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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Wakes up, John Jay and Rich what's crack a leg?
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Speaker 1 (00:20):
To me and in the place to be And you're
listening to John Jay and Ridge wakes.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
John T and Rich.
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Speaker 2 (00:36):
A couple text messages.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
When we were talking about vision board stuff, Remember, yeah,
Kyle should go to the public library for magazines for
her vision board.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
They're fifty cents each.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
No way, you know what, because I literally went searching
for them and like died at how expensive twenty dollars
for a magazine.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
I'm just gonna cut up.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
They're like that expensive. So that is a That is
the life hack. Another one is Peyton. You were talking
about trying to do a monthly vision board.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Yeah, this person says Peyton should try doing a vision
board Bingo card instead of monthly boards. Super fun and
easy to do. There are YouTube tutorials out there for
her to learn more.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
One of my favorite creators actually did that. It was
fun to watch her go through all of like the
things that she did finish. That's a great idea. I
think I'm actually gonna do that.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
How does that work a Bingo card?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
So you know how like you know what a Bingo
card looks like, right, So you get your free space
in the middle. But what you would do is you
would fill out each square with one of the goals
that you have. So for me, one of my big
goals this year is I want.
Speaker 4 (01:33):
To pay off my car.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
So I'd put paying off my car in one of
the Bingo boxes. And once I do that, I think,
let me ask you.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
This is, by chance at all your wedding on one
of these Bingo cards one of your goals a wedding?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Yeah, of course, because that's kind of funny.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
I would say vision board for me as a human being,
wedding would be like, ah, before I go to pay
it off my card. Don't get me wrong, pay off
your car is huge, but I think wedding is a
little bit bigger than paying off your car.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
If that doesn't tell you where my mind. But it's
like not on wedding stuff ever. I don't know why.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
It's like I was so excited to get engaged and
I'm loving it, like this is such a fun time,
but it's like the wedding blanding is so unappealing to me.
And I realized this last night as I was sitting
with my maid of honor. Thank god she's type A.
I don't know how it would get through it without her.
But I'm sitting here in three hours goes by and
(02:23):
I'm like, how do people enjoy this?
Speaker 4 (02:26):
I don't get it, Like this is not fun for me.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
What the I think all of it like having to
Like she was like, so, do you have a color scheme?
And I'm like yeah, like we're gonna do like reds
and black. She's like, yeah, but you need like.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
A color scheme.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
I think you can which color of red, like which
shade of red?
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Which shade of black for that bad And she's like, oh,
we got to pick out like what do you want
your boqueto?
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Look?
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Like? All right, what about the groomsman? What about your dress.
We gotta get your dress appointment set so we can
get dress. And it's just talking about it. I bet
you my oor ring is like tracking my spike stresses consume.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
You think about stuff like that all the time, but
it's do you have a venet you go look at places?
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Yet you know, we actually did go look at our
first venue yesterday and just not the vibe, which I
know I can't have that attitude considering we're getting married, and.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Like, no, you can't have that because it is your
wedding and you set a date, but it's not like
set in stone, like no one's gonna be like you
changed your date.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Now I won't go you know, yeah, no, you're absolutely right.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
It just wasn't the vibe. And I feel like where
I'm struggling venue wise. Kadeem and I we met in Portland, Oregon,
like we were playing basketball. It was greenery everywhere. He
moved here about a year after we started dating, but
like Arizona was in our starting foundation. So I don't
want our landscape for our wedding to be anything desert
like I want it to be like your wedding rich
(03:53):
how like you didn't get desert it was just like
a beautiful oasis.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
In the desert.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
But you know, I mean though I don't want.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Cacti in the back of my bit sure, Like I
just don't want that. I don't feel like that's us
as a couple.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Is at the venue that you went and looked at
was very desert. It was a little desert.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Yeah, I think you I have been married a long time,
but I feel like you're looking at all these things
that I don't remember ever, like thinking about left. I know,
but I just feel like you're It's like you're making
things too difficult. This seems like to me, like, oh
my god, we get married here. This is a great venue. Yeah,
but we didn't meet here, so we should go somewhere else.
(04:30):
We'll get married in Iceland. So what you're saying is
like we want two hundred people. This place fits two
hundred people. Its could be fine. It's kind of what
you should look at it is.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Is that what you're saying. No, but to bring up
an objection like I'm from here, he's from there. We
met there. I don't want cactus.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Like. The other way of looking at it is you're
born and raised here. This is you, This is who
you are. You played basketball here about me? It is
about you, It's all about you, it.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Was all It is just a date that works out.
What was the problem with the with the venue you
went to?
Speaker 3 (05:04):
I just felt like it was the tones of what
the desert tea landscape just didn't match with what I
want read.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Also, you were talking about vibe like I know where
you went, and it's like it's very classic wedding and
you really are looking for something totally different.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
So we have a couple more places on our list
to hit up this week.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
That's good though. See you are at least went to
a place. I was getting on you for not even
checking out.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
I know. Yeah, no, no, no, we're going and we're
getting our feet wet and doing the whole thing. But yeah,
it's just like not fun for me. So any words
of motivation please send them?
Speaker 1 (05:36):
That west necessarily the fun stuff though, something you just
said remind me of something that you also said. You
said of getting your feet wet, and then we did
that thing on Instagram to get your followers up. We
took pictures of Payt's feet to get the followers up,
and it worked, and now your fiance is way into.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
It right, every opportunity, every time there's dead silence, like
you know how like it's quiet and richest talks like
anytime that happened with me and.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Silent.
Speaker 4 (06:06):
That's a different Kadeem.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
He can be quiet, he can go probably seventy two
hours without talking.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
But now we have dead silence and he's like, sell,
what's up with this foot page?
Speaker 2 (06:15):
I'm like, like, what do you mean? What's he wants?
Speaker 3 (06:16):
He wants to create my own Instagram page and sell
my feet pictures online to pay for the wedding is
what he wants to do.
Speaker 4 (06:24):
And I said, probably do it and he was like
and he was like, I was, I don't want to
handle that. I don't want to do it. I don't
want to deal with the d MS.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
What if somebody wants my stinky socks And he's like,
then we sell them. They're not gonna want them after
they get them, but we'll sell them.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Well, I think that would mean they would want them more.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
I gave Way a pair of Kyle stinky socks and
it was the biggest disaster ever because I have not.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Mailed them yet.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
You still haven't mailed them.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Giveaway backpack.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Yeah, Kyle steaky socks in your back.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
I don't know if they smell anymore. The name is
the business man.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
He death like, seriously, John Jay. He says, you're messing
with my bag.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Dude, let me tell you something.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
With the amount of followers we have on the unfugged
foot page, I think and I've talked to Kyle's husband
about this. He approached me with this, like, there's so
much money to be made because I know women that
are making a crap ton of money.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
With like four thousand followers.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
There's two hundred and eighty eight thousand followers on the
show than anything we have with his radio STU.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
I might, I might came. I might let him do it.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
That's the only decision you've made for your wedding, probably, And.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
He did take a ten thousand view of that.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
What does that mean?
Speaker 2 (07:49):
What's what's a what's like? What's a name that works
with that?
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Like feet for wedding, wedding feet or like a fundraising
for a nuptial something to those for cold feet?
Speaker 4 (08:02):
Cold feet? That's good.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Anyway, some funds you can join join the un fuggd feed,
check it on on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
John Jane rich