you were literally hitting balls nachos
with who's about like ex bodies right.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Oh there? And you know I don't know you, and
I don't you know. I'm not insulting you. I'm just
saying that it's kind of crazy that you blow up
my phone when I'm out with the guys, and all
of a sudden, I'm the bad guy because I'm trying
to understand what's happening here. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Well, let me ask you this, Joseph, Are you having
sex with these guys every time you go out the
top golf? When you up means something else, shot ranges,
something else stopped you. You guys will know that world
I do. I do. I never heard of that.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
Yeah, say no, So that's good.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
I do think there's something about when people accuse you
of something and you're absolutely doing nothing, but they come down.
You got to watch out, like are they are they smoking?
Mirroring you? You know, like is there something going on?
To Kyle's point, that's the first thing that jumped out
at me when you said that two.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Sides every store. We don't know her side where she's
like top golf.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
Every day without hearing her side.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
I know, but maybe she's that.
Speaker 5 (04:32):
But the way Joseph lays it out, it sounds like
a red flag. Now, now she may be like, yeah,
he's not telling you all the things right, staying atop
golf till after hours, and.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
I'm with you. But am I right?
Speaker 6 (04:46):
Yes, I'm just saying check in you know what I mean.
Just say back, oh, yeah, I'm good. All good, because
then our mom's just wandering. We wander, we wander. Just
stop it by saying, hey, I'm good, I'm still you know,
I'm I'm beating all the fellas. That pop cough is
all good.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
See what I'm saying. The whole gay thing, I don't
think talking about She's like he man beating all the fellas.
All right, all right, Joseph, I think you got some
good advice from Ebany, from Kyle, from Peyton for Rich,
don't listen to me all right. Thank you guys for
(05:24):
going on the air with us. Thanks for listening. All right,
it's Jay and Rich
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